Wife Swap? | Married At First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 6 & 7 | Recap | Review

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  • @carofantastic
    @carofantastic Місяць тому +128

    I don’t understand the decision of sleeping with someone who’s not attracted to you? Is it like a hope that the sex is going to be so good that the person is going to be all of a sudden attracted to you? Polly girl don’t ever let a man tell you more than once that he’s not into you

    • @katrinaraymond9726
      @katrinaraymond9726 Місяць тому +8

      😂 Exactly don't make sense

    • @dacoolfruit
      @dacoolfruit Місяць тому +14

      Yes! I cannot believe it! Also it drives me crazy how thr girls in thr show are giddy at the alter and openmy proclaiming how attracted they are to their man when he has not done it first... am Inold fashioned? I always felt like you wait till he expresses some interest first before thlring it all out there.

    • @carofantastic
      @carofantastic Місяць тому +8

      @@dacoolfruit oh no that's not old fashioned, i needs my man to tell me im beautiful 10,000 times before i tell him i like him back 🤣🤣🤣

    • @marcio5583
      @marcio5583 Місяць тому +7

      Do not throw your pearls to swines...(if you know, you know)

    • @mamamalet
      @mamamalet Місяць тому +1

      Yiep😅 people be walking around thinking they got magic 🐱, 😅.

  • @saffs001
    @saffs001 Місяць тому +139

    Richelle calling Orson’s past experience being cheated on a ‘sob story’ was downright rude. Felt bad for Orson

    • @L3enaaa
      @L3enaaa Місяць тому +18

      No seriously like the exports did him dirty putting them tg

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf Місяць тому +7

      She gave me whiplash because I was siding with her abit on asking question but that "alpha" bullshxt is too much. I will give it to her for being paranoid about the green lights but he was sharing a hardship about it past....his trust was violated though.
      One 1⃣ hand, I can see her both loving and weaponizing his Caribbeaness a wee bit 😅....I resonate like Queen E

    • @mpazinambao2938
      @mpazinambao2938 Місяць тому +7

      That is rude, but I'd also be concerned if my bf is talking about a relationship of 5 years ago that he got cheated on. Go heal first.

    • @hayfield11
      @hayfield11 Місяць тому +6

      And it turns out she is actually quite scarred from previous relationships as well.

    • @ruthfrank8106
      @ruthfrank8106 Місяць тому +6

      That was insensitive however who would want their husband to be openly tearful about an ex from 5 years ago 😅
      He's not ready for marriage 🚩🚩🚩

  • @JCsDaughter610
    @JCsDaughter610 Місяць тому +78

    For me it’s the fact that Adam and Casper are super MID, so for them to be disparaging anyone about looks is confusing. The women they assigned to both of them look better than the men. Honestly it’s so sad to watch. Alex, his temper isn’t it! His anger is giving he didn’t heal from his past trauma. Holly and Polly obviously need to do more healing, they’re not done. Richelle as well, she seemed sooo overwhelmed, maybe realizing those walls she has up blinded her own self. From needing more healing.
    People prematurely enter into relationships from their healing journey. Smh. That’s why I think alot of these relationships fail or are just doomed from the start.

    • @Bibirallie
      @Bibirallie Місяць тому +1

      I see this with u.k men.

    • @felinetherapy4782
      @felinetherapy4782 Місяць тому +2

      That's got me confused as well, they just aren't that attractive.

  • @dil321
    @dil321 Місяць тому +33

    Your partner should give you grace and a safe place to heal, but the responsibility to heal is ALWAYS yours.

  • @GG-kn2se
    @GG-kn2se Місяць тому +40

    “Delete your paragraph” is so funny

    • @TheQueenE
      @TheQueenE  Місяць тому +14

      This year specifically, I’ve gotten so many scathing paragraphs 🤣 all of which I stop reading after the first 2 sentences

  • @RaeannaInez
    @RaeannaInez Місяць тому +44

    I don't find Adam attractive AT ALL physically and think Polly could absolutely do better so this is crazy to me. Like seriously, what is in the water over there, because I just can't imagine him with his looks and personality being a player.
    Also, I really dislike the way Holly and Alex talk to each other. If you grew up with parents who fought, these two are quite triggering.

  • @samiarockson8081
    @samiarockson8081 Місяць тому +26

    Richelle was so unkind to Orson, I wish he stood up for himself. I think because he's so physically attracted to her, he let it slide but she was treating him with no respect. Adam should be removed from the show. This is where reality TV needs to start setting boundaries. When he talks about not being attracted to Polly, he talks about it with so much pride and confidence, he's putting her down and taking joy in it. He then slept with her, and then proceeded to go to the dinner party and boast about how unattracted to her he is but "he's everything she wants". Then when he hurt her feelings, he sat there and laughed. This is borderline abusive and he should never have been cast on the show. Polly needs to respect herself and walk away from that because it's like she's waiting for him to be attracted to her and she needs to know her worth. No human being that treats you like that deserves space in your life. Same for Alex. He is an abuser and his victim came out, channel 4 backed him and women's aid spoke out. Regardless of Holly's temper, he manipulated the situation to make himself a victim and that he had done "nothing wrong". This is a man who was arrested for deserting when he got out of the experiment. Casper just seems spoilt and insecure and coming across as a bit mean. It's fine not to be attracted to someone, but it's how you express it and Adam honestly I have no words, the producers needs to remove Alex and Adam on the grounds of welfare.

  • @aylanevzat235
    @aylanevzat235 Місяць тому +66

    Agree with everything you said …But sis I just came to say- your HAIR is HAIRING Eulaine😍😍😍😍😍💖💖💖🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @TheQueenE
      @TheQueenE  Місяць тому +31

      With the government name 😅 you meant that 🫶🏾

    • @aylanevzat235
      @aylanevzat235 Місяць тому +5

      I do , I do😘💖💖

  • @MarcyS-b2m
    @MarcyS-b2m Місяць тому +35

    Mafs now feels like we're watching women trade their dignity in the hopes of becoming influencers.

  • @Murayo1984
    @Murayo1984 Місяць тому +6

    How is Rochelle calling Orson not emotionally resilient when she literally ran away and then had a full breakdown/panic attack for no reason?!? He was so gracious to her even after she had the audacity to call him disingenuous🙄. All he did was be open and honest about his feelings. He felt close to her because he was vulnerable and he got to excited by what appeared to be the closeness that he felt it brought them. Little did he know she was judging him.

  • @mpazinambao2938
    @mpazinambao2938 Місяць тому +41

    I'm rooting for Sasha and Ross.

  • @MGold00
    @MGold00 Місяць тому +45

    I just don't get Rochelle. Even if Orson can still be holding on to his past. But for Rochelle to walk away crying the drama 🙄
    I feel like there is something not right abt her

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Місяць тому +8

      Ya she's giving mood disorder or she has trauma or both.

    • @mayraz5625
      @mayraz5625 Місяць тому +2

      @@joanna0988 I think you're right. I have a mood disorder and her paranoid/ anxious responses remind me of me when I'm not taking good care of myself

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Місяць тому +1

      @@mayraz5625 Exactly and it's totally expected in such a high stress situation but if she knew herself better she would never do this experience.

    • @mayraz5625
      @mayraz5625 Місяць тому +2

      @@joanna0988 Agreed, she should've taken precautions to handle her triggers. This show wouldn't work for me.

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Місяць тому

      @@mayraz5625 Same here. I feel dysregulated just watching sometimes lol.

  • @kcfitness8710
    @kcfitness8710 Місяць тому +4

    I do think Orson went from 0-100 really quickly in terms of his affection towards Richelle, so I would question whether someone is genuine or not. what is strange is her emotional response to the whole process. There is something that seems really odd about her. It’s a shame that Polly can’t see how beautiful she is! She gets excited with less than breadcrumbs. 😢

  • @aratang2948
    @aratang2948 Місяць тому +32

    The experts were playing silly buggers with these matches this season. You will not convince me any thought was put into matches these poorly suited couples.

    • @maester7778
      @maester7778 Місяць тому +6

      Same- I think they did a bad job at matching these partners. Most of them aren't suited even on the most basic of issues (forget the attraction part which is a whole other problem)

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Місяць тому +1

      Sasha and Ross are lovely.

    • @aratang2948
      @aratang2948 Місяць тому

      @@joanna0988I don’t trust Ross as far as I can spit for some reason. And having 1/2 so so couple proves how bad the matches are.

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Місяць тому +1

      @@aratang2948 We'll see. I don't take these shows that seriously 😅

  • @ngozi.chukwuneke
    @ngozi.chukwuneke Місяць тому +9

    Even at the wedding when he said he was a bit flustered with the questions, he didn’t allude to it being a turn-off. I think he just wears his feelings on his sleeves or catches feelings fast

  • @patriciag6030
    @patriciag6030 Місяць тому +8

    Girl your opinions are on point and your delivery is so funny!

  • @hanalester702
    @hanalester702 Місяць тому +9

    I think Rochelle has a point, I think if her intuition is telling her there are elements of love bombing or introducing the concept of a “wicked woman from the past” to potentially be brought back up in the future to excuse poor behaviour then she should listen to those feelings. They are two very very classic manipulation techniques and if she’s experienced a controlling or abusive man in the past maybe it’s jumping out to her. And we are only seeing the edit

  • @farmatas
    @farmatas Місяць тому +29

    I wonder why Rochelle has signed up for the show if she is a difficult person and can't trust the expert. I think she has relationship issues and is trying to reflect onto Olson.

    • @MGold00
      @MGold00 Місяць тому

      I think so too

  • @dawnh8899
    @dawnh8899 Місяць тому +29

    OH and 3.... Polly looked AMAZING!!!! She's a beautiful girl. But she's playing herself at this point. Have hope, don't be blind girl.

  • @JCsDaughter610
    @JCsDaughter610 Місяць тому +12

    According to Adam’s scale attraction does have something to do with it bc that is what’s holding him back from “10, loving her”. If he was that into personality he would’ve at least been halfway or even a 6. Imo this shows, he is very superficial, n has no plans on changing that anytime soon. Polly should run, fast.

  • @kimberlyrobinson1978
    @kimberlyrobinson1978 Місяць тому +8

    Holly, Girl…don’t get attached. This won’t last 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @pixiestxNyomouf
    @pixiestxNyomouf Місяць тому +7

    The fact that Lacey was confronted twice by them after arriving. She already had to hear that from her own partner. I'd already be uncomfortable. And then Adam was talking about her in a bikini and her husband had to correct him.
    Also glad to see they made progress since the wedding 😊 but we'll see!

  • @PhilSoReal1
    @PhilSoReal1 Місяць тому +6

    Questions about the dinner party? We do the people try to take the role as enforcer for their friends? These dinner parties go left when other couples get invloved with other couples. I don’t think you have to lie if things aren’t going well but some info can be withheld so you and your partner can keep the peace and work it out in private.

  • @paintitblack9712
    @paintitblack9712 Місяць тому +9

    I feel bad for polly, this man is giving her crumbs 😒

  • @dacoolfruit
    @dacoolfruit Місяць тому +3

    "Largly in part".... you had me laughing!!!

  • @ruthfrank8106
    @ruthfrank8106 Місяць тому +12

    Alex lacks emotional intelligence and holly is gas lighting him. I didn't like how Polly rudely confronted Alex at the dinner party and then when he was rude back she got upset along with holly if this not gas lighting at its finest 8 don't know what is.
    Richelle and orson are a bad match he needs someone more submissive.

  • @stardustmelody2709
    @stardustmelody2709 Місяць тому +6

    Polly could do so much better than Moe Howard from the 3 stooges. Why a grown man has a bowl cut like a toddler escapes me.

  • @pixiestxNyomouf
    @pixiestxNyomouf Місяць тому +8

    This episode was insane.

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 Місяць тому +8

    Holy is so disrespectful they way she speaks to this man is just wrong

  • @vmik8949
    @vmik8949 Місяць тому +16

    Who does Adam think he is?! Has he looked in the mirror recently?!

    • @ana-my8zp
      @ana-my8zp Місяць тому +4

      @vmik8949 he's looked in the mirror a bit too much i think - he's so obsessed with himself

  • @dacoolfruit
    @dacoolfruit Місяць тому +6

    But with Alex, the message IS that if soemthing better is out there my eyes will be wandering.. I don't think I would ever be able to trust my partner if they said something like that. Marriage ia for life! Not till something "better" comes along. I am not sure if Alex actually said henwould wife swap... maybe he just said he was nervous the attraction woulen't be there and he would have attractioj to someone else. And that would have been an OK thing to say... but if it is liem a " I would if the oplortunity arrises". That would be the end for me.
    Also, the faxt his attraction is already waning based on her behavior... I get that... but he said it to his mates so quick.. he has one foot out the door already.

  • @aratang2948
    @aratang2948 Місяць тому +7

    That lady with 2 kids reminds me of Tasha from last season, her rudeness as well as her looks and accent. This guy won’t put up with it like Paul did I hope (he is another issue altogether🙄)

  • @johnnywalker9856
    @johnnywalker9856 Місяць тому +4

    Holly doesn't realise that shouting at the hat she wouldn't introduce her kids to a man that behaved like Alex did is not going to bother him given his preference was a child free person. Just saying....

  • @PhilSoReal1
    @PhilSoReal1 Місяць тому +4

    What’s the healthiest example we’ve seen of someone explaining they aren’t attracted to their mate? I’m sure it’s a hard but needed conversation, I just don’t know what it looks like in a manner that won’t offend someone. Specifically when the lack of attraction is related to weight.

    • @torixx9910
      @torixx9910 Місяць тому

      @@PhilSoReal1 so I would say when you do tell someone you’re not attracted to them and you know deep down it won’t change then the best move is to cut ties but be respectful and kind. The issue comes about when people are rude/degrading/mean/and just giving bad vibes. It would be better to leave the show and respect that persons time and space. Don’t go back to them in a false way just for attention/or cos you’re bored. I think keep your distance and leave the show but be respectful and kind. I’ve always found it crazy how someone can say they don’t like you but continue communicating with you being super nice to you meanwhile it may be leading another person on. It’s best to keep a respectful distance until you’re both ready to communicate on a civil platonic level which takes time

  • @sophilozophy
    @sophilozophy Місяць тому

    Wow, so many emotions. I don't really have my hopes high that things end well with anyone right now. Even the one couple that are doing well because the negativity of everyone else might infect them and if that doesn't I can see others in the group creating a wedge due to jealousy-knowingly or unknowingly. Thank you for the amazing recaps.

  • @marshnn
    @marshnn Місяць тому +4

    9:33 9:52 Richelle is just rude .She doesn't want to hear about anyone else's story

  • @rebeccabennett1535
    @rebeccabennett1535 Місяць тому +1

    I still feel some of these participants were not fully truthful in the vetting process.
    Alex reaction on having to stay at the commitment ep. He must've seen this program & knows the rules!
    Why didn't Emma & Casper write leave? Emma should leave Casper in her dust

  • @dawnh8899
    @dawnh8899 Місяць тому +6

    So.... 2 things. 1) With Orson (not that I'm all in on him at all) it seems like the same concern that some women have brought up (cheating in the past) is viewed different coming from him. 2) Alex and .... her lol are NOT it. She's too confrontational for someone with his personality. And some of the tea I geard about him, legal issues and past relationships are looking REAL valid right now. Smh

    • @ruthfrank8106
      @ruthfrank8106 Місяць тому +2

      1) I agree but should one be entering into a marriage if one is still tearful about an ex from 5 years earlier?
      2) Spill the tea 🍵 😅

    • @dawnh8899
      @dawnh8899 Місяць тому

      @ruthfrank8106 caught an episode review by someone in the UK (I apologize I can't remember his channel name) and he said that Alex had some sort of legal trouble. And was on "probation" of some sort and did NOT get the proper permission to be on the show. So he had some issues afterwards. He also mentioned that an ex of Alex's had made some not nice allegations about his treatment of a partner. I was shookith.... until I saw this latest episode and there it was.

    • @ruthfrank8106
      @ruthfrank8106 Місяць тому

      @dawnh8899 oh I see 👀 I've not watched it yet!

  • @draw-budmarkio2675
    @draw-budmarkio2675 Місяць тому +2

    This has nothing to do with the people in question but, if I had a partner that was arguing/fighting me just because my body and energy could not handle two rounds of long flights by plane to reach our destination that I needed to sleep an entire day, I would be out.
    Like, you want to spend time with a person that isn’t gonna be all there because they’re so out of it and tired from traveling the first day, not caring for their well being?

  • @goitcore
    @goitcore Місяць тому +3

    They don't have two legs or a finger to lift themselves up off the floor. The scale wasn't about attractiveness but the toad wouldn't have given a four if she was his archetype.

  • @TheOnylove
    @TheOnylove Місяць тому +6

    Your hair is so beautiful 🤩🤩🤩

  • @johannajay3176
    @johannajay3176 Місяць тому

    With most of the pairings, you can see how the "experts" matched for drama and not love. 😂

  • @kbetc.
    @kbetc. Місяць тому +1

    Projection…!!!! Yasss I said the same thing gurl..!.!!!

  • @kelissamack8954
    @kelissamack8954 Місяць тому

    Loool Queen says she don't care about what y'all got to say (Nene voice) "She said what she said!"

  • @shakuwilliams623
    @shakuwilliams623 Місяць тому

    Hi there! Where can watch this season of mafs?

  • @stardustmelody2709
    @stardustmelody2709 Місяць тому +1

    Adam wants a trophy wife!

  • @marielysdiaz5615
    @marielysdiaz5615 Місяць тому

    Thank you for reviewing

  • @Becoming_Els
    @Becoming_Els Місяць тому

    22:24 100% agreed 😂

  • @ellarh_h
    @ellarh_h Місяць тому

    Lets get into this hair sis!!!!!!

  • @johannajay3176
    @johannajay3176 Місяць тому +1

    Is Alex the "alpha" male Richelle wants? 😂😂

  • @melaniecatchpole6024
    @melaniecatchpole6024 Місяць тому +3

    So some interesting news I can offer to the discussion….
    I work in the community and I know someone who knows Rosses previous girlfriend that he dated for two years proper seriously
    And he cheated on her with her best friend
    I found out the day that Ross said that he had never cheated
    Let’s roast this liar

    • @melaniecatchpole6024
      @melaniecatchpole6024 Місяць тому

      Sorry, I was voice texting. I meant in my comment above about Ross that I work in the Deaf community.

    • @paintitblack9712
      @paintitblack9712 Місяць тому +4

      It's really like playing telephone though, unless I hear it from her it didn't happen. Nowadays, ppl burn others at the stake due to hearsay

    • @aratang2948
      @aratang2948 Місяць тому +6

      For some reason I felt he wasn’t being honest when he said that. He also switched up after finding out she wanted to wait and became a gentleman when he was an eager beaver before. He’s just biding his time in my eyes. Don’t trust him.

  • @tinyt363
    @tinyt363 Місяць тому

    I think the rating scale thing would be hurtful regardless 😓

  • @MyButterfly60
    @MyButterfly60 Місяць тому +6

    I get so tired of people using being cheated on as a crutch! Everyone has been cheated on! Grow up and move on imo is what needs to happen!

    • @pixiestxNyomouf
      @pixiestxNyomouf Місяць тому +9

      You can move on when/if you can handle it healthily 🙁 I won't simply agree with this because it's dismissive. I'm not saying you have breakdowns and it's excused but ppl get hurt in those situations and it affects them....ie Matt from lib4 because he needed help frfr.

    • @MyButterfly60
      @MyButterfly60 Місяць тому +2

      @@pixiestxNyomouf then they need to heal BEFORE they get in a new relationship! Simple!

    • @diamcole
      @diamcole Місяць тому +11

      @@pixiestxNyomoufAgreed. I think what’s healthy is generally in the middle instead of either end of the spectrum. We can’t honestly expect everyone to just suck it up and move on, especially because there’s a first time for everything and that betrayal can leave an impact. Also don’t think it’s acceptable to expect anyone to heal you or fix what was broken.

    • @MyButterfly60
      @MyButterfly60 Місяць тому

      @@diamcole agree

    • @dacoolfruit
      @dacoolfruit Місяць тому +5

      I hve never been cheated on. Only with my husband. If I was cheate don it would he devestating. Not everyone feels like cheating is a normal or common expereince.

  • @Murayo1984
    @Murayo1984 Місяць тому

    I’m going to say this now, I do not trust Lacey. She’s giving me I need ALL the attention. Since Polly mentioned her insecurity to her she has been in the mix when Adam is involved. If you notice she sits next to him always touching him. Nope don’t like her

  • @arrinannaa
    @arrinannaa Місяць тому

    Ooh girrrl, I love this look🤩

  • @MarcyS-b2m
    @MarcyS-b2m Місяць тому +3

    I've watched every single episode and I dont know any of these people's names, the review usually helps but I think this cast doesnt interest me at all

  • @maester7778
    @maester7778 Місяць тому +2

    I like most of this cast separately, but the pairings are so off. As a group, they all seem to get on rather well. Poor screening from the experts.

  • @lorraebrooks9286
    @lorraebrooks9286 Місяць тому +1

    what a dinner party

  • @lorraebrooks9286
    @lorraebrooks9286 Місяць тому +3

    Orson should of been matched with holly

    • @ac4007
      @ac4007 Місяць тому +6

      Nah! She’d be a bit too much for him I think

    • @alexis-marie_9920
      @alexis-marie_9920 Місяць тому +4

      id prefer Polly and Orson.. they are both bubbly

    • @maester7778
      @maester7778 Місяць тому +3

      @@ac4007 -tbf I think both of them would be too much for Orson who already has children and seems to not be into arguing a lot.

  • @Megantheepainter
    @Megantheepainter Місяць тому +1

    All these women speaking to each other husbands makes no sense, if it was the other way around they would have an attitude

  • @yourlittlesecret7575
    @yourlittlesecret7575 Місяць тому

    Queen E at 22:15
    Be nice..... I'm finding it.

  • @JackieSharpe-c4t
    @JackieSharpe-c4t Місяць тому

    Don't understand Richelle I think he is a nice guy she needs to calm down a bit fault she was so rude talking to him with a mouthful of food and she wants to be serious

  • @lillymcintosh7114
    @lillymcintosh7114 Місяць тому

    Tbh I dont like Holly. She couldve handled that better even tho what he said was kinda wrong...

  • @sophiasakellaridismangoura855
    @sophiasakellaridismangoura855 Місяць тому

    Delete yo paragraph, relax

  • @dawnh8899
    @dawnh8899 Місяць тому

    CRAZY 🤪