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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024

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  • @kozyyoz
    @kozyyoz 4 місяці тому +626

    “…don’t suffer twice.” that one got me.

  • @khalisa.s7914
    @khalisa.s7914 4 місяці тому +734

    “They’re gonna tell you what reflection of themselves they see in you” ahhh this hit homee

  • @vimtoboifr
    @vimtoboifr 3 місяці тому +175

    " if we can't see the positivity we have to be it " bro spitting

  • @jaidenradford1327
    @jaidenradford1327 4 місяці тому +221

    “we suffer more in imagination than in reality” WOW.

  • @dana6498
    @dana6498 4 місяці тому +75

    you are the true definition of thought son

  • @Swegsy
    @Swegsy 4 місяці тому +101

    One thing in this world that truly can be manifested is your perception. The more you worry about the negative outcomes of your situation the more frequent they become. Sometimes it truly is best to have the "Fuck it" outlook. Don't be afraid to fuck up and put yourself out there for the growth and experience. People respect you more for it at the end of the day, and I promise you even in failure you will have the satisfaction of knowing you tried. The only regrets I have is never trying, because there could be apart of myself I never found in the thing I was scared to do.

  • @willcollins5660
    @willcollins5660 2 місяці тому +16

    3:40 "It is easy being caught up with the nonsense of the world." Powerful words, from a powerful man. Thank you Eyan always.

  • @bokbokkobkob
    @bokbokkobkob 4 місяці тому +156

    Thank you, I needed this, today 2 of my friends rejected my invitation to hang out with them. I sat down and reflected on why I feel this extreme sadness and I realize I never felt safe around me, I don’t trust or have any relationship with myself so I often obliged people to fill those voids for me. I want to enjoy my own company and I hope I can.

    • @HoussenLePodcasteur
      @HoussenLePodcasteur 2 місяці тому +7

      im sure you will, it just takes times, and now that you are conscious of it, it is the start of the journey for you to learn how to love your own presence and globally how to love yourself

    • @akumasimpai5310
      @akumasimpai5310 11 днів тому

      😢how do you even accept yourself?

  • @lexgim
    @lexgim 4 місяці тому +77

    im tired of stuff ending up the same way, I always learn something about it but when am I gonna be finally deserving of what I want

    • @profoundpondering8575
      @profoundpondering8575  4 місяці тому +20

      Forget whether or not you deserve it, do you want it

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 4 місяці тому

      @@profoundpondering8575 I do

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@profoundpondering8575 I do bro, I know most stuff is out of my control but why's it coming into my life if I can't keep it

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 4 місяці тому +1

      @@profoundpondering8575 bro I replied yesterday twice wtf, anyways, yes, I do want it really bad.

    • @lexgim
      @lexgim 4 місяці тому +1

      @@profoundpondering8575 I understand your point, stop deleting my comments, damn

  • @SyedAhmed-e2y9v
    @SyedAhmed-e2y9v 3 місяці тому +11

    i been goin thru a tough time with this girl cus of long distance cus im outts country rn and like u been helping me become a better person i jus dont wanna lose her and i have tried everythin in my power to keep her but if it doesnt work i guess it doesnt work cus i cant change how a person feels

  • @eeviekola4690
    @eeviekola4690 4 місяці тому +14

    this man’s videos are slowly healing me❤

  • @GreysiaJuli
    @GreysiaJuli 2 місяці тому +2

    You don't know, how much this video has change the way i'm thinking. And i'll forever grateful for that.
    Thank you so much

  • @nadiaguled128
    @nadiaguled128 2 місяці тому +3

    please continue making videos, I admire your way of thinking.

  • @Irawry0u
    @Irawry0u 2 місяці тому +2

    Can you make a video on learning to love and choose yourself and setting up boundaries?… I’m 26 and realizing I’ve never truly learned how to do any of these…

  • @faith.ngobese
    @faith.ngobese Місяць тому +1

    i cannot fathom how blessed i am to have found this channel

  • @markeezyy2069
    @markeezyy2069 Місяць тому

    start of the video is where it hit, "in an effort to improve ourselves to change, we sort of force it. we sort of force ourselves to become these new things when we should allow ourselves." very well stated, and it changes my prespective on how i should think about changing myself in a sense of being better for me, others and my future.

  • @Irawry0u
    @Irawry0u 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much this is truly groundbreaking stuff that I am realizing as well and you articulated it so well

  • @SamihaKulkarni
    @SamihaKulkarni 4 місяці тому +2

    I agree with the past and future self statement. People address it like you were different back then or you should become different now. But it's like that past person was me whatever it was and if you can be proud of that I feel your future self would be proud of you too..

  • @farasyuhada
    @farasyuhada 4 місяці тому +2

    I think we all need a full podcast channel from you! on spotify etc

  • @chatswithbelen
    @chatswithbelen 4 місяці тому +8

    You really don’t know how much I needed this right now

  • @clampz9800
    @clampz9800 9 днів тому +1

    Earned my sub dawg. Your videos are all I need in times like now

  • @justdontknow3402
    @justdontknow3402 4 місяці тому +1

    I broke up with my first love and it’s been a slippery slope but after finding you’re videos I’ve found some peace within the situation

    • @aielianna
      @aielianna 3 місяці тому +1

      I did as well. This is the most painful shit I ever felt and I also really hurt them in the process. It’s gonna be a long hard road but I just have to let things be.

  • @lucabrennanhyde
    @lucabrennanhyde 4 місяці тому +1

    genuinely bro please never stop making these.

  • @midnight7971
    @midnight7971 2 місяці тому

    I just broke up with the best person I've ever had the pleasure of being with, tho there is no animosity admittedly I feel destroyed, I was truly down, and still am and will be for a while, but this, this video helps, I want to become better from this and I have more hope for the future but know that to make that hope a reality I need to deal with the pain of right now, and your words has helped to inspire me to not self destruct

  • @FrostGemMonster54
    @FrostGemMonster54 4 місяці тому +1

    Yesterday yesterday or the other day yesterday? New upgrades are exciting. This background is definitely nice. Anyplace where it still feels like we're having a chat is also fine. The atmosphere is normally cozy. On another note, I've literally been struggling with this. I've been talking about how I don't know how to allow myself to just be. For some reason, I can't just be. Watched the video and imma be honest, I still don't know how.

    • @FrostGemMonster54
      @FrostGemMonster54 4 місяці тому

      After reflection and meditation, this video hitting hard today. Literally every part of it.

    • @profoundpondering8575
      @profoundpondering8575  4 місяці тому +1

      It’s not a thought it’s an action, look don’t analyze

  • @DavidsonHangOfficial
    @DavidsonHangOfficial 4 місяці тому +1

    Pure gold per usual!

  • @brodyalden
    @brodyalden 4 місяці тому +2

    I like the background you use too, but if you want to try switching it up that sounds good also.

  • @AsiaCollins-kg1ej
    @AsiaCollins-kg1ej 4 місяці тому +2

    outdoor videos would definitely be a good vibe!!

  • @anamelissa111
    @anamelissa111 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you

  • @InTheKnowwithCass
    @InTheKnowwithCass 4 місяці тому

    I like this background. Sometimes outdoor videos are hard to hear if the wind is blowing. But the weather is warming up so I say hey, give it a try.

  • @oussamabenajiba975
    @oussamabenajiba975 4 місяці тому +2

    Love you man

  • @MiaGothard
    @MiaGothard 4 місяці тому +1

    Care for others but live for your self 👍

  • @brie6874
    @brie6874 4 місяці тому +1

    Listening to you can ground me within a matter of seconds, thank you for your videos- I suggest making a new channel for the podcast, it keeps it a little more organized and clean cut, at least that’s what I’ve heard other creators say. Best of luck 💖

  • @brodyalden
    @brodyalden 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you bro

  • @v.xien.
    @v.xien. Місяць тому +1

    Life is so shit recently. But we persevere

  • @Arxzzzz
    @Arxzzzz 2 місяці тому +1

    "Don't suffer twice"

  • @cristaa.7706
    @cristaa.7706 4 місяці тому

    so ready for a podcast i listen to your videos every walk outside

  • @clementinagranato3226
    @clementinagranato3226 Місяць тому

    “We suffer more in immagination than in reality”

  • @nocomplyyy
    @nocomplyyy 3 місяці тому +1

    i really fw this

  • @jensiejo8565
    @jensiejo8565 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @lxy6592
    @lxy6592 2 місяці тому +3

    came from pinterest

  • @JuniorJames-j5w
    @JuniorJames-j5w 3 місяці тому

    I am just stuck up and I can’t move, others perception of me is crazy. I really want to be myself. How can I choose myself? ❤

  • @GlacierBoiLatoo
    @GlacierBoiLatoo Місяць тому +1

    I enjoyed this video too

  • @kkakameori
    @kkakameori 2 місяці тому +1

    thank you

  • @ibrahimkhan2102
    @ibrahimkhan2102 2 місяці тому

    You should start an audio book or something bro👏👏

  • @JuniorJames-j5w
    @JuniorJames-j5w 3 місяці тому

    I am just stuck up and I can’t move, others perception of me is crazy. I really want to be myself. How can I choose myself? ❤ 14:15

  • @clanaegrace3660
    @clanaegrace3660 4 місяці тому +1

    thank you.

  • @anjcola
    @anjcola 2 місяці тому +1

    i love you 🙁

  • @ora_isnt
    @ora_isnt 3 місяці тому

    Thank you 🙂‍↕️

  • @rapiskuu
    @rapiskuu 4 місяці тому +1

    can you added subtitle on your video ? i really grateful watching your advice ☺️

  • @brodygillespie1533
    @brodygillespie1533 3 місяці тому

    Thank you.

  • @leekhoe
    @leekhoe 2 місяці тому

    watching this and 4mins and im gonna watch ur channel man interesting topics and similar views keep it up 🫡

  • @bluenews3273
    @bluenews3273 3 місяці тому

    remember the lesson forget the teacher

  • @danielleonperez5426
    @danielleonperez5426 3 місяці тому

    Start your own podcats👌

  • @lyychiii
    @lyychiii 4 місяці тому +1

    your videos help me so much. forever grateful

  • @Dany.klshnkv
    @Dany.klshnkv 2 місяці тому

    If u tell me this guy is a gansgta without knowing him, ill believe so😭

  • @peacelovesynchronicity
    @peacelovesynchronicity 4 місяці тому +1

    outdoor yes!!!

  • @JacksonPGomezRose
    @JacksonPGomezRose 4 місяці тому

    Truly profound

  • @moveordievision
    @moveordievision 2 місяці тому

    +

  • @justyceeliassen1980
    @justyceeliassen1980 4 місяці тому +443

    “We suffer more often in imagination then we do in reality” wow your a poet, the way you can say that so elegantly is inspiring

    • @tappoff
      @tappoff 4 місяці тому +60

      he was quoting seneca btw

    • @gabg-d1g
      @gabg-d1g 2 місяці тому +7

      Its not from him!!

  • @charlescross3592
    @charlescross3592 4 місяці тому +122

    Not gonna lie bro. I live for these videos. Makes me feel so much better that there are other men with this optimism on the journey of self discovery.

  • @ashley-ti3hi
    @ashley-ti3hi 4 місяці тому +73

    crazy how u always bring me back to myself ur surreal man bless up

  • @activesocialmenace
    @activesocialmenace 8 днів тому +8

    11:35 I once heard a quote "Self-control is really just empathy towards your future self."

  • @Kimpako21
    @Kimpako21 2 місяці тому +22

    I came here from an instagram post. I've hit rock bottom in my life. My family's going through a lot and although sometimes it's difficult to have the will to live yet I don't really wanna go that way. I'm in my early 20s and too young to give up. I've been living the same life since I was a kid but recently I'm craving change. To live a better life and give a better life to my family. I don't have friends or a partner. Solitude is peaceful but sometimes it turns into loneliness. Even with so much obstacles, I find it beautiful like poetry. I'm craving change and the universe is aligning me with so many helpful resources such as this channel. Thankyou. I'm overwhelmed.

    • @Tutass
      @Tutass 2 місяці тому +3

      Keep going brother❤️

    • @v.xien.
      @v.xien. Місяць тому +2

      You and I are in the same boat. We got this

    • @leylaonal6787
      @leylaonal6787 8 днів тому

      How is it going so far?

  • @chiragbakshi2765
    @chiragbakshi2765 Місяць тому +5

    After Nakul Dhull story…

  • @jude532
    @jude532 4 місяці тому +41

    Your videos are truly transformative. The consistency never goes unnoticed. Keep going!

  • @mukeshbagal742
    @mukeshbagal742 Місяць тому +5

    Mithhu don here

  • @r4san335
    @r4san335 Місяць тому +11

    Thank you bro i feel like everyone in my family hates me like i got nobody man im so tired of this shit

  • @arlynnstandaar7528
    @arlynnstandaar7528 2 місяці тому +17

    I honestly believe tht if you have the right intentions, everything will fall into place.

  • @hadronff2848
    @hadronff2848 Місяць тому +4

    Whos are here after nakul dhull story 😂

  • @Bihari_babua_gaming
    @Bihari_babua_gaming Місяць тому +3

    Nakul Dhull fan attendance

  • @benregis6904
    @benregis6904 3 місяці тому +7

    Ay this mf be spittin

  • @PS1KAT
    @PS1KAT 4 місяці тому +10

    "what we put behind us, we carry on our back" woahhhh

  • @dhruvsaroha9044
    @dhruvsaroha9044 Місяць тому +3

    Nakul dhulll

  • @GhadirDrihem
    @GhadirDrihem 3 місяці тому +5

    Honestly, I don't care about the background

  • @wanston2346
    @wanston2346 2 місяці тому +8

    remember the lesson, forget the teacher. all love man

  • @P.SDaCharm
    @P.SDaCharm 4 місяці тому +8

    ☁️Remember we are NEVER ALONE❤❤Its All A Mind Thing🤩💸💸🙏God Timing is the right timing for anything so take just N JOY RIDE😘😘

  • @Warmcinnamon
    @Warmcinnamon 4 місяці тому +5

    Your videos open my mind alot and it gets me thinking, I hate how much I space out so when you upload I have the chance to actually think about something important for a change lol, love the vids! ❤

  • @jaysmoove1220
    @jaysmoove1220 3 місяці тому +5

    Bro saved my life... thanks man.

  • @Ashcashvlogs
    @Ashcashvlogs 3 місяці тому +9

    ive fallen into a rabbit hole of your videos, but they mean so much to me right now because this is something im struggling so bad with right now, i am craving so badly to just live and just truly free myself but all my surroundings and my mind stops me from that. growing into who i am is hard, i feel so watched and judged before i even do anything, i also feel so lost bc college is supposed to help me create my future yet i feel like it pauses the true me from coming out... ugh its a lot but hearing this makes me feel better and helps me to remember that to live life, you just have to LIVE life, thank you for speaking your mind for all of us who need a voice

    • @v.xien.
      @v.xien. Місяць тому

      A lot of people feel this way, yet ironically, we are all alone. (Or so we think)

  • @tyoats9029
    @tyoats9029 4 місяці тому +8

    Video comes out right after i meditate perfect timing bruh preciate it

  • @rumi1970dg
    @rumi1970dg 2 місяці тому +4

    the title caught my eye and it keeps me going.

  • @justyceeliassen1980
    @justyceeliassen1980 4 місяці тому +7

    When you talk about denying short term gratification can in itself be gratifying hit. Because I’m dealing w addiction so yes very well said and puts it in a whole new light! Thank you

  • @jermainemedia
    @jermainemedia 21 день тому +1

    Hey friend❤

  • @zxc-vj3zi
    @zxc-vj3zi 2 місяці тому +4

    ngl bro i love that your channel is growing and you can buy stuff to make your content better, but this low quality and straight out of the phone quality type of video makes it more "engaging" in a sense that youre trying to convey your message and not "making content" idk if that makes sense but yeah

  • @silenzio27bruno
    @silenzio27bruno 2 місяці тому +3

    Your videos were recommended to me for nth time in instagram..
    Idk what it's trying to tell me..
    I was purposefully avoiding this video cuz Ik I will cry and I can't because people are all around me everytime..I'm saving for this later and I think I need to hear this..I'm feeling lonely even with everyone around and no one cares..I don't really know what to do or where to go..thanks for this man..My words might be incoherent rn cuz I can't think straight,u're doing a great job..actually pondering smth valuable

  • @WhoIsJonHarris
    @WhoIsJonHarris 4 місяці тому +2

    Let yourself go. For real.

  • @MirMir-ii9ul
    @MirMir-ii9ul Місяць тому +1

    Keep doing your thing even if your CGI your made in the image of god ❤❤❤❤

  • @LonnieThomas-v4s
    @LonnieThomas-v4s 23 дні тому +1

    Brown Scott Johnson Edward Robinson George

  • @serenalove4480
    @serenalove4480 4 місяці тому +4

    Your videos have helped me through some tough times especially struggling with thinking I’m not where I need to be. This helped a lot thank you so much

  • @frixsilva1121
    @frixsilva1121 29 днів тому +1

    Hold up, his writing is this fire?

  • @GThaTruth.
    @GThaTruth. 4 місяці тому +3

    ELEVATE!!
    But that would be dope fam, for example going for walks outside and talking. Basically like if we’re there walkin wit ya fam! Keep striving, never give up, God Bless y’all!🙏🏾❤️‍🔥

  • @cgillett.4603
    @cgillett.4603 3 місяці тому +3

    U helped me remember to be mindful bro. it’s been a minute, I’m grateful

  • @bolabanks
    @bolabanks 4 місяці тому +4

    Effortless living! 👌

  • @qamrami
    @qamrami 4 місяці тому +4

    Timing of this is crazy Thank you for this

  • @vero7633
    @vero7633 21 день тому +2

    You are so pretty I'm going to cry. For real I love that type of mindset, to value ourselves and taking time to shape our life. These types of videos can help a lot, thanks

  • @diamondpollard3095
    @diamondpollard3095 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for putting yourself out to the world, because the right listeners needs to hear this 📌📌📌

  • @adamsugarhill
    @adamsugarhill 3 місяці тому +3

    I might be late but you reminded me of a quote I read recently in a French book that goes like this : “Est ce que l’homme parviendra finalement à explorer l’univers entier à l’exception de lui même.” Which translates to “Will man finally manage to explore the entire universe, except for himself?”

    • @Astialo
      @Astialo 3 місяці тому

      What book ?

    • @adamsugarhill
      @adamsugarhill 3 місяці тому

      @@Astialo I believe it was "La Civilisation Ma Mère!..." written by Driss Chraïbi but im not quite sure.

  • @hyac1ntx
    @hyac1ntx 2 місяці тому +1

    PLEASE START A PODCAST

  • @YaboiTombuto
    @YaboiTombuto 3 місяці тому +2

    I went through some tough things lately, and it was all about the consequences of my own actions, I definitely did some awful things. But a lot of what you said, made sense, and while it wasn't simply affirming my own thoughts, it made me feel understood. So thank you, I appreciated this video ❤