I've been dating an extremely attractive girl for almost four months. She told me she wants me to call her more because we don't talk much during the week. But we see eachother twice a week. I simply said "I don't like talking on the phone for more than 10 minutes and I don't like seeing someone everyday." I stopped there. Everything is still good.
yea if that's legit how you feel, good to set boundaries. when i was single, and still now with my girl, I basically have my phone on silent until i finish work, and don't take calls or texts. its not me playing a game, i just dont like my concentration broken. and even if its upsets her at times, she respects it.
I cannot imagine how clearly you have broken it down and explained it with precision. Thank you!!! 🙏 I am one such person. I can approach women with some confidence as if they are in my frame. But as soon as we finish introducing ourselves I throw the frame to her. I then lose control and she can see that and says: well nice knowing you, see you! Damn! I am still working on it but it’s getting frustrating….
glad you found the explanation helpful. just keep working on it, and if you slip back into an old frame sometimes, that's normal, noonees perfect, but just try to hold it longer and longer each time.
@@BobbyRioI learned to get frame control by making sure that I don't spend all the time talking to the girl I desire when we're together. I'll stop and talk and joke with others. 😂 Then she has to follow my new lead / conversation with the random person or get left behind. 😊 It's hilarious when she's left to 'chiming in'.
Rob Judge married a woman who pulled away and told him she just wants to be friends. Several of my friends wound dating girls that originally told them they weren't interested. I'm not entirely disagreeing with you, very often you're better off walking away from a woman who isn't investing in the relationship.
It’s crazy how Dan said it, “this is the biggest hole in the market currently, there’s nobody teaching guys how to deal with girls. And so many guys just giving up on women all together”. He’s probably right about that. The few friends I’ve shared this with are mostly in denial o f these types of techniques working. When I shared the Dan Balzarian vid most ppl just said oh that guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about either. Maybe even ppl that admire Dan and are fans of Dan still just can’t see the bigger picture of Bobby’s techniques etc. They’re so set in their ways through societal conditioning.
Yea, i've found it weird, where some guys actively feel threatened by the idea that there are things you can do to get better with women. Not sure if it's because it conflicts with their programming, or it eliminates their excuse. For some guys its easier to think "im too old, too short, to broke" to get a cool girlfriend, than to actually take the time to learn what will actually attract her. Thanks for watching!
For as long as I can remember I’ve abdicated my own frame and the reality is I’m strong within, but after watching this video I’m determined to stay in my frame, no matter what. It’s literally the difference between being a winner or a loser. It really is a no-brainier. IT’S GOT TO BE DONE.
i been watching videos about the masculine frame but i dont think ik the frame control. maybe am using the frame control without even knowing it. I think am using the masculine frame but with the frame control idk. idk if women are chasing me maybe they are and i just dont know it. i need like a full breakdown on it.
In life, too many of us play 'not to lose' instead playing to win. Humans have a psychology that makes losing something we have more painful than the pleasure we get from obtaining something new. So, moving outside your comfort zone means risking something you have. It's that risk of losing what that is that holds most of us back.
I realize how my dad got away with so much. He had a strong maculine frame. Be knew it. Throughout his whole marriage to my mother . He always had women. I didn't agree with his frame. His cheating etc. But i see hiw it worked for him.i disnt want to belike him. But now i do as a single man agree i have given away my frame.
I dont understand your meaning of frame control. Do you have any movie examples? I find I try this frame thing and I come off like a asshole or grumpy. Not sure what act I should put on. I ll wait on your response
You're doing the opposite. Don't convince women to like you or winning them over. Best to be non chalant about it and she might unblock and text you eventually.
You already lost her with your beliefs, such as to "win her over", you made her the prize and you the slavish fan. Stars don't sleep with their fans. Make yourself by cultivating yourself and at the same time change your beliefs - that you are the prize and every woman is in your league.
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Very true. I married a very feminine woman for a year, and she tests my masculinity every single day unconsciously. The game never ends.
yes, the tests don't end for sure.
Time to say goodbye 👋🏽 No matter how good she looks some other guy is tired of her shit!
safe to say they're never satisfied or happy
For whatever reason (s), she cannot be certain and relaxed?????
I like most of your videos. The way you explain and create an examples are on point. More power
I've been dating an extremely attractive girl for almost four months. She told me she wants me to call her more because we don't talk much during the week. But we see eachother twice a week. I simply said "I don't like talking on the phone for more than 10 minutes and I don't like seeing someone everyday." I stopped there. Everything is still good.
yea if that's legit how you feel, good to set boundaries. when i was single, and still now with my girl, I basically have my phone on silent until i finish work, and don't take calls or texts. its not me playing a game, i just dont like my concentration broken. and even if its upsets her at times, she respects it.
Your way of explaining this subject really hits the spot more so than any other UA-cam videos. Riveting stuff👌.
glad you find it helpful!
I cannot imagine how clearly you have broken it down and explained it with precision. Thank you!!! 🙏 I am one such person. I can approach women with some confidence as if they are in my frame. But as soon as we finish introducing ourselves I throw the frame to her. I then lose control and she can see that and says: well nice knowing you, see you!
Damn! I am still working on it but it’s getting frustrating….
glad you found the explanation helpful. just keep working on it, and if you slip back into an old frame sometimes, that's normal, noonees perfect, but just try to hold it longer and longer each time.
@@BobbyRioI learned to get frame control by making sure that I don't spend all the time talking to the girl I desire when we're together. I'll stop and talk and joke with others. 😂 Then she has to follow my new lead / conversation with the random person or get left behind. 😊 It's hilarious when she's left to 'chiming in'.
I Just picture them naked and it helps me out a bunch. Yeah baby!! 😅👍🏻
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To sum up his video as compact as possible: attraction = exciting self expression
good take on it
Yes
That tip is spot on! It really hit a nerve with me ! Perfect Bobby !!
I'm glad it resonated with you.
As always, great content! Big thanks 🙌🏼
Rob Judge married a woman who pulled away and told him she just wants to be friends. Several of my friends wound dating girls that originally told them they weren't interested. I'm not entirely disagreeing with you, very often you're better off walking away from a woman who isn't investing in the relationship.
Thank you so much bobby.
❤❤ Much love from Nigeria ❤❤
glad you enjoyed.
*Instead of trying to impress, just owning the space and being yourself sends the right message effortlessly!*
It occurs to me to "play along" with the "test". Treat it as banter and return fire in a strictly fun way.
The games never end.
Thank you, Bobby. Great and helpful video, as always. Greetings!
thansk for watching, glad it was helpful
Had the best date when I stopped trying to impress and tried being stoic
Stoicism is the answer and where it's at!! No compromise to your true self
It’s crazy how Dan said it, “this is the biggest hole in the market currently, there’s nobody teaching guys how to deal with girls. And so many guys just giving up on women all together”. He’s probably right about that. The few friends I’ve shared this with are mostly in denial o f these types of techniques working. When I shared the Dan Balzarian vid most ppl just said oh that guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about either. Maybe even ppl that admire Dan and are fans of Dan still just can’t see the bigger picture of Bobby’s techniques etc. They’re so set in their ways through societal conditioning.
Yea, i've found it weird, where some guys actively feel threatened by the idea that there are things you can do to get better with women. Not sure if it's because it conflicts with their programming, or it eliminates their excuse. For some guys its easier to think "im too old, too short, to broke" to get a cool girlfriend, than to actually take the time to learn what will actually attract her. Thanks for watching!
Thanks Mr Rio
Very well explained.
Glad you liked it
No doubt this makes sense. The problem is the self discipline it takes to execute the strategy.
For as long as I can remember I’ve abdicated my own frame and the reality is I’m strong within, but after watching this video I’m determined to stay in my frame, no matter what. It’s literally the difference between being a winner or a loser. It really is a no-brainier. IT’S GOT TO BE DONE.
i been watching videos about the masculine frame but i dont think ik the frame control. maybe am using the frame control without even knowing it. I think am using the masculine frame but with the frame control idk. idk if women are chasing me maybe they are and i just dont know it. i need like a full breakdown on it.
GOT IT, THANKS.
Good video.
Glad you enjoyed it
Yesterday i gave my phone and asked her to type her number she immediately type her number 😎
Bobby… what about a topic about full dominance. Some woman just want to be fully dominated and told what to do.
Sounds easy, but I guess it is much harder when the first "test insult" comes in.
What’s the most common mindset block you’ve seen men face when stepping outside their comfort zone?
In life, too many of us play 'not to lose' instead playing to win. Humans have a psychology that makes losing something we have more painful than the pleasure we get from obtaining something new. So, moving outside your comfort zone means risking something you have. It's that risk of losing what that is that holds most of us back.
What about, its been a distance relationship?
I realize how my dad got away with so much. He had a strong maculine frame. Be knew it. Throughout his whole marriage to my mother . He always had women. I didn't agree with his frame. His cheating etc. But i see hiw it worked for him.i disnt want to belike him. But now i do as a single man agree i have given away my frame.
can def keep your frame while still respecting women too. But don't have to be a 'nice guy'.
Thank you
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I dont understand your meaning of frame control. Do you have any movie examples? I find I try this frame thing and I come off like a asshole or grumpy. Not sure what act I should put on. I ll wait on your response
Pitch anything theory
how do I buy your paid courses
hey, you can find some of my courses here, both free and paid ones, under "trainings" bobbyriotraining.com/
hahhah in a jungle she is more likely to survive with a guy with dominant masculine frame than a nice guy hahaha made me laugh :)
Man my beta identity is so deep my god. After one time sleeping with her they think i am too beta and reactive .. Cant seem to give them the Thrill
I have been texting this girl to win her over but she ended up rejecting me and block me on WhatsApp...I have no chance of convincing her to come back
if a woman blocks you, the best thing to do is move on.
You're doing the opposite. Don't convince women to like you or winning them over. Best to be non chalant about it and she might unblock and text you eventually.
You already lost her with your beliefs, such as to "win her over", you made her the prize and you the slavish fan. Stars don't sleep with their fans. Make yourself by cultivating yourself and at the same time change your beliefs - that you are the prize and every woman is in your league.
Im not 100 on frame control man
It's difficult. Remember that you are not the only guy who is talking to her ... 😮. So she's automatically cocky / arrogant.
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Just give her 1 month trial test..if she doesnt interested in you..leave...value your self and time