BEWARE Of Identity Thieves
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Some people do not have a mind of their own.
THIS! Literally.
At all! 😂
I used to be angry when people copycat me before, now I just find them pathetic and wish them to heal.
They’re so pathetic! 😂😂
Identity thieves are a very real thing, thanks for bringing light on this topic.
Love the idea of asking them “what inspired you?” That puts it back of them 🙌🏾
YES
Those people can unalive you, once you know, go. And never engage or associate again.
Its that deep😅❤
Yes it is
So true!
I call it deranged behavior now! Nobody can ever be me because they're not willing to go through my struggles. Think Single Black female! They're trying to become us or replace us! 🥺🥺🥺
They’re not mad at you, they’re mad it’s YOU!!! ❤
This!!!!
Mannnnn, I’m not even gonna comment what happened to me😅and it be right in front of you!! And then you try to get away but they keep trying to follow you. It’s demonic
Story of my LIFE. I’m nice nasty when I address people about imitating me as well. I also throw subtle shade or post a meme on my story. They know who it’s about. They know that “I” know that they’re pressed and / or imitating.
At an old job, I noticed a ww coworker was trying to embody me. She never spoke to or included me, but she always was watching me. She started copying my aesthetic, curling her hair, dressing like me, trying to claim she liked my interests, befriending the people I was cool with, and she even copied my laugh and the way I speak. It was soooo weird. 😕
Most BPD shit ever
Weird behavior wow. I experienced this so many times.
Baybeeeee-
The “girl” actually told me that she wanted what I have. She tried to ruin my reputation later on. I did not see it until years later because I was trying to be nice. I wish I had this information 40 years ago. Ladies protect yourselves and be careful of individual who want to latch on to you. It’s better to be alone. That’s because they want to know your every move.
In this life you only need a handful of good friends that have your back. The only problem is that it takes a very long time to get to know someone! Be wise ladies❤️❤️
So now imagine having a step-sister like this 😅 ppl are so shitty
omg I couldn't imagine
Imagine having 3 sisters as usurpers
@@anpu369 oof, praying for u
What their gonna do is flip it around and make it like ur copying them,like you’re the unoriginal one
Yep
I do not share time or space with folks like this once they expose themselves for who they are. They can no longer sit with me lol
I take inspiration from people but copying verbatim??? That's tacky.
Beware of the destiny swapper..
Sitting! 💜🍵💜
In this world, you realize that people are too scared to just be themselves. They admire when you shine and be yourself in spite of. It’s unfortunate when you realize just how many people are followers. They let social media, what’s trending, your unwavering confidence and personality dictate how they move in life. They never explore what they’re *really* like
Always found a little weird to copy someone, seems like a waste of time trying to be someone else. You can tell the ones who copy and the ones who live the live God ❤️created.
Let me know if this qualifies as “identity theft”:
At my last job, there was a female coworker who developed a very pred@tory obsession with me in many creepy ways. One of the things she would do is answer for me every time someone else addressed me directly by calling my name. She’d always stopped doing her job to answer for me as if we both had the same name.
Weirdo AF 😒😒😒
could be. it could be too many things tbh.
it can be an act of dominance, trying to fit in, trying to get your attention, trying to take away your voice, trying to annoy you on purpose, act like they're authority, seek validation.
people do really really strange things.
and theres no way to really tell unless you gave more information.
I agree, I have had this numerous of times
Be witty, bubbly, and quick on your feet (and mind too).
Do you think others around both people notice who is stealing personality from who?
Absolutely!!
not really. what ive noticed is that so many people are oblivious af. like stuff like that just wont register to them. ill ask em about it and theyll either be like they didnt notice or get defensive (cuz they do sht like that too)
Trendsetter 👸🏽
My new boss is doing this to me right now and it’s so suffocating. Honestly she could never but it’s still so annoying🙄 I hate when women get like this.
Chile sis this sounds like physical destiny swapping smh 🤦🏽♀️ since I’m a lone wolf the last woman that copied my quotes was months ago I removed her off my Snapchat stories and deleted her as a contact because you can’t keep stealing my personality sorry you went through that I’ve never had someone copy my outfit it’s a blessing you overcame all that! I had a wild experience last night 😢😮 my ex hair stylist who’s never met my man was at a family function of mine and my God sister invited her to come and when she was there she was pressing me about my man and what he likes so I said he likes a woman that looks exactly like me with my phenotype and that there would have to be over 7 different versions of me just for his head to turn alone that was basically my way of saying even if you tried it he would never 😂 this ex hairstylist has a big belly on her I’m talking gutt in the front and butt in the back just badly out of shape 😅 she asked me to get her a gym trainer i said you’re gonna have to workout and find your own set up after what happened last time with a woman I knew who physically copied my workout plan the minute she stopped copying me I was on point again and motivated so I told the ex stylist just figure it out 😂 tough love imagine it’s been 5 months since I last seen her as I only hire her for special occasions so when she seen me and said I looked good and how she sees my results and she still looks the same she was triggered and kept over complimenting me and I don’t know if it’s an island thing but they always come for the sexual things like I can’t smh 🤦🏽♀️ so when I left her be because my cousin was on her I left them to it in the kitchen clutching butt cheeks 😖 and she has a whole man I go to tell my husband the tea ☕️ and she comes outside trying to dance with me and then introduces herself to my husband my husband was like wtf he said to her straight I know your kind 😂 come outside didn’t bring your man because you’re looking elsewhere he tell me how bad she looked when we left not to mention the thick fake American accent she put on 😂🤢🫣😤 so I sent her scriptures on adultery and blocked her lol 😆 these women are unhinged and other people centered whilst we’re main character ENERGY 🎉they can’t stand it! She also made mention of doing my child’s hair for free up until they’re 3 but that was before she stepped to my husband who I never would’ve introduced her to in the first place but her thirsty self took it upon herself to do so I read her for filth on Snapchat messages 😂 and sent the remaining scriptures in Leviticus about adultery and now she’s Blockety BLOCKED I think it’s scary how our island people obsess over light skin mixed passing children and how they’re obsessed with our hair 🫣😩 I can’t have ransoms who are so obsessed with my child to say they do their hair just because they fit the Exotical phenotype because why would that person be so obsessed to be round them ya know just weird gotta watch people like that 😅
👏🏿👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏽👏🏼👏🏻👏🏿🤣❤️🥊🎯 well said, young lady, you know I've been watching you, and I've been complementing you every time I just got back from Vegas you're right, and they always want you to think that you're the crazy one. when it's them.😂😂😂❤
This why at 47 I have never had a bestie lol the stories o have heard and what I observed in my childhood that women even some pretty girl can be very mean spirited. I have a few sisters like this and even some men . I come to find out it's mental.illness therefore I just stay away . I have a great love for women but at a distance..even as I type this I'm out a restaurant enjoying myself BY MYSELF! I have one daughter and she often says mom I'm so glad I have. I sisters after seeing how your sisters have treated you 😮 ..but she does have one and I mean just *one* bestie and i tell her keep.it that way ! 😊 I can honestly say I am still shocked and even hurt that some people really struggle with finding their own identity. I spent most of my life dimming my light thinking that , that would allow others to find their own . But nope. In their minds they have no awareness of self and the awareness of self that they do have.must be so bad ( in their minds ) till they feel as though they MUST take others identity.
To them I think it's a survival mechanism.
And the truth is I feel sorry for them .but that's been my downfall ..thinking that they cant help themselves.
Narcissist are known of doing EXACTLY what you speak of . These types of people can be dangerous.
Protect your energy at all cost and be sure .to ALWAYS follow your intuition.....they don't like you signs.
Omg I remember that happening to me looool
It's an identity crisis 😍👌🏼
Omg, so interesting. I guess that is why you are influential .. this worries me everytime. It never sits right with me. Im very sorry. Especially if they dont recognize or acknowledge their admiration for you . Ugh!!
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