I Hate Your Toxic Ways: Shakira Townsend v Patrick Green
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- Shakira says she is tired of being sexually deprived and having to carry all the financial weight in the relationship. She’s ready to move on if her boyfriend, Patrick, doesn’t make any changes.
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This man was comfortable sleeping in his mamas basement 😂 why did she ever believe he’d do right by her?
Exactly. Honey he was just looking to get out of his mothers basement. Women stop being soooo desperate
Stupidity
Her biggest flaw, is the fact that she equates love with sex, as do most people, when they are, COMPLETELY TWO DIFFERENT THINGS, IT"S ALSO THE CULPRIT OF 99% OF HER BAD DECISION MAKING IN LIFE, THE ONLY MAN SHE SHOULD BE CHASING IS, GOD 💯
She didn't care, she just wanted sex. 😂😂😂
Because unfortunately a lot of women are ," Captain save ho" They always think they can change a man
I'll never understand these couples where they decide to move in together after knowing each other for a very short time. You could be bringing a serial killer into your home.
She replaced Toxic with TOXIC and wasted 3 years of her life. However, they weren't even married, so why did they bother to come on Divorce Court? Just take this "L" in private and break up back in New Jersey
Is this your first time here?
@@CreativelyKia definitely NOT 🤣🤣🤣
@@HTAnderson76 so why even asked that question😭😭 they’ve beeeeennn doing that even prior to judge star. They had unwed couples on here all the time with judge lynn and faith🤣💀.
@@CreativelyKia oh…. I’m aware of unmarried couples on past seasons. However a lot of those couples WERE on the path to getting married and several left divorce court… engaged.
But THIS couple, they just came on here to embarrass themselves.
She just as toxic though for allowing that man to move on like he did
I'm drained too. Whew child! No love, no trust, nor respect. That man would still lie even if life depended on telling the truth.
Yeah,but she cheated on her boyfriend for this....
@@omgmazin ? And? She was forthcoming with what she did, he wasn't even with the evidence presented in front of Judge Star. They both acted wrong but he has no character or integrity.
@moussabby that's what she choose, he was definitely upfront to her in the relationship
@@omgmazin She definitely chose him, he was certainly not upfront.
U had a man, cheated, moved this man in 3 days later and slept with him because u had the same birthday...so u thought he was heaven-sent 🤦🏽♀️..🚩🚩🚩
He basically was a live-in body guard
Exactly
I mean what a low bar
Sent,definitely not heaven sent😂😂😂😂
lol sounds like it was sent by God🤨🙄
We, as ladies, have to, at some point, take accountability for our poor decisions. I've learned that we choose men based on where we are mentally and emotionally. I've been there. It's never wise to go from one relationship to the next without self reflection and healing work.
Yes, I agree. I have been there as well. You have to love yourself first. 😊
True
Agreed cause I've definitely knew better but didn't do better
💯💯💯
That last part! ✨🙌🏾💯
You can look at that man’s face and tell he’s toxic.
Damn
Facts 💯 😂
She used him to get out of a toxic relationship with another man. Who chose that man?
@@bryanbeeman5256 she did. Does that make him any less toxic like I said? No.
lol yes
THEY BOTH WERE EACH OTHER’S SCAPEGOAT! Listen from the beginning. They USED each other! Smh
FOSSIL FACT! He was a way to escape her ex, and she was a way out of mom's basement. They need to stay together or be by themselves cause nobody deserves them.
He think he’s slick. Lol. I love the way he buys time by making up crazy stories and pausing. Good job Mr. Green!😊🤣🤣🤣
"Good job, Mr. Green... not!" 😂
She admitted that she slept with him immediately after meeting him,even though she had a boyfriend, this is dysfunction on a whole different level🤦🏿♂️
Correct
If he didn’t want to be exposed as a liar, cheater, and slouch he could have stayed home. I think he lied through his teeth. And she knew it was over before she got there.
slightly unrelated, but There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I really understand why what you're saying matters, and I truly want to find happiness as well. I have someone special in my life, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine living without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to make things right.
Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate your direction. I'll swiftly look her up online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will bring about positive changes for me too; her absence is deeply felt.
welcome
This was so lovely to read.. It’s true that what works for them may not work for me, but if both people are willing to work on it, find solutions, and make some compromises… and forgive each other, marriage can last and be fulfilling and loving. Wishing you and your wife 100 more years of love and partnership 💜
I just don't understand why this is called Divorce Court and not Court counseling
Because divorce is not exclusive to marriage. It just means to separate or dissolve. You can do that with any kind of relationship.
@quichequiche4274 you can only divorced if you are married. The other relationship were just dissolved.
@ChocoBeauty8 You can GET a divorce if you are married. But you can divorce ANYTHING.
Seems like everyone need judge Starr help
@quichequiche4274 If I may respectfully offer a clarification, divorce is only applicable to legally married couples. While long-term relationships can be deeply committed, they do not carry the same legal implications as marriage. Additionally, only a few states recognize common-law marriages. It's important to acknowledge that the rights and benefits granted to spouses in a marriage are not extended to unmarried partners.
I'm 3 minutes and 42 second in and I am ready to roll out.... 👀👀
This was EXHAUSTING AFFFF
These couples get worse and worse every episode.
🤣😂🤣😂😭😭😭 Sad, but true!!! 🤦🏾♀️
You slept with the man after knowing him for three hours? 😂😂😂
They had the same birthday and that was the sign!!! CHILE please!!!
Cheater fell in love with a pookie
Summed it right on up, I can log off now 💯
Birds of the same feather flow together
She's not going anywhere, they love those guys they have to take care of.
like they love they baby!
All that yelling. I don’t believe love ever lived there
I don’t feel bad for her because she had a man but instead of leaving him she decided to become a cheater and guess what the new man was a cheater 😂
She should of waited and got to know him first instead of jumping in head first
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Man I’ve seen your same comment twice on two different videos saying the same thing. It wasn’t meant to be so don’t fight it say fuck it and move on, the right girl with the fattest ass will come around made for you. You’ve just gotta be open to it you might’ve been in love with her but I guarantee you you’ll find the girl that was made just right for you at the most random time and your whole energy will change. Nobody likes being dumped but shit happens everyday different so make tmr about you and finding your somebody. It won’t happen immediately but whatever’s gods plan is he’s got you. Just be strong a man and just do your thing that woman will stand out eventually different from the crowd and be the best thing for you. Don’t stress it don’t fight it none of that. There is always a better one waitin for you on the better side
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Poor mama, here he is coming back home again..
😅😅haha
Damn. Lol 😂
Toxicity was rampant in this case. Like many Divorce Court cases I’ve seen, children were unfortunately caught in the middle, witnessing the toxicity in the house. When will people understand that there’s no love for each other when they clearly hate each other in a public forum? This case was so sad. For the children’s sake, I hope both parties went their separate ways after the taping.
Just because of his age, she believed she would be "swept off her feet"? Slept with him the same day? Cheated on her boyfriend? She's getting what she deserved, her actions were raggedy and stupid.
Exactly
I don’t understand these relationships it starts of foul it’s gonna end foul 😂😂
This is why it's important to fall in love with yourself before getting into a relationship. Self-love would have been repulsed by this man's behavior to begin with.
I think Robert's assessment of this couple as wanting to use the show to argue and act dramatic is accurate.
Agreeed I thought they were actors
Them side burns are wild 😂😂
When I was his age worn my the same way.
These women like picking anything just to keep from having an empty bed and these men like being picked just to have a woman other than there momma to take care of them.
Wow!! Thanks so much for this comment with big facts!
Bingo!
Fun fact: I think they actually deserve each other.
The way he tried to characterize his living arrangement at his moms as if he wasn’t a bum but more so a responsible, paying tenant living in a separate dwelling 😂
Do they know the meaning of COMMUNICATION ? ?😂
Most of the couples that go on that show dont
All it took for this man to sleep with her was a shared birthday?! After 3h. 7 billion of human beings, do you know how many people share the same birthday?!
She sounds crazy on national tv talking about they had the same birthday she thought it was heaven sent
What a very un educated relationship solution😅
He's soo phony.
Whew they gave me a headache..🙄
Me too adult babies 😮
He's very slick
You move a man in after only knowing him for threes days, what did she expect?
And had sex with him hours after they met. I wonder whether any protection was used . Folk just out here sleeping with random people all Willy nilly🙄
she left a toxic relationship to another
I somehow doubt that the man is not half a toxic as she made him to be
If you're desperate enough to move a man in with you after 3 days you get what you get.
Living in his MOMMAS basement he wasn't about NOTHING. He's to OLD to be TRYING TO BE A PLAYER..
8:34 @shirleyrussell7089
I guess your not from the north, family actually wants family close, as well it sure ain’t cheep in any way at all for a single income person to live comfortably in that area and again home is home and moma to a man is your Mama, I’m sure she is of an age that he probably is able to offer her the best possible security and I’m sure mama wether she says it or not northern families take care of there own and there is always one who manages the matriarch
Another phone means I'm keeping the door open to jump somewhere else, just in case this one doesn't work out..
I knew how this would go just looking at the thumbnail 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😂
Isn’t the whole point of dating someone older for them to be more responsible and stable? No way I’m dating a man 10 years older and paying the bills 😩 he’s not even attractive either so what’s the point?! She must be desperate. She did sleep with him the same day she met him so clearly she makes questionable choices.
I'm sorry blacula is lying his ass off
This is the worst case i have seen on Divorce Court in years. Bring out the boxing gloves or just leave. Get as far away from each other as you can.
people behave like this when they believe they are being taken advantage of.
Agree
As women exiting a relationship, we need to heal and get in-tuned with ourselves before getting into another relationship. If we don't take this time for ourselves, our next relationship will be just as toxic.
Girl, bye. You LET this man play you & got what you got. “We have the same birthday, I thought it was heaven sent…” She sounds like a bird. 🙄
Correct! Just stupid logic.
Women have to stop falling for the older man trap, it's just not as effective as it used to be. She wanted a savior and like Star said, she ended up being the knight in shining armor boop 🤭
Stop falling, stop moving men in 3 days after meeting them. He could have been a murder, molester, woman beater, the list goes on.
Sorry Judge sage doesn’t get rid of evil spirits it attracts them. And and it’s a very funky musty smell! 😂😂😂😂
Prayer gets rid of all spirits
Herbs doesn't attract nor repel spirits. People use sage to season their chicken? Is the chicken now possessed?
So, this lady needed a bodyguard for this other guy, and he wanted to move out of his mom's basement. It seems like she has a thing for Pookie and RayRay. On top of that, she let some complete stranger move in with her and her kids. She must have been really scared of that other guy, or maybe this is just how she rolls.
As for that guy, I'm sure his mom was more than ready for him to move out. I mean, he wasn't exactly paying rent or anything.
I'm going to start a petition to change the name from divorce court to hook up court because i can't remember the last time I've seen any of these couples who were actually married.
Good luck with that. The shows only been around for like 30 years and even back when Judge Lynn and Judge Faith were on here they still had a couples that came on that were unwed…so furthermore good luck with that dude
This lady should have not come to divorce court for advice she should just drop him. I can tell from here he is not worth her.😮
I stuck on my ill lust demonstrated in the headliner: Tired of toxic ways 👐🏾🙌🏾
He's lying with those Elvis sideburns. Sit down somewhere
😂😂😂
Toxicity attracts toxicity. Ex was toxic and abusive but she is toxic too.
This guy is a grown baby, willing to let a woman take of him and shows gratitude by cheating. A match made in hell 😂
They both are a total loss.
Damn
She’s not going anywhere🤷🏽♀️
Now yall know what 😂 I already know Auntie Star will be present today!! 😮😮😮😂😂😂😂
I can't imagine a man truly respecting a woman that he slept with in 3 hours of meeting her, he knows she's a cheater and she moved him in 3 days later. She basically gave herself and her home away w/o ANY effort on his part. Sending him a huge signal that he didn't even have to try, yet she has the audacity to have expectations after the fact.
Girl the signs are there he doesn’t give a damn
FIRST MISTAKE NOT HIS WIFE HAD SEX...2ND HE SHOULD HAVE MARRIED YOU AND HAD A HOME FOR BOTH OF YOU.
She cannot be serious. You thought God sent him but immediately did exactly what God said NOT to do.
lol exactly. Like what the heck ?!!!
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Oh k my hometown but dudes in Paterson are just trifling 😂😂😂
What did she expect from the very beginning, went so quick!
These two are hilarious and entertaining. For some reason I like them.
This couple didn't trust each other in the first place they diffinetly don't see eye to eye on anything. Why are they on Divorce Court and they aren't married in the first place?
She has kids and moved in a stranger into her home within 3 days?!!!
Judge: WHY? Me; They are having a Stand-off.☢☢
then people are toxic to themselves having money aint nothing if you running around cheating and blaming everybody else
He takes no accountability!! Try’s to delegate and control the room.
They talk slept with each the same day she was using him to protect her from her ex they both know neither can be trusted because he met her while she was in a relationship I don't beleive when she said she paid all the bills base on the exchange between them on the end Judge Star is terrible the answer they never got to know each other she was a young tender roni and she needed his protection in which he was a fool and could have lost his life over a stranger
He's busted !
it is a sad day when you do not know when you are in a toxic relationship vs a healthy relationship.
The first 5mins of this and I dont need to hear anymore. You had a man. met this Dude bust down within hrs. Moved him in within days. She thought she had a Captain and he pulled a whammy on her.
Stop thinking a man gonna do more for you and your than you do for yourself. Wtf would you think this man gonna swwep you off your feet in hrs. No pity here
Soon as she said Patterson NJ I wasn’t surprised she slept with him within 3 hrs……
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You gotta explain this to me being that I'm from the south.
LOOL Patterson got that reputation huh?
A 40 year old man still at his mama's house and she thought he was a good person to build a family with. Smh
😂😂😂😂😂3hrs from meeting this man yall was in the bed together enough said. One thing about a broke and broken man is he gone flip you upside down and round and round that bed because that's all he has to offer. 🤦🏾♀️😅
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a family member helping out a family member (son daughter or otherwise). And quite frankly there is nothing wrong with family members living in a building together because this is behavior of a village taking care of the villagers. Case closed. Why do some folks always seem to look at this as a negative? How can you get ahead if you are constantly dividing up the pie?
She’s 34 and he had to help her leave a toxic relationship, and now she’s the problem and women don’t want to see the truth even the judge!!!!!!
The lady everything she said he was. One txt message labels u as a cheater when she had multiple times she was doing it. She wouldn’t shut up long enough to get any info. She think she know everything like the judge said. Dude probably tired of that bullshit she talking.
Dropping the drawls on day one🙄 what did she expect to eventually be the result of the relationship?🤷🏽♂️
“Transition” and circumstances.
She used him to be rescued, but once rescued she did not respect him.
Women truly lack accountability, they ain’t never lie about that one!!!!
Couples therapy is not a cure all. Wow
😮she did not know this man,she need to take a break from from men.
Nasty
This sounds so familiar. My son's father. I am so thankful I realized I am worth more. Yes, I left. 🙌
Trifling woman. She had a boyfriend at the time and he helped her leave her boyfriend. She didn’t have enough strength to leave on her own volition?
He was a test of her worth.
They need to stay together cause who wants that “toxic” behavior 🤦🏿♀️
This is my favorite hairstyle on Judge Starr, it looks so beautiful, neat and professional. Just my opinion.😊😊😊😊
These idiots are going to stay together.
Damn
They need to stay together and she's toxic I hope another man never ever deals with her again
IM STARTING TO THINK THESE EPISODES ARE SCRIPTED
Paterson NJ USA
We are doomed if you’re at they are at their big age coming together because they have the same birthday.. crazy..
Smh 3 hours after meeting THEN moves him in? What did she expect her relationship to look like? Sure, there are men who would be great to you after such a short courting period but if he didn’t have anything (transitioning 🤨) how is he going to be “the man that’s takes care of you?”
Now he found out why her ex was the way he was... lol