Finding True Love After Divorce

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  • Опубліковано 14 тра 2013
  • Ann Mainse speaks with Michelle Borquez about how she found freedom and hope after divorce. Michelle Borquez-Television Host, Author, Speaker, and President of GODcrazyFREEDOM www.Godcrazy.org created an 8-session Christian divorce recovery DVD series titled Live Again. For more information on Live Again, visit www.liveagaindvd.com

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  • @krdelgado6
    @krdelgado6 5 років тому +29

    God brought me to this video. I am 1 year and 8 months separated and Finalizing divorce. My dperession and anxiety is so bad now that my ex husband is dating. I pray for a divine love to come into my life as I do my part to work on my soul. Prayers to all broken people....

  • @robinburt861
    @robinburt861 5 років тому +9

    What a great testimony.God is indeed faithful.I'm on my third year of being divorce and the Lord do heal the broken hearted and bind up their wounds.Thank you Jesus.!#ourhope

  • @lvncsr6166
    @lvncsr6166 6 років тому +32

    She is talking to me. I am divorced 17 months now. We were married 26 years. He was abusive and controlling and is NPD. I am totally dependent on Jesus and He has been with me every step of the way. I know it will continue to get better for me and I am believing Him for His Divine selection for me. I pray for all of the women who have been hurt by divorce, adultery and abuse.

    • @MyJourneyonHCG
      @MyJourneyonHCG 6 років тому +1

      LVNCSR how are you coping with things? I've been through similar...

    • @lvncsr6166
      @lvncsr6166 6 років тому +2

      Hello, Bella. I am coping by accepting the fact that he married the woman he was having the affair with. I had to accept the fact that when he married her, he was saying he no longer wanted to work on our marriage. I started out by saying "I forgive them" because I was supposed to but now I can say it and mean it.

    • @kimberlybellefontaine1215
      @kimberlybellefontaine1215 6 років тому

      LVNCSR wow. Same here. Married 21 years now. He’s been controlling and abusive and NPD the whole time. This is the hardest thing I never wanted to go through..

    • @empowermentthroughtrials6673
      @empowermentthroughtrials6673 5 років тому

      Thank you for saying that. I am currently going through a divorce. I am sharing my story on my youtube channel. Go check it out as I share empowering messages to those who are also going through or who have gone through a christian divorce.

  • @oliviakuringi5114
    @oliviakuringi5114 9 місяців тому

    I am totally blessed by your testimony, it gives me hope and Im so blessed by your encouragement. I have been in the same situation for almost 2 years now and I am grateful I saw this video, trusting in God as my husband and father to my children, and this video gives me hope that there is love and happiness after a broken marriage. Thank you.

  • @CDNPorvinha
    @CDNPorvinha 6 років тому +10

    Separated 3 yrs, finalizing divorce.... married who I thought was Christian and love of my life thru the yrs he became atheist NPD... the pain has been so great I don’t know if I can ever love or trust again

    • @lvncsr6166
      @lvncsr6166 6 років тому

      MommyOnaBudget, first start by forgiving and trusting yourself before even thinking of loving again. It will take some time before you can heal from the effects of the abuse suffered from a NPD. Allow yourself time to heal, cry, scream, etc. You need to allow God to help you heal and then look forward to loving again.

    • @empowermentthroughtrials6673
      @empowermentthroughtrials6673 5 років тому

      Thank you for saying that. I am currently going through a divorce. I am sharing my story on my youtube channel. Go check it out as I share empowering messages to those who are also going through or who have gone through a christian divorce.

  • @zuzilda
    @zuzilda 8 років тому

    I can very well relate to this story, thanks to God for this testimony!

  • @shakitamoorer2053
    @shakitamoorer2053 5 років тому

    Wow this is really touching especially as she describes the emotional impact of divorce

  • @keishalyon1410
    @keishalyon1410 8 років тому

    I needed this!

  • @becksdom1120
    @becksdom1120 Рік тому

    This is the best presentation. ❤

  • @HimynameisJermHicks
    @HimynameisJermHicks 6 років тому

    No way, how cool I've read her little books. There at my church. They are really powerful little books.

  • @keishalyon1410
    @keishalyon1410 8 років тому

    Thank you!

  • @joshledford7576
    @joshledford7576 2 роки тому

    Thank God for this video. Will I ever love again is the scariest though. Ya..ya we will lady's and gents.

  • @SuperAngje
    @SuperAngje 11 років тому +1

    hello everyone hope your listening to this amazing star PAUL BRANDT his album JUST AS I IM is HIT

  • @Maru-pf4ie
    @Maru-pf4ie Рік тому +1

    Lord, help me to start again, in Jesus name. Amen 🙏

  • @lumbinirenuka152
    @lumbinirenuka152 5 років тому +1

    Separated for 3 months now. I thought i was married to a true Christian and but he wasn't. He is my whole life and I have no idea how Iam going to survive.

    • @adfmo2195
      @adfmo2195 4 роки тому +1

      Lumbini Renuka going through something similar. Who did your situation turn out?

    • @m.s.4768
      @m.s.4768 4 роки тому

      We will survive and get through this!

    • @ellenm8285
      @ellenm8285 3 роки тому

      Am sorry for your pain

  • @loricrockett-owens5117
    @loricrockett-owens5117 6 років тому +2

    Going on six to seven years for me since my divorce and I could give a flip if I ever found true love again.. too much going on in my life.

    • @Betcaligarcia
      @Betcaligarcia 6 років тому +1

      Lori Owens watch now someone is going to walk into your life that’s how it happens it happened to my grandmother and her second married was long and the man she married was a sweet heart

    • @loricrockett-owens5117
      @loricrockett-owens5117 6 років тому

      RC CGC it might happen that way. That happened to your grandma? Awe. Well it might happen that way sweetie. I don't know. I guess I'm just not ready for it too happen. U have a wonderful evening. Thank u for the kind words. ❤️

    • @Betcaligarcia
      @Betcaligarcia 6 років тому +1

      Lori Owens yes, my grandmother was married for 32 years 1948 to 1980. She had four boys with my grandfather. A lot of drama during the marriage,abuse, illness, revolution, exile you name it ! my grandfather died in 80 and when my grandmother returned home from the funeral she asked her relatives to throw out her mattress ! That was the end of the end! Her life started new! She cut off her red auburn hair and dyed it blonde ! Traveled and went to parties ! She lost 50 pounds ! The transformation was intense ! Obviously he my grandfather was nothing but trouble ! BUT she stood by his side until the end she was faithful! So she was bored and still young she started working at a supermarket in the deli she loved to cook so she started preparing meals people loved it ! She was busy ! A man who was a political prisoner for 25 years in Cuba feel in love with my grandmother and her cooking and after a while they started dating and were married in 1988 ! 8 years after my grandfather death! He bought her a new house and took care of her and her mother! My great grandmother! He passed away in 2005 it was very sad !

    • @loricrockett-owens5117
      @loricrockett-owens5117 6 років тому +1

      RC CGC wow what a story. Your grandmother seems like a wonderful woman. They say u can find true love more than once. That is awesome. Sounds like her hair is gorgeous. Sorry about your grandfather though that is sad. I was married for quite awhile. Been divorced about six years. And right now I kinda feel zapped, so to speak about finding a new guy. I'm sure their are great guys out there. Know what I'm saying? And your right it could happen when I least expect. That the way it happened with my ex-husband. Lol
      That is an amazing story about your grandmother. Thank u for sharing your grandma, that is so kind. I dated one guy, after my divorce for like a week. And then it didn't last. Then another guy asked me out on a date like two years later. And I was like nope. Lol
      I'm just not ready to date right now. Know what I'm saying? Don't get me wrong it is great to have friends. Or become friends with a guy and then maybe date him.
      And it is difficult in society now. Everything was so different when my husband and I were dating and married. Compared to how dating is now. Back then, took the time to get to know each other now. It's way too fast paced.
      But u never know, just like u said sweetie. I might find someone when I least expect it. That is kind of u to say. And it does happen that way.
      Well I better go. U have a great day sweetie. Again thank u for sharing your grandma with me, she seems wonderful and such a strong woman. Have a great day❤️

    • @victoriaislands8146
      @victoriaislands8146 6 років тому

      RC CGC 💓

  • @missdvaoena9160
    @missdvaoena9160 6 років тому +3

    it hurts me so much that my husband want me to divorce..😭

    • @empowermentthroughtrials6673
      @empowermentthroughtrials6673 5 років тому

      I am currently going through a divorce. I am sharing my story on my youtube channel. Go check it out as I share empowering messages to those who are also going through or who have gone through a christian divorce.

    • @Given2Give
      @Given2Give 4 роки тому

      I hope you are doing well and things got better

  • @MrJrock2010
    @MrJrock2010 4 роки тому +3

    "10And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife." (1 Corinthians 7).

  • @davidalfonso3042
    @davidalfonso3042 8 місяців тому

    I love devorce women looking for true love

  • @jadec3453
    @jadec3453 2 роки тому

    Week two of separation and my heart is mulch! Our daughter is one in a day, our son 19, our marriage 10yra old in October and instead of cleave he has chosen tho leave the family god gave him and run home to mummy instead of work things out. She is a professional Divorcée with four covenants under her belts so not where I would hope my prodigal to be residing. I can tell of her sinful Influence just by his messages.

  • @weapons_ofmassdistraction_9550
    @weapons_ofmassdistraction_9550 3 роки тому

    1 Corinthians 7:11 (KJV) But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

  • @allenblack3785
    @allenblack3785 6 років тому

    Sympathy ? she can date anyone she wants to. I cant say that.

    • @marcellabouchum4912
      @marcellabouchum4912 6 років тому +1

      Allen Black
      I'm with you. My divorce was just final on May 7th of this year.
      I'm better but. I can NEVER go back to DATING and oh no NOT LOVE.
      I'm praying for just peace and joy again. Love ??? NOPE

  • @weapons_ofmassdistraction_9550
    @weapons_ofmassdistraction_9550 3 роки тому

    Matthew 5:32 (KJV) But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

  • @robertphelps573
    @robertphelps573 5 років тому +5

    Finding true love after divorce is adultery

    • @rebeccaoprea9917
      @rebeccaoprea9917 5 років тому

      What if the person didn’t want the divorce?

    • @zena9598
      @zena9598 5 років тому

      Is Divorce to great of a sin for Yeshua to forgive and erase?

    • @MrJrock2010
      @MrJrock2010 4 роки тому +1

      "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife." (1 Corinthians 7)

    • @MrJrock2010
      @MrJrock2010 4 роки тому

      @Tarzan. He means that remarriage after divorce is adultery.

    • @adfmo2195
      @adfmo2195 4 роки тому +8

      It’s not adultery if you have biblical grounds for divorce.