@@nicki1197 understood but the men she wants don’t want her either and she said “I have dated them all “ ironically saying she has been through them all but how is she still single ? And if she did why didn’t she bring up an example of a bus driver she dated ? Since she’s been through them all?
@@tendaichaponda8284 Your not very smart. She said she dated all of these black men and none of them could step up to the plate or could match her income. And she doesn’t HAVE to continue to date those men, she chooses who she wants to be with 😂😂😂Only you men are afraid of dying alone like losers😂
@@tendaichaponda8284 I have dated them all doesn't mean none of them wanted her. She didn't say what happened in those dating sitches. It's very possible she passed on all of the men she dated because she felt like they weren't her man. I don't know her but as a woman that dates for long term partnership/marriage there is a lot of weeding out that happens because the person does not feel like your person. You don't want the same things long term, your lives are not going in the same direction. This is not about money. Lots of people want to be parents but there are many different parenting styles, if your parenting styles don't align you shouldn't be parenting together. Same thing for marriage, same thing for building a life together. There are much deeper reasons why dates don't turn into marriage or a long term relationship then money or attraction.It's sad that we think quick and surface -"they don't want her" Instead of deeper - she never said what happened, I don't have enough info to know. Remember those questions on multiple choice tests? "Not enough info" - that was an option on our tests in school but we don't think that was preparing us for life situations where we do not have enough info to make a decision. So sad.
to all the dusties in the comments, The time you took to bash a black woman could have been spent filling out an online application to a higher paying job or to apply to some form of continued education to bring you out of the poverty mind and status in which you have grown comfortable with. Sprinkle Sprinkle!
A bus driver's ego wouldn't be able to handle having a woman who makes more-no need to explain. There's a reason why men who are high earners connect with women who earn less.
@FocusVenesa Have you seen the numbers of women who have lost their lives on the news for daring to date below them? From Kelly Clarkston, to Marie J Blige, to Wendy Williams, to Halle Berry, & the list goes on, it rarely ends well. Look at Sherry Sheppard she ended up having to pay child support for a child she never even agreed to bring into the world in the first place. Not worth ending up with a disease or finding out later the dude was a boody popper either. Is it? And once you have them on your arm, they can never do wrong, which means they mess up the wife gets the blame & gets dragged.
@@Slaughterproof , for example, you'll most likely never find a female doctor married to a cashier. You will find a male doctor married to a nurse, teacher, or a stay-at-home mom. Men marry down to be the provider.
😂😂😂😂 No man is intimidated by a successful woman. It's her insufferable personality n self entitlement due to her success.. Ant this chick leave a good dude just because he stayed with his children through covid.. Delusional
Please name a pro athlete who said his wife must be ‘an owner’ - we’ll wait. Men aren’t impressed by women’s money - they know who it belongs to and that it won’t be added to the family funds.
All of y'all think you're 10s. That's not how math works. There's not enough "10" men to go around if every one of you are holding out for one. Get it?
Why are yall so invested in trying to convince BW to date down?? Its giving crabs in a barrel. If youre a bus driver or an ice cream truck driver, you should date another bus driver or an ice cream driver. Everybody has their own lane lol
@@nicki1197 why do bm have to settle for bare minimum and date down also? N FYI it's not a black issue it's a western issue. Look Serena Williams married to a man who makes less than her.. But u want to take advice from this woman about relationships? Is funny. I'd only take legal advise as that's all she is qualified for.. . Y are men's preferences vilified by woman when we ask for no baby mommas. Or ratchet behaviour.. Or even just going abroad to find a suitable wife? N y is it OK n praised to b a whore ruin your family but still expect hvm? Seems like a bit of a double standard to me.. N a lot other western men of all races r fed up of it.
No it's not but you have to be careful that your expectations are within the realm of reality, not fantasy otherwise you will end up forever chasing a dream.
@BLAZEGRAZE the realm of reality is Nonblack men who make 6 - figures in top ten metropolises. Dr. Ralph Richard Banks boom "marriage is for white people" tell university educated Black women to date the Nonblack men who sit next to them in class. Leave the Black dude from high school alone. They're underachieving. IR marriage is exploding with Black women & nonblack men. Up 33% since 2015.
As she should have. Iyanla wants to continue the cycle of dumping underachieving Black males onto high achieving Black women. They want Black women to continue being the face of poverty. A woman can lose everything dating/marrying down.
She was probably lost in the moment, because that "would you date a bus driver" question had nothing to do with the question Eboni asked Iyanla. When I saw the interview, I thought I had missed something. I was literally thinking "where did that come from?" Honestly, when Iyanla first asked it, I didn't think it was actually a question to Eboni, I thought she was going to somehow make a connection between the question Eboni asked and a bus driver.
She’s an attorney/public figure lol be so fr. Most ppl date and marry in their financial or educational circles first off, second off how many bus drivers are willing to put envy and feeling not manly enough to date/marry an attorney it’s literally so unrealistic.
Then why did she get in her feelings and constantly interrupted Envy .. and ironically the men she wants she has been around for years so that says a lot about her and they don’t want a 39 yr old but that’s not equal to say right ?
Keep the standard high and stay single. You realize all of you think you're 10s and are holding out for the top 10% of men, right? There aren't enough to go around. It's simple math.
Iyanla is...that elder aunty...she rubs me the wrong way for sure. They want us to build men...lower our standards as if its our responsibility. Then they leave for the next one. Bs
Coming from the women with all the demands in the world but offering nothing in return. That's why you see 40 year old failures like this who are single as a loose cigarette. How BW went from 80% married (the highest in the US) to less than 30% (the lowest in America) is because of the mindset you display, smh.
It ages perfectly. Morals has nothing to do with the fact that he has no ambition and she has a lot so he will be filled with ego and try to bring her down like the millions of baby trapped women who control and manipulate women bc he chooses to be less. Go settle by yourself f
@@EmpressJoy OR maybe you can build TOGETHER like Tabitha Brown and her husband that worked as a COP. HE supported her dream and the entire family WINS in the end. To say a person has no ambition if they work 9-5 is so misguided and sad. Maybe a person's AMBITION is to HELP others. But peace and blessings to you SMH.
@@soulsister1976 Look out for the divorce announcement and saying they seemed so happy. Or maybe she'll be like most women and just stay with him cheating bc he doesn't feel like a man
@@EmpressJoy Wow!!! LOL...Like they've been married for 20 years..but OK sis ...You sound bitter and hurt when you speak negativity over other people's lives.. SMH
Eboni thank you for saying what you said. So many of us support you and are tired of the trivial questions and subjects discussed in the black culture that don't promote the culture to progress. You represent black excellence! Your desires and standards are absolutely reasonable but you know that already and i love it! Iyanla wanted to trigger you. Iyanla is indeed telling BW to lower their standards which is dangerous. They heard what they heard regarding bus drivers because they were triggered and projecting. NOT YOUR ISSUE!
You understand that when a women like her w attitude and disrespectful demeanor..she falls under the stats of the 90 percent of divorce rates that shes a example a reason many men are avoiding marriage...shes a reason?? Are you aware of that?? She falls under the educated women that divorce 90%
Her expectations are keeping her alone and not starting or adding to the black community just herself. Most black Americans historically aren't in the 1 percent. She said 99% oh humans ain't her equal because she has money and knowledge that adds nothing to a relationship.
Black excellence is being a bitter unmarried, childless woman who has gone "through all of the men" as she eloquently states while talking about her divinity and authentic black self but only wears a European hair style. Nice role model goals! 🎉
What would a woman of your status have in common with a mediocre bus driver? They have a different mentality and you’re right we should strive for more than average. Those who got mad don’t want much out of life. Low life and low budget.
Like everyone else, she is entitled to want whatever/whoever she wants. I'd honestly like to hear more about what she wants in a man, her ideal man, as part of a legitimate conversation...beyond the "provide/protect" aspect. Or maybe that's enough.🤔
That is NONE of your business. You don’t qualify and cannot introduce her to the type of men she desires. You just want to weaponize any additional information against her and Black women in general.
@@toebeans3985 lmfao.. delusional. .she is 40.. she is washed up and cant have kids, no men that she could POSSIBLY want would want her outside of sex.. The men she wants can get ANY young beautiful woman..
@Toe Beans ; actually, she made it everyone's business when she chose to talk about it on a public forum. And, I just think it's an important part of a conservation to have, to get a perspective on what a woman like her is looking for in a man/mate. It's not a trap, it's a genuine curiosity (guess you missed the part about me stating she's entitled to want what she wants). And you don't know me. And I don't know you. Have a great day.
So you are too good for the bus driver, just own it, instead of this word salad of ambitious ownership bla bla bla. Just own it, bus driver is too low social and financial status for me, which is fine, but because people dont want to be seen as vain and power/moneyhungry we have to pretend this a coherent answer. Its not.
@@joeblow5505 You sound hurt. You need to take care of that misplaced bitterness. You choose your paycheck. You choose your lifestyle. Accountability. 😕
The question was definitely not "would you date a bus driver". The question was "would you allow your self-perceived status to keep you from getting married", or perhaps the question was even more nuanced than I can comprehend because I am not a black person. But her answer was clear, "my status is far more important than my happiness".
Iyanla is out of touch and her relationship history is full of bad judgment and choices. Period. Iyanla asked you a very UNFAIR question. On its own, the bus driver question was dismisive of your socio-economic status, lifestyle, education etc etc. I had a problem with the question. You answered honestly. So dont second guess yourself. Let the dusties catch up.
This is liberation. This is growth. This is what you call, A READ 😂 Shoutout to the black women who are ascending in logic and communication. This is way deeper than dating a bus driver. Good Job Eboni 🍊💙
@@TOFFEETASTICC yes, lonely and sad. Keep the good genes for people who actually have vallue and are good looking.. We don't need more pepole with your trite putrid ideology destroying society even more.. Stay single and childfree please.
@@nevswain478 I don't see her complaining about being single the way you are. & expecting her to date down just because you think she should is an insult. If you're a bus driver, go date another bus driver!
@@nicki1197 Hey kid, that's not how life works. She IS sad, hence her tirade. She WILL be sadder when she is a dried up 50 yr old, with no kids or family who cares about her. I can GARAUNTEE she takes a heep loads of anti depression meds, and a heep loads of drugs to get through the night. Don't let her fool you via the nonesense she believes in and spew on tv for views from other lonely women. She has ZERO value in the sexual marketplace.. She is old, can't have kids, and isn't as pretty as any other 20+ yr old girl that exist every day.. She brings nothing to the table except a bad attitude and a reminder that she is a ''boss babe who don't need no man''.. The truth is MEN DONT WANT HER, hence why she is single after admitting she has ''been with them all''.. She is clearly looking and knows she is just a loser who can't get anyone to commit to her.. People in her tax bracket don't need women with jobs, much less one with a disgusting attitude fueled by feminist ideals.. But hey, keep talking about dating down.. She doesn't have a choice eitherway cuz no one wants me for marriage..
GIRLLLLLL TALK ABOUT THE GRADES because I had to be a straight A+ STUDENT but my brother on the other hand…. It was okay for him to fail. The mediocrity is real.
@@bobbyschannel349 Women only die single when they focus on men too much. Women are social creatures & very capable, always been. We are nation makers.
Girl, you said what you said and you don't owe these bums with their hurt feelings any apology. You're a millionaire yourself, you don't have to date down to please these bums. These the same bums who weigh over 300 lbs, eats fried foods, no job, still living in their parents basement, don't work out to save his life, high body count and has multiple baby mamas are the same ones that wants a woman who's skinny, works out, makes 6 figures, "feminine and traditional", eats healthy, no kids, low "body count" and be asking what she brings to the table. Why we women have to lower our standards for these men but they have to keep theirs high?when it comes to us? Live your life.
Every man ideally wants a traditional and feminine woman. The only man who would settle for a woman with money is either a beta simp or user. Men aren't attracted to money in women and career women tend to come with habits men worth a damn would never put up with. A man like that doesn't settle. He'd prefer a younger, attractive and more feminine woman. The more money a woman makes, the smaller her pool of options gets and now that the average guy knows where she stands, not even they would want her after she realizes the men she wants don't want her. I don't hate on a woman for having high standards. They should. The issue comes with the entitlement that you're deserving of a top tier guy without having the qualities they want. The outcome will not be favorable.
@@Caine_House it seems like you haven’t spent much time in the real world then. Once women realize this the world is their oyster. It’s so sad that few actually realize it.
@@lyssanc It sounds like you've spent no to time in the real world and too much of it in a delusional bubble of your own creation. Women and men get what they work for and even then, it's not guaranteed. Not a single person on Earth has everything they want, not even the richest person in the world.
@@MissQue715 i have a functioning brain. I know sexual dynamics between men and women. She wouldn't talk the shit she is if she was chosen by any of the men she wants.. She would have a ring on her finger. She doesnt..
First she says 0:52 - 0:57 "[Men] They're not earing the incomes, they are not having the resources" 2:54 "I was never talking about money at all" I swear they don't even hear themselves...
Condescending- is the best word to describe this overly crafted statement. Its sad when the people who do the work, fail to realize they need to work on themselves. If she believing what she saying right now, she is in no condition to speak on the behalf of the culture/black folk. The posture and response shows a lack of self awareness.
💯 🎯. You stated that perfectly ! To add, if Eboni’s statement is even remotely righteous when she says it’s irrespective of salary , income, pension etc.. then if she were to be asked asked “Well would you date a Pilot ?” Her answer should be “ If he owns the plane” What about a Teacher ? Should they own a school ? She’s made the error of buying into what you do is WHO you are . Which explains why her being attorney and whatever other titles she has , has ENVELOPED her identity . She wants to approve of a persons work identity in society and not WHO they are as her partner/person.
Lol oh please… if you’re pathetic, be that on your own. Do not drag women into your piss poor mindset. Eboni is what black successful women should be like. Cause guess what, SHE IS RIGHT! BM are full of excuses and misdirected blame. No one has to accept it.
@@NoaNoir lol, you’ve gotta be kidding. A brand new Cessna costs about $400,000+ for a 2023 model. Models from 1960-2001 will cost you anywhere from $40,000-$200,000+, not even including insurance, hangar fees, maintenance, fuel and cost of flying the plane per hour. You’re looking at $14,000 a year just on those alone and about $131/hr to fly the plane. So first you’ve gotta make up to half a mill just to buy a current model and a further $14,000 a year just to own the thing. Then you’ve got your apt/house rent, utilities , your car insurance etc. Unless you’re making well over $150,000/year, owning a small plane isn’t realistic for most people. Oh and, pilots license, you’re looking at anywhere between $7000-$10,000.
Don’t lower your standards because then they will tell you, you should’ve chose better when shit hits the fan. 💅🏽 Eboni said what she said. No sir, no ma’am. 😂 Love you babes ❤
The saddest part about this is you are a smart, rich and strong women. You've probably worked really hard and sacrificed to achieve your wealth and status, But what's the point of all of that, if at the end of the day when you are gone, all the stuff you worked to build will be forgotten, the state, will take it and claim is as their own, no kids to carry on your memory and speak of the foundation you laid. It ends with you, the men you are saying you deserve are most likely not looking to add kids to their portfolio, you have the money and means to get the IVF but at your age, that's not guaranteed. All that, because you spent your life thinking you are too good to marry a man who isn't XYZ. What's the point if it all basically goes to waste when you are gone?
Didn't know you had a UA-cam channel. I agreed with everything you said. I respect lyanla so much BUT l disagree with what she said. I'm subscribing to you right now!
as a teacher I fucking hate the C grade comment. I have actual students and had students who I still remember to this day who are actually trying hard, but just aren't good at my subject or in general. They tried hard for that C when they expected an F
Thank you. I hate when teachers get blamed for their students bad grades when their parents are the one who coddle and normalize mediocrity in their households. I see why more teachers are throwing up the deuces. 😕
Eboni K. Williams I've subscribed and appreciate your point of view. I'm a Black man and when I saved my first 100K I was proud of myself because I didn't know anyone else in my family that has done so, unfortunately they seem hell bent on consuming instead of manufacturing. I was listening to a broadcast last night putting you down and it's a shame, my father had 8 children and left us to be raised alone by my mother, he was good at making babies and that was about it. That's not enough, I see women in general being used and abused my men. I'm concerned with my sisters though, as a boy I was conditioned to use and abuse women. Born in detriot michigan and influenced by the ignorante brothers I had. Women deserve better and I'm all for my sisters liberating themselves for the betterment of themselves and offspring. Too many Black men have dropped the ball and left our sisters hanging, I'm glad my Ma found a good Black Man that loved her and provided for her and helped to raise me also. He's the man i look up to! Hard working and Owned property> 6 acres. I'll be checking in young sister take care, you are appreciated!
It's completely okay for the average salary of a blue collar or 9-5 worker not to suffice for you or your "necessities of life". Just leave the pro black out of it.
I want to know why black men are not offended at Iylana for grouping them as Bus Drivers. Can you imagine if this conversation were reversed and Iylana implied to a black man that he needs to settle for a maid because that’s what the majority of black women do?Oh my gawd, black women would be screaming “we are educated earning 6-figure salaries “. black men can’t check Iylana, bc they are the bus drivers. Smh
exactly they just automatically accepted the status of mediocrity as if it were perfectly normal and ok..... thats how brainwashed they are, its sad if you ask me.
@@stargates9993 an lastly, wasn't she on the real housenegros of new York? With her broke @$$ lol. She's been drifting an grifting from place to place. She should be thankful that a "Dusty" black male billionaire Byron Allen hired her because no white male seems to be in any rush to employ her. Btw, her lawyers liesense was permanently suspended. Ha! She thought them white women was going to except her hahaha. Til the next episode of the real house N_gg_$ of new york. 😅
@@stargates9993 She is single ..40..looks tired , tense and desperate …and quite hurt here ….plus she swirls…rubbish ..she needs to humble herself and take everting the Aunty said on board
1:07 Lol I can't believe a lesbian looking masculine woman is telling women who they're supposed to date, and the poor woman has to defend herself for wanting better for herself and children and not say "I do" to unambitious.
No hurt, no mad, of course no sad, and I don't think playing the "race card" and "entrepreneurship card" make sense here, when you said you would only date a bus owner, that tells how you think about that topic. It's simple logic. Feel free to keep your standard, and claiming that you don't care about "salary" and "status" doesn't make sense. It's okay to have standards.
It's so sad that feelings get hurt when you say "Do BETTER." Like what!!, pushing ambition for black people is an offense now?! ... and what's more outrageous is the trolls are mad that you PERSONALLY desire an ambitious man that's an entrepreneur. The truth hurts the most when you're not winning WITHIN.
Well that's what women did throughout the 90s & early 2000's thanks to idiots like Steve Harvey bamboozling women into thinking like a men routine, book & movies. This after he locked up his first wife, after she paid his bills to help him reach his dreams. Schmmmuurrrr
@@stargates9993 See how you contradicted your argument? No one on this thread expressed support for Steve. Essie paid HIS bills aka settled for Steve when he was broke and see how she was rewarded? Thank you for validating Eboni’s point. 😕
Sampled you all & you are all the same. What a disappointment! But then again not surprising! None could match her light. No white dude, no black dude, all the same. Just have to look at the state of the world. Better yet, let's look at the global history of the gender that consistently overflow the prisons. Shall we?
Well I like her hutzpah! I just had to see what all the buzz was about bc quite frankly I never heard of Eboni but in regards to this narrative she is on point. There's nothing wrong with having high standards and staying true to your goal of building generational wealth and fortifying it with being a key player in infrastructure ownership.
you say you were talking about black ownership....., yet you say 0:42 You say it wasn't about money, yet you said 0:48 and 0:52 now how is that you talking about black ownership? You are entitled to your desires and wants, not sure why you got to double down and insult, insult insult. 3:57 Education is not for everyone, just because someone is book smart, does not make them smart. For example, You are a lawyer and claimed you didn't imply anything about money and was talking about black ownership, Yet your very own clip you chose to use contradicts what you said and does nothing to show how any of it was abut black ownership. People are not mind readers. The world is full of amazing C and D graduates who hold the very fabric of society functioning. Our water supply, electricity, homes, roads, hospitals, oil and gas, minerals, food, grocery, service industry, security...... Not sure why you had to insult insult and insult. Its really sad.
@Mr Tenz Do you realize there are machines that can prove that overwhelmingly men brains are affected by pathologies that makes it hard for them to use common sense? And I wish I was wrong. Because had women known about this just a couple of decades ago, many of you would not have seen the light of day. Please do yourself a favor & go back to the manosphere. Leave our new elected Queen take her throne in peace. I beg of you. Got too much dirt on you menz/Kangs to be nice. I birthed one of yous, So please just leave. I know it's not truly your fault.
Side note, I am not trying to be rude, but you also said that you've done them all. Has it ever occurred to you that you might be the problem? We all would like to think that we are always right. But sometimes The people that we look down on are smarter than us. Having money and assets doesn't make you wise. And before you get sideways on me. I've have my own trucking company, and I'm still a driver to this day. If you were in a life threatening situation none of those things would matter. Stay humble young lady.
Be strong eboni…. Shake the haters… what does a woman making a high 6 figures a year have in common with someone bringing home $600 to $800 every 2 weeks??? Make it make sense???
Subscribed and thank you for sharing what most of us are thinking with the world. As you said, sister, let them "go off". Maybe they will take some of that energy and get off their tails and start building, protecting, and leading.
Thanks, but we have done all that for a thousand years. You sit upon a mountain of male bodies who built the world that enables the frivolous, luxury lifestyle you have now. Literally what drove men to drag human society from the jungle to the metropolis was their inherent desire to serve and please women. It's the root of _everything_ we do. Now it's your turn to lead... and good luck with that 😁
or do both: go to school and go to the military, in either order. The contacts you make and the resources really help with starting your own business. Look at all the gun businesses that are pumping right now. Almost all are vet-owned, and damn proud of it. Having a military-skills training company is the "I do hair" for many veterans.
When she said I know the truth.... I held my breath.....just to hear it's the white-supermacy bogey-man again who makes her to date a bus driver. What a performance!
Eboni said your blue collar salary is to quote your dusty godfather kevin "average at best". Go get the cashier making $7.25/hr and stop begging college educated high earning Black women to settle.
PLEASE KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO!!!! It seems that BLK AMERIKKA NEEDS TO HEAR IT! Love your intelligence and the way you command the English language. LONG LIFE and more BLESSINGS will fall all around you ❤❤❤❤❤
Eboni said you niccas can enjoy your underclass status, but SHE ain’t going! 😂😂😂
And I'm with her.
And the men she want said “your to old for them “ so it works both ways lol
Get somebody else to do it. 😅
@@lottagotti4604 a grip of what?her opinion ?
@@cocoace7587 I am very dusty your right … lol
If BM can have preferences and not be shamed for it why is it a huge problem when a BW also have preferences?
Exactly lmfaooo I could care less about what they have to say. 99.9% of them would never even be in my dating pool
@@nicki1197 understood but the men she wants don’t want her either and she said “I have dated them all “ ironically saying she has been through them all but how is she still single ? And if she did why didn’t she bring up an example of a bus driver she dated ? Since she’s been through them all?
@@tendaichaponda8284 🤣🤣🤣 well said lol
@@tendaichaponda8284 Your not very smart. She said she dated all of these black men and none of them could step up to the plate or could match her income. And she doesn’t HAVE to continue to date those men, she chooses who she wants to be with 😂😂😂Only you men are afraid of dying alone like losers😂
@@tendaichaponda8284 I have dated them all doesn't mean none of them wanted her. She didn't say what happened in those dating sitches. It's very possible she passed on all of the men she dated because she felt like they weren't her man. I don't know her but as a woman that dates for long term partnership/marriage there is a lot of weeding out that happens because the person does not feel like your person.
You don't want the same things long term, your lives are not going in the same direction. This is not about money. Lots of people want to be parents but there are many different parenting styles, if your parenting styles don't align you shouldn't be parenting together. Same thing for marriage, same thing for building a life together. There are much deeper reasons why dates don't turn into marriage or a long term relationship then money or attraction.It's sad that we think quick and surface -"they don't want her" Instead of deeper - she never said what happened, I don't have enough info to know. Remember those questions on multiple choice tests? "Not enough info" - that was an option on our tests in school but we don't think that was preparing us for life situations where we do not have enough info to make a decision. So sad.
to all the dusties in the comments, The time you took to bash a black woman could have been spent filling out an online application to a higher paying job or to apply to some form of continued education to bring you out of the poverty mind and status in which you have grown comfortable with. Sprinkle Sprinkle!
says: a dusty overweight OnlyFans girl 🤢
Sprinkle Sprinkle 🌟💕
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🎶 I ain't saying shes gold digger, uh, but she ain't messing with no bus driver uh🎶 ✌️🤑✌️
As she shouldn't. Eboni Chooses to CHOOSE BETTER as she should! 💅
@@uniquelyme3581 😂. She doesn't seem very happy about being single at 40.
@@metalme2306 But she's ALIVE. Unlike others that have dated down and ended up with their lives taken by their spouses!
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You went way out of topic. Did you take your medicine today?
@@metalme2306 All the proof of what I'm saying is all out there for everyone to see. And yet l need medication? 🤣
A bus driver's ego wouldn't be able to handle having a woman who makes more-no need to explain. There's a reason why men who are high earners connect with women who earn less.
@FocusVenesa Have you seen the numbers of women who have lost their lives on the news for daring to date below them? From Kelly Clarkston, to Marie J Blige, to Wendy Williams, to Halle Berry, & the list goes on, it rarely ends well. Look at Sherry Sheppard she ended up having to pay child support for a child she never even agreed to bring into the world in the first place. Not worth ending up with a disease or finding out later the dude was a boody popper either. Is it? And once you have them on your arm, they can never do wrong, which means they mess up the wife gets the blame & gets dragged.
You speaking in sweeping generalizations only exposes your ignorance and low level of intelligence. Grow up!
How many high earning men are there to go around? Not many.
@@Slaughterproof , for example, you'll most likely never find a female doctor married to a cashier. You will find a male doctor married to a nurse, teacher, or a stay-at-home mom. Men marry down to be the provider.
😂😂😂😂 No man is intimidated by a successful woman. It's her insufferable personality n self entitlement due to her success.. Ant this chick leave a good dude just because he stayed with his children through covid.. Delusional
Eboni, you don't have to date a bus driver just like Black male professional athletes don't have to date housekeepers, cooks, or factory workers!
But they do. And marry them. And live happy lives if she isn't too much of a toxic misandrist.
actually most of them do because they have been with them before them became successful.
Please name a pro athlete who said his wife must be ‘an owner’ - we’ll wait.
Men aren’t impressed by women’s money - they know who it belongs to and that it won’t be added to the family funds.
Actually, black athletes date "down" all theee time. You must be a cook and warehouse worker...😂
That was a read Eboni. Soft bigotry of low expectations! Preach!
Yes that's a good one.
All of y'all think you're 10s. That's not how math works. There's not enough "10" men to go around if every one of you are holding out for one. Get it?
@@Slaughterproof Some of us don't mind being alone. Get it? There's not a lot of women that are 10s either... stfu and go to therapy
@@Slaughterproof Hit dogs holler. So emotional. 😕
@@Slaughterproof That has nothing to do with it.
Would you date the ice cream truck man? They own it lol
😂😂😂 I like this
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Why are yall so invested in trying to convince BW to date down?? Its giving crabs in a barrel. If youre a bus driver or an ice cream truck driver, you should date another bus driver or an ice cream driver. Everybody has their own lane lol
@@nicki1197 why do bm have to settle for bare minimum and date down also? N FYI it's not a black issue it's a western issue. Look Serena Williams married to a man who makes less than her.. But u want to take advice from this woman about relationships? Is funny. I'd only take legal advise as that's all she is qualified for.. . Y are men's preferences vilified by woman when we ask for no baby mommas. Or ratchet behaviour.. Or even just going abroad to find a suitable wife? N y is it OK n praised to b a whore ruin your family but still expect hvm? Seems like a bit of a double standard to me.. N a lot other western men of all races r fed up of it.
@@nicki1197 why are y’all convinced that “dating up” is only equivalent to high income”
Stand 10 toes down Eboni. I wholeheartedly agree with you. Mediocrity isn't something we should accept!
Loneliness is though. Embrace it with open arms gurrrrl. You got this!
@@Liu-Kang-Xi meanwhile you the loneliest of them all 😂
@@fancymocha3555 Bet that. At least all the girls love me.
No it's not but you have to be careful that your expectations are within the realm of reality, not fantasy otherwise you will end up forever chasing a dream.
@BLAZEGRAZE the realm of reality is Nonblack men who make 6 - figures in top ten metropolises. Dr. Ralph Richard Banks boom "marriage is for white people" tell university educated Black women to date the Nonblack men who sit next to them in class. Leave the Black dude from high school alone. They're underachieving.
IR marriage is exploding with Black women & nonblack men. Up 33% since 2015.
Its the way she didnt even respond when Iyanla first asked the question for me. Like I know she not talking to me about dating no damn bus driver.
As she should have. Iyanla wants to continue the cycle of dumping underachieving Black males onto high achieving Black women.
They want Black women to continue being the face of poverty. A woman can lose everything dating/marrying down.
She was probably lost in the moment, because that "would you date a bus driver" question had nothing to do with the question Eboni asked Iyanla. When I saw the interview, I thought I had missed something. I was literally thinking "where did that come from?" Honestly, when Iyanla first asked it, I didn't think it was actually a question to Eboni, I thought she was going to somehow make a connection between the question Eboni asked and a bus driver.
I’m following her just for her standing up for herself. Letting black women know don’t lower your standards!!!!!!!!!!
We ain't digging through the trash no more💯 we do not care 😃👋
You'll lower them as long as he's white eh? 😂
She’s an attorney/public figure lol be so fr. Most ppl date and marry in their financial or educational circles first off, second off how many bus drivers are willing to put envy and feeling not manly enough to date/marry an attorney it’s literally so unrealistic.
Then why did she get in her feelings and constantly interrupted Envy .. and ironically the men she wants she has been around for years so that says a lot about her and they don’t want a 39 yr old but that’s not equal to say right ?
@@tendaichaponda8284 🍼🍼🍼
She better read them for filth in her reporter voice. 😂
Struggle dating is not a flex. I’m not opposed to dating a bus driver, but I’m not gonna humble myself and flex that I’m dating a bus driver.
Iyanla was totally wrong, I agree with Eboni.
It comes down to the MENTALITY and the mindset.
You are 💯 correct.
Keep the standard high.
Buy a dog and die alone
The juice ain't worth the squizz
@@davidamen7747 You don't even have enough self pride to compete against other men for your own benefit. Disgraceful.
Keep the standard high and stay single. You realize all of you think you're 10s and are holding out for the top 10% of men, right? There aren't enough to go around. It's simple math.
@@Slaughterproof let these chicks be delusional man it kills the dating market faster and accelerates the death of this society
Iyanla is...that elder aunty...she rubs me the wrong way for sure. They want us to build men...lower our standards as if its our responsibility. Then they leave for the next one. Bs
They want you to buy the bus for him 😂
Gurrlll.. you better stop 😂😂😂
@@exjehooberdubexpiobeezleeb6269 She got plenty of time and no husband. Her kids got videogames and iphones so she's fine.
Coming from the women with all the demands in the world but offering nothing in return. That's why you see 40 year old failures like this who are single as a loose cigarette. How BW went from 80% married (the highest in the US) to less than 30% (the lowest in America) is because of the mindset you display, smh.
If not for men there'd be no bus. And no road to put it on. And no city for the road to go to.
@@goodlookinouthomie1757 Not YOU men. 🤣🤣
Keep those standards high; being alone or with cats in your 70s is way better than dusties in your well, ever!!
I agree. Go ahead and be miserable and alone. Better for the rest of us.
I promise this statement won't age well. Iyanla didn't say she would date ANY bus driver. She said she would date one with HIGH moral character.
It ages perfectly. Morals has nothing to do with the fact that he has no ambition and she has a lot so he will be filled with ego and try to bring her down like the millions of baby trapped women who control and manipulate women bc he chooses to be less. Go settle by yourself f
@@EmpressJoy OR maybe you can build TOGETHER like Tabitha Brown and her husband that worked as a COP. HE supported her dream and the entire family WINS in the end. To say a person has no ambition if they work 9-5 is so misguided and sad. Maybe a person's AMBITION is to HELP others. But peace and blessings to you SMH.
@@soulsister1976 Men want to build for women not with them. That's for losers who use women. Good luck selling that bridge
@@soulsister1976 Look out for the divorce announcement and saying they seemed so happy. Or maybe she'll be like most women and just stay with him cheating bc he doesn't feel like a man
@@EmpressJoy Wow!!! LOL...Like they've been married for 20 years..but OK sis ...You sound bitter and hurt when you speak negativity over other people's lives.. SMH
She likes white guys so this all makes sense
White guys are bus drivers too. It's crazy how this conversation became about the black community when asked about dating a bus driver.
@@teresamarie7460hmmmmmm
Ahhh yes, the white man. Welp, I'm not looking for Ebony. Enjoying my life with great women
Thank you 🙏 for voicing your preference… Letem stay mad
Indeed!
Let them stay mad for sure!
Men aren’t mad. The successful black men aren’t even dating black women, lmfao.
Eboni thank you for saying what you said. So many of us support you and are tired of the trivial questions and subjects discussed in the black culture that don't promote the culture to progress. You represent black excellence! Your desires and standards are absolutely reasonable but you know that already and i love it!
Iyanla wanted to trigger you. Iyanla is indeed telling BW to lower their standards which is dangerous.
They heard what they heard regarding bus drivers because they were triggered and projecting. NOT YOUR ISSUE!
You understand that when a women like her w attitude and disrespectful demeanor..she falls under the stats of the 90 percent of divorce rates that shes a example a reason many men are avoiding marriage...shes a reason?? Are you aware of that?? She falls under the educated women that divorce 90%
Well said!
Her expectations are keeping her alone and not starting or adding to the black community just herself.
Most black Americans historically aren't in the 1 percent. She said 99% oh humans ain't her equal because she has money and knowledge that adds nothing to a relationship.
Black excellence is being a bitter unmarried, childless woman who has gone "through all of the men" as she eloquently states while talking about her divinity and authentic black self but only wears a European hair style. Nice role model goals! 🎉
They are not reasonable but they are her own.
What would a woman of your status have in common with a mediocre bus driver? They have a different mentality and you’re right we should strive for more than average. Those who got mad don’t want much out of life. Low life and low budget.
Nothing
i think men should let this society collapse and let you kweens rebuild it =)
That's why she'll die alone cause the men's that she's striving for don't want her 😅😅 0:38 😅
@@MMA-r7m shes in her mid 30s at least of course shes gonna die alone or marry some 1mp haha
@@potheadraccoon8536 dusty yall dont build anything 🙄🤣🤣🤣 you drive a bus, remember?😆
Like everyone else, she is entitled to want whatever/whoever she wants. I'd honestly like to hear more about what she wants in a man, her ideal man, as part of a legitimate conversation...beyond the "provide/protect" aspect. Or maybe that's enough.🤔
That is NONE of your business. You don’t qualify and cannot introduce her to the type of men she desires.
You just want to weaponize any additional information against her and Black women in general.
@@toebeans3985 lmfao.. delusional. .she is 40.. she is washed up and cant have kids, no men that she could POSSIBLY want would want her outside of sex.. The men she wants can get ANY young beautiful woman..
@Toe Beans ; actually, she made it everyone's business when she chose to talk about it on a public forum. And, I just think it's an important part of a conservation to have, to get a perspective on what a woman like her is looking for in a man/mate. It's not a trap, it's a genuine curiosity (guess you missed the part about me stating she's entitled to want what she wants). And you don't know me. And I don't know you. Have a great day.
@@toebeans3985 how do you know ? Lol your proving his point
None of your business as the above comment. Go get busy with your lives
Yes Eboni, there are a few of us out here that support you!!! No we do not want the bus driver we want the owner of the company!!!! yyaaasss
So you are too good for the bus driver, just own it, instead of this word salad of ambitious ownership bla bla bla. Just own it, bus driver is too low social and financial status for me, which is fine, but because people dont want to be seen as vain and power/moneyhungry we have to pretend this a coherent answer. Its not.
@@joeblow5505 You sound hurt. You need to take care of that misplaced bitterness. You choose your paycheck. You choose your lifestyle. Accountability. 😕
To bad he doesn’t want you
The question was definitely not "would you date a bus driver". The question was "would you allow your self-perceived status to keep you from getting married", or perhaps the question was even more nuanced than I can comprehend because I am not a black person. But her answer was clear, "my status is far more important than my happiness".
I support you. Black women need to raise up and keep their standards.
Standards as in?
@@Slaughterproof you must not have any. I support you to have standards too
@@Slaughterproof Not you ❤
Iyanla is out of touch and her relationship history is full of bad judgment and choices. Period. Iyanla asked you a very UNFAIR question. On its own, the bus driver question was dismisive of your socio-economic status, lifestyle, education etc etc. I had a problem with the question. You answered honestly. So dont second guess yourself. Let the dusties catch up.
Say it louder for the people in the back!
Why should she ? that is his problem not hers !
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Iyanla Vanzant shaking her head like "This B**** still don't get it"😂😂😂😂.
She really doesn't get it.
Iyanla dated and married men who made money. She definitely didn't marry a bus driver. Iyanla wouldn't marry one either without a prenup.
@Nadine Bus drivers make good money...It's the job title women are obsessed with...Nothing wrong with prenups either.
there was nothing to get. I would have said worse ! lol
The same women who stabbed her first husband? Be serious
This is liberation. This is growth. This is what you call, A READ 😂 Shoutout to the black women who are ascending in logic and communication. This is way deeper than dating a bus driver. Good Job Eboni 🍊💙
who are single and cant have kids or a good husband.. you guys slaying KAWEENS!!
@@nevswain478 Team single and childfree is the best to be. 💅🏾
@@TOFFEETASTICC yes, lonely and sad. Keep the good genes for people who actually have vallue and are good looking.. We don't need more pepole with your trite putrid ideology destroying society even more.. Stay single and childfree please.
Logic? 😂😂😂
OK chief..
Most people date and marry people from similar educational and socioeconomic backgrounds. I don’t see any issue with her preference.
It’s not the preference that gets people bothered . It’s they way she seems to “talk down on the bus driver or even the average joes”.
I agree with every word and I add that you are allowed to prefer more money, status etc because you sacrificed and worked for it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She has the right but if people say your a “gold digger” don’t get in your feelings as well ..
If only men cared.. She is old. no man who is successful wants her, hence why she is still single lmfao.. it goes both ways.
@@nevswain478 I don't see her complaining about being single the way you are. & expecting her to date down just because you think she should is an insult. If you're a bus driver, go date another bus driver!
@@nicki1197 Hey kid, that's not how life works. She IS sad, hence her tirade. She WILL be sadder when she is a dried up 50 yr old, with no kids or family who cares about her. I can GARAUNTEE she takes a heep loads of anti depression meds, and a heep loads of drugs to get through the night. Don't let her fool you via the nonesense she believes in and spew on tv for views from other lonely women. She has ZERO value in the sexual marketplace.. She is old, can't have kids, and isn't as pretty as any other 20+ yr old girl that exist every day.. She brings nothing to the table except a bad attitude and a reminder that she is a ''boss babe who don't need no man''.. The truth is MEN DONT WANT HER, hence why she is single after admitting she has ''been with them all''.. She is clearly looking and knows she is just a loser who can't get anyone to commit to her.. People in her tax bracket don't need women with jobs, much less one with a disgusting attitude fueled by feminist ideals..
But hey, keep talking about dating down.. She doesn't have a choice eitherway cuz no one wants me for marriage..
@@nevswain478 It’s better to be single than to lay with dust like you 👍
Don’t ever settle. Just wait , the right man will come and give u whatever you wish for . Don’t settle. 😊
She's not in her prime
@@Realityroundtablepod shut up 🤐. She is strong , independent and needs no man
@@wisl8122 well if she doesn’t need a man why you telling her to wait for one 😂😂
@@theodoresurtee1178 because it makes her FEEL good 😊
Keep waiting on Santa
GIRLLLLLL TALK ABOUT THE GRADES because I had to be a straight A+ STUDENT but my brother on the other hand…. It was okay for him to fail. The mediocrity is real.
She’s the man she’s always been looking for…….
Ebony we love and support you! You are helping a lot of BW with that comment.❤
Helping you be single for the rest of your life LOL
@@bobbyschannel349 How you not embarrassed being the losers of the world?
@@bobbyschannel349 Women only die single when they focus on men too much. Women are social creatures & very capable, always been. We are nation makers.
@Shea 121 I know right! It's so brave of her to stand up like that. Not a lot of women of her caliber dare. So this is huge!
@@bobbyschannel349 black men are at the bottom of men.
Girl, you said what you said and you don't owe these bums with their hurt feelings any apology. You're a millionaire yourself, you don't have to date down to please these bums. These the same bums who weigh over 300 lbs, eats fried foods, no job, still living in their parents basement, don't work out to save his life, high body count and has multiple baby mamas are the same ones that wants a woman who's skinny, works out, makes 6 figures, "feminine and traditional", eats healthy, no kids, low "body count" and be asking what she brings to the table. Why we women have to lower our standards for these men but they have to keep theirs high?when it comes to us? Live your life.
Every man ideally wants a traditional and feminine woman. The only man who would settle for a woman with money is either a beta simp or user. Men aren't attracted to money in women and career women tend to come with habits men worth a damn would never put up with. A man like that doesn't settle. He'd prefer a younger, attractive and more feminine woman. The more money a woman makes, the smaller her pool of options gets and now that the average guy knows where she stands, not even they would want her after she realizes the men she wants don't want her. I don't hate on a woman for having high standards. They should. The issue comes with the entitlement that you're deserving of a top tier guy without having the qualities they want. The outcome will not be favorable.
@@Caine_Housethere is no such thing as a woman being low value. Women can literally have anything they want.
@@lyssanc Yes there is and no they can't.
@@Caine_House it seems like you haven’t spent much time in the real world then. Once women realize this the world is their oyster. It’s so sad that few actually realize it.
@@lyssanc It sounds like you've spent no to time in the real world and too much of it in a delusional bubble of your own creation. Women and men get what they work for and even then, it's not guaranteed. Not a single person on Earth has everything they want, not even the richest person in the world.
Ownership is fundamental and integral to me becoming the first in my family not struggling ever again. Im done being average💯
Thank you well said …. As Kanye said “SLAVERY IS A CHOICE!” …not to be confused with “slavery WAS a choice”
She isn't single by choice though.. She is single because the men that she wants DONT WANT HER BACK! lmfao xD.. SLAY KAAWEENNN
@@nevswain478 OMG! You are so right. ua-cam.com/users/shortsSyfywY8-9Og
@@nevswain478and you know this how?
@@MissQue715 i have a functioning brain. I know sexual dynamics between men and women. She wouldn't talk the shit she is if she was chosen by any of the men she wants.. She would have a ring on her finger. She doesnt..
@@nevswain478 another upset incel 🤣
First she says 0:52 - 0:57 "[Men] They're not earing the incomes, they are not having the resources"
2:54 "I was never talking about money at all"
I swear they don't even hear themselves...
Condescending- is the best word to describe this overly crafted statement. Its sad when the people who do the work, fail to realize they need to work on themselves. If she believing what she saying right now, she is in no condition to speak on the behalf of the culture/black folk. The posture and response shows a lack of self awareness.
💯 🎯. You stated that perfectly ! To add, if Eboni’s statement is even remotely righteous when she says it’s irrespective of salary , income, pension etc.. then if she were to be asked asked “Well would you date a Pilot ?” Her answer should be “ If he owns the plane” What about a Teacher ? Should they own a school ? She’s made the error of buying into what you do is WHO you are . Which explains why her being attorney and whatever other titles she has , has ENVELOPED her identity . She wants to approve of a persons work identity in society and not WHO they are as her partner/person.
@@VyCityMusic There a small planes like cesnas that one can own and one can open a charter school so you're not making a good point.
It's sad males make any excuse to be less and try to drag women down with them instead of raising themselves
Lol oh please… if you’re pathetic, be that on your own. Do not drag women into your piss poor mindset. Eboni is what black successful women should be like. Cause guess what, SHE IS RIGHT! BM are full of excuses and misdirected blame. No one has to accept it.
@@NoaNoir lol, you’ve gotta be kidding. A brand new Cessna costs about $400,000+ for a 2023 model. Models from 1960-2001 will cost you anywhere from $40,000-$200,000+, not even including insurance, hangar fees, maintenance, fuel and cost of flying the plane per hour. You’re looking at $14,000 a year just on those alone and about $131/hr to fly the plane. So first you’ve gotta make up to half a mill just to buy a current model and a further $14,000 a year just to own the thing. Then you’ve got your apt/house rent, utilities , your car insurance etc. Unless you’re making well over $150,000/year, owning a small plane isn’t realistic for most people. Oh and, pilots license, you’re looking at anywhere between $7000-$10,000.
That was beautifully said Eboni!
Nothing wrong with what she said lol…I’m a truck driver and I wouldn’t date her either lol…but she has a right to her opinion.
Don’t lower your standards because then they will tell you, you should’ve chose better when shit hits the fan. 💅🏽 Eboni said what she said. No sir, no ma’am. 😂 Love you babes ❤
Love everything about this I agree with Eboni!!
The saddest part about this is you are a smart, rich and strong women. You've probably worked really hard and sacrificed to achieve your wealth and status, But what's the point of all of that, if at the end of the day when you are gone, all the stuff you worked to build will be forgotten, the state, will take it and claim is as their own, no kids to carry on your memory and speak of the foundation you laid. It ends with you, the men you are saying you deserve are most likely not looking to add kids to their portfolio, you have the money and means to get the IVF but at your age, that's not guaranteed. All that, because you spent your life thinking you are too good to marry a man who isn't XYZ. What's the point if it all basically goes to waste when you are gone?
Dayum!! And nooooobody else commented?? Some women are just entitled and lost.
Don't apologize, and continue to stand on your square. Mediocrity is unacceptable.
Didn't know you had a UA-cam channel. I agreed with everything you said. I respect lyanla so much BUT l disagree with what she said. I'm subscribing to you right now!
as a teacher I fucking hate the C grade comment. I have actual students and had students who I still remember to this day who are actually trying hard, but just aren't good at my subject or in general. They tried hard for that C when they expected an F
Thank you. I hate when teachers get blamed for their students bad grades when their parents are the one who coddle and normalize mediocrity in their households. I see why more teachers are throwing up the deuces. 😕
Nah she said nothing against bus drivers she has a preference and high standards and there’s nothing wrong with that
I love this!!! Go off Eboni!!! Period!
Eboni K. Williams I've subscribed and appreciate your point of view. I'm a Black man and when I saved my first 100K I was proud of myself because I didn't know anyone else in my family that has done so, unfortunately they seem hell bent on consuming instead of manufacturing. I was listening to a broadcast last night putting you down and it's a shame, my father had 8 children and left us to be raised alone by my mother, he was good at making babies and that was about it. That's not enough, I see women in general being used and abused my men. I'm concerned with my sisters though, as a boy I was conditioned to use and abuse women. Born in detriot michigan and influenced by the ignorante brothers I had. Women deserve better and I'm all for my sisters liberating themselves for the betterment of themselves and offspring. Too many Black men have dropped the ball and left our sisters hanging, I'm glad my Ma found a good Black Man that loved her and provided for her and helped to raise me also. He's the man i look up to! Hard working and Owned property> 6 acres. I'll be checking in young sister take care, you are appreciated!
Boyyy she danced this wayyy and that wayyy. 😂😂😂. Is there an eyeroll emoji??
For you yes clown 🤡
This is what entitlement brings you. An idea of victimhood masked by narcissism.
It's completely okay for the average salary of a blue collar or 9-5 worker not to suffice for you or your "necessities of life". Just leave the pro black out of it.
I want to know why black men are not offended at Iylana for grouping them as Bus Drivers. Can you imagine if this conversation were reversed and Iylana implied to a black man that he needs to settle for a maid because that’s what the majority of black women do?Oh my gawd, black women would be screaming “we are educated earning 6-figure salaries “. black men can’t check Iylana, bc they are the bus drivers. Smh
exactly they just automatically accepted the status of mediocrity as if it were perfectly normal and ok..... thats how brainwashed they are, its sad if you ask me.
Modern bw have lowest of comprehension skills! See here.
@@marsmith1907 The only one lacking comprehension is you. Can’t you read before typing? 😕
Imagine this woman as your boss, or as a president. #MadEbola
Calling yourself a "political analyst" is like calling a dumpster fire a safe haven.
And you what are you do you know her ?
Found a bitter dust driver. 😕🚌
Her former CFO white fiance Steven Glenn really dodged a bullet by calling off the engagement to her. He saw the gold digger in her eyes lol
Get lost dusty. Have you seen her home? She stands tall. Tall & makes us proud
You guys are dumb.
You don't even understand when someone ACTUALLY cares about you.
@@stargates9993 an lastly, wasn't she on the real housenegros of new York? With her broke @$$ lol. She's been drifting an grifting from place to place. She should be thankful that a "Dusty" black male billionaire Byron Allen hired her because no white male seems to be in any rush to employ her. Btw, her lawyers liesense was permanently suspended. Ha! She thought them white women was going to except her hahaha. Til the next episode of the real house N_gg_$ of new york. 😅
Big facts
@@stargates9993
She is single ..40..looks tired , tense and desperate …and quite hurt here ….plus she swirls…rubbish ..she needs to humble herself and take everting the Aunty said on board
1:07
Lol I can't believe a lesbian looking masculine woman is telling women who they're supposed to date, and the poor woman has to defend herself for wanting better for herself and children and not say "I do" to unambitious.
Hello Ms. Eboni,
I just found out about you on Cythina G channel. I'm 💯 in agreement with you.
Imagine getting fired as a lawyer for shoplifting, then having the gall to make these asinine coments.. lmfao.. delusional.
She's going to die alone. Not even the guys she wants want her lol
If a woman dates a dusty she gets criticized, but when she wants someone who is stable and striving for more she still gets criticized. 🤦♀️
Eboni looks like she needs a long holiday and a good massage ..
No hurt, no mad, of course no sad, and I don't think playing the "race card" and "entrepreneurship card" make sense here, when you said you would only date a bus owner, that tells how you think about that topic. It's simple logic.
Feel free to keep your standard, and claiming that you don't care about "salary" and "status" doesn't make sense. It's okay to have standards.
Black ownership huh 🤣 good one. And who are you protecting 🤣🤣🤣😩😩
Future generations of women. That's whom she is protecting. As well as her peace, sanity, health & her wealth. Sound like a powerful legacy to me.
I’m seeing a lot of bitter dust drivers in these comments. 😎🍿
It's so sad that feelings get hurt when you say "Do BETTER." Like what!!, pushing ambition for black people is an offense now?! ... and what's more outrageous is the trolls are mad that you PERSONALLY desire an ambitious man that's an entrepreneur. The truth hurts the most when you're not winning WITHIN.
Right! Never lower your standards. 🎉
Well that's what women did throughout the 90s & early 2000's thanks to idiots like Steve Harvey bamboozling women into thinking like a men routine, book & movies. This after he locked up his first wife, after she paid his bills to help him reach his dreams. Schmmmuurrrr
@@stargates9993 Its not the 90s anymore. Women are no longer obliged to submit to an underachiever. Either get your passport or get over it. 😕
@@stargates9993 See how you contradicted your argument? No one on this thread expressed support for Steve. Essie paid HIS bills aka settled for Steve when he was broke and see how she was rewarded? Thank you for validating Eboni’s point. 😕
@@TOFFEETASTICCGot my passport. Best decision
I would date Eboni K Williams!
Why are you speaking on the actions of blk men when you have a history of dating white men? Go find your snow queen sis
Nah fr
Sampled you all & you are all the same. What a disappointment! But then again not surprising! None could match her light. No white dude, no black dude, all the same. Just have to look at the state of the world. Better yet, let's look at the global history of the gender that consistently overflow the prisons. Shall we?
You’re just mad bcs she will never want you
I’m not even rich and I’ll never date a bus driver it’s a stressful job I don’t date men in stressful jobs
Well I like her hutzpah! I just had to see what all the buzz was about bc quite frankly I never heard of Eboni but in regards to this narrative she is on point. There's nothing wrong with having high standards and staying true to your goal of building generational wealth and fortifying it with being a key player in infrastructure ownership.
you say you were talking about black ownership....., yet you say 0:42
You say it wasn't about money, yet you said 0:48 and 0:52
now how is that you talking about black ownership?
You are entitled to your desires and wants, not sure why you got to double down and insult, insult insult.
3:57 Education is not for everyone, just because someone is book smart, does not make them smart.
For example, You are a lawyer and claimed you didn't imply anything about money and was talking about black ownership, Yet your very own clip you chose to use contradicts what you said and does nothing to show how any of it was abut black ownership. People are not mind readers.
The world is full of amazing C and D graduates who hold the very fabric of society functioning. Our water supply, electricity, homes, roads, hospitals, oil and gas, minerals, food, grocery, service industry, security...... Not sure why you had to insult insult and insult. Its really sad.
@Mr Tenz Do you realize there are machines that can prove that overwhelmingly men brains are affected by pathologies that makes it hard for them to use common sense? And I wish I was wrong. Because had women known about this just a couple of decades ago, many of you would not have seen the light of day. Please do yourself a favor & go back to the manosphere. Leave our new elected Queen take her throne in peace. I beg of you. Got too much dirt on you menz/Kangs to be nice. I birthed one of yous, So please just leave. I know it's not truly your fault.
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I wasn’t familiar with you but I’m glad you went viral. I love your message! Ordering your book ASAP!
Both her books are fire 🔥
Nothing wrong with having standards
But standards should be about character and values …not social status and money
@@stormship1647 Men are judged by their social and economic status. Her standards are her standards. 😕
Don’t settle for anyone or anything in life. Higher standards higher expectations.
Won't work out how a lot think... But ok
Show us the likes compared to dislikes😅😅😅
UA-cam doesn’t have the dislike button. 😕
Side note, I am not trying to be rude, but you also said that you've done them all. Has it ever occurred to you that you might be the problem? We all would like to think that we are always right. But sometimes The people that we look down on are smarter than us. Having money and assets doesn't make you wise. And before you get sideways on me. I've have my own trucking company, and I'm still a driver to this day. If you were in a life threatening situation none of those things would matter. Stay humble young lady.
😆Oh! So you applying to be her driver then? Should have said so
@Stargates999 naw never that but I'll give you a job lol
Stay? When did she start?
I was just watching a panel where they asked all the women would they date a bus driver. The yt woman said no.. No pushback.
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Be strong eboni…. Shake the haters… what does a woman making a high 6 figures a year have in common with someone bringing home $600 to $800 every 2 weeks??? Make it make sense???
Subscribed and thank you for sharing what most of us are thinking with the world. As you said, sister, let them "go off". Maybe they will take some of that energy and get off their tails and start building, protecting, and leading.
Thanks, but we have done all that for a thousand years. You sit upon a mountain of male bodies who built the world that enables the frivolous, luxury lifestyle you have now. Literally what drove men to drag human society from the jungle to the metropolis was their inherent desire to serve and please women. It's the root of _everything_ we do. Now it's your turn to lead... and good luck with that 😁
You got Ratio'd hard!😂😂😂
.....I came here to be mad....but goddammit....she makes a lot of sense
Baby girl. Its cool.
Abso-F-inglutely. Don't forget to like & sub. We need her voice.
We were mad about your mouth smacking 🤣
‘ I guess go off’ I LOVE HER 😂😂😂
We were taught go to school and get a job or the military. Fam we are at the bottom time to try it differently. Nothing wrong with what she said. ❤
or do both: go to school and go to the military, in either order. The contacts you make and the resources really help with starting your own business. Look at all the gun businesses that are pumping right now. Almost all are vet-owned, and damn proud of it. Having a military-skills training company is the "I do hair" for many veterans.
When she said I know the truth.... I held my breath.....just to hear it's the white-supermacy bogey-man again who makes her to date a bus driver. What a performance!
Go off! ❤
It’s not what you say it’s how you said it
Eboni said your blue collar salary is to quote your dusty godfather kevin "average at best". Go get the cashier making $7.25/hr and stop begging college educated high earning Black women to settle.
PLEASE KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO!!!! It seems that BLK AMERIKKA NEEDS TO HEAR IT! Love your intelligence and the way you command the English language. LONG LIFE and more BLESSINGS will fall all around you ❤❤❤❤❤
she tried to promote that book 🤣.... dusty
As she should! Now run along in your diaper low performers in society 🍼🍼
I love her already! I'm subscribing, can't wait for more content like that. And yes I enjoy being in my glorious divinity.
I'm not sure this is really her channel. Or if she even has a YT
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