Yog Koj Ntxov Hlub Kuv Tseem Kuv Twb Tsis Nrauj. 7/27/23
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Dev liam ces yog dev liam.
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Koj niam pog lawv tsev hmoob ko ntsej muag tuab thiam lis nplua koj xwb os lwm tsev hmoob tsi ua lis kos
Nej puas paub tias hmoob cai ces yog dev npua cai xwb na tsis muaj qab haus lis os
😭😭😭😭 Los Los kua muag li od me koj niam aw….
I'm glad she was able to turn her life around. However, let us not champion these stories. But let us teach and encourage healthy practices before marriage. Teach our daughters what to look for in marriage candidate(s) and our sons proper man/husband/father etiquette. Their story was on shaky grounds from the start. And she was in fantasy land crying to be with him before marriage. Props to the sister for her will to succeed but it could have been avoided from the beginning.
Mee koj ntxim hlub tiag li yuav hlub yuav hlub tsis dhuav noj tsis nntxaus li. Koij ma
Cov tsa nees ko twb tuag yuav tag lawm. Peb cov hluas no los coj ces yuav coj txawv lawm.
So proud of you! You had a bitter life with that heartless man, but so happy your life is happier now! Live a good life...
Im proud of you for standing up for yourself and your son. He doesn't deserve you. I don't like Hmong culture way of handling marriage issues. Its ok for him to have niam yau and he doesn't have to take responsibility for you and the family, but if you have a bf, it's suddenly all your fault and you have to take responsibility. This is how Hmong culture encourages Hmong men to have more rights and more egoes. I'm glad you teach him a lesson that you will never accept those behaviors.
As a husband I honestly dislike the Hmong system. It’s does not provide justice to majority of the women.
Hnubno peb nyob muaj nom muaj tswv es uacas nej pheej yuav hais ntawm hmoob ua tus dabtsi? Hahahaha
Yes, Yog Tus Lawm Tsis Hlub Mas Ua Neeg Tu2 Siab Os!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
All the Hmong women that have bad married should be using this lady story for example and leaned.
Txiv dev Mas tsis sawv zoo thaum yus hlub tsis hlub thaum yus tsis aus Mas ua dev leg xwb.
Thank you for sharing your life story ; thanks God , you are finally free from the cages….
You go girl!! So proud of you!! Have a happy life. ❤❤
"thov txim yav tas los kuv yuam kev", what an excuse. Intentional act is never a mistake. Mistake is when you don't plan, don't know, don't intend to do but it accidentally happened. This guy intended to screw around, abandon this lady, and married another wife. How can that be a mistake "yuam kev". Lady, this guy cried not because he loved you. Faked cry can be so believable. Any liar can cry and beg for forgiveness. Never believe the cry and beg of a an evil person.
tu me ntxhai aw txoj cai ko nw tsi yog hmoob txoj cái os yog koj cov niag neej tsa npua ruam noj xua txoj cai xwb os hmoob txoj cai tiag2 tsi coj li ko lawv hai tia koj tham hlua nraug es lawv muab koj nplua lo kho neej tsa thiab kho kwv tij no es lawv pua muab tau tu hlua nraug koj tham ntawd maj koj cov niag neej tsa ruam noj quav ko thiaj li cia koj niag txiv dev ntawd cov niag kwv tij nplua koj xwb os ! cov niam txiv neej liam li koj niag qub txiv dev ntawd ce ua li koj ua ko rau xwb thiaj yog hauj lwm xwb ntag qhov nw tig lo khuv xim koj ce twb yog koj kawm ntawv tag koj tau hauj lawm zoo nw paub tia nw rov lo yuav ce nw yuav tau nyiaj siv thiab nw yuav tau nqaij tau mov qab2 lo tawg plab tsau no es thiab ủa txuj quaj nw cov niag kua muag cuav thiaj lo li ko xwb mua koj txiav txim siab yog lawm nrog koj zoo siab rau koj lub neej tshiab 👍👍👍👍👍
Koj hais yog lawm Hmoob Ruam22 Hmoob txoj Cai ces yog Dev Npua Cai xwb oS.
Ho ! Zaj dabneeg no tusiab kawg thaum pib tabsis thaum kawg kuj rog koj zoo siab heev. Sibsib hlub nawb mog. Niam no ces koj niag qub txiv twb yog homless lawm os.
Me niam hluas kuv twb nias lub tswb rau koj lwm es thov koj pab nias raukuv thiab nawb
You finished school and he saw his big fish swimming away, so hes crying, that’s it.
In the Hmong community, you can have the purest heart and tried for years and sacrifice your feelings to try to make it work and his family will never see it. Like they can’t just wait for the nyab to choose herself to pin their sons fault on the nyab. So glad she got out!
Yep!! If you don’t appreciate what you have. When they change their mind. There’s no turning back.
Nws khuv xim koj Daimler degree
Sister, if your story is true, you should not have to pay your in - laws, kwv tij and neej tsa to get divorced. Just walk out. You don’t owe these people anything!
Kwv tij txoj kev ntshaws nyiaj neejtsa txoj kev tsav hwjchim yog kev cai ruam xwb tsi muaj qabhau dabtsi li vim yog kevcai quab yuam xwb yuav tsum tau hloov nawb kwvtij hmoob.
So sorry for your suffocating life. So happy that our Hmong ladies start fighting the animal rules. In this country we have good laws. Do not compromise to our tradition. It doesn't work. let's the laws fix our cultures. So our Hmong ladies can live a happy life.
Wow txaus tu siab kawg os txiv neej siab phem na….
Your ex-husband is an indecisive child. He only stops you because you have some education degrees and better than his 2nd wife. His family is wrong to ask for a refund, and so is yours. Glad you found love greater and moved on. You deserve better!!
Don't lump the rest of us in with your ex b/c you chose to be in an abusive relationship
There’s no justice in the Hmong system. Don’t fall for it!
Your ex husband could have gone to jail because you were under age and he was 24. Txiv neej siab phem li Koj niag txiv no nyuam qhuav ntxim tsis tau zog noj. Qhov zoo ces twb vim muaj nws tsim koj thiab Koj thiaj tu siab raws koj txoj kev npau suav mus kawm college. Yog nws hlub koj heev ntshe Koj ib sij ib tug me nyuam Koj twb tsis xaiv kev kawm. Be happy for what you e accomplished. I’m very proud of you.
Yes, you did a good job very good. Hmong peoples need to learn about this story, Hmong law do not use any more.
IHMOGOB PHALAVej
Never be reborn as a Hmong woman.
Kv nrog kj zoo siab vim kj mus tau lub neej tshiab lawm o
Zoo li koj kos ces mu rau dev dub aim qhov quav xwb ma lov yog thuam hmoob npaum kos na lov
Me ntxhais aw twb kawm ntawv siab2 li koj es txhob mus hais ntawm hmoob os hmoob ces hais kom lawv zoo xwb yog tsis sib haum sib yuav tsis tau lawm ces mus rau txoj cai Nyob teb chaws no xwb koj thiaj tsis poob nyiaj rau cov ntsej muag ntshaw nyiaj naw thiab thiaj ncaj rau peb cov poj niam ua lawv tsis hlub na!
He and his parents just wants that Masters degree money. Lol. Good for u sis! Came up from a horrible situation.
Nws quaj vim nws yuav plam koj mus xwb, tus muam yeej ua tsis raws kev cai Hmoob lawm, ua neej nyob yuav tsum tuav cai mas, koj twb tsis tuav cai koj thiaj tau kho lawv, dhau ntawd koj tig rov los rhuav Hmoob kab lig kev cai, vim koj nyob mekas koj thiaj ua tau xwb, yog koj nyob peb teb chaws koj yuav raug coj mus kawm nawb.
He only wants u now bc you're successful and have money, not bc he loves u. He knows if he chooses u, he will be financially better off than with his 2nd wife. I'm glad u didn't fall for his lies again.
WOW! I'm so proud of you for making the sacrifice to stay when you needed to & pursued your education! You're an amazing person!
I agree with you that Hmong's stupid rule of you paying to save their face is a bunch of BS! You're a good woman to pay them off, I would have resort to the law.
I agreed with you especially the 2nd part of your comments.
Hmoob kev cai, yog kev cai ruam xwb na. Yeej Tsis muaj leej yuam tau koj ib sim neej na. Tus yuam tau koj ces yog tu taw phom ntshis rau koj xwb na.
Zaj no tu siab tiag tiag li
Hmoob lub siab yeej tsi ncaj ncees os. Zoo qhov Vajtswv coj peb tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaw no. Peb thiaj dim Hmoob txoj niag kev caj tsuj pojniam lawm..
Nej muaj hmoo ces ces nej mus nyob rau lub teb chaw zoo vaj huam sib luag khwv Tau sib nrawg ho peb cov poj niam nyob sab teb chaw no ces tseem raug tsuj caij coob kawg li os
Hmoob li cai ces yog dev npua cai xwb mas xav hais li cas ces los hais xav ua li cas los ua ib leeg hais ib zag ib tug hais ib zaj.
Great story!!!
Hmongs rules is just a mess up injustice rules just for men made up by men.
You did good I am so proud of you
Koj ua Yog dhau lawm. Be strong
Omg hmong law gives me a headache. Smh
Me niam hluas aw yus hmoov phem2 ces yus thiaj raug neeg tsim txom os koj thiab kuv wb rau ib sab khau xwb os thaum kuv quaj txaus kua muag tu tsis los lawm ces kawg yus ua tus nrauj nws li ko xwb tiag zoo siab rau koj lub neej tshiab os
No need to deal with Hmong people. Divorce him and his family and move on to find someone who will love you…glade that you did. I support your decision and lecturing the 2 clans what they said to you, sister. Bad culture practices 👎! Wish you the best…!
He crying because he gonna lose a good wife with high education plus all those $$$$😂😂😂
Zoo siab os niam laus. I’m so happy for u for standing up for urself. Nobody knows the pain expect for u. So glad for u.
Peb hmoob ..mas ua tsis fares..rau peb cov ua ntxhais li o
Lawv niag tub twb tsis yuav yus es tseem them nqi tshoob rov qab rau lawv ua dab tsi .
niam laus kuv mloog kj cov dab neeg thov kuv quaj quaj li xwb es pua kam tham kuv neej rau kuv mloog thiab o
What NOT corrupt about Hmong kev cai? You’re expecting justice and rightnesses from a group that allowed him to have two wives? Everyone all of a sudden have something to say when they can get some money lol
Wow!!! What a sad 11 years life with your ex. But happy for you found a happiness life.
Hmong law will never work for women because it’s kwv Tig (men) and neej Cha (men). Men support men. In situations like this I wish there were “Women representation” but instead help give fair trial for women, wives are afraid to talk because wives bring shame to our husband or neej Cha. So sad….😢
This is the 21st century, we go to the courts and use American Law. You only endure this type of abuse if you are very Hmong. When we women mention law enforcement, and threaten kwv tij and neej tsa with the law of the U.S, they will let go of the harassment of belittling you into staying in that abusive marriage.
Amen! Very well said
You are an amazing woman, your husband deserves every thing he gets. Be happy now.
ตอนอยู่ไม่เห็นค่า พอไปแล้วดันเห็นว่ามีค่า ผช.เห็นแก่ตัวจริงๆไม่เคยรักใครนอกจากตัวมันเอง
I'm so glad you found the strength to leave that loveless marriage and found happiness.
You put yourself in that situation
Cov kwv tij quav dev xwb tsis tas mloog2 li os ua li yus ua tau xwb txhob kk lawv lawv tsis yog tus khwv yus noj tsis tau k kiag
👍👍👍👍👍zoo heev li.
Your ex-husband is harassing you. Stay away from him as far as you can.
Wow . good story
Koj niag txiv qub ces ua li tej laus hais os suav cwj ntas ob tog plam li tej lau nej hniaj hais dab neeg ntag laub yom nyuam qhuav cua kom nws Txhob muaj ib lub neej kom tag tiam no mas
WOW! This is karma for real table does turn around.
You should of said your leaving to love yourself not to find someone to love you. But I’m so proud of you for finally leaving him and love yourself.
So happy for you sister, your ex doesn't deserve you
👍👍🌹🌷
Tau mloog thib ib lawm lau cov phooj ywg aw.
Koj tau ib qho khoom plig los ntawm UA-cam.
Usually and normally, in our Hmong culture only the person at fault would pay something to settle a problem. The fact that both your husband's clan and your clan agreed for you to pay was something. Sounds like there was something hidden on your part - I'm not saying you are totally at fault but it's more like "zoo sib xws". You paid because you wanted to get out and probably not enough cause for you to leave. In real life if we are totally innocent we and our clan wouldn't settle for what is not right.
Good job sister
Your in law know they going to loose someone like you. So they have to put a act to see if you can come back.
There is no justice for Hmong women because Hmong people function in a patriarchal culture that gives Hmong men to the power to abuse women physically, emotionally or psychologically. I am so proud of this sister for advocating for her happiness and needs. She deserved someone who truly loves her. It was his loss for not being a responsible man/husband.
Definitely agree 100%
Example of NAS
Bravo !!!!!
Sister, I’m so proud of you. I’m glad you moved on. Have a happy life!
Tus txivneej ko siab phem limhiam dhau es npam nws kom txhob tau zoo neej xwb. Yog nws tsis hloov ces thaum tuag los tsis muaj pojniam ua ntees.
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Sister you doing good job. But you let the old g push you to the edge. Their is not law you have to reimbursement to your mother and father inlaw , that bushey stupidly forces you.
Mloog tib ob lawm o
Wow! Absolutely satisfying story to listen to. It's worth every minute of it. So proud of you, sister! I wish every miserable marriage out there has a happy ending like yours!
Klk l , k.
Glad you stand-up for yourself😂😂😂😂
You go girl!!! I'm proud of you sister
Ib peb yog kuv nawb
🎉nrog koj tusiab kawg uas koj yuav tau ib tug txiv dev txiv aub neeg siab tsiaj xwb es ntshe koj yog neeg npam pob kavtsij nrauj kiag xwb mas we are in the usa not in laos anymore girl.
Because you have a degree that’s why he wants you to stay tuvivncaus….cold heart man….so proud of you..Hmong people is all about faces
Wow… he has a tremendous regret to where he can’t function anymore! I actually feel sorry for your ex after you finally left him. Love u to pieces! When his family made you pay them for wanting a divorce, look at it this way, you “actually” paid to send/returned him bc he was no good to you!😂
Best advice to everyone is, if your marriage isn't working and you have tried and given your all into it, it's time to walk away from it. Especially if it's toxic and full of abuse. Doesn't matter if you have children or not. Remember, your life doesn't end there. Your self-worth is more than that. Love yourself, respect yourself.
Well said.
Your neejtsa are a bunch of wimps! Why should you reimburse the kwvtij anything?! It was their son's cruel, selfish actions that broke your heart which led you to divorce him! If anything, the kwvtij should be the ones apologizing for their son's actions! You should have stood your ground and if the kwvtij refused to back down, then tell them that you are going to the American justice system to get your justice. Hmong og's are afraid of the real law because they know they are in the wrong more times than not. What's the point of getting yourself educated if you won't defend yourself and just give in to these og's?! Remember, you live in America, not Laos where the Hmong women have very few rights.
I have mixed feelings about this story: I feel sad for you that you had to suffer such a loser of a husband, BUT you willingly put yourself into this situation (he admitted even before the marriage that he will marry a niamyau, but you didn't care as long as you got to marry him). You willingly stayed for years despite knowing that he didn't love you since he has his niamyau. When you did decide it's time to drop this piece of garbage from your life, you didn't even have the guts to divorce him without being forced to pay money to his relatives. You can be praised for finally leaving a loser husband, but at the same time you are nobody's role model for letting a loser man and his unfair relatives walk all over you.
What a waste of 10 years of your life to live with a husband that holds someone else in their bed every night, I feel so bad for you. It must of been so lonely and sad. I’m glad you have moved on and found someone who deserves your love.
Oh oh lol. . .. another bachelor degree story 😂😂
It's either a Doctor or Masters Degree story. Everyone of these stories. 😂😂😂.
@bluewhisper5008 I know right, ever since last year 😆 and they always end up divorced or cheating..
The system is rigged, and that's messed up. Glad you moved on to live for yourself.