Mel, I'm so sorry for what you are going through sweetheart, you've every right to be emotional and upset, you don't deserve this shite, I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of love and strength, I'm praying all this will behind you sooner rather than later, it's too much for one person to deal with, have a good bawl when you feel like it, crying is good for the soul, you owe nobody nothing, trying to keep upbeat when you're feeling miserable is so difficult, don't be so hard on yourself 💖💖💖🙏🙏Xxx
Mel my gosh you are way stronger than me my friend. After a few things failed with me I remember something my plastic surgeon told me was as important if not more and that was “Come from a place of mental strength Kristen.” I guess what he meant was if I struggle with being down he wanted me to tell him. I by no means am suggesting you are at all. One ? he failed to ask before my flap surgery was if I struggled w depression or anxiety in my life. I came out of the womb anxious. lol! He needed me to chill in order to recover. It’s odd how the mind almost over rides our body’s ability. I get just wanting to breathe normally. It’s the simple things so many take for granted. You aren’t alone and if you find yourself starting to obsess or keep checking for something wrong.. Call the doc Mel ❤ I’m praying for you daily & girl you are tough as a freaking bolt! Grateful for the update. Flap looks good 😊
Melanie, I am so sorry you are going through this. It’s more than anyone shoudl have to deal with especially with a baby. I will continue to pray for you that the hyperbaric works and the flap shrinks so you can get back to your normal. You are one strong lady! Sending prayers your way! ❤️🙏🏻
I am in awe of you. You have been through more than ANYONE should ever have to go through and while its obviously incredibly difficult on you, you have not given up. You show up, you're a mom, wife, daughter, and you show up here to update us. I could only hope to be half as amazing as you are. And you are so beautiful inside and out. Praying for your ongoing healing emotionally and physically.
Hi Melanie, I’m sorry that you are having to go through MORE. I’m glad they’ve plugged up the hole, but taking in the new results is a lot for you and will take you time, even though you’re comfortable enough to show it to us, which is a big deal. Yes, lots of good signs, but you’ve got the new flap, the big scar on your leg, the other hole and screw in your head to learn to deal with, even if you’re grateful. It’s still a lot. We love you and are grateful that you’re cancer free, but I, personally, want to say to you, yes, you’re brave and strong, but let yourself grieve and adjust to all of this. It’s ALOT. Sending love and big prayers for complete healing and comfort as you navigate this. ❤❤❤
When I look at you, I notice the flap at first, but then my attention is on the rest of your face and your strength. You are a beautiful woman Melanie. Not many could stand in your shoes.
Thank you for explaining in detail. As a former nurse and having had massive skin grafting myself, I feel for you. You are handling this like a champ!!
No one should ever have to endure what you have. I'm so, so sorry. Your strength is amazing, and your frustration is understandable. You are in my prayers...may God give you all the strength you need to heal and all the love for your daughter and husband ❤️
You are one amazing woman. One day your daughter is going to realize she has the most bad ass Mother ever. When she is old enough she will tell you. Prayers for your continuing health and healing.
Girl, you've been through hell and you're still beautiful. That eye flap is a badge of honor. It shows how strong you are. Soon much of this chaos will calm down and you can fully enjoy everything. 🥰
Just remember you never lose who you truly are and Melanie you are so beautiful, inside and out. Don't ever forget this. You an amazing mom, wife and daughter. And keep faith in the Lord. He will never leave you!!❤❤
You are a beautiful mama. I saw you before the surgery, and you are still that beautiful woman. Cancer free is awesome. Praying for a complete healing, in Jesus name.
“It’s a lot.” Such an understatement made by an extremely strong woman who is emotionally and physically worn out. Melanie, God has gifted you a Grace that is found only in those individuals who can see within their own souls. Your UA-cam Family is so proud of how you’ve gifted yourself unconditional love. My prayer is that you grant peace and kindness to yourself so that you can take healing one day at a time. Your daughter is being raised by a momma who can handle what so many of us could not. Please be proud of your immense fortitude and lean on those who can help in any way. We love you. 😘
I cry to see you crying. So pleased to see you on the update . I haven’t wrote before . You’re a real warrior you so beautiful inside and out . Praying continue for your full recovery xxxx
Melanie, you don't have to feel sad to come online to talk to us. We are your friends and community and we have totally accepted you the way you are. It doesn't matter how the wound will look like after healing. Your PERSONALITY is great and you are such a inspiration to all of us❤❤ Take care of yourself dear friend❤❤
I had had cancer twice and my worse day is nothing compared to what you are going thru…..I will start praying for divine help for you, for healing in body and mind and soul…..I do believe God is merciful and wants to help and heal you…..You’re not alone!
I pray you will get that Hyberbaric Chamber! I have a brother in-law that did those treatments along with a cousin & a friend’s baby that had drowned at a year old & brought back to life which she is over 10 now & has shown remarkable improvements! Brother contracted a disease & a cousin that has diabetes & was having toes removed…which the chamber stopped the spreading of his infection…which saved his foot! Really I wish all of us could spend some time in one of those…it’s so GOOD for our Brains!! I believe you’ll be Amazed on well you will do! I’m a breast cancer survivor since 2012 when I was 52. Remember this Life wasn’t meant to be Easy….JUST WORTH IT!!!
You could totally pull off the phantom of the opera mask! Add jewels, sparkles and colours. Your true beauty shines no matter what. I am watching you as an example of how someone can become self confident again. ❤
Perfect!! Absolute perfection!! Cancer free is perfect!! I had a Squamous cell, aggressive, on the tip of my nose in June. Within 2 weeks, it went from a hard, bread crust type tumor to an abscess. I had a big black oozing tumor on the end of my nose. The surgery was done by week 4 and the surgeon put 2 skin grafts on the tip of my nose after removal of the tumor. How you are doing so well is beyond me!! It was horrible and my grafts didn't take!! It's just so wonderful to see you doing well. Grafts NOT taking are horrible. Good for you!!
I am battling the exact squamous cell aggressive skin cancer as you. I had my cancer removed Aug 27th but unfortunately it has now spread to my nose too. I went through nitrogen treatments but I can see it did not work. Your grafts didn’t take so what do they do for you in that case? Are you clear now? I am speechless at how much this young wife and mother has gone through. I don’t think I could be that strong , her courage is outstanding!
I’m praying for healing for you. My heart goes out to you and we all hold a special place for you to rest during these hard trials. I had a hole behind my ear that leaked saliva after parotid cancer surgery and radiation of my face. I struggled. Some days the only consolation I found was that these hard days will not last forever. I’m dealing with dental issues after radiation now and potentially facing hyperbaric therapy also. These trials will pass, dear sweet fighter. My favorite psalm has been a source of comfort and strength, its Psalm 57:1. Be merciful unto me:O God, be merciful unto me for my soul trusth in thee: yea, in the shadow of thy wings will I make my refuge: until these calamities be overpast.
Thank you for taking time to update us. I have so much admiration for you sweet Melanie! I have stage 4 cancer myself and you are so encouraging to me. I pray for you and your family. Thankful to the Lord for you. I ask Him for complete healing and strength for you. 🙏❤️😊
Tammy, thank you so much for this message and encouragement! I am so sorry to hear about your own battle, but am glad you have found some encouragement here. I will be praying for you as well!!
It’s ok to grieve loss of any kind and be grateful at the same time - always give yourself some grace you are going through alot. So thankful you have support. Prayers for you and your family 🙏🏻
I tried to look through the comments to see if it’s been said already - but I bet a couple small dots of lash glue could secure the edges of the bandana closer to your jaw so it doesn’t risk blowing up and exposing your entire face. You are beautiful and have nothing to hide, *but* if you want the covering to be more secure - a couple drops of skin-safe adhesive would work. Sending so much love because this entire process has been so, so scary and hard ❤❤❤
Prayers ❤ It's great to hear from U!! You are doing amazing! One day at a time! Don't worry about what others think! Hold your head up high, girl! You have gone through a lot!! And anyone that has a problem, can just buzz off!! Not many could be as strong as You are!! Sending Hugs ❤
You are a stronger woman than me! When they say life is not fair, that is certainly an understatement, I do not know how you cope, I know I could not! My heart goes out to you and pray that you can return to as much "normalcy" as possible and as soon as possible.
Hon, I'm really checking out your makeshift patch. You could get a decent sized to large sized pin to weigh the flap down. Rather, a fashionable one or a regular safety pin. Sugar, you are beautiful regardless 😊❤ and super strong. I check out UA-cam a lot. There are people that have all sorts of disformaties etc. Cancer has made many to suffer. Some tumors can't be removed and have spread significantly across some people's faces. Enlarging features and almost smothering the person. So, although you lost an eye; I also recall you lost your sense of smell. You are one of the fortunate ones. Plus, you are cancer free and have a wonderful daughter and husband ❤ on here, I've seen some people who carry scares from burns on their face and the majority of their body. Sever burns are extremely difficult to conceal. You are in my prayers, and it's always a pleasure to see one of your updates. You're a warrior, and you're blessed ❤
You are truly the strongest woman, all you have been through and are still going through with such calm matter of fact acceptance amazes me. One day your daughter will watch all these videos and then be able to tell you what an incredible woman and mum you are. I look at you and see only strength, beauty and dignity.
My dear Melanie, watching this makes me realize that the problems and the frustrations that I face are nothing compared to yours. Today you helped me in a moment of panic and I'm sending you a big "thank you" for setting me straight and hugs to you. Bless you because you are amazing, a beautiful woman, a strong woman, the best mom and wife, what flap, what hole, I just see an amazing person. Keeping you in my prayers and sending you all my love.❤🙏
Hi sweetheart. You did make me giggle over the smile with hubby. You are so strong and a beautiful woman-wife and mommy. Thank you so much for the update. Always looking forward to the next.
Omg, Melanie, I can’t believe what you’ve been through! You’re so brave and strong! As you describe your journey I can’t help but think what the medical community is capable of doing for you! It amazes me! I’m glad you’re able to spend time with your baby too! That’s so important! I’ll continue to pray for you and your family! 💕🙏
Sending prayers from Nebraska, it would be so hard to be positive. I can’t imagine. I so hope it turns out for you. And people complain over nothing. They have no idea.❤️
Melanie, you are a WARRIOR! I can't even begin to understand how hard this is for you, but you are so brave and so strong! I pray for your healing. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us that love you.
Oh I wish I could actually give you a hug and tell you your fight has been and continues to be very inspiring and motivating. Not many of us would be willing to share such a personal journey. Take care of yourself and update when you feel able and want to. As always prayers for you and your entire family.
Hi melanie, im new to watching your channel. It could not have come at a better time. Your strength and courage through everything you have been through has given me strength and courage to keep going. Ive always been a positive upbeat person but the last couple years ive let life get to me. After watching you and how positive you have stayed through your journey made me realize I miss feeling that way. I would rather be thankful for what I have and grateful for my life being happy than seeing all the negative around me and being sad and angry for what life has given me. Thank you for that. I know you will get through this little crack in the road too just stay positive and know you are loved.
Melanie, you're a an amazing person. The strength you have is just incredible. I believe that will get you through this nightmare. You're a pretty woman, and the patch you wear later be an accessory to your wardrobe. Cancer can't take your beautiful spirit. I'm praying for you. May this all be behind you and 2025 will be a new chapter and healing for you.
Hey beautiful Melanie! I am so glad you’re home. You are dealing with a lot. I am glad you’re able to lift and take care of baby girl too. Thank you for posting a video. I know right now time is not your friend. We all appreciate the update so much. Lifting you up in my prayers always. As time goes by and the skin shrinks and allows you to breathe better, things will improve. Just know we all love you!!! Hang in there sweet girl!! ❤
Praying this infection or fluid resolves, the swelling goes down, your facial nerve heals and the hyperbaric treatment creates miracles! I feel your frustration!
You are so courageous Melanie ❤️ a real inspiration to those of us that complain about the little things . Keep on being your beautiful self 🙏prayers from 🇨🇦
Melanie- I think you are one of the bravest people I know. If I saw you in person I would realize you have been undergoing some medical challenges- but my first thought would be of awe and compassion. It’s going to get better and better. You are amazing!! God bless you 💖
I'm so glad that you take care of yourself. It is ok to take your time without pressure of making videos. We'll all be here when you're ready. Love your strength!!!
From the time you got the first flap to just before the second surgery, I could tell some of your self confidence came back. Im confident the same will happen this time! Your body is accomplishing so much each day in terms of healing, even if it feels slow. By Christmas things will look so different. I’m happy to see you in moderately good spirits and most importantly I’m happy you and baby girl get some alone time together!!!
So glad you are cancer free! I have mentioned to you before that I had 4 open wounds in my pelvis from radiation 3 years ago-I don’t know if they had thought of a wound vac for draining the fluid from the wound and also stem cell that was placed into my wound and filled the area with new tissue growth. This combination took almost a year of healing 3,4 times a week but they are healed and will always have to be careful of the radiated skin. My Mom had a flap on her skull years ago and she wore a covering like yours for a long time-if people stare-just say you are an influencer and this is a brand new look! I think you have a Beautiful smile, you have been through so very much-you are an inspiration!! You just have to take care of yourself and it takes time for our bodies to heal! I found good nutrition and rest helped me so much in my healing journey! I am sending 🧡🙏🙏🙏your way!
I only just discovered your channel and you are just so amazing! I hD breast cancer and ot was nothing compared to what you are going through! I just want to hug you xxx
Melanie, thank you for posting this. You're helping so many people! I like the bandana look. I agree with you that the skeletal muscle will atrophy. I pray that the remaining holes will close up and that the hyperbaric oxygen treatments will be therapeutic and relaxing❤
Thank you for sharing your experiences. Most of us have never had such extreme things happen to us or to anyone close to us, so this takes some of the mystery out of it, and shows us what hope and courage looks like.
You are very brave to tell us your story. I really hope all the concern for you here, will help keep your spirits up a little. There are absolutely people rooting for you.
Don’t know why this video popped up on my feed?!….what a delight to get to get to know you! Even though it is through UA-cam! The flap is looking incredible! As a long term surgical/procedure nurse who worked in cosmetics and plastic surgery, I understand this process. The flap looks so so healthy and will give the surgeons so much more to work with as they reconstruct the area. Your story is unique and your journey is unfortunate but incredible. We have much to learn from beautiful people like you! Thank you for your bravery and sharing your story. I will be joining you in spirit (lots of prayers), on your road to feeling whole again…for you and your family❤️
Thank you for sharing this with me! It helps to hear from people in the medical field, as I of course have no idea what to look for in terms of how well it is doing. I appreciate your encouragement!
Thankyou for your courage & generosity in telling your story - there will be people going through severe medical challenges who will be able to find hope & strength from your honest conversation. I will keep you in my prayers & wish you good results & continued healing.
I am new to your channel. You are strong! I am praying for you and your family. May God’s mercy and grace surround you and your family in this time of need.
Gracias, Melanie, hace tiempo que sigo tu canal, pero no hablo inglés, así que por trascripciones de UA-cam pude conocer un poco su caso, pero hoy por fin pude tener una traducción simultánea a mi idioma y al fin ya conozco toda su historia. Creo que está ya en el buen camino, sólo falta un poco de tiempo, el tiempo pasa demasiado pronto, ya lo verá, la inflamación bajará y se sentirá mejor. Le mando todos mis abrazos, oraciones y deseos de su pronta recuperación.
I’ve not commented before but have been following you for a long time now. I just wanted to tell you how beautiful you are inside and out!!!! One step at a time and already so many positives. You will have so many stories to tell your daughter as she grows up. One day you’ll maybe watch back these videos and wonder how strong you were. Keep up your positive thoughts and vibes. Prayers and healing being sent your way xx
Praying for you! You are a strong, beautiful woman. Believe in yourself and that this to will end. Please, please quit touching the flap and stitches as your doctor said before when he found out you had been touching all of it. I know you said before it’s hard not to touch it all but maybe keep telling yourself I want to not touch any of it so that I don’t cause any problems with the healing because I want no more problems. ❤
Sending prayers and a huge hug, sweet Melanie ❤ You are such a strong woman and an inspiration to many! I'm so proud of you, and I couldn't be happier to hear your cancer free! Such amazing news ❤ xx hydie ❤
You are one strong cookie. I will be praying for the chamber. I think it will be helping you immensely. Im so sorry you have to go through all this. Im a 2 time cancer survivor but didnt have to face what your facing. Love and hugs.❤
Dearest Melanie - It’s wonderful to see you and to know that the current surgery is now over and you are recovering. Mercifully, the cancer is gone, you have a beautiful daughter and a supportive husband. Once the healing is complete, I hope a designer will make you the perfect ‘gear’ to cover your flap. You are beautiful and will be uniquely glamorous. I’ve had cancer, too so understand about chemo and radiation. You are a champion. I send you and your family love. 🤗🩷
Melanie you have been through so much yet look at how you bring the strength from the bottom of you’re boots. I am hoping so hard that you get a break, so heartbreaking that you have to go through it all again. Sending you love, light, & strength. You are amazing inspiration, and an absolute warrior. XX
I saw your last update video before this one and I have been thinking about you since. Thank you for sharing. You are truly amazing and show resilience and strength. Keep it up. I lost my mom to alcoholism and diabetes in June this year. I have so much love and respect for moms everywhere. Your baby is so so lucky to have you as a mom. Sending hugs!
You are amazing. What you've been through is incredible, and you've come out the other side with so much strength and beauty. You just keep on healing, and I'll keep on praying 🙏 for you. God bless...
Bless you lovely lady .I know you don't know me but I think of you often . Thank you for letting us know how your doing your an inspiration to others xx
You're beautiful!! I have no idea what this is like and I have no place giving advice but I will say I'm so glad you're here and that you're alive. This too shall pass. You're a true warrior and you've been through so much!!! So much!! I'm sending love and huge hugs to you!!! Stay strong like you have been. Reach out if you ever need to talk!
Dear YT friend, with all you’ve been thru of course your anxiety would be ready to blow up. You will be in my prayers and thoughts as you’re going thru the healing process. My heart is sending you bunches of love and warm hugs. Keep your faith. Remember like my Mom told me when my husband was doing me wrong I would feel bad about myself, my looks and my sweet Mom would say, sweet one u remember God didnt make any junk. He will walk you thru all tge bad times just like He is doing for you. You have so many people on your channel holding you in prayer each & everyday. Sending hugs my friend. This is a winding road God is leading u thru right now but He will get u to the end and it will heal beautifully. Xoxo
Bless you heart. This has to be very difficult for you and your husband. I'm so sad that the reconstructive surgery is so difficult too. You are very brae to share your cancer journey with your fans.
Melanie, I am a firm believer in that everyone’s pain and struggle is valid, but girl you are amazing. The things you have gone through would bring most people to their knees and you have faced it with such grace! I am a cancer survivor so I relate to some of the struggles you have shared. I try to put myself back during my treatment time and don’t think I would have had the strength or will to share my experience. Even though you are going through probably one of the most difficult things you ever will, you are here, helping others to know they are not alone by sharing your story. Just know you and your family is in my prayers as always🙏🏻💜
God Bless You, you have been thru HELL!!! I am happy to see you!! I think anyone in your situation would feel the same! after that surgery!! You have been so strong and such a warrior!! I have been praying every night knowing you were resting and needed healing!! I guess all you can do is 1 day at a time!! I will continue praying that this healing hurrys up and closes so you can breath out of your nose!! Thank You for update!! Prayers ❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hi Melanie..... Good to hear from you - you are always in my thoughts. You continue to inspire me with your determination and courage. Love to you and your gorgeous man and beautiful little baby 👶. Big hugs from . Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xx
You are definitely a phoenix! You just keep rising!! An inspiration no doubt! You can start a new scarf trend in the healing time lol! Love you so much❤
Prayers for your continued healing and comfort in how you feel about yourself. Your such a strong woman, wife and Mother. I am in awe of you and how you deal with what life has thrown at you. You are dealing with it with grace and courage. 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
Hi Mel Prayers your way for continued recovery! Hopefully, this will be complete with no more surgeries and healing goes smoothly! God Bless you and your family! Thank you so much for this update and glad your home! Take care of yourself and your beautiful little girl! Your complete recovery is in my prayers! Love and Hugs your way! 💕🤗🙏🙏
Good to hear from you, and how your journey is going. You are beautiful from the inside out please give yourself some grace I know it’s hard but you are the only one that can. Just a note from a grandma from Maine. God bless you and your family ❤️🙏
God bless you Melanie ❤ Seeing you cry just breaks my heart. I’m so sorry for everything you’re going through. I pray 🙏🏻 for you to have complete healing ❤️🩹 Please stay strong 💪🏻 You matter!! Your UA-cam family loves you, and we’re here cheering you on! ❤
May God continue to watch over and bless you and your family during your healing process. Your strength is amazing, I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Thank you so much to everyone who has been checking in! I appreciate your patience, prayers, and well wishes.
Mel, I'm so sorry for what you are going through sweetheart, you've every right to be emotional and upset, you don't deserve this shite, I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of love and strength, I'm praying all this will behind you sooner rather than later, it's too much for one person to deal with, have a good bawl when you feel like it, crying is good for the soul, you owe nobody nothing, trying to keep upbeat when you're feeling miserable is so difficult, don't be so hard on yourself 💖💖💖🙏🙏Xxx
Oh Mel, you are amazing! ❤you have gone through so much. I pray that it gets easier in your healing period.🙏🙏
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Mel my gosh you are way stronger than me my friend. After a few things failed with me I remember something my plastic surgeon told me was as important if not more and that was “Come from a place of mental strength Kristen.” I guess what he meant was if I struggle with being down he wanted me to tell him. I by no means am suggesting you are at all. One ? he failed to ask before my flap surgery was if I struggled w depression or anxiety in my life. I came out of the womb anxious. lol!
He needed me to chill in order to recover.
It’s odd how the mind almost over rides our body’s ability.
I get just wanting to breathe normally. It’s the simple things so many take for granted.
You aren’t alone and if you find yourself starting to obsess or keep checking for something wrong..
Call the doc Mel ❤
I’m praying for you daily & girl you are tough as a freaking bolt!
Grateful for the update.
Flap looks good 😊
Melanie, I am so sorry you are going through this. It’s more than anyone shoudl have to deal with especially with a baby. I will continue to pray for you that the hyperbaric works and the flap shrinks so you can get back to your normal. You are one strong lady! Sending prayers your way! ❤️🙏🏻
I am in awe of you. You have been through more than ANYONE should ever have to go through and while its obviously incredibly difficult on you, you have not given up. You show up, you're a mom, wife, daughter, and you show up here to update us. I could only hope to be half as amazing as you are. And you are so beautiful inside and out. Praying for your ongoing healing emotionally and physically.
Glad to see you again. Prayers and positive vibes that everything goes the best that it can for you. Always thinking of you and rooting for you❤
I agree with you Melissa ! Praying for you , Melanie , for comfort, peace and complete healing.
Hi Melanie, I’m sorry that you are having to go through MORE. I’m glad they’ve plugged up the hole, but taking in the new results is a lot for you and will take you time, even though you’re comfortable enough to show it to us, which is a big deal. Yes, lots of good signs, but you’ve got the new flap, the big scar on your leg, the other hole and screw in your head to learn to deal with, even if you’re grateful. It’s still a lot. We love you and are grateful that you’re cancer free, but I, personally, want to say to you, yes, you’re brave and strong, but let yourself grieve and adjust to all of this. It’s ALOT. Sending love and big prayers for complete healing and comfort as you navigate this. ❤❤❤
I see nothing but a beautiful, strong woman! Take care of yourself! 🥰
When I look at you, I notice the flap at first, but then my attention is on the rest of your face and your strength. You are a beautiful woman Melanie. Not many could stand in your shoes.
You are the absolute strongest, most badass woman ever!!!! 💯Prayers for continued healing everyday 🙏🏻❤️🩹 sending love and hugs beautiful lady❤️
Thank you for explaining in detail. As a former nurse and having had massive skin grafting myself, I feel for you. You are handling this like a champ!!
No one should ever have to endure what you have. I'm so, so sorry. Your strength is amazing, and your frustration is understandable. You are in my prayers...may God give you all the strength you need to heal and all the love for your daughter and husband ❤️
You are one amazing woman. One day your daughter is going to realize she has the most bad ass Mother ever. When she is old enough she will tell you. Prayers for your continuing health and healing.
Girl, you've been through hell and you're still beautiful. That eye flap is a badge of honor. It shows how strong you are. Soon much of this chaos will calm down and you can fully enjoy everything. 🥰
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Just remember you never lose who you truly are and Melanie you are so beautiful, inside and out. Don't ever forget this. You an amazing mom, wife and daughter. And keep faith in the Lord. He will never leave you!!❤❤
You are a beautiful mama. I saw you before the surgery, and you are still that beautiful woman. Cancer free is awesome. Praying for a complete healing, in Jesus name.
You look great! Rest when you can. Get a sweatshirt made that says, “ You should see the other guy”💪🏻
“It’s a lot.” Such an understatement made by an extremely strong woman who is emotionally and physically worn out. Melanie, God has gifted you a Grace that is found only in those individuals who can see within their own souls. Your UA-cam Family is so proud of how you’ve gifted yourself unconditional love. My prayer is that you grant peace and kindness to yourself so that you can take healing one day at a time. Your daughter is being raised by a momma who can handle what so many of us could not. Please be proud of your immense fortitude and lean on those who can help in any way. We love you. 😘
I cry to see you crying. So pleased to see you on the update . I haven’t wrote before . You’re a real warrior you so beautiful inside and out . Praying continue for your full recovery xxxx
Melanie, you don't have to feel sad to come online to talk to us. We are your friends and community and we have totally accepted you the way you are. It doesn't matter how the wound will look like after healing. Your PERSONALITY is great and you are such a inspiration to all of us❤❤ Take care of yourself dear friend❤❤
I had had cancer twice and my worse day is nothing compared to what you are going thru…..I will start praying for divine help for you, for healing in body and mind and soul…..I do believe God is merciful and wants to help and heal you…..You’re not alone!
I’m praying 🙏🏽 for her too! 🙏🏽💙🩷🙏🏽
I pray you will get that Hyberbaric Chamber! I have a brother in-law that did those treatments along with a cousin & a friend’s baby that had drowned at a year old & brought back to life which she is over 10 now & has shown remarkable improvements!
Brother contracted a disease & a cousin that has diabetes & was having toes removed…which the chamber stopped the spreading of his infection…which saved his foot!
Really I wish all of us could spend some time in one of those…it’s so GOOD for our Brains!!
I believe you’ll be Amazed on well you will do!
I’m a breast cancer survivor since 2012 when I was 52.
Remember this Life wasn’t meant to be Easy….JUST WORTH IT!!!
Melanie you are a beautiful warrior woman showing your family how hard you have fought so much respect for you
You could totally pull off the phantom of the opera mask! Add jewels, sparkles and colours. Your true beauty shines no matter what. I am watching you as an example of how someone can become self confident again. ❤
@ a lot worse off than two days ago
Perfect!! Absolute perfection!! Cancer free is perfect!! I had a Squamous cell, aggressive, on the tip of my nose in June. Within 2 weeks, it went from a hard, bread crust type tumor to an abscess. I had a big black oozing tumor on the end of my nose. The surgery was done by week 4 and the surgeon put 2 skin grafts on the tip of my nose after removal of the tumor. How you are doing so well is beyond me!! It was horrible and my grafts didn't take!! It's just so wonderful to see you doing well. Grafts NOT taking are horrible. Good for you!!
I am battling the exact squamous cell aggressive skin cancer as you. I had my cancer removed Aug 27th but unfortunately it has now spread to my nose too. I went through nitrogen treatments but I can see it did not work. Your grafts didn’t take so what do they do for you in that case? Are you clear now? I am speechless at how much this young wife and mother has gone through. I don’t think I could be that strong , her courage is outstanding!
Hello, beautiful Melanie! I'm so glad you are healing and doing better. ❤️🙏🏻
@DrAriba-rt8zowhy are you asking everyone how they’re doing? lol
@DrAriba-rt8zoSCAM!!!
For whatever YOU want sweet friend 💛
THANK YOU! so much! It means a lot. Thinking of you as well.
@@lnewbury1 sorry cant tell if your male or female but thats so sweet and awesome of you to do that.
I’m praying for healing for you. My heart goes out to you and we all hold a special place for you to rest during these hard trials. I had a hole behind my ear that leaked saliva after parotid cancer surgery and radiation of my face. I struggled. Some days the only consolation I found was that these hard days will not last forever. I’m dealing with dental issues after radiation now and potentially facing hyperbaric therapy also. These trials will pass, dear sweet fighter. My favorite psalm has been a source of comfort and strength, its Psalm 57:1. Be merciful unto me:O God, be merciful unto me for my soul trusth in thee: yea, in the shadow of thy wings will I make my refuge: until these calamities be overpast.
I think it’s looking great. ❤ Prayers for a speedy recovery. Wear it with pride Melanie as you are a warrior.
Thank you for taking time to update us. I have so much admiration for you sweet Melanie! I have stage 4 cancer myself and you are so encouraging to me. I pray for you and your family. Thankful to the Lord for you. I ask Him for complete healing and strength for you. 🙏❤️😊
Tammy, thank you so much for this message and encouragement! I am so sorry to hear about your own battle, but am glad you have found some encouragement here. I will be praying for you as well!!
It’s ok to grieve loss of any kind and be grateful at the same time - always give yourself some grace you are going through alot. So thankful you have support. Prayers for you and your family 🙏🏻
You give us strength , motivate, encourage, and uplift all of us.
❤YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ❤
I tried to look through the comments to see if it’s been said already - but I bet a couple small dots of lash glue could secure the edges of the bandana closer to your jaw so it doesn’t risk blowing up and exposing your entire face. You are beautiful and have nothing to hide, *but* if you want the covering to be more secure - a couple drops of skin-safe adhesive would work. Sending so much love because this entire process has been so, so scary and hard ❤❤❤
Thats a smart idea! Thank you for sharing that and for your encouragement.
Prayers ❤ It's great to hear from U!! You are doing amazing! One day at a time! Don't worry about what others think! Hold your head up high, girl! You have gone through a lot!! And anyone that has a problem, can just buzz off!! Not many could be as strong as You are!! Sending Hugs ❤
You are a stronger woman than me! When they say life is not fair, that is certainly an understatement, I do not know how you cope, I know I could not! My heart goes out to you and pray that you can return to as much "normalcy" as possible and as soon as possible.
Keep on keeping on. Things will get better and look better in time. We're all here for you ❤
Hon, I'm really checking out your makeshift patch. You could get a decent sized to large sized pin to weigh the flap down. Rather, a fashionable one or a regular safety pin. Sugar, you are beautiful regardless 😊❤ and super strong. I check out UA-cam a lot. There are people that have all sorts of disformaties etc. Cancer has made many to suffer. Some tumors can't be removed and have spread significantly across some people's faces. Enlarging features and almost smothering the person. So, although you lost an eye; I also recall you lost your sense of smell. You are one of the fortunate ones. Plus, you are cancer free and have a wonderful daughter and husband ❤ on here, I've seen some people who carry scares from burns on their face and the majority of their body. Sever burns are extremely difficult to conceal.
You are in my prayers, and it's always a pleasure to see one of your updates. You're a warrior, and you're blessed ❤
You are truly the strongest woman, all you have been through and are still going through with such calm matter of fact acceptance amazes me. One day your daughter will watch all these videos and then be able to tell you what an incredible woman and mum you are. I look at you and see only strength, beauty and dignity.
My dear Melanie, watching this makes me realize that the problems and the frustrations that I face are nothing compared to yours. Today you helped me in a moment of panic and I'm sending you a big "thank you" for setting me straight and hugs to you. Bless you because you are amazing, a beautiful woman, a strong woman, the best mom and wife, what flap, what hole, I just see an amazing person. Keeping you in my prayers and sending you all my love.❤🙏
Hi sweetheart. You did make me giggle over the smile with hubby. You are so strong and a beautiful woman-wife and mommy. Thank you so much for the update. Always looking forward to the next.
Omg, Melanie, I can’t believe what you’ve been through! You’re so brave and strong! As you describe your journey I can’t help but think what the medical community is capable of doing for you! It amazes me! I’m glad you’re able to spend time with your baby too! That’s so important! I’ll continue to pray for you and your family! 💕🙏
Sending prayers from Nebraska, it would be so hard to be positive. I can’t imagine. I so hope it turns out for you. And people complain over nothing. They have no idea.❤️
Melanie, you are a WARRIOR! I can't even begin to understand how hard this is for you, but you are so brave and so strong! I pray for your healing. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us that love you.
Oh I wish I could actually give you a hug and tell you your fight has been and continues to be very inspiring and motivating. Not many of us would be willing to share such a personal journey. Take care of yourself and update when you feel able and want to. As always prayers for you and your entire family.
I'm glad you are healing and getting better. Of course, it is hard, no questions here, but you are amazing. So happy to hear from you
So impressed by your positive and brave spirit. Praying for your healing of your new eye flap.
Hi melanie, im new to watching your channel. It could not have come at a better time. Your strength and courage through everything you have been through has given me strength and courage to keep going. Ive always been a positive upbeat person but the last couple years ive let life get to me. After watching you and how positive you have stayed through your journey made me realize I miss feeling that way. I would rather be thankful for what I have and grateful for my life being happy than seeing all the negative around me and being sad and angry for what life has given me. Thank you for that. I know you will get through this little crack in the road too just stay positive and know you are loved.
Melanie, you're a an amazing person. The strength you have is just incredible. I believe that will get you through this nightmare.
You're a pretty woman, and the patch you wear later be an accessory to your wardrobe. Cancer can't take your beautiful spirit. I'm praying for you. May this all be behind you and 2025 will be a new chapter and healing for you.
Hey beautiful Melanie! I am so glad you’re home. You are dealing with a lot. I am glad you’re able to lift and take care of baby girl too. Thank you for posting a video. I know right now time is not your friend. We all appreciate the update so much. Lifting you up in my prayers always. As time goes by and the skin shrinks and allows you to breathe better, things will improve. Just know we all love you!!! Hang in there sweet girl!! ❤
I am so sorry you have to go through this. You are a very brave woman and thank you for sharing your story. Sending you positive vibes. 🙏
You have met so many challeges with amazing bravery. Truly inspiring. God bless.
Praying this infection or fluid resolves, the swelling goes down, your facial nerve heals and the hyperbaric treatment creates miracles! I feel your frustration!
🙏🏼🕊️🌺 I'M praying for you for total healing in the name of Jesus I asked you Lord🙏🏼
I'm praying for you!! You are so strong! Keep fighting!! ❤❤
You are so courageous Melanie ❤️ a real inspiration to those of us that complain about the little things . Keep on being your beautiful self 🙏prayers from 🇨🇦
Melanie- I think you are one of the bravest people I know.
If I saw you in person I would realize you have been undergoing some medical challenges- but my first thought would be of awe and compassion. It’s going to get better and better. You are amazing!! God bless you 💖
You’re such a tough lady even though you might not feel that way.I admire you so much. I pray for your healing and good health🙏🏻
I'm so glad that you take care of yourself. It is ok to take your time without pressure of making videos. We'll all be here when you're ready. Love your strength!!!
From the time you got the first flap to just before the second surgery, I could tell some of your self confidence came back. Im confident the same will happen this time! Your body is accomplishing so much each day in terms of healing, even if it feels slow. By Christmas things will look so different. I’m happy to see you in moderately good spirits and most importantly I’m happy you and baby girl get some alone time together!!!
So glad you are cancer free! I have mentioned to you before that I had 4 open wounds in my pelvis from radiation 3 years ago-I don’t know if they had thought of a wound vac for draining the fluid from the wound and also stem cell that was placed into my wound and filled the area with new tissue growth. This combination took almost a year of healing 3,4 times a week but they are healed and will always have to be careful of the radiated skin. My Mom had a flap on her skull years ago and she wore a covering like yours for a long time-if people stare-just say you are an influencer and this is a brand new look! I think you have a Beautiful smile, you have been through so very much-you are an inspiration!! You just have to take care of yourself and it takes time for our bodies to heal! I found good nutrition and rest helped me so much in my healing journey! I am sending 🧡🙏🙏🙏your way!
We will be patient along with you. We are continuing to pray for you, Babe and that precious baby girl. Sending you lots of love from Texas 🙏🩷
I only just discovered your channel and you are just so amazing! I hD breast cancer and ot was nothing compared to what you are going through! I just want to hug you xxx
It’s so good to see you and get an update. You have gone through so much. I’m thankful Gods healing and giving you strength. God bless
Melanie, thank you for posting this. You're helping so many people! I like the bandana look. I agree with you that the skeletal muscle will atrophy. I pray that the remaining holes will close up and that the hyperbaric oxygen treatments will be therapeutic and relaxing❤
Thank you for sharing your experiences. Most of us have never had such extreme things happen to us or to anyone close to us, so this takes some of the mystery out of it, and shows us what hope and courage looks like.
So great to hear from (and see) you!!!! Thank you for checking in!
You are very brave to tell us your story. I really hope all the concern for you here, will help keep your spirits up a little. There are absolutely people rooting for you.
Hi Melanie. Thank you for the update. You are such a strong, brave lady. Sending love and healing ❤
Don’t know why this video popped up on my feed?!….what a delight to get to get to know you! Even though it is through UA-cam! The flap is looking incredible! As a long term surgical/procedure nurse who worked in cosmetics and plastic surgery, I understand this process. The flap looks so so healthy and will give the surgeons so much more to work with as they reconstruct the area. Your story is unique and your journey is unfortunate but incredible. We have much to learn from beautiful people like you! Thank you for your bravery and sharing your story. I will be joining you in spirit (lots of prayers), on your road to feeling whole again…for you and your family❤️
Thank you for sharing this with me! It helps to hear from people in the medical field, as I of course have no idea what to look for in terms of how well it is doing. I appreciate your encouragement!
Thankyou for your courage & generosity in telling your story - there will be people going through severe medical challenges who will be able to find hope & strength from your honest conversation. I will keep you in my prayers & wish you good results & continued healing.
I can’t wait until you can put all this behind you and Iive your life with no worries! Praying without ceasing for you! You are a badass!
I am new to your channel. You are strong! I am praying for you and your family. May God’s mercy and grace surround you and your family in this time of need.
Melanie, you’ve been in my daily prayers since your 1st surgery. May God bless you and comfort you. ❤️🙏
Gracias, Melanie, hace tiempo que sigo tu canal, pero no hablo inglés, así que por trascripciones de UA-cam pude conocer un poco su caso, pero hoy por fin pude tener una traducción simultánea a mi idioma y al fin ya conozco toda su historia. Creo que está ya en el buen camino, sólo falta un poco de tiempo, el tiempo pasa demasiado pronto, ya lo verá, la inflamación bajará y se sentirá mejor. Le mando todos mis abrazos, oraciones y deseos de su pronta recuperación.
I’ve not commented before but have been following you for a long time now. I just wanted to tell you how beautiful you are inside and out!!!! One step at a time and already so many positives. You will have so many stories to tell your daughter as she grows up. One day you’ll maybe watch back these videos and wonder how strong you were. Keep up your positive thoughts and vibes. Prayers and healing being sent your way xx
Praying for you! You are a strong, beautiful woman. Believe in yourself and that this to will end. Please, please quit touching the flap and stitches as your doctor said before when he found out you had been touching all of it. I know you said before it’s hard not to touch it all but maybe keep telling yourself I want to not touch any of it so that I don’t cause any problems with the healing because I want no more problems. ❤
Sending prayers and a huge hug, sweet Melanie ❤ You are such a strong woman and an inspiration to many! I'm so proud of you, and I couldn't be happier to hear your cancer free! Such amazing news ❤ xx hydie ❤
You are one strong cookie. I will be praying for the chamber. I think it will be helping you immensely. Im so sorry you have to go through all this. Im a 2 time cancer survivor but didnt have to face what your facing. Love and hugs.❤
Thinking of you and your bravery 💜 Nobody should have to go through this much. Sending good vibes 💜
Dearest Melanie - It’s wonderful to see you and to know that the current surgery is now over and you are recovering. Mercifully, the cancer is gone, you have a beautiful daughter and a supportive husband. Once the healing is complete, I hope a designer will make you the perfect ‘gear’ to cover your flap. You are beautiful and will be uniquely glamorous. I’ve had cancer, too so understand about chemo and radiation. You are a champion. I send you and your family love. 🤗🩷
Melanie you have been through so much yet look at how you bring the strength from the bottom of you’re boots. I am hoping so hard that you get a break, so heartbreaking that you have to go through it all again. Sending you love, light, & strength. You are amazing inspiration, and an absolute warrior. XX
I saw your last update video before this one and I have been thinking about you since. Thank you for sharing. You are truly amazing and show resilience and strength. Keep it up.
I lost my mom to alcoholism and diabetes in June this year. I have so much love and respect for moms everywhere. Your baby is so so lucky to have you as a mom. Sending hugs!
Beautiful lady, I hope everything heals up for you! You have been through so much! You deserve nothing but the best and then some!
You are amazing. What you've been through is incredible, and you've come out the other side with so much strength and beauty. You just keep on healing, and I'll keep on praying 🙏 for you. God bless...
So glad for the update. You've been on my heart and you are prayed for even we you cannot check in with us. You are beautiful.
Thank you for continuing to share your story, it shows your inner strength, but you are helping many.
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So glad to see you Melanie. You are a warrior. Stay strong. We are all here for you. I keep you in my daily prayers...
Bless you lovely lady .I know you don't know me but I think of you often . Thank you for letting us know how your doing your an inspiration to others xx
You're beautiful!! I have no idea what this is like and I have no place giving advice but I will say I'm so glad you're here and that you're alive. This too shall pass. You're a true warrior and you've been through so much!!! So much!! I'm sending love and huge hugs to you!!! Stay strong like you have been. Reach out if you ever need to talk!
Dear YT friend, with all you’ve been thru of course your anxiety would be ready to blow up. You will be in my prayers and thoughts as you’re going thru the healing process. My heart is sending you bunches of love and warm hugs. Keep your faith. Remember like my Mom told me when my husband was doing me wrong I would feel bad about myself, my looks and my sweet Mom would say, sweet one u remember God didnt make any junk. He will walk you thru all tge bad times just like He is doing for you. You have so many people on your channel holding you in prayer each & everyday. Sending hugs my friend. This is a winding road God is leading u thru right now but He will get u to the end and it will heal beautifully. Xoxo
Prayers for you and your family as you heal and recover may it be swift and speedy gods healing is coming your way .
Praying for your recovery ❤️🩹
Bless you heart. This has to be very difficult for you and your husband. I'm so sad that the reconstructive surgery is so difficult too. You are very brae to share your cancer journey with your fans.
Melanie, I am a firm believer in that everyone’s pain and struggle is valid, but girl you are amazing. The things you have gone through would bring most people to their knees and you have faced it with such grace! I am a cancer survivor so I relate to some of the struggles you have shared. I try to put myself back during my treatment time and don’t think I would have had the strength or will to share my experience. Even though you are going through probably one of the most difficult things you ever will, you are here, helping others to know they are not alone by sharing your story. Just know you and your family is in my prayers as always🙏🏻💜
You continue to soldier on! You are brave and strong and I know you are ready to be done! Continued prayers for healing as soon as possible!!! 🙏
I am 12 months post op. I had a cancer cut out of my face and a skin flap. I still cant feel that side of my face or smile. I feel you ❤❤❤
It’s more than a lot. It’s more than any one should have to endure. Sometimes there are no words. I am praying for you and your family.
God Bless You, you have been thru HELL!!! I am happy to see you!! I think anyone in your situation would feel the same! after that surgery!! You have been so strong and such a warrior!! I have been praying every night knowing you were resting and needed healing!!
I guess all you can do is 1 day at a time!! I will continue praying that this healing hurrys up and closes so you can breath out of your nose!! Thank You for update!!
Prayers ❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hi Melanie.....
Good to hear from you - you are always in my thoughts.
You continue to inspire me with your determination and courage.
Love to you and your gorgeous man and beautiful little baby 👶.
Big hugs from .
Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xx
You are definitely a phoenix! You just keep rising!! An inspiration no doubt! You can start a new scarf trend in the healing time lol! Love you so much❤
Prayers for your continued healing and comfort in how you feel about yourself. Your such a strong woman, wife and Mother. I am in awe of you and how you deal with what life has thrown at you. You are dealing with it with grace and courage. 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
Hi Mel
Prayers your way for continued recovery! Hopefully, this will be complete with no more surgeries and healing goes smoothly! God Bless you and your family! Thank you so much for this update and glad your home! Take care of yourself and your beautiful little girl! Your complete recovery is in my prayers! Love and Hugs your way! 💕🤗🙏🙏
Good to hear from you, and how your journey is going. You are beautiful from the inside out please give yourself some grace I know it’s hard but you are the only one that can. Just a note from a grandma from Maine. God bless you and your family ❤️🙏
God bless you Melanie ❤ Seeing you cry just breaks my heart. I’m so sorry for everything you’re going through. I pray 🙏🏻 for you to have complete healing ❤️🩹 Please stay strong 💪🏻 You matter!! Your UA-cam family loves you, and we’re here cheering you on! ❤
May God continue to watch over and bless you and your family during your healing process. Your strength is amazing, I will continue to keep you in my prayers.