BAECATION GONE WRONG! WOMAN FINDS OUT HER MAN IS CHEATING WHILE ON VACATION! VIDEOS & PHOTOS

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  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY 17 днів тому +682

    She needs to block the family…ONE BAND, ONE SOUND😆

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  17 днів тому +92

      Facts 🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @kepop98
      @kepop98 16 днів тому +22

      Yup

    • @healingonesmindset
      @healingonesmindset 16 днів тому +20

      Immediately 🙋🏾🙌🏾💅🏽

    • @dblr4931
      @dblr4931 16 днів тому +53

      And because they "like her," they will keep trying to talk her back into it. Even if it's just in the way of saying "you're so much better than so and so" when he dates other women.

    • @PrincessLoX0
      @PrincessLoX0 16 днів тому +10

      LOL I just hollered 😭😭😂😂😭

  • @nameunknown1519
    @nameunknown1519 17 днів тому +235

    Leaving your girlfriend drunk by herself in a foreign country to go meet up with another woman is some of the nastiest work 🤢😭🙅🏾‍♀️

  • @phoenixpower8532
    @phoenixpower8532 17 днів тому +1461

    She’s choose herself and I love that!

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +33

      Same proud of her honestly

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 17 днів тому +24

      One thing for sure is - yourself will always want you to succeed. 🙂

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli 16 днів тому +10

      Fr she is glowing. Im glad she was able to let that deadweight go.

    • @KDiamond666
      @KDiamond666 12 днів тому +1

      Yessss plus she is so gorgeous!!!!

  • @Lucyinthskyy
    @Lucyinthskyy 17 днів тому +896

    He cheated so easily when she wasn’t around . It’s definitely not the first time he’s done it .

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +80

      If he does that with her on vacation can just imagine what he actually does without her there

    • @softersideofc.c.5655
      @softersideofc.c.5655 16 днів тому +11

      That part

    • @candace9560
      @candace9560 16 днів тому +22

      Right and if she stayed he’d be like ok I got a forever dummy would of just kept cheating

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 16 днів тому +3

      @@candace9560 exactly

    • @mizz2ts86
      @mizz2ts86 16 днів тому +17

      He cheated while she was there too! He’s a serial cheater🤦🏾‍♀️. I’m so happy she left!

  • @ChocoBeauty8
    @ChocoBeauty8 17 днів тому +759

    She was definitely out of his league. She was very classy.

  • @Mia00889
    @Mia00889 17 днів тому +1228

    When my ex cheated on me and his moms and sister reached out, I just sent them the pictures I found on their son/brother phone. If I gotta see it, then all of the close women in your life is gonna see it 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Lisette121
      @Lisette121 17 днів тому +302

      Lol savage😂

    • @demetriuspowell29
      @demetriuspowell29 17 днів тому +14

      You only saw it because you went through his phone you shouldn't send photos to his family members

    • @Mia00889
      @Mia00889 17 днів тому +559

      @@demetriuspowell29 Dametra no one was talking to you sis 🤭

    • @catharsismemory
      @catharsismemory 17 днів тому +261

      You reap what you sow, you guys get caught cheating and think you shouldn't be exposed or have sympathy.

    • @tessy28
      @tessy28 17 днів тому +286

      ​@@demetriuspowell29 You sound like a cheater salty that you got caught cheating.😂

  • @agirlnickel
    @agirlnickel 17 днів тому +1242

    He meets some random ass girl and now she’s everything he needs for the week… Meanwhile his girlfriend is on her way to what she believes is going to be a great vacation with her boyfriend. These men are really sick in the head. And the way he’s so easily open to his cousins about cheating has to mean he does that shit all the time.

    • @FijiMatic
      @FijiMatic 17 днів тому +77

      Exactly

    • @Shyknit
      @Shyknit 17 днів тому +170

      And the fact they've known each other since they were kids is crazy, like it would be bad enough to cheat someone that used to be a stranger and yall were dating for a short period but to do it to someone you grew up with and know as a person, smh

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u 17 днів тому +21

      Bingo!!

    • @elysiyah3364
      @elysiyah3364 17 днів тому +127

      And it means more than likely his cousins ain't 💩 either, just a whole dusty family tree.

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +18

      ​@@elysiyah3364😂😂I was going to say that until I saw u said it already

  • @rosalynnartis2404
    @rosalynnartis2404 16 днів тому +257

    His passport, his wallet, his phone, and keys would be in the same predicament as his mind. LOST!

    • @softersideofc.c.5655
      @softersideofc.c.5655 16 днів тому +25

      😂😂😂

    • @Dtheodore
      @Dtheodore 16 днів тому +20

      Hilarious 😂

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli 16 днів тому +18

      Yup i would have hid that shit in the toilet lmao 🤣

    • @oshunthagreat
      @oshunthagreat 16 днів тому +11

      Yeah cuz I'm crazy like this too lol classy to an extent

    • @GoldenPisces903
      @GoldenPisces903 16 днів тому +25

      Don't crash out too much, running bath water in another person's home is a criminal charge waiting on you. Be smart, but I would have definitely left his luggage on the sidewalks so the homeless can enjoy ☺

  • @Morenita570
    @Morenita570 17 днів тому +726

    She refused to go thru the humiliation and triangulation ritual that BM demand BW go thru to ‘prove that they’re the false prize.’
    In the end, he would’ve still discarded her, because he has no honor or moral character.
    She’s spiritually protected. Is this our Queen of ‘Moving in Silence!!’

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL 17 днів тому +81

      Women are doing better, no longer signing up for that and I love that for us.

    • @zeeb116
      @zeeb116 17 днів тому +56

      “Humiliation triangulation ritual!!” Sis that’s iiit! We the collective are sick of it! Loved how she moved in silence ❤

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +33

      Yup love to see bw choose themselves

  • @sunflowersandsand
    @sunflowersandsand 17 днів тому +469

    Her missing that flight was God protecting her so that she could see her "boyfriend's" true intent. He's brazen and his flippant comments in the group chat show that he's been cheating on her for all those years. If his cousins are in relationships their significant other's need to check their phones too because birds of a feather!...

    • @flychic7
      @flychic7 15 днів тому +8

      Facts 😅

    • @reesemonique
      @reesemonique 15 днів тому +1

      was just about to write this!

  • @HoopsIDidItAgain1998
    @HoopsIDidItAgain1998 17 днів тому +650

    This is the POWER of decentering men. Boo is already glowing and won’t have any problems finding someone else. A huge blessing is coming her way. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Iwantallmymoney2024
      @Iwantallmymoney2024 17 днів тому +2

      This!! When you truly decenter, you barelybget rattled by them! I had one clown try it this summer, I left immediately! No triangulation, no fighting! You were just a good time and that's it!!!!

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +15

      So true

    • @lolabunny1157
      @lolabunny1157 17 днів тому +8

      Amen!!

    • @likhonancate3366
      @likhonancate3366 16 днів тому +17

      Just how she is telling the,her tone omg I'm in love with this lady!!! I am so impressed with how she handled herself ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @phenitagomes1292
      @phenitagomes1292 16 днів тому +1

      Amen

  • @jazmina1343
    @jazmina1343 17 днів тому +619

    He wanted to get caught and didn’t respect her. Glad she left him.

    • @zoozagt5
      @zoozagt5 17 днів тому +61

      I was thinking so as well. He didn't want to be with her anymore. He wanted to get caught so she would break up with him.

    • @Chloenextdoor
      @Chloenextdoor 17 днів тому +51

      How cowardice are these men really?! Sparing themselves of having an inkling of feeling or “accountability.”

    • @amorelockster1023
      @amorelockster1023 16 днів тому +11

      @@Chloenextdoor most definitely and apparently not his own mother. Choosing a random girl over his girlfriend and mother is nasty work.

    • @Chloenextdoor
      @Chloenextdoor 16 днів тому +8

      @@amorelockster1023 because he knows he can play on some women until kingdom come, well apparently not the ex-girlfriend maybe just the mom….I am beyond proud of this girl because here he is putting her health at risk for a Spanish fling and her physical safety too. The amount of men being drugged or off’d in these Spanish countries… He could’ve dragged her into his mess and got her robbed or worst because he’s a lust bucket with no integrity. So many things went through my mind during this video but me being proud was the most important.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 16 днів тому

      They get off 🍆 💦 on the thrill of getting caught...

  • @mango7966
    @mango7966 17 днів тому +346

    I need to go to her yoga classes. Sis has a different type of peace

    • @lynnd4997
      @lynnd4997 17 днів тому +19

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +26

      Lol especially now since getting rid of that drama out her life

    • @DaPhlyymamee
      @DaPhlyymamee 16 днів тому +3

      Seriously!

  • @stacyj2015
    @stacyj2015 17 днів тому +973

    That group chat told me he had been cheating for awhile as well! Sis should be SO proud of herself for leaving quietly. Silence speaks volumes! He’s a terrible person and how dare his female cousins try to convince her otherwise.

    • @cutlyfe
      @cutlyfe 17 днів тому +45

      I thought it was just me.

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u 17 днів тому +18

      This!

    • @Empress1014_
      @Empress1014_ 17 днів тому +91

      Exactly what I thought, if he’s doing that on vacay, what has he done on US soil. She dodged a major bullet! She has mastered the level of detachment, and I love that for her! ✨💫🙏🏽

    • @prtdiva
      @prtdiva 17 днів тому +63

      That quiet disappearance left that man SICK! I can PROMISE you that. Whenever I break up with someone I don’t cause a fuss and they always try to come crawling back because they couldn’t manipulate me. Leave quietly. That’s a much bigger impact than crashing out 💅🏾

    • @dancingmango143
      @dancingmango143 17 днів тому +32

      I think his female cousins were just reaching out to apologise.

  • @p994able
    @p994able 17 днів тому +360

    She definitely knows her worth and I love to see it.

    • @ashajeremiahqw8775
      @ashajeremiahqw8775 17 днів тому +17

      Yes she does

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +11

      Right so proud she choose peace instead of drama and trauma

  • @HealthyBrownGirls
    @HealthyBrownGirls 17 днів тому +246

    VERY Demure..Very Classy....Very Mindful...and the gag is...THAT reaction will continue to haunt him for many relationships to come. She sealed her position as the one who got away.

    • @lekeciagarland6148
      @lekeciagarland6148 17 днів тому +18

      Facts 🎯💯

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 16 днів тому +23

      That part. I'm glad she didn't do the nonsense people are mentioning and catching a charge in a FOREIGN country!

    • @mi3helle707
      @mi3helle707 4 дні тому

      Fr fr. Sis saw and left. The joys of knowing your worth, and self-love.

  • @biancam2327
    @biancam2327 17 днів тому +429

    The fact her purposely got her drunk so she could pass out and he could go meet up with the girl..nah..its best she left this man alone, he will never be good for any woman. He has no morals at all.

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u 17 днів тому +56

      He’s scary 😟

    • @heavenlee4544
      @heavenlee4544 17 днів тому +38

      Wait did I miss something!? He met up with her when she got there as well!? 🤯
      Edit: Just got to that part. This man ain’t SHIT! It’s a scary world

    • @biancam2327
      @biancam2327 17 днів тому +20

      @@heavenlee4544 right! Made me think he let his girl get drunk on purpose. Smh.

    • @nameunknown1519
      @nameunknown1519 17 днів тому +37

      And taking those videos of that girl without her knowing smh. Top tier disgusting.

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +11

      Just sick honestly

  • @RyzeQueen
    @RyzeQueen 17 днів тому +498

    Her former partner and his male cousins lack integrity. The text messages revealed their true nature, giving her even more glimpses of their character. I'm relieved she chose to depart gracefully❤ true Queen!

    • @sunflowersandsand
      @sunflowersandsand 17 днів тому +28

      Trust me! God will send him his karma, and she will be blessed abundantly for not reacting emotionally. I love a level-headed Queen!

    • @aliyahharmon9045
      @aliyahharmon9045 16 днів тому +7

      That's why when a man's friends and family vouch for him, it means nothing to me

  • @lisaalso895
    @lisaalso895 17 днів тому +297

    She handled it perfectly. His ego is beyond bruised. He is now questioning his bedroom performance, and the other woman probably got a man.

    • @nettaleanne
      @nettaleanne 17 днів тому +55

      Right, that woman got dressed and went to make breakfast for her man and kids 😂

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +13

      As it should be

  • @dessi8685
    @dessi8685 17 днів тому +326

    The fact that they grew up together probably broke his parents heart just as bad as hers! Omg good for her ❤ may god bless her with an amazing husband!

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +59

      Yup which is why I say u can be with someone for years and still don't know who they are

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 15 днів тому

      Exactly and people have the AUDACITY to blame women for choosing wrong .... Like sis they know each other for ages and he still fake he was a good person.
      Or these people havent seen documental of psychopaths with family and kids and comunities that love them and they kill women for sports ... Is not our fault men fake personas

    • @neftana8
      @neftana8 15 днів тому +5

      Shoot that's if they like her, cause I've seen parents root for their kids to move on despite knowing their spouse for years

  • @StylishlySaved1
    @StylishlySaved1 17 днів тому +674

    That level of maturity is sooo refreshing. The faster she knew that the attachment was not worth it, she also knew she could move on much faster! Blessings to her on her healing journey!

  • @Black_and_Green
    @Black_and_Green 17 днів тому +329

    I'm sooo glad the word "closure" was not used in this video.

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL 17 днів тому +27

      Great point

    • @soblessed3157
      @soblessed3157 17 днів тому +63

      THANK YOUUUU. Closure is overrated. The need to know why someone did something WILL NOT MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER! She honestly is my role model now because I aspire to have this level of detachment.

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +34

      Cause it's never needed when they blantly disrespect u closure is just a way to be manipulative with more lies

    • @lolabunny1157
      @lolabunny1157 17 днів тому

      Amen! Cheating was the closure.

    • @lightdove7
      @lightdove7 16 днів тому

      ​@@soblessed3157 💯💯💯💯

  • @MyTVtube2009
    @MyTVtube2009 17 днів тому +178

    Ladies, please choose yourself and your health. He didn't care about passing any diseases to her.

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 16 днів тому +22

      That part!! I be so shocked when this isn't mentioned in any of these cheater exposed videos.
      That's also why I can't understand why women take their cheaters back.. this dude clearly doesn't care about his life let alone YOURS! it's sooo sad 😔

  • @kylia2009
    @kylia2009 17 днів тому +309

    The disrespect from him was so loud... he clearly don't give AF. He's not worth another moment of her energy.

  • @MsSiaNicole
    @MsSiaNicole 17 днів тому +307

    All these women talking about crashing out if they was in her shoes .. baby I’m not getting locked up or ending up in no hospital from fighting a ninja in a foreign country.. makes zero sense. Arguing and fighting would have not changed the outcome so she was smart to just get up out of there and not look back. Yes how he did her was CRAZY but you still need to move accordingly outside these states.

    • @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle
      @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle 17 днів тому +25

      I agree

    • @yvonnekilla3971
      @yvonnekilla3971 17 днів тому +20

      Taking his passport is fucked up ,but flooding the air bnb is criminal

    • @sagba9473
      @sagba9473 17 днів тому +51

      Exactly say it again I’m not catching charges for no man

    • @MsSiaNicole
      @MsSiaNicole 17 днів тому +41

      @@sagba9473 especially not in another country 🥴

    • @Shay-rx4xu
      @Shay-rx4xu 17 днів тому +15

      ​@@MsSiaNicole😂 right I watched too much locked up abroad

  • @chelseagriffin3148
    @chelseagriffin3148 17 днів тому +178

    I didn't see the follow-up videos...I was just thinking it must've been awkard to have to talk to his family but that just adds to the stab of his ego. Because now his family is gonna keep bringing her up as she evolves & moves on with someone else 😂😂

  • @meganscott5434
    @meganscott5434 17 днів тому +213

    This womans reaction to a shi**y situation is gold!! Her self worth and detachment is on 100!!

  • @GoodieGabor
    @GoodieGabor 17 днів тому +203

    He took his name off the bills so she would reach out to him

    • @thestar5375
      @thestar5375 17 днів тому +46

      I'm glad you said this, wow. Feels like he is the type too.

  • @D415h4n34
    @D415h4n34 17 днів тому +92

    He fumbled a mentally healthy, balanced, BEAUTIFUL yoga instructor?!?! SHEESH

    • @kOmack880
      @kOmack880 12 днів тому

      Exactly🤦🏾‍♀️ Proves to me that: Males wake up every day Knowing they are UNWORTHY....

  • @DeLaTr0ll
    @DeLaTr0ll 17 днів тому +164

    I know ppl are saying they would’ve failed that test but he’s about to have the hardest season in his life.
    She’ll be blessed.

    • @Harlem_Renaissance
      @Harlem_Renaissance 16 днів тому +23

      Yep, and once he truly realizes she's done.. he gonna be emotionally scarred. Especially when she mets someone else. She handled the situation perfectly.

    • @Lavender_8497
      @Lavender_8497 16 днів тому +26

      He would’ve been laughing and kee kee’ing in his group chat about how she was crashing out over him cheating. I’m glad she didn’t give him the satisfaction. I’m learning to think before I act now. I didn’t used to do that.

    • @JB4C89
      @JB4C89 14 днів тому +6

      His lesson bout to be HARDDDDDTTTT 😂😂😂😂

    • @Virgo904
      @Virgo904 13 днів тому +3

      Exactly !!!

  • @Wearenotfriendsxo
    @Wearenotfriendsxo 17 днів тому +90

    Stories like this scare tf out of me because when you’re a faithful person you never wanna be betrayed 😢

    • @beverly3304
      @beverly3304 17 днів тому +15

      worst feeling in the world fr smh

  • @zeshanelle1468
    @zeshanelle1468 17 днів тому +108

    He's a fool. She is beautiful inside and out. Not to mention, she's the type many claim they want (mature, educated, NATURAL, wifey... etc.) and he showed his behind and why he doesn't deserve her. It is even more disgusting that he did this to her and then bragged about it when they grew up together. He must have severely low self esteem. He has no self respect, no class, no integrity, no loyalty, no nothing. Just wow. He messed up with a good and very rare one. I am very proud of her.

    • @B_Millie
      @B_Millie 17 днів тому +14

      This is the one. Looking at his pics,he was the family friend that "couldn't get right" and noooo one was entertaining him in their hometown. The parents encouraged it because "it was safe".
      It's giving Moesha and Hakeem before he kissed Niecey🥴

    • @prettybrittany_
      @prettybrittany_ 17 днів тому +13

      yeah she’s definitely wifey . she’ll come across better

    • @zeshanelle1468
      @zeshanelle1468 16 днів тому

      @@B_Millie Right. If ever an ex's family member(s) reach out to you to apologize and bring forth outward closure on the behalf of you ex and THEN encourages reconciliation, it's because you are the catch. Don't go down that dead end road. Choose to save yourself instead of trying to save him. You are not Jesus. Even Jesus stayed away from narcissists who "didn't need no saving". He's a walking hazardous sign. He better check his drawls. Good on her. Ain't nobody got time for that.

    • @zeshanelle1468
      @zeshanelle1468 16 днів тому +9

      @@prettybrittany_ It was definitely meant for her to miss her flight.

    • @zeshanelle1468
      @zeshanelle1468 16 днів тому

      ​@@B_Millie Right. If ever an ex's family member(s) reaches out to you to apologizes and brings forth outward closure on the behalf of your ex and THEN encourages reconciliation, it's because you are the catch. Don't go down that dead end road. Choose to save yourself instead of trying to save him. You are not Jesus. Even Jesus stayed away from narcissists who "didn't need no saving". He's a walking hazardous sign. He better check his drawls. Good on her. Ain't nobody got time for that.

  • @Bianca.Nceeee
    @Bianca.Nceeee 17 днів тому +169

    I hope she was careful with him. Beasts like him just spread diseases all over the place. Shes gorgeous she won't have any issues moving on wish her the best

    • @winehousted90
      @winehousted90 17 днів тому +9

      That’s what I’m afraid of too liek how he’s sooo in the streets like this I wondered “ dam did he ever get any std’s” like wtf man dating is sooo scary this is insane

    • @ms.virgo82187
      @ms.virgo82187 15 днів тому +2

      That's why I get tested every 6 months because unfortunately ninjas 🥷 out here be lying to your face! Had to finally ghost 👻 a ninja I've been knowing for 11 years, but we just made it official about 2 years ago. Don't understand how a 40 year old still can't just be real! Putting people's health at risk is sick!

  • @MY-im5qp
    @MY-im5qp 17 днів тому +68

    He did not value her at all. To be in a relationship , have s3x with a random on vacation, record, and text your cousins. The audacity!

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 15 днів тому +1

      How they find girls that easy to sleep with randoms ??? Did he pay that. Woman ?

  • @BrittbyBit
    @BrittbyBit 16 днів тому +43

    Cheating with a random woman in a foreign country is so ...🤢🤢🤢

  • @PurePosey44
    @PurePosey44 17 днів тому +73

    She and I are spiritual twin. I left quietly when I found out my husband was cheating. He’s still trying to talk to me since the divorce was finalized. I refused to talk to him in mediation and through the divorce settlement. 3 years later he’s still trying to talk to me! NOPE, naw, uh huh!

  • @imanmarie8764
    @imanmarie8764 17 днів тому +269

    Wow she handled that with such grace and class. She's absolutely gorgeous and knows her worth !

  • @latebloomer177
    @latebloomer177 17 днів тому +110

    Something tells me that she has been through similar with him and doesn’t want to get into it. Not everyone is going to crash out for these kind of situations but it seems like this was “ last straw” type deal.

    • @onlyalisaawilliams
      @onlyalisaawilliams 17 днів тому +10

      Agreed.

    • @blackingingerpurrin
      @blackingingerpurrin 17 днів тому +15

      True because ain’t no way he’s that comfortable. I hate when women continue to deal in struggle love ..

    • @sincerely5906
      @sincerely5906 16 днів тому +10

      Yea if this was the first time he was caught, I highly doubt she would’ve remained so level-headed b/c that’s DEEP betrayal that brings out SPECIFIC emotions.

  • @Natalie_11188
    @Natalie_11188 17 днів тому +92

    She should be proud of herself. She did the right thing.

  • @Dr_AKA_HLF
    @Dr_AKA_HLF 16 днів тому +28

    The same th8ng happened to me...I found out my ex was cheating while I was using his computer. He was in a group chat, had pics of him receiving felatio, admitting that he was sleeping with "randoms" (his word, not mine). I was devastated but I left. I left his computer open to the messages, blocked him, and left. These men are absolutely immature and disrespectful. Always choose yourself!

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 15 днів тому

      I dont understand women that allow men to take pics of them ... I don't trust men that much to allow them to have something to blackmail me, Revenge porn is a thing and is always women who suffer

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn 17 днів тому +143

    I’m glad she left him and I hope she stays gone

  • @tab2n0
    @tab2n0 17 днів тому +81

    Leaving gracefully, i love that for her!

    • @kass2086
      @kass2086 17 днів тому +4

      Yesss, she did that!!!

  • @Nbayoungguh
    @Nbayoungguh 17 днів тому +83

    He kinda told on him self by mentioning other females💯

    • @blackingingerpurrin
      @blackingingerpurrin 17 днів тому +25

      He did cause if my man told me he hanged out with other girls I would’ve cancelled the trip

    • @ghostgirl531
      @ghostgirl531 15 днів тому +1

      @@blackingingerpurrinFRRRR

  • @_KayBee_
    @_KayBee_ 17 днів тому +38

    Its him telling his cousins that a girl he knew for 37 hours is all he need. What a bum! Also she let dude (a stranger) film her naked multiple times. I'm afraid of yall.

    • @Mbuyiselo5
      @Mbuyiselo5 17 днів тому +2

      Thank you, he said he doesn’t know why his girlfriend or Mother were coming. A girl he just met less than 24 hours ago was more important than the two of them combined. He’s a loser.

    • @giab.3411
      @giab.3411 16 днів тому +16

      Her back was always turned so I doubt she even knows.

  • @TheSacralHealer
    @TheSacralHealer 17 днів тому +82

    When the other girl said she would’ve taken his passport and packed his clothes 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m healing yes but still come onnnnn 😂🤣 hell yeah I would’ve too

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  17 днів тому +17

      😂😂😂 facts f a note

    • @prettyangel0921
      @prettyangel0921 17 днів тому +7

      My gosh this would’ve passed through my thoughts….. yassssss! But sadly I wouldn’t do it 😂

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 17 днів тому +1

      Why? You know how these men are. There is a reason we decenter them. Im not going to show my behind or play "get back" for someone that functions at such a low level. She moved exactly the way she should have as intelligent young lady who knows her value.

    • @Sarahu-p1i
      @Sarahu-p1i 17 днів тому

      Period

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 17 днів тому +30

    The fact that this guy cheated, recorded it, posted it and bragged to his friends about it tells me everything about his true character. It tells me also the quality of his friends who probably also cheat

    • @mi3helle707
      @mi3helle707 4 дні тому +1

      *Cousins. His Cousins. Not friends. Which is even worse😢

  • @chelseagriffin3148
    @chelseagriffin3148 17 днів тому +70

    I saw this in my fyp too like a week ago! This girl left that man in the most classiest ways possible!

  • @BoHeaux
    @BoHeaux 17 днів тому +35

    He took her for granted. They grew up together and he thought she’d always be there. Good for her! You teach them how to treat you and she said she is above the phuckery-she don’t care who you are.

  • @alicia_nicole
    @alicia_nicole 17 днів тому +28

    Is this what we would call high functioning?
    I learned a new word! 😊

  • @moneyisviscous
    @moneyisviscous 17 днів тому +40

    Being spiteful is not the answer. She stayed true to who she is and didn’t stoop to his low level. Leaving and denying him access is punishment enough. I am glad she’s MATURE. ALSO…He was clearly trying to start a fight with her so he could go out. Then so disrespectful to be talking to the other girl right in front of her because she was drunk.

  • @ClassyDdiamond
    @ClassyDdiamond 17 днів тому +28

    Sis was deep in the family for most of the women of HIS family reached out. Good job sis

    • @Mbuyiselo5
      @Mbuyiselo5 17 днів тому +17

      Yes she was, the photo of them as little kids 😢 This man doesn’t deserve her. I’m glad she protected her peace.

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 15 днів тому +1

      Do You think they knew ? He was telling his cousins like no biggie

  • @abbygailyoung-beaulieu460
    @abbygailyoung-beaulieu460 17 днів тому +79

    I loved how she chose herself and left gracefully. By simply leaving quietly and remove access to your presence/space, you showing that person who they really fumbled. Great video 😊

  • @SmileySaidIt
    @SmileySaidIt 17 днів тому +72

    I broke up with someone while we were on vacation before lol! I was not playing! We were very newly dating and went to Puerto Rico and he showed how possessive and insecure he was. This was 13 years ago and I wasn’t playing then, now that I’m 32 years old, I DEFINITELY don’t play around! Tuh, end it immediately no matter where you are or what time it is. Good for her!

    • @AboveRubiesTV
      @AboveRubiesTV 17 днів тому +14

      Yes! The insecure, possessive types are annoying on top of scary.

  • @tonjamanigo
    @tonjamanigo 17 днів тому +69

    He is trash. The fact HE cheated on HER and has the audacity to try and be spiteful is wild. Glad she found out before she became more than a girlfriend. Wow. Shout out to her for keepin it cute.

  • @tamarareed2901
    @tamarareed2901 17 днів тому +34

    I love her she knows her worth and is not desperate!

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u 17 днів тому +6

      Mire women need to take a page out of her book

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 17 днів тому +36

    So classy!!!! HE FUMBLED BADDD

  • @brwnsuga.hokage4009
    @brwnsuga.hokage4009 17 днів тому +25

    I caught my ex cheating while he was sleep in my bed. I was curious so I went through his phone and found everything I was looking for-I took screenshots and sent voice messages/videos he sent to her to myself. So for a week-I played my role until I had my ducks in order. Went over to his place-took all the gifts I got him and returned the ones he gave me, left a note with the proof and my finally thoughts and left the key on his kitchen cabinet(and changed my locks at my place). He saw the note when he got him.

  • @drjekelmrhyde
    @drjekelmrhyde 17 днів тому +36

    Buddy is lucky that she didn't toss his passport in the garbage .

    • @ElleJae-b9q
      @ElleJae-b9q 16 днів тому

      This is the comment I was looking for.

  • @kreestyle8986
    @kreestyle8986 17 днів тому +43

    He’s in arrested development. Smdh. A real man is going to scoop her up immediately. (Sidebar; her reaction gives last straw vibes. Like her intuition was letting her know of his alleged cheating before baecation but she stuck it out.

  • @vinkeyla23
    @vinkeyla23 17 днів тому +43

    I’m so proud of her! This level of maturity should be the norm💁🏽‍♀️🎯

  • @naomynn1
    @naomynn1 15 днів тому +4

    She chose to leave quietly which requires a level of self-control. He expected an emotional reaction. He was playing checkers, she was playing chess.

  • @YourLifestylist
    @YourLifestylist 16 днів тому +10

    Her moving in silence is masterful … yall have no idea how crazy this man is going to become bc she silent

  • @NaomyP
    @NaomyP 17 днів тому +95

    I saw her story, I even commented! She’s so gracious, because I don’t handle cheating very well, let alone if I catch it happening in real time. I don’t know how I’ll handle it and that’s how I know I’m still healing!

  • @FijiMatic
    @FijiMatic 17 днів тому +43

    They have cheaters group chat yuck 🤢 love and hip hop creep squad type guys

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 15 днів тому +4

      Is extremelly disturbing that some men bond by disrespecting women, thats some antisocial personality traits RIGHT there

  • @tulanibutler
    @tulanibutler 17 днів тому +13

    She chose herself and her peace. I love that for her ❤❤❤❤

  • @kimberlyanicegregg8212
    @kimberlyanicegregg8212 17 днів тому +37

    She was so classy! Are we locked in. Are you my friend. Yes, boo-boo we are locked in.😂

  • @MsNieshaBean
    @MsNieshaBean 17 днів тому +27

    Applause to her, and im working daily to become this healed! She is the epitome of "choose yourself"!! I got teary-eyed from the story, and her reaction!

  • @Besafe782
    @Besafe782 17 днів тому +42

    He could have given her something 😢 he just slept with a random girl

  • @IndigobluBeauty
    @IndigobluBeauty 17 днів тому +31

    Glad for how she handled this now but the skeptic in me recalls the numerous stories of the women going BACK…let’s see where this is at in 3 months chile 🤷🏾‍♀️👀

    • @AyAReI00
      @AyAReI00 15 днів тому +3

      Thats SO freaking sad, cheating is the last straw... No forgiveness there, no matter the years wasted ... actually women should thing that if he was able to risk all those years he dont deserve her.
      I wish women love themselves more than they love a d ... Girl NEVER get back to a Cheater then won't appreciatte You for coming back, they Will think is if she forgive me once i can do it again

    • @IndigobluBeauty
      @IndigobluBeauty 15 днів тому +1

      @@AyAReI00 it is sad and I am so jaded now from all the stories where you rally behind the woman who post then next thing you know she’s back with him after raisin everybody else’s blood pressure. I’ve been her but thankfully there was no social media for me to run to and further embarrass myself lol! I hope she does lover herself more though💜

  • @maureen_momo
    @maureen_momo 16 днів тому +11

    There is nothing a man will do that will make me pop off!
    Delete. Block. Move on.
    Never talk to them ever again. Sis is me and I hope she doesn’t give him an inkling of her time. He deserves absolutely NOTHING!

  • @OhNaNa2012
    @OhNaNa2012 17 днів тому +13

    No reaction is the correct reaction. Sometimes when you think you’re getting revenge, youre just giving them the validation they want. She was very self aware of her value and knows her absence is the biggest L she can hand him. He probably going to start stalking her soon 🤦🏾‍♀️ And he will be crying about her when he turn 50+

  • @WIGAHOLIC14
    @WIGAHOLIC14 17 днів тому +21

    He was very reckless damn just some random on vacation knowing that his girlfriend was coming that's diabolical. It's wrong either way but damn he couldn't control himself 24 hours. Very mature of her good luck to her

  • @samanthac8060
    @samanthac8060 16 днів тому +8

    She did the right thing. Move in silence and keep it pushing.

  • @MizzFaithy1
    @MizzFaithy1 16 днів тому +5

    "Better is always making its way to me". "I have everything I need and what I don't have is on its way to me". 8:03

  • @glamfortheculture5583
    @glamfortheculture5583 17 днів тому +30

    And she’s a yoga instructor? I would’ve dated her! She’s probably peaceful as hell. 😂😂😂😂 I wish her nothing but the best

    • @B_Millie
      @B_Millie 17 днів тому

      👂Are you choosy? 🤭Heck...I'd learn yoga to teach you while maintaining peace🤞If that's you in the default pic😏

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 16 днів тому +9

      She's too wholesome. Men be screaming "be my peace" and when she is....he goes and sabotage it.

  • @kristysmith2552
    @kristysmith2552 17 днів тому +26

    Yes! I love this kind of girlie that’s handling it with grace and class. I didn’t know these women still existed. So proud of her!

  • @bridneymumford8133
    @bridneymumford8133 16 днів тому +6

    Ladies never crash out remember crashing out can lead to serious consequences don’t jeopardize it for a no good men …plus crashing out only stroke their egos don’t give them the satisfaction your absence is gonna speak for itself 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @Wearenotfriendsxo
    @Wearenotfriendsxo 17 днів тому +17

    Her just keeping it pushin reminds me of one of my close friends she be blocking and never looking back 😂

  • @masterofnothing2360
    @masterofnothing2360 17 днів тому +17

    The only consideration she needs for this ex is to get a std/sti screening just in case because her probably been cheating. Him and his cousins in that group chat are disgusting and I’m so glad she immediately cut him out. People like this deserve no closure or chances

  • @NIFly-kd9vz
    @NIFly-kd9vz 16 днів тому +8

    The amount of self control you have to have in order to walk away like that. Wow so much respect!

  • @mininininini
    @mininininini 17 днів тому +23

    The ultimate disrespect. They have a decade long relationship and friendship and look at how he betrayed her. He should’ve expected nothing less. I love how the family reached out to her and they have to be holding him accountable and I know he feels like a FOOL

  • @SouthernP751
    @SouthernP751 17 днів тому +53

    So disgusting and disheartening, I hope that was just a way to clear the path for better things in her life

  • @EarthQueen-1111
    @EarthQueen-1111 17 днів тому +17

    I love how unbothered she is🧘🏾‍♀️

  • @oyayemayafaro7307
    @oyayemayafaro7307 15 днів тому +3

    Lmao she's a smart cookie. I'm 31 now and one thing i will always remember was an older woman telling me at age 15 that there's no value added to life crashing out over a cheating man. Moving silent is the loudest bomb for situations like this

  • @thesassynapturalista5915
    @thesassynapturalista5915 17 днів тому +13

    Glad she got out of her situation and hope she doesn't look back. Always best to move silently to avoid confrontations that sometimes can turn violent. Also not suprised this dude have family members that support his degenerate behavior. It is more common than people know.

    • @Michaeleism
      @Michaeleism 16 днів тому +5

      The violent part... Especially when on vacation, these XYs will delete and disappear a person with no hesitation or reservations.

  • @roshikay413
    @roshikay413 17 днів тому +37

    Happy Labor Day weekend everyone? Enjoy the fruits of your labor

  • @janajahbragg1747
    @janajahbragg1747 17 днів тому +14

    Good for her!! She will be blessed and will find everything she deserves 💗

  • @stormnuage
    @stormnuage 17 днів тому +27

    I love her personnality so much!!! A good example of Believe me im learning from that situation😊 like i might cry once but believe me next day i almost forgot your name and planning what im going to do with all that FREE TIME.. GIRL YOURE FREE❤❤❤❤YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL

  • @TiffyAlwaysBlissy
    @TiffyAlwaysBlissy 17 днів тому +10

    She is HEALEDDDDDDD. And she knows her worth. I’m so happy she walked away.
    The families always know. And yep *something* would have left with me by mistake on purpose.

  • @dbailey5033
    @dbailey5033 17 днів тому +10

    Silence is powerful! No matter how much a person disrespects and you decide to walk away and ignore…eventually it WILL HAUNT them for the rest of their existence. TRUST!!!! 🤞she took her POWER with her! ❤

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 17 днів тому +30

    The guy is TRASH. I love the way she handled it. Cute, quiet, and QUICK! 🏃🏾‍♀️‍➡️

  • @t.j.m7131
    @t.j.m7131 17 днів тому +12

    When you know your peace it's easier to disassociate and leave. I did this years ago to an ex and he flipped out when i calmly was leaving. Blocked the door, tried to hold my items hostage 😂 you're right he called and stalked me for more than a year straight. I had people around me listen to his calls. He was desperate. I agree ghosting is the best because you can man handle his family and friends 😅😅

  • @Jessicaslove2
    @Jessicaslove2 17 днів тому +8

    Revenge is no bueno. You really do need to handle your triggers well. You can be hurt for sure, but it seems like she kinda knew, in some way, the relationship had an expiration date, especially because they’ve known each other so long. Sometimes we subconsciously ask for a sign of whether or how we should proceed in a relationship and we get our answer, sometimes in a tower moment so it’s very clear you need to move on from the relationship. Honestly, the worst it hurts or the more shocking it is, the more that message is FOR YOU.

  • @cinnamonthomas3075
    @cinnamonthomas3075 13 днів тому +2

    She handled the situation the best way she could. No one is trying to get locked up in a foreign country.

  • @Floratic
    @Floratic 17 днів тому +25

    She handled this very graciously. I hope she doesn't go back.
    I definitely would have failed this test. 😂

  • @RUNWAYBEAUTY
    @RUNWAYBEAUTY 17 днів тому +10

    It was meant for her to miss her flight.

  • @DontTakeItLiteral
    @DontTakeItLiteral 17 днів тому +11

    Now Yanieeee how you preach about us De-centering men, not becoming baby mama’s, && not accepting the bare minimum but you telling us you would have crashed out 🤣🤣🤣😂 No ma’am sis. She could have caught some charges, && you don’t go tik for tat with these lil boys, they are dangerous…. He could have got mad if she did all that && come back to kill her or something. We actually need to encourage her type of behavior more often following with NOT GOING BACK…. She handled that absolutely well 🤞🏽

  • @MsMookalate
    @MsMookalate 17 днів тому +30

    Oh I definitely know how to block emails since when I block your own spirit guide and ancestors can’t reach me😂😂😂

  • @RoGodDaughter
    @RoGodDaughter 17 днів тому +31

    Yeah, she played it like a straight G! His parents are calling to let me know he messed up a good thing. Well, whatever a man reaps, he will sow ✌️🏾.

  • @kimberly5455
    @kimberly5455 17 днів тому +17

    YES!!!
    In my Mariah Carey song Voice…
    And a SHERO comes along with the STRENGTH to carry on!!
    I’m proud of her!!