How can I stop my husband from watching haram movies without disrespecting him? assim al hakeem
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That’s a hard one the man should give the wife time the wife can’t just chase the husband always
They should work both ways, and it shouldn't be hard. Come on, he/she is your spouse, the one whom you put your entire future together. Neither husband/wife is competing eachother, they're in the same team.
Please man the husband needs help,stop always attacking him,he needs help,like seriously
Hopefully you don't get married with that mindset of yours, imagine not helping your spouse to get closer to allah.
I suggest you make repentance for this u*ly mindset of yours. If you get married and have this mindset, your husband will endup hating you
Sorry what? both should give each other time, not one chase the other, especially if one spouse is the breadwinner of the house (mostly the man), the other should allocate more time to him to make the relationship even
SUBHANALLAH. Best answer
JazakALLAHukhairan
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Does sheikh actually have three instagram accounts?
This is the only Instagram account that belongs to Sheikh 👇 instagram.com/assimalhakeem (ADMIN)
sheikh replied or is this his daughter managing the account
@@assimalhakeem There are two accounts on insta by the name of sheikh that are posing as him then. And answering questions too. Or is it that those accounts are managed by sheikh's team?
@@channelclosed218 can't you see (Admin) ?
Should have define what haram film he watches, porn films or cartoons😂
You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink. Each person is different. There are people who say they are Muslim but not know much about the Quran and Sunnah even though they grew up in an Islamic country. With some people it doesn’t matter what you tell them and I always have to walk a fine line in this situation because I have good intentions to help them to see what they maybe doing is wrong but I can’t make myself crazy over it by constant explaining especially when their hearts and ears are closed. This person that I know, doesn’t really know or understand their deen so even discussing the Quran and Sunnah with them, they give these comments as if they are fairytales. It’s heartbreaking. Even something as basic as prayers aren’t done on time. When I had mentioned that they pray after the time is done I would get that I am judging them which is not true. We are told Allah s,w,t, doesn’t accept this, so I was only letting them know in the most kindest way. With even the help of Allah s.w.t., some people are not guided no matter how hard you try. Fortunately for me, I will be done with this person. May Allah s.w.t. guide us all.
Once again without fail , the sheikh smashes it for 6 ,straight in to the nether regions of the exosphere!
Alhamdulillah
First check that he knows that its haram maybe he doesnt even realize
Guys come on be respectful to oneanother
He doesn’t know, are you for real.?? Who in this day and age doesn’t know that??
Unless you’re living under a rock you would know!
@@sarahloves9186 "Who in this day and age doesn’t know that" you would be surprised about the amount of people that don't know, so yeah maybe you are the one that needs to stop living under a rock.
@@Little-sv5ql trust me there people that if shown evidence they still reject it.
@@omarmohammad220 hmm don’t think so as I’m quite aware of what’s haram and halal. I don’t hide behind ignorance.
@@sarahloves9186 The world isn't revolved around you as I wasn't talking about you so get over yourself, I simply mentioned the fact that there are people that don't know what is haram and halal no one "hides behind ignorance" there are people that simply don't know that doesn't make them any less than you if anything they might be better than you in allah eyes, you ain't that special.
Get rid of the t.v.
When he watches bad movies, go to a different room take your kids w/you. Let him feel that you’re not interested. Only Allah can turn hearts, he’ll change if you don’t watch with him.
Who told you that she watches with him🤦♂️
Leaving him alone to watch, isn't going to fix the problem. What the Shiek said is the actual fix. The wife needs to involve him more with ibadah and with interactions with her, without ridiculing him. In many cases the person may feel guilty, but they can't stop (there is a chemical in the brain that is engaged when they do these things which adds to the problem) and the one person that can help that person, instead of taking the approach that the Shiek is mentioning, that person ridicules the person and that just makes things worse.
This is difficult challenge, and it takes empathy, Sabir and dedication to truly help the person with this problem, especially living in the west or places that contribute to this type of behavior, but in time, in sha' Allah, it can be resolved. May Allah make it easy for the sister and reward her for her efforts. The fact that she wanted to be respectful to her husband and to help him, shows that in sha' Allah she is a very good wife.
This is not the right solution
That might be what he wants, "me" time.
Great advice. It's what my mom used to do.
Every movies in west is kissing houging so ypu mean dont watch them 🤨
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Asllamu alikum.
Iam nawaz and I have 4 questions, 1st one is whenever I make wudu and I go to pray my wudu breaks due to gas and this only happens when iam in the sate of wudu and iam 100%sure that I leaked gas no matter how many times i make my wudu.and this happens to me in every prayer in the last 2 weeks.
And some people say that you have to say kamabarak wa ala imbrahima wala aali imbrahim. After the salah, if you say this no matter if you have passed wind your prayer will be valid. And many say that if pass gas during the salah if your also 100%sure also don't leave your prayer.and complete your prayer it will be valid. Are they true?I think this is the whispers of shythan am I true? If nobody is true what do with the prayer?my 2nd question is when you skip a prayer you become kafir.so will all the salah that I have done before skping the prayer will be invalid? My third question:-i have a ear infection so can I perfrom dry Abelleution to pray?
My fourth question due to ear infection I have counties bleeding inside the ear and no mater hoe many times I clean it is wudu
Still valid
I am not a scholar, but I can answer you based on what I've learned and heard from books and scholars. Still, ask a scholar when you get the chance.
If you are in a doubt whether your wudu has broken or not, you can still complete your Salah and it will be valid. 'Doubt' doesn't break wudu. However, if you are 100% sure your wudu has broken, then you'll have to make wudu again. You don't have to "wash" your ear with water during wudu, you have to rub it. If your fingers were wet during rubbing, wipe your ear with a towel properly after wudu. Since you didn't wash it, there won't be much water in your ear and you'll be able to dry it properly. If you are in a situation where you often bleed or something comes out of your private parts due to "illness or disease", in this situation you have to make wudu once before each of the five prayers and complete your Salah, your Salah would be valid. However, if you are healthy, then in this situation you'll have to make wudu again. Alloh knows best.
go see a doctor you probably have a parasite in your gut ( at meat that had the parasite) you need antibiotics to remove it then you wont be farting, especially if you said this has been happening the past two weeks
It's very unlikely that u will immediately become a kafir because u missed 1 prayer. If it was that hard, then everyone would go to hell.
SubhaanAllah
i havent married yet🙂
🥺 why ? You can choose whoever is appropriate for you
@@arslanking49Not the right woman🤷♂️
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
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Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
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Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
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Who asked ? This isn't a marriage site
@@somebody_55 fr
The wife i deserve
For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
(Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
_______________
Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
(Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
[Quran 28:24].
_________
Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with? ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
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Dont think a dude with an anime profile picture deserves that kind of woman but okay. You should probably put that stuff away.
@@Abdur-Rahman862right
What is that username supposed to mean?
No one deserves anything let alone another human. Whatever Allah gives you is a blessing and a privilege, period.
I watch movies but what's Haram movies 🤨
@@Little-sv5ql what's halal movie 🤨
@@Little-sv5ql every movies I watch specialy cowboys western & Hallmark movies & old show
@@Little-sv5qlDon’t make fun of him just educate him nicely
@@yasminenazarine1629 Basically every movie can be considred haram due to them containing music, showing the 'awra, and other problematic elements.
@@user-h3q7d9m2z5 old days fashion most southeast Isian likes Hindu movies isn't is Haram 🤨
Asclykum sheikh i need your advice my husband divorced me 3 the first time he divorced me 5 years ago he was so angry like he was raging and after that he divorced me two times but know he is saying he only divorced me 2 times and he saying i swear that i divorced u 2 times only so what should i do i don't know if he remembers or can't recall or lying
It might not be the best advice but make him realise his mistake and try to talk things out only after that get together with him again and make him realise his responsibility as a husband and a father aswell if possible
He wants to get back with me but I don't know if our marriage will be valid 😢
Salam. Better ask him on his website (just google his name), because he doesn't take question from the comments.
@@Hamida2904sister do not publicly ask people for advice on such sensitive matters that only shiekh and scholars of knowledge can answer and sharia board. Contact shiekh assim and you can book 1 to 1 counselling session to discuss your case with him. May Allah ease your affairs.
Blame the wife?
For?
She asked for advice and got it, stop trying to cause fitnah
When did he blame the wife? He just taught her how to make him stop sinning. He didn't tell her "you're sinful" at all !!
Who blamed wife?
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