Very Delta #22 with Fena Barbitall: "Are You Annie Potts Like Me?”

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  • @sjengplantaz583
    @sjengplantaz583 Рік тому +288

    Props to Delta for saying what a lot of us needed to hear this year. I can attest, wasting energy on people unwilling to change or compromise is wearing us down and allows others to hold some kind of power over us which only makes us feel inferior in the long run.

    • @MsWing-ij9nb
      @MsWing-ij9nb Рік тому +8

      Same! Miss Delta said what I needed to hear…glad she included that bit on setting boundaries at work too, where dynamics there can be just as toxic as ones in families- I know from experience. I am so done with being taken for granted and disrespected- as someone who’s approaching 40…I really don’t wanna waste precious time on ppl who do not give a crap about me or anyone else - and only think of themselves.
      Amen to Miss Delta! Keep preaching, loud and proud- the world needs to hear your no-nonsense wisdom ❤

    • @it_be_rob2441
      @it_be_rob2441 Рік тому +4

      No legit it was so therapeutic

    • @supermanifold
      @supermanifold Рік тому +3

      I SECOND THIS WHOLEHEARTEDLY

    • @tylermyers200
      @tylermyers200 Рік тому +1

      That's life tho. It's immature AF to just shut down anyone that you happen to disagree with.

    • @tespese
      @tespese 10 місяців тому

      Sometimes when we are afraid we are going to break bridges we actually build them..

  • @gilgallina
    @gilgallina Рік тому +8

    The speech in the beginning, towards the holidays, is a life-saver. It should be preached and taught to every queer person. Thank you so much for this.

  • @corgeousgeorge
    @corgeousgeorge Рік тому +126

    Fena Barbitall is hysterical. I like her very much! When she filled in for Trixie for "queens who like to watch". I was cackling!

    • @melanie6014
      @melanie6014 Рік тому +11

      Her aids joke had me on the floor

    • @coconutshook
      @coconutshook Рік тому +9

      @@melanie6014 it's so outta pocket 😭

    • @freudiannipslip
      @freudiannipslip Рік тому +2

      Yes! One of my fave episodes lmao. And she looked so gorgeous too.

  • @bmoody82
    @bmoody82 Рік тому +176

    We need more Fena! She is great!

    • @buffrogers6650
      @buffrogers6650 Рік тому +11

      She has a beautiful soul. So kind and genuine.

  • @thewittyusername
    @thewittyusername Рік тому +145

    The 4:3 aspect ratio is such a nice touch.

    • @Natalie-hg3gh
      @Natalie-hg3gh Рік тому +8

      This part!!! It's the little details!

  • @sergiu295
    @sergiu295 Рік тому +260

    I love Delta posing for the camera, while the guest is just there.

  • @ms.martiegallego8834
    @ms.martiegallego8834 Рік тому +178

    Delta, You always give very good advice! As a 71 year old TRANS LADY, I learned long ago that I didn't have to be around caustic people !! I also never cared for those underhanded jokes, or comments . My face always said what I would purposely hold My mouth from laying those ignoramuses OUT !! My friends, and even strangers could tell by My face that I was Not amused !! I stopped putting myself in places, or situations that made Me feel a certain way !! I just Love listening to You teach the People !! Have a Beautiful Holiday Season !! Luv Ya !!

    • @czhaok
      @czhaok Рік тому

      So, a 71 year old man in a dress

    • @muchacho9781
      @muchacho9781 Рік тому

      Hello! Uh, if you don't mind then can you tell how long you've been a trans and how did you, well, transitioned? I mean no harm, I'm just curious since there's very little information about it (or I'm just really bad in looking for it) and I want to learn more.

    • @dawnjuliooo
      @dawnjuliooo Рік тому

      @@czhaok go cry to your senile king about it

    • @Fosifar
      @Fosifar Рік тому +7

      @@czhaok what?...

    • @calebn5330
      @calebn5330 Рік тому +3

      @@czhaokcome again?

  • @travisbruce1324
    @travisbruce1324 Рік тому +541

    The abrupt transition between “Do you like wild times UHHHH like me?” and “Are you serving the community like me?” puts me into anaphylactic shock every time.

    • @najadahmer4862
      @najadahmer4862 Рік тому +20

      Haha kinda same here, and I’m loving it!

    • @travisbruce1324
      @travisbruce1324 Рік тому +9

      Lol same. It’s perfect.

    • @lorabrock
      @lorabrock Рік тому +50

      The "beguiled by a bargin" does the same for me.

    • @beepboop2847
      @beepboop2847 Рік тому +18

      YES! I love when she lightly tousles her hair

    • @lisa-lisa-lisa
      @lisa-lisa-lisa Рік тому +15

      I literally cackle every week!

  • @colinmulhern
    @colinmulhern Рік тому +70

    I want Delta to brag about her Emmy more! That’s such an insane achievement that so few will ever experience. She should be so proud!!!

    • @LeSeulGarcon
      @LeSeulGarcon Рік тому +2

      I think it’s because the episode that they submitted that won the Emmy her and Raven
      Wasn’t the one who style Ru it was still
      Mathu Anderson

    • @au8438
      @au8438 Рік тому +5

      @@LeSeulGarconwell no, that was for season 9, delta work got an Emmy for season 10 that is solely hers. Then also she is uncredited but definitely still responsible for the s11 Emmy

  • @VenusRadha
    @VenusRadha Рік тому +63

    I think a "Very Delta" tour would be successful. Do it!!! It would be fabulous! It's a great idea.. this is your niche for sure! Educate the people...spread the wisdom and manners! You would grace us all with you sophistication and humor!!! Go off, gurl!

  • @jonathanklys2933
    @jonathanklys2933 Рік тому +40

    Fena has such a smooth n soothing voice! Fena and Delta could have their own QVC show selling tape rolls for 45 dollars!

    • @The_Crucible714
      @The_Crucible714 8 місяців тому

      And sh*t covered, bird house hair accessories. 🦜

  • @daveobee
    @daveobee Рік тому +63

    Delta's handwork is the best in the game. Feminine, firm, and yet sincere.

    • @Talentedtadpole
      @Talentedtadpole Рік тому +2

      Impeccable yet approachable ❤

    • @sadierose2890
      @sadierose2890 10 місяців тому

      …. Feminine &/or firm can’t be sincere? 🙃
      🌈🫒

    • @aiaiaiwaiwai5885
      @aiaiaiwaiwai5885 5 місяців тому

      Delta should really be a hand model, so graceful

  • @corgeousgeorge
    @corgeousgeorge Рік тому +40

    Fena just needs to say "I'm Trixie and Katya's Makeup Diva and I crack them up constantly and I'm trying to move into my own sunlight!" Hell, that's a storyline that the producers could TOTALLY get behind. WTF?! It's all marketing Fena!!!

  • @RNCHFND
    @RNCHFND Рік тому +169

    Delta looks fantastic

    • @DKF_oli
      @DKF_oli Рік тому +5

      Always !

    • @NikkiKonstantinov
      @NikkiKonstantinov Рік тому +2

      😍gorgeous

    • @Nicool4s
      @Nicool4s Рік тому +9

      She’s giving us Adele goes to the countryside for a picnic realness AND IM HERE FOR IT ❤

    • @dansav2944
      @dansav2944 Рік тому +4

      A younger Candice Bergen

  • @pinkertonlady
    @pinkertonlady Рік тому +45

    Delta getting me tearing up during her monologue. I don't particularly enjoy Christmas time because of the expectations of my big extended family and my mum stressing, stresses me out

  • @daniela1206
    @daniela1206 Рік тому +4

    I have never felt so seen with that monologue, thank you so much Delta. The amount of presents I've bought and events I've gone to for these people because its "tradition" or to make others happy is insane looking back and I will remember that this upcoming holiday season

  • @klekloo
    @klekloo Рік тому +63

    Delta's "you don't say" is my latest reason to live. thank you mother Delta

  • @minion789
    @minion789 Рік тому +32

    I love love love the ratio it’s filmed in. Really makes it feel personable and old school (in the best way) ❤

    • @FloraWest
      @FloraWest Рік тому +4

      Yes! The commitment to the public access vibe is admirable.

  • @galyafaye657
    @galyafaye657 Рік тому +25

    this is easily the best filmed podcast on UA-cam, like when is very delta getting added to the late night talk show docket??!!

  • @astrogallus
    @astrogallus Рік тому +22

    I LOVE Fena. That episode of 'Queens Who Like To Watch' that she was on with Katya is a classic!!

    • @FloraWest
      @FloraWest Рік тому +2

      Yes! Folks if you haven't seen it, please check out the Twilight review with Fena and Katya--incredibly funny.

    • @astrogallus
      @astrogallus Рік тому +2

      @@FloraWest - Yes!! 💖

  • @gabrielleseeley4117
    @gabrielleseeley4117 Рік тому +22

    Thanks, Delta, for speaking out about other people’s expectations and why we should set boundaries. Setting boundaries is healthy. Love you, Delta! 😀

  • @shawnalynn5198
    @shawnalynn5198 Рік тому +13

    Delta, as a nail girlie I just want to compliment you on the lovely nails, the burgundy color is so nice for this time of year! You’re the absolute best, thank you for your wonderful advice at the beginning ❤ So many of us need to hear this at this time of year and it feels like having a great, validating chat with a good friend. Love ya gal 🥰
    Update: I have now added “Cozy Little Christmas” to my Christmas pop music playlist, because I am Very Delta.

  • @teddyburial
    @teddyburial Рік тому +6

    i swear to god fena needs to start a podcast, she really shines in these long form types of content. such a beautiful soul w a great wit.

  • @gretagarbeige
    @gretagarbeige Рік тому +13

    Delta is the moment. Lots of love, Mother Delta, you're the absolute best, it's a pleasure to hear you not once but TWICE a week ! Thank you, you are loved ❤️

  • @traceyg2703
    @traceyg2703 Рік тому +7

    Thank you Delta for the reminder about how socializing should not be out of duty during the holidays. I've been agonizing over how to avoid an xmas party thrown by some toxic people in my life before December has even hit, so this segment of the pod really resonated for me.

  • @JeremyMYG
    @JeremyMYG Рік тому +7

    Fena is absolutely incredible. Such a pleasure to have an episode with Delta and Fena. Great conversation!

  • @lorabrock
    @lorabrock Рік тому +10

    Delta's point at 6:23 is 100% correct! This whole go-off segment is the real deal and one of life's hardest lessons.

  • @TheFelipelipert
    @TheFelipelipert Рік тому +23

    Delta looks like she's about to take me on a Safari and I'm living for it!

  • @Doki-2000
    @Doki-2000 Рік тому +20

    This episode was so fun, ladies. I had such a blast!

  • @dip4329
    @dip4329 Рік тому +13

    I love the editing in this show so much. Please keep it like this thank you

  • @81jeremylbradley
    @81jeremylbradley Рік тому +7

    I seriously look forward to Very Delta every week. Love from West Virginia. 💛💙

  • @harrisonsnatt901
    @harrisonsnatt901 Рік тому +14

    The wig push got me togetherrrrrr hahahah Delta's 'wait what just happened right now?'

  • @trevormaclean9246
    @trevormaclean9246 Рік тому +29

    I heard Fena attempt “ you taste that, that shit in your mouth” and it sent me.

  • @najadahmer4862
    @najadahmer4862 Рік тому +9

    Love you Delta! You are my new mom ever since I first saw this podcast and subbed. Me and my mom have never really had a “mother and daughter relationship” in the 29 years I’ve been alive.. You have kinda taken that place for me now for a while, you make me feel like I finally have that for some reason. And I can’t put into words how much that means to me..You are everything, love you Mother Delta🖤

  • @zangetsu284
    @zangetsu284 Рік тому +3

    Delta story of Manila Luzon giving her that experience for Christmas in New york really touched me. Currently on a Very Delta binge, it's a great decision!

  • @chrisblevins755
    @chrisblevins755 Рік тому +5

    If anyone deserves the crown, it's Fena. She's already a queen, a successful queen, but she deserves the validation from everyone.

  • @arleedennis791
    @arleedennis791 Рік тому +25

    I love you giving that Holiday talk. I needed to hear that when I was in my early 20s. Now I'm 29 and my husband and I got married this year in a PRIVATE ceremony. I am accepting myself for who I am. I'm introverted and my family can just be a lot. Love em though.

  • @jilla8265
    @jilla8265 Рік тому +13

    mondays arent so bad when delta comes thru

  • @jamiewilmore7327
    @jamiewilmore7327 Рік тому +4

    I *am* beguiled by a bargain, and I feel seen. Thank you, Ms. Work!

  • @tylermiddlebrook9636
    @tylermiddlebrook9636 Рік тому +5

    Hello! Reporting from the future! Delta’s all over beauty book has just won the noble peace prize 🏆 congrats babe!

  • @SweetbeeMe
    @SweetbeeMe 8 місяців тому +1

    No matter the timing, holidays or not, this information and advice always applies. Thank you, Delta!

  • @bremac
    @bremac 9 місяців тому +1

    That was the BEST venting session EVER! Go off Delta! 🎉

  • @agurbenur3716
    @agurbenur3716 Рік тому +7

    I could watch this for HOURS, looove Fena!!!

  • @dalive___
    @dalive___ Рік тому +7

    Hope to see Delta doing a story time about her growing up and how life has treated her 💖✨

  • @peakdelvalle197
    @peakdelvalle197 Рік тому +3

    So interesting to hear how quickly Trixie's face melts on set, and the upkeep making these shows in drag takes!

    • @The_Crucible714
      @The_Crucible714 Місяць тому

      Trixie’s makeup must be frozen to her face if she’s still in Alaska (the state.) 😮 😂

  • @ThomasLogan
    @ThomasLogan Рік тому +8

    Wiser and wiser, love Delta’s points!

    • @ThomasLogan
      @ThomasLogan Рік тому

      Baby there’s no Santa Claus, and you’re not Santa Claus either!

  • @buffrogers6650
    @buffrogers6650 Рік тому +3

    Only just discovered your channel. You look amazing Delta. I saw and love your Endora look in UA-cam shorts..
    And Fena is such a beautiful person, a sweet soul. We need more people like her in the world.
    Holiday blessings to you both! xx

  • @edisoncummings2970
    @edisoncummings2970 Рік тому +9

    this look from delta is just so goddamn good. The wig, the hoop.. she literally looks like my mom lmao

  • @kathyanderson9814
    @kathyanderson9814 Рік тому +8

    You 2 are GENIUS together!

  • @LiveAsDiva
    @LiveAsDiva Рік тому +2

    I LOVE FENA!!!!!! She is one of the good ones who even stand up to Trixie and that shows power and respect

  • @SabbyTheNerd
    @SabbyTheNerd Рік тому +8

    This is Delta's time. Preach the wisdom!!

  • @dragdive
    @dragdive Рік тому +6

    Delta this hair/color looks amazing on you and Fena was an excellent guest! 🥰

  • @adamjennings2452
    @adamjennings2452 Рік тому +2

    They make such a great pair I was laughing so hard… They should have their own show together

  • @ellasygar7543
    @ellasygar7543 Рік тому +4

    I always love when fena is on a pod

  • @brunopaulino7820
    @brunopaulino7820 Рік тому +40

    Delta should start a cult. She is amazing. Kiss from Lisboa, Portugal

  • @VAMPYRICBASSIST
    @VAMPYRICBASSIST Рік тому +1

    This opening Delta did spoke to my Spirit. She's very Wise.

  • @wulyfs
    @wulyfs Рік тому +3

    What a wonderful way to start the week, thanks Delta and Fena!

  • @bubylelooooo
    @bubylelooooo Рік тому +1

    Dear Delta!!!
    Thank you for educating the children!
    Keep on shining my love!
    ❤️

  • @freneticaesthetica
    @freneticaesthetica Рік тому

    The generosity of spirit that Delta Work possesses to share the priceless wisdom that was dropped this (and every) episode is beyond. Thank you 🥹

  • @R_R895
    @R_R895 Рік тому +3

    Love the opening monologue.. I go thru that a lot with my mommmm. Her always trying to get me to live my life the way she does or would

  • @marcusborton9531
    @marcusborton9531 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Queen Delta for graciously sharing your wisdom on how to be more self compassionate to ourselves. Much love & happy holidays to you/rs!

  • @ericachandler7142
    @ericachandler7142 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this advice, boundaries around the holidays and other “obligations.” I needed to hear this.

    • @The_Crucible714
      @The_Crucible714 Місяць тому

      Tbh, I began to recognize the people around me who were azz-holes in my early teens. Fortunately they weren’t immediate family so avoiding them during the holidays was no big. Now, many years later I’m not surprised to hear about the “MAGA hats on their Christmas trees.” I feel justified that my assessment of them at 13 was accurate.

  • @jaeswerld7818
    @jaeswerld7818 Рік тому +2

    The nail is sooo right.. there’s a deepness & richness

  • @Justin3x3
    @Justin3x3 Рік тому +1

    Ok, but that duct tape bracelet is literally one of the prettiest bracelets I've ever seen 🤩

  • @markalexander3659
    @markalexander3659 Рік тому

    As someone who isn't even a babyqueen yet, but has just been seriously considering starting drag - not even done it for the first time yet - Phena's channel sounds INCREDIBLY helpful and I will be subbing IMMEDIATELY

  • @santosteffano
    @santosteffano Рік тому +3

    the best and funniest thing about this show is that they take a break like they're filming in front of a live studio audience and they're clearly not

  • @EliasTheocharidisTenor
    @EliasTheocharidisTenor Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your Service, Delta and Fena! We love to see you go oooooooffffffff!

  • @marterra
    @marterra Рік тому +4

    Hola Delta💫saw you last week at MOCA! The one complaint I have is that we needed more of you! Can’t wait to see you again, in the meantime….I LOVE every Monday!

  • @vivicadoll249
    @vivicadoll249 Рік тому

    That monologue was everything I've ever wanted to hear from my mother and never did. Thank you. ❤

  • @adityasixviandyj7334
    @adityasixviandyj7334 Рік тому +5

    that moment when they talk about makeup & wigs for production, that so true! every beauty, grace, & dignity that you see on your screen in actually *EXTREMELY TAILORED TO THAT PERSON*. That's why some studio do had large screen so the artist can see them self & monitoring them self, and their makeup artist standby inside that studio to help fixing them in the middle of shoot... oh also believe me, being makeup artist for boradcast show, even for some of professional broadcast studio (even the small scale ones) is very challenging. The artist is sit on the stage, bathing in hot kino lights, while the cameraman & makeup artist is sit on darker side, showered by very-very cold air, due those kino light is very very hot. Lucky nowadays LED light is less hot, but still, the heat is no joke, especially stronger, higher lumens LED light.
    That's why constant monitoring is important by the makeup artis, as a simple crack can be seen nowadays, thanks to 4K & 8K cameras nowadays.

  • @absolutetwaddle
    @absolutetwaddle Рік тому +1

    Really needed this after a hard visit with family over thanksgiving. Thank you so much ❤

  • @laycelayne6099
    @laycelayne6099 4 місяці тому

    I know I am sooo late for this but the beginning of this show means a lot to me. I often do things that please other people even when I don't want to and you just broke it down so well. Thank you Delta ❤️

  • @danm.6963
    @danm.6963 Рік тому +1

    Very Delta is my new happy place

  • @mohammedaftisse
    @mohammedaftisse Рік тому +4

    Yet another flawless episode I wish went on forever

  • @nicholassmith3732
    @nicholassmith3732 Рік тому +4

    "When was the last time you had a seizure?" "Umm... I dunno. I've never been to Santa Barbara." What a legend! Love you Fena

  • @Joey-Little
    @Joey-Little Місяць тому

    Absolutely words of wisdom Delta, very perfect 💚

  • @gregh8989
    @gregh8989 Рік тому

    Thanks for the powerful message during Go Off Delta. We love you for your honestly! I wish I could be as brave as you.

  • @wvusciguy
    @wvusciguy Рік тому +1

    You two give great relatable life lesions. I have shared this video with bunch of 20 -ish yo newby gay friends who have their heads on straight but who need perspective while all their straight friends get married and pregnant. Amazing work, all of you. MOM, Delta, the guests, your pets…. Jack and the Box (We don’t have any in central Ohio). Keep up the good work.

  • @SorcerersStoned
    @SorcerersStoned Рік тому +1

    I've never been a huge Delta fan, not for any particular reason, but I love this podcast & it's made me love her! Happy to be here 😊

  • @Taraxacum1996
    @Taraxacum1996 Рік тому +1

    Delta is my counselor. Love her go off section. The advice she gives is always so helpful and relevant to moi ❤️

  • @seankaamasee2926
    @seankaamasee2926 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Delta your word make me feel like I'm not messing up in this world as much as I think I am!!

  • @taylorgriffith325
    @taylorgriffith325 Рік тому +1

    I NEED a separate video of this go off delta to share!!!! Preach woman!!!! This is my church y’all.

  • @josmith9789
    @josmith9789 Рік тому +1

    Delta 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I love your sage advise at the beginning of your program. It’s my way of life. Love it so much!! ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

  • @AngiesMyGal
    @AngiesMyGal Рік тому +4

    "i did a wig for christia aguilera's.. stylist" that got me lol

  • @Macstheman78
    @Macstheman78 Рік тому

    Delta is: The BEST! PERIOD. TRUTH. STYLE. SOPHISTICATION. KNOWLEDGE. EXPERIENCE and GLAMOUR and beyond… 🍾🤯🎉❤️

  • @sarahlynnlovesyou
    @sarahlynnlovesyou Рік тому

    I could listen to Delta all the time! She's perfect for hosting a podcast.

  • @DianaTubZ
    @DianaTubZ Рік тому +3

    I really needed to see this video thanksgiving 2020 when I went and visited my father after 10 years

  • @K10-89
    @K10-89 Рік тому +2

    Would love a Delta book for my coffee table, full of glamour shots, advice and rants!!!

  • @0mnom
    @0mnom Рік тому +2

    How have I just discovered these wisdom-filled life seminars disguised as podcasts?!? Believe me when I say, if delta pursued a career in life coaching, and toured the world offering this exact same wisdom on a larger scale... IN DRAG!!!???, not only would she excel at it and be extraordinarily successful (since it's a niche in the market that no one has filled yet) but I would book a ticket to see her without even thinking twice, and that's after me watching only the first 20 mins of this episode...

  • @taylornelsen1856
    @taylornelsen1856 Рік тому +5

    Monday morning is so much better now

  • @filledepieuvre
    @filledepieuvre Рік тому +1

    This episode really cheered me up tonight. Thank you both so much for being you. I also grew up watching Designing Women and feel Charlene is very relatable for me. Xo

  • @0mnom
    @0mnom Рік тому +1

    can somebody please alert Netflik to this incredibly enigmatic duo. I could watch these women all dang day!

  • @sofiaschulz__
    @sofiaschulz__ Рік тому

    This is the first episode I watch and i just have to say that that monologue was exactly what I needed to hear and had me tearing up. Thank you ❤️

  • @sebv140
    @sebv140 Рік тому +1

    I love delta. Watching her videos makes me happy

  • @markalexander3659
    @markalexander3659 Рік тому

    Based off this podcast, I would ABSOLUTELY buy a book by Delta of just life tips in general

  • @sneezediamonds
    @sneezediamonds Рік тому +1

    Ty Delta. I needed to hear your "Go Off!".

  • @powthekicker8765
    @powthekicker8765 Рік тому +1

    Delta, you have my permission to DRAG THEM ALL. Thank you. Happy holidays. May you celebrate in a way that makes YOU happy. ❤

  • @PizzaVoodoo
    @PizzaVoodoo Рік тому

    Another amazing episode, thank you for helping us get excited for the holiday season. Fena was amazing as always!

  • @Shockwave_MD
    @Shockwave_MD Рік тому +12

    Delta just slaughtered my entire family. and i love it.

  • @wvusciguy
    @wvusciguy Рік тому +3

    I hear Fina’s name mentioned on Podcasts. It’s so nice to see something of her.