"ngucagia bangi na kunyua njohi na kiremba giakwa"
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- A rare species of a man....
We bring you the story of a Mukurinu man who married a non-mukurinu not knowing she had a baby back home. He came to realize it during a home visit but he could do nothing much about it because the lady was already pregnant with him.
The lady started normal clinic attendance for the pregnancy during which it was discovered she was HIV positive. The doctors asked for the husband where he went and got tested miraculous turning out Negative.
To keep the family together, both were kept on medication to protect him from infection.
Due to this difficulties and regrets, he turned to smoking bhang and taking alcohol as a way of running away from his wife's frustrations.
What message do you have to Matthew, talk to him on 0771 890533
Naweza kukupata aje coz pia Mimi nko na Mambo nataka kujitoa ndio roho itulie
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Oooh my God aki pole nimemwaga machozi aki
Wambui you should intervene aki...ikifika ni treats za kuchomwa na maji,,,it's serious
@@wambuiwamwangi whatsapp number ?
Wambui we need to hear more interviews from Men. Men are dying silently without anyone to hear their story.
Wambo kindly,,,,im in love with the maturity of this guy,,,would u kindly,,,plzzz ulete wife tuskie her side of the story tusikue quick kujudge,,,,kindly
Uuuuuuuuuiii Mwana wa Ngai....haha niha mahoya 😢😢 sikujua unapitia hayo...tunabeba Nayeye na piki Ronga soo sad.....Ngai akugie mbele muthuri.🙏🙏🙏
teithiriria njamba ino ma mutumia ucio ndagicejia
I wish he had walked out the minute he realized she had deceived him by hiding her child. He could have supported his child from far. It’s not too late to get out, he’s still young.
Healing process begins the moment you pour out yourself. Thankyou very much wambui, good interview.
The Guy is too genuine to accept being used cuz of love. Mukurinu kiheo ni Muoyo. Accept you don't have a wife. I can't give u hope that u should wait more. It's either u choose to run or die out of depression. Exes were meant to be. First love is always hard and painful to move from.
Glad to see men coming out to talk what they are going through...boy child God remember you
These guy he is very humble may God help him
This young need to understand that this woman is wasting a lot of His time and this way he will never move on in life with a person that has no focus in the welfare of a family
Wambui unfortunately he does not seem to have a spine. He needs to grow up and deal with this woman once and for all. He is wasting too much time with someone who does not care about him. It is a lot of matharau he is facing. Make a decision once and for all.
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👍👍afunguea macho
Separate from her,she will make you have ulcers
Don't let that lady to wast u.u a so sweet to b wasted.
Fungua macho brother, tikuohererio wohererio hau. Love your life. walk out
Noh noh before Hiv test she had not told you she has a kid back home and still after you found out she still din't want the kid.
My brother hapa hakuna mtu🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️run for ur life and take your kido
This man is living for his wife, the wife is playing a victim role and the man is blaming himself which can lead to serious depression.
Am Happy for your advice
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This story is sad. The young man has done a lot and he has genuine love for his wife. However, I feel strongly that they should part way more so for the sake of the child. The woman is bitter because of her waywardness which made her to be sick. This man ia rare bleed of man that he still professes love for her despite all the mistreatment which many men cannot condone.
Huyu chali anajifanya desperate for love bona asiondokee huyo dem ajipange na maisha yake. Ni funzo kwa wengine first vct before marriage. Naskia kuvunja hii simu nikupate hapo nikufungue kichwa niongezee akili ufikirie vizuri
Khai woiye usijudge please
@@ruthgichane5097 heheh ni kujam aki
I woun't judge,but this guy needs someone who can guide him..He will find love somewhere else..
Feeling so sorry for him as he is a good soul,I believe he need financial support too .
May Almighty God grant him inner healing. He has alot of love for the family. They both need psychological support
Murang'a kwe mwano ake mendete otori. Wewe ulirogwa. Am happy for you because you discovered bangi. Sasa kamogoka bro ni swafi sana kuliko kuishi na huyo mwanamke. Wewe Ata ukilala thika road Gari haziwezi kukanyanga.
Tyga waana😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@lucywangui6287 walai nemoroge unasikia akisema aje sasa.??but tulihamia Qatar wanaume wote. 💯💯😋😋😋
Anaithue ahiki nikuo turi,,,afadhali Qatar kuliko marriage baaana
@@lucywangui6287 haiya!!!gwetha mbeca.kaba marakara ma muhende na mwarabu okarehwo.who loves in this era😭😭😭😭
@@lucywangui6287 heri uko.mtu anajua hakuna mapezi nikunyanduana tu.so nobody invest in love.hapa ni Raha tu
This Guy is very humble may God remember him
Before marriage VCT is a prerequisite,courting should last six months utmost.
Very true 👍.
Unfortunately we love each other so much that we trust each other
Uuuie I like the way this guy still refer to Leah as my wife. Very humble young man. May God open doors for you
A very handsome humble man, may God show you the way. Pray hard God will intervene
Just a humble man take heart God bless you. Such a different kind. She is in denier.
This man is so strong, I wish I had him before he got his wife,, he's so faithful to his wife despite what😢, this is the kind of man I wish to have in my life... May the Lord bless and heal this couple,,, may peace of God be with them Amen
Ngai mwathani wakwa 🤔what a heart of this man Mungu akumbariki akushındanıe kila vita. Leah nyenyekea huwezi pata mume hapa nduniani kama huyu.
You are a strong man with a beautiful heart. Please start loving you aki. Help your child from a distance. If she wants to leave let her go!
My goodness, you deserve better for Pete’s sake.
Wambui I am a victim of misconduct partners bt mm sikupewa hizo prep though it's been 11yrs down the line na Niko gulf saa hii nliiacha huyo mwanaume juu wanakuanga na bitterness Sana juu wewe hujagojeka.ambia Mathew akanyange kubwa kubwa
That's your opinion because sio wote wako bitter
It's discordant couples
Wow Mwathani ninyende kwedwo taaa uuu 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Walk away my brother before it's too late.You need someone who can appreciate and respect you.Life is too short you deserve to be happy.
Am happy for your advice
Your wasting your time with that wife go deliverance revered maina wa o t c or talk with past man kush my bro look your life
I wish the creator of heaven and earth can set his eyes and his right hand touch me and give me someone who loves me dearly
AMEEEEEN
My brother, don't wast your life,in the name of love,walk out of this marriage, because love is one way umpende na akupende,so you will get some who will love you back
Huyu jamaa amepitia mashida mingi sana.. Mungu amsaidie na ambariki sana
Ura kihikoini kiu
Uthare muoyo waku
Kaba muoyo brother
I second you when you see the red flags in relationship of nowadays my brother run ura più haiya
Muthuri ta uyu wamwonire ku**💃🏻💃🏻
Ngai igwatha haha
Mwana wa Ngai you’re handsome, wachana na bangi na pombe just serve God
Hapo hakuna bibi ni Jangiri. Endelea kupoteza miaka yako. U will lose your mental health, lose your years, at end of the day no matter which sweet words u use on that jangiri niwakati unapoteza
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Wambui pleaase connect me with this man ..he's a good and humble guy...why does he have to go through all these and there are good gals out here😥😥
Hujaona number yake. I went in his whatapp nikamwambia atupe hiyo jangiri mbali saana
Acha niitafute uyo mama hana haja na doa tumsaidie ....ile siku atamkosa dio atajua importance ya mwanaume
@@graxekary9847 Aki ww
@@mwanawangai9351 kafa kwiyaria nidirafatara mundu nie nasisumbuangi, sina matharau😂
@@graxekary9847 if u feel u can match with matthew mtoe kwa that bad marriage.our men are suffering
Am sorry for him, sure men are under going alot , but after testifying is the first healing process.
Uicio ni wendo wa ukombo
My bro this life we live once n if the marriage is not working let it go n focus ahead ,God will bless you with good family n more kids . Don’t spoil your life with drugs or alcohol you hav a better n bright future 🙏🙏🙏forget “my wife”,wacha ajikubali mwanzo ndio aishi
Waa ino micii ni rehire thina fiu maa.pole sana no hau wina wira kwanja ungiona mundu urahitha mwana.no eke undu owothe
Your healing process has just started.
This is love without reciprocation..Mathew you are very hardworking, accept that you met with a wrong partner...jitoe and you support the baby from afar
Thanks for taking your time I appreciate you
I will comment ata Kaa zinjamalinza this is a gentle man so humble n genuine.
Unfortunately huyu kichana is in denial huyu mama hakupendi lakini bangi imejaa kwa kichwa anaona yake he need to move on... Wambui this guy is depressed he is also obsessed with her which is not healthy he need help the wife is not interested with him
Mweherere nawe🙄🙄😬😬😬
Herb is good for meditation to get you through difficult times of stress anxiety and depression. It’s clearly the only thing right now that’s keeping this man mentally and emotionally stable. Tondū mūtumia nī njege ahikirie atūrīte egitīte mīgwī. He should walk out this abusive relationship and move on before it’s too late. Atumia nīaingī nī arūme magaga. Thayūū🙏🏾
Herb is life 😜
There is power in the blood of jesus
You are humble man
May God heal your wounds.
May God remember this man don't worry you will come out of this problem Go back to our good Lord
Mathew î yenda mûno îkûraga rûrîra! Take care!
Na riu wainuka ndugukihurwo ni kumbura akoragwo murwaru 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Wambui mambo ya huyu kijana please try to help him coz, ni ngumu sana kuona mwanaume akijitokeza hathdarani kwiiturura githemba kiu coz huyu msichana diye alikua wake wa kwanza yani "KUHURA MBIRO NAKE WANAKE WAKE, ACCORDING TO WHAT HE SAYS NA NDIO ANASKIA UNGUMU KUMUACHA, SO TRY TO HELP HIM WAMBU. I LOVE YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU.
May God bless you Matthew, all I can tell you is please accept yourself the Way you are and because you love your wife take her to a Counsellor and solve this before it gets worse than it is now.Wishing you the best 👌
Wooiii ma pole bro alll will be well,huyo mama ana need counselling session aki, Naniguo aria mendaga athuri na tutimonaga wooiii,Leah love 💓 this man back,he really loves you
Mendaga acio aguruki.
I just love this man. Please she and he needs counselling.love you Matthew. Wi wa magegania. Counselling pap!!
I feel for this guy,He is very humble
Leah loves you so much. Narcissists lacks empathy
Hey Matthew, I have listened to your sad story and my observation is that you became your own problem when you hurried marriage without, 1. Ignored to do medical test before marriage. 2. Ignored marriage counselling from your pastors, 3. You took lightly a lie from from your wife that she didn't have a child . 4. You allowed yourself to be lured to drunkardness and drugs as way of escape...only deepened your problems. 5. Your wife was very immature and is like you kept on pampering her so you spoilt her till she no longer respects you. I would recommend you to take your position and start living real like a man and responsiblly like the head of the family, else you need to be thoroughly counselled by experienced family and marriage counsellors. You don't need to leave your wife but forgive her, just like Christ forgave us and loves His Church.
God bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ngai Kai guthiaga atia uria wendete endete ungi,,,for me l will say don't force things pls may God guide you
The guy is very humble....may the Al might God see him through.....
Wambui bring more stories napenda sana show zako
Tunned Dubai
Mwana wa Ngai you need to be counselled and face she don't love you..she is in denial and I think the shame of not able to face HER TRUTH... She need to GROw up and face truth ..then keep it moving..
Excellent job you are doing umeniguza na hii story. Me am mistreated for six years na Bado I love her. Am in tears.
Wendo wa mundu uturanyenda reke ureme, hatiari wendo ungithikiriria, kuma okiambiriria, kinya kurega kumwira uhoro wa mwana, uria wambere, na kwaria uru kuma okiambiriria, kiura ruga
He should have walk out the first day she had a kid, second when she refused to take her meds properly then she infected you she will walk away from you.
I feel for this gentleman... May God see him through
Allow me to ask you young man, how does it make you feel living a life of threats and for how long are you willing to live like that?
🙄🙄🙄🙄Courtship should take a period of 1year,VCT is the first thing to check before enter marriages,your wife is positive why did you want to continue with the marriage......run for your life young man.
Some took two years of courtship but after marriage things went wayward .... not unless those that do the courtship of " come we stay " .....this young man even a courtship of ten years wouldn't make him different if after all this he's still stuck with the wife .
Mimi ningemuacha that day niambiwe sina ukimwi Na Ako halafu tukae maheni
@@davidkinyaki walahi tena,Alafu ali-assume all those red flags from the word go and he's still forcing himselofu to her,..mie nijikute
@@doreenshii563 Mimi siwezi kaa Na yeye, Nachukua nguo zangu namwacha hiyo nyumba,
@@davidkinyaki inabidi coz vile huyo dame ni don't care anaeza muambukiza anytime because of bitterness,haha niho tugaga kiura ruga
Pole, huyo si rafiki. Why don't u trust in God. With Him everything is possible.
😂😂😂Oyaga bhangi na johi akaigerera igoroo wa metha urie na unywe. Siku hizi wakorino wako na maneno mingi Sana.weee
Nancy ndukinisubscrimbire ma.
@@marystevenduti nikii wikaga onani to ngisubscribe 🤣🤣🤣
I feel for him the sadness on his face is telling how he’s feeling,but he’s still young to repent and to whoever watched this we will never judge but to pray for you and your wife.
Siwezi ku judge depression ni real ...I was a victim of depression
😢😢😢 waah I feel for this guy and wish him all the best
May God see him through and give him wisdom to make a wise decision.
Pole sana, nīkio akūrino mekaga ūthuthuria na mītaratara kū avoid maūndū ta macio
Walk out when you can bro, huyo mwanamke anajua kile anafanya
This man is half way healed. Let this man start a journey walking back to God.
Pole sana brother!
Just wondering how the other partner feels when the other goes for interviews about their marriage!
Will recomend for agreement from both parties !
This man needs to grow a spine and a pair. He is behaving like a doormat for his partner to walk over. Stand up like a man, boy.
Mwaririe ciugo, nomenye nihindi wakia mwaki agekwira uma kumucambia kwa wambui wamwangi tv ini ati nimurwaru
Niekumenya kuria ekuinuka
Uyu mutumia aratiki advantage yagukoruo muthuri uyu niamwendete.... Wambui ucio mutumia ndangicenjia ucio onamwariri nigute... Ngai aririkane muthuri uyu Amen🙏
Uuuui kai wi mukingu atia mwanake duthii pio pio..ndumirie mwanake
I also have a verbally abusive spouse and it has really affected me psychologically. 4 years of abuse and I don’t know how much longer I can bear it.
I think Leah needs counseling so that she can accept herself
Guku thiii kwimaundu maingi🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️.... Kwina thiina miciii itu
Mathew u need to love God most.Nīūrendùo wīyende na ūmenye Ngai nīakūendete mūno.
For a man to come out n speak out he has really suffered ...am feeling the pain in his words ...he need a consoler ...the woman is a nerssisst full stop...for the man life is for the living ...sikuambii utoke but woi jipende
Stand up and take a step. Walk when you can cz u ve survived hiv bullet n she don't love u at all .walk man u are very honest and good natured .God will give u another direction
true, this is too much for one person na hata mwenye anajali hamjali, thats emotional violence, its time for the society to wake up and stop normalising violence ,ikuwe physical ama emotional, just walk away when you can
Wakorino pia ni watu,kiremba pia ni kana rosary,akorino pia go through what you also go through guys,pia stress na depression hupata wakorino sorry to say so
Open up my brother don't keep quiet anymore talk to both parents and if possible look for counsellor because people with HIV sometimes they're very hyper
I feel so sorry for this man he really needs counseling
All in all God has given us strength to make choices.
Choose God chose life.
Salamu tu!!Sad story, but why did you mention her name here🤦🏾♀️ why tell people wife HIV positive, I feel like that’s own story to tell. Stigma is real . Having special needs child and HIV that would drive any woman insane. Anyway I’m Pray for this family, we love you 😍
I also feel like they violated the rights of this lady for sure.
Brother let it go n move forward this woman does not love you even abit please achilia coz you ar humble loving n caring n I blv God will bless you with a good wife...
A very humble man may God see u through
God I love this young man. Wambui thank you for fetching this stories.
Úcio mútumia ingîmute ta kúrahîa. Bata wa mútúrîre úyú ní thayu wa ngoro. Kîhiko gîtarî na thayu kiwango kîu just count me out. Ona kaba thamîre kúraihu ona kana já wa búrúri ngethe thayú. I feel for that guy wish I can reach out to him.
I wish I could get a man who is such caring ....yaani am looking for such a man na huyu na yeye wife anamtesa. God bring a husband like this
Woiyeh Kai anake a thiku ici nimuragererio maingi ma thiku ici pole sana young man
Wambui I love you so much, the way you hundle pple and the advice you give is amazing. May God see this man thru n his family🙏
Hiyo swali imesumbua magogo sana ,,,nimuonana kimwiri ,,,magogo,, we we we we we😂😂😂
Na ni ukweli
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