You need to ignore him like Alex said. I did this for 3 weeks and he contacted me. Asked to see me please. So I did what Alex said: work on myself (great hair, clothes, happy). All guys were staring at me and trying to meet me in front of him. He became so jealous and into me. Thank you Alex. You are so right. I HAVE THE POWER. Do not text him first.....
"love needs no words "thats my bf lines everytime i say "i love u " to him..im always expecting from him to say "i love u "til one day i stop saying that and started to focus into othet things.. And u know what happened? He asked me this"do u love me? I miss u i miss us..pls dont change and hug me but i kept smiling that time i stay positive.. I can say this is very effective. Now we are married. My husband is from Australia and I am from Philippines. Lets spread the love
exactly, you can play with someone's fear of abandonment, which is what the so called dating coaches recommend in fact but it only works for sick, insecure people. normal and interessted guy never gets hot and cold/emotionally unavailable
Stop wanting ppl that do not put effort on keeping you in their life ( i been in a shit relationship for so many years just because i was crazy for that person , i did manage to keep him in my life for so ling but never truly happy actually this became an abusive relationship) there are other million ppl that for sure want you more than you ever think
Hi Alex 🙂 Merci beaucoup for all the great advice you give us!! My mom told me years ago that girls don't chase boys and I still believe it's true. No matter what age we are, men pursue, women set the pace. Love you mon brére! Stay cool 😊
I really love your energy and enthusiasm when you talk about exactly what I needed to hear. Sometimes we can't help liking someone even though we know very well that person isn't right for us.
Can't be nice to men anymore. The level of Immaturity is unreal. I refuse to teach someone else's Son how to treat me. They either have it or they don't. No 3 strikes any longer. DO YOU LADIES! Stop settling for less just to be in a relationship. You deserve the Best!
Know this...if he does not pursue...he did not care in the first place... And there are just way too many wonderful things to go see without waiting on them.
I absolutely love how passionate you are about your work, I listen to you a while ago but I think I was not in the correct relationship and I was also doing a lot of things wrong that ended up really in a negative place but this time around I want to listen and really pick apart what you were saying to reattract the man that I really want. Once again thank you for all the work that you do it’s so refreshing to see someone so passionate about helping women
USA (Just found you and will continue to watch and yes, I have put your advice to actual use! In fact I have watched a few of your videos and your advice has already worked for me! I forced myself to NOT call him and he’s calling me now! Thank you and G-d bless you!!!)
Tnx a lot Alex.. I just did what you said.. I turned off my fon for 3 days..and u know what??? When I opened my fon.. He was shouting at me... Asking me where I have been?? Why did I turned off my fon?? Omg I was like in cloud 9 that moment... Hahaa.. Thnk u so much coach Alex..
Yeah. I didn't know to do that with my previous dater. Was too serious/anxious that it drove him away to other available women cause I came out of a previous 25 yr abusive toxic relationship & didn't n know any better. Oh well..
ALEX I AM EXHAUSTED BUT WHEN I OPEN THE COMPUTER AND SEE YOUR VIDEO LISTEN TO U U ARE SUCH A GREAT ENERGY AND MAKE ME SMILE BESIDE U DO FIVE GOOD ADVICES MERCI BISES
Same with me. 2 men within a month time span. This ghosting thing is really getting me in my feels. Not sure I want to date any time soon. But so glad to know I am not alone in being ghosted. It hurts🤕
Damn Yu a so 🔥Alex! Yu give me a life line to back to my game again!!!! Yu a so much help every time I’m watch your live! Its hit me to the point that ive been waiting for!!! Thank yu thank!!! ❤️❤️kingdom from Tongan🇹🇴🇹🇴Island 🌺
I can’t stop loving watching your show! Yu a alsome👍only ive start watch your show almost two weeks now an yu wer’e burn it🔥🔥❤️❤️it’s a good lesson to us women how valuable we a!
For me, ( that can't speak english so good...) Alex converation even easier than an American or Britshman. I understand what he talked about without text.... For the beggining i came to this channel coz i was looking for the solution of ,"his suddently quiet" but.... now... i dont care at all.... Now i focuss to learn English and how to understand by listenning of Alex talks...
Hello Alex, I watched a few of your videos to see WHAT it was I was doing right....so even though I REALLY do not need your help, you are handsome and fun to watch and validate my methods. Thank you. I'm old ish 60 (young at heart) So I have lived and learned. Everyone should communicate openly and honestly and that will create harmonious relationship built on trust and respect.💖💖💖⭐Love and Light
Thank you Allowing into the mind of men to treat and protect the heart of us beautiful and worthy of love at the highest value. Our value is priceless, our Worth cost a life. Jesus.
I went out alone without telling him and i return to house and see waiting for me, when am in the house he won't come around but when he hear I went out he will be jealous and keep on calling me where are u baby.
*Use these insights as a guide, but ultimately, focus on building a connection that aligns with your own values and brings genuine happiness and fulfillment to both partners. Prioritize nurturing the emotional bond and showing genuine care and interest in each other's lives.*
I reached him out after 4 weeks of no contact and he already has started to date someone else doesn’t work in anyone but the problem is that I’m really heart because we live in same building
Alex I always love your content. It’s hard to find creative ways to sell my life during covid with the long distance ex I have been trying to re attract! I bought myself a fun car and took a road trip to a place he told me about. He called a few weeks later and I told him about it. He said wow you are really re inventing yourself! Then he disappeared for three weeks. I waited and contacted him on Election Day. He replied right away but I have not heard from him since. He’s not calling as much and I think it’s because last time he called I suggested we have a fun phone date. I guess it was leading.
Hi Alex, I missed your live broadcast but I still enjoyed watching it now. Your advice is always on point and straight forward. I have a topic suggestion for your next live, please talk about when you are too emotionally attached to a guy/woman to the point it's affecting your daily life and the relationship, and how to deal with it in a positive way. Thank you 🖤
Thank you so much Alex.. I really love your videos and advice.. I've learn a lot from you. It helps me to regain my confidence. More videos to come. God Bless you and to your program.
Watching this right now as I am heartbroken. I found out he was lying to me. He is the type of guy that if you lied to him even the smallest lie in the world he will be mad at you like crazy and use his ethics and culture against you to make his point. He will make you feel that you've done something so wrong that he will humiliate and step on you over and over and use that one mistake of yours everytime we have an argument. I once lied to him about deleting a blurred photo in his phone. I was actually playing around that time. I said no I did not delete it, then I was laughing. This is the first time we met. He came to my country to visit me. And he got so mad that he wants to send me home. Shouting and just getting really pissed off. I didn't realise that he will be mad for such a small playful lie. After that he told me that he doesn't want me to lie even the whitest lie ever. And I found out tonight that he lied to me bigtime. It wasn't even the lie it's that feeling where you felt so betrayed and that he doesn't care about your feelings or thought. He asked me can I messaged this person? I said I prefer that you just don't because you know what that person has done to me and our relationship. And ge said okay I won't messaged then. But then he messaged this someone and he lied to me about it eventhough he knows that that person almost ruin our relationship. He chose to hurt my feelings than prove to me that my request of not being in contact with that person is more valuable and important. I feel so heartbroken knowing that the person you loved and cared so much has lied to you and chose to hurt me than sparing my feelings and think about our relationship. Again I felt like an option. I felt like my feelings doesn't matter and when I confronted him he tried to blame it on me like it was my fault he lied. He said if you just let me message this person I do not have to lie to you. But the thing is this person hurt me and almost ruin our relationship. I have the right to protect our relationship and if me feelings truly matters and he cared he doesn't even have to ask me permission. He should have known it wasn't a good idea that it was disrpectful for me. And I will feel hurt by even him having that thoughts in his mind. He just finished his chemotherapy and now he is well, I was there for him althrought out. I was away from my family for a year living in this foreign country to take care of him and be there for him through his tough times and yet this is what I get from all of that. His family left him while he was doing his chemotherapy because his split up with his ex wife didn't really went well. I was the only one who was there for him. He deleted his Facebook messenger and when I asked him to open it up I saw all this messages from different girls. And that person who hurt me messaged him as well. When I ask if I can see the message he refused and snatch his phone away and deleted the messages... Who wouldn't feel hurt ? Who wouldn't doubt ? Was i wrong for feeling this way ?? Don't I have the right to be hurt after what I saw ??? This is our always issue and he refuse to not be in contact with his ex and girls he met on the dating site. Saying were just friends. He keeps throwing on the side make me feel that I dont matter to him. That even I cried a river he won't care. He always just let me comfort myself after a fight. Even it was his fault. He would accuse me of his doings. No woman deserves that. If you are not happy tell her. Hurt her with the truth and do not comfort her with a lie. Do not make her feel like she's worthless. No one deserve this pain. I been with the same kind of relationship twice. This one's worst. There much more awful things he has done to me but I stayed with him because I loved him and I care for him. I do not want him to be alone. I set my own feelings aside for our relationship because that's how much I cherish it. I cried forgave him for all the emotional abuse he has done to me and yet it wasn't enough. Maybe I gave it all that nothings left for me anymore same as my past relationship. Was engaged. He cheated so many times I took him back hoping he will change but eventhough we are engaged he still cheated and that was the end of us. I have trust issues and I am very insecure. I feel like I am not good enough that eventhough I give my all no man will appreciate me for who I am. I think I am too weak and I love too much. I keep forgetting about myself. He knew my past. I was very vulnerable to him. I told him everything. And he promised not to hurt me and he will love the way I deserved to be loved. For the second time I am heartbroken again. And to feel betrayed is the worst thing and I said to myself that it's enough one lie is enough. I do not have to go through the same shit again. I have to stop forgiving people who doesn't deserve it. I have to stop giving chances. I have to stop chasing love. I need to be patient and wait for the right person. I want to be loved. I deserve to be loved. I am not a bad person. I care about people and I may not be perfect but I always give my all to the man I love just because I don't want to regret. I want him to feel so loved and accepted. My sacrifice in this relationship is very unimaginable and in the end he betrayed me. He chose someone's feelings over mine. I had enough of men who takes women for granted. No woman is good to a man who never get satisfied of what he has. The more you love they pull away ... you don't show too much love they pull away as well and cheat. I am so broken-hearted and alone. No family no friends. Love is really testing me. I hope that I can get through this again and stand up again, be happy and be loved just the way I always wished. I hope someday I can smile again with a joy in my heart not worrying of it being broken again. Thanks for the video. For now nothing makes sense to me. I am too broken. I feel like I am floating in the air and my heart is being squeezed. I know I'm not only only person experiencing this pain right now. I hope we all heal and be happy again. Let's be strong and try our best to live our life to the fullest.
Girl it seems you are a co-dependant and attract narcistic men. The guy you describe sure sounds like one! If you are willing to look for information about narcisstic abuse and codependancy please I suggest you look up Dr Ramani in youtube. She is an expert on this subject. But you have to be honest with yourself and willing to change and face your own behaviour. If YOU change and start loving yourself the men you attract change to. I wish you all the best!
He is a narcist and manipulator. Be happy you are away from him ! Work on your self love girl and your value. Don’t ever allow a man treat you like this, you deserve a good man not a shit like him !!! Keep working on yourself and self love. ❤❤❤
You need to ignore him like Alex said. I did this for 3 weeks and he contacted me. Asked to see me please. So I did what Alex said: work on myself (great hair, clothes, happy). All guys were staring at me and trying to meet me in front of him. He became so jealous and into me. Thank you Alex. You are so right. I HAVE THE POWER. Do not text him first.....
Wow 😊😊😊
3 weeks must of been hard
That's the way👍👍👍💯
Good on you darling 👍👍💯
"love needs no words "thats my bf lines everytime i say "i love u " to him..im always expecting from him to say "i love u "til one day i stop saying that and started to focus into othet things.. And u know what happened? He asked me this"do u love me? I miss u i miss us..pls dont change and hug me but i kept smiling that time i stay positive.. I can say this is very effective. Now we are married. My husband is from Australia and I am from Philippines.
Lets spread the love
So take him off the pedestal you put him under and get your power back. Great advice!
Hot and cold / emotionally unavailable all mean HE DOESNT WANT YOU !
It's really that simple.
exactly, you can play with someone's fear of abandonment, which is what the so called dating coaches recommend in fact but it only works for sick, insecure people. normal and interessted guy never gets hot and cold/emotionally unavailable
Whenever i watch ur video 😂 i always forgot my bf....😂😂😂😂
Lol
🤣🤣
He had told me he is marrying other women and still want to be in contact with me.
Alex Iove the way you speak the Frenchmen understand love and emotion
What to do with a stubborn man
Thank you so much!
After 29 years of confused relationships, you’ve managed to open my mind and make relationships more understood.
Thank you ❤️
Happy to help!
@@FrenchRelationshipExperthi a
Stop wanting ppl that do not put effort on keeping you in their life ( i been in a shit relationship for so many years just because i was crazy for that person , i did manage to keep him in my life for so ling but never truly happy actually this became an abusive relationship) there are other million ppl that for sure want you more than you ever think
Me tooo 😢😢😢
My name is Joan
Hi Alex 🙂 Merci beaucoup for all the great advice you give us!! My mom told me years ago that girls don't chase boys and I still believe it's true. No matter what age we are, men pursue, women set the pace. Love you mon brére! Stay cool 😊
I really love your energy and enthusiasm when you talk about exactly what I needed to hear. Sometimes we can't help liking someone even though we know very well that person isn't right for us.
That's true.. but then its not fulfilling to us
After 3 weeks ignoring me I will leave him definitely haha
Same here.. I m at day 17. Few more days and also, I have been observing he is pursuing other girls, so well yeah.. his test is on.
exactly 😇
WE HAVE TO LOVE OURSELVES, MEN CAN READ THE VIBES FROM THERE PARTNER WHEN SHE DOESNT HAVE SELF CONFIDENCE OR DOESNT LIKE HERSELF!!
Can't be nice to men anymore. The level of Immaturity is unreal. I refuse to teach someone else's Son how to treat me. They either have it or they don't. No 3 strikes any longer. DO YOU LADIES! Stop settling for less just to be in a relationship. You deserve the Best!
Never text a man too much. Difference between lover & friend....
Fact
Thank you Alex ! Very educational. Love you, love your work
Thanks a million
Guys are crazy sometimes the more you're pulling away from them they're chasing you 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are amazing Alex..I will pray to God to bless you and always keep you happy and healthy
Girls !!! Remember You’re the price!!! 👑
Thanks Alex for this Video !!!
Always!
BUT, WHEN THE PERSON IS DONE WITH YOU IN THEIR HEART. THEY'RE DONE!
Know this...if he does not pursue...he did not care in the first place... And there are just way too many wonderful things to go see without waiting on them.
I absolutely love how passionate you are about your work, I listen to you a while ago but I think I was not in the correct relationship and I was also doing a lot of things wrong that ended up really in a negative place but this time around I want to listen and really pick apart what you were saying to reattract the man that I really want. Once again thank you for all the work that you do it’s so refreshing to see someone so passionate about helping women
I love the way you explain every point, it’s very clear
Happy to hear that!
USA (Just found you and will continue to watch and yes, I have put your advice to actual use! In fact I have watched a few of your videos and your advice has already worked for me! I forced myself to NOT call him and he’s calling me now! Thank you and G-d bless you!!!)
I DONT MEAN ANY DISRESPECT.. I JUST SO APPRECIATE YOUR HELP!!
Very good advice Alex...Meci. South Africa...
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
Tnx a lot Alex.. I just did what you said.. I turned off my fon for 3 days..and u know what??? When I opened my fon.. He was shouting at me... Asking me where I have been?? Why did I turned off my fon?? Omg I was like in cloud 9 that moment... Hahaa.. Thnk u so much coach Alex..
Alex you are so wonderful person to know Always watching your video from Png ❤❤
Thank you so much for watching!
Playfulness is vital to a good relationship
Yeah. I didn't know to do that with my previous dater. Was too serious/anxious that it drove him away to other available women cause I came out of a previous 25 yr abusive toxic relationship & didn't n know any better. Oh well..
Like the advice
You're always welcome Christiana!
Watching from Sierra Leone, West Africa love you Alex
Appreciate you being here!
ALEX I AM EXHAUSTED BUT WHEN I OPEN THE COMPUTER AND SEE YOUR VIDEO LISTEN TO U U ARE SUCH A GREAT ENERGY AND MAKE ME SMILE BESIDE U DO FIVE GOOD ADVICES MERCI BISES
I'm always happy to help, Elizabeth!
Affirmations: the word for to repeat the positive empowering statements. ❤️
I love your advice. God bless you with more wisdom and knowledge
YOU ARE GREAT AT WHAT YOU DO ALEX .HELPING US WOMEN UNDERSTAND THE MISTAKES THAT WE ARE MAKING THANKS SOO MUCH ALEX YOU ARE THE BEST.😘
You're always welcome Loretta!
Yes i feel the same if i dnr communicate i may loose...
I thank you so much. After listening to your video I was able to move
Thank you so much for watching! I'm so happy my videos were able to help you move on :-))
Happy with your life and tell him you went to an exciting place
This is exactly what I needed to hear
This hit home & is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for making this video
How many are here after being ghosted😂🤣? This men will kill me😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
Happened 2 times to me, never again will I do online dating especially long distance.
Horrible experience.
@@fiae2897 Don't do long distance ever UNLESS he is super rich
Same with me. 2 men within a month time span. This ghosting thing is really getting me in my feels. Not sure I want to date any time soon. But so glad to know I am not alone in being ghosted. It hurts🤕
It's gave a headache tho😕
Always a pleasure to hear your advices, in French or in English :)
Alex !!! Merci❤ beacoup for such valuables and gems❤❤
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support!
Thank you so much Alex, you are changing my love life.....
You are amazing! I wish you were my best friend!
It’s not a difficult..... it’s very simple to keep distance..... I’m always...... it’s very true to keep distance ......
Your advise is work ... Thank you Alex 👍😀
You're so welcome.
Thanks Alex! This is the best video of yours!!
I love a French man at my Cafe ....thank God I found your video!! 😆💖
Liza x
Merci pour tout les conseilles 🙏🏻
Thanks Mr Alex your advices have already change my life style and my relationship status trust me🤗Awesome thanks again to you sir🙏🤗😍😄😄👍👍
Love ❤️ & Big support from Singapore 🇸🇬
Alex you sounding sooooo Cuuuuuteeeee in the video. I enjoyed it thoroughly!!!!
Oh thank you!
Hi Alex you are so good at this!
Thank you Mary!
I am 100 % positive u made me like this thanks im from Sri Lanka
All the best
Thanks you very much I really follow your advice and I’m seeing the result ❤
Damn Yu a so 🔥Alex! Yu give me a life line to back to my game again!!!! Yu a so much help every time I’m watch your live! Its hit me to the point that ive been waiting for!!! Thank yu thank!!! ❤️❤️kingdom from Tongan🇹🇴🇹🇴Island 🌺
I can’t stop loving watching your show! Yu a alsome👍only ive start watch your show almost two weeks now an yu wer’e burn it🔥🔥❤️❤️it’s a good lesson to us women how valuable we a!
Hi Alex it’s Pina from Canada your great !!!!
Hi Alex love everything you say and do
For me, ( that can't speak english so good...) Alex converation even easier than an American or Britshman. I understand what he talked about without text....
For the beggining i came to this channel coz i was looking for the solution of ,"his suddently quiet" but.... now... i dont care at all.... Now i focuss to learn English and how to understand by listenning of Alex talks...
Hello Alex, I watched a few of your videos to see WHAT it was I was doing right....so even though I REALLY do not need your help, you are handsome and fun to watch and validate my methods. Thank you. I'm old ish 60 (young at heart) So I have lived and learned. Everyone should communicate openly and honestly and that will create harmonious relationship built on trust and respect.💖💖💖⭐Love and Light
Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Alex. I like hear your love advice TV. Me from Ethiopia
Awesome
Thank you so much for watching Nina!
Thank you
Allowing into the mind of men to treat and protect the heart of us beautiful and worthy of love at the highest value.
Our value is priceless, our Worth cost a life. Jesus.
Listening from Palm Beach Florida
Thanks for listening
Love your positivity and sweetness, thank you for your advice ❤️🙏🏼
Thank you so much for your support!
Thank you so much
Thanks for the updates 🤗
Awesome video, will definitely be taking this advice :)
Yay! Thank you!
Hello Alex! Very informative. Thanks a million
Love your work, love you
My pleasure!
Such great answers.. thank you...
Glad you enjoyed it!
I went out alone without telling him and i return to house and see waiting for me, when am in the house he won't come around but when he hear I went out he will be jealous and keep on calling me where are u baby.
Wow
Good morning! Thank you so much for your nice advice Alex . . . God bless
Good morning!
*Use these insights as a guide, but ultimately, focus on building a connection that aligns with your own values and brings genuine happiness and fulfillment to both partners. Prioritize nurturing the emotional bond and showing genuine care and interest in each other's lives.*
I love you Alex
Yes im doing your advise now..hope it will work..that he will miss me every seconds of his life..im from the phillippines..
Thank you for being here!
Your program always so intresting..
I reached him out after 4 weeks of no contact and he already has started to date someone else doesn’t work in anyone but the problem is that I’m really heart because we live in same building
Hi Alex. That's what I'm doing now. Being distance
Alex I always love your content. It’s hard to find creative ways to sell my life during covid with the long distance ex I have been trying to re attract! I bought myself a fun car and took a road trip to a place he told me about. He called a few weeks later and I told him about it. He said wow you are really re inventing yourself! Then he disappeared for three weeks. I waited and contacted him on Election Day. He replied right away but I have not heard from him since. He’s not calling as much and I think it’s because last time he called I suggested we have a fun phone date. I guess it was leading.
Please update me Mimi, cos I'm in a similar situation. Did you reach out again, or did he? What happened
When a guy is off with you he's on somewhere else
Your the sweetest 💗I like ur voice n the way u explain the facts
Hi Alex, I missed your live broadcast but I still enjoyed watching it now. Your advice is always on point and straight forward. I have a topic suggestion for your next live, please talk about when you are too emotionally attached to a guy/woman to the point it's affecting your daily life and the relationship, and how to deal with it in a positive way.
Thank you 🖤
Thank you for your support and suggestion!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert You are welcome, and thank you for being such a beautiful, and caring soul!
Thank you so much Alex.. I really love your videos and advice.. I've learn a lot from you. It helps me to regain my confidence. More videos to come. God Bless you and to your program.
You're so welcome!
Love you Alex. Thank you. This information is very helpful
You're so welcome!
Please make another session as well
Thank you for your support!
I like the way you say boolsheit. Such a great coach!
I appreciate that!
❤️👍🏼😂
Alex thank you Alex it does work
I'm so glad to hear this, have a blessed day!
I agree with u Alex..
Salam from Indonesia 🙋
Thank you for being here.
My love life is changing since I meet this channel.💓❤️❤️❤️💓
Liked your vlogs and advices ...Thanks for sharing ... Watching from Bahrain ...
Thank you so much 🙂
Watching this right now as I am heartbroken. I found out he was lying to me. He is the type of guy that if you lied to him even the smallest lie in the world he will be mad at you like crazy and use his ethics and culture against you to make his point. He will make you feel that you've done something so wrong that he will humiliate and step on you over and over and use that one mistake of yours everytime we have an argument.
I once lied to him about deleting a blurred photo in his phone. I was actually playing around that time. I said no I did not delete it, then I was laughing. This is the first time we met. He came to my country to visit me. And he got so mad that he wants to send me home. Shouting and just getting really pissed off. I didn't realise that he will be mad for such a small playful lie. After that he told me that he doesn't want me to lie even the whitest lie ever. And I found out tonight that he lied to me bigtime. It wasn't even the lie it's that feeling where you felt so betrayed and that he doesn't care about your feelings or thought. He asked me can I messaged this person? I said I prefer that you just don't because you know what that person has done to me and our relationship. And ge said okay I won't messaged then. But then he messaged this someone and he lied to me about it eventhough he knows that that person almost ruin our relationship. He chose to hurt my feelings than prove to me that my request of not being in contact with that person is more valuable and important. I feel so heartbroken knowing that the person you loved and cared so much has lied to you and chose to hurt me than sparing my feelings and think about our relationship. Again I felt like an option. I felt like my feelings doesn't matter and when I confronted him he tried to blame it on me like it was my fault he lied. He said if you just let me message this person I do not have to lie to you. But the thing is this person hurt me and almost ruin our relationship. I have the right to protect our relationship and if me feelings truly matters and he cared he doesn't even have to ask me permission. He should have known it wasn't a good idea that it was disrpectful for me. And I will feel hurt by even him having that thoughts in his mind.
He just finished his chemotherapy and now he is well, I was there for him althrought out. I was away from my family for a year living in this foreign country to take care of him and be there for him through his tough times and yet this is what I get from all of that. His family left him while he was doing his chemotherapy because his split up with his ex wife didn't really went well. I was the only one who was there for him.
He deleted his Facebook messenger and when I asked him to open it up I saw all this messages from different girls. And that person who hurt me messaged him as well. When I ask if I can see the message he refused and snatch his phone away and deleted the messages...
Who wouldn't feel hurt ? Who wouldn't doubt ? Was i wrong for feeling this way ?? Don't I have the right to be hurt after what I saw ???
This is our always issue and he refuse to not be in contact with his ex and girls he met on the dating site. Saying were just friends. He keeps throwing on the side make me feel that I dont matter to him. That even I cried a river he won't care. He always just let me comfort myself after a fight. Even it was his fault. He would accuse me of his doings.
No woman deserves that. If you are not happy tell her. Hurt her with the truth and do not comfort her with a lie. Do not make her feel like she's worthless. No one deserve this pain. I been with the same kind of relationship twice. This one's worst. There much more awful things he has done to me but I stayed with him because I loved him and I care for him. I do not want him to be alone. I set my own feelings aside for our relationship because that's how much I cherish it. I cried forgave him for all the emotional abuse he has done to me and yet it wasn't enough.
Maybe I gave it all that nothings left for me anymore same as my past relationship. Was engaged. He cheated so many times I took him back hoping he will change but eventhough we are engaged he still cheated and that was the end of us. I have trust issues and I am very insecure. I feel like I am not good enough that eventhough I give my all no man will appreciate me for who I am. I think I am too weak and I love too much. I keep forgetting about myself. He knew my past. I was very vulnerable to him. I told him everything. And he promised not to hurt me and he will love the way I deserved to be loved.
For the second time I am heartbroken again. And to feel betrayed is the worst thing and I said to myself that it's enough one lie is enough. I do not have to go through the same shit again. I have to stop forgiving people who doesn't deserve it. I have to stop giving chances. I have to stop chasing love. I need to be patient and wait for the right person. I want to be loved. I deserve to be loved. I am not a bad person. I care about people and I may not be perfect but I always give my all to the man I love just because I don't want to regret. I want him to feel so loved and accepted. My sacrifice in this relationship is very unimaginable and in the end he betrayed me. He chose someone's feelings over mine. I had enough of men who takes women for granted. No woman is good to a man who never get satisfied of what he has. The more you love they pull away ... you don't show too much love they pull away as well and cheat. I am so broken-hearted and alone. No family no friends. Love is really testing me. I hope that I can get through this again and stand up again, be happy and be loved just the way I always wished. I hope someday I can smile again with a joy in my heart not worrying of it being broken again.
Thanks for the video. For now nothing makes sense to me. I am too broken. I feel like I am floating in the air and my heart is being squeezed.
I know I'm not only only person experiencing this pain right now. I hope we all heal and be happy again. Let's be strong and try our best to live our life to the fullest.
Girl it seems you are a co-dependant and attract narcistic men. The guy you describe sure sounds like one! If you are willing to look for information about narcisstic abuse and codependancy please I suggest you look up Dr Ramani in youtube. She is an expert on this subject. But you have to be honest with yourself and willing to change and face your own behaviour. If YOU change and start loving yourself the men you attract change to. I wish you all the best!
This person you are describing is a narcissist. Read as much as you can about it a run far away from this guy
He sounds like a psycho. He’s so mad at you for a little white lie, and that’s him projecting onto you. His entire life is probably a lie. Run.
He is a narcist and manipulator. Be happy you are away from him ! Work on your self love girl and your value. Don’t ever allow a man treat you like this, you deserve a good man not a shit like him !!! Keep working on yourself and self love. ❤❤❤
Your not only handsome guy your also amazing coach😍💯
Amazing Video!! Thank you
Thank you too!
Hello from Guyana
Merci boucoup!
Alex you are amazing thanks for your wisdom grace from zambia
Thank you so much Grace!
Thank u so much alex... u wake me up from my nightmare(lovelife)
Good morning you thanks you for teaching us I have learned alot from you.
Glad to hear that
Hey ALEX am new here from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 I like your video so much god bless you for your advice
Awesome! Thank you!
I'm watching from Uganda thanks for making my evening
Hi I'm from Trinidad and l always take your advice thank you
You are so welcome
keep maintaining health..
You too!
Thanks Alex
Thank you for your support!