The first story made me so mad because in the end, according to comments on the post by OP, sister in law started yelling and left the restaurant leaving once again OP to pay. So annoying
I dont think she should have grabbed the wallet without permission but instead could have said, they are not leaving the house until she grabs her wallet and the person saw her SIL put the wallet in her bag, and if they refused then just refuse to go eat and stay in.
Yet the same could be said of the Wife, that she Manipulated the Guy to get what she wanted...she KNEW he liked spending time with his Family at the Ranch, but seems like she never made an effort to join in with what he wanted (except for the Big Functions)...only what she wanted to do. I bet the Husband never denies her anything she wants to do.
TLDR: people getting butthurt, good luck to all the people who have to deal with them Story 1. Instead of saying 'oh this wallet' op could've played it off like 'oh yeah I saw you left your wallet in the car so I grabbed it for you'. Op wouldn't be faulted for just trying to be helpful after all! Better yet she's exposing the sister for either being forgetful intentionally or not. Story 2. The parents need to consider that if everyone is in on making sure they're punctional then there is a problem with themselves. I'm genuinely curious how they'd try to excuse being tardy to a wedding, "well you should've waited for us" sounds pretty close. Story 3. So the husband is getting butthurt over things op can't control? She needs to address what happened with the family and work to get everyone on the same page: the husband LITERALLY kidnapped her from work just to save whatever face he thinks he had. It also sounds like he doesn't really know how job shifts work and doesn't want to understand as long as what he wants goes too.
the last story, he straight up kidnapped her??? like idk taking me to a location i didnt agree on and wont stop even after saying no is pretty damn sus. dump him please like wow
Not to mention that he is the one who let the air out of all four of her tires to put her in that situation. I say let him explain all of that in divorce court (preferably the one that’s on tv) so all their friends and family members can see and hear what bullshit he’s pulled. He’ll get booed out of the courtroom.
The husband in the last story literally committed two crimes by slashing her tires and taking her to a place she didn't consent to go to, which is literally kidnapping and he was mad at her?
Deprivation of liberty? is that a legal term? definitely kidnapping. Also he endangered her work status. Boss isn't going to believe (sadly) that "my husband kidnapped me, took me way out of town, knowing full well I had to go to work, and I didn't know he was going to do that". People believe the sociopaths, not their victims...
The last story kinda feels like kidnapping. He basically took her somewhere she didn't want to go against her will and got mad at her that she left. I don't think that's a marriage she should stay in. If he's willing to go as far as deflate your tires and tick you just to go to a BBQ because his siblings made fun of him for going alone, then who's to say he won't do something worse next time?
In that third story, the husband literally kidnapped her. In no way is she in the wrong here, especially because she very likely could’ve lost her job for that stunt. He sounds really immature and manipulative.
He's a cunning sociopath and escalating into dangerous territory. They never stop at "harmless" pranks...She could find herself on the wrong side of an excursion to "dig a large hole" in the forest...
0:00: Coco's back! 0:14: Amy is clearly a cheapskate, a freeloader, and a mooch. She can pay her share but is never willing to do so because she purposely "forgets" her wallet. 2:58: If there's one quality I can't stand, it's lateness. The mother's lack of punctuality indicates she is a self-absorbed person. If she truly valued her kids, she would make an extra effort to arrive at their functions on time. 6:00: This is an interesting one. She could have made time to spend time with her in-laws (which makes me question how much she likes them), but shame on her husband for tricking her like that. On the other hand, she is a nurse and has dedicated her life to saving others. How different would it have been if, say, she worked in a department store?
First story: Wait, sil came with her husband and still wanted OP to pay. OP should have never started to pay for her. Never tell family how much money you make. NEVER tell extended family or in-laws how much you make. It's on a They never need to know basis. She did right by bringing her SIL's wallet. The waiter still could have put it on separate tickets. That's why you tell the waiter beforehand. OP should have to not went. Second story: the mother was late on purpose. How selfish and narcissistic can a person be? Just stop inviting her or leave her. Third story, he vandalized her car, kidnapped her, and got mad because she stole his car and went to work. Why didn't she call the tow truck and the police? He's controlling because he can't be an adult. so what if his brother's tease him? She should have had divorce papers waiting on him.
5:08 I did the same thing to a friend of mine a few years ago. She was ALWAYS late, and not just 5 or 10 minutes but 40 mins or even hours, this one time she arrived *4 hours* later than me and our friends and she had the audacity to get mad at us for not picking the restaurant she wanted to go to and start dinner without her (we were supposed to go to the cinema right after dinner, so we really couldn't wait forever) so a couple weeks later we organized a night out and told her to come 1 hour earlier than the rest of us. When she arrived in time like everyone else we told her about our plan (because we couldn't help but smirk so she obviously noticed something was up) and she turned red and started telling us to fuck off and calling us stupid because we tricked her. Yeah we're not friends anymore. (I'm sorry for any error, english is not my first language)
The story about taking the husbands car after he tricked her: I was kinda sympathizing with the husband in the beginning “aww she can’t miss one day for this sense it’s so important to him” but then he pulled whatever the heck that was
She's a nurse. No she can't just skip work if no one can cover her shift. That would literally put people in danger. I swear some people don't realise the pressure that nurses and other healthcare workers are under.
1st story: Op should stop going out to eat with SIL and straight up tell her when she asks why “because the only reason you want us to come with is so you can eat at expensive restaurants and leave us with the bill” 2nd story: dude feels left out for not having his wife there when his brothers do (the childish logic of “all the other kids have one, why can’t I?”) he calls her coworkers to demand someone else either gives up their day off or does a double shift and when that fails he vandalized her car and kidnapped her but SHE’s the manipulative one? I’d wager his family asked him what was going on and he was trying to pin the blame on her to avoid telling his family “oh yeah, I kidnapped my own wife because she didn’t do as I say”
The one with the woman who is always late is one I can relate to. My uncle is always late for everything. My parents always told him that any event was starting an hour earlier so he would be on time. They learned that lesson after he was late for my Baptism and he was my godfather. My other uncle had to stand in for him for the whole ceremony because he was late. He got there in time to sign the papers though.
1. NTA, the SIL is spoiled and thinks OP revolves around her. 2. NTA, the mother should've been there or she was just chronically late. 3. NTA, but I think stealing the car is not okay, but you made your commitment to get to work. The way her husband did was mind-boggling. If he didn't want to be mocked by his brothers, why can't he notify his parents or call them to make his brothers stop?
My MIL was the exact opposite. Always arriving an hour early at my house or her daughters house. Wherever the event was going to happen. Right when everything was happening to finalize the event before everyone arrived. It was very irritating. I often thought of telling her the event was an hour later than it actually was so she would actually be there at the right time. But I couldn't do it. She was a very nice person and just had this quirk everyone knew already. It just seemed to be devious to do that and really, I could handle it. Be the bigger person, even if it's inconvenient, because what does it really matter in the scheme of things. Being late is more problematic. You can't get that back.
I'm early sometimes, especially if where I'm going requires using the Southern State Parkway on Long Island where I live. It can get bad sometimes. So, a trip that would take about 25 minutes-I would leave at least 35 minutes ahead of time for that margin!
I’d do that for sure 😂 I wouldn’t want people arriving super early so I’d have no problem telling them the wrong time on purpose. My sister in law takes forever to get ready so my mom and I do the opposite when we plan on going somewhere. We give her a time earlier because we know that often times she still won’t be ready by that time lol. I personally like arriving to places early but not super early. Maybe like 15 minutes max but it also depends on the situation and where I’m going/what im doing.
Easy solution: ask for seperate cheques at the start of the meal. If she says she can’t pay because she left her wallet behind, say “No worries, we’ll wait while you go get it.”
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Nah on the first story I'd ask for them to split the bill. I'm not sure if thats how expensive restraunts work, but I'm pretty sure they would. Pay for yourself and leave. I'd literally ask her to lunch at a pretty decent place, order the same thing/similarly priced food as her then ask to half the bill. Not my problem if I can't pay it. Only brought enough money for me see? Even better if its a place where the person who pays pays at a register away from the table, then you can run away before she realises you didnt pay for her. She'll never want to eat out with you again
My mom is ALWAYS late. It drives my husband crazy. We now just tell her we are leaving anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour earlier than we really need to leave in order to leave on time. We started out telling her 30 minutes but she figured it out & would still make us late. Then we increased it to 45 minutes, the same thing happened. Now we change it randomly so she never knows. If we get there early, she’s mad but that’s too bad. If she wasn’t late all the time, we wouldn’t have to play these games…
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Story 2. My family does this all the time. If the invite says 4pm dinner time and they don't come to 6pm or later (had some show up at 8pm) but we know this so we always set the invite time early than we actually want and only a few people (elderlies) show up at the stated times
Obviously the woman did not "forget" her wallet if her reaction was anger that her SIL had brought it along. A person who honestly forgot it would have been grateful that someone remembered it and brought it. The fact it was found on top of the suitcase, tells me the woman took it out of her purse and left it behind on purpose. If it was a case where the woman could not afford expensive restaurants, she should have talked to the SIL and been forthcoming about the situation instead of booking a restaurant and forcing her SIL to pay the bill.
I mean, in the first story, I would've been like: "Fine, I'll pay" and then grab the wallet out of the purse and act like I had thought I grabbed my wallet before we left and said that I grabbed hers instead of mine so she had to pay and not me": but I don't even know if their wallets look alike so I wouldn't know
First story: bro we'd be going to court over this I promise you I don't care if my husband be pissed maybe then she'll stop trying to make me pay the bill at an expensive restaurant and booking reservations at expensive restaurants Second story: I'd take half a decade to forgive my mom if she was late to my wedding.. imagine her showing up when the official says "you may now kiss the bride" Third story: he'd be mad if she was fired though (smh at "since you stole my car" bro you're married everything that's yours is hers vice-versa)
Dang, in the first story, I would’ve at least said something like “Oh don’t worry! I forgot to tell you but when I went back into the house I saw your wallet so I grabbed it for you!” Who can be made at the supportive SIL???
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It was a yearly festival day at our school. Like everybody else, I was very exited to go. On this day everybody wears traditional clothes. My grandma worked so hard and stitched me a traditional outfit. I was exited to go and show it to everyone but as soon as I got to my class, I knew I would be the odd one. Everybody was so beautiful and slim and had literally the perfect bodies. They all told me that I looked "different" or a "little fatter". I heard some of them saying that i was really fat too. Im literally crying rn. Im 14, 146cm tall and i weigh 40kg.
For the last one, how did he expect her to react?? ‘Oh you brought me to a family dinner I clearly stated that I couldn’t go to because I’m a nurse and I could loose my job if I miss it? Yay 🥰’
Anyone else get the feeling the Husband from story 3 was behind OP's tires being out of air? As in he sabotaged his own wifes car, deceived and kidnapped her while jeopardizing her job just to get his own way. OP needs to get a divorce, 'cause he's clearly the true manipulator who can never truly be trusted.
@@bdalive5712 They both stupidly married each other without making sure their life plans were truly compatible so they both deserve someone better than each other. People that are super big about family should make sure their not stupid enough to make someone that's going to be married to their job, and people married to their job should make sure they ain't stupid enough to marry someone that's doesn't share their values. While it can be argued that OP stole her Husband's car to get to her job, she actually would have NEVER resorted to that in the 1st place had the Husband not likely committed the very serious crime of sabotaging her vehicle and then committing what qualifies as an even MORE serious crime of kidnapping(yes, it's considered kidnapping even when it's you own spouse), all solely to force her to attend a MINOR family function to save face and stop his (clearly toxic)family's ridicule over having a spouse that is unavailable for MINOR(aka non-essential) family functions. The OP stated that she makes time for MAJOR family functions, which matters FAR more. Though most people prefer to entertain the belief that "all you need is love", the truth is that love alone is NOT actually enough to make any kind of relationship work. Love without Trust and Respect is completely incapable of truly "conquering all", and the husband broke that trust and respect 1st. You can't always expect your SO to be *required* to attend every little family function, it's completely unrealistic in this world.
5:20 there was a story, can't remember where I got it from, where a person's friends were always late so she did the same as here for every plan planned for vacation. When they found out they got mad too, can't remember what they said though.
4:47 I would explained to the woman that no one doesn’t trust you they just know they have a tendency to arrive late and knowing how important the event was and how important it was she arrive on time. No one thinks they’re foolish just late. It was important they were on time and didn’t want anything going wrong or disappointing anyone like the bride.
First one I would’ve just paid with her card and not say anything 😂 2nd one you’re right he saved her being embarrassed because she was actually late according to her invitation! Whoa! The last one! She needs to run! He let the air out of her tires says he’ll take her to work kidnaps her and calls her a manipulator??! She’s a nurse! Lives depend on her! He clearly has no respect for her or the fact she’s a nurse and her job is extremely important! More important than a dang BBQ 😠 The fact he was calling her friends begging them to cover for her was ridiculous he’s the manipulator not her! Honestly if it was me I wouldn’t be able to trust him again 😬
Second one is me but I could be ready and everything and just zone out so I tell ppl to tell me an hour earlier than we’re supposed to meet and somehow I’m still late
I'd call to have big family meeting and bring divorce papers! I'd tell his family that I'm a nurse and I told him I couldn't make it to the BBQ! I woke up to my tires being slashed and flat and he told me he'd bring me to work! Instead he drove me to the BBQ and said that I'd just have to miss the shift! I can't just leave people in the hospital unattended! My patients could die! And then he called me and said I was manipulative and untrustworthy when he lied to me first and I still believe he slashed my tires so I want a divorce! If he can't handle his own family teasing him then understanding that his wife is saving lives then he don't need a wife!
BBQ nurse story- wouldve said I was running away from the person who kidnapped me. I had agreed to go to my shift at work and not the family bbq because I had a shift and couldn’t cover. If he can’t take the teasing then don’t go. I have lives to save. If the tires were still deflated in the morning I’d then take an Uber or something and explain I wouldn’t want him to be late to the bbq. If I then still had to ride with him. I would got there and explain he took me to the bbq despite the fact I have a shift at work and had to excuse myself and apologize for not being able to stay but thankful for the invite. I’d then take his car or ask to borrow someone’s or have someone ride along to return the car to the bbq and find a way home. If the bbq is so important that he popped tires and risked her job so he doesn’t have to be teased. He ignored her emotions and wishes. He’s trash.
I always enjoy watching your videos!!! Oh also the word “Quinceañera” or “Quinceañero” (Keen-siah-nieroh/ah) is a party that is celebrating 15th birthday of boys and girls! Or also what you call the birthday boy or girl!
She didn't say she didn't want to go, she couldn't go, you have a job and you are covering a shift, this is your job, so she had no choice. What a baby the husband is. And his family is no better, they can't understand that she's a nurse.
Okay, as far as the first story? That's on the OP. If they KNOW she's going to pull that crap EVERY TIME, then it's on them if they keep letting her get away with it.
In the BBQ story I feel like it's all about woman's work respect, which is absent in our society if it was a man busy it is understandable and if it is a woman she is unadjusting and a nuisance nothing else , not busy, not dedicated to her work just a nuisance
The word you were trying to pronounce is pronounced "Keen-sin-yair-uh" Quincineara (Can't get the tilda over the N-sorry) is a Latina girl's 15th Birthday ceremony/celebration
First story, I would have verbally reminded her about her wallet as we were leaving. Or just go to the restaurant without my wallet. "I thought we agreed that you would be paying. This was your idea, after all" Second story, the mother obviously doesn't respect her children enough to want to be on time. Though I also don't know if it's a culture related thing Third story, would that be considered kidnapping? Maybe not a severe kidnapping, but he did bring her somewhere else without her consent and intended to keep her there
First story: if this was me I would’ve done the same thing except when she said “I forgot my wallet.” I would’ve been like “Oh yeah! I saw you leave it so I thought I would grab it for you.” And then if she got mad I would’ve been like “But you forgot your wallet. I’m helping you, that’s what you wanted right?” Second story: If this happened to me I would be glad that he sent me a wrong time so I would be there on time. And then next time I would make sure I’m on time. Third story: Ummmmm........ So.................. Okay, SHE NEEDS TO GO TO WORK AND HE’S GONNA BE LIKE “No babe come to a barbecue with me.” IF SHE COULD SHE OBVIOUSLY WOULD. AND YOU CAN’T BRING HER TO THE BARBECUE ANYWAYS. UNLESS YOU WANT HER TO GET FIRED. And then he’s like “What you did was extremely manipulative.” I would’ve been like “You told me you would take me to work and then brought me to a barbecue. That’s manipulative. Do your research. And I’m so sorry but my job is more important than a barbecue.” And then he’s like “I guess you can more about work than me.” Yeah well guess what? You care more about a barbecue then HER LIFE. You know, the way she pays bills, the way she buys food. Not important right? This makes me so mad. Ans what is “you made me look bad in front of my family.” Honey, if you care more about how your family thinks about your relationship more than you care about YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP than you have problems. And she’s not manipulating you by taking the car and going to her job. You can’t trick someone into doing something they don’t want to do and then expect them to go along with it. If I was her I would just be like. “You know what? You can have as many barbecues as you like because now your single. I’m going to go make myself my own barbecue b!tch bye.”
Omg kyutie 🥰 I really loved the new background especially that (is that a butt? 😅 Well it's cute 😍). I love how it's look simple your makeup always but today is kind of special, you look like just woke up 🥰. I haven't watched your videos due to busy with work and tbh I missed your reaction videos. First story, the audacity of the SIL it makes me irritated. I hate how she treated her brother's wife for paying for her all the time. They're being hospitality to them by accepting them to their house instead of them staying at hotels but no, they intended to not spend any money ever. What a cheaps take this SIL. Want to be look rich but always poor. 2nd story, your not wrong to make a special invitation. You're just saving your mom/parents reputation for not being late at your own wedding. It's really embarrassing that in your wedding day your own parents is late like they don't care about you and if it's my case that's really not a good for my health. I'll be furious if they didn't showed up at my special day especially if I invited them. Last story. Girl, you need to divorced that kind of guy. He's dumb. Choosing to go to BBQ party instead of you to a hospital where you help save lives of people, he doesn't know what exactly your work is and that makes him a dumb one. I'll be fine attending a BBQ party of their family if it's location is just around the corner of the hospital place or just besides of my workplace but the audacity of your husband to go to ranches where it far away at your workplace makes me speechless. I wonder what her husband do for a living? I mean, I think the husband just visit his family at every invite he gets from them and they always have fun like no worries about his job.
5:57 in my opinion I think the wife is wrong even tho he "kidnapped" her because she never attends the family gatherings and it seems like she prioritizes work more than her own husband also it's ok to take one shift off if it's not an everyday thing 💀
The late MIL seems to have been getting away with her tardiness for so long she never expects to be picked up on it, instead everyone is so relieved when she arrives. Elizabeth Taylor the movie star used to do this, it's a power trip plain and simple. It's good she was publicly outed.
Poor Coco seemed confused. Not sure which story was bigger: bruh wtf... 1. Ma'am, just why. She wanted to go to that restaurant, basically she invited OP, let her pay for all of them (again) AND lived in HER (OP's) house for free. What an Audacity! 2. That mom has no frickin right to be mad on them when SHE is the only one who caused that. If she wasn't always late, they would not made her a special invitation. Also how on Earth can she be surprised that they don't trust her when she acts like that. It looks like she doesn't give a single poop about others. 3. Dude then should marry someone else who isn't a nurse, if he's not happy with her shifts. Also yeah, he seems to be the manipulative one. Not only because of what he did, but also "you are a manipulator" is a common (very common) sentence a manipulator WOULD say to someone to make THEM feel bad, so he can manipulate them more through that.
Last story is manipulative. If the hubby respected the wife, he wouldn't trick her into going there. Since we're not sure if she rejected the thought before of being present in any form of reunion that's why he resorted to this. She works in a freaking hospital, of course she's busy! Also, those who force their family to join in a dinner when they clearly doesn't want to is toxic!
The first story made me so mad because in the end, according to comments on the post by OP, sister in law started yelling and left the restaurant leaving once again OP to pay. So annoying
Wow. OP still should have said separate tickets.
Damn I would have just used her wallet to pay
I dont think she should have grabbed the wallet without permission but instead could have said, they are not leaving the house until she grabs her wallet and the person saw her SIL put the wallet in her bag, and if they refused then just refuse to go eat and stay in.
@@lunarialoonatic yeah. I wouldn't have asked got separate bills. Since the evil SIL has used her so many times, OP has every right to do it.
I mean, she did have the SIL's wallet so maybe she grabbed whatever was in there and used it to pay for the SIL's food.
"I manipulated you and basically kidnapped you and you DARE not just take it! You horrible manipulator!"
Okay dude, sure, seems legit.
mhm..
Seems like he wants her to loose her job so she won’t have income to leave him…
@@MariposaAzul2004 exactly that, she better run away
Yeah, she could lose her license over patient neglect/abandonment and that'd be the end of her career. Wifey needs to run now!
Yet the same could be said of the Wife, that she Manipulated the Guy to get what she wanted...she KNEW he liked spending time with his Family at the Ranch, but seems like she never made an effort to join in with what he wanted (except for the Big Functions)...only what she wanted to do. I bet the Husband never denies her anything she wants to do.
TLDR: people getting butthurt, good luck to all the people who have to deal with them
Story 1. Instead of saying 'oh this wallet' op could've played it off like 'oh yeah I saw you left your wallet in the car so I grabbed it for you'. Op wouldn't be faulted for just trying to be helpful after all! Better yet she's exposing the sister for either being forgetful intentionally or not.
Story 2. The parents need to consider that if everyone is in on making sure they're punctional then there is a problem with themselves. I'm genuinely curious how they'd try to excuse being tardy to a wedding, "well you should've waited for us" sounds pretty close.
Story 3. So the husband is getting butthurt over things op can't control? She needs to address what happened with the family and work to get everyone on the same page: the husband LITERALLY kidnapped her from work just to save whatever face he thinks he had. It also sounds like he doesn't really know how job shifts work and doesn't want to understand as long as what he wants goes too.
the last story, he straight up kidnapped her??? like idk taking me to a location i didnt agree on and wont stop even after saying no is pretty damn sus. dump him please like wow
Not to mention that he is the one who let the air out of all four of her tires to put her in that situation. I say let him explain all of that in divorce court (preferably the one that’s on tv) so all their friends and family members can see and hear what bullshit he’s pulled. He’ll get booed out of the courtroom.
The husband in the last story literally committed two crimes by slashing her tires and taking her to a place she didn't consent to go to, which is literally kidnapping and he was mad at her?
Deprivation of liberty? is that a legal term? definitely kidnapping. Also he endangered her work status. Boss isn't going to believe (sadly) that "my husband kidnapped me, took me way out of town, knowing full well I had to go to work, and I didn't know he was going to do that". People believe the sociopaths, not their victims...
The last story kinda feels like kidnapping. He basically took her somewhere she didn't want to go against her will and got mad at her that she left. I don't think that's a marriage she should stay in. If he's willing to go as far as deflate your tires and tick you just to go to a BBQ because his siblings made fun of him for going alone, then who's to say he won't do something worse next time?
In that third story, the husband literally kidnapped her. In no way is she in the wrong here, especially because she very likely could’ve lost her job for that stunt. He sounds really immature and manipulative.
He's a cunning sociopath and escalating into dangerous territory. They never stop at "harmless" pranks...She could find herself on the wrong side of an excursion to "dig a large hole" in the forest...
0:00: Coco's back!
0:14: Amy is clearly a cheapskate, a freeloader, and a mooch. She can pay her share but is never willing to do so because she purposely "forgets" her wallet.
2:58: If there's one quality I can't stand, it's lateness. The mother's lack of punctuality indicates she is a self-absorbed person. If she truly valued her kids, she would make an extra effort to arrive at their functions on time.
6:00: This is an interesting one. She could have made time to spend time with her in-laws (which makes me question how much she likes them), but shame on her husband for tricking her like that. On the other hand, she is a nurse and has dedicated her life to saving others. How different would it have been if, say, she worked in a department store?
First story: Wait, sil came with her husband and still wanted OP to pay. OP should have never started to pay for her. Never tell family how much money you make. NEVER tell extended family or in-laws how much you make. It's on a They never need to know basis. She did right by bringing her SIL's wallet. The waiter still could have put it on separate tickets. That's why you tell the waiter beforehand. OP should have to not went.
Second story: the mother was late on purpose. How selfish and narcissistic can a person be? Just stop inviting her or leave her.
Third story, he vandalized her car, kidnapped her, and got mad because she stole his car and went to work. Why didn't she call the tow truck and the police? He's controlling because he can't be an adult. so what if his brother's tease him? She should have had divorce papers waiting on him.
5:08 I did the same thing to a friend of mine a few years ago. She was ALWAYS late, and not just 5 or 10 minutes but 40 mins or even hours, this one time she arrived *4 hours* later than me and our friends and she had the audacity to get mad at us for not picking the restaurant she wanted to go to and start dinner without her (we were supposed to go to the cinema right after dinner, so we really couldn't wait forever) so a couple weeks later we organized a night out and told her to come 1 hour earlier than the rest of us. When she arrived in time like everyone else we told her about our plan (because we couldn't help but smirk so she obviously noticed something was up) and she turned red and started telling us to fuck off and calling us stupid because we tricked her.
Yeah we're not friends anymore.
(I'm sorry for any error, english is not my first language)
The story about taking the husbands car after he tricked her: I was kinda sympathizing with the husband in the beginning “aww she can’t miss one day for this sense it’s so important to him” but then he pulled whatever the heck that was
She's a nurse. No she can't just skip work if no one can cover her shift. That would literally put people in danger. I swear some people don't realise the pressure that nurses and other healthcare workers are under.
The husband is horrible
1st story: Op should stop going out to eat with SIL and straight up tell her when she asks why “because the only reason you want us to come with is so you can eat at expensive restaurants and leave us with the bill”
2nd story: dude feels left out for not having his wife there when his brothers do (the childish logic of “all the other kids have one, why can’t I?”) he calls her coworkers to demand someone else either gives up their day off or does a double shift and when that fails he vandalized her car and kidnapped her but SHE’s the manipulative one? I’d wager his family asked him what was going on and he was trying to pin the blame on her to avoid telling his family “oh yeah, I kidnapped my own wife because she didn’t do as I say”
The one with the woman who is always late is one I can relate to. My uncle is always late for everything. My parents always told him that any event was starting an hour earlier so he would be on time. They learned that lesson after he was late for my Baptism and he was my godfather. My other uncle had to stand in for him for the whole ceremony because he was late. He got there in time to sign the papers though.
Man, that third OP needs a divorce ASAP. She now knows that she can't trust her husband at all.
story 1: I would've given SIL the wallet when i got to the car again, saing that I saw she forgot her wallet so I brought it for her
Last story: so he wants his wife to get fired ...
1. NTA, the SIL is spoiled and thinks OP revolves around her.
2. NTA, the mother should've been there or she was just chronically late.
3. NTA, but I think stealing the car is not okay, but you made your commitment to get to work. The way her husband did was mind-boggling. If he didn't want to be mocked by his brothers, why can't he notify his parents or call them to make his brothers stop?
It's not stealing if you are doing whatever it takes to escape your kidnapper. Should have called the cops on him as soon as she got to work.
My MIL was the exact opposite. Always arriving an hour early at my house or her daughters house. Wherever the event was going to happen. Right when everything was happening to finalize the event before everyone arrived. It was very irritating. I often thought of telling her the event was an hour later than it actually was so she would actually be there at the right time. But I couldn't do it. She was a very nice person and just had this quirk everyone knew already. It just seemed to be devious to do that and really, I could handle it. Be the bigger person, even if it's inconvenient, because what does it really matter in the scheme of things. Being late is more problematic. You can't get that back.
I'm early sometimes, especially if where I'm going requires using the Southern State Parkway on Long Island where I live. It can get bad sometimes. So, a trip that would take about 25 minutes-I would leave at least 35 minutes ahead of time for that margin!
I’d do that for sure 😂 I wouldn’t want people arriving super early so I’d have no problem telling them the wrong time on purpose. My sister in law takes forever to get ready so my mom and I do the opposite when we plan on going somewhere. We give her a time earlier because we know that often times she still won’t be ready by that time lol. I personally like arriving to places early but not super early. Maybe like 15 minutes max but it also depends on the situation and where I’m going/what im doing.
Easy solution: ask for seperate cheques at the start of the meal. If she says she can’t pay because she left her wallet behind, say “No worries, we’ll wait while you go get it.”
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Nah on the first story I'd ask for them to split the bill. I'm not sure if thats how expensive restraunts work, but I'm pretty sure they would. Pay for yourself and leave. I'd literally ask her to lunch at a pretty decent place, order the same thing/similarly priced food as her then ask to half the bill. Not my problem if I can't pay it. Only brought enough money for me see? Even better if its a place where the person who pays pays at a register away from the table, then you can run away before she realises you didnt pay for her. She'll never want to eat out with you again
My mom is ALWAYS late. It drives my husband crazy. We now just tell her we are leaving anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour earlier than we really need to leave in order to leave on time. We started out telling her 30 minutes but she figured it out & would still make us late. Then we increased it to 45 minutes, the same thing happened. Now we change it randomly so she never knows. If we get there early, she’s mad but that’s too bad. If she wasn’t late all the time, we wouldn’t have to play these games…
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For years I told my mother that movies and events started earlier than actual time. Then cellphones were invented so that she could talk and drive!
Story 2. My family does this all the time. If the invite says 4pm dinner time and they don't come to 6pm or later (had some show up at 8pm) but we know this so we always set the invite time early than we actually want and only a few people (elderlies) show up at the stated times
Obviously the woman did not "forget" her wallet if her reaction was anger that her SIL had brought it along. A person who honestly forgot it would have been grateful that someone remembered it and brought it. The fact it was found on top of the suitcase, tells me the woman took it out of her purse and left it behind on purpose. If it was a case where the woman could not afford expensive restaurants, she should have talked to the SIL and been forthcoming about the situation instead of booking a restaurant and forcing her SIL to pay the bill.
I mean, in the first story, I would've been like: "Fine, I'll pay" and then grab the wallet out of the purse and act like I had thought I grabbed my wallet before we left and said that I grabbed hers instead of mine so she had to pay and not me": but I don't even know if their wallets look alike so I wouldn't know
First story: bro we'd be going to court over this I promise you I don't care if my husband be pissed maybe then she'll stop trying to make me pay the bill at an expensive restaurant and booking reservations at expensive restaurants
Second story: I'd take half a decade to forgive my mom if she was late to my wedding.. imagine her showing up when the official says "you may now kiss the bride"
Third story: he'd be mad if she was fired though (smh at "since you stole my car" bro you're married everything that's yours is hers vice-versa)
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I would not let the sister come over anymore. and if she does, we get McDonalds!
the last one is terrifying. i hope they split
Dang, in the first story, I would’ve at least said something like “Oh don’t worry! I forgot to tell you but when I went back into the house I saw your wallet so I grabbed it for you!” Who can be made at the supportive SIL???
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It was a yearly festival day at our school. Like everybody else, I was very exited to go. On this day everybody wears traditional clothes. My grandma worked so hard and stitched me a traditional outfit. I was exited to go and show it to everyone but as soon as I got to my class, I knew I would be the odd one. Everybody was so beautiful and slim and had literally the perfect bodies. They all told me that I looked "different" or a "little fatter". I heard some of them saying that i was really fat too. Im literally crying rn. Im 14, 146cm tall and i weigh 40kg.
How is that fat? Are all the other kids twigs? You're not fat; that's crazy! Just ignore them and be happy with yourself. 🤗
@@martabachynsky8545 tysm, I did look fat in these clothes but yh im gonna learn to ignore them :)
For the 2nd story: sounds like she was being late on purpose
The way you pronounced “quinceañera” made me laugh, but great video as always! It’s pronounced (I’m pretty sure) “keen-suhn-yeh-ruh”
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For the last one, how did he expect her to react?? ‘Oh you brought me to a family dinner I clearly stated that I couldn’t go to because I’m a nurse and I could loose my job if I miss it? Yay 🥰’
Story 2. The mom WANTED to be late all the time-It's her way of attention-seeking!
Anyone else get the feeling the Husband from story 3 was behind OP's tires being out of air? As in he sabotaged his own wifes car, deceived and kidnapped her while jeopardizing her job just to get his own way. OP needs to get a divorce, 'cause he's clearly the true manipulator who can never truly be trusted.
Neither the husband can trust her.He should just get a divorce with her..He deserves someone better
@@bdalive5712 They both stupidly married each other without making sure their life plans were truly compatible so they both deserve someone better than each other. People that are super big about family should make sure their not stupid enough to make someone that's going to be married to their job, and people married to their job should make sure they ain't stupid enough to marry someone that's doesn't share their values.
While it can be argued that OP stole her Husband's car to get to her job, she actually would have NEVER resorted to that in the 1st place had the Husband not likely committed the very serious crime of sabotaging her vehicle and then committing what qualifies as an even MORE serious crime of kidnapping(yes, it's considered kidnapping even when it's you own spouse), all solely to force her to attend a MINOR family function to save face and stop his (clearly toxic)family's ridicule over having a spouse that is unavailable for MINOR(aka non-essential) family functions. The OP stated that she makes time for MAJOR family functions, which matters FAR more. Though most people prefer to entertain the belief that "all you need is love", the truth is that love alone is NOT actually enough to make any kind of relationship work. Love without Trust and Respect is completely incapable of truly "conquering all", and the husband broke that trust and respect 1st. You can't always expect your SO to be *required* to attend every little family function, it's completely unrealistic in this world.
@@bdalive5712 She deserves someone who is not a psycho.
Ily kyu!!! I love when you post the am I wrong stories especially
5:20 there was a story, can't remember where I got it from, where a person's friends were always late so she did the same as here for every plan planned for vacation. When they found out they got mad too, can't remember what they said though.
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4:47 I would explained to the woman that no one doesn’t trust you they just know they have a tendency to arrive late and knowing how important the event was and how important it was she arrive on time. No one thinks they’re foolish just late. It was important they were on time and didn’t want anything going wrong or disappointing anyone like the bride.
First one I would’ve just paid with her card and not say anything 😂 2nd one you’re right he saved her being embarrassed because she was actually late according to her invitation! Whoa! The last one! She needs to run! He let the air out of her tires says he’ll take her to work kidnaps her and calls her a manipulator??! She’s a nurse! Lives depend on her! He clearly has no respect for her or the fact she’s a nurse and her job is extremely important! More important than a dang BBQ 😠 The fact he was calling her friends begging them to cover for her was ridiculous he’s the manipulator not her! Honestly if it was me I wouldn’t be able to trust him again 😬
Second one is me but I could be ready and everything and just zone out so I tell ppl to tell me an hour earlier than we’re supposed to meet and somehow I’m still late
Not him accusing her of theft when he literally kidnapped her
3:44 Kyutie, you're hilarious. It's kin-thin-era lol, dw
I wonder if the mom in the second story is always late to her job…
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I'd call to have big family meeting and bring divorce papers! I'd tell his family that I'm a nurse and I told him I couldn't make it to the BBQ! I woke up to my tires being slashed and flat and he told me he'd bring me to work! Instead he drove me to the BBQ and said that I'd just have to miss the shift! I can't just leave people in the hospital unattended! My patients could die! And then he called me and said I was manipulative and untrustworthy when he lied to me first and I still believe he slashed my tires so I want a divorce! If he can't handle his own family teasing him then understanding that his wife is saving lives then he don't need a wife!
BBQ nurse story- wouldve said I was running away from the person who kidnapped me. I had agreed to go to my shift at work and not the family bbq because I had a shift and couldn’t cover. If he can’t take the teasing then don’t go. I have lives to save. If the tires were still deflated in the morning I’d then take an Uber or something and explain I wouldn’t want him to be late to the bbq. If I then still had to ride with him. I would got there and explain he took me to the bbq despite the fact I have a shift at work and had to excuse myself and apologize for not being able to stay but thankful for the invite. I’d then take his car or ask to borrow someone’s or have someone ride along to return the car to the bbq and find a way home. If the bbq is so important that he popped tires and risked her job so he doesn’t have to be teased. He ignored her emotions and wishes. He’s trash.
I always enjoy watching your videos!!! Oh also the word “Quinceañera” or “Quinceañero” (Keen-siah-nieroh/ah) is a party that is celebrating 15th birthday of boys and girls! Or also what you call the birthday boy or girl!
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She didn't say she didn't want to go, she couldn't go, you have a job and you are covering a shift, this is your job, so she had no choice. What a baby the husband is. And his family is no better, they can't understand that she's a nurse.
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Okay, as far as the first story? That's on the OP. If they KNOW she's going to pull that crap EVERY TIME, then it's on them if they keep letting her get away with it.
In the BBQ story I feel like it's all about woman's work respect, which is absent in our society if it was a man busy it is understandable and if it is a woman she is unadjusting and a nuisance nothing else , not busy, not dedicated to her work just a nuisance
My Grandma was late for EVERYTHING. I would tell her an earlier time by THREE HOURS to make sure she nade it on time.
How to pronounce Quinceañera = keen (as in "I have a keen mind. My IQ is 220") Sin- Eura (or yeara)
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The word you were trying to pronounce is pronounced "Keen-sin-yair-uh"
Quincineara (Can't get the tilda over the N-sorry) is a Latina girl's 15th Birthday ceremony/celebration
First story, I would have verbally reminded her about her wallet as we were leaving. Or just go to the restaurant without my wallet. "I thought we agreed that you would be paying. This was your idea, after all"
Second story, the mother obviously doesn't respect her children enough to want to be on time. Though I also don't know if it's a culture related thing
Third story, would that be considered kidnapping? Maybe not a severe kidnapping, but he did bring her somewhere else without her consent and intended to keep her there
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First story: if this was me I would’ve done the same thing except when she said “I forgot my wallet.” I would’ve been like “Oh yeah! I saw you leave it so I thought I would grab it for you.” And then if she got mad I would’ve been like “But you forgot your wallet. I’m helping you, that’s what you wanted right?”
Second story: If this happened to me I would be glad that he sent me a wrong time so I would be there on time. And then next time I would make sure I’m on time.
Third story: Ummmmm........ So.................. Okay, SHE NEEDS TO GO TO WORK AND HE’S GONNA BE LIKE “No babe come to a barbecue with me.” IF SHE COULD SHE OBVIOUSLY WOULD. AND YOU CAN’T BRING HER TO THE BARBECUE ANYWAYS. UNLESS YOU WANT HER TO GET FIRED. And then he’s like “What you did was extremely manipulative.” I would’ve been like “You told me you would take me to work and then brought me to a barbecue. That’s manipulative. Do your research. And I’m so sorry but my job is more important than a barbecue.” And then he’s like “I guess you can more about work than me.” Yeah well guess what? You care more about a barbecue then HER LIFE. You know, the way she pays bills, the way she buys food. Not important right? This makes me so mad. Ans what is “you made me look bad in front of my family.” Honey, if you care more about how your family thinks about your relationship more than you care about YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP than you have problems. And she’s not manipulating you by taking the car and going to her job. You can’t trick someone into doing something they don’t want to do and then expect them to go along with it. If I was her I would just be like. “You know what? You can have as many barbecues as you like because now your single. I’m going to go make myself my own barbecue b!tch bye.”
For the 1st one: I would honestly never want to talk to the SIL ever again! Bro she be wasting too much of OP's money 🙄
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First story, the audacity of the SIL it makes me irritated. I hate how she treated her brother's wife for paying for her all the time. They're being hospitality to them by accepting them to their house instead of them staying at hotels but no, they intended to not spend any money ever. What a cheaps take this SIL. Want to be look rich but always poor.
2nd story, your not wrong to make a special invitation. You're just saving your mom/parents reputation for not being late at your own wedding. It's really embarrassing that in your wedding day your own parents is late like they don't care about you and if it's my case that's really not a good for my health. I'll be furious if they didn't showed up at my special day especially if I invited them.
Last story. Girl, you need to divorced that kind of guy. He's dumb. Choosing to go to BBQ party instead of you to a hospital where you help save lives of people, he doesn't know what exactly your work is and that makes him a dumb one. I'll be fine attending a BBQ party of their family if it's location is just around the corner of the hospital place or just besides of my workplace but the audacity of your husband to go to ranches where it far away at your workplace makes me speechless. I wonder what her husband do for a living? I mean, I think the husband just visit his family at every invite he gets from them and they always have fun like no worries about his job.
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5:57 in my opinion I think the wife is wrong even tho he "kidnapped" her because she never attends the family gatherings and it seems like she prioritizes work more than her own husband also it's ok to take one shift off if it's not an everyday thing 💀
Last story is a whole red flag 🚩🙃
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I am often late so I always plan twenty minutes extra into my journey. So even if I'm late, I'm not THAT late.
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The late MIL seems to have been getting away with her tardiness for so long she never expects to be picked up on it, instead everyone is so relieved when she arrives.
Elizabeth Taylor the movie star used to do this, it's a power trip plain and simple.
It's good she was publicly outed.
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Poor Coco seemed confused.
Not sure which story was bigger: bruh wtf...
1. Ma'am, just why. She wanted to go to that restaurant, basically she invited OP, let her pay for all of them (again) AND lived in HER (OP's) house for free. What an Audacity!
2. That mom has no frickin right to be mad on them when SHE is the only one who caused that. If she wasn't always late, they would not made her a special invitation. Also how on Earth can she be surprised that they don't trust her when she acts like that. It looks like she doesn't give a single poop about others.
3. Dude then should marry someone else who isn't a nurse, if he's not happy with her shifts. Also yeah, he seems to be the manipulative one. Not only because of what he did, but also "you are a manipulator" is a common (very common) sentence a manipulator WOULD say to someone to make THEM feel bad, so he can manipulate them more through that.
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Last story is manipulative. If the hubby respected the wife, he wouldn't trick her into going there. Since we're not sure if she rejected the thought before of being present in any form of reunion that's why he resorted to this. She works in a freaking hospital, of course she's busy! Also, those who force their family to join in a dinner when they clearly doesn't want to is toxic!
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First video, sorry to say, but if you know she doesn't pay her share, why join going to the restaurant every time? Come on