When my husband and I got married he would help me clean up, do the dishes and etc.. his oldest brother one day said to him "you're so whipped by your wife." My husband's response, " I'm helping my wife nothing wrong with that, besides I live here too." I was so proud of him because his oldest brother is a piece of 💩 his wife does everything for him. I feel sorry for his wife. Anyways my husband and I just celebrated our 19 yrs anniversary. 💓
I hope that as stories are being told that each story comes a stronger person to be able to leave abusive relationships or situations. Lets use each others situations to become our strengths. I am fortunate to have a very lovig husband. My husband is not Hmong but i can tell you regardless of culture it starts with slef love.
I'm glad u didn't go back to that evil self-entitled jerk. So many women like u go back, but u didn't. I'm happy u found a man who is able to love and respect u.
Zoo siab rau koj thiab os tus viv ncaus uas koj tseem tawm thiab tso tau tus txiv phem li koj tus no nawb....kuv lub neej ces zoo li koj lub tsis deb thiab tabsi vim yog kuv tsis muaj pheev xwm npaum li koj es kuv pheej tseem nyob uv kuv tus txog nias hnub niam no....😭😭
Omg! I can definitely relate to this story. We’re told by the elders to uv n uv all the times regardless of being treated shitty. These men are narcissistic people and are controlling freaks. I’m glad u were strong and bold enough to leave your marriage for a better one. We all deserved to be treated equally and ❤️.
Majority hmoob men born from Laos/Thailand/3rd world countries R the same mindset…..belittle wife n cheaters! Only 10% OG hmoob men are true loyal husbands!
My husband and I have been married since we were 16. His cousins and friends use to give him so much cr@p about him taking me to the soccer tournaments, New Years etc. He always told them why not?!? We’re celebrating our 23 years this year and most of his friends and cousins have either been remarried or divorced. Follow your hearts and don’t be influenced by people around you.
What kind of parents teach their son to be like your husband? I’d like to know to keep any of my daughters, sisters, girlfriends or any girls to stay away from this family. This is so 1975! A marriage is a 50/50 relationship. Respect each other.
Still happens to this day. It’s up to us to change the next generation cause that shit no work. I help with the yard work and do all the chores in the house yet my husband barely mow the lawn.
I’m happy for you and your new husband. Your ex was selfish and evil. He can’t even take care of himself, and yet he didn’t love you. I protect my wife and our kids. I help my wife with chores around the house. When we eat, I’ll give her the best piece of meat that she cooked. I wash the dishes after we ate. I encourage her to buy good food and eat when she is away from home. I would not go on a vacation without her…😩👍🤠
No, it starts with the women. My inlaws were like that. When I first married in, my husband started to act like his father, slaved his mother away. I told my husband right away that I’m not his mama and he need to stop being his daddy or else. And that was 27 years ago. Women just have to set the ground rules or them dudes will ride hard as they could and know how. Because that’s what they witnessed their daddies do to his slave mommies.
PrincessWarrior: I totally agree. It does start with the woman- from the mother first then pass down to the wife. Majority of the time, the kind of men that are lazy and irresponsible- acting like this guy that I've seen are those which their mother raised them that way. Don't allow them to do anything and teach them no responsibility at all. That's why some men act the way they do. When some wives like this woman continued on with the torch treating men like this like a child, of course his childish behavior will continue.
@@ThePrincessWorrior Agreed! When I first married my husband he wanted me to put socks on his feet when we get dressed to go out because that’s what my MIL would do for my FIL. I said no because I’m not his mom and he is capable of putting his own socks on. You have to nip stuff like that in the bud and set your own standards.
Peb nyob lub ntuj qub qab, poj niam nyoo txiv neej,nyob under txiv neej tuag nthi. Lawv yuav tsawg leej los poj niam tsis muaj cai hais tau. Poj niam tau ua thawj tus txiv, poj niam tau ntxuav tus txiv ko taw ua ntej yuav mus pw. Poj niam mus ua nyab yuav tau mus ua qhev tuag nthi mas thiaj yog 1 tug nyab zoo tab txawm ua2 khwv2 nkag kaws es txiv neej noj tag tsis tseg 1 daig nqaij rau nws noj mas nws thiaj yog 1 tug nyab zoo. Lub teb chaws no tsis yog xyoo 60,65 rov yav lawm. Lub teb chaws no sawv daws khwv tau nyiaj ib yam lawm thiab sawv daws tau kawm txawj kawm ntse ib yam lawm yog li tsis yog tias poj niam tsis need hwm tus txiv lawm, poj niam yuav tsum hwm tus txiv tabsis 2 leeg yuav tau sib hwm sib pab vim 2 leeg khwv rau sab nraud ib yam, yog li 2 leeg yuav tau sib pab sib hlub thiaj ua lub neej vam meej.
Peb muab peb cov txiv treat zoo li fuab tais xwb os tim peb cov niam thiaj txiv qhia peb tiam peb cov txiv li tawv thiab. Lawv tsis qhia kom peb sis pab tab si lawv qhia kom ua tus txiv qev.
Kuv zoo siab rau koj os tus Viv ncaus. Tej koj hais yeej 💯% yog tshaj. Kuv twb raug ib lub neej li koj lub thiab os. Thaum yus ua zoo ntxaus lawm, yus mus yeej tsis tig rov qab. Kuv twb los tau lub neej zoo zoo lawm thiab. Kuv thiaj ntseeg hais tias, yus ua zoo ces lub ntuj yeej muab tus zoo los rau yus. Niaj hnub no ces kuv ua neej kaj kaj siab lawm thiab os.
Hmoob muaj ib los lus uas hais tias ruam tsab ntse ces yog ib tus tib neeg uas nws pheej xav tias nws yog tus tseem ceeb tshaj,nws tsi paub tsi pab tus hlub2 nws, tus tib neeg twg coj tus cooj pwm li tus txiv neej no ces lub neej yeej tsi txog twg.
I could never marry any Hmong because i know myself. The lifestyle in Hmong culture would slowly destroy my internal self. HMONG uses old culture to hold down their women and girls down. It is irresponsible.
There R modern hmoob men out there but u hav to really do research n find him, how sad that there’s only a few good hmoob men out there that R also handsome, tall, educated, n dedicated to his wife n kids!
Your husband's personality came from his parents. They raised him with that mentality. Raise your sons to become men's you someday would want your son in law to be like for your daughters.
Putting up with a husband who's disrespectful to you and your families until you have a mental break down and then snapped out of being in denial is nothing to be proud of and made you one dumb woman not a strong woman. Your second marriage is also nothing special. That's how married couples should be.
Tu siab tias kuv lub siab tawv tsis taus li koj es kuv pheej rov Los uv2 nws es kuv thiaj plam lub neej tom ntej mus rau luag lwm tus lawm os yog kuv ua Tau li koj CES ntshe hnub no kuv kaj siab li koj lawm thiab mi niam tsev aw 😭🥵
E.... Zaj dab neeg no nim zoo kiag li kv lub neej. Tab si tu niam tai no nw dim plaw lawm kv ce tseem niaj hnub ua zoo hwm kv tu txiv cuag ib tug huab tai rau hlua nkauj xwb hai ce niam pog txiv yawg hai tia kv siab me thaum twg nw mu tham hlua nkauj lo txog g pub nw cov khawb ncaw yu ntxhua lawm mam hai. kv ce tau qhov mob2 tag uv xwb o. Ca peb g muaj ib txoj cai li o
Zaj no mas kuv yuav tsum tau TSo tau kuv tus txiv mloog Seb nws puas xeev tsim los es hais tias tus thaub no thiab nws ces txawv tsis deb os ! Kuv los yeej yuav tawm tsev thiab os !
Omg! I'm so proud of this sister! I was once in your boat. When you've had enough, enough is enough. Nothing will change your mind to go back. All their tears and "mistakes" and begging goes in deaf ear. The heart is dead.
Tus me niam tsev koj hais yog lawm os vim kuv twb nyob koj qhov chawm thiab. Thaum kawg kuv twb ua ib yam li koj ua thiab os finally i left him . God bless peb cov poj niam
Nyob lub teb chaws no tus president kiag twb tseem hla tsis dhau txoj cai na cas Tej tug niag neeg khib xuab zoo li no xwb es cas yuav muaj cai ua luaj Tos raug2 qhia cai los coj li no xwb nev
Vuag..me viv ncaus aw...cas koj zaj es niam zoo li kuv zaj kiag li thiab os thaum yus tau ib tug txiv es tsis hlub yus tog neej tsa yus niam yus tej viv ncaus mas tu siab kawg os ho nws cov kwv tij mas nws kom yus ua txhua yam rau no mas tu2 siab tshaj li os lawv....niam xav ua kiag li koj hais no xwb os
YEEE HAAA!!!! SO GOOD TO SEE A HMONG BROTHER OF THE OLD CULTURE SUFFER AND LOSE A GOOD WOMAN. I have no sympathy for hmong men like this ex husband. GOOD JOB TO THE LADY. HAHAHA! yea hmong men out there... Keep it up. Keep making your friends more important than your good wife. Keep leaving her alone and not love her. Y'all end up just like him. I hope y'alls wife leave y'all too. HAHAHA!
Ua tsaug uas koj share koj lub neej rau peb. Ib tug niam tsev coj li koj nrhiav nyuaj kawg nkaus li. We need more women like you. You didn't deserve how your evil husband treated you. Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj txiav taus txim siab tawm ntawm nws mus es tau ib tug txiv hlub hlub koj lawm.
Glad that you divorced the controlling, abusing, and narcissist husband. Should have left him long time ago but good that you did!! Karma got him good. Men like that does not deserve a good wife. Your husband thinks he is the king and a chauvinism @$$hole. So glad you have left him!!!!!
koj twb nyob USA. na lub teb chawg muaj vaj huam swb luag. koj tseem tiam koj tug txiv tag npaum kom. tseem tsw yuav koj thiab .ntuj aw niag dev kom moov tas lawm mas. nub no koj muaj zoo neej nim yuav muaj ib tug twg yuav log tiam tau nwg. cov txiv zoo li kom ntog ruab tau os. zoo kawg muab rauj kiag. nwg nim zoo2 no twb tsw muaj neej ni.cov laug tseem cob tej me nyuam kom lub hlwb poob2 qab li kom
Niam tsev eee- you pamper your hubby too much to the point that he can’t help himself. Please stop and care about your self. Also don’t do like this to anyone in your life because you give too much. You may think you love them but you aren’t but you train them to be dependent on you and others. You supposed to teach your kids and not them teaching you 😔
I can relate to this story. So similar to my past marriage. U always cater to them on the sofa. Please him all the time but can never satisfy his desire.
😅😅😅 Cas koj tus txiv quaj li kuv tus thiab peb cov txiv es ua phem rau yus es yus quaj cheem nws kom nws txhob tham hluas nkauj es los ua zoo rau lub neej mas nws muaj2 plhus kawg quaj li no xwb tiag kuv tus qub txiv mas tsa hlo suab quaj npaum nkauj nyab tshiab
Hauv lub qab ntuj no feem ntau ntawv peb cov poj niam hmoob ces yeej ntsib lub neej zoo li no 90% tos peb Dim lub neej zoo li no los lawm ua rau kv zeem thiab ua ib siab ntxhai txiv neej hmoob lawm seb lwm haiv neeg puas muaj txoj kev hlub tus poj niam los yog zoo ib yam nkaus xb
The first red 🚩 was when your MIL said you are second class to your husband and can’t over step him. You were only his slave not his wife. Glad you were able to leave and find happiness with someone who appreciates you.
He is immature husband bcuz he was raised that way. The way your MiL lecture u, u can tell your husband will be trouble! Hopefully as time changes, our hmoob men will be more mature adults n cook n clean after themselves. Women R not their slaves! Everybody got 2 hands, 2 feet. Make used of it, iron your own clothes, do your own laundry. If wife have time she’ll help but the hub need to help himself. Women carry/labor your kids! The least U men can do is cook/clean after yourself!!! Its easier than labor!! It’s both the husband/wife responsibility to care for their kids/house, not just the women do everything. Uughhhh grow up u lazy men!
How long do Hmong women have to live in the U.S. before they get it through their heads that they don't have to put up with losers anymore. Don't allow a spouse to disrespect you over and over again. Don't waste years of your life on someone not worthy of you --- know your self-worth.
I think it's easier said than done, I struggle for 13 years before leaving because you hope one day he'll change, because you have children and you hope.
@@junemoua7667 It's true it's easier said than done, but if someone truly loves you, you shouldn't have to wait for them to change, they should want to change as quickly as possible to make the marriage work. If you wait a year and there's no change, then he's never going to change; why keep waiting and wasting your life? IMO, if there are children involved, it's even more important that your children grow up in an environment that's happy and healthy, regardless of marital status.
Damm so true, my sis was w/ an abusive/cheater/manipulator hmoob dog for 40 yrs w 10 kids b4 she escaped thru God’s love. Now she’s in a better place n in her 50’s she’s never been happier! It’s never too late!
I'm so glad your sister finally found her worth and left. It is easier said than done. Only those who's been through it will understand. Us, woman and some men, will always ua siab ntev and try again and again, until we can't anymore. That's just the point of this story and what the author is trying to convey. " you give it your all, so when you leave, you have no regrets and therefore, there is no going back, period!"
When my husband and I got married he would help me clean up, do the dishes and etc.. his oldest brother one day said to him "you're so whipped by your wife." My husband's response, " I'm helping my wife nothing wrong with that, besides I live here too." I was so proud of him because his oldest brother is a piece of 💩 his wife does everything for him. I feel sorry for his wife. Anyways my husband and I just celebrated our 19 yrs anniversary. 💓
I hope that as stories are being told that each story comes a stronger person to be able to leave abusive relationships or situations. Lets use each others situations to become our strengths. I am fortunate to have a very lovig husband. My husband is not Hmong but i can tell you regardless of culture it starts with slef love.
I'm glad u didn't go back to that evil self-entitled jerk. So many women like u go back, but u didn't. I'm happy u found a man who is able to love and respect u.
Just the beginning of heated, hate men who has this kind of mindset
Aws zoo lawm os mog me niam tsev siab zoo aw
God created everybody equal, we women is not men slave.
Tus niam lấy kj hais yog lawm os
I'm done with these stores. Too much lectures about how to do what, instead of just telling the stories.
Do what I says, don’t do what I do, this is what our elder Hmong ppl would says, I totally understand how you feel
It gets old really quick. I'm with u on this.
I agree, it’s just May’s stories. Other story tellers are actually stories.
Go to a different store then!
I know right. I done too. I never listened to her whole video.
Cov txiv neej siab phem ces zoo li tiag tsis paub xav rau lwm tug nws tsuas xav rau nws xwb
Ngob zoo os
Tug me viv ncaug aw hlb kj tshaj li og tug txiv Liam hiam li kj xb muab tso mug zoo dua mog
Zoo siab rau koj thiab os tus viv ncaus uas koj tseem tawm thiab tso tau tus txiv phem li koj tus no nawb....kuv lub neej ces zoo li koj lub tsis deb thiab tabsi vim yog kuv tsis muaj pheev xwm npaum li koj es kuv pheej tseem nyob uv kuv tus txog nias hnub niam no....😭😭
Tej zaum peb ib co vivncaus ces rau ib txhaig khau xwb os kuv los tseem tabtom saib2 yaig xyov yuav nyob los yuav nrauj thiab tiag
Kawm tau ib qho tshiab rau yus lawm thiab. " Ua zoo rau tus tshiab"
Omg! I can definitely relate to this story. We’re told by the elders to uv n uv all the times regardless of being treated shitty. These men are narcissistic people and are controlling freaks. I’m glad u were strong and bold enough to leave your marriage for a better one. We all deserved to be treated equally and ❤️.
Can’t believe such men exist in this world.
There is a lot of them out there like this..you’re blessed for not having one like such.
Can’t believe these hmoob miskas women still exist
There are plenty of men like this out there because they think they are god's gift to women.
Majority hmoob men born from Laos/Thailand/3rd world countries R the same mindset…..belittle wife n cheaters! Only 10% OG hmoob men are true loyal husbands!
@@flryprn745 agree!!
My husband and I have been married since we were 16. His cousins and friends use to give him so much cr@p about him taking me to the soccer tournaments, New Years etc. He always told them why not?!? We’re celebrating our 23 years this year and most of his friends and cousins have either been remarried or divorced. Follow your hearts and don’t be influenced by people around you.
Kuv Tus zoo li koj tus os
What kind of parents teach their son to be like your husband? I’d like to know to keep any of my daughters, sisters, girlfriends or any girls to stay away from this family. This is so 1975! A marriage is a 50/50 relationship. Respect each other.
Still happens to this day. It’s up to us to change the next generation cause that shit no work. I help with the yard work and do all the chores in the house yet my husband barely mow the lawn.
Tus txiv tsev zoo li no tsis tsim nyog yuav lawm os
tus txiv ko mas tub nkeeg thiab lim lam tiag2 tus txiv dev teem mauj nqis dhaus
I’m happy for you and your new husband. Your ex was selfish and evil. He can’t even take care of himself, and yet he didn’t love you. I protect my wife and our kids. I help my wife with chores around the house. When we eat, I’ll give her the best piece of meat that she cooked. I wash the dishes after we ate. I encourage her to buy good food and eat when she is away from home. I would not go on a vacation without her…😩👍🤠
My husband is like you too. He always give me the best part of meat, let me have the first and the last bite. He never go anywhere without me
No, it starts with the women.
My inlaws were like that. When I first married in, my husband started to act like his father, slaved his mother away. I told my husband right away that I’m not his mama and he need to stop being his daddy or else. And that was 27 years ago.
Women just have to set the ground rules or them dudes will ride hard as they could and know how. Because that’s what they witnessed their daddies do to his slave mommies.
PrincessWarrior: I totally agree. It does start with the woman- from the mother first then pass down to the wife. Majority of the time, the kind of men that are lazy and irresponsible- acting like this guy that I've seen are those which their mother raised them that way. Don't allow them to do anything and teach them no responsibility at all. That's why some men act the way they do. When some wives like this woman continued on with the torch treating men like this like a child, of course his childish behavior will continue.
@@ThePrincessWorrior Agreed! When I first married my husband he wanted me to put socks on his feet when we get dressed to go out because that’s what my MIL would do for my FIL. I said no because I’m not his mom and he is capable of putting his own socks on. You have to nip stuff like that in the bud and set your own standards.
@@monkeybanana9269 Exacty! 💯
I'm so proud of u sister, so happy for your new life.👏
I feel so sorry for your pain. You deserve so much better.
Who else reads these comments besides me?🤣
Cas koj zaj neej neeg no mas raug kiag li kuv lub neej li thiab os
😪😪😪😪
Tus Viv Ncaus koj lub neej thiab kuv lub neej mas zoo ib yam ntag. Kuv los ua thiab xav ib yam li koj xav thiab tiag.
Peb nyob lub ntuj qub qab, poj niam nyoo txiv neej,nyob under txiv neej tuag nthi. Lawv yuav tsawg leej los poj niam tsis muaj cai hais tau. Poj niam tau ua thawj tus txiv, poj niam tau ntxuav tus txiv ko taw ua ntej yuav mus pw. Poj niam mus ua nyab yuav tau mus ua qhev tuag nthi mas thiaj yog 1 tug nyab zoo tab txawm ua2 khwv2 nkag kaws es txiv neej noj tag tsis tseg 1 daig nqaij rau nws noj mas nws thiaj yog 1 tug nyab zoo. Lub teb chaws no tsis yog xyoo 60,65 rov yav lawm. Lub teb chaws no sawv daws khwv tau nyiaj ib yam lawm thiab sawv daws tau kawm txawj kawm ntse ib yam lawm yog li tsis yog tias poj niam tsis need hwm tus txiv lawm, poj niam yuav tsum hwm tus txiv tabsis 2 leeg yuav tau sib hwm sib pab vim 2 leeg khwv rau sab nraud ib yam, yog li 2 leeg yuav tau sib pab sib hlub thiaj ua lub neej vam meej.
Niaj cov niam tsev niaj yuav tsum ntse me ntsis thiab ma.
Ha koj tsaug nawj ua tus qauv zoo kawg rau peb cov poj niam nawj
Zoo kawg uas koj dim plaws cov niag txiv dev lim hiam ko os! Nrog koj zoo siab kav tsij rau siab khwv nyiaj mus ncig ntuj xwb os mog!!
Peb muab peb cov txiv treat zoo li fuab tais xwb os tim peb cov niam thiaj txiv qhia peb tiam peb cov txiv li tawv thiab. Lawv tsis qhia kom peb sis pab tab si lawv qhia kom ua tus txiv qev.
Kuv zoo siab rau koj os tus Viv ncaus. Tej koj hais yeej 💯% yog tshaj. Kuv twb raug ib lub neej li koj lub thiab os. Thaum yus ua zoo ntxaus lawm, yus mus yeej tsis tig rov qab. Kuv twb los tau lub neej zoo zoo lawm thiab. Kuv thiaj ntseeg hais tias, yus ua zoo ces lub ntuj yeej muab tus zoo los rau yus. Niaj hnub no ces kuv ua neej kaj kaj siab lawm thiab os.
The story was good until May started lecturing...
Neeg ruam neeg siab com viab koj tsis hlub raug lawm
He is a spoiled baby
I not teach my kids like that
Not fair
Hmoob muaj ib los lus uas hais tias ruam tsab ntse ces yog ib tus tib neeg uas nws pheej xav tias nws yog tus tseem ceeb tshaj,nws tsi paub tsi pab tus hlub2 nws, tus tib neeg twg coj tus cooj pwm li tus txiv neej no ces lub neej yeej tsi txog twg.
Yeej yog li tus niam tsev no hai kawg yus xav kom yus zoo xav os es yus pua yuav muaj txoj hmoo zoo li nws os
I could never marry any Hmong because i know myself. The lifestyle in Hmong culture would slowly destroy my internal self. HMONG uses old culture to hold down their women and girls down. It is irresponsible.
There R modern hmoob men out there but u hav to really do research n find him, how sad that there’s only a few good hmoob men out there that R also handsome, tall, educated, n dedicated to his wife n kids!
What a manipulative, toxic ex husband who just wants to control her. Glad she escaped that cage of hell!
Your husband's personality came from his parents. They raised him with that mentality. Raise your sons to become men's you someday would want your son in law to be like for your daughters.
Putting up with a husband who's disrespectful to you and your families until you have a mental break down and then snapped out of being in denial is nothing to be proud of and made you one dumb woman not a strong woman. Your second marriage is also nothing special. That's how married couples should be.
Tu siab tias kuv lub siab tawv tsis taus li koj es kuv pheej rov Los uv2 nws es kuv thiaj plam lub neej tom ntej mus rau luag lwm tus lawm os yog kuv ua Tau li koj CES ntshe hnub no kuv kaj siab li koj lawm thiab mi niam tsev aw 😭🥵
Overly arrogant husband. This is not how couple should be.
E.... Zaj dab neeg no nim zoo kiag li kv lub neej. Tab si tu niam tai no nw dim plaw lawm kv ce tseem niaj hnub ua zoo hwm kv tu txiv cuag ib tug huab tai rau hlua nkauj xwb hai ce niam pog txiv yawg hai tia kv siab me thaum twg nw mu tham hlua nkauj lo txog g pub nw cov khawb ncaw yu ntxhua lawm mam hai. kv ce tau qhov mob2 tag uv xwb o. Ca peb g muaj ib txoj cai li o
Zaj no mas kuv yuav tsum tau TSo tau kuv tus txiv mloog Seb nws puas xeev tsim los es hais tias tus thaub no thiab nws ces txawv tsis deb os ! Kuv los yeej yuav tawm tsev thiab os !
This story gives me hope, especially the last part’s advice 👏🏼👏🏼😩😭😭
Koj tus qub txiv kawm tiav txoj kev muab tus kheej saib hlob tshaj tus poj niam uas yog tus yus hlub tshaj nyob qab ntuj no lawm 🤣
Zoo siab koj tso nws lawm
Koj nqa ib sab khau xwb kuv los yuav tsi kam rau thiab os. Kuv yeej ib txwm rau ob sab ne.
Omg! I'm so proud of this sister! I was once in your boat. When you've had enough, enough is enough. Nothing will change your mind to go back. All their tears and "mistakes" and begging goes in deaf ear. The heart is dead.
Úa neej ces nyias muam nyias ib luv neej tu tu siab heev li os
Mloog txoj no kuv meem txom rau cov txiv neej zoo li no
This man is an abusive husband our men should Change.
I love this story
You inspired other women. thank you for sharing your story.
Blah blah blah
I’m glad you have a goal
Zaj dab neeg zoo kawg li
Peb ua tib neeg nyob hauv lub qab ntuj no tu neeg phem ma yeej phem tiag2 li ?
Thanks for sharing sister. Hard work pays off for long term
I agree with you, do good for the next person.
Tus me niam tsev koj hais yog lawm os vim kuv twb nyob koj qhov chawm thiab. Thaum kawg kuv twb ua ib yam li koj ua thiab os finally i left him . God bless peb cov poj niam
Kv lub neej ces zoo li kj zaj neej neeg no os
That's my kind'n girl you are #1
Xav Tau ib tug poj niam txawj hlub tus txiv
Nyob lub teb chaws no tus president kiag twb tseem hla tsis dhau txoj cai na cas
Tej tug niag neeg khib xuab zoo li no xwb es cas yuav muaj cai ua luaj
Tos raug2 qhia cai los coj li no xwb nev
Vuag..me viv ncaus aw...cas koj zaj es niam zoo li kuv zaj kiag li thiab os thaum yus tau ib tug txiv es tsis hlub yus tog neej tsa yus niam yus tej viv ncaus mas tu siab kawg os ho nws cov kwv tij mas nws kom yus ua txhua yam rau no mas tu2 siab tshaj li os lawv....niam xav ua kiag li koj hais no xwb os
YEEE HAAA!!!!
SO GOOD TO SEE A HMONG BROTHER OF THE OLD CULTURE SUFFER AND LOSE A GOOD WOMAN. I have no sympathy for hmong men like this ex husband. GOOD JOB TO THE LADY. HAHAHA! yea hmong men out there... Keep it up. Keep making your friends more important than your good wife. Keep leaving her alone and not love her. Y'all end up just like him. I hope y'alls wife leave y'all too. HAHAHA!
Twb tsis sib hlub npaj yuav sib nrauj, ua cas ho vwm muas yuav lub tsev loj loj. Pojruam, txhob ruam ruam os.
Lol. The part where he said he's going to be a hau sau, ( A monk). lol. Good one.
Ua tsaug uas koj share koj lub neej rau peb. Ib tug niam tsev coj li koj nrhiav nyuaj kawg nkaus li. We need more women like you. You didn't deserve how your evil husband treated you. Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj txiav taus txim siab tawm ntawm nws mus es tau ib tug txiv hlub hlub koj lawm.
You didn’t marry a husband, you married a qab choj majesty. Slavery was abolished in America a long time ago, don’t live like that again.
Cov niagbtxiv neej uas coj li no mas nrhe nws khav tias nws tseem muaj hwj chim tshaj ib tus President los yog ib tus huab tais lawm no pob
Hais yog tshaj!!
Glad that you divorced the controlling, abusing, and narcissist husband. Should have left him long time ago but good that you did!! Karma got him good. Men like that does not deserve a good wife. Your husband thinks he is the king and a chauvinism @$$hole. So glad you have left him!!!!!
Nrog Koj zoo siab
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Omg how are you with that kind of guy for so many years? Glad you’re able to get out of that toxic relationship.
koj twb nyob USA. na lub teb chawg muaj vaj huam swb luag. koj tseem tiam koj tug txiv tag npaum kom. tseem tsw yuav koj thiab .ntuj aw niag dev kom moov tas lawm mas. nub no koj muaj zoo neej nim yuav muaj ib tug twg yuav log tiam tau nwg. cov txiv zoo li kom ntog ruab tau os. zoo kawg muab rauj kiag. nwg nim zoo2 no twb tsw muaj neej ni.cov laug tseem cob tej me nyuam kom lub hlwb poob2 qab li kom
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Niam tsev eee- you pamper your hubby too much to the point that he can’t help himself. Please stop and care about your self. Also don’t do like this to anyone in your life because you give too much. You may think you love them but you aren’t but you train them to be dependent on you and others. You supposed to teach your kids and not them teaching you 😔
koj niag txiv dev ko muab hlawv kiag xwb maj txhawj dab tsi ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws
Niam hluas aw kuv xav muab kuv txoj dab neeg rau koj hai os kuv yuav ua li cas thiaj muab tau rau koj hai os
Twb sib nrauj tas leej twg tseem hu hais tias koj niam. Los yog hais tias koj txiv no nas cov niag neeg ruam tshaj li nej twb yog nej dag lawm xwb.
I can relate to this story. So similar to my past marriage. U always cater to them on the sofa. Please him all the time but can never satisfy his desire.
😅😅😅 Cas koj tus txiv quaj li kuv tus thiab peb cov txiv es ua phem rau yus es yus quaj cheem nws kom nws txhob tham hluas nkauj es los ua zoo rau lub neej mas nws muaj2 plhus kawg quaj li no xwb tiag kuv tus qub txiv mas tsa hlo suab quaj npaum nkauj nyab tshiab
Hauv lub qab ntuj no feem ntau ntawv peb cov poj niam hmoob ces yeej ntsib lub neej zoo li no 90% tos peb Dim lub neej zoo li no los lawm ua rau kv zeem thiab ua ib siab ntxhai txiv neej hmoob lawm seb lwm haiv neeg puas muaj txoj kev hlub tus poj niam los yog zoo ib yam nkaus xb
The first red 🚩 was when your MIL said you are second class to your husband and can’t over step him. You were only his slave not his wife. Glad you were able to leave and find happiness with someone who appreciates you.
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Will said it
Txiv neej hmoob siab phem dhau lawm
Nrog koj zoo siab tias koj los tau lub neej zoo zoo lawm os
Txiv ua huab tais ces koj zoo li tus qhev rau nws xwb ua zoo nkim zog xwb o
Sister enjoy with your new like, every thing you been told it’s truth
This is a husband who only thinks of himself....thank god you left his ass...you dont need somebody like that
Tus neeg mtxheev sisb ces yeej txawj tawm tsam tus hsuv tsdv os
Viv ncaus aw thaum zoo li ko ces peb muaj ob lub siab los sib ntaus thaum kawg Lub siab tu siab yeej ces kawg ncaim xwb peb yeej rau ib khawm khau xwb
Wow, you are stronger than you know. So happy you planned ahead and left that stupid husband. You deserve better.
He is immature husband bcuz he was raised that way. The way your MiL lecture u, u can tell your husband will be trouble!
Hopefully as time changes, our hmoob men will be more mature adults n cook n clean after themselves. Women R not their slaves! Everybody got 2 hands, 2 feet. Make used of it, iron your own clothes, do your own laundry. If wife have time she’ll help but the hub need to help himself. Women carry/labor your kids! The least U men can do is cook/clean after yourself!!! Its easier than labor!! It’s both the husband/wife responsibility to care for their kids/house, not just the women do everything. Uughhhh grow up u lazy men!
Hmong men have this mindset of marrying a wife to cook and take care after the husbands. Hate that lifestyle....
How long do Hmong women have to live in the U.S. before they get it through their heads that they don't have to put up with losers anymore. Don't allow a spouse to disrespect you over and over again. Don't waste years of your life on someone not worthy of you --- know your self-worth.
I think it's easier said than done, I struggle for 13 years before leaving because you hope one day he'll change, because you have children and you hope.
@@junemoua7667 It's true it's easier said than done, but if someone truly loves you, you shouldn't have to wait for them to change, they should want to change as quickly as possible to make the marriage work. If you wait a year and there's no change, then he's never going to change; why keep waiting and wasting your life? IMO, if there are children involved, it's even more important that your children grow up in an environment that's happy and healthy, regardless of marital status.
Damm so true, my sis was w/ an abusive/cheater/manipulator hmoob dog for 40 yrs w 10 kids b4 she escaped thru God’s love. Now she’s in a better place n in her 50’s she’s never been happier! It’s never too late!
I'm so glad your sister finally found her worth and left. It is easier said than done. Only those who's been through it will understand. Us, woman and some men, will always ua siab ntev and try again and again, until we can't anymore. That's just the point of this story and what the author is trying to convey. " you give it your all, so when you leave, you have no regrets and therefore, there is no going back, period!"
Wow he too lazy person I am a mam too but I help my wife to cook too
He married to have a slave. She should've left long long ago. SMH