Friendship breakup all in the name of Bushiri | Umfana wase Malawi 🇲🇼 | family breakups
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
- How we lost a valuable friend because of a Prophet
This is not to offend anyone and their beliefs, we are just telling our story as it is, unfortunately it involves some kind of religion!! We apologise in advance
Guys, you have no idea how i marketed this channel to my coworkers. I told them to watch all your videos from the beninging, and guess what they are addicted and the first to watch each time you upload😊
@@hollywoodbetswinshollywood1989 WOW, I don’t even know what to say. Thank you so so much. We truly appreciate your support🙏🏾🙏🏾, we are grateful to you and your colleagues ❤️❤️❤️ much love
Thank you, thank you, 🙏 Much appreciated ❤
This is beautiful please make sure they’re subscribed
I love you, Matshidiso. You are so genuine and authentic. Thank you for being vulnerable. She will come back to you if she is meant to be in your life. Remember a season, a reason, and a lifetime. Sending hugs.
@@Shumza28 Thank you so much Shumza❤️❤️❤️ indeed, if she wasn’t meant to be in our lives forever, we should just cherish the memories ❤️❤️ there is a reason for everything
33:24 😂😂😂😂 as for thorns
@@yaneliswakhoza5901😂😂😂😂
Askies Matshediso hle😢 . One can clearly tell how much you love her, hopefully God helps her to leave the cult.
@@lemphotsenthebe1935 Hopefully so, I really care about her ❤️❤️ she has been good to me in many ways
Thank you so much ba baka. I love so much . I also attended school in the Lesotho. St Cathrines in Maseru but I am way older than you. Ke rat sets her sa long. I have just subscribed and I don't skip ads anymore ❤❤❤❤
@@LouisaMokhethi Thank you Louisa
Lesotho has amazing boarding schools. Welcome home❤️❤️ we love you
Oh thank you for your reply ❤❤❤
Jada Pinkett Smith has the "round table talk", here we have the "Red couch talk" 😊🥰
@@AnittaM_Diaries WOW, The red couch talk. Sounds good. Thank you ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Yeah
Eish...sorry Maiso for the loss of your friend...and Tshediso don't laugh at my friend when she's crying...I'm like you anyway...I don't put too much emotions on friends...😂😂
@@user-mpukanidanny Eish my fried, they are laughing at me😂😂😂😂 I will be fine
Your friend needs to be strong 💪 😂😂
Matshidiso you such a genuine soul and so refreshing to know that people like you still exist in this crazy world . Much love mntase.
Thank you so much Siphokazi ❤️❤️❤️
You can see body language of both twins one is relaxed and sharing. One is closing her hands protect her environment. That shows she is not welcoming and folding closing up.
Body language speak volumes. Bring balance to your twin sister. She can't always be the one doing all things. Remind you and so forth. Be a people person. As you talk of Malawi guy also see yourself. We were all in there. Wonder where is Pastor James. You Women on fire 🔥
You guys 😢😢 a ke right a ke ba tle ka Maiso 😊😊😊 that friend must forgive and let go please and fix the friendship 🧡 . Maison has both the twins emotions 😊😊
Maiso ke sono hle. Otlaba strong ❤
@@thandokay6603 I think I do. But after this video, I’m letting go, I’ve accepted
Sorry Matshediso may the Lord reconnect your friendship with your friend ❤.
I like your natural hair how do you treat it
Thank you for spoiling us❤😂 I will be listening to you on my way to work💃💃💃
@@lineocmmojara5985 Enjoy ❤️❤️
Enjoy hun ❤
"I think I love people"😅
Too kind Matshediso is.
That's why they scam you😂
YOU BALANCE each other. NEVER take that for granted.
🎉GO-GIRLS-GO🎉
@@4Kenosi 😂😂😂 I’m naive hlee. Thank you so much 😍😍
This is indeed a great balance ❤
@@the2wins Always pray for a Hedge of Protection. Let God expose deceitful people for you and order your foot steps. Please remember that we live in END TIMES PROPHECIES OF THE BIBLE. You guys are lovable people. Look for an e mail address of your ex Friend and write her letter. U Maka, she's just pompous to admit she was the wrong one. Write her a letter and have closure🙏🏾🥰
@@MRSMumba BIG ONE. YOU'RE BLESSED🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽
I sat through and listened and I'm glad you're talking about real societal issues. I'm concluding that church is not for critical thinkers, belief doesn't require people to question. You must just accept.
@@ThandiweBolsiek-ug1og very true
You believe only that is supported by the Bible otherwise there are wolves out there ready to devour us the naive and innocent ones
Absolutely. I’ve always been a critical thinker. I question everything. The time I accepted and and told myself that this ain’t my thing I became so free
@@MRSMumba ma'am 🌹it is liberating to be in control or to finally come to terms with the fact that this life is yours. I used to be a hard core pathetic mzalwane too🤣🤣attended the big mega church led by pastor sgaqagaqa, muscle white man wa bully. Yhu 🤣his preaching, wa re omanya. From tithing, to pledging, to buying tickets for his big week long event that ran at the same time le MACUFE. At one point I was like no man! God doesn't operate like this. I lived in constant fear, if I don't tithe I'm going to hell🤣. Ka re nix, o teng Modimo a ka mpeyang moo lefatsheng hore ke tlo mmatla hape through other people. I left, I've never been so free and alive. I was bashed by fellow Christians. Mare ka re my story is not their, and that's okay. Bona ha ba ye ba lo omangwa ke moruti wa bona.
Yoh this is deep. I wish the friend could see this and reach out to you guys
I doubt she will. Eish
I wouldn’t mind going there dresses “nkare ke ya marathon”, wearing one of your active lifestyle gear😂. The gear is LEVELS hleng bathong 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽. So in looooooove ❤❤❤
If the gear was available then. Oh definitely we were gonna kill it 😂TTlifestyle is goals❤️❤️❤️ thank you babe
@@the2wins Goals indeed!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ TTLifestyle all the way ❤️
Oh Maiso💖 I felt your pain, friendship breakup can be very painful askies❤
@@pearlmoshebi1028 But we move on ❤️❤️
Keep them coming, I love you guys
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Ncoooo Maiso❤
❤️❤️❤️ Thank you
They uploaded!!! 📢 🔊 🔈 Let me like and comment. I will come back to watch later😅😅😅
Enjoy 😂❤
mina i used to go for the music, we can say wateva nee but the music was top notch👌👌..i used to go for jus music, and i was never prophecied upon or even prayed for..and i used to go to the main hall, kkkk your girl here was a vip vibes🤣 i knew every monday uri my seat is there inside..nne i dont like struggling at all, as for holding papers, i didnt contribute anything in that church not even once😂🙈🙈 even lion of juda i never bought🤭🤭
Wena you’re stubborn like me. We’re in the same WhatsApp group. The music was top tier 😂
😂😂😂 how did you do it, by the way….that was the industry, you needed to know people who know people to survive and be comfortable within the cult
😂 😂 Yuwiiii nne im smart n work smart, i knew people in higher positions there, and also knew some of the pastors.. And ur girl here sells clothes so i made sure i get myself clients in that church.. From worship team, pastors, protocol.. And good for me coz some people there wer already my regular clients, hence my vip kinda treatment and i was not vocal at all as i didn't believe wat was happening in dat church, dat mfana i saw thru him from day 1 nṋe 😅😅, i used to go on Monday for business wat wat and for the music eyyy and for the food too... Dat church was good for my business 🤭🙈
Well done guys I really love the direction of the channel it’s so awesome to watch real people with real relatable stories. 🎉🎉🎉🎉I have invited a lot of people to subscribe we want the channel to grow.
Thank you so much Mrs Ngamlane. You’ve been here from day1 ❤ we appreciate
@@mphongamlane5834 Thank you so much Mme, we are growing 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 We appreciate your support, all the way ❤️❤️❤️
Hi guys 😄
Thank you for another upload.
I am sorry for the loss of your friendship, I can see it really saddened you. Unfortunately thats what a cult does to you, they isolate you, and occupy your mind (hence the long services, multiple times a week) they want to dominate your entire life.
It will take a lot of mental work for her to see the damage it has done to her. All you can do for now is to oray for her to see the light. ❤️
@@Lungelo911 You are so correct. Indeed that’s what cult does. We will eventually see the light ❤️❤️
Thank you Lungelo. 🫂
The way I love you ladies❤, I look forward to your laughs with every storytime... Honestly, I understand what Matshidiso is feeling, I too had a friendship breakup about 9 odd years ago and things have never been the same since. We used to talk everyday, I think about her and the kind of connection we had. Friendship breakups are worse than boyfriend/girlfriend breakups. I'm glad you two have each other to support through things like this
Friendships breakup mess up a lot of things hey. Sorry about your breakup hun. We just have to accept and move on. Much love ❤️
@@MRSMumba Thank You ❤️❤️❤️
Joomla please forgive my misspellings. I am using a new phone. Hei old age le technology 😂😂😂
@@LouisaMokhethi 😂😂😂😂 I get you
Ooohhhh maan 😢i was never ready for that ending, i was chopping some onions 😢😢..and jus like Tshedi i cried coz u wer crying.. Mara Askies hle.. But in life there's a time and season for everything under the sun.. Maybe it was time for the friendship to end hay.. I hope you heal sesi.. Huggie Huggie 🤗
@@mukololo_Lorna yes, I also think it was time for us to separate, and Mr Bush Bush became the catalyst
@@mukololo_Lorna Thanks for the love ❤️
@@the2wins 😂 😂 as for Mr Bush Bush im dead 😂😂😂... Please consider reading Let it Go a book by Bishop TD Jakes it will really help you to flush it out of ur system completely and is ok not to feel good, allow it
OMG this is a lovely surprise. I can enjoy my lunch and watch you ladies. Thank you for the upload ❤
Edit: Maiso you’re the pillar(the big sis of this twinship) so Tshediso relies on you. We can’t all be pillars🤣🤣🤧
@@sheetmaskbabe Enjoy your lunch Grace….❤️❤️ Thank you so much, indeed we can’t all be pillars 😂😂
Eyi kunini slindile Ladies. Be blessed.
@@the2winsthank you so much. Have a lovely day❤
Indeed she’s a big sis. Thank you Grace ❤❤
@@NonhlakaniphoDlungwanathank you ❤
This friend made our Zulu Makoti cry hle 🥺 I am not happy about her. But it’s okay, please love her from far Makoti. All is well.
@@lindiwemtshali1643 😂😂😂 Thank you, Your Zulu Makoti can be emotional 😢. She will be strong 😍
Kunini slindile morning ladies. Stay blessed.
@@NonhlakaniphoDlungwana Morning❤️❤️ you too enjoy your day
Yoh hle.😂
@@thandekambuyisa2061 😂😂
@thandekambuyisa2061 😂😂
Did I just not start crying when you started crying Aus Maiso ❤❤ I love you
@@BhelekaziA Sorry ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Askies Maiso♥
@@TheVillageGirlFarmer thank you ❤️
Love you love you love the both of you. You're both unique in your own way. M invested ❤
Thank you Lorraine, we love you too❤️❤️
Thank you Lorraine ❤❤❤ much love
Ntse ke le gopotse yoh😂😂😂
Re fihlile 😂😂😂
Yaaay.... there we go! Thank you for another video.
What a way to start my day ka 5am😂
Thank you ladies. You're the best
@@quinteederma9552 Good morning ❤️❤️❤️ your day ❤️❤️
You’re welcome madam ❤❤❤❤
Matshediso❤❤❤love you loads Ausi. You are a good person. I understand your personality. ❤❤❤❤
Wow, thank you so much Thandiwe ❤️❤️
Oh my word!!!! A name reveal😂😂😂😂, yay!!!!
Hope you had a good weekend nevertheless my dearly beloved. You deserve to recharge, it makes the wait soooooo worthwhile❤❤❤
@@dineolukuugi9662 😂😂😂😂 that name only 🙆🏽♂️ The weekend was awesome, we had a good rest. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm addicted to you guys🥰🥰🥰 keep on sharing your stories they are interesting... Lots of love❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Lesedi. We will keep sharing. Much love ❤️
Thank you so much 😀We love you more ❤️❤️
20:51 Mr Mumba speaking 'lower' english to accommodate Maiiso 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you ladies are so funny bandla anizenzi 😂😂😂😂
@@Lungelo911 imagine, all this years I thought we were in the same Vocabulary level, kanthi No, it’s a favour🙆🏽♂️😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Mr Mumba is a nice guy 😂
Beautiful stories ladies, ❤️ ♥️ 💕
@@RobertHiine-o5i thank you ❤️❤️
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“Indlela eya kuJehova inameva “ did I not die 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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So 😢. Let's just be glad that you were not sucked up into the cult the way your friend is. Hoping she also comes to her senses and get out of there and live her life optimally.
This is proof that that church/cult is not about love, reconciliation, or forgiveness. A real church teaches and encourages people to make amends and love one another unconditionally. Sending you both love and lots of hugs ❤❤❤❤
That’s very important, love, reconciliation , forgiveness. That church did the opposite, how sad 😢. Thank God we got out quicker
My mamma my papa😂😂😂😂😂o nqetile hle
@@yvonnentema6703 🤣🤣🤣🤣
17:07 😂😂😂😂 minister of transport
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"Someone in Welkom sitting on the stoep"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@DM-rm5ec For real, she was sitting on the stoep 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 chehe
Maiso nnake❤❤❤❤
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My late friend resigned from goverment Job , took his savings and donated to Bhushiri. He had been lied to that if he were to seed so much , he Will soar John on Life. He died a pauper , living in a rented one room flat.
@@sifisosibandze1220 This is so sad, heartbreaking 💔 💔I’m sorry about your friend
Friends have broken up over smaller issues, like separating over a guy
True
Truth Maiso luvs people ,Tshidiso o strict taba ya batho ha di kene niks niks 😂😂,bt luv you both ❤
@@AdmiringMacawBird-ok1yt 😂😂😂😂 Ore tshwere hantle ❤️
😂😂😂 true
So sorry Maiso if its meant to be it will be sending you love
@@mathatotsupane9969 Thank you ❤️❤️
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Inzima lendlela😮😮
@@zuzilezungu5899 😂😂yona inzima
Asbonge twins,iv been checking my phone ke batlana le notification kere eskaba ke fetuwe.
@@Dorcas-le2vf Sesingenile 😂😂😂
❤ ❤ Oh my Matshidiso why are you cutting onions I am also crying. Love you darlings❤ ❤
😂😂😂🙈 no more tears now. I want you guys to laugh only ❤️
Oh shame, this is so sad! I hope she sees this and reach out to you 😊
@@shitshembisomabunda7522 If she is still in the church, she won’t. We need to accept
Maiso it is well my dear not everyone is to go with you to the next level of your life. Even Abraham prospered when he parted ways with Lot. Lot was not in God’s plan to be with Abraham but by virtue of association to Abraham God blessed him. I really hurt when I saw you cry. Let go and let God heal and comfort you. That ‘friend’ you can still love her from far; but like I said maybe it wasn’t in God’s plan for her to be in your next level of elevation. I love you guys. ❤💞💕Tshediso you’re the voice of reason, you somehow have a hind sight, nature that gift.
Thank you so much, I’m learning to let go. Ready to move on. ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for the love
hakakakakaak Maiso you can be a very good mfundisi yazi..the way you are articulating mfana wa se malawi eyy it has power maan, go deeper mama im listening iyeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 go deeper mama. She’s bushirified
@@mukololo_Lorna 😂😂😂😂He is easy to articulate, he makes sure he lives in your head. I’m better now because I’ve flushed him out
@@MRSMumba so wena you got a husband /marriage and leave church, "papa gave you marriage" n u jus pack n leave eyyyy dis girl see your life 😂😂😂😂 eyyyy dat killed me finish
@mukololo_Lorna You benefited from the scam. Wena it worked for your advantage 😂😂😂 Good for you 💯
Tshediso ha o ikamahanye le batho😂😂but I already noticed that ur the fussy one en Matshediso a softy❤
Hahaha, she put all the burden on me. When I flop she comes and says,,, what the hell😂
Ayi balimele bantu ama foreign Churches,kuncono kulimazwa abakini😢😅
Foreign churches should be banned
Thank you, God, that I'm rising again 🙏🏿
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❤❤❤batho baka
Lovvie ❤
Our love ❤️❤️
Nna kele rata both❤
@@benedictorkhokong4100 Lerona rea urata babe ❤️❤️
Le rona reu rata ratiiii ❤
Ao！you indeed loved her…but people come into our lives for a purpose，when they are done they leave others they come and they stay…about these churches OMG reka pheta masa a kokometse😂🤣😂😂🤣nie maan ba re ntselitse kereke🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah, I really loved here…..we’ve been through a lot together. As for Bush Bush church, chehe atlare senyetsa nako moshanyana 😂😂😂😂😂 re tswile monyaka wa kereke klaar
The ending 😢😢, sending you a tight🫂❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you
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❤ ❤ 🎉🎉 iyaaa the daughters of Jehovah ❤❤🎉🎉
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Sorry guy's hpe u reconcile with your dear friend.....
Thank you Thato. 🙏❤️
I hope so too
Thank u so much for sharing guys, i was also there and i can relate with most if the things you guys mentioned. Mrs Mumba Im just like you , I really don't invest my emotions into people and things and i thought maybe im weird or i don't love people but its really about protecting myself and my heart
@@highlyfavouredandgraced 😍😍😍
We better protect our hearts kannete.
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🎉You're an ENTERTAINMENT CHANNEL🎉
@@4Kenosi Thank you 🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Kenosi ❤
Ai vhathu wee 😂😂😂😂😂 but at least nne i wasn't scamming people..i was jus pushing my business hle 🤓but tbh wit you my heart used to bleed seeing wat was happening there and all those people 😢😢, nne my discernment spirit is very strong shem but coz im stubborn i used to go, i was only active during music 🎶 but the rest nah, i used to jus switched off nje and 👀 👀 the drama
Wena you capitalised on it, well done 👏, smart girl. You saw opportunity 😂
hakakakak Tshidiso wait a minute, which friends coz wena with friendshipping you fail shem, nne even with funerals or parties im not very good, but with business relationship i excel 500% but with frienship nje i fail🤣🤣🤣🤣please vhathu jus get used to me uri i comment whilst watching coz eyy i cannot arrest myself,
😂😂😂😂😂 this friendshipping thing is difficult. People are different and we need to understand
I’m used to your pattern of watching now 😂 Same whatsapp as Tshediso when it come to friendships
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣looking at the topic nje but im already laughing like a mad woman..can i go deeper..kkkkkk dis 1 wants me to have a cup of tea with avocado and fako moya loaf coz eyyy iss gona be a long day yazini...i love you sisters very much abeg
@@mukololo_Lorna It’s gonna be a long day Mama🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you need that cup of coffee. And it’s just 10% of Mfana wase Malawi stories
@@the2wins mara you guys ni wrongo shem, why dont you do like a live thingy and allow some of us to join coz i also want to vent, i have a lot even kimberly hole is nothing compared to wat i have to vent out,,eyyy dat malowi boy mxm the thunder coming to him is still busy doing push-ups, people close to me are still wounded and even relatioships died coz of him yerrrrrr
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a nice cup of tea is needed for this one
@@mukololo_Lornawe need to consider that. 😂😂😂 great idea . People need to vent
Okay, we need to structure our days. Once a week we go live and allow you guys to join
Sorry maiso😢
@@leratoletsie4069 thank you ❤️❤️
Ya bua kapela nyana! Tshidiso mafufunyana kea eng mara😅
O Senya nako 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 ntloheleng nna
Our people thank you❤❤❤❤❤
@@emilykeziahngobeni5387 You welcome ❤️❤️
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Maiiso talks over Tshidiso but I think it's because of that " My marriage was based on lies " series because Maiiso had to narrate the story and Tshidiso just had to make additions , corrections and reminder about the story but anyway that's her story .
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I wish I could do this my twin is long gone and I miss her very much .
Much love ❤❤❤
I’m trying to go easy on that. Tshediso takes time to get to the point, so Il be impatient 🫣 sorry guys, il work on it.
@@the2wins It's not a complain Maiiso, to me personally I love it and that's how twins mostly are , finishing each other's sentence.
@@the2wins I thinks it stems from your personalities which are different.
When you explained it on this video when talking about emotions, I had already seen it and you should celebrate how you are and be yourself and enjoy this You Tube life .
I have been through the trauma (church ) you have through and all you are saying about it is very true .
That’s true ❤️
Churches have messed up many of us. I’m so sorry
Oh❤❤you ladies are beautiful and clean👌
Thank you Thandiwe 😊❤❤
Thank you so much 🤗❤️
Sign in ❤❤❤❤❤
@@neomoleko4568 Enjoy ❤️❤️
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😂😂 Not Maiso taking a call . Much love for you twins
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Malome wanted me 😂😂😂, much love ❤️❤️
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Love you ladies❤❤❤... so so sorry and big 🫂 4 the lost friendship.....again i say great story tellers!!!!!
@@Me20243 Thank you so much ❤️❤️
Thank you my darling ❤❤❤
Maiso now, you cry and I am crying and ppl ask me why am I crying....😂😂😂 Wena maar....le di comments ditsamaile ka hloohong ka mona
@@MsThandi1 😂😂😂😂 Askies hlee. Eish, thanks for the love ❤️❤️
Eish Maiso le ena
I lost two friends on account of Bhushiri .
Sad
This is really sad
Where is she now?
We don’t even know
Still at church 😂
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I once asked on your Facebook, 'Mary'?
I guess it has to do with your Christian journey 😜
You never answered that question, tell me!
@@MsThandi1 It’s actually my name, my first name. My legal names in order Mary Matshediso Thella 😊
Really, I thought otherwise 😂@@the2wins
🤣🤣🤣Banifaka iziphandla esontweni
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20:51 Mr Mumba speaking 'lower' english to accommodate Maiiso 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you ladies are so funny bandla anizenzi 😂😂😂😂
@@Lungelo911 🤣🤣🤣🤣 All this time I thought Sware and I are in the same league in terms of English vocabulary, kanthi No, he is way higher, they are feeling sorry for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A very nice guy that one 😂😂😂😂😂
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