Ultimately, it is what works for your family. Having gone through my husband doing both Basic & Advanced flight training years ago, he spent a lot of time at the bases while I was at home by myself. I have also had to be mom & dad with some of the jobs he had that took him a state or two away. This was before computers and cell phones. One state away, he would come home on the weekends when possible, but it was me who was home and was responsible for everything. My dad was a Navy chaplain and they alternated shore and unaccompanied tours that meant Dad was gone 6-9 months at a time. All we had was letters and the occasional reel to reel tape. Mom did an awesome job of being both mom & dad. Now, you can see the kids and talk to them via your computer or phone. It is really what works the best for all of you.
I can see the benefits of both. I think Rachel finally has a good support group there. The kids have their friends. I would NOT want to move twice in such a window of time. Brad is probably gonna be exhausted at the end of his days training and then doing any additional study. I think it is a really good option Rachel.
I just love your family and just seeing a little bit tension, made my belly queasy. That just goes to show how much we support you. Whatever decisions you make are the right ones and no matter what you all will be just fine!!!❤❤❤
When I was about 5 or 6, my Dad went on a road trip for a week or so, and I missed him immensely! Im 60, and I still remember the agony of him being gone.
I think a what’s more important? Being in a house and your friends because kids would rather be with both parents and can adjust just fine, vs being together as a family and keeping your family together.? Rent an apartment and take the bare minimum with you, and store the rest. You don’t have to move everything. Choose family over a house and friends any day. As he said, you’ll have to move anyway
I so much enjoy your family!! The children are absolutely amazing and so kind to one another. God Bless You in all your new adventures in life!! Brad, Thank You for your Service to our Great Country!! ❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸❤
I can definitely see your point Rachel. Why move for 6 months, and then move again? You are still going to be fairly close that you and the kids can take a weekend trip to go see Brad, or even go down there for a week or two. Being at home would still bring a little normalcy for you and the kids.
We did that. My husband moved out of state for a temporary period. I stayed behind with the kids in familiar schools, with their and my friends and my established support system (we have no family in US) till a more permanent situation arose. It took a year but saved us 2 moves without laying roots at first temporary move.
Rach will be totally fine for 6 months, I feel it's more Brad doesn't want to be alone or traveling a ton. I think staying in the house for 6 more months is good on the kids. I know so many military kids and all they've ever complained about was moving moving moving constantly moving
I’m with Rachel on staying at the house as long as possible. I feel like that option would be less stressful and exhausting. I’m with Brad on the reward system being earned not just because you love them. 🥰
In the long run they will do what is best for the WHOLE family, not just Brad or Rachel. I'm glad she has some help with the kids & sorry to hear about Lala's struggles. Praying that everything falls into place & they trust in God's guidance. Greetings from Australia.
im a miltary British veteran wife im half and half with this is get rach hell my husband been around the world and back again you two are the strongest couple god has his plans if u rach decide you could do this for 6 mnths ive done the 6 mnths tours wow it hard when there no communcation a letter or two a phone call your always waiting but brad is close by and military wifes sick together help each other out do it rach keep the kids settled now brad i can see your point your going be thinking all the time is everything at home ok missing milestones that he has never missed before its a big deal kids miss daddy so much and daddy be missing the love of his life soul partner want to gfow old its will work it out i promise god has this xxxxxxx
I’m thinking Brads hesitation with your moving plan is how much he would miss you and the kids, but I sure do understand you not wanting to move twice…. It is a conundrum!
It is only 6 months and is doable. I see Brad’s point of view that Rach checks out after dinner. Maybe. Rach’s parents can come visit several times during the six months. The time will fly by. It will be only one move after the six months and not twice in one year. I was a AF pilot’s wife and he went on TDY’s a lot of the time. I had 4 children all close in age to care for, but I also had loving parents that visited me a lot too. We were very close like Rach is to her parents.
I personally don’t think it’s best. Keeping the family together is always best. I’ve learned from experience. I did this very thing--And said if I had to do it again… I’d go with my spouse no matter the inconvenience. Always choose your husband & that relationship over your friends and convenience.
I’m sorry to hear about LaLa’s struggles. I hope her new plans work out for her and healing is complete. Praying all goes well for Lala? I’ve drafted 4 comments about the discussion the 2 of you closed this vlog on. I deleted them all. I was trying to “walk the line”. I can’t do it. You are a family, a beautiful family. Go as that family, together, it’s another adventure for all of you.❤🇺🇸🙏
Twice in my husband's Army career he was a geographic batchelor for a year each time due to having a child who was a senior in high school so I stayed behind for their last year. When we were stationed at Ft. Sheridan, he went TDY for a week the day after the mover's delivered our stuff. At that time I had two of the kids with me and had left two in NoVa for the summer with friends. When he was still a drilling reservist, he left for his summer camp when I came home from the hospital with my third child--he had delayed leaving (my doctor's orders) until our son was born. Military wives are stronger and more resourceful than they seem. You will be fine whichever way you choose but your idea makes sense.
Hard decision!!!! But I think Brad wants his family near..he is a wonderful dad... and I think the kids need him!!!!! .. I understand both ways and know you both will figure it out your own way... Living in Pensacola would be a great adventure!! But whew... To pack up for 6 months and then do it all over 6 months later....WHEW BOY!!!!!!!!! I can see advantages either way but staying together as a whole family no matter what seems so important!! Love your vlog, love your family...have been missing LaLa!💛💛💛
I am sorry you are all moving to another place I don't know what I am going to do I will miss you all too much the lord will watch over you all tonight and always amen 🙏 ❤️ 😊 🎁
I see both. But I don't think Rachel is listening to Brad. It's all fine and dandy in the beginning. But once you a month in or two it will be different.
Brad is saying that it would be a lot of work on you to be alone with five kids. But wouldn’t it be nicer to hear Brad saying I would miss you and the kids too much.
He's expressing his worries to his wife in his own honest way and Rach is handling well. He shouldn't be expected to say and do as someone else expects from him. Such a ridiculous expectation.
@ it is far from ridiculous! He said it would be a lot on you to be alone with 5 kids several times. When she kept doubling down, saying he would miss his wife and kids too much would have been all she needed to hear. I don’t expect him to say anything if he doesn’t feel it. It just would have been nice. I have an opinion and this is the comment section. Nothing wrong with what I said. Act like an adult and stop being so offended by a mild comment.
I lost one of my baby teeth in a pool and was so worried the tooth fairy wouldn't come. Don't worry, Lyndle, she accepts notes of proof from grown-ups in good standing, like parents, teachers (my brother lost one at school in the playground wood chips) and dentists (my cousin had to have a few pulled and sent away to scientists to look at). 😉🦷
Even with 5 kids it would not be that hard if they had any structure at all, your house is so chaotic I don't know how the 2 older kids learn anything, honestly, I was a little surprised Lyndle couldn't spell better. I love your family but man it's crazy!!
Rachel does everything Brad asked her to do. She’s picked up her life and moved it so many times if she wants to spend six months with her kids, her friends and their friends just let her what is the big deal? It would just be nice to see you think about her first for a change.
Um, she married a military vet. She agreed to this life and supports him and his career. Learn something about being a military wife before you judge a MILITARY VET supporting his family!!!!!! Shame on you!
@@DearLeah-z7tBrad and Rachel can also work it out without you constantly commenting and trying to micromanage what everyone in the comment section is saying.
@@V83-v6m meanwhile, people are "forcing" their opinion on Brad and Rach regarding their life. Don't be a hypocrite. If Brad and Rach have a problem with me, they are more than welcome to express that to me. Move on. 😘
I love your idea Rachel you stay at the house you got all your friends there and you don't need to move on twice when he done then all you guys move together to the next place Rachel plan sounds good and she want be stress out by move two time and Rachel has a group or friends to help her
@DearLeah-z7t Here you are making friends again, huh Leah? Why do you do this on every channel? You're so rude to people! You should live by the Golden Rule and BE KIND.
Ultimately, it is what works for your family. Having gone through my husband doing both Basic & Advanced flight training years ago, he spent a lot of time at the bases while I was at home by myself. I have also had to be mom & dad with some of the jobs he had that took him a state or two away. This was before computers and cell phones. One state away, he would come home on the weekends when possible, but it was me who was home and was responsible for everything. My dad was a Navy chaplain and they alternated shore and unaccompanied tours that meant Dad was gone 6-9 months at a time. All we had was letters and the occasional reel to reel tape. Mom did an awesome job of being both mom & dad. Now, you can see the kids and talk to them via your computer or phone. It is really what works the best for all of you.
I can see the benefits of both. I think Rachel finally has a good support group there. The kids have their friends. I would NOT want to move twice in such a window of time. Brad is probably gonna be exhausted at the end of his days training and then doing any additional study. I think it is a really good option Rachel.
6 mths will fly by and consistency for the children is good! So staying put while Brad is in school, he will be really busy.
You Two will figure it out. You always do what's best for you and your family. ✝️🫶
I would find it hard to discuss these big decisions on camera.
I just love your family and just seeing a little bit tension, made my belly queasy. That just goes to show how much we support you. Whatever decisions you make are the right ones and no matter what you all will be just fine!!!❤❤❤
When I was about 5 or 6, my Dad went on a road trip for a week or so, and I missed him immensely! Im 60, and I still remember the agony of him being gone.
I think a what’s more important? Being in a house and your friends because kids would rather be with both parents and can adjust just fine, vs being together as a family and keeping your family together.? Rent an apartment and take the bare minimum with you, and store the rest. You don’t have to move everything. Choose family over a house and friends any day. As he said, you’ll have to move anyway
I so much enjoy your family!! The children are absolutely amazing and so kind to one another. God Bless You in all your new adventures in life!! Brad, Thank You for your Service to our Great Country!! ❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸❤
I can definitely see your point Rachel. Why move for 6 months, and then move again? You are still going to be fairly close that you and the kids can take a weekend trip to go see Brad, or even go down there for a week or two. Being at home would still bring a little normalcy for you and the kids.
Hope Yall Have An Amazing and Bless Day ❤
We did that. My husband moved out of state for a temporary period. I stayed behind with the kids in familiar schools, with their and my friends and my established support system (we have no family in US) till a more permanent situation arose. It took a year but saved us 2 moves without laying roots at first temporary move.
Rach will be totally fine for 6 months, I feel it's more Brad doesn't want to be alone or traveling a ton. I think staying in the house for 6 more months is good on the kids. I know so many military kids and all they've ever complained about was moving moving moving constantly moving
I’m with Rachel on staying at the house as long as possible. I feel like that option would be less stressful and exhausting. I’m with Brad on the reward system being earned not just because you love them. 🥰
In the long run they will do what is best for the WHOLE family, not just Brad or Rachel. I'm glad she has some help with the kids & sorry to hear about Lala's struggles. Praying that everything falls into place & they trust in God's guidance. Greetings from Australia.
im a miltary British veteran wife im half and half with this is get rach hell my husband been around the world and back again you two are the strongest couple god has his plans if u rach decide you could do this for 6 mnths ive done the 6 mnths tours wow it hard when there no communcation a letter or two a phone call your always waiting but brad is close by and military wifes sick together help each other out do it rach keep the kids settled now brad i can see your point your going be thinking all the time is everything at home ok missing milestones that he has never missed before its a big deal kids miss daddy so much and daddy be missing the love of his life soul partner want to gfow old its will work it out i promise god has this xxxxxxx
I’m thinking Brads hesitation with your moving plan is how much he would miss you and the kids, but I sure do understand you not wanting to move twice…. It is a conundrum!
It is only 6 months and is doable. I see Brad’s point of view that Rach checks out after dinner. Maybe. Rach’s parents can come visit several times during the six months. The time will fly by. It will be only one move after the six months and not twice in one year. I was a AF pilot’s wife and he went on TDY’s a lot of the time. I had 4 children all close in age to care for, but I also had loving parents that visited me a lot too. We were very close like Rach is to her parents.
It is only 6 months!
"Has it?" - a very military, straightforward question and answer
Rach you got this!!❤
I personally don’t think it’s best. Keeping the family together is always best. I’ve learned from experience. I did this very thing--And said if I had to do it again… I’d go with my spouse no matter the inconvenience. Always choose your husband & that relationship over your friends and convenience.
It really doesn't matter what anyone thinks but them. This is their life.
I’m sorry to hear about LaLa’s struggles. I hope her new plans work out for her and healing is complete. Praying all goes well for Lala?
I’ve drafted 4 comments about the discussion the 2 of you closed this vlog on. I deleted them all. I was trying to “walk the line”. I can’t do it.
You are a family, a beautiful family. Go as that family, together, it’s another adventure for all of you.❤🇺🇸🙏
Twice in my husband's Army career he was a geographic batchelor for a year each time due to having a child who was a senior in high school so I stayed behind for their last year. When we were stationed at Ft. Sheridan, he went TDY for a week the day after the mover's delivered our stuff. At that time I had two of the kids with me and had left two in NoVa for the summer with friends. When he was still a drilling reservist, he left for his summer camp when I came home from the hospital with my third child--he had delayed leaving (my doctor's orders) until our son was born. Military wives are stronger and more resourceful than they seem. You will be fine whichever way you choose but your idea makes sense.
Love conquers all
Rachel , I think your idea is the best choice...1 move verse 2 seems best.
Hard decision!!!! But I think Brad wants his family near..he is a wonderful dad... and I think the kids need him!!!!! .. I understand both ways and know you both will figure it out your own way... Living in Pensacola would be a great adventure!! But whew... To pack up for 6 months and then do it all over 6 months later....WHEW BOY!!!!!!!!! I can see advantages either way but staying together as a whole family no matter what seems so important!! Love your vlog, love your family...have been missing LaLa!💛💛💛
I am sorry you are all moving to another place I don't know what I am going to do I will miss you all too much the lord will watch over you all tonight and always amen 🙏 ❤️ 😊 🎁
Feel sorry for Brad😥
Why exactly?
I see both. But I don't think Rachel is listening to Brad. It's all fine and dandy in the beginning. But once you a month in or two it will be different.
Doesn't matter what you think
@DearLeah-z7t go away
She would be there alone with 5 kids while he was in school. Much better to stay and have friends to lean on. He can visit! Good Luck to you all.🙏🙏
Our opinion really doesn't matter when it's about their life, that involves their children.
Brad is saying that it would be a lot of work on you to be alone with five kids. But wouldn’t it be nicer to hear Brad saying I would miss you and the kids too much.
He's expressing his worries to his wife in his own honest way and Rach is handling well. He shouldn't be expected to say and do as someone else expects from him. Such a ridiculous expectation.
@ it is far from ridiculous! He said it would be a lot on you to be alone with 5 kids several times. When she kept doubling down, saying he would miss his wife and kids too much would have been all she needed to hear. I don’t expect him to say anything if he doesn’t feel it. It just would have been nice. I have an opinion and this is the comment section. Nothing wrong with what I said. Act like an adult and stop being so offended by a mild comment.
To move 2 times in 6 mths🫣😵💫
Ever heard of military life? You shouldn't be surprised.
I lost one of my baby teeth in a pool and was so worried the tooth fairy wouldn't come. Don't worry, Lyndle, she accepts notes of proof from grown-ups in good standing, like parents, teachers (my brother lost one at school in the playground wood chips) and dentists (my cousin had to have a few pulled and sent away to scientists to look at). 😉🦷
Love conquered all
If you love the place so much why move at all? You two move so freaking much.
Um, moving a lot goes with the territory of being a military family, silly! Maybe do your research.
Even with 5 kids it would not be that hard if they had any structure at all, your house is so chaotic I don't know how the 2 older kids learn anything, honestly, I was a little surprised Lyndle couldn't spell better. I love your family but man it's crazy!!
You don't "love" anyone but yourself so quit being fake. All you do is talk crap to content creators behind the safety of your device. Pathetic.
I think you meant to say archeologist Brad 😂….not architect.
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Hello
I thought military wives were strong. Put a smile on your face and just move. You are just prolonging the inevitable
🤨 this is not it.
How rude 🤦♀️
Rachel does everything Brad asked her to do. She’s picked up her life and moved it so many times if she wants to spend six months with her kids, her friends and their friends just let her what is the big deal? It would just be nice to see you think about her first for a change.
Um, she married a military vet. She agreed to this life and supports him and his career. Learn something about being a military wife before you judge a MILITARY VET supporting his family!!!!!! Shame on you!
Brad look at this through your kids eyes. WHY would you want to disrupt their world just to turn around and disrupt it again in another 6 months.
Stay out of it. This is between him and his wife. You're not it.
I think it’s a great idea Rachel staying there and not moving kids twice in one year. Just makes sense.
It really doesn't matter what anyone thinks but them. This is their life.
@@DearLeah-z7tBrad and Rachel can also work it out without you constantly commenting and trying to micromanage what everyone in the comment section is saying.
@@V83-v6m 🤣 I'm not stopping them from working anything out, silly. Don't be mad at me for stating facts.
@@DearLeah-z7t I'm not mad at anyone. You just feel the need to force your opinion down people's throats on almost every single comment.
@@V83-v6m meanwhile, people are "forcing" their opinion on Brad and Rach regarding their life. Don't be a hypocrite. If Brad and Rach have a problem with me, they are more than welcome to express that to me. Move on. 😘
I love your idea Rachel you stay at the house you got all your friends there and you don't need to move on twice when he done then all you guys move together to the next place Rachel plan sounds good and she want be stress out by move two time and Rachel has a group or friends to help her
Please use proper English. It's not an easy decision to make being that she has his children. You didn't think about that, did you?
@@DearLeah-z7t Who are you to bully another blogger?
@@smithface8791 excuse me? 🤣 The commenter isn't a vlogger. Vlogger not blogger, silly.
@DearLeah-z7t Here you are making friends again, huh Leah? Why do you do this on every channel? You're so rude to people! You should live by the Golden Rule and BE KIND.
Why do I need to be friends with strangers who give their opinion about someone else's life? Weird. @@elizabethkoobs1060