Every episode Hasan and Will: “qt why won’t you hang out with us and be our friend” This episode QT: “guys be honest do you not want to hang out with me because I’m poor”
@@yungjod8906 bruh ure such a weird hater i always see u on here whining about qt when she barely speaks on some episodes. it’s giving „the sole woman on here talks too much“
@@GoodMorningJoel i like that quality of hers so much more than will‘s unending nerdy dudebroism while simultaneously saying some of the most unhinged shit ever. all QT does is be vulnerable
@@yungjod8906 ik you don't appreciate qtcinderella now, but after a while they grow on you. qtc is such an integral part of the podcast, in my opinion, it just takes time if you've never watched their content
@@northalabama2264 to each their own, but this might be rooted in misogyny my guy, like u don’t have to like a voice but she is very funny to me as a zoomer
Last few episodes she has been tired and not really participating but this one she is like manic, super alert, and uncharacteristically constantly cutting the guys off. It was a big vibe change but it was fun.
I think the main reason I listen to the podcast is the way they’re all so bad at communicating with each other that it’s like I’m watching a zoom call with bad lag, but in real time. I want to sit next to the table these people are sitting at in a high school cafeteria and just slowly dissociate
I’m a girlie who likes the occasional basic thing but not all the trends and basic stuff and QT is my fave. Not only are you relatable but you’re sticking up for the girlies and pointing out obvious stuff to girlies like the fact that Stanley’s have been the hot water bottle for years now amongst the trendy girlies.
qt if you see this i hope you know that including minority genders in the award is really meaningful to me and a lot of others. i am a trans man and have not begun hormone replacement therapy meaning i still have a "feminine" high pitched voice. i receive a lot of misogyny in the gaming space and irl (i do not pass as a man most of the time). thank you qt for being inclusive to trans people and also for reaching out to your loved ones who you know are impacted by transphobia and misogyny
i really appreciated her thought in it too. At first i was skeptical about where it was going but she did put a lot of thought and concern and care into who that award can be for and why certain language mattered shes very sweet
I understand this as a person who spent a long time perpetually anemic and dehydrated. If you got little veins they have PROBLEMS. Once I was sitting in a chair getting stabbed by some relatively new hire for literally 30 minutes. I don't mind needles or getting blood drawn, especially by that point in my life as I had become very used to it, but I lost count after 12. It had to have been like, 20-30 attempts by the time she gave up and called in someone else. That was the worst, but even then it'd often take several tries, the vein would often collapse, I'd always have a massive bruise left over, and they'd last forever. One bruise I had lasted from the start of my health issues to months after my first surgery. Literally 3 years. Then it cleared up like nothing ever happened. I had to look like some sort of addict, just bruises all over my hands and up and down my arm from all the sticks. Which, I had an unusual amount cause I'd get regular IV medicine and iron supplements. So yeah. I'dve loved big fat fucking pumpers in my arms.
I can relate as someone who’s had central lines & ports for many years.. it’s a pain every time they’ve needed to get an iv, trouble even with ultrasound, IO ivs etc
@@potatoesstarch2376Saaame. I have tiny veins. I only have one that’s even worth trying to stick, and if it doesn’t want to cooperate I’m cooked. BUT I will say, that ER phlebotomists are the gold standard. My ER visit was the quickest and most painless iv placement I’ve ever had. And when I told the nurse that he gloated like “yeah, we get that all the time. ER nurses can put an IV line in our sleep without the patient feeling a thing.” He practically moonwalked out of the room he was so cocky. But he was right. He was the GOAT.
i love how i understood exactly where she was coming from right away. doctors will often comment on how my veins are either hard to find or they are rolling veins? idk its gross.
Right after high school I was a habitual IV drug user and I used to look at people with prominent veins with envy. One time I even said to my friend (about her friend) “he has such nice veins; is that inappropriate to say?” 🤣
i’m so glad QT joined this pod bc it fits her so well. getting people of so many different backgrounds together to have discussions like these is amazing and it’s so cool that this way she got a lot of new fans!
lowkey it was the ultimate marketing strategy. a himbo leftist fratboy(hasan), conservative-coded man that isn't actually conservative+film head(willneff), woman+swiftie+gossip queen(qtcinderella), gay+jacked+funny+agreeable(austin). there's at least one person or trait that anybody can relate to
QT is so right. I literally always need QT here for a voice of reason. Not splitting rent is actually crazy, the girlies need to be on the lease, on the mortgage, and contributing with whatever deal is discussed and agreed to. I know so many women who were just kicked to the curb because their names werent on anything for homes they built.
You can be on the lease/deed and not be the one actually paying. I agree with QT that it feels weird but I also see what the guys are saying that if they're making more money and gonna live there either way it takes a financial burden off of the partner. Especially in a straight relationship when women typically make less money even in the same exact job
Exactly! Always have your name on the house or mortgage, you could just be kicked to the curb with no notice because you didn’t pay rent or have your name on paperwork. Women want their own money, property, and autonomy too.
As a stay at home dad, who can't pay bills because I'm disabled and my wife takes care of it all, its all about not viewing yourself as a burden. Be on the lease, make yourself valuable, but don't bend over backwards to prove your worth visa vi money. 99% chance ludwig doesn't give a fuck if she pays 0 bills. This always stems from one person's insecurity.
QT I like your new award. I think modeling it after an already existing category from a different award show was really smart. As a “minority gender” I can guarantee there will be upset people, but just know you are doing more than most to even include us at all. Lots of love
Qt needs to realize that even if she cured cancer there will be people hating her for whatever reason. Look at Mr. Beast, prime example of no(typo edit) matter how much good you put into the world it will never satisfy brain dead losers who just want to complain
@@MTYHVH Not all people who would classify as a minority gender are gender-nonconforming though, and even though I had never heard the term "minority gender" before I still instantly understood what it meant as I feel it is a fairly simple term
very interesting to hear them talk about splitting rent with them having talked about growing up rich or poor in a past episode. Will and Hasan don't mind someone not paying rent, but to QT its unheard of to not split rent. I think it does have to do with seeing money differently during childhood
True! Will and Hasan were probably given a lot growing up simply due to their parents financial status so them giving to others feels normal. Then there’s QT who grew up with very little and after getting a diamond necklace from Lud for Christmas, talks about it like she still can’t believe he gave her something so nice as a gift despite him being so rich and 4 years deep into a serious relationship.
It is not just about what you grew up with. QT is stuck in the past, which isn't normal. Normal people adjust their ideals and lifestyle to their income @@LiveOutLoud321
It’s less about how much money you were born into and more about how people around you made you feel growing up. If people are constantly telling you or your repeatedly hearing the rhetoric that women are gold diggers, mooches(edit),dead beats, etc etc someone is bound to develop deep rooted insecurities about being a burden. My immigrant parents were poor as hell with 4 kids. But I 100% agree with Will and Hasan, normie rules don’t apply with multi millionaires IMO
I grew up poor and it gave ne the mentality that I never wanted to be in debt to anyone for anything, I take care of myself, but I agree that lud should pay....the fact that she *wants* to pay for herself is enough. I taught my daughter to always be prepared to pay for herself, but it's okay to graciously accept someone's generosity
@@jasmindisney8787 yea I think not wanting to be indebted is a big part of it, theres a subconcious expectation that someone being generous will want something in return.
QT, I wish you all the best, living with all these thoughts and feelings in your head is exhausting. Will looked extremely concerned about you, not angry. Thanks for the episode, guys.
As a girlie, I’ve felt very uncomfortable with not splitting things in half in relationships,even when the person I’m with makes much more than me. But I also feel like I’m a burden to people. So maybe that contributes to that feeling.
I’m the same way. I’ve been having similar talks with other girl friends who have their bills paid for and we’re equally baffled at each others situations. Like I would love things just paid for me but I’ve never ever expected that of a partner… but I guess that’s why I’ve never gotten it idk
i agree that you should split, but only if you make similar amounts. If the other person makes 5x or more than you, they should let you save up, and offer to cover for most expenses, especially if you have similar hours and workloads. edit: fuc the turkish man said the same thing later
i personally think splitting things in half sounds great but ultimately fairness in regards to everybody’s income is the most important thing. if i make less than my s/o, even if i want to pay bills just as much as them, it’d only make sense for me to accept that sometimes they’ll pay a bigger share than me.
My bf and I split things based on percentage of income. If we were to combine income, I would contribute 60%. So I pay for 60% of all bills at the moment.
As a guy, if I could afford everything I wouldn't care to pay for everything, money means nothing in that way. Unfortunately I'm broke and can't afford everything. Lol
QT, as a fellow lady/girlie - get Ludwig to pay for your therapy and do not feel bad for not paying rent. I've been in situations where I have made more than my partner and I paid the rent. Of course, everyone's relationship dynamics are different... but not everyone dates a Ludwig. Regardless, he seems like a provider and thats ok! Let him express that. I get the guilt, but it is a great opportunity to work through that guilt complex, especially with someone you love and someone who is willing to do that for you.
I go to a trauma/EMDR therapist once a week, and I'm finally doing the reprocessing part. It blows my mind that QT's therapist doesn't accept insurance. It's already so hard for folks with trauma and/or PTSD to find EMDR certified therapists. I have so much hope for my future self during this treatment, and I hope the same positive impact finds QT too.
They cannot believe how annoying she is at times. You can see it in their faces. How could anyone listen to her whine and drone on and on and not become either numb to it or insane? Will and Hasan earned their money this episode
QT, I pay $15 for my therapy and psychiatrist through my insurance. Girlie you need to go to a girl in network. Secondly I will forever stand beside QT as her feelings are valid and heard. However I don’t necessarily agree with them all. Some were wild like “I won’t go to Hawaii cuz that’s the first place they’ll bomb”.
she said her therapist practices emdr. not only is emdr certification expensive (therefore most therapists won't bother getting certified, leading to very few emdr therapists in general), finding a therapist is such a drain, and finding a new *emdr* therapist, in network, is like a unicorn. i get why she hasn't. tho she only got health insurance a short while ago after paying for dr visits out of pocket for a long time. she's getting there.
true which is why i love it so much, where for maybe like an april fools thing they should just have the jerry springfield intro and a fake audience and just start it like a normal episode lol.
FYI QT- you could totally give out sapphires with awards. Man made sapphires are not very expensive and are available in a multitude of colors. Despite not being formed through geological processes, they are identical to mined sapphires.
Okay but I totally get QT on wanting to pay her “half”. It’s definitely hard for me to accept love/help financially because then I feel as if I have no control. 17:29
As someone who works in the aerospace industry they are pushing getting these things built and some of the quality and safety standards that we had before Covid have gone to shit.
The difference is that QT is also wealthy. She’s not Ludwig rich, but if it came to it she could go on her own without a problem. Everyone sees it differently but if I was very rich and my partner didn’t have anywhere close to the same income level I would insist on covering something like rent
as a girly I do prefer qt, women supporting women vibes. however sometimes will pulls out this incredible emotional support and vast emotional intelligence and then he's my fav for that like 5 minutes. then the rips his shirt off on stream and I go "nope that's Carolines man I will look away now back to qt"
I just want to say I adore the idea of the sapphire award and I think its really wonderful how sincere QT is in trying to make the streaming world more inclusive.
I have a theory on the stanley cup burned out car video. I don't think the noise is ice. I think its more likely that the inner cup (there for insulation), has come loose due to the heat of the fire, and is rattling.
Less than 10 minutes in and QT has already made me laugh so hard I couldn't breathe. STANLEY YELNATS!? Shia out there with a hockey stick diggin holes.
@@HabituallyObsessed Austin is not the one cutting QT tho. Qt already talked about it before. And that's a podcast about random stuff so he can talk about himself. You're a sore loser.
QT explaining her flying situation is something I could clip and show to my husband to explain why I don't like flying.. bc she was able to articulate it and I can't lol
I also feel uncomfortable not splitting the rent with someone equally... buuuut I've also never dated anyone rich, and I think that's what really changes things. When you're on an equal playing field in finance, it makes sense, but otherwise, no. Also, QT said the girlies might not side with her bc they have crushes on the guys but the bi's have crushes on the entire cast
I feel this so much! Like I personally feel weird not "contributing my fair share" bills. But also I felt really bad for Qt when she said she may have to reduce her therapy because it's too expensive... Like that sucks so much as is, but also knowing how much money Lud makes its like... idk I feel like 4 years is definitely long enough to start helping your partner with medical stuff right?...
@@unculturedsoup Oh for sure, it's super complicated because I know I'm the same type, BUT I also if I was the one making more money I'd definitely want to pitch in for my significant other, especially because I've been in places where I couldn't afford any mental health and had to cut back. It's really all just from being poor and not wanting hand outs, or to be a burden, and owe someone back. People don't really realize the trauma from not having enough money and it takes a long time to get over it even if you're out of the situation :/
I’m sad Austin said he won’t be making cruise content because it would be so entertaining but I understand the need for a break and I’m excited for the cruise stories on the pod
QT talking about not going on roller coasters reminds me of that time on stream when she accidentally bit Austin out of panic on the Jurassic Park water ride because he was trying to comfort her 😅🤣
great episode. lots of great QTCinderella moments. also i really love this hair on Will Neff. uhhh when qt thought that will was mad at her i really felt her in that moment. hope she can get on the plane 🙏 also i think that the award is awesome and qt asking trans and nonbinary folk about the category shows that there is absolutely no malicious intent. she should get a sapphire though with ludwig's money
Yeah, in a relationship it personally feels uncomfortable to not contribute to payments even when the person makes significantly more than you. I feel this, QT.
Someone needed to say it :/ Jeremy Allen White is a butterface. Thank you for your service, Hasan. Your voice was needed, we are a small but loud minority.
As a queer dude, I couldn’t agree with you more. Butterface with no belly button, I’ll pass. Replace his face& add belly button & then I’d change my mind
I’d more so call it persistence 🤣 lmao he seems a little impatient that she won’t just agree to get on a plane but it’s very sweet how dedicated he is to wanting her on the trips
I can understand how QT feels uncomfortable not splitting things 50/50 since she came from humble beginnings but when you're in a relationship and one person earns a significant amount more, it's totally fine to contribute in other ways. People in Section 8 housing pay less because they make less. Subsidized contribution.
This ep made me realize I thought I didn't like QT but I actually do because she is good at voicing the opinions I never do. Fear + existential crisis today
I knew that QT wouldn't give one shit about the Stanley cups and when she said that the toxic parasocial part of my brain was like "ahh yes i do know what she likes better than her real life friend and coworker 😌" LMAO
Not trying to promote my brand so I wont say the name of it but I am a first generation Jeweler and a huge fan of the pod. I think Will's idea of getting the winner of the sapphire award a sappire is a really cool idea and it isnt as much money as QT thinks I could make a very nice pendant for a very good price.
Hasan looks like a Cop from a 1990s Drama, Will looks like a modern day Pirate, and QT looks like a celebrity trying to blend in at a coffee shop
Will neff looks like a singer of a dad rock band
I was thinking Will had some Val Kilmer as Doc Holliday vibes going on
the qt one is the most valid thing i've heard all day
He's needs to larp as robocop
omg i was thanking that abt hasan too, the gum chewing added to it
Every episode Hasan and Will: “qt why won’t you hang out with us and be our friend”
This episode QT: “guys be honest do you not want to hang out with me because I’m poor”
😭😭😭
Quite audacious to have TheAustinShow without Austin Show.
Let alone when talking about JAW. I wanted to see his reaction to that photo shoot 😩
It's a new dynamic for 2024.
they did a penis react too, twice. no Austin 😢
AMEN
This is fear& Austinshow doesn't exist
Don’t worry QT I stand with everything you say no matter how ridiculous or how hot will and hasan are ✊ sisterhood comes first
Real asf
💯
I love her but I ain’t splitting lmaoo
my favorite part of the podcast is when QT stresses Will and Hasan with her train of thoughts LMFAO
she’s soo relatable love her to bits
It's so unbearable
@@yungjod8906 bruh ure such a weird hater i always see u on here whining about qt when she barely speaks on some episodes. it’s giving „the sole woman on here talks too much“
@@GoodMorningJoel i like that quality of hers so much more than will‘s unending nerdy dudebroism while simultaneously saying some of the most unhinged shit ever. all QT does is be vulnerable
@@yungjod8906 ik you don't appreciate qtcinderella now, but after a while they grow on you. qtc is such an integral part of the podcast, in my opinion, it just takes time if you've never watched their content
QT's Stanley Yelnats joke was super quick, had me cackling
You must laugh easily....everytime she opens her mouth I hit mute. That voice is like nails on a blackboard. WHINE WHINE WHINE
@@northalabama2264 to each their own, but this might be rooted in misogyny my guy, like u don’t have to like a voice but she is very funny to me as a zoomer
you must have a really high IQ@@northalabama2264
@@northalabama2264troll better kid go watch something else
@@northalabama2264you need to work on yourself man
qts energy is incredibly chaotic and im here for it
Last few episodes she has been tired and not really participating but this one she is like manic, super alert, and uncharacteristically constantly cutting the guys off. It was a big vibe change but it was fun.
I think the main reason I listen to the podcast is the way they’re all so bad at communicating with each other that it’s like I’m watching a zoom call with bad lag, but in real time.
I want to sit next to the table these people are sitting at in a high school cafeteria and just slowly dissociate
@@winterkyomoon7096 i did not catch this, maybe im bad at conversation dynamics.
she has darkness
She had to bring the chaos for 2 since Austin was gone lol
I’m a girlie who likes the occasional basic thing but not all the trends and basic stuff and QT is my fave. Not only are you relatable but you’re sticking up for the girlies and pointing out obvious stuff to girlies like the fact that Stanley’s have been the hot water bottle for years now amongst the trendy girlies.
same QT is a queen. i relate to her going off on chaotic tangents to the guys silence so much 😭😂
seconded as a girl-ish☝
Qt is a queen but I audibly said “What the fck is wrong with you QT” multiple times this episode. Slay honestly
luv her sm
🫶🏾 my fellow girlies
qt if you see this i hope you know that including minority genders in the award is really meaningful to me and a lot of others. i am a trans man and have not begun hormone replacement therapy meaning i still have a "feminine" high pitched voice. i receive a lot of misogyny in the gaming space and irl (i do not pass as a man most of the time). thank you qt for being inclusive to trans people and also for reaching out to your loved ones who you know are impacted by transphobia and misogyny
i really appreciated her thought in it too. At first i was skeptical about where it was going but she did put a lot of thought and concern and care into who that award can be for and why certain language mattered shes very sweet
The convo between QT and Will on how she wants big juicy veins so the doctors can find them easier to draw blood is so fucking funny.
I understand this as a person who spent a long time perpetually anemic and dehydrated. If you got little veins they have PROBLEMS. Once I was sitting in a chair getting stabbed by some relatively new hire for literally 30 minutes. I don't mind needles or getting blood drawn, especially by that point in my life as I had become very used to it, but I lost count after 12. It had to have been like, 20-30 attempts by the time she gave up and called in someone else.
That was the worst, but even then it'd often take several tries, the vein would often collapse, I'd always have a massive bruise left over, and they'd last forever. One bruise I had lasted from the start of my health issues to months after my first surgery. Literally 3 years. Then it cleared up like nothing ever happened. I had to look like some sort of addict, just bruises all over my hands and up and down my arm from all the sticks. Which, I had an unusual amount cause I'd get regular IV medicine and iron supplements.
So yeah. I'dve loved big fat fucking pumpers in my arms.
I can relate as someone who’s had central lines & ports for many years.. it’s a pain every time they’ve needed to get an iv, trouble even with ultrasound, IO ivs etc
@@potatoesstarch2376Saaame. I have tiny veins. I only have one that’s even worth trying to stick, and if it doesn’t want to cooperate I’m cooked. BUT I will say, that ER phlebotomists are the gold standard. My ER visit was the quickest and most painless iv placement I’ve ever had. And when I told the nurse that he gloated like “yeah, we get that all the time. ER nurses can put an IV line in our sleep without the patient feeling a thing.” He practically moonwalked out of the room he was so cocky. But he was right. He was the GOAT.
i love how i understood exactly where she was coming from right away. doctors will often comment on how my veins are either hard to find or they are rolling veins? idk its gross.
Right after high school I was a habitual IV drug user and I used to look at people with prominent veins with envy. One time I even said to my friend (about her friend) “he has such nice veins; is that inappropriate to say?” 🤣
Im a ride or die for QT bc her life experiences + interests + attitude are just so honest and relatable
i’m so glad QT joined this pod bc it fits her so well. getting people of so many different backgrounds together to have discussions like these is amazing and it’s so cool that this way she got a lot of new fans!
Yes, by all means let's add a neurotic, annoying Swiftie (isn't she a little OLD for that?) JUST WHAT THE POD NEEDED!
@@northalabama2264 grandpa log off, being a loner is no excuse for this.. 💀
@@northalabama2264obvious bait troll better kid living your life in hatred going and saying this shit in multiple comment threads💀
lowkey it was the ultimate marketing strategy. a himbo leftist fratboy(hasan), conservative-coded man that isn't actually conservative+film head(willneff), woman+swiftie+gossip queen(qtcinderella), gay+jacked+funny+agreeable(austin). there's at least one person or trait that anybody can relate to
@@SingleBowler-pv9rj exactly what im saying! lol i love them as a group
QT is so right. I literally always need QT here for a voice of reason. Not splitting rent is actually crazy, the girlies need to be on the lease, on the mortgage, and contributing with whatever deal is discussed and agreed to. I know so many women who were just kicked to the curb because their names werent on anything for homes they built.
You can be on the lease/deed and not be the one actually paying. I agree with QT that it feels weird but I also see what the guys are saying that if they're making more money and gonna live there either way it takes a financial burden off of the partner. Especially in a straight relationship when women typically make less money even in the same exact job
Exactly! Always have your name on the house or mortgage, you could just be kicked to the curb with no notice because you didn’t pay rent or have your name on paperwork. Women want their own money, property, and autonomy too.
If not split 50/50, split by % income is also perfectly acceptable.
As a stay at home dad, who can't pay bills because I'm disabled and my wife takes care of it all, its all about not viewing yourself as a burden. Be on the lease, make yourself valuable, but don't bend over backwards to prove your worth visa vi money. 99% chance ludwig doesn't give a fuck if she pays 0 bills. This always stems from one person's insecurity.
@@Versace_sheets that’s a full time job!
Will trying to get QT to go on a roller coaster is like listening to a dad negotiating with a child to eat broccoli.
QT I like your new award. I think modeling it after an already existing category from a different award show was really smart. As a “minority gender” I can guarantee there will be upset people, but just know you are doing more than most to even include us at all. Lots of love
Qt needs to realize that even if she cured cancer there will be people hating her for whatever reason. Look at Mr. Beast, prime example of no(typo edit) matter how much good you put into the world it will never satisfy brain dead losers who just want to complain
I have mixed feelings. It's like a participation award. It's kind of condescending but I see what she's trying to do.
i think the term should be gender-nonconforming people instead of minority gender as that’s an already established term
@@MTYHVH Not all people who would classify as a minority gender are gender-nonconforming though, and even though I had never heard the term "minority gender" before I still instantly understood what it meant as I feel it is a fairly simple term
@@RaeWookie who is not included under gender nonconforming
very interesting to hear them talk about splitting rent with them having talked about growing up rich or poor in a past episode. Will and Hasan don't mind someone not paying rent, but to QT its unheard of to not split rent. I think it does have to do with seeing money differently during childhood
True! Will and Hasan were probably given a lot growing up simply due to their parents financial status so them giving to others feels normal. Then there’s QT who grew up with very little and after getting a diamond necklace from Lud for Christmas, talks about it like she still can’t believe he gave her something so nice as a gift despite him being so rich and 4 years deep into a serious relationship.
It is not just about what you grew up with. QT is stuck in the past, which isn't normal. Normal people adjust their ideals and lifestyle to their income @@LiveOutLoud321
It’s less about how much money you were born into and more about how people around you made you feel growing up. If people are constantly telling you or your repeatedly hearing the rhetoric that women are gold diggers, mooches(edit),dead beats, etc etc someone is bound to develop deep rooted insecurities about being a burden. My immigrant parents were poor as hell with 4 kids. But I 100% agree with Will and Hasan, normie rules don’t apply with multi millionaires IMO
I grew up poor and it gave ne the mentality that I never wanted to be in debt to anyone for anything, I take care of myself, but I agree that lud should pay....the fact that she *wants* to pay for herself is enough. I taught my daughter to always be prepared to pay for herself, but it's okay to graciously accept someone's generosity
@@jasmindisney8787 yea I think not wanting to be indebted is a big part of it, theres a subconcious expectation that someone being generous will want something in return.
I will always stand with QT ✋️
QT, I wish you all the best, living with all these thoughts and feelings in your head is exhausting. Will looked extremely concerned about you, not angry. Thanks for the episode, guys.
As a girlie, I’ve felt very uncomfortable with not splitting things in half in relationships,even when the person I’m with makes much more than me.
But I also feel like I’m a burden to people. So maybe that contributes to that feeling.
I’m the same way. I’ve been having similar talks with other girl friends who have their bills paid for and we’re equally baffled at each others situations. Like I would love things just paid for me but I’ve never ever expected that of a partner… but I guess that’s why I’ve never gotten it idk
i agree that you should split, but only if you make similar amounts. If the other person makes 5x or more than you, they should let you save up, and offer to cover for most expenses, especially if you have similar hours and workloads.
edit: fuc the turkish man said the same thing later
i personally think splitting things in half sounds great but ultimately fairness in regards to everybody’s income is the most important thing. if i make less than my s/o, even if i want to pay bills just as much as them, it’d only make sense for me to accept that sometimes they’ll pay a bigger share than me.
My bf and I split things based on percentage of income. If we were to combine income, I would contribute 60%. So I pay for 60% of all bills at the moment.
As a guy, if I could afford everything I wouldn't care to pay for everything, money means nothing in that way. Unfortunately I'm broke and can't afford everything. Lol
I still can't believe we haven't had an episode with Caroline.
QT, as a fellow lady/girlie - get Ludwig to pay for your therapy and do not feel bad for not paying rent. I've been in situations where I have made more than my partner and I paid the rent. Of course, everyone's relationship dynamics are different... but not everyone dates a Ludwig. Regardless, he seems like a provider and thats ok! Let him express that. I get the guilt, but it is a great opportunity to work through that guilt complex, especially with someone you love and someone who is willing to do that for you.
QT you ain’t alone girl, you’re very relatable to a lot of people. I love that you’re here and I hope you stay
QT pays her therapist more then an average 1 year public school teacher in America
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QT: “I have vibes. That’s what I brought this week.”
Hasan: “Yeah. Really BAD vibes.”
Lmaoooooo
there's nothing better than starting your monday with a new ep of the fear& podcast
Allah be praised
Love Will's genuine love and desire to help QT get over her fear of planes.
Don't forget the $10k bet🤣
Awe, Will has such a kind heart 🥹🩵. You can tell he’s the empath of his friend group.
as a queer streamer, I appreciate what you're doing with the award QT and I hope that you stick with it despite what people who don't matter will say
I appreciate Will's ambition to both include QT in whatever they do, and conquer her fear of flying (pls fly QT its worth the trip)
I go to a trauma/EMDR therapist once a week, and I'm finally doing the reprocessing part. It blows my mind that QT's therapist doesn't accept insurance. It's already so hard for folks with trauma and/or PTSD to find EMDR certified therapists.
I have so much hope for my future self during this treatment, and I hope the same positive impact finds QT too.
The silence after QT speaks is crazy
can i get a timestamp?
They got yelled at for interrupting her:)
@@Versace_sheetsno they are malfunctioning at the sheer randomness that is QT
@@ahmetyegenaga7:25 when she starts talking about that song and then it just was quiet. the silence was so loud marsh laughed which was funny
They cannot believe how annoying she is at times. You can see it in their faces. How could anyone listen to her whine and drone on and on and not become either numb to it or insane? Will and Hasan earned their money this episode
Wishing AustinShow a speedy recovery from his tragic self-suck incident
1) I'm 100% here with QT. 2) As an enby I LOVE the Sapphire Award name and meaning. Don't be scared QT to represent us! We greatly appreciate it!!
QT, I pay $15 for my therapy and psychiatrist through my insurance. Girlie you need to go to a girl in network.
Secondly I will forever stand beside QT as her feelings are valid and heard. However I don’t necessarily agree with them all. Some were wild like “I won’t go to Hawaii cuz that’s the first place they’ll bomb”.
she said her therapist practices emdr. not only is emdr certification expensive (therefore most therapists won't bother getting certified, leading to very few emdr therapists in general), finding a therapist is such a drain, and finding a new *emdr* therapist, in network, is like a unicorn. i get why she hasn't. tho she only got health insurance a short while ago after paying for dr visits out of pocket for a long time. she's getting there.
Yeah her therapist seems to be working hard for them prices lmao like painting a blue wall light blue
QT had me at "i just wanna turn that crock-pot on"
this podcast is the closest thing to live improv sitcom
true which is why i love it so much, where for maybe like an april fools thing they should just have the jerry springfield intro and a fake audience and just start it like a normal episode lol.
Trueeee 😭😭😭
FYI QT- you could totally give out sapphires with awards. Man made sapphires are not very expensive and are available in a multitude of colors. Despite not being formed through geological processes, they are identical to mined sapphires.
Watching Hasan and Will go thru the 5 stages of grief over the course of episodes realizing QT will never go on a trip w them is so funny
i think it’s so lovely how inclusive you’re trying to be for the awards qt ❤
Okay but I totally get QT on wanting to pay her “half”. It’s definitely hard for me to accept love/help financially because then I feel as if I have no control. 17:29
QT is being such a girls girl this ep and I’m living for it. I agree 100000% with every take
I can confirm the girlies love QT, I know it will be a banger episode if she's on it
As someone who works in the aerospace industry they are pushing getting these things built and some of the quality and safety standards that we had before Covid have gone to shit.
QT is soooo right about the rent thing. I never want a man to hold that over my head. “Well it’s my house blah blah blah” and that’s on trauma ✨
The difference is that QT is also wealthy. She’s not Ludwig rich, but if it came to it she could go on her own without a problem. Everyone sees it differently but if I was very rich and my partner didn’t have anywhere close to the same income level I would insist on covering something like rent
as a girly I do prefer qt, women supporting women vibes. however sometimes will pulls out this incredible emotional support and vast emotional intelligence and then he's my fav for that like 5 minutes. then the rips his shirt off on stream and I go "nope that's Carolines man I will look away now back to qt"
I just want to say I adore the idea of the sapphire award and I think its really wonderful how sincere QT is in trying to make the streaming world more inclusive.
QT: I have the vibes, thats what I brought.
Hasan: Yea, really bad vibes.
Marche and Will cackling.
This interaction SENT me!!! 💀💀💀
Qt is exactly what we need in fear&. She’s a vital part of the team. She’s super relatable and asks the questions
QT a Queen for dropping that " Well that's too damn bad"
Excuuuuse me
Fear not QT! Us girlies definitely like you more, you are the reason I keep coming back to this podcast ❤
I have a theory on the stanley cup burned out car video. I don't think the noise is ice.
I think its more likely that the inner cup (there for insulation), has come loose due to the heat of the fire, and is rattling.
Great to see Hasan step up and guest host The Austin Show, I hope Hasan gets his own podcast someday.
QT knowing the song from holes let’s me know she’s a real street soldier
Less than 10 minutes in and QT has already made me laugh so hard I couldn't breathe. STANLEY YELNATS!? Shia out there with a hockey stick diggin holes.
NOOO WE CAN'T HAVE AUSTIN SHOW WITHOUT AUSTINSHOW!!!
We absolutely can. Austin always makes every conversation about him and this is actually the first time QT gets to speak at length in a long time.
@@HabituallyObsessed Austin is not the one cutting QT tho. Qt already talked about it before. And that's a podcast about random stuff so he can talk about himself. You're a sore loser.
Oh no what ever will you do, you can't listen to some insane first world problems oh no!
@@HabituallyObsessed the fuck is wrong with you people. Get the fuck out if you don't like episode.
it's WILD that Will doesn't think people have crushes on him with the moustache. I'm LOOOOOOVING this look!! Very 3 musketeers
"Omg QT, I thought by this time you're going to be fixed."
(Audible laugh in the background)
Qt has the most chaotic energy today 😂😂😂 also you’re right, always right, everyone else is wrong here. I support my ladies 😂 🙇🏻♀️
Starting out HOT with that Stanley Cup retake, so good 😂😂😂
Hasan getting interrupted by Will for like 3 minutes straight was so funny.
QT THE GIRLIES WILL ALWAYS STAND WITH YOU 🫡
QT explaining her flying situation is something I could clip and show to my husband to explain why I don't like flying.. bc she was able to articulate it and I can't lol
I also feel uncomfortable not splitting the rent with someone equally... buuuut I've also never dated anyone rich, and I think that's what really changes things. When you're on an equal playing field in finance, it makes sense, but otherwise, no. Also, QT said the girlies might not side with her bc they have crushes on the guys but the bi's have crushes on the entire cast
I feel this so much! Like I personally feel weird not "contributing my fair share" bills. But also I felt really bad for Qt when she said she may have to reduce her therapy because it's too expensive... Like that sucks so much as is, but also knowing how much money Lud makes its like... idk I feel like 4 years is definitely long enough to start helping your partner with medical stuff right?...
@@unculturedsoup Oh for sure, it's super complicated because I know I'm the same type, BUT I also if I was the one making more money I'd definitely want to pitch in for my significant other, especially because I've been in places where I couldn't afford any mental health and had to cut back. It's really all just from being poor and not wanting hand outs, or to be a burden, and owe someone back. People don't really realize the trauma from not having enough money and it takes a long time to get over it even if you're out of the situation :/
Hasan- “Don’t show it on camera”
Will- “I won’t”
March- proceeds to cut to the camera pointed at wills phone 🤣🤣🤣
Ikr.. lol, i think March was trying to make a joke.
I’m sad Austin said he won’t be making cruise content because it would be so entertaining but I understand the need for a break and I’m excited for the cruise stories on the pod
Qt being an energy vampire in this episode is so relatable, I’m just 15 minutes in lol
QT talking about not going on roller coasters reminds me of that time on stream when she accidentally bit Austin out of panic on the Jurassic Park water ride because he was trying to comfort her 😅🤣
QT’s energy is something else in this episode
Hasan's soul got crushed within 1 minute lmfaoo
great episode. lots of great QTCinderella moments. also i really love this hair on Will Neff. uhhh when qt thought that will was mad at her i really felt her in that moment. hope she can get on the plane 🙏
also i think that the award is awesome and qt asking trans and nonbinary folk about the category shows that there is absolutely no malicious intent. she should get a sapphire though with ludwig's money
Yeah, in a relationship it personally feels uncomfortable to not contribute to payments even when the person makes significantly more than you. I feel this, QT.
Someone needed to say it :/ Jeremy Allen White is a butterface. Thank you for your service, Hasan. Your voice was needed, we are a small but loud minority.
As a queer dude, I couldn’t agree with you more. Butterface with no belly button, I’ll pass. Replace his face& add belly button & then I’d change my mind
LMAO hasan could’ve wagered his life on qt being a stanley cup stan
All the girlies standing with qt ✊
fascinating energy in this ep i did love
qt saying her trad wife thing is a phase and next week she’ll want to be a race car driver was so fucking funny, she is for the girls
this ep is a mix of QT gaslighting Will and Hasan and vice versa with Will and Hasan gaslighting QT LOL
you don't have to repeat it after saying "vice versa", that phrase literally implies the next thing you commented
The only thing I love more than a new Fear& episode each Monday are the episodes where QT is all over the damn place.
God damn, Will and Hasan are such Charlie/Mac that I can't unsee it. I mean Austin would be the best Dennis of the bunch
More like charlie = sustin mac = will and dennis =hassn
@@thedon7487and viewers/chat is Danny Devito 😂
Charlie and Mac are demonstrably horrible people... I think Hasan and Will are a lot more ethical!
don’t worry qt, i’m a girl and i have a crush on yall 4 but you’re still my favorite member of fear& 😤😤
SAID “what a good joke omg” OUT LOUD TO MYSELF AT STANLEY YELNATS
as a girlie i stand with QT always
QT was on fire this episode. I love her so much.
some of my favorite parts of the podcast is when QT gets to talk uninterrupted, amazing episode
Will got a lot of patience when it comes to talking to qt about planes lmao
I’d more so call it persistence 🤣 lmao he seems a little impatient that she won’t just agree to get on a plane but it’s very sweet how dedicated he is to wanting her on the trips
the ‘are you mad at me be honest i think you’re mad at me’ is so relatable
I can understand how QT feels uncomfortable not splitting things 50/50 since she came from humble beginnings but when you're in a relationship and one person earns a significant amount more, it's totally fine to contribute in other ways. People in Section 8 housing pay less because they make less. Subsidized contribution.
Asking people not to yell at you on the internet is a surefire way to get people to yell at you
I love that you used the newly released from copyright Mickey footage in the opening. It didn't go unnoticed 😉
This ep made me realize I thought I didn't like QT but I actually do because she is good at voicing the opinions I never do. Fear + existential crisis today
one minute in and QT is already carrying im so obsessed with her
24:44 qt.. girl,.. i audibly said “what” to myself 💀 i don’t know if i can back you on that one lmao
God I love QT 😂 She really unleashed her crazy this episode and I love it so much.
Will will be so devistated when he finds out the same trans woman won the sapphire and big nuts award
Damn QT is on a ROLL this episode, hell yeah
I knew that QT wouldn't give one shit about the Stanley cups and when she said that the toxic parasocial part of my brain was like "ahh yes i do know what she likes better than her real life friend and coworker 😌" LMAO
Not trying to promote my brand so I wont say the name of it but I am a first generation Jeweler and a huge fan of the pod. I think Will's idea of getting the winner of the sapphire award a sappire is a really cool idea and it isnt as much money as QT thinks I could make a very nice pendant for a very good price.
56:19 Kaya our fluffy princess appearance
QT needs to star advocating for high speed trains across the country so she can travel SOMEWHERE lol
when she sang the bridge from cruel summer, I did the “whoa”, and then she was like you guys need to learn the “woah” lmaoo