So, one of the reasons women don't want to struggle with a guy in the beginning is the fear of the almighty breakfast they could be served 15-20 years into the marriage. I have seen so many of these happen around me that even I vowed not to struggle with any man looking at my aunts and family friends before me. Women who were forced to accept second wives, side chicks, in laws lording it over them in houses they struggled to build with their husbands. But God in His kindness had mercy on me. My husband before we married gave me acess to his bank accounts, email accounts etc. That gave me some rest and thank God we are celebrating our 22nd year anniversary in 6 months. The moral of my long epistle is that most women will take the chance on a man that's kind and transparent. Women nowadays know they can make money on their own so its less about the man being rich but about the man being loyal when he becomes wealthy.
I think i friend zoning guys till they don't see you as partners but buddies. Just because you not ready or incompatible but when you are ready you become careful to not make mistake. But realise you single because them all are getting married. It's fact. Also having healthy friends are good medicine for singleness but as you get older they tend to get married and even the single ones engage in life pursuit and struggles to have that time to pad your singlehood. You either keep making new friends or realise that being single is a thing with or without good support system. How do good guys meet good ladies too
Funny how I watched the previous video saying you lose your fans, especially the opposite sex when they share they are in a relationship and now you say it here that people in entertainment don’t like to share they are in a relationship. So intriguing. God go help us all.
OMG please can you ask your guests or do you know why someone you love doesn't love you as much and the people that loves you you don't feel that same love for them. I think is one of the reason why some of us are still single.
I know right. It has happened to many of us. But I think the answer is in your question. You said you find it difficult liking people that like you, too. Why is that? It’s about you or us, in most cases. About your preferences(that we tend to call spec). Or maybe we’re in a situation that makes us not ready to love them back(less likely, I think) So if you like someone and they don’t like you as much, it’s most likely about them, and not you. About their preferences too. You could be the best guy and they still wouldn’t want you. It’s a sad but healthy reality and it happens every time. Accepting it helps us to move on.
Lol. What do you mean that the gist with comedian is people go when 'things' aren't working? That's long ago. Nowadays Comedy is more lucrative many other 'things'.
Lemme brag small. Mr. Damola is my church member plus a lecturer in my alma mater.
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So, one of the reasons women don't want to struggle with a guy in the beginning is the fear of the almighty breakfast they could be served 15-20 years into the marriage. I have seen so many of these happen around me that even I vowed not to struggle with any man looking at my aunts and family friends before me. Women who were forced to accept second wives, side chicks, in laws lording it over them in houses they struggled to build with their husbands. But God in His kindness had mercy on me. My husband before we married gave me acess to his bank accounts, email accounts etc. That gave me some rest and thank God we are celebrating our 22nd year anniversary in 6 months. The moral of my long epistle is that most women will take the chance on a man that's kind and transparent. Women nowadays know they can make money on their own so its less about the man being rich but about the man being loyal when he becomes wealthy.
“Mommy is the alpha and omega, beginning and the end”😂😂😂
Thank you for having me Emma
This for me. 📌
Enter marriage without expectations but be prepared for whatever that shows up and come up with adaptive mechanisms.
Been loving these episodes! Learning so much from them. Love from Ireland
I knew damola from campus when I came into 100 level.
Man was everywhere anchoring programs and event.
Great guy
Please continue…Damola is such a wise man
And you sir, God bless you personally
Great discussion and show there.
That "opapaparada" part got me 😁
Thank you so much for these series sir, it’s been so enlightening and your choice of guest is really great
Gems upon gems. I love the fact that you're speaking based on reality and experiences. Totally enjoyed this episode as well as learnt from it.
Fantastic questions, Fantastic answers and Fantastic show!!👏🏾
When it gets to the point of “what exactly are we doing?” then I now chip it in that “it seems as if we are dating”
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I enjoyed this episode. Thanks for coming Sir Damola, thanks for creating this platform Bros Emma.
Amazing full of wisdom
Very brilliant man! 💯
This is too good. I’m sharing
This is awesome. Thank you sirs
An amazing episode. Please continue.
Nice one.. thank you so much for this 👍🥰
the fact that while watching the last episode still thought about how sweet it would be to bring Damola to your podcast...😃
He speaks a lot of gems🙌🏻✨
Not me screaming in the middle of the night. He said "Opeyemi send your account details"
Please lets continue 🎉🎉🎉
I have watched all these episodes and i learn, and love it all
Thank you
Mr Emmanuel 🎉
I love this podcast....
This is by far the best episode thus far. Learn a lot. I've always been a singu pringu with a fantasy, listening to this, i'm still hopeful.
Yes please. CONTINUE🎉
I Agree 👍👍 He's a wise Man
Honestly i love your recent videos, I'm always checking if there are new uploads ☺️much love 🇬🇭
Interesting and relatable episode.
I saw Damola, I rushed in here ❤❤
This podcast a lot of wisdom
OMO DAMOLA full of wisdom
Nice one. Abeg continuu....
Being waiting for it since 😂😂
Damilola is always on point. Wayback from our university days.
Welcome sir
This man has plenty sense u see him speaking 💎
I think i friend zoning guys till they don't see you as partners but buddies. Just because you not ready or incompatible but when you are ready you become careful to not make mistake. But realise you single because them all are getting married. It's fact.
Also having healthy friends are good medicine for singleness but as you get older they tend to get married and even the single ones engage in life pursuit and struggles to have that time to pad your singlehood. You either keep making new friends or realise that being single is a thing with or without good support system.
How do good guys meet good ladies too
Imagine midnight breakfast😂😢
A lot of good guys don't speak up.
Lol at opapa parada
Second on the list😂
Ladies dont like bad guy, ladies like a man that can take the lead, if you couldn't ask them out what makes you think they can ask you out.
Funny how I watched the previous video saying you lose your fans, especially the opposite sex when they share they are in a relationship and now you say it here that people in entertainment don’t like to share they are in a relationship. So intriguing. God go help us all.
being third self no bad shaa
First in the list. 🎉
First comment yayy!❤️
Abi I should say hi to my crush?? 🤣🤣
Please do 😅
OMG please can you ask your guests or do you know why someone you love doesn't love you as much and the people that loves you you don't feel that same love for them. I think is one of the reason why some of us are still single.
I know right. It has happened to many of us. But I think the answer is in your question. You said you find it difficult liking people that like you, too. Why is that? It’s about you or us, in most cases. About your preferences(that we tend to call spec). Or maybe we’re in a situation that makes us not ready to love them back(less likely, I think)
So if you like someone and they don’t like you as much, it’s most likely about them, and not you. About their preferences too. You could be the best guy and they still wouldn’t want you. It’s a sad but healthy reality and it happens every time. Accepting it helps us to move on.
Lol.
What do you mean that the gist with comedian is people go when 'things' aren't working?
That's long ago. Nowadays Comedy is more lucrative many other 'things'.