In ten minutes you have just explained what i have read in five books on parenting. Thank you, this is what i was so afraid of when my daughter was younger breaking her spirit.
I always wondered if my spirit was broken as a child. My dad was so strict on ne never allowing me to do anything. I was never allowed to do things other children did. I couldn't go to a ballgame or a sleepover except for one time and my dad was outside to pick me up early in the morning as we woke up. It was humiliating for me. He thought he was punishing the school system by not giving me an extra 25 cents for snack time when they raised the prices. I had to choose what i got each day. A drink or snack unless id save my money and get both. To tyis day im afraid to speak up and defend myself. I never kniw what to say out of fear. Parents please understand your child needs discipline but not too much to where it hurts the little ones that much. God bless all the little children.
I grew up with my mother listening to Dr. Charles Stanley (she still does). And now when I've become a parent, here I've come across the same. May God bless this ministry
had tears in my eyes while watching listening to this video. I love my daughter so much. i want to be very careful to discipline her everytime she made mistake. because i know so well that God is so merciful and loving to me even when i disobey Him sometimes.
Me too. I had tears too. I'm struggling as a parent. I want to make sure my children are ready to spread their wings and be able to handle the real world. I think a huge issue is parents are also afraid of CPS and their over reach. Its like if you even disagree with your own child, now you have to worry about CPS coming and taking them because you refuse to allow them to get a sex change for example. (Praise God, I'm not in that kind of situation) It's getting harder to be a parent with the internet being something we HAVE to use and rely on. No matter how hard you try to oversee what your teenager is doing on the internet, there is ALWAYS a way around the protections. People say then just dont let your child get on the internet.. To that I say, so do YOU monitor everything your child does at school? A friends house? Do you know all the different ways our children can bypass those protections and how quickly they can do it? As a parent, I'm frustrated. Everything for school, medical everything is connected to the internet. Where any stranger can see. Not to mention the very serious and personal information about our children being uploaded by the schools to the internet. Unless you have good and I mean GOOD knowledge of the internet and cyber security... And even then, it's CONSTANTLY changing so its hard to keep up with... And now... Now, we also have to contend with Ai. AHHHHHH. Please, pray for me. I'll pray for you as well. I need Godly guidance. Not worldly, profitable gas lighting.
Yes you speak to your child as a parent how are you doing did something bad happen talk to your child don't just let them be walk and talk with your child have moments with just you and them if you cannot do that then you are failing as a parent show them right from wrong as a parent where did we fail our children letting them have these thing did you know rich knowledgeable parents do not give kids phones they give their kids filp phones that do not have the internet so the do not watch evil things.....think about that I know because a bus driver told me @sugarsauce2435
Hello brothers and sisters. I would just like to recommend that everyone read the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. Reading that book was the best desicion I ever made.
THANK YOU!!! SUCh a blessing for me to hear this!! I've got a bachelor in psychology and at wits end with my almost 5 year old (split family). Secular parenting teachings are ruining our children. THIS was directed at me from the Father. God Bless you.
I'm so glad I chose to watch this among those that came up in my search. I really needed the guidance and reminder. I've been asking myself why I'm so frustrated lately and been praying a lot for patience. I've been searching the bible but I know someone wiser has to explain it so I would understand better. Thank you for this video. God bless us all.
I have been parenting out of guilt due to the fact that I’m doing it on my own. Financially physically emotionally. I feel I’m trying to over compensate and it’s a lot of pressure and I’m too soft.
I’m a single parent as well, I understand you completely! Being the father and mother it’s very difficult ! I wonder where in the Bible it can help us in our walk and discipline
@Lerisa smith don’t be guilty! There is not shame nor condemenation in Christ. The Lord sees you and He is your comfort plus that child/children does have a present Father (God) who is more present than any man could ever be. Remind yourself and your babies of that. Discipline in a stern and loving way and do not let the devil fill you with lies of shame and guilt. You are doing your best! I am proud of you, God bless you and your family!
I am a young adult on the brink of leaving the house and this made cry. My father in specific has done all the things you said not to do😔 he is sooo negative towards me and my siblings that his shear presence is suffocating.
It so very important indeed to strike the right tone when you are disciplining your child, such a great video that is so in line with our course on discipline that connects.
Thank you so much Dr Charles for this lesson, I have so many realization. Praying that I could have this kind of Godly discipline in our home. God bless you more.
My mother has done every single thing that you said not to do. I am so tired of being yelled at and not understanding what I do wrong. I am so tired of being compared to other people.
Same here😩 I will still be criticize no matter how I tried to please them. I even feel like running away but I have no where to go 😢 my church is the only place that gives me peace of my mind. May the Holy Spirit help us🙏
You brought tears to my eyes. THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH. I'm struggling. Big time. Especially with the internet and the instantly connected world. I need spiritual guidance on parenting. I'm struggling with the sheltering... Not telling the child the truth about this world around them. Please pray for my family and myself. I need serious guidance right now. If anyone has any idea of someone I can talk with, any kind of resources, I gladly accept any guidance and recommendations people may have. I feel like this literally could affect my children's lives in a way that is or can be EXTREMLY harmful to them. I'm scared to death that they will become 30yrs old, refusing to get a job or get their own place, because they can't handle people... Please pray for us. I've been in deep prayer about this. I literally feel as though I'm fighting for their lives.
The Bible,, Now that were a family podcast (here on UA-cam) Nancy Campbell, this mamas house, this mamas faith (also both on UA-cam) M is for Mama - a book by Abbie Halberstadt, Loving the little years and Fit to burst, both books by Rachel Jankovic
My mom is doing all things that was told not to be done💔. Sometimes I do doubt if truly she is my mother or I was adopted. I only wants her to show me LOVE and give me PEACE OF MIND. I am tired of crying and overthinking😔
I purposely went looking for some words on this topic. Just this morning my teen and I got into a physical fight, Something I was desperately trying to avoid. Because my mother and I had that kind of relationship with me as an adult. I thought I was doing it right, that God saved me just in time to no mimic the same relationship my mom and I had. She said some hurtful things and I know some of it is just rebelling teen season but other times I'm like "no the enemy will not have her mind." I try to teach her and show her she's beautiful and accepted and do things with her spend time with her etc but it seems like she's taking it for granted.I'm not going to lie when she's disrespectful. I do want to pop her in the mouth, she does it on purpose and gets upset when she gets disciplined. I have a short temper for disrespect. I think it's time to see a Christian psychologist. Because it's not just a typical teen problem, it's more that I really need her to speak to someone about it. There was an 8-year gap in our being together from 8-16. I think I too need to sit with a psychologist about it.
My dad's discipline was beating me with a belt yes I was bad and did some messed up things but it seems I just got worse and worse and has not helped me very much as an adult when I talk to him he wants to lecture me but does not lead me just says you need to do this and that but does not show me how
Apart of his Christianity, I admire Dr Stanley a lot for his perfect use of English. I particularly hate that people say kids when they refer to human beings made in God's image. Notice in this that he never uses the word kid (young goat).
I don’t believe in spankings. The rod is meant for guiding children in the right direction. The rod was never used for beating sheep. I believe in timeouts and groundings and so forth. Discipline is all about teaching. Jesus would never hit a child.
In ten minutes you have just explained what i have read in five books on parenting. Thank you, this is what i was so afraid of when my daughter was younger breaking her spirit.
Most books are a scam. They prance around the grit of it for 20 chapters.
I wish I had found this video 15 years ago. Wow I can see where I have gone wrong and pray God will direct me with my 2 young children.
God bless you!!
I always wondered if my spirit was broken as a child. My dad was so strict on ne never allowing me to do anything. I was never allowed to do things other children did. I couldn't go to a ballgame or a sleepover except for one time and my dad was outside to pick me up early in the morning as we woke up. It was humiliating for me. He thought he was punishing the school system by not giving me an extra 25 cents for snack time when they raised the prices. I had to choose what i got each day. A drink or snack unless id save my money and get both. To tyis day im afraid to speak up and defend myself. I never kniw what to say out of fear. Parents please understand your child needs discipline but not too much to where it hurts the little ones that much. God bless all the little children.
I grew up with my mother listening to Dr. Charles Stanley (she still does). And now when I've become a parent, here I've come across the same. May God bless this ministry
had tears in my eyes while watching listening to this video. I love my daughter so much. i want to be very careful to discipline her everytime she made mistake. because i know so well that God is so merciful and loving to me even when i disobey Him sometimes.
Thank you needed that 🙏
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Me too. I had tears too. I'm struggling as a parent. I want to make sure my children are ready to spread their wings and be able to handle the real world.
I think a huge issue is parents are also afraid of CPS and their over reach. Its like if you even disagree with your own child, now you have to worry about CPS coming and taking them because you refuse to allow them to get a sex change for example. (Praise God, I'm not in that kind of situation) It's getting harder to be a parent with the internet being something we HAVE to use and rely on. No matter how hard you try to oversee what your teenager is doing on the internet, there is ALWAYS a way around the protections. People say then just dont let your child get on the internet.. To that I say, so do YOU monitor everything your child does at school? A friends house? Do you know all the different ways our children can bypass those protections and how quickly they can do it?
As a parent, I'm frustrated. Everything for school, medical everything is connected to the internet. Where any stranger can see. Not to mention the very serious and personal information about our children being uploaded by the schools to the internet.
Unless you have good and I mean GOOD knowledge of the internet and cyber security... And even then, it's CONSTANTLY changing so its hard to keep up with... And now... Now, we also have to contend with Ai. AHHHHHH.
Please, pray for me. I'll pray for you as well. I need Godly guidance. Not worldly, profitable gas lighting.
Yes you speak to your child as a parent how are you doing did something bad happen talk to your child don't just let them be walk and talk with your child have moments with just you and them if you cannot do that then you are failing as a parent show them right from wrong as a parent where did we fail our children letting them have these thing did you know rich knowledgeable parents do not give kids phones they give their kids filp phones that do not have the internet so the do not watch evil things.....think about that I know because a bus driver told me @sugarsauce2435
Hello brothers and sisters. I would just like to recommend that everyone read the book ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’. Reading that book was the best desicion I ever made.
I gotta remember to not act out of frustration and anger!
And to use the proper words.
Thank you for this!I searched this one because I dont know if im diciplining my child correctly. Thank you very much!
❤️🙏🏾
THANK YOU!!! SUCh a blessing for me to hear this!! I've got a bachelor in psychology and at wits end with my almost 5 year old (split family). Secular parenting teachings are ruining our children. THIS was directed at me from the Father. God Bless you.
I searched for this wisdom and knew you would have the wisdom I needed from God.
The first time ever that discipline with love is explained in a way that i could understand what is meant. Thank you
Wow! Coming from the family that I come from it seems strange to apologise to kids after disciplining them. Made me think. Thank you
Wow
I've never heard it explain this way
Very glad this came up on my feed
Thank God for wise men for Charles Stanley
Who teach us through God's Word
This is really helpful. God brought me to this video at the right time!
Thank you
Thank you Lord for this wonderful message.
I'm so glad I chose to watch this among those that came up in my search. I really needed the guidance and reminder. I've been asking myself why I'm so frustrated lately and been praying a lot for patience. I've been searching the bible but I know someone wiser has to explain it so I would understand better. Thank you for this video. God bless us all.
Thank you for this message, I see areas where I have failed in areas.
I love your sermons, they are my daily breakfast. Thanks for never starving my breakfast. God reward you
I have been parenting out of guilt due to the fact that I’m doing it on my own. Financially physically emotionally. I feel I’m trying to over compensate and it’s a lot of pressure and I’m too soft.
Its not easy doing it alone
I’m a single parent as well, I understand you completely! Being the father and mother it’s very difficult ! I wonder where in the Bible it can help us in our walk and discipline
I'm not a single parent but feel I'm too hard. 😥 I know I need to be soft through God grace he will deliver me.
@Lerisa smith don’t be guilty! There is not shame nor condemenation in Christ. The Lord sees you and He is your comfort plus that child/children does have a present Father (God) who is more present than any man could ever be. Remind yourself and your babies of that. Discipline in a stern and loving way and do not let the devil fill you with lies of shame and guilt. You are doing your best! I am proud of you, God bless you and your family!
I am a young adult on the brink of leaving the house and this made cry. My father in specific has done all the things you said not to do😔 he is sooo negative towards me and my siblings that his shear presence is suffocating.
May God comfort you. Forgive him (not condone him). Pray for the grace to do better when you become a parent
i felt gulty after watching this..i am sorry about my son..thanks for sharing this.
Very helpful
This is the most beautiful way to explain discipline.
This is such INVALUABLE information!! Thank you so much Dr Stanley. God bless you
Pearls of wisdom! Thank you!
Excelente como siempre, Pastor Stanley! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
🥺 thank you. From this moment forward, I take better knowledge over my actions towards discipline principles
It so very important indeed to strike the right tone when you are disciplining your child, such a great video that is so in line with our course on discipline that connects.
What wise counsel Dr. Stanley
Thank you so much Dr Charles for this lesson, I have so many realization. Praying that I could have this kind of Godly discipline in our home. God bless you more.
Thank you for being clear, practical, and concise.
Very wise, insightful, useful advice. Thank you!!
Thank you God for this powerful message on how to dicipline a child through a biblical way & thank you pastor Stanley & in touch ministry
I've learnt a whole lot and pray I'd use them as I raise my children
Thankyou sir.. This is an eye opener for me as a Christian parent.. God bless you
Thank you for this teaching!
Praise God 🙏🕊️♥️
I really needed this , thank you 🙏
thank you
Thank you Dr. Stanley. I need more of these. I hope you would have more on this topic.
My mother has done every single thing that you said not to do. I am so tired of being yelled at and not understanding what I do wrong. I am so tired of being compared to other people.
Same here😩
I will still be criticize no matter how I tried to please them.
I even feel like running away but I have no where to go 😢 my church is the only place that gives me peace of my mind.
May the Holy Spirit help us🙏
Amazing
Please pray for my baby and me to become good parents.
This is very much helpful. Thank you so much!
This brought me into tears...
Davanale Paul McMurrin I seen your comment and I was wondering why till the video hit 2:54🙏🏼
Applies to parents of adult children too.
@C B1983 And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.
Ephesians 6:4
Very helpful thank you Sir. your messages has been of great blessing.
This is so good!
:-) I have enjoyed several of Dr. Stanley's lectures now. I love his voice!
As a mom thank you for advice! Thank you for being so strait forward! God bless. And God bless all mommies and daddies.
Thank you for this
Thank you so much for this wonderful, Godly advice. It helped my situation so much. God bless your ministry!
Excellent advice Dr Charles Stanley. Thank you so much! I'm going to write for the sermon on this!
Very helpful and clear! Thank you!
Thank you so much. Very wise words
Thank you. This is helpful for grandparents too.
It’s challenging but I must get it right. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you very much.... Very informative... Every single point. God bless you
Thank you very much. GOD bless you
Excellent love Dr.Stanley always excellent teaching God bless him
Thank you for this word. I needed to hear it today.
Thank you Dr Stanley for such a great sermon. If I heard this sermon while I became mother. 🤔
This guy is spot on,thank you.
Very helpful. Thank you!
Bless bless
The only Sound-judging , And Godly pastor in this time
These information really helped!!
Good Advice brother Amen.
Amen! Very much helpful
I love this!!
Thank you. This is so helpful
This is very helpful, thank you.
Thanks really helpful
So powerful, great principals. Thank you
This was great!
PRAISE JESUS.
Give me all of that again please!!!!! Thanks
Always liked this guy
Thank You for sharing :-)
You brought tears to my eyes. THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH. I'm struggling. Big time. Especially with the internet and the instantly connected world.
I need spiritual guidance on parenting. I'm struggling with the sheltering... Not telling the child the truth about this world around them.
Please pray for my family and myself. I need serious guidance right now.
If anyone has any idea of someone I can talk with, any kind of resources, I gladly accept any guidance and recommendations people may have. I feel like this literally could affect my children's lives in a way that is or can be EXTREMLY harmful to them. I'm scared to death that they will become 30yrs old, refusing to get a job or get their own place, because they can't handle people...
Please pray for us. I've been in deep prayer about this. I literally feel as though I'm fighting for their lives.
The Bible,, Now that were a family podcast (here on UA-cam) Nancy Campbell, this mamas house, this mamas faith (also both on UA-cam) M is for Mama - a book by Abbie Halberstadt, Loving the little years and Fit to burst, both books by Rachel Jankovic
I'm watching this in 2024 and I have been blessed abundantly. God bless 🙌 😊
I'm watching today 7/24/24
Amen!!
Thank you
My mom is doing all things that was told not to be done💔.
Sometimes I do doubt if truly she is my mother or I was adopted.
I only wants her to show me LOVE and give me PEACE OF MIND.
I am tired of crying and overthinking😔
Please teach more about how to dr deal with teens .
Please Dr. STANLEY
THANK YOU🙏☝️
This is amazing!! Thanks a lot Dr!! 🫶
7:33 🗝 never told this before, but makes sense
Thank you.
I purposely went looking for some words on this topic. Just this morning my teen and I got into a physical fight, Something I was desperately trying to avoid. Because my mother and I had that kind of relationship with me as an adult. I thought I was doing it right, that God saved me just in time to no mimic the same relationship my mom and I had. She said some hurtful things and I know some of it is just rebelling teen season but other times I'm like "no the enemy will not have her mind." I try to teach her and show her she's beautiful and accepted and do things with her spend time with her etc but it seems like she's taking it for granted.I'm not going to lie when she's disrespectful. I do want to pop her in the mouth, she does it on purpose and gets upset when she gets disciplined. I have a short temper for disrespect. I think it's time to see a Christian psychologist. Because it's not just a typical teen problem, it's more that I really need her to speak to someone about it. There was an 8-year gap in our being together from 8-16. I think I too need to sit with a psychologist about it.
Thx for sharing
incredible
Awesome
😃 your right ❤❤❤❤ amén
5:35 🙏🏽♥️
My dad's discipline was beating me with a belt yes I was bad and did some messed up things but it seems I just got worse and worse and has not helped me very much as an adult when I talk to him he wants to lecture me but does not lead me just says you need to do this and that but does not show me how
Apart of his Christianity, I admire Dr Stanley a lot for his perfect use of English. I particularly hate that people say kids when they refer to human beings made in God's image. Notice in this that he never uses the word kid (young goat).
I don’t believe in spankings. The rod is meant for guiding children in the right direction. The rod was never used for beating sheep. I believe in timeouts and groundings and so forth. Discipline is all about teaching. Jesus would never hit a child.
Time outs don’t work though. You aren’t teaching the child a lesson. You are just redirecting the behavior elsewhere.
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My Christian parents did all the above
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Plz teach me more