Dad pays $5600 monthly child support but Mom continues litigation to try and increase the support
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Dad makes 90K a year at trucking business but Mom claims he make $5 million per year child support
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- hearing on defendants Objection to childcare charges
- upward deviation child support
- itemization of exactly how this child support is being spent
* Dad recently purchased a million dollar house but Mom had to sell the marital home that she was awarded so that she can support these children
* Dad pays $5600 an upward deviation but Mom continues litigation in a attempt to further increase the child support obligation
Dad makes at least 4 times as much as Mom
Dad recently purchased a million dollar house
Child care expenses fraudulent
claim that the charges themselves are fraudulent in some way
itemization of exactlyhow this child support is being spent
Dad recently purchased a million dollar house
Mom had to sell the marital home that she was awarded so that she can support these children
cost of litigations
why childcare is needed in the first place here
working from home
this entire litigation is a attempt to increase the child support obligation
hearing on defendants objection to childcare charges
hearing via zoom
provisions in the judgment of divorce
order that if either party is unable to parent during his or her parenting time and that inability includes six hours or more the other parent will have the right of first refusal to parent
upward deviation child support
increases for child care costs
childcare reimbursement
Dad can provide childcare to these minor children
itemization of exactly how this child support is being spent
She’s getting nearly $70,000 a year in child support and claims it isn’t enough?! That’s preposterous
She's getting the equivalent of a decent job. Most people don't ever see that amount in their careers. She is unbelievably lucky and should show gratitude, yet here she is wanting more. Ridiculous!!
you both are wrong you forget one huge detail about this.... that child support....IS TAX FREE. shes making 5600 a month tax free. the rest of us would have to pull what 8-9k a month to clear 5600? this woman is just mad that she can no longer use him as a bank.
@@AzraelRizing plus her own income.
70k tax free, thats the equivalent of job making about $110k per year.
@@AzraelRizing try more like 12k a month
These women are using their children as a cash grab. Disgusting!
If I may kindly correct your spelling as I just want to help you out.... its disGusting, not disCusting 😊
@@littlebobas9656, sorry to disappoint the grammar police but there are no capital letters in the word. Have a nice day.
@@rushfan9thcmd That depends I suppose. I see your comment is meant to be snarky and mean where mine was genuinely meant to help the guy correct his spelling of a commonly used word. But hey, you do you if it helps you sleep better 😉
@@littlebobas9656 no different. You went out of your way to correct and got it wrong. Just trying to help you get it right. Sounds like a you problem.
@@littlebobas9656how a purson spelts wurds is nun uf yore business. Yu knoo whut he ment, no need to currect enywon.
They are claiming that a Mom with a nanny that works from home is busier than a Doctor. Just let that sink in.
Lots of women believe they're stronger, braver, and more valuable than men in the workplace. This lady is an administrator, working from home, making over $100K, plus $70K in child support, who just sold a paid for home for over $1 million. Zero wonder why she's divorced. Not letting the kids see their grandparents because she's vindictive. She's not a good person.
She is just bitter and wants more money. I cannot fathom the argumentation: you have the kids as part of your parenting time but need the father to pay for the childcare cost? Totally bizzare.
@@floschroeter its ok , her body is giving up on her ( no woman with that much help SHOULD BE THAT RUN DOWN LOOKING)
For a 10 and 12 year old 😳
Wait she wants him to pay but have NO say 😂😂😂
If she can't support children with $5,600 a month and lost her home, she should forfeit custody to the father.
That my thought.
She also works lol
Mom should also put aside $5,600 from her income giving $11,200 per month otherwise she is basically paying nothing towards her children's expenses.
The home she sold was sold in order to afford her lawyer. 😂😂
@@deniseeugene1852 'Works' a wildly misused term.😂
So bottom line is she’s pissed he just bought a beautiful $1,000,000 home
the best for me was that she's a remote csr for blue cross blue shield, they made it sound like so much more. I once went to training for this because the corp office is in my city, and the trainer came in every day for a week at least an hour late, or much more, couldnt take it more than the first week, she was daft. the job description was like what the lawyer said, but it wasnt at all if they are this nonchalant about the important parts of training.
Saying it like Stone Cold Austin: "AND THAT'S THE BOTTOM LINE".
Men are waking up to the fraud and risks of marriage. Only a moron would enter into a contract which one party is rewarded for breaking it.
Right she's jealous
Boy she sure tried to make her data entry job sound fkn hardcore with 20k people relying on her, you mean her data entries
I’m an adult with a 400k mortgage and I don’t even spend 5600 a month on bills. No child costs that much.
I know. That’s $67,200 a year.
But some ex wifes do apparantly😅
IKR? How the heck much is the nanny getting paid for 3 days a week. And if you trust your older child to take care of other people's children, why can't they take care of your own?
Do they understand 5600 is 180 a day? How is that not enough for two kids
I have 7 people in my house and we pay a mortgage and we don’t even make close to that much.
The lawyer admitted that the house was sold to pay lawyer fees. If she stopped bringing frivolous motions - she would still have the house.
I'm pretty sure lawyer fees are either paid by the one that makes more or absorbed. Child support cases are done with free court appointed case worker with no charge to her
Now maybe a lawyer to get half his shit i can see
She makes over 12k per month she can pay a lawyer just fine. She sold her home to upgrade
Lawyer fees in some states are sometimes paid by the party bringing the issue, especially if they’re wasting to courts time.
@@roeweathers
From personal experience, although the court can appoint a free attorney, as is done in every court including family court, where child support and custody cases are heard, litigants can opt to hire their own personal attorney.
(SIGH) 🙄 This B!TCH was “awarded the house” _PLUS_ she gets $5600 a month! She pays NO rent! And if she sold the house she has PLENTY of money from the sale proceeds …unless she has an expensive DRUG ADDICTION that she is feeding! The judge should REDUCE what she is receiving and simply _FOLLOW THE COURTS ORDER ON THE DIVORCE!_
That means that _”neither party may seek to revisit the settlement payments till 2025!”_ It also states that if money becomes an issue the _”other parent has first right of refusal to provide the childcare if it is needed!”_
This hearing should have ENDED the moment Dr Krulls attorney presented these two FACTS and COURT ORDERS from the divorce court! There is NOTHING more to talk about today!
If you can’t feed your kids on $67k per year child support then you’re being a horrible mother and financially irresponsible.
Guaranteed she is using the money on herself. Because what she isn't saying her is that in addition to child support she would be getting spousal maintenance given that her income is less than his. She's so selfish. Whining because she had to sell a million dollar home. Unreal.
That’s straight cash, no taxes taken out. That’s on the same level as someone who earns 100k per year gross.
Not to mention tax free.
and the mortgage of her house was paid. she didn't have rent or a mortgage. so that 70k yeah, this is the problem with no fault divorce. It pays women a full-time wage to divorce.... I know a woman getting 30k a year and another getting 70k in florida
She pays $12k in school tuition a year. That would give her an extra grand every month.
She sold the marital home, which she owned, because her paycheck and $5.6k per month can't cover expenses. Make it make sense.
I hope when she sold it she gave half the profit to him
One word…GREED!
I bet the house she was awarded was also worth $1 million and clear and free since her lawyer didn't mention any debt service. Now he needs somewhere to lay his head and they're trying to take that too!
And it's on top of what she makes at her job, which as an executive at BCBS is a good amount.
@@Hunee-I can think of a better word but I don’t want to get flagged. The wife is a word that rhymes with runt.
If she can't take care of kids with $5,000 per month when she's working AND living in a home that's paid for, custody needs to be given to the father
TRUE ALL DAY
Gosh, when those kids leave the house the mother will be living in a double wide. How much is her lawyer charging the father?
I will never understand this concept
Men need to get a vasectomy so this doesn’t happen to them
Exactly!! That's ridiculous!!
She gets more in child support than most people's salary in the US. No child needs $5,600 a month and if they do there is something wrong with the parent.
Or they have serious medical conditions yet that wasn't seeming to be the case here, this man is getting what looks like scammed big time, IMO baring any conditions or out of the norm expenses no child support should be over 1500 a month UNLESS both parties agree to such.... as realistically a kid is going to need maybe 600-1000 in direct expense per month as the rest is there anyhow, though I'm a bit shocked he'd let this level of support be given in the first place, sure they give the number based on incomes though it's not set in stone and can be fought against to lower them to reasonable amounts.... that being said the fact this woman has the audacity to ask for more money is unreal, I hope they get a full banking history and payment rundown on where this money is actually going as there is NO SHOT they're using anywhere near that payment each month on the kid EVEN if they went to some extremely high class privet school and did all the extra shit it's not coming close to 5600.
only two children and she works. It seems like a lot of money?
I live in Australia so don't know if it might be low or normal in the US??
Are nannies expensive?
@@katel7309she’s trying to live off of the child support and probably buy a bigger more expensive home and car most likely.
There are formulas to calculate the child support for one or more kids. The amount a kid costs in a household are based on what an intact family would spend a year. This is then averaged for the year and the total costs is divided by the number of people in the home. The costs of a kid = cost for adult in this calculation. In general support for one child is around 14% of gross income. Each additional kid has a multiplier to that.
There are many flaws to the study used by governments to assign child support. It ignores that single parent homes do not spend the same as the intact family used to calculate costs for kids.
The formula are weighted to account for the difference of income between both households to ensure the kids have a similar standard of living in both homes (that the lower income earner can spend big bucks on the kids that they would get from the house with the higher income earner).
Yes they are stupid laws that reward someone who chose a low income career and marry someone who makes a lot more. The lower income spouse becomes another kid that the higher income parent has to pay for because the amount of support money is far more than the higher income earner would ever spend on their kid under their care.
The only way to get these laws changed is to attack the government who made the laws to get them to change those laws. Child support payment laws were made at a time when most women didn’t work. It’s a lot different world nowadays and the amount of bitter women who want a huge windfall in support payments is because they know they didn’t work hard enough to provide for the kids the same way they had when they were married.
His contribution is $5600. What is hers? 50/50 split. She is on the hook for raising her kids as well. $100 says this greedy chick filed for divorce.
“Historical refusal to contribute” meanwhile he’s paying more in child support than most people make a month.
Child support needs to be paid to a special bank account and bills forwarded there. Mom's nails and hair are not child support.
Amen!!!!
Build the infrastructure for that and become a millionaire.
@@MyLibertyTV Simple your account only approves transactions to pre approved companies. I actually just wrote what the OP in this thread suggested also. Car payments/ cash withdrawals etc would not be possible.
It's coming sooner than you think.
@@MyLibertyTV it would take legislative changes to make that happen. That's legislative changes that would put a lot of people out of a job. Many people don't realize just how much wasted money there is in the family law system.
You're divorced u can't continue to expect your ex to pay for your life !
Well that’s what they do while running around sleeping with random guys at bars and ubar drivers.
That’s exactly what her ex is doing
Sadly, this is the reality.
yes but thats the reality men live in
The nanny is a child-related expense, not a mom-related expense.
The children’s quality of life shouldn’t suffer just because the adults couldn’t get their shit together.
"The fact that we are here arguing over $392 a month - I'm shocked"
No, what's shocking is that he is paying her over 5k a month and yet she still feels she needs more
She wants to live the old pre divorce lifestyle.... what a gold digger
That's the one that struck me-"It's ONLY $392 a month".......ON TOP OF $5300?!?!?!?!?!?!
@@JeffPutchinski Even ignoring the already wildly extravagant child support, $392 a month is legitimately life changing or life ending amounts of money for many people. $392 is *never* a small amount, especially not on a monthly basis.
She's greedy. She chose divorce, deal with it. You left your former life, get over it.
Yet she was bringing up an $80 medical bill that she thought he needed to pay outside of the child support 😂
SHE WORKS FROM HOME ! THE CHILDREN ARE 10 AND 12 , ABLE GO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES ! $ 5,400 PER MONTH IS MORE THAN ENOUGH ! SHE SOLD THE HOME SHE GOT IN THE DIVORCE = THAT'S HER PROBLEM ! THERE IS NO NEED FOR A MAID / NANNY = THAT BS
Exactly!!!
So her attorney argued to use child care for five days a week while the mother worked, then back tracked when asked if the grandmother could babysit and said she was only needed three days a week. Then the attorney pretty well fessed up and said she needs this money for attorney fees. What a joke.
and said they didn't use the grandmother because she would charge them? so you'd rather pay a nanny? 🤔
Emily is a Senior Healthcare Analyst in Michigan which averages 100k+ per year, in addition to the ~$70k per year she gets in child support. The house she sold was 100% paid off, sold for a million, and was entirely hers as part of the divorce. I saw a previous hearing where she complained about the same medical expenses, childcare, and private school expenses which is why the child support was increased from ~$3900 to ~$5600 per month. Now her attorneys are using the same arguments to attempt to increase it further. I also find it interesting that her attorney is allowed to blatantly lie to the court by stating the mother is the sole financial support and the father contributes nothing. Apparently the $5600 doesn't count as contributing. That father pays more per month in child care than I make before taxes and I comfortably support a family of 4, have no debt, and own my home. My kids are also 10 and 12, and they basically take care of themselves. There is absolutely no reason why they can't look after themselves while she sits at her desk in the same home and leave her alone. My kids cook, do the dishes, sweep, vacuum, clean their rooms, clean the bathroom, and do their own laundry. She needs to fire the nanny, put them in public school, stop wasting her money on frivolous court battles, and grow up.
The thing is, what kid goes to the doctor every day apparently the kids are in good health, this is ludicrous
SPOT ON!! FACTS!!
I'd love to see any other hearings with these 2
Exactly.
Her children are no doubt spoiled, look who they are being raised by.
I’m sure the nanny caters to their every whim, and they have ZERO chores.
EXACTLY!!!! INSANE!!
The mom is just mad he moved on with his life and she didn't completely financially ruin him. He has shown that he is happy without her and it is driving her nuts.
He wouldn’t even be a doctor today if his wife hadn’t supported his mid-life career change, quitting his job, going back to school, bringing no money in for years while in school, doing no child-raising because he didn’t have time due to school.
All while mom continued working full-time, being the sole provider, picking up his slack from the income they lost when he quit his job, and being the primary parent.
@@cc99556This is obviously a misuse of the justice system to take money from him. So what all of those things she did that she agreed to. She gets almost 70k tax free from him at this point per year. Life is hard and she made the decision to leave. She needs to move on, he is not her meal ticket.
@@cc99556that’s something you have to work through if you are married and your partner wants to change careers. Guarantee she didn’t mind since she knew money was going to flow in after. But if they divorced then that’s that. Only tied because of the kids. And that 5600 is more than enough to live off of.
really? wow.. you are right. she made SO many sacrifices like.. ya know.. having a job and doing things 85% of other adults do. I guess the school should have just given her the medical degree instead... i mean.. it was solely because of her that he is successful so she MUST be entitled to some of those earnings.. Right? I like how you defended her actions while completely ignoring the fact she just openly admitted to the judge that the child support isn't being used for it's intended purpose. Just look at her facial expressions.. she is bitter. plain and simple. That and she can't even stop playing with her phone when the judge is talking.
@@cc99556either you are the mom herself or someone that knows her…
We see through you!
😂😂😂
Tell the Gold Digger to get a job and get ready to lose BOTH kids once they ask to move in w Dad in the next few years…
😂😂😂
The courts need to start holding these woman accountable...almost 70k a year..and the kids are 10 n 12...GTFOH!!! Her lawyer doesn't even want to represent her!
She had better bring some evidence that a 10 and 12yr old NEED a nanny. Unless those children have developmental delays a nanny is ridiculous!
She could pay the 12 year old an allowance to babysit. Teach the child some financial responsibility and save money on childcare.
People with money shouldn’t force their children to babysit themselves and stay at home all summer. Just because poor people do so, it’s not okay when you have a choice.
ur rich or your husbands rich which one?@@unapologeticallyamy9031
@@unapologeticallyamy9031 poor people dont only do this... its also a aspect of parents teaching responsibility which if you havent noticed.... is quite rare. Its the literal reason channels like this exist. These are the what the people become when raised without forcing them to do anything as kids. They grow up to feel the same as the adults we see on this channel, which is why court orders get broken, kids get kidnapped from custodial parents, child support is ignored.... all because they were never taught what a obligation of responsibility was. So when they are adults they thing if life isnt play time then they just quit or ignore it.
Also rich parents on both sides that is USUALLY make the kids do babysitting or other labors of the house. Why? because when you make good money on both sides of the parents you know play time can wait since they played for over a decade already and adult hood is coming up. Every wealthy client I had always made their kids work hard because they know what it took to be able to give them everything they had. Its a reason you dont see overwhelming amounts of rich people in child support or family court drama. The way they are raised is usually influenced by this "force" of babysitting and other chores.
A 10 and 12 year old definitely need supervision. They also need meals, and transportation.
She's using the kids child support as a pseudo alimony.
Bingo!
Been doing that since alimony was done away with decades ago.
THEY ALL DO!
Exactly
Correct alimony would never be adjusted, so she is trying to get an increase during child support court, where the mother typically has the advantage.
He's a neurosurgeon. He cuts into your BRAIN. The wife "shaming" him for making "4 times what she makes and just bought himself a million dollar home" is pathetic. HE CUTS YOUR BRAIN OPEN! I assure you his job is harder and 50000000 times more STRESSFUL than her job of talking on the PHONE all day, AT HOME, to Blue Cross/Blue Shield. Get over yourself
He's a dentist
@user-kh7kt5km8f I swear to you this guy was a neurosurgeon 🤣 there is another doctor then who has a similar story whose case I just watched. I coulda sworn it was this guy my bad
Dentist you can literally google him. Traverse City, Mi
@@user-kh7kt5km8f You are correct. If you look him up on the internet, he is a dentist at Harborside Dental in Traverse City Michigan.
She's jealous of the new house. Loved when her lawyer stated she was asking for more money so she could go after him for more money.
She works. Gets $5600 a month in child support. And needs more? So so greedy
thats an extra 100K a year before taxes.. like wtf are you doing.
She's receiving 67.200.00 a year. How is that she can't afford cellphone bill? This is child support, not alimony
Thats take home too.
Basically, it is a separate $100k+ job. She should really have just stfu and gone about her life.
My cell phone bill is $100 a YEAR!
Do a ten year old and twelve year old really need to have cell phones? I grew up fine without one.
@@JosephSullivan1979 Nowadays, it may be necessary to keep in touch because of all the activities that are necessary to get into college. A teen needs to have a 4.5 gpa, be class president and start a business at 12 years old. Its ridiculous the hoops teens have to do to get into a top tier college.
And she sold the house that was "awarded" to her for $1.59 million 🙃
She sold the house for 1.5 million where did that assessment come from I didn't see that That's crazy yeah she's wanting to get money she's wanting alimony.
If he's financially paying more than she makes and he's supporting the children considerably more than she is she can't live off of his support and what she makes a month that's ridiculous it's a money grab Gold digger
She doesn't want him to have any more days of child custody cuz that means she would lose child support so that's against what she wants she wants more money not less.
@@bjstevenson72true, my husband went through that with her ex and still talk shit about him to the kids.
@@bjstevenson72 Exactly she only has the kids for 5 days so if he can get 1 or 2 more days that means that he no longer has to pay 5000 because then it is 50/50. For him it is clever because he could pay for a nanny for 1 or 2 days himself or get his mother which would be way cheaper.
She's "shocked that they are arguing about $392/month", but that didn't stop her from arguing, right?
I'd be falling over in shock if I knew what that lawer was charging her. Crazy to even think of it. Lol🎉
Let's not forget she brought up an 80$ debt after not believing he's arguing for 300$....wild!!!
I literally get that much for an entire month in child support lol. $2,500+ must be nice lol
Yeah her attorney was horrible and this is petty. I can’t wait until that 12yo turns 18 and HE needs to request an adjustment when the youngest turns 13 there is no nanny at 13
This is the start of her process of nickel and diming him for the foreseeable future. Basically what she would do is to try to get these “small” adjustments every year or so. $400 this year, then another $300 the next year, then another $500 the following year and so on. It would never stop.
One look in her walk-in closet will tell you what he's being extorted to pay for.
She gets $5600 a month and is waiting for $80 for volleyball camp? Absolutely not, this is ridiculous unless one of the kids has severe medical issues that require around the clock care.
The money mom makes from her job is apparently all for herself and dad should be supporting the children financially 100% 🙄
This is crazy
I can truly understand why this woman was unable to make her marriage successful.
Plus he has to take off work to be present.
Can’t leave out that she signed the court order stating she would not ask for more money until 2025. It sounds like she is too busy keeping track of his life to enjoy her own, he’s not behind on support what does his new house have to do with anything…
Buying a million dollar home doesn’t mean it’s paid for. It means his credit is that good
A million dollar home in CA is a 1500 sqft home in NorCal. so it's really nothing. Not sure where they live but it's nothing where I am at.
@@emeraldphotography7363 Straight up, I live in Novato and my parents left me their house in San Rafael and its only 2700 Sq ft but I sold it for 2.6 million. Real estate out here is ridiculous.
Also, a 1M dollar home isn't some extravagant mansion in 2024
Him being a neurosurgeon and only buying a million dollar home, he probably paid cash for it. That doesn’t really have anything to do with the case though. It’s really not that relevant. $5600 for 2 children is insane.
Thats what I don’t understand with people. It is a mortgage, because buying a home in cash is basically the dumbest thing that you can do. The marital home was apparently paid off and she won it in the divorce, meaning that he didn’t have a separate residence. That new home is his new and only residence.
Paying over $5000 a month is NOT a refusal to contribute. That’s insane!!!!
People lie in court all the time. Court favor “victim” even if we all know there lying.
Why does she work for a health insurance company but her kids dont have insurance
The kids have healthcare, she was itemizing she pays it separately.
if u need a full-time nanny and 5300 in child support a month, u shouldn't b a mother, nor should u have full custody of any kids
Maybe you shouldn’t be an absent father not covering all the bills voluntarily?
@@chrlpolk why in tf would u think the father is required to pay for all the bills for a house he doesnt live in. if she cant afford it then the father needs custody. no one need 5300 a month to raise a child. the entitlement is wild
Bingo!
Seems like dad needs sole custody if she isn’t able to budget that amount of money. She’s making herself look so bitter
The money is for the state.
Dr. Krull should sue for custody and leave her to pay support.
He is. That’s the new child custody review agreement. She’s coming for one last hurrah to get free money and she fucked up cause she just made an evidentiary hearing where he’s going to blow her out of the water.
She’ll be bankrupt by the end of this for being so toxic.
I did the same job she did for BCBS in the early 2000s. I made $3500 per month. I'm a single mother. I paid for my house,bought a car,put food on the table,homeschooled my kids,helped with homework,cleaned the house,cut the grass,traveled with kid, volunteered in the community with the kids,took the kids to sporting activities. I made it. $3500 a month not $5000 child support and her income (she making $8-10k a month) . If I had received $5k in child support it would have been split 50/50 and placed in an account for each child.
You are a Smart Woman, wish all Women were like you
Well the difference is you love your kids the women in the video sees her children as a source of income. Huge difference in motivations. Also this is the reason men like me avoid relationships and marriage.
Well the difference is you love your children. This woman sees them as a source of income.
I laughed so fucking hard at the lawyer trying to say she had an important job. It took me 5 seconds to realize she's just a customer service rep.
At Verizon right?
That’s it, she is a customer service advocate , account advocate or a marketing rep. She is replaceable at Bcbs.
@@Letsdolunch2023hey I'm a rep the job is stressful, but mom is being super greedy
VERY inappropriate for the PVP Guest-Emily Krull to be nodding her head, facial expressions. She need to be a guest and show no emotion or expression for either side. I would not allow her on any future court hearings because her inability to show composure and being able to restrain herself. I am surprised the judge does not say anything to her head nodding, and facial disgust when she does not like what she hears. I hope her future endeavors is to be a judge or lawyer. About the child care, another chikd/sibling should not be required to take care of another child. They need ti be allowed to be a child and be given a responsibility to be a child caregiver. Geez, that lawyer in my opinion is a jerk and the Dad should be saying something about expecting his daughter to work as a caregiver.
@@Letsdolunch2023Blue Shield
She had to sell her home because she’s miss managing HER money, what that got to do with HIM?
The home was paid off. She just couldn’t manage it or just wanted to downsize. She won it in the divorce and was able to collect all of the proceeds from that sale. Despite this, she wants him to continue to maintain the lifestyle that she wanted to live.
@@Godsbackhand7she should have stayed in the marriage. She wants her cake and eat it too.
@@Godsbackhand7 likely the maintenance costs, upkeep and repairs were too much … then the property taxes on top. Easier for women to rent.
Plus, if she has a paid up home, she can’t claim housing for the kids … so, by selling her home, and renting - she wants to add extra maintenance costs on
At 10 and 12, they're at school the majority of the day. What child care is she paying for?
Obviously any time the kids are home. While she dies God knows what
Well she does need time to dye her hair, have her nails done, go to the gym and take trips.
Lol a summer nanny while parents are at work.. 5:00
sounds like a fulltime nanny too, so she is really a housekeeper for the plaintiff. Bet she cooks meals too.
Embezzling through the nanny shes knows for over 7 years. Her best friend probably.
12 year old needs a nanny?
If she can't raise 2 kids of $5k per month, it's 'cause she doesn't want to! I smell a vindictive gold digger, that can't stand the idea that her EX is doing well without her.
Well, she has her so called DEMANDING job that should pay 100,000 or more on top of that.
More to the point has likely got himself another partner and is moving on with his life, that nearly always stings the ex!
No it's the private school that's costs so much. Sounds like it's been 2000 per child per month during their marriage.
@@AM.000 They said 12,000 per year for both, which sounds accurate and reasonable (for private school). That leaves her 53,000 (4,500/mo) for the rest of the year for expenses. They're in private school for about 8 months out of the year and could use supervision the other 4 months of the year. They only need supervision M-Th since the dad is available on Fridays, even less since the grandmother can watch them, also. Supervising children that can, realistically, take care of themselves should not be more than 100/wk per child or 800/mo or 2,400 for the year. Not to mention, the mom works from home and can easily supervise them that way, or by phone if they are out of the house.
Phone plan is maybe 100/mo per child, food is maybe 300/mo per child. She now has 3,400/mo to spoil the children
$5600 a month is $67,200 a year. She can't manage to make that work? A lot of families make less than that and make it work.
And she makes $90,000 a year. Geez...
Tax free as well
It's more if you factor in the tax benefits she gets..
She wants the same lifestyle she had when she was married but without a husband 🤷🏾♂️
5600 is almost the nanny salary in Seattle
Nanny watching a 10 and 12 year old while she works from home. What a joke.
Imagine becoming a successful doctor and then blowing your life up with a poor choice in marriage and paying all that money out for decades.
This is why men are walking away
no fault divorce is the problem. the man can do nothing wrong and if she decides to walk for any reason, it's his burden. sounds like she had 70k a year reasons to walk
We don't need imagination.
This is why. There should be a law for child support to be itemized where is the money going. There is no way all that money is going to the kids.
My daughter is 18 now but years ago I was voluntarily paying about 1000 a month with no court order. Never been to court for child support. Her mom said our daughter had a field trip to DC that was gonna cost 400 and wanted to know if I'd pay for it. I've always been generous with my money so I said no problem and just paid 2000 a month for 5 months just to help her mom get caught up on things and even sent 3000 the month of Christmas. Then February rolls around and she texted me asking if I was ever gonna send the 400 for the field trip. I was like "wtf???". I immediately told her I sent extra money that could have paid for that and she got an attitude with me. Then 2 months later I got notified of child support court. She thought if I could pay her 2000 a month then a court would order me to keep paying it. Funny thing the court ordered me to pay 550 a month. So she got way less than what I was already giving her.
(This edit is 3 months later, I know shtty women exist. My daughter's mom may have stepped over the line in this instance but she's a good mom. I don't wish any hate or derogatory comments towards her.)
😂😂😂 good for you
You sound just like me
Never give away the money. Make them earn it further if you take care of the child most of the time she isn't entitled to anything.
Must be through the court, many took the cash until kid is 18 and filed for back child support for all 18 years in lump sum.
Something very similar happened to another “mother” I know. 😂
If she wanted to keep spending all of his money on herself she should have stayed married. She is jealous of a home he just bought when he has worked his entire career to get to this point. $5,600 a month and she can't figure that out? Get another job or switch jobs lady and stop holding your hand out!
Exactly. Guarantee to pushed for divorce, like most
Exactly! You make choices that come with consequences!
Bingo. The system encourages women to divorce their husbands. The more ex's they have, the more money they can extract from them.
It's killed marriage in the US.
She has a job as a nurse, she makes 6 figures on her own, 🤨
You have no idea why they divorced.
WHERE IS $ 5, 000 A MONTH GOING AND WHERE IS HER MONEY GOING ? SHE CAN'T AFFORD THESE CHILDREN , THEN SHE IS UNFIT FINANCIALLY ! ! !
Okay. The Mothers lawyer is annoying as heck!!!!
she’s a divorce lawyer for a reason 😂
She looks high, delusional and broke just like the client she represents 😆😆😆
“Not his choice to dictate who watches the girls on her parenting time” yet she wants him to pay for it.
exactly. people are crazy. this is why i didnt have kids. nope nope nope.
He’s the father and he decided to relinquish physical custody to the mother. So his children are the ones who get the short end of the stick. Why does he not want to provide his CHILDREN with the lifestyle they’d have if they lived with him?
@@nb-user25 the children get over $67,000 per year; that’s more than enough private school, activities and insurance. I’m sure dad also provides for the kids during his parenting time. The ex is just bitter, she had to sell the home she got to keep in the divorce (aka, level down) while he purchased a new million dollar home (aka, leveled up).
@NorthBayFCT Why should he pay for her lifestyle? If she was to get an increased she would use it on herself.
Why does she need a nanny?
So the tuition, the laptops, the phones, the nanny, clothing, etc the mother pays.....so what exactly is she blowing $5,400.month on ??? Are two kids 10/12 years old eating $5,400 worth of FOOD every month ??
That list her attorney gave tacitly admits she's NOT spending the child support ON THE CHILDREN !
Right. I don’t understand why his lawyer isn’t laying into this. He said how much he’s paying ONCE and not ever again. It’s so ridiculous
Kids could be paying a mortgage, bills, and food for that much per month lol.
That's obvious. The blood sucking predator of an ex wife. Is just looking for more money
@@mouchy123: Interesting enough, in the Caribbean a Dad did just thiS, when his daughter turn 18, paid rent for a 2bedroom apartment for her and 3 other brothers, youngest two wasn't home, grocery, utilities and the works, within days the mom moved in with the kids...he didn't care, paid the bills and what, never giving her a dime anymore to take care the kids.
That’s what it’s for. The house and bills are for them.
She get almost 6k a month. Her kids are 10 & 12. Like what are we talking about.. this is crazy.
So she had a paid off house. He gives her 70k a year. But he doesnt take care of his children 😅😅😅😅😅
the house was worth 1.5 million apparently
She's trying to get the child support increased as a way of covertly changing it to alimony! So what he earns $$$, as long as he covers the child's needs that's all that matters and I get the feeling this is really all about petty jealousy and greed on the mother's part!
$5600 is alimony. Kids don't cost that amount to raise.
It already is alimony. Men need to push for universal childcare fee per month. No means testing.
She is one of the most vil:e women I witnessed, unfortunately there are many even worse. Men, these days, you would be foolish to get married. She will destroy your life sooner or later.
She wants to live the same lifestyle as her ex. Unfortunately, that's not how life is. She agreed to the divorce agreements. She needs to deal with it
100%.. America's divorce and family court is ridiculous..
I bet she is the one that wanted the divorce too.
And that whole lifestyle argument is so ridiculous. In many cases they were only ever able to live that lifestyle because of their husbands. Its not like they lived it before because of their family or something. Why tf should they get to continue living it when in most cases they decided to leave?
5600 dollars a month in child support is insane.
If she needs that much money to support the children, then she needs to give up custody completely to the father.
And that's what's gonnah happened in the end, and she will go back to 35 k average income. In the end
She won’t, because she doesn’t want to lose that tasty tax-free income. What will actually likely happen is that he will get 50% custody and will get child support reduced by probably half. He will then use his portion to cover a nanny if HE wants at his home. She will get an apartment and just have to be happy with that decision.
I’m kinda confused here. All of the things this ladies lawyer is listing off should be covered by the $5,000 a month he is paying in child support. She is double dipping here.
True for some stuff, not for others it depends on the order. Add-ons like child care & medical out of pocket are typically extra. If you noticed she expected dad to help pay for a nanny while he was available to watch he kids and that didn't sit well with the judge after dad spoke up saying he was available on Fridays. Right after that the judge reworded the dad's lawyer's request as a continuance pending an evidentiary hearing on custody. So reading between the lines this was a spectacular own goal for the mom.
@@dorbie I don't know what state this is but child care isn't an add on in California, if she is the custodial parent during that time she is responsible for child care, that goes into the support allocation. My question to you would be, what does the child support pay for? Why is she considered the custodial parent of he is responsible for the child care?
@@qwa711 that wasn’t true in my California case. It was an add on when I paid support and when I received support. That might change if one parent isn’t working but with two working parents it makes sense. I’m talking about daycare where both parents are working and are obligated to work. A nanny would be the equivalent, although a luxury most of us can’t afford. P.S. your questions are already answered in California law, not by me. The parent dropping the child off retains custody during the stay. This caused some ridiculous situations in my case with mom trying to intercept me before a daycare drop-off in the morning with the police called to try to take custody and prevent my drop-off. A hint of her behavior that led to me eventually being awarded primary custody.
@@dorbiewell it was true in my California case. Mother took me back to court to try and get more money but when she asked if the new child support amount ($938/month) was in addition to the preschool tuition that I was already paying ($275/week). The judge said no, since she was considered the custodial parent during that time it was included in the dissomaster calculation. She was upset because she ended up losing money from what I had been paying willingly prior to the new order. We both worked but I made more than her and only had 3 overnights/week. How my case worked out makes sense because the amount of child support is based off of the dissomaster and parenting time, whether both parents are working is irrelevant, that would just impact the financial calculation. Sounds like you got got. I didn't even have a lawyer 🤷🏿♂
P.S. who drops the️ child off isn't the determining factor. The courts simply go off of overnights. No clue where you're getting your info from
@@qwa711 Well I'm sure not getting my info from you because you're very confidently wrong. Google "California child support standard add ons" and the first sentence says "The most common add-on costs are uninsured healthcare expenses and childcare expenses related to employment." This info from the child care law center matches my experience from about a dozen orders being on both sides of the equation, you might have been the exception to the rule, it happens. As I thought, daycare being "employment related" is a factor.
Furthermore, even when I had no overnights, my time spent parenting counted as parenting time so I'm confident your opinion about overnights is as reliable as opinion about standard add ons.
She's screwed once the kids are all 18
Except she won't. That's the most frustrating thing about this. Average income for her professional title at her employer is over 100k/year. Financially, she'll be fine. She's fine now. There's no reason for any of this to be in the court system. She's either angry or bored or just loves the drama, but she sure isn't poor, even before you factor in the child support.
Dave Ramsey and Joe Jorgensen has literally written numerous research papers about behavior, money and common sense. if her spending behaviors do not change she will have problems when these children turn 18. Because her spending behaviors are not corrected.
Friends ex tried to claim their 18yr old son was disabled to get support to continue. All bogus claims. Needless to say no basis and no further support
He will pay support until age 22 if the kids attend college and we know mom will make sure of that.
@@vmack1851 at that point the kids are adults and he can pay them directly
These attorneys representing these women are also shameful
The mom's attorney saying she's shocked they are there fighting over an additional $392, but if you let that slide, it'll be another $300 here and $300 there. Just greedy.
and mom had to pay that attorney way more that that to fight over that money lol
@@24Monty24using his money that supposed to be "child support." That's why she can't afford caring for the children, the money she gets she burns through with that lawyer, and I'd imagine a fairly lavish lifestyle.
Yes,if he just went ahead and paid it,it would be another 400 next month and so on every month
Maybe the Dr will get primary custody and she gets ZERO
She sold the marital home which she was given completely in divorce because the $5,600 a month for child care wasn’t enough? Can we say she’s committing child support fraud and living beyond her means? How many Louis Vuitton bags does she own? What about her car? A Mercedes? Probably. The court should take child custody away from her.
I make 100k a year and don’t even take home as much as this woman gets in child support 🤦🏼♂️
I was about to call bs then I remembered most states have state income taxes 😂. I make 100k a year and my take home is 6800 a month. Gotta love those states with no state income tax and I don’t pay social security. So that too. Crazy she gets that much.
Ma’am, he is no longer your husband. He doesn’t need to pay for your lifestyle.
Since when does a 10 and 12 year old need child care? At 10 I was literally riding my bike to the other side of town to play with friends, WTH happened with kids this day and age
It’s the parent’s fault.
Bet that nanny is making a shit ton of money doing nothing lol
I love how it's a refusal to contribute on his part. Even though he's paying her way more than she probably deserves if she can't budget. $5600 a month to take care of the children. There's something wrong with her. She's not responsible and she probably doesn't deserve to have custody.
It's worse than that, because that $5300 or whatever is a $1600 upper deviation, meaning he's not supposed to be paying that amount by law. It's really disingenuous for her to say that he isn't contributing anything when he's actually legally contributing more
Most people could live on $5600 a month without even having to work themselves. I thought I heard them say the mom makes $95k a year herself. Which after taxes she brings home about the same amount he pays in child support. Also she needs a nanny to watch the kids while she works but don’t they go to school? Wouldn’t they be in school Monday to Friday anyway???
@@brenantube5802 she works from home though. how hard is it to check on your kids from time to time?
He paying the amount because he’s forced to based on his income
@dilly7943 not true. They actually said that what he's paying now is an upward deviation of $1600 from where his income says he should be paying.
HAHAHA and she lost the house because she had to pay her lawyer to keep bringing up these frivolous court cases. Small amount of justice.
If you can’t support two kids on $5300 a month, you’ve got the problem not him.
Mom wants to go out. “Utilizing the ‘nanny’ 3 days a week” since she works 5 days a week. The kids 11,12-year-old, are in school! Doesn’t pass the smell test.
Actually it passes every test.
12 year olds are allowed to babysit and an 11 year old can stay home alone. Why is a nanny needed?
@@janmedley5932 Depends on the state. In Illinois it is 14. Have to also take into account other factors. If the 12YO has the emotional maturity or learning difficulties of an 8YO then that 12YO would not be fit to babysit.
@@josephhodges9819 So the 12 yr old could not babysit an 11 year old with the mother in the house?
@@Jamie-ff1zm I forgot about her being in the house. Yea, the 12 could sit the 11-year-old. If the mother was not in the home, then it would not be ok and would potentially warrant a DCFS investigation.
Historical refusal to contribute? He contributes $5,000 a month!
She gets $70,000 for the children, and she works full time as well for her own money. Where is it all going?
That's why they need to put this money in a bank account. She should should be providing receipts.
Money hungry that’s what it is,
“He’s not contributing to anything”
Errrm so where is that $5000 going??
Stay strong Dr.👊🏾
He's a dentist.
@@amandaharris5055 he really needs the encouragement. Dentist have a high rate of committing suicide when then start going a way
@@amandaharris5055 Still has the title of Dr.
@@amandaharris5055 Dentists are still doctors.
If she’s working? Where is HER money going. Child care for a 12 year old? Wtf?
A 12 year old can occupy their time and doesn’t need a babysitter unless the child is handicapped.
She is a bitter person who is mad that their not together anymore
Major problem with the wife if she can't support two kids on 5600 a month
How bad could the public schools be in a neighborhood where doctors live in million dollar homes? Plus a full time nanny for kids that are in school.
I was active duty military, my husband was active duty military, he was underway 90% of the time. We were stationed on a small island, no family and I was able to juggle 4 CHILDREN, pay a mortgage, did etc, with less than $5000 a month. She is a horrible vindictive mother and is alienating the father and his family from his children. Female dog is too good for this woman.
Did you have a full time job because not once did it mention that.
@@josephhodges9819”I was active duty military” that’s a full time job lol
@@josephhodges9819🤗 she said they were both active duty in the military 🪖 I'm a veteran, so please trust me when I say it's definitely a full time job 💯 4 kids are another full time job🤗
@@josephhodges9819 her first sentence is “I was active duty military”
@@stepht5 I missed the first few words. I assume what she did forget to mention is that a married couple receive Basic Allowance for Subsistence (BAS) and Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH). The BAH is more than enough to cover a mortgage.
She works from home!!!!!!! But needs a nanny? The kids are 12 and 10….if you can’t handle that then the dad needs full custody.
So let me understand this. She was able to come into her attorney’s office while working from home and being on a work call. However, she can’t attend to her children while being on a work call. Okayyyy
I mean this could very well all be frivolous, but let's not pretend taking a morning off work for zoom court is the same as being able to watch the kids while working 5 days a week....
@@tartxcherries That’s not what her attorney stated. Her attorney stated she came to her office the day prior. And while she was at her office she was also working by conducting phone calls. So she can travel away from home to her attorneys office while on the clock (I don’t know if her job knew) but she can’t care for her kids in her own home. This is not even accounting for the fact that the 12 year old babysits other kids so why can’t he babysit his 10 year old siblings? And why does the 10 year old even need a nanny? Hell why do either of her kids need a nanny at their age? There are in school all day then volleyball afterwards and whatever else. She is full of BS. Women need to stop just supporting the sisterhood and just be honest.
@@tartxcherriesYou realize majority of the year the kids are in school from 8 am to 4pm then when they get home they have a nanny. She doesn't take care of her kids and it's obvious.
Aren't the children 10 and 12 years old? Don't they go to school? Why do they need a nanny?
@@deanjones2525 You can't expect her to take care of her own children when she can throw around free cash to solve the problem.
"Why are we arguing? He just overpays 300 bucks a month?"
Then she says,
"He owes her 80 bucks from last year!"
She is going to mess around and the court is going to lower her support.
I hope so!
We all can hope that’s the way it works.
Child support obligation should change. If only %10 was awarded. Then we wouldn't have a single mother epidemic.
Start with dna tests first before anything is paid
Nothing women hate more than seeing a man enjoying life after a break up.
I CANNOT believe that mom's attorney actually said that because dad doesn't give any money towards the cost of a nanny, dad is putting the majority of the financial burden on mom!! Those kids are 10 & 12 years old! Absolutely ridiculous
You cannot believe a lawyer is doing everything he can to help his client who is paying him?
They're at school majority of the day then they come home to a nanny. She doesn't take care of her own kids and it's obvious it's a burden to her.
The man’s lawyer said the father has support for watching the children already.
Historical refusal too contribute😂 at 70k a year I don’t think that’s a refusal to contribute.
with the amount of hours she claim she works and child support; she should be just fine. She mad
So wait, he's supposed to pay 100% child care during her custody time so she can earn a full time wage? She can use some of her income for that. Fancy losing a house when you get 5600 USD a month + a full time income. Just wow
A nanny for a 12 and 10 year old?? Fishy
She works from home with a 10 and 12 year old who babysits other kids and with a grandmother who would watch them, but needs more money for childcare..
They"believe". No facts, just 'opinion, 'feelings'. A 12 YO needs 'childcare'.
Here’s an idea. If these kids are such a financial burden then let them go live with the father. Her attorney should be disbarred for even making these arguments. She works from home but her job is so demanding she needs a nanny to care for her kids. She is getting the equivalent of a $100k a year job would make.
"My client is in need of financial assistance." What a f***ing joke!!!
While she is getting more than the average household makes in a year… crazy
8:37 Her job hours is 8a-5p, kids are in school until 3. This means she needs to work only 2 hrs until the kids come home and they should be doing homework or reading until she’s done. My kids were 7&2 when I started and it was never a problem🤷🏾♀️ if it was a call center (which the lawyer tried to allude to at first) and she had toddlers it would be different. This is an administrative role.
Wow she's so busy maybe modify the custody order and give full custody to father who can support them better and let her have weekend visitation
Wow, all I can say is EXTORTION. Hes moved on and prospering which is something she cannot stand. I bet he'd love custody
My mom use to do the same stuff to my dad but it wasn't about the money. She would repeatedly take my dad to court in the hopes he would miss enough work due to it that he would get fired. The ultimate plan being that she wanted to have him put in jail for not paying after she got him fired. He was paying $1750 / month and I saw none of it. Every bit went to my mother and step father to support their non working lifestyle and drug habit. I asked him later why he never brought up the fact that she was using child support to fuel her drug habit and he said it wouldn't have mattered because the court system sides with the mother most of the time so it wasn't worth the time and money to argue about it.
In a perfect world, your mother would be the one who ended up in jail.
In a perfect world, the father would have gotten custody in the first place.
Oh yes.. it very much favored the mother. Thankfully that is changing. I took my ex to court to see our 7 month old who i haven't been able to see for 5 months. the court thankfully have seen she is doing everything to delay contact and to hinder every chance. Time's are changing thankfully, 10 years ago i'd of been f'd and would just pay my child support and go away never to see my daughter again. I'm so thankful that it is changing and i'm so hopeful for the future.
@@mattgarrett2583 the fact that she so has that much control by default shows that we’re still really far away. None of my 3 sons are even interested in marriage because of how much men get screwed over in family courts. They lose 1/2 of your assets in the present and then 2/3 in the future they are essentially their ex’s slave.
I am so sorry you had such a hor:rible mother. Unfortunately, this is very common which is why millions of men will not get married.
She sold the marital home, the kids stability 🤯 yet wanting more money for child care🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 decision making is problem 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏾
apparently also sold said home for 1.59million... without debt on it..
@@Folsomdsf2 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🫨😵💫po BABIES 💯
A 10 & 12 yr old cant entertain themselves while mommy is working in the home 🤔 They don't understand to not interrupt at 10 & 12 years old!? Wow
I hope they ask for an itemization. Lady, that’s what child support is for. She’s as delusional as her client. I worked at home with younger children. I have my own business. It can be done. She’s just using every excuse she can.
I said the same thing. I speak with clients all day. Most spend millions of dollars with the company I work for. It's the norm now.
She is trying to win for her client , so if you ever had need of a lawyer you would hope that they did the same for you. Be mindful that the lawyer may not share the views of her client but thats not what they are hired to do. I had a situation in the past where I wanted to send a family law court lawyer to the depths of hell , but after the court meeting which he won , he sort me out and explained that he was fighting for the client to the best of his ability , not because he believed them but it was what he was paid to do as a public defender. They work in a legal system , not a justice system.
@@blackg0076 doesn’t make a difference. Wrong is wrong. She has a nanny and the 12 year old babysits? The nanny is not needed if the girl babysits. The mother is greedy, which happens a lot when there’s substantial money involved. A lot of women say “get that money!” She wants to live like she’s still married. It doesn’t work that way. I’ll bet he gave her money in the divorce as well as other assets. Greedy is greedy. No matter who it’s from. I’m sure she got her fair share unless there was a prenup. Then she got what she got. And about 70,000 a year in child support isn’t enough? Greedy as hell. I hope it goes nowhere.
@@Nancy-uc2tu yes i totally agree , I was just talking about the lawyer , the mother is another story though. As a parent she is a waste of space , how can she lose a home when she is getting 65k a year ontop of her job ??
and love how her lawyer summarized her job duties, but please, allow me do so more accurately and simply: she babbles on the phone before referring healthcare customers to another rep.