Props to Mav for taking how Harper was feeling seriously, Giving her advice and respecting her enough to say it could be cut if she wanted it. Seeing the soft side of him makes me look at him differently. Love you guys ❤️
I agree! I'm a year younger than harper, but I have the same OCD with her, and I always feel so embarrassed about it. It's nice to see someone my age being real.
I’m a teen girl with mental health issues,this helped me in a way knowing that there is other people going through the same thing and I relate with Harper a little bit, but I’m so proud of u girls opening up because I know it’s hard to 💗
Harper:crying Kate:comforting her Mav:comforting her Cash: "Is ThIs ThE WrOng TimE tO bE wEaRiNg aToIlEt SeAt?" Edit: some people are taking this the wrong way I just thought it was funny Also hate to be that person but thx for 3k likes
You could tell that Harper needed Kate. Once Harper reached her arms out for Kate, you can see her cry while Kate “shielded” her. This is so heartwarming along with Mav comforting her. You could also see the sadness in Cash’s eyes. Harper and Kate I might not know you, though I’m so proud of you both for sharing. Many and I mean MANY people can relate to this, seeing they aren’t alone. Words can’t describe how proud I am for you two. You two are so brave sharing this onto the internet despite the awful place it can be. Again words can’t describe how proud of you I am and how much I love you girls. Have an awesome rest of your day and can’t wait to watch the next podcasts. ❤❤❤
@@Biggie_Cheese-1747 this isn’t funny, if you think mental health is a joke, then you’re living in a while different universe. You’re what’s wrong with this generation.
I really appreciate Harper opening up about it because I struggle with OCD that sort of comes with my severe anxiety. When I was younger I was so confused why I felt like my brain was working against me, I didn't understand why my head would put messed up thoughts in my head that would drive me crazy.
45:18 omg, the way mav could just recognize their struggles, and just easily remember the perfect verses makes me so happy as a christian. Mav truly is very mature and though we usually see his funny side it was so endearing to see him treat both of them like younger sister
i love how harper wanted to share even though it was a sensitive subject so people wouldn't feel alone. im her age and even though i don't have ocd i struggle with things it was incredibly encouraging. i absolutely sobbed when mav started talking about God and started reciting the scripture. i also sobbed when kate hugged harper. we all need someone in our lives like those too. harpers so lucky to have you all. thank you harper for sharing this and thank you mav cash and kate for being so supportive to her. i love y'all so much i hope you all have a blessed day and ill be keeping harper in my prayers. 💗
I love how maverick kept quoting scripture it really reminded me on how it’s not you should be scared to die and whenever you do you will go to heaven and be with our creator and that’s amazing and honestly this help me a lot because I feel the same way as I’m always afraid to die. I’m always thinking of random ways whether we’re just in the car or at the house,so this helped me a lot and thank y’all so much for opening up!!❤
Thinking everyone goes to heaven, or that it’s easy to go to heaven, is not a good mindset. Just know that the devil believes in G-d, so believing in him won’t save you. But thinking that if you didnt kill someone or something you will go to heaven. Hell isn’t just for murderers and criminals.
when i tell you i bawled. the way Harper wanted that hug from Kate. Don’t ever think it’s embarrassing for crying, you are so strong and i’m so so incredibly proud of you Harper you have come so far and i’m so glad ur doing better now. Glad u have a good support system🩷
I can understand cause I’m going through the exact same I was going through the exact same thing. It is so hard. I went through both Kate and Harper‘s problems, but I came to end of it and I am so thankful for that and I’m praying for you too also come to an end of that and you’re so strong and you’re so funny and nice. I love you guys so much. You guys dislike made my heart complete because I’ve always like not to be like like it, I’m not the only one in the world like that. I felt like that.❤❤❤❤
I’m a 34 yr old and I’ve dealt with the same thing Harper has on and off since I was 8! She is not alone. And it does get better Harper. I promise. Sometimes we have our OCD moments, then we remember what’s more important; what would God or what would our FAMILY wants not what our compulsive thoughts wants right? When you see nothing is going to happen to them, I promise - you can overcome it. I promise. I wish I could hug you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I would do the sign of the cross so many times on the bus and not know why my mind was telling me. After second grade my teacher told me in a communion class (I went to a catholic school) if I ever needed God, to just do the sign of the cross; this is what I would do. That’s where my compulsive mind went it. Instead of thinking, God hears me REGARDLESS if I do the sign of the cross. He hears me regardless if I tap something 4 times. If you know, you know. Your loved ones are safe. I just want to make my family proud, and how can we if we are not mentally okay and happy? Remember that Harper. Love you boo!
@Miserygirl2050 Don’t be sorry love. I appreciate you! Remember to always live your best life, never let anything interfere with it! You have choices. It’s been a whole learning process. I hope my message helped others. Maybe there’s a kid out there wondering “what’s wrong with me?” And Harper speaking about her OCD and me speaking about mine, helped them. Cognitive therapy helps the best with things like this, so I’ve been extremely thankful to have been able to go through therapy in my early twenties. Again, I appreciate you; and don’t be sorry! Sending good vibes!
You’re not alone I promise I have crippling anxiety that can literally make it to where I have to sit down because I feel like I’m about to fall. I was trying to do something, but I was really scared were shaking the whole time there other people can relate to thiscan help you. I’ve found a few things to help a little bit, but it still doesn’t exactly work all the time work for you. Any of my methods are gonna work for you just know you’re not alone.
You’re definitely not alone cus I’m super worse about anxiety and metal heath also I take medication it’s called clondine and zolft they both mix together but I would think I would have a heart attack and I would breathe hard and sweat and I would sometimes cry or feel like fainting also I would not eat not sleep much also I would be in a mood a lot and I would never take showers and I would never go outside 😢 also I have a learning disability and ADD I’m not hyper i just forget and stuff also I might have austim but I know I have a sleep disorder though
Videos don't usually make me cry. Harper, when she started crying and explaining her story, I didn't realise that tears were dropping down my face. I relate to you so much. I haven't been able to open up about it much but I think I have OCD. I'm quite young still I am only in 7th grade. It started in 5th grade. It didn't start that bad, I only started caring about how organised things were. It stayed like that for while until a month ago. I started getting thoughts that if life was good, there would always be a punishment for it and all that stuff. Sometimes I would have to stop breathing to make life feel right because of it aswell. It isn't nice. I really relate to you Harper, I really do. I'm a bit younger than you and you are so inspiring, knowing that you have OCD makes me happy because I feel the same. If you're reading this Harper, then please know that you are not alone ❤
I was diagnosed with high-functioning autism on my eleventh birthday (great birthday present) and it has completely changed my perspective on life and my mental health. I've started to embrace the fact that I need more help and assistance than others and it's helped me seek attention for other problems such as anxiety, panic disorder, sensory processing disorder, and ADHD. The only thing that reassures me is that I'm not alone, I never was and I never will be. Thank you guys for opening up about this and not being afraid to talk about issues like this, especially to a younger audience because these aren't some adult issues you just tuck away until you're an adult that can handle these on their own or just things you only hear about online these are real life experiences that people go through on the daily and the only way we can give struggling people the resources they need to better themselves and the atmosphere around them is to bring attention about this. Nothing about this is embarrassing and it happens to literally everyone. Love you guys :)
As a person who was diagnosed with ocd at 5 and I’m almost 15 it’s been a hard journey it’s nice to not feel alone. I completely relate to everything Harper said. OCD has made my life difficult in so many ways and it’s so nice to hear someone not just talk about how they panic when their room isn’t clean but actually talk about real ocd and everything I have experienced because it is truly deeper then just stressing over having a messy room.
@@chelseavivero4328 obsessive compulsive disorder is a mental disorder driven by anxiety usually and it makes u get intrusive thoughts and urges to do “compulsions” which aren’t rational so u feel like ur fears won’t come true (someone fill me in if u have more info idk how to explain ahahahh) :)
24:54 I love how Maverick is so kind to Harper and made sure she was comfortable, because I know from experience that men don’t like emotions and there is nothing wrong with that. But Maverick reminded her how she is gods daughter ❤
25:50 it’s okay Harper and kate.. listen. I have severe mental sensitivity and if I mess something up or either make something someone doesn’t like, I will cry my eyes out. I have depression as well, which makes it worse. I know this might be really embarrassing but people are here for you and your feelings to comfort you. Never listen to those thoughts in your head because you are this wonderful person that is beautiful and bold. We all love you 💝 (this is my mom’s YT channel so now I feel embarrassed putting this out but my mom isn’t sensitive I am.)
This episode made me cry. I'm so happy they opened up to ppl. I love your guys' channel so much and am so glad of how relatable it is. I used to constantly live in fear of like a shooting or bombing while out in public like Kate was explaining. It's way better now, but I still get scared sometimes. Thank you guys so much for being relatable and spreading your love! 💗
Harper we would never judge you for crying about something like that. You are allowed to feel, especially when it’s something that affects your everyday life. Your story will help people.
I commented on this video a very long time ago and I just rewatched it again. Both times I cried!! My grandma just passed away a few weeks ago, two days before school started. It has for sure been the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my life and I have prayed about it. Kate and Harper talking about their problems both made me cry because when I was little I watched this scary video where it talked about this guy who would watch kids outside and then follow them home at night and he would break in and axe the parents and steal the kids. That creeped me out, not only for me but I was terrified of my parents dying. I would have to sleep on their floor because I would think that if I was there he wouldn’t come, I wouldn’t go outside later at night because I was scared they were going to follow me home. I would have to do this certain thing before I would go to bed to make sure he wouldn’t come to get me. I remember I never wanted to tell my parents why I was scared but one night it became to much and they came into my room and asked me why I was acting how I was acting. I showed them the video and my dad said that was only part one and asked if I could find the part two. We found it and it ended up that they found out about it and found all the kids he had stolen. We also found that the guy that was doing it would have been about 91 years old by now. I would have to tell myself that every night before I went to bed so I could feel a bit better but it still scared be that someone could have seen that video and thought it was a good idea. That was like 7 years ago and I still think about that to this day before I go to bed. I then have to fight with my mind and tell it all the reasons why that will not happen before I go to bed.
I completely agree with Harper. Everyone has their own, sometimes completely different mental health journeys and experiences. I don’t suffer with ocd, but so many other people do and appreciate this episode for spreading awareness and making a safe place for anybody. Everyone has struggles. For example I suffer with adhd, anxiety, and depression. But there’s so much more out there and so many experiences and different people and challenges. Love you guys!!
Maverick is literally the best person. I freakin' Love him. He's just such a good comforter and he Truly cares for everyone. God Bless y'all. Also Kate. I understand what your saying.
Kate, I hope you take a lot from this comment. My name is Ella and I had severe anxiety for over 5 years. My anxiety was based off of death. Me and you are very alike. I was so scared. I couldn’t continue doing my education because of how badly this affected me. I was always afraid. I would bang the wall squeeze my hands on whatever I could get when I had panic attacks. It took me so long before I could get comfortable talking and opening up about my fear. The Lord is who brought me out of it. He brought me out of the shadows, this fear controlled me so much. It never will just vanish, it will still stay. But I hope you just truly read the Bible. That is what gave me all of my answers. It gave me so much comfort everyday. I read my Bible almost every day and it brings sooo much comfort! I pray for you so deeply and Harper that your struggles will be reduced. I love you guys so much! I pray for you all!💗
My name is Ella and I have gone through very similar things, I am still going to therapy and I need medication but you proved to me that I am strong and I can get through this and that I’m not alone, thank you💕
i love how kate opened up about praying even though you have what you prayed for. its so surprising how God s blessings work, how He literally moves us, i will always be in awe. i love you girls! 💗Jesus loves u!!
I’m glad that Kate and Harper opened up about this because I thought I was the only one. I’m always nervous and scared like Kate. It just makes me feel more comfortable to talk about my feelings inside me.
@@AviannaPerez-o8l ya small is think I have adhd and ocd but I've never been tested and of I do I don't to the s,as extent as harper I feel so bad for her. 💗💕💖
i can relate to kate sm, im constantly feeling like something will happen even if its the safest place im sat in, ive been diagnosed with anxiety and hearing her story has comforted me so i dont feel alone❤
Harper, you are amazing for opening up about this. As someone with ADHD, OCD, ASD, sensery disorder, and plenty of other issues, it is so cool to see you talk about it, I am on a medication and doing much better, but its still tough. You are amazing never give up😊
Harper highlights: 10:55 she starts talking about her mental breakdown in class when cash interrupts her. 12:29 she explains the texting and why she got her OCD “attack” that day. 14:40 cash asks an unnecessary question and Kate and Mav points it out. 19:00 she explains her OCD. 22:25 don’t even wanna say it out loud but something really sad harper did to herself 💔 24:40 Mav talks with harper and tells her how she is worth something and make her feel better. 25:15 You can see harpers tears coming. 25:20 Kate asks if she’s okay. 25:33 She gives Kate the signal for a hug😕❤️ 25:42 Kate gives harper the hug she deserves ❤️ 25:56 Kate tells harper it’s nothing to be embarrassed about. 26:15 the cute hug 😕😕❤️❤️
Harper, I'm so, so, so proud of you. You're such an amazing, beautiful, funny, unique girl, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with crying. It's really inspiring to see you opening up about yourself like this. You are loved by everyone around you. The world would never be the same without you. You put a smile on my face every single day. We all love you so, so, so, soooo much!!💕
Kate. I've had the same feeling for about a year and it was so bad like every day at school I would feel like I wouldn't make it home that day whether it was from a school shooting or a car crash on the way home and I talked to therapists and nothing seemed to help until I turned to God and within about 2 hours 90% of all of my feelings were gone. It was such a weird feeling though because when my mom left for work I would think that it would be the last time so if she didn't say love you or something like that I would panic and want to cry until I saw her again and I would pray and cry every night about how much I just wanted to get threw the night and how I wanted my family to too and it was just so scary so I get you and I am so glad that you opened up and thank you for giving me someone to relate to even though this is 6 months old I have gone back to it every time it gets really bad and it helps so much idk why but it does so thank you Soo much! Love you all
I don't think it's actually annoying because like he may be like just needs to know the answer to the question someone was talking about a story and I have a question come up in my mind. I have to say it or else I'll keep thinking about it for the rest of the day I wouldn't be able to sleep. I wouldn't be able to do anything until I get the answer to it and he always gets in his mind maybe he has something where he can't just function without having a joke in his mind and it's not his fault
@@alhanoufalqaydi6581no it's annoying. extremely. he needs to pay attention to social cues and needs to learn when not to make jokes. he did it over and over and over throughout the podcast. the questions were unnecessary and like they said Harper was going to cover that when she told her story.
@@rockstar.marceline no he literally mentioned that talk because every time he spoke, they would come jokes in his mind like he can't control it like I have ADHD. I am dyslexic and I don't mind anybody making jokes cause it's OK. Like I appreciate them opening up about their mental health and whatever but it's not like you should go so like oh cash wouldn't shut up this is my opinion about this and I feel like it's wrong to say he was annoying
I just wanted you guys to know this podcast meant soooo much to me!! I can relate sooooo much to what Kate said!! I’m 15 and 3 years ago my dad passed away to a brain tumor… I was completely devastated and so mad at God… I juts felt like it was so unfair how God chose to take him away from me instead of letting him stay… about a year after he passed it really sunk in that I only had one more parent left and that if something ever happened to my mom I wouldn’t have anyone left… this thought cause me soooo much anxiety that I wasn’t even ok to go to school cuz I would sit in my desk and freak out that something was going to happen to my mom and I would nvr see her again… these feeling went on for so long and I went into a sort of depression… my mom found a counselor for me and I went to her for a while… after this I went on anti depressant which really helped… I started to seek God out more and slowly got off the medication… it’s about two years later and with Gods help I am no longer trapped in those thought patterns!! I juys wanted to thank you especially kate for what you shared!! It meant a lot to me and I just want you to know keep trusting in God even when everything feels unclear he love you and cares!! Thanks again❤
i actually started crying. I can relate to both kate and harper and im going through the entire adhd/ocd system right now and its so stressful and like kate, im always thinking of the worse case scenario and its actually exhausting. and also like harper, like i always am so nervous and aware of everything and school just makes it a million times worse. I actually love that they made this episode because its so real and comforting.
I love how they are just so real. Other influencers just do trends and try to follow what other people are doing, but they do their own thing and share like we are family and I feel like they are apart of my family. Love you guys. ❤️
You can just tell by the way Kate comforted Harper when she was crying that she is going to be an amazing mom Edit: tysm for 1.5k likes! Never mind it’s 1.8k now
I don’t know if you guys will see this or anyone will, but i just wanted to say that this episode was so sad yet so refreshing at the same time. We get told all the time that we are not alone and other people struggle as well, but it is very hard to understand without seeing it. Just knowing and seeing that these people that seem very perfect and always happy have struggles too is relieving. I also wanted to say they made me feel very very heard and less alone. I relate to Harper because i have a health issue and every time i try to talk about it, it brings me to tears. I don’t know what it is but the way it affects my life just makes it very hard to speak about. I also have not really shared it with any of my friends so seeing how brave she is sharing it with the world makes me less afraid to talk about it considering that may help me cope. Next i completely relate to kate. My biggest fear is death. There was this huge period of time where every night before bed I would start thinking of bad situations and ecspecially relating to school. I would pray every night that something bad wouldn’t happen. If I heard the slightest noise outside of my room my heart would beat so fast and I would try to become as quiet as possible. I still get this feeling sometimes and im still really scared of death ecspecially the unknown of what’s after it. I know God is there yet my brain like Mav said can’t comprehend that there is more than just Earth. Finally I wanted to say the way they showed their faith in this episode really spoke to me. I have always struggled a bit with my faith and a few months ago I was in a dark area and I really believe it brought me out. Just like Kate though, when it got better I noticed I wasn’t praying or focusing on it as much anymore which i definitely am trying to work on. People say that God is always with you and there for you but it almost felt like he wasn’t. I believe in him but this made me feel doubtful. I appreciate them and their stories a lot and I hope they know how much of an impact they just made and how special they are in my heart. I really believe I needed to see and hear this today. Thank you guys💗
i also a treible fear of death i can never sleep at night and get scared im gonna die in my sleep. it could be in the middle of winter and i just start sweating and shaking.
I can relate like ik I shouldn’t be scared of death but sometimes I’ll have these random thoughts about it and like sometimes I have it at night and I get so anxious abt it and I start praying to god to get these thoughts out of my head.
I love how you are getting comfortable talking about things such as mental health on UA-cam. Makes me feel so much better about being able to talk about my mental health aswell ❤❤. Love you guys. Aswell as like mav is liek her second dad and kate her mum how they were both reassuring her and telling her its ok and not embarrassing and the way kate hugged her and wiped her tears😢. I feel you harper Also not to be that girl but yes I liked my own comment 😊
Harper and kate, just remember that crying on podcast or any video in general does not define who you are, and it doesn't make you weak. It good to tell people about how your feeling because the longer you hold on the more its gonna hurt. Crying does not mean your weak it just means you been really strong and held it in for to long. We love you!❤
Ngl W mav bc him reminding Harper and Kate that they are loved by Christ was really heartwarming and comforting just knowing that they are blessed by the lord himself 🥹☺️
I love how Kate went straight to Harper when she started crying and started wiping her tears and told her that if she doesn’t want that clip in they don’t have to add it it was so sweet❤ and also how mav was telling her to know that there is also someone who loves her and that person is god and there won’t be a time where no one will love you❤
I really appreciate Harper opening up because I have has such a hard time with my depression and adhd they are literally the WORST combo but this just makes me feel like I’m not alone❤
As a teenage girl, thank you for this. Last year, I was in a really bad spot and found out that I had OCD. My ocd was a little different from Harper’s, for example if I walked down the stairs I would feel like I didn’t do it right so I would do it again and again and walk up and down 18 times every time I needed to walk down the stairs, I know that sounds silly but just simple things like flicking off a light switch or opening a door, I would need to repeat it until it felt right. It was so frustrating and I felt so bad for the people around me because they would have to wait for me to finish doing simple things that others wouldn’t find even a problem. Everyone thought I was weird and it was a really hard time for me. To see people talking about OCD and opening up about it really makes me happy to know there are other people out there who can relate to my problem. Thank you Harper.
Yeah, I feel like I also have that OCD that you have. Like I feel like I need to touch the corners of every wall for it to feel right or trace something inside and out especially the left and right corners
Mav is such a good listener, I’m always trying to be the most supportive I can and listen with open ears. It’s very thoughtful of you guys to be sharing your stories and it’s greatly appreciated ❤ I have type 1 diabetes and it’s not easy. I’ve had it since I was 6 and it’s been a struggle keeping up with it, sometime I just feel like I can’t do it, or I’m just not good enough at taking care of myself. You girls are amazing people and wish you all the best❤
I’m not even going to lie when cash did the big John Rutledge impression I threw my headphones onto my bed and was smiling like crazy because Outer Banks is my favorite show
Everyone is talking about how Kate was acting like an absolute great mom but did you see Mav he was being an absolute champ like a dad props to Kate and Mav for caring for Harper but also thank you Cash for adding a bit of laughter
thank you Kate and Harper for opening up and feeling comfortable enough to be vulnerable. you never really know what’s going on behind the scenes in someone’s life. you are both huge inspirations to many people including myself, so for you to show this side of your life is truly amazing for us. at the end of the day, we are all humans with emotions. we love you so so much ❤
Hi Harper. I’m Lindsey‘s daughter. I found this episode and I was like OMG I relate to every single word she’s saying right now. It means everything to me that you are opening up about it and it really encourages me to follow my dreams and to keep going because we know that it’s going to get better and it’s not real. I was diagnosed with OCD this year and have dealt with the exact same thoughts and compulsions. It’s so hard but we can get through this. I’m literally crying right now. Thank you so much Harper. I love you! Follow your dreams girly. Keep going!
I cried so hard after realising that someone gets what I go through. It’s so hard when people don’t understand but know I feel better knowing someone else gets me (not saying it’s good what we have btw)
I have struggled with ADHD, Anxiety, and OCD for all my life. I am so unbelievably grateful and happy that you guys talked about mental health. Thank you. ❤
Mental Health matters. I honestly relate to you so much Harper. The fact that you had the courage to open up about it was amazing. We love you, Harper.
My favorite epesode… I struggle with multiple mental illnesses and this makes me feel so good that people are talking about their mental heath in such a public place and feeling safe sharing it
Please tell Harper this: You are so strong, pretty, smart and talented in so many ways. So many people love you. The people that don't love you just dont know you. And it is ok to cry. But you dont have to put it on the Internet if you dont want to. You dont need it for views or so that people can relate. But if you do it for the people that can relate it is so nice and brave to put this on the internet. The important thing is that you choose what you want. And it is so strong and brave to talk about everything about you so open. You just need to remember that you are a beautiful human. You make me feel better about myself. Thanks ❤ ilysm
PIN THIS COMMENT THEY SPITTING STRAIGHT FACTTSSSS everything they were saying made me think about my life so much. This podcast makes me happy, thank you so much for this episode. You all deserve everything you wish for and I hope you all receive your wishes. ❤
I literally love how they talked about Jesus and praying to help with Harper, dude I love how they even through our Bible verses, I love this podcast so much! ✝️👏
This is so true. I also have OCD just like Harper and I also have emetophobia, (the fear of throw up/throwing up) and all throughout 4th and 5th grade, my mind would be like "If you wear different socks then someone will throw up" or "if you wear different pants someone will throw up." It got so severe that every morning before school in the 4th grade, I would cry and have a meltdown, begging my mom to not take me to school. I also have severe anxiety (that I'm on medicine for) and I'm also very suc!c!dal, I cut myself almost everyday and my mental health is really bad. If you read all this, thank you very much.
Kate really help me because I have been dealing with the same thing for at least 3 years and she helped me get through it and think of anxiety a different way
I am also a Christian but I sin SOO much and all of my other “friends” are so Holy, and I don’t really have TRUE friends so I always daydream about having friends that ACTUALLY understand and know me, which I do a lot with Harper and Kate starting recently, and I don’t have OCD but I would get really anxious that I would die and go to hell, and I get triggered REALLY easily, like the harmony for a song is a SMIDGEN to quiet and I would freak out but I bottled all my feelings up inside me and yeah. I know I will never ACTUALLY become friends with Harper and Kate, but if you guys even read this, I want you to remember that there are SSOOOO many people out there who LOVE and SUPPORT you, and that you are never alone because you have God by your side. And for Kate, suffering comes to you right away. Th reasons and instruction come later. So even when it’s hard, remember that God has a plan “ for I know the plans I have for you, says the lord, plans to prosper you, not to harm, and to give you hope and future”
This video made me tear up. The courage it took for Harper to open up and talk about her story. I have some mental health stuff as well and wish I had the courage to talk about it with friends like she did. Mad props to her and to the other pod members for listening and supporting her and mental health in general
harper this is not not embarassing, everybody cries!! i actually relate to this with social anxiety & ocd. i can’t even go to a friends house without having anxiety about it or missing home ( getting home sick ) you are loved by so much people, just because u cry doesn’t mean ur depressed, if somebody makes fun of you for crying, they are stupid. everybody cries! we love you harper 💓💓
Ikr crying is literally a bodily function. I cry when I see a cute dog or if I even see a stranger upset, it's literally an everyday occurrence for me and I'm sure many others❤❤❤
I teared up a little while watching this. Because I struggle with OCD and Sensory Processing issues (not as bad as Harper). But I was having the intrusive thoughts. And I totally understand where she’s coming from and I feel very,very,very sad for Harper😢and I want y’all to know it’s okay to feel this way your not alone in this and you WILL get through this!!❤😢
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Props to Mav for taking how Harper was feeling seriously, Giving her advice and respecting her enough to say it could be cut if she wanted it. Seeing the soft side of him makes me look at him differently. Love you guys ❤️
I know! His relationship with Harper is everything❤
Fr it was so wholesome ❤
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@ville__ ok…? Your the only person who has had a problem😂 and clearly you cared enough about my opinion to comment soooo
“This is so embarrassing” no this is real. This is what every teen girl needed to see. Someone that is so fun and energetic. Tell her actual story.
Yes Fr every teen girl will relate to Harper it’s totally normal to cry
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True like frrr I relate to her so much
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I agree! I'm a year younger than harper, but I have the same OCD with her, and I always feel so embarrassed about it. It's nice to see someone my age being real.
I’m a teen girl with mental health issues,this helped me in a way knowing that there is other people going through the same thing and I relate with Harper a little bit, but I’m so proud of u girls opening up because I know it’s hard to 💗
The way kate hugged and comforted Harper had me in tears
Kate will be a amazing mum to any of her furture children
It had Me in tears to ngl
For real ❤
I cried when she cried 😭
@ville__ buddy no one cares your annoying and your 'content probably sucks
@ville__that is messed up
Harper crying made me cry!!!!! Her reaching for Kate is the sweetest!!! 😭😭😭😭
25:31
Sameeee
SAME
I was crying when she reached for her also 😭😭
i was just about to comment that ❤️ it was so sweet and really showed how much they really love eachother ❤
the way the second harper put her arms out kate instantly pushed her mic aside and ran to harper to comfort her warms my heart.
I love Kate for that
@@Jan-vp8jzikr but I js love Kate in general (and harper)
I love Kate for that fr she is so kind and ngl I got emotional and cried when she was hugging Harper
Yea
25:34 “ come here sweetie. I love you so much.” Kate’s so sweet with Harper ❤😢
Harper:crying
Kate:comforting her
Mav:comforting her
Cash: "Is ThIs ThE WrOng TimE tO bE wEaRiNg aToIlEt SeAt?"
Edit: some people are taking this the wrong way I just thought it was funny
Also hate to be that person but thx for 3k likes
tbh cash was doing too much 🥱
But he was tearing up so
Cash is soo ummm something 😂😂😂
Of course you had to make it about him
You are so so funny 😂🎉😅😊
i love how mav and kate opens up about christianity and gives advice and talk about it. love this podcast so much
same!!!
Same!
As someone who doesn't really believe. I like that they do that.
I totally agree!!!!
I totally relate to this comment!!💗also my name is Emri too, you’re very pretty!! (Didn’t mean that in a weird way lol)
You could tell that Harper needed Kate. Once Harper reached her arms out for Kate, you can see her cry while Kate “shielded” her. This is so heartwarming along with Mav comforting her. You could also see the sadness in Cash’s eyes. Harper and Kate I might not know you, though I’m so proud of you both for sharing. Many and I mean MANY people can relate to this, seeing they aren’t alone. Words can’t describe how proud I am for you two. You two are so brave sharing this onto the internet despite the awful place it can be. Again words can’t describe how proud of you I am and how much I love you girls. Have an awesome rest of your day and can’t wait to watch the next podcasts. ❤❤❤
😂😂😂
@@Biggie_Cheese-1747 this isn’t funny, if you think mental health is a joke, then you’re living in a while different universe. You’re what’s wrong with this generation.
@@about.alivia bro u do realize half of this shi is scripted
@@Biggie_Cheese-1747 It doesn’t matter, mental health isn’t a joke.
@@about.alivia 🤓🤓
Lmaoo I found the brainrot mfs😂
I really appreciate Harper opening up about it because I struggle with OCD that sort of comes with my severe anxiety. When I was younger I was so confused why I felt like my brain was working against me, I didn't understand why my head would put messed up thoughts in my head that would drive me crazy.
Harper:😥
Kate:😭
Mav:😧
Cash:🚽🚽🚽
So true😂😂😂
so FR
Relatable
😊😅😢😂
Fr
45:18 omg, the way mav could just recognize their struggles, and just easily remember the perfect verses makes me so happy as a christian. Mav truly is very mature and though we usually see his funny side it was so endearing to see him treat both of them like younger sister
Sorry using your comment as a checkpoint😂😂❤ 40:19
@@herculeslandscaping5651i am to 23:56
Fr
Same❤
Is it just me I loved the way maverick was talking lik I was DIEDING
i love how harper wanted to share even though it was a sensitive subject so people wouldn't feel alone. im her age and even though i don't have ocd i struggle with things it was incredibly encouraging. i absolutely sobbed when mav started talking about God and started reciting the scripture. i also sobbed when kate hugged harper. we all need someone in our lives like those too. harpers so lucky to have you all. thank you harper for sharing this and thank you mav cash and kate for being so supportive to her. i love y'all so much i hope you all have a blessed day and ill be keeping harper in my prayers. 💗
25:49 I Love How Kate was comforting her and pushing me the mic aways! 😢❤ Kate is like a mix between her sound mom and her Bestie 🥲❤❤
I love how maverick kept quoting scripture it really reminded me on how it’s not you should be scared to die and whenever you do you will go to heaven and be with our creator and that’s amazing and honestly this help me a lot because I feel the same way as I’m always afraid to die. I’m always thinking of random ways whether we’re just in the car or at the house,so this helped me a lot and thank y’all so much for opening up!!❤
same! I love how I can watch a Christian podcast that is so entertaining and funny
Yes, you will go to heaven if you believe in God and do His will! God loves you❤️🙌
Thinking everyone goes to heaven, or that it’s easy to go to heaven, is not a good mindset. Just know that the devil believes in G-d, so believing in him won’t save you.
But thinking that if you didnt kill someone or something you will go to heaven. Hell isn’t just for murderers and criminals.
when Harper started crying, I started crying too😢
@@revtrc75Ik❤
when i tell you i bawled. the way Harper wanted that hug from Kate. Don’t ever think it’s embarrassing for crying, you are so strong and i’m so so incredibly proud of you Harper you have come so far and i’m so glad ur doing better now. Glad u have a good support system🩷
That’s crazy gun shots
Mavrick was being very understanding and sincere. The way he comforted Harper and Kate is so sweet
Edit: yes I liked my own comment
I can understand cause I’m going through the exact same I was going through the exact same thing. It is so hard. I went through both Kate and Harper‘s problems, but I came to end of it and I am so thankful for that and I’m praying for you too also come to an end of that and you’re so strong and you’re so funny and nice. I love you guys so much. You guys dislike made my heart complete because I’ve always like not to be like like it, I’m not the only one in the world like that. I felt like that.❤❤❤❤
yeaa that was so sweett😭😭❤🙏
25:02 Mav talking to Harper was so cute
25:33 I love how Harper reached towards Kate and Kate came over to help
👇🏼people who think Kate would be an amazing mom
Yesss
Yes❤
@user-kn9uz9fn4vbut also how do you know she’s not having trouble with getting pregnant 😢
Yes
Yeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssss ssssssssllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy
I’m a 34 yr old and I’ve dealt with the same thing Harper has on and off since I was 8! She is not alone. And it does get better Harper. I promise. Sometimes we have our OCD moments, then we remember what’s more important; what would God or what would our FAMILY wants not what our compulsive thoughts wants right? When you see nothing is going to happen to them, I promise - you can overcome it. I promise. I wish I could hug you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I would do the sign of the cross so many times on the bus and not know why my mind was telling me. After second grade my teacher told me in a communion class (I went to a catholic school) if I ever needed God, to just do the sign of the cross; this is what I would do. That’s where my compulsive mind went it. Instead of thinking, God hears me REGARDLESS if I do the sign of the cross. He hears me regardless if I tap something 4 times. If you know, you know. Your loved ones are safe. I just want to make my family proud, and how can we if we are not mentally okay and happy? Remember that Harper. Love you boo!
I have to take a shit
@Miserygirl2050 Don’t be sorry love. I appreciate you! Remember to always live your best life, never let anything interfere with it! You have choices. It’s been a whole learning process. I hope my message helped others. Maybe there’s a kid out there wondering “what’s wrong with me?” And Harper speaking about her OCD and me speaking about mine, helped them. Cognitive therapy helps the best with things like this, so I’ve been extremely thankful to have been able to go through therapy in my early twenties. Again, I appreciate you; and don’t be sorry! Sending good vibes!
Same I had it since I was 8 when my parents split up and I knew god would help me and I pray still that I will have no symptoms
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Bro, I know 34 year olds don’t comment.Ur probably like 13 😂
i struggle so much with my mental health and anxiety and having someone like kate in my life is so so helpful kate is so sweet
@balrajrathee19699 why does she need to she's talking out her feelings to it's not good to let them in
Oh nice ldc
@@thebearfactsnewsshe never asked u
You’re not alone I promise I have crippling anxiety that can literally make it to where I have to sit down because I feel like I’m about to fall. I was trying to do something, but I was really scared were shaking the whole time there other people can relate to thiscan help you. I’ve found a few things to help a little bit, but it still doesn’t exactly work all the time work for you. Any of my methods are gonna work for you just know you’re not alone.
You’re definitely not alone cus I’m super worse about anxiety and metal heath also I take medication it’s called clondine and zolft they both mix together but I would think I would have a heart attack and I would breathe hard and sweat and I would sometimes cry or feel like fainting also I would not eat not sleep much also I would be in a mood a lot and I would never take showers and I would never go outside 😢 also I have a learning disability and ADD I’m not hyper i just forget and stuff also I might have austim but I know I have a sleep disorder though
Videos don't usually make me cry. Harper, when she started crying and explaining her story, I didn't realise that tears were dropping down my face. I relate to you so much. I haven't been able to open up about it much but I think I have OCD. I'm quite young still I am only in 7th grade. It started in 5th grade. It didn't start that bad, I only started caring about how organised things were. It stayed like that for while until a month ago. I started getting thoughts that if life was good, there would always be a punishment for it and all that stuff. Sometimes I would have to stop breathing to make life feel right because of it aswell. It isn't nice. I really relate to you Harper, I really do. I'm a bit younger than you and you are so inspiring, knowing that you have OCD makes me happy because I feel the same. If you're reading this Harper, then please know that you are not alone ❤
I was diagnosed with high-functioning autism on my eleventh birthday (great birthday present) and it has completely changed my perspective on life and my mental health. I've started to embrace the fact that I need more help and assistance than others and it's helped me seek attention for other problems such as anxiety, panic disorder, sensory processing disorder, and ADHD. The only thing that reassures me is that I'm not alone, I never was and I never will be. Thank you guys for opening up about this and not being afraid to talk about issues like this, especially to a younger audience because these aren't some adult issues you just tuck away until you're an adult that can handle these on their own or just things you only hear about online these are real life experiences that people go through on the daily and the only way we can give struggling people the resources they need to better themselves and the atmosphere around them is to bring attention about this. Nothing about this is embarrassing and it happens to literally everyone. Love you guys :)
I'm not kidding but Kate, your so kind. If you ever thought to have children, you'd honestly be the sweetest mum :)
Just the intro made me cry I love how Cash Mav Kate and Harper are just a little family and support each other.
Kate will be the BEST mom. She is so sweet and really cares.
I love how Mav cares for Harper like a sister
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100th like
Erm what the sigma🤓
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As a person who was diagnosed with ocd at 5 and I’m almost 15 it’s been a hard journey it’s nice to not feel alone. I completely relate to everything Harper said. OCD has made my life difficult in so many ways and it’s so nice to hear someone not just talk about how they panic when their room isn’t clean but actually talk about real ocd and everything I have experienced because it is truly deeper then just stressing over having a messy room.
me tooo ive had it since 4th grade and i relate so bad
Dang sorry you live like that
I’m so sorry but what is ocd
@@chelseavivero4328 obsessive compulsive disorder is a mental disorder driven by anxiety usually and it makes u get intrusive thoughts and urges to do “compulsions” which aren’t rational so u feel like ur fears won’t come true (someone fill me in if u have more info idk how to explain ahahahh) :)
@@slayddi86 thanks 😊
24:54 I love how Maverick is so kind to Harper and made sure she was comfortable, because I know from experience that men don’t like emotions and there is nothing wrong with that. But Maverick reminded her how she is gods daughter ❤
maverick is so kind respect to all of them! 🩷❤️🩵
@@herismi8898 Yes 🩷
Same
He did great with that, and that would've made me feel amazing. He did perfectly in this situation.
25:50 it’s okay Harper and kate.. listen. I have severe mental sensitivity and if I mess something up or either make something someone doesn’t like, I will cry my eyes out. I have depression as well, which makes it worse. I know this might be really embarrassing but people are here for you and your feelings to comfort you. Never listen to those thoughts in your head because you are this wonderful person that is beautiful and bold. We all love you 💝 (this is my mom’s YT channel so now I feel embarrassed putting this out but my mom isn’t sensitive I am.)
crying because the way Kate comforted Harper.
"it's okay sweetie."
stop fr that was so sweet
This episode made me cry. I'm so happy they opened up to ppl. I love your guys' channel so much and am so glad of how relatable it is. I used to constantly live in fear of like a shooting or bombing while out in public like Kate was explaining. It's way better now, but I still get scared sometimes. Thank you guys so much for being relatable and spreading your love! 💗
Harper we would never judge you for crying about something like that. You are allowed to feel, especially when it’s something that affects your everyday life. Your story will help people.
I commented on this video a very long time ago and I just rewatched it again. Both times I cried!! My grandma just passed away a few weeks ago, two days before school started. It has for sure been the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my life and I have prayed about it. Kate and Harper talking about their problems both made me cry because when I was little I watched this scary video where it talked about this guy who would watch kids outside and then follow them home at night and he would break in and axe the parents and steal the kids. That creeped me out, not only for me but I was terrified of my parents dying. I would have to sleep on their floor because I would think that if I was there he wouldn’t come, I wouldn’t go outside later at night because I was scared they were going to follow me home. I would have to do this certain thing before I would go to bed to make sure he wouldn’t come to get me. I remember I never wanted to tell my parents why I was scared but one night it became to much and they came into my room and asked me why I was acting how I was acting. I showed them the video and my dad said that was only part one and asked if I could find the part two. We found it and it ended up that they found out about it and found all the kids he had stolen. We also found that the guy that was doing it would have been about 91 years old by now. I would have to tell myself that every night before I went to bed so I could feel a bit better but it still scared be that someone could have seen that video and thought it was a good idea. That was like 7 years ago and I still think about that to this day before I go to bed. I then have to fight with my mind and tell it all the reasons why that will not happen before I go to bed.
I completely agree with Harper. Everyone has their own, sometimes completely different mental health journeys and experiences. I don’t suffer with ocd, but so many other people do and appreciate this episode for spreading awareness and making a safe place for anybody. Everyone has struggles. For example I suffer with adhd, anxiety, and depression. But there’s so much more out there and so many experiences and different people and challenges. Love you guys!!
Maverick is literally the best person. I freakin' Love him. He's just such a good comforter and he Truly cares for everyone. God Bless y'all. Also Kate. I understand what your saying.
Bro
So freakin real 🤓
@@ArielMarcanowhat?
Kate, I hope you take a lot from this comment. My name is Ella and I had severe anxiety for over 5 years. My anxiety was based off of death. Me and you are very alike. I was so scared. I couldn’t continue doing my education because of how badly this affected me. I was always afraid. I would bang the wall squeeze my hands on whatever I could get when I had panic attacks. It took me so long before I could get comfortable talking and opening up about my fear. The Lord is who brought me out of it. He brought me out of the shadows, this fear controlled me so much. It never will just vanish, it will still stay. But I hope you just truly read the Bible. That is what gave me all of my answers. It gave me so much comfort everyday. I read my Bible almost every day and it brings sooo much comfort! I pray for you so deeply and Harper that your struggles will be reduced. I love you guys so much! I pray for you all!💗
25:14
Omg Same i had anxiety that I was goin to die or something happens to my family, it’s sooooo annoying 😫
I have severe anxiety to is horrible it’s not just about
Same 😢
My name is Ella and I have gone through very similar things, I am still going to therapy and I need medication but you proved to me that I am strong and I can get through this and that I’m not alone, thank you💕
i love how kate opened up about praying even though you have what you prayed for. its so surprising how God s blessings work, how He literally moves us, i will always be in awe. i love you girls! 💗Jesus loves u!!
The intro is so sad 😭 idk if I can watch this without crying
edit: I love how Kate is making sure harper feels comfortable
Sameeeee. I’m tearing up😭😭
FR 😭😭
Same I’m going to cry I no it 😂 xx
same
I might cry watching the whole video
I’m glad that Kate and Harper opened up about this because I thought I was the only one. I’m always nervous and scared like Kate. It just makes me feel more comfortable to talk about my feelings inside me.
Same
I can relate to them but not to the same extent
Same bcuz I have OCD and ADHD I don't take medicine for either of them
@@AviannaPerez-o8l ya small is think I have adhd and ocd but I've never been tested and of I do I don't to the s,as extent as harper I feel so bad for her. 💗💕💖
Harper:crying
Kate:hugging Harper
Mav:being so nice
Cash:ThIs FeElS lIkE tHe WrOnG mOmEnT tO bE wEaRiNg A tOlItE!!
Like I’m dying
stooop 🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭same and real
@@joshua_lover I was like CASH she’s crying
@@Just_LaceyM12 same 😂
@@Harrietschannel1320 fr
@@Just_LaceyM12 fr 😂😂😂
i can relate to kate sm, im constantly feeling like something will happen even if its the safest place im sat in, ive been diagnosed with anxiety and hearing her story has comforted me so i dont feel alone❤
25:49 I Love How Kate was comforting her and pushing the mic away!😢❤ Kate is like a mix between her second mom and her Bestie!🥲❤❤
Girl.I was crying when I saw harper crying 😭💗
I love not enough Nelsons
@@Dahlia-ob6cdWho cares about them rn
@@COCO.._quads33 no one cares about you rn
@@Dahlia-ob6cdI do care abt her. But what u said was outta the blue
Harper, you are amazing for opening up about this. As someone with ADHD, OCD, ASD, sensery disorder, and plenty of other issues, it is so cool to see you talk about it, I am on a medication and doing much better, but its still tough. You are amazing never give up😊
The way Harper reach for Kate😭 such a sis/bestie moment,
Truly a special episode, bless all of you! ❤
Sowskslslalslalslslsls❤😂😢😮😅😊
36:05 MAVERICK IS SO FREAKING SWEET IM SOBBING
the way kate was comforting harper is like they've known each other their whole lives
Harper highlights:
10:55 she starts talking about her mental breakdown in class when cash interrupts her.
12:29 she explains the texting and why she got her OCD “attack” that day.
14:40 cash asks an unnecessary question and Kate and Mav points it out.
19:00 she explains her OCD.
22:25 don’t even wanna say it out loud but something really sad harper did to herself 💔
24:40 Mav talks with harper and tells her how she is worth something and make her feel better.
25:15 You can see harpers tears coming.
25:20 Kate asks if she’s okay.
25:33 She gives Kate the signal for a hug😕❤️
25:42 Kate gives harper the hug she deserves ❤️
25:56 Kate tells harper it’s nothing to be embarrassed about.
26:15 the cute hug 😕😕❤️❤️
Did you have to point out Cash doing that stuff… maybe he can’t help it
Yea but he is making unnecessary comments
@Loading-xr9yy maybe because it's a podcast? U never heard of that?
Cash was actually annoying me icl
@@Brookemia1612 they didn't make a podcast just for lil bro
Harper, I'm so, so, so proud of you. You're such an amazing, beautiful, funny, unique girl, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with crying. It's really inspiring to see you opening up about yourself like this. You are loved by everyone around you. The world would never be the same without you. You put a smile on my face every single day. We all love you so, so, so, soooo much!!💕
Kate. I've had the same feeling for about a year and it was so bad like every day at school I would feel like I wouldn't make it home that day whether it was from a school shooting or a car crash on the way home and I talked to therapists and nothing seemed to help until I turned to God and within about 2 hours 90% of all of my feelings were gone. It was such a weird feeling though because when my mom left for work I would think that it would be the last time so if she didn't say love you or something like that I would panic and want to cry until I saw her again and I would pray and cry every night about how much I just wanted to get threw the night and how I wanted my family to too and it was just so scary so I get you and I am so glad that you opened up and thank you for giving me someone to relate to even though this is 6 months old I have gone back to it every time it gets really bad and it helps so much idk why but it does so thank you Soo much! Love you all
I love how Kate just comforted Harper when she was crying. It’s just so wholesome!❤️❤️❤️
What part of that was given personal info?
honestly, after the first bit where he wouldn't shut up, this was one of the best episodes. really appreciated the opening up. people do relate.
Bro he literally wouldn’t shut up it was annoying af
I don't think it's actually annoying because like he may be like just needs to know the answer to the question someone was talking about a story and I have a question come up in my mind. I have to say it or else I'll keep thinking about it for the rest of the day I wouldn't be able to sleep. I wouldn't be able to do anything until I get the answer to it and he always gets in his mind maybe he has something where he can't just function without having a joke in his mind and it's not his fault
@@alhanoufalqaydi6581agreed
@@alhanoufalqaydi6581no it's annoying. extremely. he needs to pay attention to social cues and needs to learn when not to make jokes. he did it over and over and over throughout the podcast. the questions were unnecessary and like they said Harper was going to cover that when she told her story.
@@rockstar.marceline no he literally mentioned that talk because every time he spoke, they would come jokes in his mind like he can't control it like I have ADHD. I am dyslexic and I don't mind anybody making jokes cause it's OK. Like I appreciate them opening up about their mental health and whatever but it's not like you should go so like oh cash wouldn't shut up this is my opinion about this and I feel like it's wrong to say he was annoying
I just wanted you guys to know this podcast meant soooo much to me!! I can relate sooooo much to what Kate said!! I’m 15 and 3 years ago my dad passed away to a brain tumor… I was completely devastated and so mad at God… I juts felt like it was so unfair how God chose to take him away from me instead of letting him stay… about a year after he passed it really sunk in that I only had one more parent left and that if something ever happened to my mom I wouldn’t have anyone left… this thought cause me soooo much anxiety that I wasn’t even ok to go to school cuz I would sit in my desk and freak out that something was going to happen to my mom and I would nvr see her again… these feeling went on for so long and I went into a sort of depression… my mom found a counselor for me and I went to her for a while… after this I went on anti depressant which really helped… I started to seek God out more and slowly got off the medication… it’s about two years later and with Gods help I am no longer trapped in those thought patterns!! I juys wanted to thank you especially kate for what you shared!! It meant a lot to me and I just want you to know keep trusting in God even when everything feels unclear he love you and cares!! Thanks again❤
Aww I'm glad that u are good now god bless you❤❤❤
Good for you i feel so happy for you 💜💜
i actually started crying. I can relate to both kate and harper and im going through the entire adhd/ocd system right now and its so stressful and like kate, im always thinking of the worse case scenario and its actually exhausting. and also like harper, like i always am so nervous and aware of everything and school just makes it a million times worse. I actually love that they made this episode because its so real and comforting.
i started crying when harper was crying because i felt like she is such a sweet girl and doesn’t deserve to be going through that
I love how they are just so real. Other influencers just do trends and try to follow what other people are doing, but they do their own thing and share like we are family and I feel like they are apart of my family. Love you guys. ❤️
You can just tell by the way Kate comforted Harper when she was crying that she is going to be an amazing mom
Edit: tysm for 1.5k likes! Never mind it’s 1.8k now
yea you can
That's what I'm saying
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Yes we love Kate and haroer
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Thank you so much Harper for showing me that these feelings are normal and that I’m not the only one who feels like this ❤
I don’t know if you guys will see this or anyone will, but i just wanted to say that this episode was so sad yet so refreshing at the same time. We get told all the time that we are not alone and other people struggle as well, but it is very hard to understand without seeing it. Just knowing and seeing that these people that seem very perfect and always happy have struggles too is relieving. I also wanted to say they made me feel very very heard and less alone. I relate to Harper because i have a health issue and every time i try to talk about it, it brings me to tears. I don’t know what it is but the way it affects my life just makes it very hard to speak about. I also have not really shared it with any of my friends so seeing how brave she is sharing it with the world makes me less afraid to talk about it considering that may help me cope. Next i completely relate to kate. My biggest fear is death. There was this huge period of time where every night before bed I would start thinking of bad situations and ecspecially relating to school. I would pray every night that something bad wouldn’t happen. If I heard the slightest noise outside of my room my heart would beat so fast and I would try to become as quiet as possible. I still get this feeling sometimes and im still really scared of death ecspecially the unknown of what’s after it. I know God is there yet my brain like Mav said can’t comprehend that there is more than just Earth. Finally I wanted to say the way they showed their faith in this episode really spoke to me. I have always struggled a bit with my faith and a few months ago I was in a dark area and I really believe it brought me out. Just like Kate though, when it got better I noticed I wasn’t praying or focusing on it as much anymore which i definitely am trying to work on. People say that God is always with you and there for you but it almost felt like he wasn’t. I believe in him but this made me feel doubtful. I appreciate them and their stories a lot and I hope they know how much of an impact they just made and how special they are in my heart. I really believe I needed to see and hear this today. Thank you guys💗
The same things happen to me too. I understand it
i also a treible fear of death i can never sleep at night and get scared im gonna die in my sleep. it could be in the middle of winter and i just start sweating and shaking.
@@alikagindez mhm
I can relate like ik I shouldn’t be scared of death but sometimes I’ll have these random thoughts about it and like sometimes I have it at night and I get so anxious abt it and I start praying to god to get these thoughts out of my head.
Me too for sometime ❤❤❤❤😢
I love how you are getting comfortable talking about things such as mental health on UA-cam. Makes me feel so much better about being able to talk about my mental health aswell ❤❤. Love you guys. Aswell as like mav is liek her second dad and kate her mum how they were both reassuring her and telling her its ok and not embarrassing and the way kate hugged her and wiped her tears😢. I feel you harper
Also not to be that girl but yes I liked my own comment 😊
Harper and kate, just remember that crying on podcast or any video in general does not define who you are, and it doesn't make you weak. It good to tell people about how your feeling because the longer you hold on the more its gonna hurt. Crying does not mean your weak it just means you been really strong and held it in for to long. We love you!❤
Nice words ❤❤
Ngl W mav bc him reminding Harper and Kate that they are loved by Christ was really heartwarming and comforting just knowing that they are blessed by the lord himself 🥹☺️
I love how Kate went straight to Harper when she started crying and started wiping her tears and told her that if she doesn’t want that clip in they don’t have to add it it was so sweet❤ and also how mav was telling her to know that there is also someone who loves her and that person is god and there won’t be a time where no one will love you❤
i love kate sm, she is literally so kind and it was so cute whenever she was hugging and comforting harper when she was crying.
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@@Biggie_Cheese-1747 bro what r u laughing at?
@@its.islaxox some people shouldn’t have podcasts
@@its.islaxoxshe literally was yelling at cash for asking a question?
@@L0ading_12-l2m ok? do u not see how rude Cash is to her? he always jokes about her being fat 💀
33:01 I love how mace made sure to make sure she was ok and that she was fine with moving to another topic!!
I really appreciate Harper opening up because I have has such a hard time with my depression and adhd they are literally the WORST combo but this just makes me feel like I’m not alone❤
As a teenage girl, thank you for this. Last year, I was in a really bad spot and found out that I had OCD. My ocd was a little different from Harper’s, for example if I walked down the stairs I would feel like I didn’t do it right so I would do it again and again and walk up and down 18 times every time I needed to walk down the stairs, I know that sounds silly but just simple things like flicking off a light switch or opening a door, I would need to repeat it until it felt right. It was so frustrating and I felt so bad for the people around me because they would have to wait for me to finish doing simple things that others wouldn’t find even a problem. Everyone thought I was weird and it was a really hard time for me. To see people talking about OCD and opening up about it really makes me happy to know there are other people out there who can relate to my problem. Thank you Harper.
Wait I’m a month late but literally same. Like i get this feeling and I can’t explain it but like it just doesn’t feel right if I don’t do it
@@Forthelolpodcast same im a month late aswell but i can relate alot
Yeah, I feel like I also have that OCD that you have. Like I feel like I need to touch the corners of every wall for it to feel right or trace something inside and out especially the left and right corners
@@ForthelolpodcastME TOO it’s like a weird satisfaction thing
Mav is such a good listener, I’m always trying to be the most supportive I can and listen with open ears. It’s very thoughtful of you guys to be sharing your stories and it’s greatly appreciated ❤ I have type 1 diabetes and it’s not easy. I’ve had it since I was 6 and it’s been a struggle keeping up with it, sometime I just feel like I can’t do it, or I’m just not good enough at taking care of myself. You girls are amazing people and wish you all the best❤
28:42 I love how mav was supporting Harper and Spreading verses from the Bible❤
I was looking for this comment! I agree 😊
Me too
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Islam ❤
Harper you seriously helped so many people and I’m glad you were open to this. So many people relate including me. We love you!
I love how harper reached for Kate it was the sweetest Kate would be the best mom to calm her little ones down when there emotional
The way they all cared about harper and then mad and Kate started crying to just show there such a good family. X
Mavericks the type of guy to comfort his sister in law and friend when there going through a very tough time ❤😊
I’m not even going to lie when cash did the big John Rutledge impression I threw my headphones onto my bed and was smiling like crazy because Outer Banks is my favorite show
Everyone is talking about how Kate was acting like an absolute great mom but did you see Mav he was being an absolute champ like a dad props to Kate and Mav for caring for Harper but also thank you Cash for adding a bit of laughter
Yes!! Thank you!
I'm Literally In Love With My Celebrity Crush Maverick
thank you Kate and Harper for opening up and feeling comfortable enough to be vulnerable. you never really know what’s going on behind the scenes in someone’s life. you are both huge inspirations to many people including myself, so for you to show this side of your life is truly amazing for us. at the end of the day, we are all humans with emotions. we love you so so much ❤
Hi Harper. I’m Lindsey‘s daughter. I found this episode and I was like OMG I relate to every single word she’s saying right now. It means everything to me that you are opening up about it and it really encourages me to follow my dreams and to keep going because we know that it’s going to get better and it’s not real. I was diagnosed with OCD this year and have dealt with the exact same thoughts and compulsions. It’s so hard but we can get through this. I’m literally crying right now. Thank you so much Harper. I love you! Follow your dreams girly. Keep going!
Who’s Lindsay?
@@SamMSPthe username
A five year old on her mom’s phone 😂😂😂😂😂
@@selene7966 thats good writing for a five year old
@@SamMSP she is trying to open up about something. you don't have to comment that.
I cried so hard after realising that someone gets what I go through. It’s so hard when people don’t understand but know I feel better knowing someone else gets me (not saying it’s good what we have btw)
I have struggled with ADHD, Anxiety, and OCD for all my life. I am so unbelievably grateful and happy that you guys talked about mental health. Thank you. ❤
25:27 the way Harper Signaled to Kate to come was so cute and hope you get better Harper love you guys ❤
I had to go back and watch it when I saw this comment because I didn't see it the first time. So cute❤
How did it even lead up to that point 😂😂
It was so sweet
@@Exlipse222bc she was talking ab something that hurt her…
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25:33 when harper reaches out to kate - cutest big sister moment
this is why i love kate she knows how to comfort
They’re not sisters?..
When Harper was crying, it made me cry. I love how Kate was being so nice
Kate and Harper’s stories were both super relatable. I cried so hard.
im gonna give it to maverick like he’s a guy that i want to see everywhere he was respectful to harper abt her mental health ❤ rly nice of him
Mental Health matters. I honestly relate to you so much Harper. The fact that you had the courage to open up about it was amazing. We love you, Harper.
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25:37 “i love you so much” warmed my heart Kate will be a great mom
The way kate helped harper and comforted her when she was sad just shows what such a good mom she will be, we are all here for you harper!!❤❤❤
My favorite epesode… I struggle with multiple mental illnesses and this makes me feel so good that people are talking about their mental heath in such a public place and feeling safe sharing it
Yeah same ❤
I hope you’re doing alright
Please tell Harper this:
You are so strong, pretty, smart and talented in so many ways. So many people love you. The people that don't love you just dont know you. And it is ok to cry. But you dont have to put it on the Internet if you dont want to. You dont need it for views or so that people can relate. But if you do it for the people that can relate it is so nice and brave to put this on the internet. The important thing is that you choose what you want. And it is so strong and brave to talk about everything about you so open. You just need to remember that you are a beautiful human.
You make me feel better about myself. Thanks ❤ ilysm
@preppymarieXx ❤️
PIN THIS COMMENT THEY SPITTING STRAIGHT FACTTSSSS
everything they were saying made me think about my life so much. This podcast makes me happy, thank you so much for this episode. You all deserve everything you wish for and I hope you all receive your wishes.
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I literally love how they talked about Jesus and praying to help with Harper, dude I love how they even through our Bible verses, I love this podcast so much! ✝️👏
Pin this comment pls lol club / podcast
Also kate
This is so true. I also have OCD just like Harper and I also have emetophobia, (the fear of throw up/throwing up) and all throughout 4th and 5th grade, my mind would be like "If you wear different socks then someone will throw up" or "if you wear different pants someone will throw up." It got so severe that every morning before school in the 4th grade, I would cry and have a meltdown, begging my mom to not take me to school. I also have severe anxiety (that I'm on medicine for) and I'm also very suc!c!dal, I cut myself almost everyday and my mental health is really bad.
If you read all this, thank you very much.
Kate would be such a good mom!!!
I love the way she comforted Harper when she was crying! She’s so kind
For real ❤
Kate really help me because I have been dealing with the same thing for at least 3 years and she helped me get through it and think of anxiety a different way
Kaye comforting Harper, and wiping away her tears. Was the most precious thing I have ever seen. I wish I had a friend like that 💞
I am also a Christian but I sin SOO much and all of my other “friends” are so Holy, and I don’t really have TRUE friends so I always daydream about having friends that ACTUALLY understand and know me, which I do a lot with Harper and Kate starting recently, and I don’t have OCD but I would get really anxious that I would die and go to hell, and I get triggered REALLY easily, like the harmony for a song is a SMIDGEN to quiet and I would freak out but I bottled all my feelings up inside me and yeah. I know I will never ACTUALLY become friends with Harper and Kate, but if you guys even read this, I want you to remember that there are SSOOOO many people out there who LOVE and SUPPORT you, and that you are never alone because you have God by your side. And for Kate, suffering comes to you right away. Th reasons and instruction come later. So even when it’s hard, remember that God has a plan “ for I know the plans I have for you, says the lord, plans to prosper you, not to harm, and to give you hope and future”
This video made me tear up. The courage it took for Harper to open up and talk about her story. I have some mental health stuff as well and wish I had the courage to talk about it with friends like she did. Mad props to her and to the other pod members for listening and supporting her and mental health in general
Mav’s soft side toward Harper was so sweet. Love you guys❤️❤️
Yeah right like I feel like they should live together
harper this is not not embarassing, everybody cries!! i actually relate to this with social anxiety & ocd. i can’t even go to a friends house without having anxiety about it or missing home ( getting home sick ) you are loved by so much people, just because u cry doesn’t mean ur depressed, if somebody makes fun of you for crying, they are stupid. everybody cries! we love you harper 💓💓
Ikr crying is literally a bodily function. I cry when I see a cute dog or if I even see a stranger upset, it's literally an everyday occurrence for me and I'm sure many others❤❤❤
I can relate
I can relate your not alone ❤
I teared up a little while watching this. Because I struggle with OCD and Sensory Processing issues (not as bad as Harper). But I was having the intrusive thoughts. And I totally understand where she’s coming from and I feel very,very,very sad for Harper😢and I want y’all to know it’s okay to feel this way your not alone in this and you WILL get through this!!❤😢