I gave my 120% effort for my relationship with my narc ex, still wasn't enough for her who only gave bare minimum. I was her emotional slave, her punching bag, her scapegoat.
for eleven years it was always arms-length. she’s 81 years old now, i kept thinking she would mellow with age. in retrospect, i see she only got worse.
@@thetruther9521I think there’s a big difference between the occasional imperfection of a healthy persons occasional lie and a narcissist living a non stop lie where you never get truth
I gave a thousand percent & it's enough for him... he's selfish arrogant cocky, weird, controlling crazy, liar, serial cheater, lowdown trifling diirrttyyy ..no more 4 me
Also, even if you're one of the over 50% of the population that is introverted you're labeled as arrogant just because of your quieter personality type.
@@AS004-xf4jc Strong identity and self-esteem is built upon strong adherance to strong principles. We must up our game if we are to survive in this narcissistic culture. I learned with my kind of work that a critic will always try to find a fault as a reason to cheat you out of the money owed. "A critic is a master of imperfection." cc. 2003
Yea I exposed my narc and since then she has been on the run from court and scared and hasn’t dare contacted me! Too many people act like narcs can’t be defeated…they are weak people.
I played along with my narcissistic ex throughout the relationship. I moved to the other side of the world with her, supported her, and I was way too good natured about her daily devaluations of me, which were long, pedantic lectures. I ended up getting discarded - twice! I begged her to take me back the first time. The second time was so heinous, I couldn’t take it anymore. I felt as if I were on the verge of a nervous breakdown - and I was in an unfamiliar place! So I had to go. And when I left, my ex accused me of throwing her in the garbage and claimed I didn’t love her because I gave up too easily after she discarded me.
There is no way for them to experience the meaningful valuing and connection they need/crave because 1) they don't have a secure self for such experiences to land and 2) they foreclose it with their false self presentation (real self wont be known) as well as need to devalue others (connection with them becomes no longer valuable)
this is perhaps the most concise encapsulation have ever seen on this important yet disturbing topic. It truly is all about shame and projection with them and with some cases there appear to be no bounds to the extent they will go to manifest these traits...tragic and dysfunctional at both interpersonal and societal levels IMO.
i know i shouldnt have, but i intentionally lied to shake one up...she projected the blame to me then basically. went into a rage state. i let her dwell on the situation for a day...then i told her i lied...she was angry but went directly into relief and admitted she believed what i told her. so deep down they know what they're doing but they afraid of how negative emotions feel so they dissasociate and run from it.
The discard. WHEN will it happen? She's been sleeping on the couch for 4 months, will not even talk about what she has done, and refuses to leave. It's BAD.
She's already discarded you in her mind, even if they give you the silent treatment, they're still communicating, remember narcs never change, I'd get away asap
I've tried to talk to her ,why she talks to everyone else about "us" except me. Always got the "there's nothing to talk about," or I was blamed for it, total denial of ever saying anything. I couldn't wrap my head around the reflecting ,🫨 blaming me for something she did?? Best advice - don't say anything. If you do,act as if it is a business transaction. Get to a therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse recovery. Get far away, stay away, and enjoy life.
The beginning of the end of my marriage to a narc started when I called her out on her irrational behaviour. I had facts and she didn't like it. Thank God she's history. No doubt with a new supply but it's no longer my concern.
How often have you seen it play out? Have others, in your journey, experienced this about the narc? I am divorcing one and everyone we knew or worked around felt he was out of my league, I deserved better. He was trash and I was classy whenever pep ppl saw us. He was so embarrassing in public alot of times.
You are the first person I’ve heard mention genetics, thank you! I know of three narcissists in my family, a great aunt (also one of her sisters but I never met her) my mother (who supplied the not nice childhood) and my son, sadly
I discarded my narcissist and watched her spiral out of control when I wouldn't let her come back, of course she ran around slandering, gossiping, lying and tried to defame my character behind the scenes.. I don't care cause now I am Happy again...
Been discarded oh, 4x ? She’s been to new supply a few times but I know what she is and have told her so, so hopefully my final discard! She’s blocked so this time I’m taking control.
That is my ex. Even with 100% proof of the lies told in full context, it was still, “Deny, Deny, Deny”, and then twist words. When I finally called it quits, she HATED me, saying I will regret leaving, “… the best thing you will ever have in your life!” I’m already doing better in my rebuild of myself, while her and her narc lover are trying to feed off of each other like two dying vampires…
I ran into a narcissist who all he did was virtue signal about himself in grandiose manners. I said, I'm just a dumb old contractor. I said to him, the hardest thing for a really intelligent person to do is to act normal and I smiled. He said, I hear what you said, it sometimes is hard to act intelligent around actual intelligent people. Interestingly, he heard what he wanted to hear. That's not what I had said at all and he had given up the narcissistic tapes of himself. 😆
This absolutely happened in a friendship. I got mad at him once and he had an insatiably autistic meltdown about it and went on Facebook to make passive aggressive posts about me for months and used me as motivation to "do better".
I think it’s interesting that empaths get labeled as co-dependents when narcissists are the ones who can’t live without external validation. As an empathic person, often just being around people drains me. I just think the labels are misleading. Narcissistic people are co-dependent and they depend on/use everyone and anyone they can so they can get that external sense of validation. It’s not just codependent it’s pathetic. They can’t actually do anything for themselves.
It's so sad & hurts my heart that I fell in love with a phoney flimsy shell of a human who tried to tear me down every chance he had. The relief from him leaving me was palpable after I learned what I was dealing with it was easier to detach with love & pray for his healing while I create my neat life! Praise the Most High for awareness and healing!😊❤🪽💙🧚♀️❤️🔥🧘🏻♀️🙏🌏✌️♾️🕉☯️
You just described my husband! He feels superior! And wants to be appreciated for doing the exact same thing everyone does, Like go to work! He wants me to appreciate that he married me.
My ex was always the center of attention. Would make everyone watch him as he would dance around a crowded room that no one asked for. He had an extreme desire to be admired. He had a grandiose sense of self. If he wasnt the center of attention he would snap get angry aggressive and tantrum
Are you in contact or no contact? My bro wont set boundaries with my narc dad + stepmom but theyre out of my life (disowned and scapegoated when I called out my dad abusing my wife)
I still don’t understand or even care at this point to get an answer for any of her betrayals. At this point I have to heal myself after 33 years of crazy
I really think this is a genetic disorder, because this has directly started with my maternal grandmother. I don't remember her, but what I have heard points directly to severe narcissism. My mother was a Covert and 2 siblings are Severely Affected with Narcissism
I did everything for my narc … but then he brought another woman under my nose…while i was being his slave… he was out with her… when i found out and got angry… i swore at him and the woman… he made it about himself… he’s angry with me because of a few words but i shouldn’t be angry that he wasted money on her… now he discarded me and said that I’m nothing to him only after i told him that hes just like all of us… a human… hes not a superman… hes not special … the sad thing is that we have kids …. I told him to stay with that woman but he still shows up trying to make my life hard
I think we all kinda do these things to degrees like 1-8 but levels 9 and 10 are sorta demonized. But, there is equally something to be said about those who will discard a *beautiful relationship because they can’t even cope with 1/10 levels of personal responsibility (*=said lack of personal responsibility solely-or-at-least-nearly-so, undermining an otherwise fantastic alignment of parity, chemistry, and harmony). Perhaps in some lives the random ugliness of truth washes up on the shores of one’s personal, and social, experience in sufficiently frequent, sequential, and/or causative ways such that one’s life (as a noun or a verb, or a past, but always as a trajectory with a potential future) is demerited in ways whose palpable injustice is mysteriously both 1) ineffable even by those with command of thought and language, and also 2) known by all, even those far from the ability to utter what they, just as clearly, realize; that 3) life, and then especially humans, can be very unfair, and that sometimes one’s whole case is totaled and worth starting over elsewhere and/or as elsewhom… The problem with adhering too strongly to some of these videos is that being unlucky isn’t consistent or quantifiable, and thusly in the worst cases of those needing treatment, therapy narratives can end up piling onto the individual and generalized notions of hopelessness: aka “you’re hopeless and everyone out there, even the therapists, think you’re hopeless too” On the other hand, the trouble with that notion is that there are also exceptionally problematic people whose genius is squandered in the ability to survive/thrive in endless and pointless scrimmages of (NPD and other) wolfish neuroticisms, preying on the sheep whom said therapy narratives are, quite rightly, helpfully, and in all ways goodly, trying to warn. I dunno man… it’s a mess. Maybe AI can figure it out 😅🥲😔
My ex keeps sending me pics of our wedding, wanting me to talk to her daughter (I think to guilt trip me). I told her we should go our seperate ways. I know I was a good supply for her. I would think that her lovers, one of them would he a good replacement for me. She will go after friends and family to get me to make contact with her. ☹️☹️
ok so look, i have to partially blame myself at the same time. the one thing i need to cultivate os the answer for the situation...emotional detachment. its kinda like...do i really have the right to judge if i dont have the maturity to just say no or cut them off? im at a fork in the road. i have to continue to grow mentally & i think this is test im supposed to go through for the growth i need.
When I first got with this person, I felt important just because I was his girlfriend, because the public image of him was absolutely stellar, and I couldn’t believe how lucky I was that he was single and he picked me.😂That person was not the person I ultimately ended up with nor the person who discarded me. Oh, well, I learned my lesson. He dumped me on my son’s birthday which was the 14th of this month and moved out two years ago today. When he was ready to go he just laid it all out on the table really quickly and rather glibly and refused to discuss it any further. We were engaged and together almost 8 years. He just threw it all away and walked away.
She was kicking me out . I decided to get a job , she cheats on me while I was at work. Even though she was discarding me , I got a job so I can take care of myself. She cheats on me thinking I’m leave her . She leaves before I leave ? Make it makes sense
You really should separate such people from borderlines or similar conditions. Not doing so only fosters confusion. Obviously not all narcs discard like you said. If they did there would be no lob term relationships with narcs.
I was very too a narcissist. I was getting a divorce from him. I was so afraid. But he passed away before it. Is he like that happen? Why do I carry so much fear I know he’s coming back I can tell it.
The girl who dated me for 7 years got a new boyfriend who she put on the phone to talk to me. I was heartbroken, the heartlessness from where Love should be flowing. Females are empty , men need to leave these freaks.
Question: Say the narcissist who would normally discard is older or becomes disabled, becomes unattractive in someway, would they be reluctant or outright opposed to discard, since they might realize they have no replacement options ?
Theyre basically crazy and evil.
That's it and that's all.
They are basically stupid and childish. Other people will soon catch up on his self-centered idiotic behaviors.
💯💯💯💯
Vouila.
True..
Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
One of the best quotes to describe chaos, doubt and confusion. The devil's favorite tools
I gave my 120% effort for my relationship with my narc ex, still wasn't enough for her who only gave bare minimum. I was her emotional slave, her punching bag, her scapegoat.
YOU'RE NOT ANYMORE!!GREAT JOB
I hear you... same exact situation.. took some time to find myself again but much better off now.
I know exactly what you went through they give the bare minimum and you give them your heart and soul
throw in one golden boy child and it’s absolutely never win
for eleven years it was always arms-length. she’s 81 years old now, i kept thinking she would mellow with age. in retrospect, i see she only got worse.
I can understand their damaged selves and insecurities, but when it crosses the line to cruelty and a form a sadism, i just don't want to be near any.
You can’t build a relationship on a lie!
With people of the lie.
everybody lies
everybody just don't get caught. everybody wear's a mask
Many, many lies.
@@thetruther9521I think there’s a big difference between the occasional imperfection of a healthy persons occasional lie and a narcissist living a non stop lie where you never get truth
In my experience, the only thing to do is get away from their toxicity. Far far away. Once you know, go and don’t look back.
sounds simple
Easier said than done.
I gave a thousand percent & it's enough for him... he's selfish arrogant cocky, weird, controlling crazy, liar, serial cheater, lowdown trifling diirrttyyy ..no more 4 me
Self esteem and confidence is seen as arrogance by a covert narcissist.
They must find fault in others to compensate for this lack in them.
Also, even if you're one of the over 50% of the population that is introverted you're labeled as arrogant just because of your quieter personality type.
@@carpathianken Boy--- that sure is true!
Very true. Now I am struggling with my self esteem which is sucked by them.
@@AS004-xf4jc Strong identity and self-esteem is built upon strong adherance to strong principles. We must up our game if we are to survive in this narcissistic culture.
I learned with my kind of work that a critic will always try to find a fault as a reason to cheat you out of the money owed.
"A critic is a master of imperfection."
cc. 2003
They find people who are superior to them, and then tear them down to their own level..
Once there’s inconsistency we gotta cut and run. If I could live my life over again and understand these things it wouldn’t be the same life at all.
True, great point, I agree.
I usually get “discarded” within the 1st 3 minutes or so!!😂 Huge blessing 🎉
Also they have hatred for everyone else’s happiness. They can see anyone being happy or contempt around them or till where ever they see or know.
My ex wanted to comeback after he left me for 1 years, I told him off , never been felt this good like this before in my entire life 😎
Damned if you do play along damned if you don’t!
Yea I exposed my narc and since then she has been on the run from court and scared and hasn’t dare contacted me! Too many people act like narcs can’t be defeated…they are weak people.
No matter what, you have to go "no contact" with them.
Exactly
Yep!!
I played along with my narcissistic ex throughout the relationship. I moved to the other side of the world with her, supported her, and I was way too good natured about her daily devaluations of me, which were long, pedantic lectures.
I ended up getting discarded - twice! I begged her to take me back the first time. The second time was so heinous, I couldn’t take it anymore. I felt as if I were on the verge of a nervous breakdown - and I was in an unfamiliar place! So I had to go.
And when I left, my ex accused me of throwing her in the garbage and claimed I didn’t love her because I gave up too easily after she discarded me.
Sounds familiar
They project the way THEY relate to their own shame self (but dissociate from) on others (whom they only relate to with the intention of control)
There is no way for them to experience the meaningful valuing and connection they need/crave because 1) they don't have a secure self for such experiences to land and 2) they foreclose it with their false self presentation (real self wont be known) as well as need to devalue others (connection with them becomes no longer valuable)
this is perhaps the most concise encapsulation have ever seen on this important yet disturbing topic. It truly is all about shame and projection with them and with some cases there appear to be no bounds to the extent they will go to manifest these traits...tragic and dysfunctional at both interpersonal and societal levels IMO.
i know i shouldnt have, but i intentionally lied to shake one up...she projected the blame to me then basically. went into a rage state. i let her dwell on the situation for a day...then i told her i lied...she was angry but went directly into relief and admitted she believed what i told her. so deep down they know what they're doing but they afraid of how negative emotions feel so they dissasociate and run from it.
The discard. WHEN will it happen? She's been sleeping on the couch for 4 months, will not even talk about what she has done, and refuses to leave. It's BAD.
She's already discarded you in her mind, even if they give you the silent treatment, they're still communicating, remember narcs never change, I'd get away asap
Stop feeding
I've tried to talk to her ,why she talks to everyone else about "us" except me.
Always got the "there's nothing to talk about," or I was blamed for it, total denial of ever saying anything. I couldn't wrap my head around the reflecting ,🫨 blaming me for something she did??
Best advice - don't say anything. If you do,act as if it is a business transaction. Get to a therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse recovery.
Get far away, stay away, and enjoy life.
Reinvent your life. For starters, keep watching these videos, over and over of you can't get therapy. Your life will eventually depend on it.
What she’s doing now is the abuse. Silent treatments and terrorizing you by staying .
The beginning of the end of my marriage to a narc started when I called her out on her irrational behaviour. I had facts and she didn't like it.
Thank God she's history. No doubt with a new supply but it's no longer my concern.
Exact same thing happened with me but its been a month since the discard and it hurts like hell knowing that she's love bombing someone else now.
Being discarded is a good thing when dealing with narcissists
The narc will always deliver a LOW QUALITY RELATIONSHIP. No way around it. This is a savage game with no winners, just losers.
How often have you seen it play out? Have others, in your journey, experienced this about the narc? I am divorcing one and everyone we knew or worked around felt he was out of my league, I deserved better. He was trash and I was classy whenever pep ppl saw us. He was so embarrassing in public alot of times.
You are the first person I’ve heard mention genetics, thank you! I know of three narcissists in my family, a great aunt (also one of her sisters but I never met her) my mother (who supplied the not nice childhood) and my son, sadly
a great aunt you never met , was a narcissist..
Or, generational learned behavior.
from what i understand its learned behavior with a mix of trauma/neglect
These are people that you never please because they dont want things the right way they want their unhealed way 😮
The self loathing for their true self is just plain sad and something I still don’t quite understand. ❤
Is caused from being evil and they need to repent because they can’t admit they’re wrong and it’s the pride. It’s a simple as that.
Exactly. Demonic strongholds in most if not all of them
I just want to be loved
😢
The universe loves you.
I discarded my narcissist and watched her spiral out of control when I wouldn't let her come back, of course she ran around slandering, gossiping, lying and tried to defame my character behind the scenes.. I don't care cause now I am Happy again...
Right ON Point 👍 Totally Agree
Thanks you must of been part of my previous relationship, cause you explained the dealings and outcome exactly how it happened and is happening.
True story , it s important to own your own reality
I love your energy, keep up the great work.
Sounds like a win... please do me a favor and discard me lol
😅
😂
absolutely. it is waiting for the blade to fall. it may take a while, but it will one day, and for no fault of your own. get out, don't look back.
Been discarded oh, 4x ? She’s been to new supply a few times but I know what she is and have told her so, so hopefully my final discard! She’s blocked so this time I’m taking control.
❤ the description “ fantasy self”
That is my ex. Even with 100% proof of the lies told in full context, it was still, “Deny, Deny, Deny”, and then twist words. When I finally called it quits, she HATED me, saying I will regret leaving, “… the best thing you will ever have in your life!”
I’m already doing better in my rebuild of myself, while her and her narc lover are trying to feed off of each other like two dying vampires…
Terrifying disorder.
I ran into a narcissist who all he did was virtue signal about himself in grandiose manners.
I said, I'm just a dumb old contractor.
I said to him, the hardest thing for a really intelligent person to do is to act normal and I smiled.
He said, I hear what you said, it sometimes is hard to act intelligent around actual intelligent people.
Interestingly, he heard what he wanted to hear.
That's not what I had said at all and he had given up the narcissistic tapes of himself. 😆
Good natured people exist. Wait for one… ☯️
Sounds like a demon to me
Thats exactly what i think
That's exactly what they have their pure evil
True
I love this channel too. She has areal clarity in breaking down this complicated topic
Caused my narc to suffer life long narcissistic collapse. A shell of a human.
Lisa you are an unbelievably grounded person
Very very true
This absolutely happened in a friendship. I got mad at him once and he had an insatiably autistic meltdown about it and went on Facebook to make passive aggressive posts about me for months and used me as motivation to "do better".
I work with a young punk like this. I was onto his line of bullshit the first day at work.
I think it’s interesting that empaths get labeled as co-dependents when narcissists are the ones who can’t live without external validation. As an empathic person, often just being around people drains me. I just think the labels are misleading. Narcissistic people are co-dependent and they depend on/use everyone and anyone they can so they can get that external sense of validation. It’s not just codependent it’s pathetic. They can’t actually do anything for themselves.
Better than most other channels explanations
You worded this so well- in a nut shell.❤
It's so sad & hurts my heart that I fell in love with a phoney flimsy shell of a human who tried to tear me down every chance he had. The relief from him leaving me was palpable after I learned what I was dealing with it was easier to detach with love & pray for his healing while I create my neat life! Praise the Most High for awareness and healing!😊❤🪽💙🧚♀️❤️🔥🧘🏻♀️🙏🌏✌️♾️🕉☯️
Those human beings are heartless
I discarded myself, because I saw it coming,thank you Lord you always had me in your hands 🙏🙏
I’m special and I love me.
i really dont think thats a bad mentality as long as its not at others expense
Thank you ❤
You just described my husband! He feels superior! And wants to be appreciated for doing the exact same thing everyone does, Like go to work! He wants me to appreciate that he married me.
Very well said!!!
Thank you for that pearl of wisdom , where do people get help for that illness?
There is a very low recovery rate.
@thomaspierce9458 you are quite correct
My ex was always the center of attention. Would make everyone watch him as he would dance around a crowded room that no one asked for. He had an extreme desire to be admired. He had a grandiose sense of self. If he wasnt the center of attention he would snap get angry aggressive and tantrum
Sux when they are your family...
Are you in contact or no contact? My bro wont set boundaries with my narc dad + stepmom but theyre out of my life (disowned and scapegoated when I called out my dad abusing my wife)
WOW. They hate themselves. How sad.
Our son and I were discarded out of nowhere for Christmas.
WHY DO SOME LABEL, OTHER PEOPLE , TO KEEP FROM TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THEIR ROLE,
OR PART IN THE RELATIONSHIP?😔😔😔
Best explanation out there
Thank you
I still don’t understand or even care at this point to get an answer for any of her betrayals. At this point I have to heal myself after 33 years of crazy
Their fantasy self is right there.
I really think this is a genetic disorder, because this has directly started with my maternal grandmother. I don't remember her, but what I have heard points directly to severe narcissism. My mother was a Covert and 2 siblings are Severely Affected with Narcissism
❤❤❤❤ thank you your so right thank you
Is true indeed
I did everything for my narc … but then he brought another woman under my nose…while i was being his slave… he was out with her… when i found out and got angry… i swore at him and the woman… he made it about himself… he’s angry with me because of a few words but i shouldn’t be angry that he wasted money on her… now he discarded me and said that I’m nothing to him only after i told him that hes just like all of us… a human… hes not a superman… hes not special … the sad thing is that we have kids …. I told him to stay with that woman but he still shows up trying to make my life hard
I think we all kinda do these things to degrees like 1-8 but levels 9 and 10 are sorta demonized. But, there is equally something to be said about those who will discard a *beautiful relationship because they can’t even cope with 1/10 levels of personal responsibility (*=said lack of personal responsibility solely-or-at-least-nearly-so, undermining an otherwise fantastic alignment of parity, chemistry, and harmony).
Perhaps in some lives the random ugliness of truth washes up on the shores of one’s personal, and social, experience in sufficiently frequent, sequential, and/or causative ways such that one’s life (as a noun or a verb, or a past, but always as a trajectory with a potential future) is demerited in ways whose palpable injustice is mysteriously both
1) ineffable even by those with command of thought and language, and also
2) known by all, even those far from the ability to utter what they, just as clearly, realize;
that
3) life, and then especially humans, can be very unfair, and that sometimes one’s whole case is totaled and worth starting over elsewhere and/or as elsewhom…
The problem with adhering too strongly to some of these videos is that being unlucky isn’t consistent or quantifiable, and thusly in the worst cases of those needing treatment, therapy narratives can end up piling onto the individual and generalized notions of hopelessness: aka “you’re hopeless and everyone out there, even the therapists, think you’re hopeless too”
On the other hand, the trouble with that notion is that there are also exceptionally problematic people whose genius is squandered in the ability to survive/thrive in endless and pointless scrimmages of (NPD and other) wolfish neuroticisms, preying on the sheep whom said therapy narratives are, quite rightly, helpfully, and in all ways goodly, trying to warn.
I dunno man… it’s a mess. Maybe AI can figure it out 😅🥲😔
My ex was so delusional that she even thought the best mom cards were true although her kids saw her flaws.
Yes very true seen this
My ex keeps sending me pics of our wedding, wanting me to talk to her daughter (I think to guilt trip me). I told her we should go our seperate ways. I know I was a good supply for her.
I would think that her lovers, one of them would he a good replacement for me. She will go after friends and family to get me to make contact with her. ☹️☹️
Keep blocking that shit out dude.
Good work
ok so look, i have to partially blame myself at the same time. the one thing i need to cultivate os the answer for the situation...emotional detachment. its kinda like...do i really have the right to judge if i dont have the maturity to just say no or cut them off? im at a fork in the road. i have to continue to grow mentally & i think this is test im supposed to go through for the growth i need.
I want to be discarded, please God let this evil person discard me. I'm in a trap discarded over and over again. I want permanent discard.
Discard them first, block the narc without saying a word, it drives them nuts😂
Youre genetics are on point
Sadly theres just some demons in people out there that LOVE chaos. 😔
well said
Yes they do this is true
You have to be a total puppet in their hands to NOT be discarded.
When I first got with this person, I felt important just because I was his girlfriend, because the public image of him was absolutely stellar, and I couldn’t believe how lucky I was that he was single and he picked me.😂That person was not the person I ultimately ended up with nor the person who discarded me. Oh, well, I learned my lesson. He dumped me on my son’s birthday which was the 14th of this month and moved out two years ago today. When he was ready to go he just laid it all out on the table really quickly and rather glibly and refused to discuss it any further. We were engaged and together almost 8 years. He just threw it all away and walked away.
I’m sorry, what a evil batard
I tried to make her feel special she diss me she knew I cared knew I am a light beacon she didn't want to move forward
I PAMPERED BABIED,SUPPORTED &QUEENTREATED THE💩OUTTA HER....I GOT TOO CLOSE.....
"...and even if you _do_ play along you may be discarded."
so it's essentially a lose-lose-lose scenario all the way around...AVOID. xD
More like this one!
Don't hate narcissists because they are not all evil. They just trying to survive. I love my narcissistic father and I forgave him.
Don’t hate period.
🥰
She was kicking me out . I decided to get a job , she cheats on me while I was at work. Even though she was discarding me , I got a job so I can take care of myself. She cheats on me thinking I’m leave her . She leaves before I leave ? Make it makes sense
You really should separate such people from borderlines or similar conditions. Not doing so only fosters confusion.
Obviously not all narcs discard like you said. If they did there would be no lob term relationships with narcs.
And thus came my Sadistically Catholic mother's love & silenced
I was very too a narcissist. I was getting a divorce from him. I was so afraid. But he passed away before it. Is he like that happen? Why do I carry so much fear I know he’s coming back I can tell it.
The girl who dated me for 7 years got a new boyfriend who she put on the phone to talk to me.
I was heartbroken, the heartlessness from where Love should be flowing. Females are empty , men need to leave these freaks.
What if I’m the narcissist? How do I know I’ve stopped?
Agree!
You're lucky if they discard you.
Woah woah. No everyone who doesn’t play along gets discarded. Narcissists actually try to force you to like them and applaud their actions.
Question: Say the narcissist who would normally discard is older or becomes disabled, becomes unattractive in someway, would they be reluctant or outright opposed to discard, since they might realize they have no replacement options ?
nope
Well, too bad for him because I did both
They hate every one