Nailed it. Gotta admit, no matter how red your pill is, there are a few that will always stick with you. The memories become enshrined in your mind. Similar to a death, you never quite get over it, just learn to live with it, and appreciate the times you had. Great to hear the honesty
Mr. Francis... thank you for sharing your inner world with us... You are of the few people who really want to embrace the painful yet necessary talks... My point of view on the matter is simple, we (like most humans of our time) have learnt to enjoy getting addicted to our own stupitidy... then, we need to slay that dragon called love... that state of mental illness called love... raise ourselves up from such insany that enslaves us as men.
For me, love is that combination of the chemistry/science of things - the dopamine etc (which is largely about physical attraction) together with a genuine liking of their personality. The trouble is nature didn’t design love to last forever, perhaps only a few years, so we aren’t putting all our genetic eggs in one basket so to speak. and can go on to find love again.
I've been in a really bad situation with a woman. Then swallowed the red pill and got one of the hardest periods in my life. But today i applied the knowledge that you and rule zero share and i am starting my first healthy relationship with a woman. Thank you man. Never give up with your work. You're literally saving changing and improving men's life. I wish you the best. Thank you again
As alway, love the brutal honesty (examples from your own life too), we all can relate to many of the topic points. Great vid as alway, cheers Troy from the sunny north east 😅
I kind of sum it up. Love is hard work and both need to work at it. Be that parents, siblings, relationships, family, friends etc. Love is work. If 1 or both don't want to work on Love, then it will fail.
I think that if you aboid dealing with your feelings, they Will follow you and all The energy that you spend scaping, Will give more power to those feelings. Because thinking that those feelings are that bad that you need to run from them, only gives more importace to them. Life has it's ups and downs, imagine a movie were all is perfect and nothing happens, It would be a ver y boring movie. I think that it's important to make a commitment to allways move foward no Matter what, till The end. That's Happyness for me, just being ok with Life. When you give Up on that, you get depressed.
Nailed it. Gotta admit, no matter how red your pill is, there are a few that will always stick with you. The memories become enshrined in your mind. Similar to a death, you never quite get over it, just learn to live with it, and appreciate the times you had. Great to hear the honesty
Mr. Francis... thank you for sharing your inner world with us... You are of the few people who really want to embrace the painful yet necessary talks... My point of view on the matter is simple, we (like most humans of our time) have learnt to enjoy getting addicted to our own stupitidy... then, we need to slay that dragon called love... that state of mental illness called love... raise ourselves up from such insany that enslaves us as men.
For me, love is that combination of the chemistry/science of things - the dopamine etc (which is largely about physical attraction) together with a genuine liking of their personality. The trouble is nature didn’t design love to last forever, perhaps only a few years, so we aren’t putting all our genetic eggs in one basket so to speak. and can go on to find love again.
I've been in a really bad situation with a woman. Then swallowed the red pill and got one of the hardest periods in my life. But today i applied the knowledge that you and rule zero share and i am starting my first healthy relationship with a woman. Thank you man. Never give up with your work. You're literally saving changing and improving men's life. I wish you the best. Thank you again
As alway, love the brutal honesty (examples from your own life too), we all can relate to many of the topic points.
Great vid as alway, cheers Troy from the sunny north east 😅
That is an interesting thought 🤔 live around the scar 😞
In 2023 long term relationships just don't seem realistic. Enjoy impermanence.
Thanks for the insights 🙏 same issues here, you are not alone
Excellent philosophical exploration
I kind of sum it up.
Love is hard work and both need to work at it.
Be that parents, siblings, relationships, family, friends etc.
Love is work. If 1 or both don't want to work on Love, then it will fail.
Good video Troy, thanks. Really deep and compelling.
Glad you enjoyed it
True. Friends as well and pets. Some people stay in your hart fore ever. ❤
Love Your comment Troy.
Myself , speaking , at 62- do not want to be hurt anymore , may be , I’m too amotional.
I don't know what love is other than chemicals in the brain.
I think that if you aboid dealing with your feelings, they Will follow you and all The energy that you spend scaping, Will give more power to those feelings. Because thinking that those feelings are that bad that you need to run from them, only gives more importace to them.
Life has it's ups and downs, imagine a movie were all is perfect and nothing happens, It would be a ver y boring movie. I think that it's important to make a commitment to allways move foward no Matter what, till The end. That's Happyness for me, just being ok with Life. When you give Up on that, you get depressed.
I think you need a new adventure man. Have you been to Japan?
No, but it wouldn’t make any difference to this if I did.