😢😢😢symo aki ni venye wengi wetu hatuongeangi aki juu yale wazazi wamepitishia watoto ni machungu..kama mimi juu ya malaana bila sababu juu tu ya chuki za wazazi nimeishi gulf 10yrs na kile naweza sema nime save it's only 1/8 acre of land pekee juu mahali naenda kuuliza job napitishiwa mpka kamshahara kandogo na niki save doo nikifungua job inaisha within a month 😢😢..but nashukuru MUNGU ati niko hai naniliabiwa na my mom ati juu alijaribu kutuua tukiwa wandogo sababu alituzalia nje ya ndoa ,juu hakuweza kutuua ati hatutawahi barikiwa..I thank GOD coz ni mimi nimewatoa kwa plot..kweli wale walio kataliwa ni wazazi wao MUNGU ndie uwachukua..MUNGU akupiganie dadangu..just remind GOD venye amesema ati watoto wale wamekataliwa ni wazazi wao yeye ndie baba yao..just remind him the way I did ..and now am succeeding in life
Let me tell you madam , ukichapa mtoto atakua na stress kama hiyo yako maishani mwake, so try your best ata ukikasirika aje, washana na mtoto na ujue ukimchapa ata shule hatashika masomo, tena atakua akikuogopa kama mama yake sana. Utamweka baridi na baadaye hutaweza kumtoa, kwa hivyo angalia hapo sana. Tena uombange sana, God is everything.
Inafaa aki watu wamsaidie aende akaombe baraka kwa mzazi huyo wake, na aende na watoto wake, akibarikiwa na watoi wake, aishie kabisa na asiwahi rudi nyuma kumtafuta babake tena. Sababu kinywa cha huyo mbaba ni chafu sana. Kuna MUNGU MBINGUNI, atamponya na atarudia maisha mazuri kwakuwa YESU KRISTO anaweza. Dada, jitie nguvu kwa jina la YESUS KRISTO. Nina imani utafauru
It’s sad but as children,we have to respect our parents,halafu watoi wengi huingililia mzazi mmoja wakati wazazi wamekosana.Mostly watoi huingililia baba which is very bad.
Uui may God bless my Children and their Children in whatever they do may God's favor be with them,may they never luck anything they desire in their hearts in Jesus mighty Name. You have all my blessings
Weee nilifanya wedding mimi huyo nikapata visa nikatorokea ulaya😂wacha my mum aende kwa mganga Chuka ati anifurute na kweli alinivuruta nikarundi kenya. Aliponiambia ati alienda kwa mganga nilisituka. Imagine nilikuwa nasikia kuwa crazy nikiwa Europe 😢nasikia sitaki kukaa Europe. Thanks GOD nilipocome kenya na akaniambia alikuwa mganga. Niliuliza my mum wataka nitoke Europe na hupendi kuniona karibu. My mum ana enjoy nikiteseka.i am European citizen away from her shit
Thank God kama uliweza kurudi ulaya.most of our narcissistic mum's who treat you as the black sheep of the family can't stand seeing you succeed because your success is your weapon against her mistreatments
@@lynnndama7535 wooi niko ulaya .that time nilipatia ksh10,000 pocket money nikirundi ulaya alichoma aliweka kwa moto akapika chai nayo.nikaulizia why is that wazee wakasema labda ni vile aliambiwa na mchawi .nilimwabia my husband Ali stop hiyo ksh10,000 alikuwa anamutumia every month.
I did exactly what symo is saying I packed up and moved away from home coz of my dad, it's been 3 Year's now am at peace sijakanyanga home, some parents are Soo Toxic, hakuna haja ya kukaa nao,cut communication. God is with you
Some of these fellas believe that a father is a god and an engine or oxygen that one can’t do without . I personally even my son didn’t name him after my father no matter the Gikuyu in me , untill this woman set herself free from the “ I must have a father bla bla bla “ she will never succeed in life .
@@ThankGod2024very much True,akitoa hio kitu in mind she,ll be able to manouver life ananibore saana akisema eti niûndû wa gitiiyo I inform him of my whereabouts angâ nîngathie andathime... That's crap. That man is a narcissist,who doesn't deserve to be anybody's father . Ûciô mûthûri gûtiri kirathimo eenakio giaku change your mind set and you'll be able to heal n move on... Narsaccists thrive on torturing people
@@margaretwairima3868 funny thing in her narrative is that she confess that her “ nightmare father “ even told her that he’s not god ( can’t even put God in this ) she and her mother are heavy I say , unlike many Gikuyu mamas that pack and leave to care for their children far from the destroyers useless men , these two seems magnetized to him till death do them apart 🤣My own father cried tears of joy when I surprised him this August I just appeared after more than 20years with a child whom he has never heard about … Was going to give him a last chance of making up , of cos not like he has to be involved about my life nope , just to be saying hello once in a blue moon .
so long as you no insult or disrespect him , no curse he can alter than can catch with me , all are null and void . This lady even going to the same joint with his father was another weird thing …..🙆🏽♀️
Woi,😢i Seriously don't understand what is wrong with some parents?? yaani mzazi anawish vitu mbaya kwa watoto wake🤔🤔, may the almighty God deal with such toxic parents nkt, unaharibia mtoto maisha kwa nn??,
We as children should make peace with our parents na tuwache kuside na mzazi mmoja wakati kuna issues coz watoi sometimes huside na mum na unapata hawampei baba heshima
Make peace with your dad humble b4 him coz you can't change him, try to visit him with ka something ata kaa ni mbuzi utanunua ama blanket tell him to bless you n your kids, I believe he will do so try to be his friend so that he can keep talking blessings into your life, let him believe he comes b4 your mum, then go for deliverance
I can't suggest aende Kwa pastor kwanza,,let her go to counselor then visit her dad through his parents,,at times pastors hubahatisha mambo and overlook important things,about her dad amtafutie kitu ambariki then amtoke kwa amani,,am currently undergoing the same,,its so trumatizing
True she needs therapy then a pastor like Harrison nganga he understands these things,he can even talk to the parents and seek reconciliation before praying for her.not the ones who rush to do deliverance
Nothing like that, curse from where, only God has power to make someone bless or curse,some parent before God are dead,they can't bless or curse,this girl is sick, depression is kicking in n that trauma since she was a kid
For my own views,Kuna kitu kunaendelea Kwa family from your father's side ata hiyo ulewevi ya baba yenu sio normal,how comes unaota ukiuliwa na cozu zako ,Kuna mtu aliendea baba yenu ndio mboma yenu iharibike
I really feel for you dear, but not everything requires only prayers, some are family issues,which requires you to go back home, seek answers from your elders.
Always respect your parents no matter what coz they hv power to curse but you hv none. B wise n know what they like n dislike n you'll never criss cross their line..
But if they happen to watch obvious they'll recognize her thru her voice n her body structure trust me. They must relate with her story. All the best 💯
She can blame her father but alcoholism it is brought by depression. Nani kitu iko family ya babake. Yes I had same problem when I was staying with my mother. But remember babake anasema kitu akiwa mlevi so he don't mean it.
Thats true, Vile nime sikisa story yake na ameongea kuhusu brother yake, she dreams with cousins and his brother too, maybe hayo family members wananjua.
@@beatricenjeri8502 I hope and wish asi hate babake but ajaribu akae far from him na ajaribu asiongee kwa phone na yy but now then amurushie kakitu kama 500 Bob ili roho yake ifurahi.asiwe na bad blood na babake. But akae far.
The symptoms this lady is describing are typical of someone who has depression and anxiety disorder. She needs psycho-therapy by a qualified counselor. Depression: - Feeling very sad or like there's no hope for a long time - Finding it hard to enjoy activities that one used to enjoy - Crying a lot - Eating too much or too little, or having trouble sleeping - Always feeling tired and low on energy - Finding it hard to focus or make decisions - Feeling guilty or not good enough - Being angry and irritable often - Thinking a lot about death or wanting to die Anxiety Disorders: - Worrying too much about everyday things - Feeling restless or always nervous and in extreme cases like exploding - Having trouble thinking clearly or focusing - Muscles feeling tight, shaking, or feeling shaky - Heart beating really fast or feeling like you can't breathe - Sweating a lot, feeling sick, or having stomach problems - Feeling dizzy or like the room is spinning - Avoiding places or situations that make you really scared or anxious
Here the father is not the problem,kwa hio family maybe someone doesn't want progress of this man,Also the girls faith is a bit low,as her father said he is not God,let her believe in God n stay away from dad n pray for him,
You are very strange !!! Do you have to have a father in order to succeed in life !? do you have to be in an abusive environment in the name of “ having a father figure “ how can you expect to move forward if you and your mother keep on going back to the toxic relationship !? the bible says that a curse without a cause is not effective it’s like a bird that got no tree to land / rest …. my father neglected us , we brought up by our mother , we chose to move on though we still lived in our father’s compound but we moved on , never informed him anything even marriages we don’t inform him . Just met him this year after more than 20 years of no communication . You have wasted many blessings thru that poor mentality of “ I have to inform my father “ if he has never altered a blessing unto your life , don’t expect it by trying to expose your success to him .
😢😢😢symo aki ni venye wengi wetu hatuongeangi aki juu yale wazazi wamepitishia watoto ni machungu..kama mimi juu ya malaana bila sababu juu tu ya chuki za wazazi nimeishi gulf 10yrs na kile naweza sema nime save it's only 1/8 acre of land pekee juu mahali naenda kuuliza job napitishiwa mpka kamshahara kandogo na niki save doo nikifungua job inaisha within a month 😢😢..but nashukuru MUNGU ati niko hai naniliabiwa na my mom ati juu alijaribu kutuua tukiwa wandogo sababu alituzalia nje ya ndoa ,juu hakuweza kutuua ati hatutawahi barikiwa..I thank GOD coz ni mimi nimewatoa kwa plot..kweli wale walio kataliwa ni wazazi wao MUNGU ndie uwachukua..MUNGU akupiganie dadangu..just remind GOD venye amesema ati watoto wale wamekataliwa ni wazazi wao yeye ndie baba yao..just remind him the way I did ..and now am succeeding in life
uka nguhikie kairitu nginya nii ndio guku weruine😢
Aki wazazi wengi wanakuaga toxic sana ni vile watu tuu huwa wananyamaza
Let me tell you madam , ukichapa mtoto atakua na stress kama hiyo yako maishani mwake, so try your best ata ukikasirika aje, washana na mtoto na ujue ukimchapa ata shule hatashika masomo, tena atakua akikuogopa kama mama yake sana. Utamweka baridi na baadaye hutaweza kumtoa, kwa hivyo angalia hapo sana. Tena uombange sana, God is everything.
Wah khai aky vitu watu wanapitia kwa ground🤔🤔but with God all things are possible 🙏
Ephesians 6:4
Fathers, do not exasperate your children ; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
Inafaa aki watu wamsaidie aende akaombe baraka kwa mzazi huyo wake, na aende na watoto wake, akibarikiwa na watoi wake, aishie kabisa na asiwahi rudi nyuma kumtafuta babake tena. Sababu kinywa cha huyo mbaba ni chafu sana. Kuna MUNGU MBINGUNI, atamponya na atarudia maisha mazuri kwakuwa YESU KRISTO anaweza. Dada, jitie nguvu kwa jina la YESUS KRISTO. Nina imani utafauru
It’s sad but as children,we have to respect our parents,halafu watoi wengi huingililia mzazi mmoja wakati wazazi wamekosana.Mostly watoi huingililia baba which is very bad.
May the lord vindicate you...
I noticed people in muranga tend to leave curses more than any other gikuyu communities
Am frm muranga but my marriage isn't well ata sijui kuolea nin
Mau ni matua makuu kwani unajua Murang'a mzima
That's true😢
You are very right
@@Kary_254 Watu ndio hujitafutia curses...mzazi hawezi kukulaani bure.
Uui may God bless my Children and their Children in whatever they do may God's favor be with them,may they never luck anything they desire in their hearts in Jesus mighty Name.
You have all my blessings
Weee nilifanya wedding mimi huyo nikapata visa nikatorokea ulaya😂wacha my mum aende kwa mganga Chuka ati anifurute na kweli alinivuruta nikarundi kenya. Aliponiambia ati alienda kwa mganga nilisituka. Imagine nilikuwa nasikia kuwa crazy nikiwa Europe 😢nasikia sitaki kukaa Europe. Thanks GOD nilipocome kenya na akaniambia alikuwa mganga. Niliuliza my mum wataka nitoke Europe na hupendi kuniona karibu. My mum ana enjoy nikiteseka.i am European citizen away from her shit
😂sio yeye kindly go to factory settings mtagundua chanzo cha tatisho
Thank God kama uliweza kurudi ulaya.most of our narcissistic mum's who treat you as the black sheep of the family can't stand seeing you succeed because your success is your weapon against her mistreatments
@@lynnndama7535 wooi niko ulaya .that time nilipatia ksh10,000 pocket money nikirundi ulaya alichoma aliweka kwa moto akapika chai nayo.nikaulizia why is that wazee wakasema labda ni vile aliambiwa na mchawi .nilimwabia my husband Ali stop hiyo ksh10,000 alikuwa anamutumia every month.
😮😮😮😮Your mum kabisa ama 😩😩
@@alicewangoi9512 my mum ni wale Gikuyu wa nyeri hubagua watoto na majina .mimi naitwa mama ya baba niliteseka ya ukweli
Waa painful story...Mwathani ndahoya igura muiritu uyu thaa.
She needs deliverance and break alters
Woiye may God feal mercy for you my sister, bt wazazi sometimes mbona laana zingine aki.
Symo you should have distorted her voice,otherwise people in her family can easily recognise her by her voice na umesema hataki family ijue ni yeye
I did exactly what symo is saying I packed up and moved away from home coz of my dad, it's been 3 Year's now am at peace sijakanyanga home, some parents are Soo Toxic, hakuna haja ya kukaa nao,cut communication. God is with you
Some of these fellas believe that a father is a god and an engine or oxygen that one can’t do without . I personally even my son didn’t name him after my father no matter the Gikuyu in me , untill this woman set herself free from the “ I must have a father bla bla bla “ she will never succeed in life .
@@ThankGod2024very much True,akitoa hio kitu in mind she,ll be able to manouver life ananibore saana akisema eti niûndû wa gitiiyo I inform him of my whereabouts angâ nîngathie andathime... That's crap. That man is a narcissist,who doesn't deserve to be anybody's father . Ûciô mûthûri gûtiri kirathimo eenakio giaku change your mind set and you'll be able to heal n move on... Narsaccists thrive on torturing people
@@margaretwairima3868 funny thing in her narrative is that she confess that her “ nightmare father “ even told her that he’s not god ( can’t even put God in this ) she and her mother are heavy I say , unlike many Gikuyu mamas that pack and leave to care for their children far from the destroyers useless men , these two seems magnetized to him till death do them apart 🤣My own father cried tears of joy when I surprised him this August I just appeared after more than 20years with a child whom he has never heard about … Was going to give him a last chance of making up , of cos not like he has to be involved about my life nope , just to be saying hello once in a blue moon .
so long as you no insult or disrespect him , no curse he can alter than can catch with me , all are null and void . This lady even going to the same joint with his father was another weird thing …..🙆🏽♀️
Woi,😢i Seriously don't understand what is wrong with some parents?? yaani mzazi anawish vitu mbaya kwa watoto wake🤔🤔, may the almighty God deal with such toxic parents nkt, unaharibia mtoto maisha kwa nn??,
Just imagine and they feel so proud about it instead of being ambassadors of God to their children
My mum's the same as this dad nothing do i do mums happy. I support her but atosheki every time she needs help atakangi kuongojea
We as children should make peace with our parents na tuwache kuside na mzazi mmoja wakati kuna issues coz watoi sometimes huside na mum na unapata hawampei baba heshima
I wish ulishow ur guy apatie ur dad doo chini ya maji, pole lakini mama .try your best to make peace na your parents
Parents why curse your offsprings for no reason,may God give you peace my sister
you need to cut off your toxic father completely.
So touching nitamuombea
To understand, one first needs to understand why your parents are taking such a stand, the disconnect between generations needs a serious discussion.
Parents, Parents please bless your children, don't curse them
SO SAD, MAY GOD DELIVER HER FROM ALL DEMONIC BONDAGES.
Make peace with your dad humble b4 him coz you can't change him, try to visit him with ka something ata kaa ni mbuzi utanunua ama blanket tell him to bless you n your kids, I believe he will do so try to be his friend so that he can keep talking blessings into your life, let him believe he comes b4 your mum, then go for deliverance
Wooiy some people they don’t deceive to be parents 😢😢
NGAI aromwonikanira Ma amuhonie biu na amurathime. Pole sana dear
I can't suggest aende Kwa pastor kwanza,,let her go to counselor then visit her dad through his parents,,at times pastors hubahatisha mambo and overlook important things,about her dad amtafutie kitu ambariki then amtoke kwa amani,,am currently undergoing the same,,its so trumatizing
True she needs therapy then a pastor like Harrison nganga he understands these things,he can even talk to the parents and seek reconciliation before praying for her.not the ones who rush to do deliverance
@@elizabethwachira7884ukweli aede uko +kwa harrison
Stay away from your father . He's not a good person. Cursing instead of blessings. Alaaaah.
Make peace with your dad. He’s carrying the curse and blessing.
curse of what 😏😏
Nothing like that, curse from where, only God has power to make someone bless or curse,some parent before God are dead,they can't bless or curse,this girl is sick, depression is kicking in n that trauma since she was a kid
For my own views,Kuna kitu kunaendelea Kwa family from your father's side ata hiyo ulewevi ya baba yenu sio normal,how comes unaota ukiuliwa na cozu zako ,Kuna mtu aliendea baba yenu ndio mboma yenu iharibike
Umeongea ukweli
I really feel for you dear, but not everything requires only prayers, some are family issues,which requires you to go back home, seek answers from your elders.
Very true.
Pombe na bangi elders wanakujia wapi?
@@user-kz4lz8uo9e I am not able to answer your question, simply because your name is not shown, where I come from, these things are there.
😢😢 so pain waaaaaaa 😳😳😳😳
Ngai ni makaga ndona as shiyari makigereriya ciyana ruo maa
Naniwe wamurehire thii 😢thiku ici tikuhuthu tondu ashiyari nimaragereriya ciyana magerio nginya mundu agakinya muico
Uuu.Ngai.niegugutethi.dada.yangu..saria.ndungata.ina.Ngai.maa
Always respect your parents no matter what coz they hv power to curse but you hv none. B wise n know what they like n dislike n you'll never criss cross their line..
My God
But if they happen to watch obvious they'll recognize her thru her voice n her body structure trust me. They must relate with her story. All the best 💯
Woii MUNGU aingilie hiyo mboma na huyu dem achuguze xna xna hiyo mambo ya babake c yakawaida tafuta baraka mama kwa familiar mzima juu c kawaida
Relationships fail...just heal and move on. Your father's alcohol problems should not affect you...work on yourself..men can embarrass you
Sasa ina hoja gani kuficha uso na sauti ni ile ile,plus jina ya county na Kijiji hujaficha😂😂
These are the family alters. The mangoes does not fall far from the tree.
Altars
Ngai ndukanareke ngakinya handu nume ciana ciakwa na muthenya ucio ungigakinya nikaba ungikanjuraga mbele itarutite ciugo cia kuruma ciana ciakwa
Angikorwo ninie ndamakuire 9 months na ngamongithia nyondo ciakwa ngutura ndimarathimite ona Angikorwo matikandeithia gikeno giakwa nikwona miturire yao niyaikara wega matikanagere ruo ta ruria ndanagera oo kiugu kirumi
Go for blessings from your dad...huyo ndio baba yenu...wega umaga na mucii.Isiende kwa watu.
Please go before it too late hujui ya kesho if he die be4 hajaeda it will be too bad
Why do they keep on involving the dad ??? All he does is bring them pain . They need to end the cycle and take the trash out.
Pole sana but aachana na baba yako
This is half of my step father
Eda Kwa prophet kakande everything will be okay.
Why all the way to Uganda? Tell her to go to Mwangi zakayo.
She can blame her father but alcoholism it is brought by depression. Nani kitu iko family ya babake. Yes I had same problem when I was staying with my mother. But remember babake anasema kitu akiwa mlevi so he don't mean it.
Thats true, Vile nime sikisa story yake na ameongea kuhusu brother yake, she dreams with cousins and his brother too, maybe hayo family members wananjua.
@@beatricenjeri8502 I hope and wish asi hate babake but ajaribu akae far from him na ajaribu asiongee kwa phone na yy but now then amurushie kakitu kama 500 Bob ili roho yake ifurahi.asiwe na bad blood na babake. But akae far.
Nanikama muran'ga si kuzuri story mingi ni za huko
Where do people get the energy to entertain toxic families? Whether it's your father or mother ,
The symptoms this lady is describing are typical of someone who has depression and anxiety disorder. She needs psycho-therapy by a qualified counselor.
Depression:
- Feeling very sad or like there's no hope for a long time
- Finding it hard to enjoy activities that one used to enjoy
- Crying a lot
- Eating too much or too little, or having trouble sleeping
- Always feeling tired and low on energy
- Finding it hard to focus or make decisions
- Feeling guilty or not good enough
- Being angry and irritable often
- Thinking a lot about death or wanting to die
Anxiety Disorders:
- Worrying too much about everyday things
- Feeling restless or always nervous and in extreme cases like exploding
- Having trouble thinking clearly or focusing
- Muscles feeling tight, shaking, or feeling shaky
- Heart beating really fast or feeling like you can't breathe
- Sweating a lot, feeling sick, or having stomach problems
- Feeling dizzy or like the room is spinning
- Avoiding places or situations that make you really scared or anxious
Nemo church pastor Nganga
that's jumping from hot pan to fire
The Dad needs mental evaluation.
Here the father is not the problem,kwa hio family maybe someone doesn't want progress of this man,Also the girls faith is a bit low,as her father said he is not God,let her believe in God n stay away from dad n pray for him,
Go to Nemo
Baba wanyu ni baba ni fake..
You are very strange !!! Do you have to have a father in order to succeed in life !? do you have to be in an abusive environment in the name of “ having a father figure “ how can you expect to move forward if you and your mother keep on going back to the toxic relationship !? the bible says that a curse without a cause is not effective it’s like a bird that got no tree to land / rest …. my father neglected us , we brought up by our mother , we chose to move on though we still lived in our father’s compound but we moved on , never informed him anything even marriages we don’t inform him . Just met him this year after more than 20 years of no communication . You have wasted many blessings thru that poor mentality of “ I have to inform my father “ if he has never altered a blessing unto your life , don’t expect it by trying to expose your success to him .
This ready needs psykolog help
Wah khai aky vitu watu wanapitia kwa ground🤔🤔but with God all things are possible 🙏