@@rhythmstuff Bhai tune swetabh ki shyness ki video Mai comment kiya tha ki tu shy tha par pichle Kuch Saal mai Tu kaffi confident hai Bhai mujhe Bhai bta essa kya Kiya tune Mai kaffi depressed Hu APNI life ko leke
@@shobhitkumar6955 bhai agar kch karne se dar lagta h par tu use karna chahta hai toh sabse pehle usse kar. Trust me, ho jayga. Ham sabme ek "I want to give up" wala attitude hota h. Change that into "bsdk kar ke rahunga" and trust me things will change. Aur bhai, haan depression abhi bhi issue h mera. It's like kch dino ke liye sab sahi ho jayga but fir aachank se vohi thoughts. Halka sa kisi ne kch bura keh diya toh I go back to square one. But I think ki solution h. I think ye vohi attitude ki kami h. "Bsdk kar ke rahunga" vala attitude chahiye. Mene dekh liya h, _sad hoke life me kch nahi milta_ . Sab maa chudaye, kitni bhi problems h you can still be happy. Ispe lagta h video banai padti h ab xD
This friendzone and getting your ex back shit never works.. after my last breakup me and my ex remained so called friends.. at some point we were talking day and night even after she was engaged... i had this fake hope that she would come back.. everytime i asked her out she refused but still wouldnt let me go whenever i said we should stop talking.. this was killing me mentally and emotionally till the day i said enough is enough and i ended everything.. best thing i ever did.. i stayed out of her life for some time till she sent me a fb friend request.. i accepted but i cleared it out that we would be nothing more than fb friends.. no txting no chatting no talking.. she could like or comment in my posts if she wanted but nothing more.. the day the hope dies is the day the real healing begins
Same situation happened with me. I was in friend zone after a romantic/physical relatiinship. After ended up all by stalking , checking out in social media,common friend n everything , between this period I went deep clinical depression , suicidal thoughts, anxiety, sadness,no worthy, no more feeling excitement in anything. job,family,friends,. Always ruminate in past and good memories that make me feel blind hope, false belief, false expectation . Ek bat Magar me clear hogaya uske Baad ladki agar Hasti hai, ghanto bat Karti hai, toh usse pyar samajh ne ki galti mat karo. WOMEN LOVES ATTENTION . BECOZ ATTENTION FOR WOMEN LIKE OXYGEN. SO STOP CARING, PRAISING, STOP AVAILABLE,, BECOZ THEY ARE NOT PHYSICAL ATTRACTED LIKE BOYS. THEY LOVE BAKARCHODI, BAKWAS,TIMEPASS OVER PHONE.. UNTILL WONT GET ANOTHER BAKRA
Thank God me ye comments pdh raha hu sahi time pe ye sub mere saat last ek 2 me months se chal raha hai or me apna ktwaye ja raha pr ab muje universal truth pta lg gyaa 😂😂
Learned this lesson a while back: When you express your love/feelings to someone and the reply you get is a no, Move on. People mostly hesitate to directly turn down something so they come with some diplomatic answers which might or might not confuse you and you may think It could be possible. Don’t dwell in “maybe”. That “maybe” dilemma is more harmful than a clear cut no. Move the fuck on. It’s not worth it. You are just wasting time. Life is unpredictable. Shit happens. MOVE ON!
Meri gf me mujhe isliye chor diya ki mai jobless hu lock down me ghr chla gaya mai exam ka preparation kr raha tha delhi use delhi me koi mil gaya jo uske kharche utha raha usne mujhe sirf paise ke liye chor diya mai anpna 2 yrs usko diya usko motivate kiya pdhya apni books di time sb kuch jo mai kr skta tha or vo chor ke chli gayi bhut bura feel ho raha pata nahi kya kr du kuch smj nahi aa raha please koi padh raha hai to btna ab mai kisi se pyr nahi kr paunga na hi kisi pe bharosa
I think he's pissed on the current generation begging for attention they want frm a girl who doesn't give any single fucks about them...khud dekh skte ho iss topic pr kitne videos bna rkhe isne
@@ankur9254 I also feel you can search about incels popular in western culture this problem is everywhere and incels is a good case study it shows how people desperate to find love and failed goes to take revenge from society
One thing I learned from my past relationship is that jise rehene hoga wo rehega, jise nehi rehena hoga wo nehi rehega chahe tum kitna v vala ho jau ya kuch v karlo yar
Sir I was in a relationship. But after analysing through your videos I came to know that she will leave me when her family will ask her for arrange marriage. I started moving on before it happened. And actually it worked. She left me 1 month ago and going for an arrange marriage. She asked me to stay as friend. I said strictly no and asked her to not to spoil my life further anymore. I was addicted to her and I struggled a lot. She's going to marry in the month of june or July. But I didn't call her even a single time literally. She also didn't call which is actually good for me, I'm not telling this to protect ego, but I swear I feel very much peace. But since I was working on moving on before all this happen. So I didn't struggle that much what I used to watch in bollywood movies or other guys. Thank you a lot!!! You have shown me a right path.👍
@Shubham Jain I have lots of real challenges in my life now... I don't even get enough time to think about that... Life has been changed 180° since then... I haven't stalked her social media since months even once... 'Peace' is the only thing I love now... Whenever I feel alone ar something like that I just hug pillow and make myself feel strong... I didn't need any relationship to Move on from there, I'm happy alone... Grateful for having peaceful life❤️
How to become a Better Man. 1. Always try to become a high value male by focusing on yourself. 2. Focus on learning a skill, earning, health, grooming and your own overall happiness. 3. Learn to love yourself unconditionally before you want someone else to love you. 4. While working on your self make sure not to feed the ego with all your achievements. Always be grounded and practice spirituality.
My Self respect has always been my first priority. Never destroy your self respect in front of an idiot who doesn't respect your feelings. Instead stay alone and become some1 that those idiots cry just to talk to you...!😎
Dude, been working on No Fap, not being SWAYED by women and following a disciplined way of life for a while now. Thanks to people like you, such topics now are totally unrelatable. Cheers man, you fucking changed my life.
Your happiness starts when you end all the fake shit of life,and you start working in yourself only !! Connect to the people who are Good for your mental health💓
Amazing timing . I am a guy in late 20's dating someone now and it's mutual . This video gave me the much required mindset of indifference of how not to validate one's self worth based on presence of another person. As it is I am happy doing what I am doing to build myself and developing skills professionally and will keep continuing that .
Me right now : I'm going to call my ex Shewtabh Gangwar : hold my video Edit : thankyou so much for the likes aap aise hi like karo Mai comments karte rhunga
Relatable ,, highly needed for me.. After rejection and breakup, i am crying almost every single day . I had given the key to my happiness to her , which is the biggest mistake in my life .
Enjoy , be happy such a bad person left you bro! Your life is free from shit now! And remember no one can snatch your happiness Your Happiness is now your priority, Stay Strong Brother!
@@varunpande8643 unable to forget her calling me " cute boy" , "i like you" and "i am in love with you " when i didn't have any feelings towards her and when i had extended my actual feelings she just backed out and told me the she doesn't have those feelings anymore and rejected my proposal.. it has been more than a month, i can't move on , i keep missing her and crying. God help me
@@saurabhsonu9413 bro if u wanna chat ( like if u on telegram) let me know . I will share with u my experience and hopefully u will recover very soon. But trust me there will be a lot of beautiful girls who will call u that stuff and also a beautiful person will come in ur life. But the thing is man u gotta work on yourself Start loving urself . Start healing urself. Eat n drink some healthy as well as tasty stuff. Start gymming/ excersising Find goals work for them . The happiness when u achieve them will be limitless!!!
Had 3 break up with same girl. 1st time: wet eyes once, talked to old friend(10pm to 5 am, lol), watched below mentioned shwetabhs video. 2nd time : i broke up. 3rd time : 4 tear drops thats it. And mom helped this time. Advice for you Talk to someone sane, who can listen to you(Very imp), watch the video that i am providing link of, and don't cry unnecessarily. ua-cam.com/video/TXeHkfYyTPgh/v-deo.htmlttps://ua-cam.com/video/TXeHkfYyTPg/v-deo.html
One thing I wanna say to all the boys , dudes and men out there start valuing urself and yes as this gentleman said the button of ur life happiness should be in ur hands. When u gonna value urself ,when u start loving urself, when u start working on urself there it begins .A little story ,my college life revolved around my gf and no surprises g pe lath mar ke nikal gayi aur ‘log bot kuch bolte hai aur bhul jate hai’ , was broken and then i realised what emotional pain is like it’s not easy to endure , i was always good in studies so got a good job and then I promised myself that I need to do stuff to make me happy to make me adore myself. I wasn’t good in sports but I learned Badminton ,cooking ,TT , swimming , hit gym , learned guitar , chess ,read books and even studied in the span of two years and got pretty awesome in all . The bright side is when I look back I realise I wouldn’t have been able to learn all this if I was still in that relationship, be the Man U want to be and rest will follow. Aur chatna to bhai band kardo ,appreciate people and their character not any girl just bcz she is beautiful .
your book "The rudest book ever " changed my life. god bless you bro. i am just 20 years old, you saved my entire carrier and life. thank you so much.....................
@GATE 2023 na you are wrong early means before 25 I'm also 19 but total maturity comes around 24-25 yeah and we are at the stage where one wrong decision change our lives but we have that opportunity to Choose but when you are at 25 or above than opportunities thinking and your character can not change and yeah I'm not talking about everyone but majority this is truth and everyone have to accept it
@GATE 2023 and choosing college is nothing that you can call success or failure yeah it is an essential part of life and career but there's lots of things left which is more important
More than year ago, I developed a crush with someone who was my friend. I confided my feelings to her and she didn't reciprocate, citing we would rather be friends. Of course the rejection did hurt at first, and it was awkward meeting her after that. But slowly things became normal between us. Now I don't have any such feelings for her anymore. We both are busy with our lives and don't communicate that much. The point is I never had this urge to make her fall in love with me nor did I stalk her to see if she is dating someone or not. I just had developed a feeling, been honest about it by telling her, and after getting rejected I moved on. I never took the rejection personally. Also I don't think about what would have been if we were a couple. Never. So I agree with all the points Shwetabh bhai has to say here. I hope people understand there is more to life than just a girl.
💯. Saddest part is that a person doesn't realize it until they face and experience it. They either choose to ignore or always think of best case scenario until reality hits. I wish I had come across ur videos few years earlier.
I havent come across a guy more sensible than you. You inspire me to another level. This was the reality check i always wanted. Thankyou you for existing. Thankyou for teaching us. Please do make more videos on 'Love's. Much appreciated and in demand topic. We all love you. Thank-you for who you are. Thank-you so much. ❤ Much love and support. ❤
So after watching this video , I proposed my 6 month crush and she rejected me but im feel very light like some heavy weight got dropped off....thanks shwetabh ganwar
@@pulkitpandey2416 kya karu yaar family problem or is I time me time na de paya.....ab haath se nikal gyi h................bhai ka video dekh tab aankh khula..................ab koi pachtawa nhi .....BT ha mai sabse bada chutiya hu........pure world ka or koi nhi .....no.1
This man is one Hell of a man! I love u man. I love u. At a tym when all I see is "feminists" lashing out at innocent males, this man has given me a ray of hope. I love u Bhai! Thank u so much!
You man, you're a savior. I still remembered those videos (mensutra). During my bad days your videos was like medicine to me. Honestly, I can say that it was your videos only which took me out my breakup circle.
This was, by far, the best video of yours....A slap in the face needed for people who are still stuck on their ex-partners or in toxic relationship..Know your worth guys..Know yours values..!
She told me just one sentence that she can't fight with me and she can't stand on my expectations and i said sure and thank you. Imagine what's next, i just blocked her permanently and finished everything at once. She sent me an email saying that this is not the way to finish and i replied this is my way to finish and i go with my choice. Before someone loose interest in you it's time for you to walk away without any regret and fear and fight. Find the next person who is waiting for you somewhere. Don't waste time on someone who doens't give you priority and respect. I am so happy today and it's been now a month it's so relaxing and i am more focused on my carrier and family to be honest.
Got motivation n u hv high self esteem. This lesson will always be remembered her and if someone blocked by other then negative spiral of rejection keep rolling like what my fault, am I not looking good, not worthy
This is the best video on this topic i have ever seen I'm stuck in a same situation but now I understand what is the reality of this world idk she come back or not maybe she do but i will promise myself today that I will move on Kisi se zabardasti pyar nhi kra jaa skta bitter truth Jisko pyar hoga aapse vo krega chahe aap kuch kro ya na kro or jisko ghnta fark nhi pdta uske liye aap kuch bhi krlo us insaan ko kuch fark nhi pdega Bitter truth of life
After watching your videos...finally I found someone who speak a real truth of life and don't give fuck abt imaginary world..this is pure real truth ...thank u so much ✌️🙏
same happens to me after the breakup, caught her cheating, still, she wants friendship or be in touch. somehow feel wasted 8 years with her only regret how seeing all still took so long to finally cutoff with her. never understood what she wanted, being traumatized for 1-year listening all lies, very hard to concentrate on my career finally got a good govt job. only 1 thing girls could go to any extent to prove herself true, and it's very hard to guess with which "friend" as they call, she is cheating or in a parallel relationship with and will label it emotional support to justify the wrong doing .
Wow man that was such a horrible story one could experience and you somehow got out of it and now you are doing well in your life . Thanks for sharing bro
Same to same story man, already ruined in my life, was working in a good corporate everthing was fine but that bitch was caught with someone else and now i m lost in my life even left my job coz i was not able to concentrate, whomsoever is reading this please never fall in love, these bitches are fucking bastard even if you will be a complete package you will feel like you are not good enough, and MERI WALI ALAG HAI, fuck this line shuru me har kisi ko yahi lagta h fir zindagi ki maa chod kar chali jaayegi kisi bhi bhadve k saath
So true! Companionship is important but my life has to be more than just being in love with a man. As human beings, we are more than just one aspect of our lives.
I am an 20 y/o girl and literally I was in a very psychological issues regarding this love kinda stuff and I wastes 3 years of my education regarding this and still it is very early for me now I will only focus on my studies and on my career and my success will be my greatest revenge for him.
im in true love with girl but i still like Shwetabh brother video. he realy clear my mind and stay focused and give time equally to love and career.... stay focused and motivated...
If she rejects you then close your door for her even if it's hard. It's better being successful and single rather than being a simp.
Totally agreed 👍
Do not run behind gold digger
@@allgirlsaregolddigger8468 your comment is pretty common.
But your name+comment 🤯
BOYS WILL BE BOYS
It’s actually just that simple
SELF RESPECT is everything boys, if you don't RESPECT yourself, nobody will respect you!!😊
Hell yeah
Absolutely
@@rhythmstuff Bhai tune swetabh ki shyness ki video Mai comment kiya tha ki tu shy tha par pichle Kuch Saal mai Tu kaffi confident hai Bhai mujhe Bhai bta essa kya Kiya tune Mai kaffi depressed Hu APNI life ko leke
@@shobhitkumar6955 bhai agar kch karne se dar lagta h par tu use karna chahta hai toh sabse pehle usse kar. Trust me, ho jayga. Ham sabme ek "I want to give up" wala attitude hota h. Change that into "bsdk kar ke rahunga" and trust me things will change.
Aur bhai, haan depression abhi bhi issue h mera. It's like kch dino ke liye sab sahi ho jayga but fir aachank se vohi thoughts. Halka sa kisi ne kch bura keh diya toh I go back to square one. But I think ki solution h. I think ye vohi attitude ki kami h. "Bsdk kar ke rahunga" vala attitude chahiye. Mene dekh liya h, _sad hoke life me kch nahi milta_ . Sab maa chudaye, kitni bhi problems h you can still be happy.
Ispe lagta h video banai padti h ab xD
@@rhythmstuff Bhai tu channel bana mai tujhe subscribe karta hu
"Log cheeze kehte hai aur bhul jaate hai" felt so strongly in that moment.
sahi mein bhai really it hit me really a lot changed my perspective 🤘
12:20
I feel that ryt now
True. It really hit me hard.😌
It's hardest truth
I've wasted so much time behind my toxic ex...
This is an eye opener !
@Gaurav Vats so much
@@Ghostx003 🤣🤣😂😂
@@Ghostx003 😂😂😂😂
Literally one month ..I was just stupid ..
@@chandanaadhikari9863 1 month? 😂😂 i spent 4 years trying to get her back.. Now suddenly I realised I wasted my time
Normal people: Bored in quarantine, When will this end???
Shwetabh's Army: Bhai yeh skill seekh Lia ab next skill sikhte hai
Yes its true i am working on my english. Quarantine time period is very efficient for me
true im working on my programming language
True I learned about investing .gained too much knowledge about it.
@@kashba Konsa Language?? me also programmer.
@@kashba which language learning bro..
I just loved the moment he said " jis insaan ko set hona hota, voh ho jaata...."..
The man really got balls to speak truth out 👍
अंधे की दुनिया में आईना बेचने वाला
बहादुर आदमी...🤗 good job bro...
नहीं भाई! अंधों का ऑपरेशन करके आँख लगाने वाला😊😊😊
@@faisalusmani07 aap Pakistan se ho bhai
@@rajanjaiswal5677 nahi, bhai main Bharat se hi hu.
@@faisalusmani07 👍
@@faisalusmani07 🤣🤣
This friendzone and getting your ex back shit never works.. after my last breakup me and my ex remained so called friends.. at some point we were talking day and night even after she was engaged... i had this fake hope that she would come back.. everytime i asked her out she refused but still wouldnt let me go whenever i said we should stop talking.. this was killing me mentally and emotionally till the day i said enough is enough and i ended everything.. best thing i ever did.. i stayed out of her life for some time till she sent me a fb friend request.. i accepted but i cleared it out that we would be nothing more than fb friends.. no txting no chatting no talking.. she could like or comment in my posts if she wanted but nothing more.. the day the hope dies is the day the real healing begins
Same situation happened with me. I was in friend zone after a romantic/physical relatiinship. After ended up all by stalking , checking out in social media,common friend n everything , between this period I went deep clinical depression , suicidal thoughts, anxiety, sadness,no worthy, no more feeling excitement in anything. job,family,friends,. Always ruminate in past and good memories that make me feel blind hope, false belief, false expectation .
Ek bat Magar me clear hogaya uske Baad ladki agar Hasti hai, ghanto bat Karti hai, toh usse pyar samajh ne ki galti mat karo.
WOMEN LOVES ATTENTION . BECOZ ATTENTION FOR WOMEN LIKE OXYGEN. SO STOP CARING, PRAISING, STOP AVAILABLE,, BECOZ THEY ARE NOT PHYSICAL ATTRACTED LIKE BOYS.
THEY LOVE BAKARCHODI, BAKWAS,TIMEPASS OVER PHONE.. UNTILL WONT GET
ANOTHER BAKRA
🤣bro , you had to do extremely opposite to what you have done , go no contact , she will definitely reach you ,.
Thank God me ye comments pdh raha hu sahi time pe ye sub mere saat last ek 2 me months se chal raha hai or me apna ktwaye ja raha pr ab muje universal truth pta lg gyaa 😂😂
The best thing is to stay single forever, if you can.
I hope you'll get better sir and find someone who is worth of your love.
*UA-cam reccomends* me right things at right time 😂
exactly 😂😂😂
My gf was using random stranger chat apps. As soon as I caught her I just broke up with her without thinking emotionally. I'm kinda happy now.
vai apne ap pe dhian de,chut ka chakkar matlab maut se takkar
Well done dude. It takes a lot.
Dodged a bazooka
Be totally happy dude, forget her in the emotional sense.
Bhai tu sher hai sher... 😂👍👍
Never could anyone give an advice with such audacity and clarity, U are a bloody genius sir, a bloody genius.
I just literally laughed thinking about how stupid when I was in relationship ... Thanks god now I'm not in relationship...😆😆
Me also..😅😄
Same
Same here 😂😂
Same here
Bhai dheere Kar Kar chood ho jayega but thoda time lagega
Learned this lesson a while back:
When you express your love/feelings to someone and the reply you get is a no, Move on. People mostly hesitate to directly turn down something so they come with some diplomatic answers which might or might not confuse you and you may think It could be possible. Don’t dwell in “maybe”. That “maybe” dilemma is more harmful than a clear cut no. Move the fuck on. It’s not worth it. You are just wasting time. Life is unpredictable. Shit happens. MOVE ON!
Yeah bro I tried to remember this lesson but shit happens sometime
A girl should be a compliment to your already amazing life
Great Bro
*suppliment
@@professorchadwise3620 optional
Exactly
Complement*
This guy has the most Logical Explanation about Everything. Really Appreciate his Work :)
NOTHING STRONGER THAN BROKEN MAN REBUILDING HIMSELF🤞🎇💯
Bhai you are absolutely right
@@nandini2282 yes👍
Meri gf me mujhe isliye chor diya ki mai jobless hu lock down me ghr chla gaya mai exam ka preparation kr raha tha delhi use delhi me koi mil gaya jo uske kharche utha raha usne mujhe sirf paise ke liye chor diya mai anpna 2 yrs usko diya usko motivate kiya pdhya apni books di time sb kuch jo mai kr skta tha or vo chor ke chli gayi bhut bura feel ho raha pata nahi kya kr du kuch smj nahi aa raha please koi padh raha hai to btna ab mai kisi se pyr nahi kr paunga na hi kisi pe bharosa
@@Govtmaster bhai exam crack kro...strong bno or niklo is condition se....swetabh bhai ki baat yaad h Kabil bno...
@@varunsharma736 thanks bhai kosis kr raha hu ab sirf study pe foucs karunga
When shwetabh makes a video on love , he suddenly starts abusing 😂🤟
I think he's pissed on the current generation begging for attention they want frm a girl who doesn't give any single fucks about them...khud dekh skte ho iss topic pr kitne videos bna rkhe isne
@@ankur9254 I also feel you can search about incels popular in western culture this problem is everywhere and incels is a good case study it shows how people desperate to find love and failed goes to take revenge from society
Lol
@@sidharthm35 yea i know
😂😂😂 true
One thing I learned from my past relationship is that jise rehene hoga wo rehega, jise nehi rehena hoga wo nehi rehega chahe tum kitna v vala ho jau ya kuch v karlo yar
Sahi kaha bhai
Exactly
Finally "Shwetabh Gangwar" is back.
Epic rant. 🤣🤣
yeah man
Isse shwetabh k to hm sab jabra fan hai❤️❤️🔥
Sir I was in a relationship. But after analysing through your videos I came to know that she will leave me when her family will ask her for arrange marriage. I started moving on before it happened. And actually it worked. She left me 1 month ago and going for an arrange marriage. She asked me to stay as friend. I said strictly no and asked her to not to spoil my life further anymore. I was addicted to her and I struggled a lot. She's going to marry in the month of june or July. But I didn't call her even a single time literally. She also didn't call which is actually good for me, I'm not telling this to protect ego, but I swear I feel very much peace. But since I was working on moving on before all this happen. So I didn't struggle that much what I used to watch in bollywood movies or other guys. Thank you a lot!!! You have shown me a right path.👍
bhot bdiya bhai
Welldone bro... We deserve better
Superb
@@resurgam258 bro all the best for your courage ...
@Shubham Jain I have lots of real challenges in my life now... I don't even get enough time to think about that... Life has been changed 180° since then... I haven't stalked her social media since months even once... 'Peace' is the only thing I love now... Whenever I feel alone ar something like that I just hug pillow and make myself feel strong... I didn't need any relationship to Move on from there, I'm happy alone... Grateful for having peaceful life❤️
How to become a Better Man.
1. Always try to become a high value male by focusing on yourself.
2. Focus on learning a skill, earning, health, grooming and your own overall happiness.
3. Learn to love yourself unconditionally before you want someone else to love you.
4. While working on your self make sure not to feed the ego with all your achievements. Always be grounded and practice spirituality.
Kam karo even in lockdown like this man is doing for us ❤🙏
I mean, wo ghar pr baithke hi videos banata h bro
@@MultiSahaji but woh pura 24 hours video hi nhi banata na😑 tumhe kese pata woh daily kya karta hey?
@@suprememystic he used to upload daily pehle, ab to time hi time hoga
Right bro
Other channels uses lockdown content for view but this man is doing his on work what he use to do before
8:56 Watch it again, the best part starts here.
Indeed it is best part!
I'm single
But im watching bcz I don't want to be a devdas🤣🤣🤣
Sir apke charan kaha h mera bhi same aisa h😆😆😆
Sahi hai bhai👍👍👍
Literally True Bro 🤣🤣
@@navinkamble3939 😄😄Bilkul shi
Same here bro,my college will open next month and I m training my self to become cemented londa.
My Self respect has always been my first priority.
Never destroy your self respect in front of an idiot who doesn't respect your feelings. Instead stay alone and become some1 that those idiots cry just to talk to you...!😎
Good comment guy
same, and when find ur self esteem then the things will always be in ur hand...
@@ravindersingh-pc1ly ua-cam.com/video/_m4pwxoic5k/v-deo.html
Bro watch this
sahi kaha bhai
Why would you be happy if other's cry to talk to you. That's toxic mindset
"Rejections are normal" i know these are three simple words for man but after reading that chapter i feel these are the most powerful words
"khudi ko kr buland itna k har taqdeer sy pely khudaa bndy sy khud pochy btaa teri raza kia hai"😍😍😍
*Best person I have ever seen in my life* 🔥❣️🔥
Dude, been working on No Fap, not being SWAYED by women and following a disciplined way of life for a while now. Thanks to people like you, such topics now are totally unrelatable. Cheers man, you fucking changed my life.
Day???
@@prabalbhardwaj1829 18
How is it going king?
@@navdeepsingh-ux1nv bro ab bata kitne days ?
Your happiness starts when you end all the fake shit of life,and you start working in yourself only !! Connect to the people who are Good for your mental health💓
Amazing timing . I am a guy in late 20's dating someone now and it's mutual . This video gave me the much required mindset of indifference of how not to validate one's self worth based on presence of another person.
As it is I am happy doing what I am doing to build myself and developing skills professionally and will keep continuing that .
For more perspectives read the rational male by Rollo Tomasi
I felt like my elder brother is talking to me...
Me too
66 like.
stop at 69 😂
@@harys6382 lame af
Main part starts at 7:37🔥🔥🔥
And the rap starts at 8:56 😂😂😂😂
Best part 🔥
99th like by me
Me right now : I'm going to call my ex
Shewtabh Gangwar : hold my video
Edit : thankyou so much for the likes aap aise hi like karo Mai comments karte rhunga
That's true bro..🤣 now I'm not giving any shitty atention towards her.....i was like nikal pehli fursat m nikal.
Yeah, I was trying to do the same..
Same here bro.
Mee to ..frndzone 8 saal
@@rajanjaiswal5677 bhai kya kar rha h tu
Relatable ,, highly needed for me..
After rejection and breakup, i am crying almost every single day . I had given the key to my happiness to her , which is the biggest mistake in my life .
Enjoy , be happy such a bad person left you bro! Your life is free from shit now! And remember no one can snatch your happiness
Your Happiness is now your priority, Stay Strong Brother!
@@varunpande8643 unable to forget her calling me " cute boy" , "i like you" and "i am in love with you " when i didn't have any feelings towards her and when i had extended my actual feelings she just backed out and told me the she doesn't have those feelings anymore and rejected my proposal.. it has been more than a month, i can't move on , i keep missing her and crying. God help me
@@saurabhsonu9413 bro if u wanna chat ( like if u on telegram) let me know . I will share with u my experience and hopefully u will recover very soon.
But trust me there will be a lot of beautiful girls who will call u that stuff and also a beautiful person will come in ur life. But the thing is man u gotta work on yourself Start loving urself . Start healing urself. Eat n drink some healthy as well as tasty stuff. Start gymming/ excersising
Find goals work for them . The happiness when u achieve them will be limitless!!!
@@varunpande8643 bro please give me ur telegram link
Had 3 break up with same girl.
1st time: wet eyes once, talked to old friend(10pm to 5 am, lol), watched below mentioned shwetabhs video.
2nd time : i broke up.
3rd time : 4 tear drops thats it. And mom helped this time.
Advice for you
Talk to someone sane, who can listen to you(Very imp), watch the video that i am providing link of, and don't cry unnecessarily. ua-cam.com/video/TXeHkfYyTPgh/v-deo.htmlttps://ua-cam.com/video/TXeHkfYyTPg/v-deo.html
One thing I wanna say to all the boys , dudes and men out there start valuing urself and yes as this gentleman said the button of ur life happiness should be in ur hands. When u gonna value urself ,when u start loving urself, when u start working on urself there it begins .A little story ,my college life revolved around my gf and no surprises g pe lath mar ke nikal gayi aur ‘log bot kuch bolte hai aur bhul jate hai’ , was broken and then i realised what emotional pain is like it’s not easy to endure , i was always good in studies so got a good job and then I promised myself that I need to do stuff to make me happy to make me adore myself. I wasn’t good in sports but I learned Badminton ,cooking ,TT , swimming , hit gym , learned guitar , chess ,read books and even studied in the span of two years and got pretty awesome in all . The bright side is when I look back I realise I wouldn’t have been able to learn all this if I was still in that relationship, be the Man U want to be and rest will follow. Aur chatna to bhai band kardo ,appreciate people and their character not any girl just bcz she is beautiful .
Agreed👌
You earned at the end . Great man
Great bhai.....
Sahi baat bhai👍
Great words bro
Time stamp 😂😂
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I like them most in this video..
woh punjabi bhsdka wallah part :DD
9:05 comes from nowhere and I can't stop laughing best time stemp ever
True dat 😂😂
Listened on repeat 5x 😂
This man puts a mirror in front of you.
Thank you sir.
I watch his videos so that I give no pain to my man in future. Also hope I get my right man 😇 till then study study and study
Aap jasae ladkiya ho toh desh kitna aage jayega thank you mam
Aapko bhi bohat pyar karne wala banda mile
God bless u dear sis
@@architkhanna2193 desh bhi population bhi 😂😂😂 btw sis ur different ✌️
rare:-)
Kitna bui kuch krlo, kheyal rakhlo, jisse sachcha pyar karoge wohi chorke chala jayga..
your book "The rudest book ever " changed my life. god bless you bro.
i am just 20 years old, you saved my entire carrier and life.
thank you so much.....................
Same here I am also 20 years old
@GATE 2023 just 20 dude yhi sahi hai 20 years age is early
@GATE 2023 na you are wrong early means before 25 I'm also 19 but total maturity comes around 24-25 yeah and we are at the stage where one wrong decision change our lives but we have that opportunity to Choose but when you are at 25 or above than opportunities thinking and your character can not change and yeah I'm not talking about everyone but majority this is truth and everyone have to accept it
@GATE 2023 and choosing college is nothing that you can call success or failure yeah it is an essential part of life and career but there's lots of things left which is more important
You are not 20 year old but 20 year young 👍👍👍
You will never feel insult after rejection
When you are a successful person
You are in love and imagine him as your dad: kabhi nhi katny dega 😂😂😂
More than year ago, I developed a crush with someone who was my friend. I confided my feelings to her and she didn't reciprocate, citing we would rather be friends. Of course the rejection did hurt at first, and it was awkward meeting her after that. But slowly things became normal between us. Now I don't have any such feelings for her anymore. We both are busy with our lives and don't communicate that much.
The point is I never had this urge to make her fall in love with me nor did I stalk her to see if she is dating someone or not. I just had developed a feeling, been honest about it by telling her, and after getting rejected I moved on. I never took the rejection personally. Also I don't think about what would have been if we were a couple. Never.
So I agree with all the points Shwetabh bhai has to say here. I hope people understand there is more to life than just a girl.
Same experience bro
That's the positive attitude that guys should strive for.
Focus on enjoying life, women will come eventually.
It all depends on looks man. If you were goodlooking you would have got her. Look up the blackpill philosophy on youtube.
Bhai teri wo crush Jheelam Sen toh nahi hai na 😀
@Prashant M No man! Never played pubg and stopped watching porn. Aur khalifa mujhe kabhi pasand bhi nahi thi
7:41-10:41 , awesome reality explained in 3 minutes, thanks shwetabh 👌😇
Bro you're doing a phenomenal job. You speak on issues that are relatable .
9:40 mannnnnn shwetabh is Back😂 Epic Rant
But " tu fasha hua he betichod" is epic and legendary.
@@vibe8517 legendary lines 😂
9:07 I think it starts from here
Last tym i was this early Swetabh bhai address us with "Aur launde"...but i think for our sisters on this channnel this is good.
💯. Saddest part is that a person doesn't realize it until they face and experience it. They either choose to ignore or always think of best case scenario until reality hits. I wish I had come across ur videos few years earlier.
9:36 when original shwetabh appears
Shadow is real.
Hahahah i love it
If Elon musk would ask me which person to first enter Mars to spread real sense into the world it would be you brother.🤙
I havent come across a guy more sensible than you. You inspire me to another level. This was the reality check i always wanted. Thankyou you for existing. Thankyou for teaching us. Please do make more videos on 'Love's. Much appreciated and in demand topic. We all love you. Thank-you for who you are. Thank-you so much. ❤
Much love and support. ❤
So after watching this video , I proposed my 6 month crush and she rejected me but im feel very light like some heavy weight got dropped off....thanks shwetabh ganwar
Having a girlfriend is never a good options. Either marriage or rotation of women
Good job mane to 8 saal laga diye
@@rajanjaiswal5677 😂
@@pulkitpandey2416 kya karu yaar family problem or is I time me time na de paya.....ab haath se nikal gyi h................bhai ka video dekh tab aankh khula..................ab koi pachtawa nhi .....BT ha mai sabse bada chutiya hu........pure world ka or koi nhi .....no.1
@@rajanjaiswal5677 shit happens bhai
Being a girl I can totally understand his point of view.
@@piyushnirala7336 plzzz help me bro I m so sad
Kitno ka kata waise 😂😂
@@piyushnirala7336 #hilamatbc #pornhubkimaka
Datta name is enough
any avg. looking girl can understand coz they always see their follower spamming all around them🤣
I just literally laughed thinking about how stupid when i was in relationship... Thanks god now I'm not in relationship.🤣
Mandy hale said that two things you will nevr have to chase, true friends and true love.
Mien bhi yehi manta hun bro
Simple hai life mein गुड़ बनो मक्खी नहीं 😬
@@arjunbatra2072 Sahi kaha, Zyada pyar vyar ke chakkar mein padoge toh Makkhi movie ke hero ki tarah haal ho Jayega.😆😆😁😁😁
@@arjunbatra2072 acharya prashant 🙏🧡
@@lancelot5125 Bhai asli depression Mai to villain tha .
So glad that I never accepted friendship from my ex.
Same here bro
Me too bro
Same here 🤣🤣
Bahut badhiya sir excellent work Self respect is everything
The actual video starts from 9:05 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Thank you bro. We need brothers like you helping their broz out. God bless!
Lol
This man is one Hell of a man! I love u man. I love u. At a tym when all I see is "feminists" lashing out at innocent males, this man has given me a ray of hope. I love u Bhai! Thank u so much!
You man, you're a savior. I still remembered those videos (mensutra). During my bad days your videos was like medicine to me. Honestly, I can say that it was your videos only which took me out my breakup circle.
This was, by far, the best video of yours....A slap in the face needed for people who are still stuck on their ex-partners or in toxic relationship..Know your worth guys..Know yours values..!
I'm not Mr. Friendly from the very beginning !
She told me just one sentence that she can't fight with me and she can't stand on my expectations and i said sure and thank you. Imagine what's next, i just blocked her permanently and finished everything at once. She sent me an email saying that this is not the way to finish and i replied this is my way to finish and i go with my choice. Before someone loose interest in you it's time for you to walk away without any regret and fear and fight. Find the next person who is waiting for you somewhere. Don't waste time on someone who doens't give you priority and respect. I am so happy today and it's been now a month it's so relaxing and i am more focused on my carrier and family to be honest.
Bro can u help me 😭
@@hiphop_listner how can I help you
@@HK-nd9fe My Whatspp No. 9389574254
Got motivation n u hv high self esteem. This lesson will always be remembered her and if someone blocked by other then negative spiral of rejection keep rolling like what my fault, am I not looking good, not worthy
Absolutely true!
Trust me this will save your so much Time and emotion.
Nowadays when I think, I think in Swetabhs voice.😊
This is the best video on this topic i have ever seen
I'm stuck in a same situation but now I understand what is the reality of this world idk she come back or not maybe she do but i will promise myself today that I will move on
Kisi se zabardasti pyar nhi kra jaa skta bitter truth
Jisko pyar hoga aapse vo krega chahe aap kuch kro ya na kro or jisko ghnta fark nhi pdta uske liye aap kuch bhi krlo us insaan ko kuch fark nhi pdega
Bitter truth of life
9:06
This is where the magic starts! Pure gold! 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
7:05 Aashaye, apekshaye, aakanshaye......bro you are nailing at hindi too. 😂
Bhai. 100% shi bol ra h... Ek dum to the point both practically and realistically..
That messaging part was so accurate , like seriously . It really hit me hard.
Dislikers wo sacche pyaar wale chutiye hain 😂
They've not taken the red pill
Pathetic blue pills are they
@@अभिजीत-ट8छ blue pill is the real cancer for men
@@अभिजीत-ट8छ for sure
Jinki gaand pe kachchu(arbi) katne wala hai 🤪
7:30 is what everyone should pay attention
I guess we girls can relate to it too. Waiting for this Quarentine to end to get your book.
@@abhijay_ sahi kaha, sab chutiye hain
@@wbb566 idiot
@@abhijay_ No...That's just a number I am 21
Right sister ...
@@wbb566 terko kya problem ho rhi lol
Thank you so much sir! ..It's my first ever comment. I am flooding with relief with your every words. I was feeling to end my life. Thanks again!!
Different level support, Thanks buddy. It definitely helps in coming out of stress, and getting sleep.
The Man who deserve Huge Respect in my Life....Shwetabh👍
Shwetabh Sir, I am just speechless.... this is probably the best ever advice to all the guys suffering from this
Feeling like he has made this video just for me🥺
Shwetabh sir's advices has changed my life entirely. Thank you for such golden words
Guru ji 😂😂😂😂 when i feel depressed i came here
Me too
Eminem: "I am the fastest rapper."
Shwetabh at 9:11 : "Hold my mic."
😂
9/11 🔥🔥
😂😂
lol bhai😁😁😁
😂😂😂
Missing"Or Lounde Kiya hal chal"😞
Who is missing?
Jabse ladkiya aayi hai ye word gayab ho gya bhai
@@amitkumar9429 exactly bro.
this channel was dedicated for mens only. but sad now
@@amitkumar9429 aur galiya bhi.
@@amitkumar9429 this channel was specially for boys
Mee
So conclusion of this episode: don't be simp
Legit as fack
💯
@@surneetsingh1313 thanx bruh
XD
After watching your videos...finally I found someone who speak a real truth of life and don't give fuck abt imaginary world..this is pure real truth ...thank u so much ✌️🙏
Sir... I cannot give you anything in return for the excellent work you're doing for emotionally strayed people...
Just my simple
'Thank you.'
Dont let anything or anyone become your life. It should be a part of it because if you loose them then you will be left with nothing.
I gained my self respect back today shwetabh . thankyou
same happens to me after the breakup, caught her cheating, still, she wants friendship or be in touch.
somehow feel wasted 8 years with her only regret how seeing all still took so long to finally cutoff with her.
never understood what she wanted, being traumatized for 1-year listening all lies, very hard to concentrate on my career finally got a good govt job.
only 1 thing girls could go to any extent to prove herself true, and it's very hard to guess with which "friend" as they call, she is cheating or in a parallel relationship with and will label it emotional support to justify the wrong doing .
Wow man that was such a horrible story one could experience and you somehow got out of it and now you are doing well in your life . Thanks for sharing bro
Man I'm experiencing the same lines of story u just said🤦🤦🤦
Yes,girls can go to any extreme limits to prove their lies 😤😤
Same to same story man, already ruined in my life, was working in a good corporate everthing was fine but that bitch was caught with someone else and now i m lost in my life even left my job coz i was not able to concentrate, whomsoever is reading this please never fall in love, these bitches are fucking bastard even if you will be a complete package you will feel like you are not good enough, and MERI WALI ALAG HAI, fuck this line shuru me har kisi ko yahi lagta h fir zindagi ki maa chod kar chali jaayegi kisi bhi bhadve k saath
@@astheticman5983 bro what happened is really bad... Even my bf also cheated on me ... Why innocent people are betrayed
@@anime2315 WE ARE INNOCENT AND THAT IS OUR CURSE, THATS THE ONLY REASON
So true! Companionship is important but my life has to be more than just being in love with a man. As human beings, we are more than just one aspect of our lives.
yu are brave miss it might be helpful if yu guide/share us how too move in life on to us??
I am an 20 y/o girl and literally I was in a very psychological issues regarding this love kinda stuff and I wastes 3 years of my education regarding this and still it is very early for me now I will only focus on my studies and on my career and my success will be my greatest revenge for him.
yu are brave miss it might be helpful if yu guide/share us how too move in life on to us??
Men actually don't give a fuck about women getting successful
@@vedantagrawal7119 This is fucking true almost coz of some 30-40% of males are jelous of women rest want women equally successful in life.
amatuer. I WASTED 6 YEARS.
@@vedantagrawal7119 lad q rhe ho bhai🤦♀️🤦♀️sab ladke aur sb ldki ek jesi ni hoti h 🙂🙌katta dono ka h
9:36 Real Shwetabh Bhaiya is Back...😂
Thanks bro bacha liya speaker se sun raha tha😅
Best advice after Bhagwat Geeta & chanakya neeti ♥️🔥🔥🔥🙏
im in true love with girl but
i still like Shwetabh brother video.
he realy clear my mind and stay focused and give time equally to love and career....
stay focused and motivated...
Switch of happiness at 8:18 🙂 Thank me later
This guy is awesome and his talking is reality about life
I've been through this, man so much I can relate.😂😂😂😂
Same veere❤️😊
I am learning Salesforce from Salesforce Trailhead during this quarantine/lockdown.
I'm currently reading your book.. you're truly a genius.. write more and inspire even more
Mere bhai ... tum mard jaati ka masiha ho....hamesha ham logo ko bure wakt se baahar nikalte rahe ho....love❤️ u bro...
8:55 bruh got real trggered😂😂