I think there needs to be more cheat dramas where the female lead moves on.....seriously.....the cliche of continuously going back to a cheating spouse is becoming too irritating to watch!!
I agree....I actually found one on Netflix. I was waiting for these wives to take back their cheating husband...but they both moved on...and the husbands acted like complete asses because their ex wives refused to take them back.... The drama was called "Love, Marriage and Divorce".
@@shontelagrone8713 OMG i love that show with my whole heart. thats how woman need to act when their husbands cheat or take them forgranted until their gone. stop giving them chance after chance just to prove to u that he doesn’t gaf bout u or the family ur tryna fight for. at the end of the day, a man will do whatever tf he wants regardless of who he hurts. he dont care until the very last minute when u finally decide uve had enough, then he wants to fight n wonder why ur not fighting for ‘us’. men like that do not deserve chances, it shouldnt have to take them losing their family to get their act together.
I've seen too many Chinese dramas where the guy cheated (either emotionally or physically) or too hung up on his ex until the female lead leaves him and the lead always takes the guy back at the end by making it seem like it's "true love" What are these dramas trying to teach women by creating these plots? How to be doormats?
It's classic moral coercion tactics. Especially if they have children together, it's naturally expected to be back together for the sake of the children and shows this saint like forgiveness character. If you don't do so, then you get criticized for being too stubborn, too hateful....etc by public! Back in the old days, women aren't able to survive without men. So the traditional beliefs still exist to make women feel bad for leaving even if their husbands cheats or abuse!
This is the best example of the worst husband, where for him his wife has no value, at no time do I love her and why does he want to be with her. The best ending was for her to stay with her daughter alone and someone would arrive who truly loved her and made her happy.
Exactly, I remember the scene before she delivered, she called so many times when she was in pain, all he did was to ignore and not care to what could be a reason for the call.
Even now it’s still about what he needs and wants. Never does he mention her feelings except to ask if she was trying to get even with him for past mistakes he made. How incredibly selfish he is!
He lost his chance of being a father when he refused to answer his phone when she was calling him in panic because of labor pains. He doesn't deserve her and their daughter.
@@miyuryuu7260, unfortunately, she does get take him back in the end. So it’s a happy ending for them, but an annoying one for those like me who hate cheating
@@jessicalewis4304it’s not really a happy ending for them. Because she ends up with a controlling man who will inevitably cheat on her again. Or worse. Because he knows she will forgive him. Sad.
My husband asked for a separation, claiming it was all because of my faults. I fell for it completely, and even went to counseling to try and "fix" myself, and our relationship. I finally found out that he had been having an affair all along, so we started talking about divorcing. Soon after, we found out that he had cancer and was given less than a year to live. After the diagnosis he had an epiphany, he realized that he was the one that caused many problems and said that I had been that best thing to ever happen to him. He asked me to get back together and renew our vows. You know what I said? NO! Karma is a Biotch! Ladies, if your spouse is a cheater, run for the hills and don't look back.
He's a narcissist for emotional abuse to you. Of course he'd ask you to be back after he found out he's got cancer! That's not epiphany, that's him having no one else left to care for him
The plot is he cheats on her, the other woman goes crazy. He drops her, then decides he wants his wife back. -- Nope, don'ttake him back.. He needs counseling to figure out how to fix his own problems. She does not need to take over for a poorly raised man.
She already has one child to raise-she doesn’t need a second one (her ex-husband). He needs to fix himself not rely on the ex-wife he has mistreated and neglected his whole marriage.
For me the script writers got this so RIGHT. He treated her so badly, until she said I've had enough and divorces him. Meanwhile his Mistress has moved on and he is on his own. Even his mother agrees she didn't treat her DIL well. And now she is standing firm and well not accept him back. I think what is missed in these episodes is the length of time that goes by and she still won't have him back and why should she ? For once the script is correct or the writers are females. Well done it is such a good feeling seeing Asian women standing proud and this series has it all.
You haven’t watched the end then, have you? Because while the scriptwriters may have gotten this clip right, they lost all respect and credibility by having her take his sorry ass back later in the story.
I can't be the only female who thinks the minute he chose the side piece over his wife she should've ducked him right out!!! And then sue them for cheating
You aren’t the only woman (or man) to expect more from the female lead. I’m glad she divorced him! But too bad she ends up taking him back later because he supposedly suddenly “loves” her. 🙄
He has been in love with mistress for over 10yrs and wanted to marry her, but his mother was against it. He only married this girl to please his mom, he was still seeing the mistress throughout the marriage and the wife knew about it. The wife was hoping he would give up mistress and when he didn't she left. I don't like the ending. The wife finally got her life together and was successful with her new life, so why did she take him back knowing that he will go running whenever mistress calls him. This culture, society, family thing cause so much unhappiness and hatred in the world.
He was a grown man who married someone he didn’t love to please his mother?! Yeah-he needs to use his post-divorce time to get himself into therapy. He’s not child. He is responsible for his own choices and actions. Maybe, huge MAYBE, after he fixed himself he might then have some insight into how badly he treated his wife and how deeply he broke her trust. It should not have been so easy for him to earn her forgiveness.
Sounds like the true story of Charles and Diana, only Diana chose wisely to leave the cheating husband for good, but tragedy still struck and she died young. All the faults lied with the cheating husband, from beginning to end!!
Sadly, this is not an isolated story. There are tens of tens of thousands of us exactly in her situation; facing a coward begging for forgiveness, not understanding, in the least why once trust is gone, it's gone. It's another reason why she shouldn't take him back; his lack of understanding of what he did to her. He was and frankly is, a cheater; dishonest, disrespectful, and disgusting in his berating of her.
And this drama doesn’t even have the decency to really show him working and evolving and becoming a different and better person. He doesn’t deserve her or his daughter. At best they should co-parent with her being the primary parent. He hasn’t really changed-just realized his mistress is crazy.
A divorce is not the end of the world. Better be alone than suffer a cheater. I hope she took a stand and set the right example for her baby girl. (I don't know how the drama ended)
@@anitasham855he didn’t work nearly hard enough, in my opinion. He remains selfish and controlling. (Remember him freezing her credit cards to force her to need him?).
Okay but here's the thing love isn't eternal and a given: he cheated and put her down many times before. So what if he loves her now? Why should she care? She may have feelings for him but those feelings mean nothing when they were rejected over and over again. At some point even love isn't enough. She should have stayed single because she should put herself first. And what bothers me more than anything is the harassment of many Male lead is protait as a good thing. If she says no is a no, don't go encouraging this this because of "love" or because they are married there are lines that shouldn't be crossed
I don’t really believe he loves her. I mean, out of nowhere he discovers “love”? Just because his mistress is crazy? Nah. He’s just a self centered, selfish man who wants a wife and daughter he can show off.
ZouKai needed to work very hard to fix his own inter-personal relationship problems, mend his wife's broken heart, regain her trust in him, make up himself to be a real husband in her heart. This should be a long way to prove he qualified.
It won’t be long enough, sadly. He SHOULD have to work very hard and long for a chance at earning her love and her trust. But the idiotic writers would rather just have her forgive him quickly. 🙄
I don't have a problem with couples getting back together after a split like this. My problem with this particular relationship is that they were never really together. It seems they are always on different pages of their story.... And whatever limited feeling developed between them was not powerful enough to overcome the deep-rooted and extensive personality flaws, especially on the part of the husband.
This is the perfect example of a man who finally realized that his pride is the one that destroyed their marriage. The cheating was a cheap expression of it. Plus a mother-in-law who seems to have an issue with babying a man. The wife is such a strong woman who will always prioritize her daughter, even if it takes to go against her husband.
The character of the husband is he does not have value for his wife .he everytime goes at beck and call of his girlfriend who is much older to him. When she was pregnant he never looked back even after she giving plenty of calls he never bothered . Even after giving birth he was not there n u expect such a person to be forgiven easily. I think she shd give divorce n start a new life so he will know wht he have lost
Proverbs says "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways". Believe it and conduct yourself accordingly when dealing with one. Get off the emotional see-saw and find your own way. That baby is adorable.
So this the the same boy emphasizing BOY, who went through the river of God to get married to this woman. And when he finally was able to he cheated, left her hanging when she was in labor and had HER CHILD alone, as well as accusing her to be a gold bigger.....my have he gown 😒
I don't think they let you see him as a romantic person, with neither his wife or mistress. There were no kisses involved with the women. I think this drama was just soulless, with both male and female leads.
This story must be written by a man. At the end all the hurt of his cold cruelty, the pain of betrayal is all swept under the carpet and he has a happy ending? Surely a male author.
Dude seriously🙁... Where the hell is her self respect... I know love is important but like this mistress or non deserving person... Then sorry I can live without this type of man but not with my self respect 😒😒... For me if there is love then there should be no third person, there should be loyalty, love, understanding if not then get lost... 🙂🙂
He did nothing in the marriage, gave nothing only took, he was an emotionless robot who might as well not been there, she deserved a life far better, and unfortunately it took her quite some time to realise her self worth and her daughters was more important and to walk away. I don’t think he was physically cheating with his ex but he was still cheating all the same, and to be honest he looked miserable with her aswell, he felt guilty towards his ex and she was a drunk psychological mess aswell, this guy has serious psychological issues that need fixing. Biggest mistake his wife made was eventually taking him back, she would have been better living her life alone and happy and maybe eventually meet a man who would do anything for her.
Biggest mistake the wife made was having a child with him. Honestly. Because other than that, she would not have been lured back into getting back together with him but would have seen him for the selfcentered, verbally abusive, cheater that he was. But no, she actually believes his delusional “I love you now” statements and that he wants them to be a real family. 🤮
I completely agree.. the story was progressing so well she was finding her footing for her daughter for herself she was becoming brave and able to get out of the miserable married life she had. But then she had to again fall for the ML because he hit someone because he was jealous ..she again went to her childish phase and that completely wrecked the story for me. He was trying to win her back but she gave in too easily and childishly.. all the built up of self love and esteem flushed down the toilet 🤪
Big issue in most Asian drama. A cheating husband, weak always crying wife, very tolerant wife, strong mistresses. I wouldn't look at that trash of a man twice.
Unfortunately as much as I'd like to jump on this train most of the cultures are all the same when you really dig them down the African culture the Western culture all the men are the same the only difference is really and truly in the agent culture it's like you're right of birth like as a woman you're nothing unless you're married with a child
"Cheating spouses" happens in every culture and country. While some may be worse than others, all cultures have this issue because it is more of an "ethical" issue than it is an "ethnic" issue. Holding one's marital vows and marital trust sacred is dependent on both; 1) The actual TRUE LOVE felt by said spouse. 2) The MORAL INTEGRITY of said spouse.
@@ladyonthelake8866 вы правы ,это проблема всех стран ,я уже год как начала смотреть дорамы ,меня удивляет поведение жён в азиатских странах ,почему они позволяют себя так унижать мужьям ?он в открытую приводит любовницу домой ,он ведёт себя по хамски с женой .У нас в России если жена узнает об измене мужа то и мужа отлупит и любовнице надоел морду ,при разводе дети всегда остаются с мамой ,оставить детей с отцом ,при разводе ,это исключения из правил ,муж после развода платит алименты на своих детей ,а у вас все совсем по другому
@@aswasw2464 I am a Texan. It is the same here. A wife who finds her husband is cheating will not be a doormat, to be walked on. Same as Russia. I myself immediately divorced my cheating ex-husband when I found out, and because he had an affair, the court gave me the children and the house and EVERYTHING he had. The "other woman" was someone I knew well, she KNEW he was married to me. She went after him anyway, so I beat the daylight out of her and shaved her hair and eyebrows off. So he left her because that temporarily ruined her looks. I'm mean enough to do that, but not quite evil enough to scar up her face to ruin it for life, because that would send me to jail, and I had 2 sons to raise.
She needs to move on, it is like 50 shades of grey but he didn't drop the old lover when the wife was begging him to stay. It doesn't matter if she was suicidal becausd he could have called the police instead of going to risk his life. The car scene says it all.The wife needs to get a better man first her husband.and a better father for her daughter. Blood does NOT mean great father, it is action and care.
The car scenes substantiated how deep he had been emotionally involved in the mistress. He was willing to risk his own life to compensate her. Didn't he really mean to sacrifice everything in order to comfort his white moonlight? I don't think it is an integral issue to convince their break-up. Mightbe the script writer made contrast for them. The mistress wanted to die if living was without him. He wanted to die if their affairs could be ended up and normal life could be made up. But I still don't think such presentation is convincing.
I really don’t understand what live this woman thinks her husband have for her with him always running to his mistress side whenever she calls him! The wife not to entertain that scumbag and move on with her life! He only want her back because his crazy mistress get him go!
Does he really love her or does he want his “family” back? When did he have this epiphany of love for her? Was it before Gao Mi humiliated herself completely, begging him to stay with her and not run to his mistress? Was it after that crazy mistress, that he couldn’t live without, broke up with him after trying to kill him? Can I ask what “mistakes” he’s talking about? Continuously cheating on her, verbally abusing her, ignoring her, humiliating her - I could go on. These were “mistakes” but it was his CHOICE to do all of that. He chose to do these things to her. Yes, their marriage was an arrangement agreed on by both. But I don’t think she knew that he would continue dating his mistress and treating her like crap for the two plus years of their marriage .
On one hand I do see that she shod have stayed single and made him earn her back slowly over what he put her through. On the other hand sometimes it takes extremes like her leaving with his daughter to make him see how wrong he's been and what his mistakes are. I am not condoning what he did far from it. But everyone must learn from something even if it takes extremes. That's how it goes. Make mistakes and learn. It's whether we can forgive enough to allow them to learn from those mistakes enough
But still it’s not enough to just leave him for a while. He’ll only temporarily learn from his mistakes. A man must work extremely hard in couples and individual therapy, take complete responsibility for his actions, rebuild the trust and repair the damage. It’s a lot of hard work, most men aren’t really capable of. If they don’t do that - forget it - they don’t have the emotional coping skills to deal with life and they’ll just do it again.
@@Godhelpus62 I really agree. Almost no man will be willing to put forth that much time and effort to regain/rebuild what he broke. Expects instant forgiveness but it took time to build trust and it will take time to fix it.
She is right. What he did to her was cold (domestic) violence. He left her in the rain at night in labor? I would never have left the hospital with this jerk.
When it really matter to do things or stop them he didn't do them. When they mean absolutely nothing then he's running from pole to pole to achieve them to get back. He should have really concluded everything with that Wang woman before moving onto anyone else. Or at least shelved it as a never-go-there. Man or woman, NO ONE should have to be subjected to that.
Simultaneously Gaomi got pregnant, she also proposed divorce to cheat for a dating with her husband. The dating arrangement was for him to see the mistress went for another man. Then the husband thoroughly thought over his marriage. He considered his wife was a tricky gold digger. He started to show her cold shoulder and neglected her in everything. This served a complete change in his attitudes towards his wife.
8:38 “I need my daughter, I need you, I need my family”. sure you do, AH. What exactly changed? He didn’t need or want his wife for the entirety of their marriage, left her to give birth alone and afraid and in pain, and then walked out on her and their daughter to see his ex girlfriend. How much could he “need” them? 🙄
The happy ending should be they never came back together and the guy should stay miserable. I fcking hate the ending of this she should never forgive him yeah he can be with his daughter but the wife deserve way more better man.
Let’s see the drama where the moms are so proud of their sons who cheat and throw away their wonderful wives and children for a cheap mistress. “ oh son I’m so proud I raised you to be such a weak spineless worthless cheating jerk”…. I’m such a good mom. :(
في الدقيقة ٢ و بعدها مدحته لانه يريد تغطية احتياجاتها المادية ! و لا يرضى ان تكون بوضع عوز و محتاجة للمال لكن هذا ليس بحب هذا صدقة ، شفقة ، تعويض مادي ... و بالعكس اهانة عاطفية لها اكثر لانه ما فعل اي شي يكفر عن اخطائه و لا تغير بتصرفه معها هذا ليس بتعبير عن حبه او تغيره او اخلاصه هو دائما عاملها كبضاعة و كان يرضيها مادياً اما عاطفيا كان ضاربها عرض الحائط للاسف السيناريو غير محكم و القصة تفتقر للجودة كان لازم تكمل مشوارها للطلاق وهو يتأدب و يتغير و يركض وراها و يكسبها من جديد ثم ترجع له
I got to ask this question if it was her helping out an ex lover or hanging out with an ex lover would he be forgiving of her I doubt it so please with the stupidity of these men it's killing me
In a country that has 30 million excess men, shouldn't the men be absolutely faithful to their spouse, something is wrong with these dramas it's women who would have the pick of the crop🤣 obviously all these stereotypical dramas are directed and produced by men.
This man is the worst... he never apologizes but expects to be forgiven.... he even doesn't comprehend how much he hurt her... oblivion of selfishnes... never talk to her, never explain, just pushes his way, no mater what is ruined... tipical male uncomunication...
You hit the mail on the head! All she gets is an “I’m sorry” but he never properly apologized in a way that shows he knows what he did wrong… which is the first step to showing that maybe, just maybe, he has changed.
What i liked was, these two were secondary characters..I preferred their story.. he didn't cheat physically, but put her through the wringer, in saying that, she wasn't sweet and innocent at the beginning either
The cheater doesn’t get to decide whether they deserve another chance. They don’t get to chose how long is ok! They have no trump card. He should go and be with his other lady. She gave him enough chances! He deserves no more!
At this point im just scared for daughter 😕 what happens when she grows up and find out or worse history repeat itself , me being my petty ass gonna give my daughter the story to serve as a lesson,hell he ain't no God🙄
Another trashy husband in a drama. Girl, please don't take him back. Love yourself more. Cheating is a choice. His treatment of her was a choice. She thrived without him. He withered without her. There's a lesson in there.
i dont get it... what is love actually?? why did the girl like him in the first place?? i can only understand simple intentions like getting married for money, safely, getting an heir etc.. i just dont get what love is... i mean you do need a reason to like someone but i heard there is no reason to fall in love.. and people even fall in love at first sight .... im curious if its lust or love?? lust is a simple thing to me .. i would prefer someone said they lusted after me than love me. ... again i have seen mothers kill/sell their kids to survive ... so love aint related to blood connections. its ... like a curse satan put on humans to me. it seems so unreasonable...
Love isn't external. Love is internal. It puts others' interests before its own. BUT it has to take care of itself - otherwise it couldn't have empathy , sympathy, compassion. Also, Love is not blind. It sees the big picture & the immediate picture. Like a beautiful diamond, it has so many facets. BUT, here's the catch, humans aren't perfect. Each stage of our lives, we see thru our experience. Husband/wife love is one of the trickiest loves. It involves so many facets of love. If fidelity is important in one's marriage, seek someone with same values. If money is most important, take the money & don' t complain. If lust is most important, you're in for the short haul. If you want a Caregiver, pay that person their due. If you want beauty: there's a good Russian comedy sketch. Middle aged wives giving advice to husbands taking on beautiful young mistresses. Dear husband. Unfortunately, we (the wives) will never again look like them. But unfortunately, they......(can become like us.)
One sided love can drain a person eventually. Though your love remains in your heart you know it's not good for your well-being. She was humiliated at the beginning yet worked hard for him to love her so humilztion is the least reason she has given up on him..Like she said..she's tired .
She should be tired. She is the only one who went into the marriage in good faith, the only one who put in any effort or love, while he neglected her and abused her. I’m exhausted on her behalf. Love is not some trap to keep you in a toxic relationship. She can love him from far away, as a memory as she moves forward with her happy life. Maybe meet a new guy who actually loves and respects her.
People who believed that they don't need someone in theirs life that they can find someone because they have money they were race in a cold family they never teach how to be normal that it's ok to feel and Express feelings, that is a mentally that only you feel pleasure having money, sad that they married only for convenience because they want to make sure that her in laws will take care of them,in that culture you married with their parents, a lot divorced because they married without love ,they don't care if they're unhappy or if they go out of marriage if you give money its ok.
It’s rare. And they have to do a LOT of hard work in therapy to rebuild the trust and repair the damage. If not - don’t waste your time. They still won’t have the skills to cope with life or the integrity to stay honest without the hard work. I have seen some success stories - but it took a hell of a lot of hard work, counseling, introspection and taking full responsibility for your actions. That doesn’t usually happen.
In all this time he never said to his mother or wife he had no feeling for the other woman. No contact now but betting if she shows up again he will go running again. Even at the end when they got back together again did he ever tell her he loved her? Have a feeling never, guessing just change his obsessive unhealthy behaver with other woman to wife?
This one drama that I hope for the sad ending (they not reconcile,but to me is a good ending) The pain he caused her over and over again,and nothing can beat the hurt when he decide to choose his scandal over his wife
Them not getting together would not be a sad ending. The happy ending should have been her finding a wonderful man who loves, supports, and is loyal to her, and she raises her beautiful daughter, and her ex-husband gets some visitation rights to the daughter.
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I think there needs to be more cheat dramas where the female lead moves on.....seriously.....the cliche of continuously going back to a cheating spouse is becoming too irritating to watch!!
I agree....I actually found one on Netflix. I was waiting for these wives to take back their cheating husband...but they both moved on...and the husbands acted like complete asses because their ex wives refused to take them back.... The drama was called "Love, Marriage and Divorce".
I watched that 2 can't wait for another new season to come back
@@shontelagrone8713 OMG i love that show with my whole heart. thats how woman need to act when their husbands cheat or take them forgranted until their gone. stop giving them chance after chance just to prove to u that he doesn’t gaf bout u or the family ur tryna fight for. at the end of the day, a man will do whatever tf he wants regardless of who he hurts. he dont care until the very last minute when u finally decide uve had enough, then he wants to fight n wonder why ur not fighting for ‘us’. men like that do not deserve chances, it shouldnt have to take them losing their family to get their act together.
She deserves better than that creep
Exactly! It's so annoying at this point that I had to go on a hiatus.
I've seen too many Chinese dramas where the guy cheated (either emotionally or physically) or too hung up on his ex until the female lead leaves him and the lead always takes the guy back at the end by making it seem like it's "true love"
What are these dramas trying to teach women by creating these plots? How to be doormats?
It's probably a reflection of the society where they belong. Just my two cents.
It is part of their culture, I think.
Absolutely agree 100+%. What message is this giving to Chinese women??? X
This is exactly what's in my mind..
It's classic moral coercion tactics. Especially if they have children together, it's naturally expected to be back together for the sake of the children and shows this saint like forgiveness character. If you don't do so, then you get criticized for being too stubborn, too hateful....etc by public!
Back in the old days, women aren't able to survive without men. So the traditional beliefs still exist to make women feel bad for leaving even if their husbands cheats or abuse!
This is the best example of the worst husband, where for him his wife has no value, at no time do I love her and why does he want to be with her. The best ending was for her to stay with her daughter alone and someone would arrive who truly loved her and made her happy.
Exactly, I remember the scene before she delivered, she called so many times when she was in pain, all he did was to ignore and not care to what could be a reason for the call.
Yes. I agree.
Chinese drama is always like this, it's very toxic. It's painful.
To add insult to injury, she returns to him - happily ever after? It should have ended with her refusing him and living well without him!
Similar plot story to Indian Star Plus Daily Soap Anupama 😂😂🤣🤣🙏
Even now it’s still about what he needs and wants. Never does he mention her feelings except to ask if she was trying to get even with him for past mistakes he made. How incredibly selfish he is!
I agree. He's selfish to the core. He didn't deserve a second chance.
The whole world revolves around him-that’s a terrible recipe for a husband and father. Sad that she ends up taking him back.
He lost his chance of being a father when he refused to answer his phone when she was calling him in panic because of labor pains. He doesn't deserve her and their daughter.
True
What is the ending? Is she will going back with him or with another man?
@@miyuryuu7260, unfortunately, she does get take him back in the end. So it’s a happy ending for them, but an annoying one for those like me who hate cheating
@@jessicalewis4304it’s not really a happy ending for them. Because she ends up with a controlling man who will inevitably cheat on her again. Or worse. Because he knows she will forgive him. Sad.
@@stephanien6237 and he ends up with a wife that lied and schemed to get him to marry her
My husband asked for a separation, claiming it was all because of my faults. I fell for it completely, and even went to counseling to try and "fix" myself, and our relationship. I finally found out that he had been having an affair all along, so we started talking about divorcing. Soon after, we found out that he had cancer and was given less than a year to live. After the diagnosis he had an epiphany, he realized that he was the one that caused many problems and said that I had been that best thing to ever happen to him. He asked me to get back together and renew our vows. You know what I said? NO! Karma is a Biotch! Ladies, if your spouse is a cheater, run for the hills and don't look back.
I really agree with you & so proud of what you did...
Good job, I would do the same thing.😊😊😊
Just walk btw
Yes Material Girl 👧💜💜🥔
He's a narcissist for emotional abuse to you. Of course he'd ask you to be back after he found out he's got cancer! That's not epiphany, that's him having no one else left to care for him
The plot is he cheats on her, the other woman goes crazy. He drops her, then decides he wants his wife back. -- Nope, don'ttake him back.. He needs counseling to figure out how to fix his own problems. She does not need to take over for a poorly raised man.
He hated his mom's interfere into his affairs. When he faced a divorce petition, his mother became counselor pointing out his problems.
Exactly
He didn’t bother to “cheat” but OPENLY conducted his affair and knowing the wife knew about it.
He actually slept with the crazy lady?
She already has one child to raise-she doesn’t need a second one (her ex-husband). He needs to fix himself not rely on the ex-wife he has mistreated and neglected his whole marriage.
For me the script writers got this so RIGHT. He treated her so badly, until she said I've had enough and divorces him. Meanwhile his Mistress has moved on and he is on his own. Even his mother agrees she didn't treat her DIL well. And now she is standing firm and well not accept him back. I think what is missed in these episodes is the length of time that goes by and she still won't have him back and why should she ? For once the script is correct or the writers are females. Well done it is such a good feeling seeing Asian women standing proud and this series has it all.
You haven’t watched the end then, have you? Because while the scriptwriters may have gotten this clip right, they lost all respect and credibility by having her take his sorry ass back later in the story.
That woman always comes back to scumbag-cheater ex. They always have feelings for the cheater and want to be humiliated again in the future. 😂
He did it before,,,he gonna cheat again,,girl save some pride and respect into yourself.
I can't be the only female who thinks the minute he chose the side piece over his wife she should've ducked him right out!!! And then sue them for cheating
I agree. In these dramas the woman being cheated on can also go after the mistress for alimony.
You aren’t the only woman (or man) to expect more from the female lead. I’m glad she divorced him! But too bad she ends up taking him back later because he supposedly suddenly “loves” her. 🙄
There are some people in this life who should never get married because they cannot comprehend the concept of love.
They were never in love. Married to have a kid
Or the concept of monogamy..
He has been in love with mistress for over 10yrs and wanted to marry her, but his mother was against it. He only married this girl to please his mom, he was still seeing the mistress throughout the marriage and the wife knew about it. The wife was hoping he would give up mistress and when he didn't she left.
I don't like the ending. The wife finally got her life together and was successful with her new life, so why did she take him back knowing that he will go running whenever mistress calls him. This culture, society, family thing cause so much unhappiness and hatred in the world.
He was a grown man who married someone he didn’t love to please his mother?! Yeah-he needs to use his post-divorce time to get himself into therapy. He’s not child. He is responsible for his own choices and actions.
Maybe, huge MAYBE, after he fixed himself he might then have some insight into how badly he treated his wife and how deeply he broke her trust. It should not have been so easy for him to earn her forgiveness.
It should have ended with her granting him visitation rights for their daughter. The End
Sounds like the true story of Charles and Diana, only Diana chose wisely to leave the cheating husband for good, but tragedy still struck and she died young. All the faults lied with the cheating husband, from beginning to end!!
Sadly, this is not an isolated story. There are tens of tens of thousands of us exactly in her situation; facing a coward begging for forgiveness, not understanding, in the least why once trust is gone, it's gone. It's another reason why she shouldn't take him back; his lack of understanding of what he did to her. He was and frankly is, a cheater; dishonest, disrespectful, and disgusting in his berating of her.
And this drama doesn’t even have the decency to really show him working and evolving and becoming a different and better person. He doesn’t deserve her or his daughter. At best they should co-parent with her being the primary parent. He hasn’t really changed-just realized his mistress is crazy.
A divorce is not the end of the world. Better be alone than suffer a cheater. I hope she took a stand and set the right example for her baby girl. (I don't know how the drama ended)
I hate that she takes him back, this will be a circle and will do it again. Crazy drama!
For securing marriage, he had to undertake a complete change and learned how to truly love his wife.
If he cheats after she takes him back, then she can't blame anyone but herself.
@@anitasham855he didn’t work nearly hard enough, in my opinion. He remains selfish and controlling. (Remember him freezing her credit cards to force her to need him?).
Cheater shouldn't get another chance they don't deserve it
Okay but here's the thing love isn't eternal and a given: he cheated and put her down many times before. So what if he loves her now? Why should she care? She may have feelings for him but those feelings mean nothing when they were rejected over and over again. At some point even love isn't enough. She should have stayed single because she should put herself first. And what bothers me more than anything is the harassment of many Male lead is protait as a good thing. If she says no is a no, don't go encouraging this this because of "love" or because they are married there are lines that shouldn't be crossed
I don’t really believe he loves her. I mean, out of nowhere he discovers “love”? Just because his mistress is crazy? Nah. He’s just a self centered, selfish man who wants a wife and daughter he can show off.
ZouKai needed to work very hard to fix his own inter-personal relationship problems, mend his wife's broken heart, regain her trust in him, make up himself to be a real husband in her heart. This should be a long way to prove he qualified.
He a cheating b@$+@rd..He 's not deserved any love from his wife..He just a thrash..
It won’t be long enough, sadly. He SHOULD have to work very hard and long for a chance at earning her love and her trust. But the idiotic writers would rather just have her forgive him quickly. 🙄
I don't have a problem with couples getting back together after a split like this. My problem with this particular relationship is that they were never really together. It seems they are always on different pages of their story.... And whatever limited feeling developed between them was not powerful enough to overcome the deep-rooted and extensive personality flaws, especially on the part of the husband.
Yeah. He never actually loved her while they were married. Why are we supposed to believe he does now?
remember cheater is always a cheater never to go back to him man like that not worthy
Don't take him back!!!!!
This is the perfect example of a man who finally realized that his pride is the one that destroyed their marriage. The cheating was a cheap expression of it. Plus a mother-in-law who seems to have an issue with babying a man. The wife is such a strong woman who will always prioritize her daughter, even if it takes to go against her husband.
If I was on her place I never forgive and give him chance , because chance was given those people who commit one mistake not many ,😤
He is not worth it ..
she will never be happy with him..
The character of the husband is he does not have value for his wife .he everytime goes at beck and call of his girlfriend who is much older to him. When she was pregnant he never looked back even after she giving plenty of calls he never bothered . Even after giving birth he was not there n u expect such a person to be forgiven easily. I think she shd give divorce n start a new life so he will know wht he have lost
I enjoy seeing people in the comments shout at the woman lol lol so she doesn't go back to him lol lol
so do I LOL
It’s fun 🤩 reading those comments 😂😂
Proverbs says "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways". Believe it and conduct yourself accordingly when dealing with one. Get off the emotional see-saw and find your own way. That baby is adorable.
He didn't really loves her, leaving a pregnant wife whose going
To have their baby is the worst acts a husband can do.Divorce this
Dude not worth.
So this the the same boy emphasizing BOY, who went through the river of God to get married to this woman. And when he finally was able to he cheated, left her hanging when she was in labor and had HER CHILD alone, as well as accusing her to be a gold bigger.....my have he gown 😒
dont open the door..you kick your husband and find the right man to love you and respect you..i like this drama
I don't think they let you see him as a romantic person, with neither his wife or mistress. There were no kisses involved with the women. I think this drama was just soulless, with both male and female leads.
She stands strong because he hurt her during a very needed time. He doesn't deserve the family he bad no attention to, to begin with.
ZouKai’s mom was really a wise woman. She acted as counselor to fix her son’s emotionally problems.
She was wise ? She caused a lot of the problems!
Even there were no his mom's interference, the couple still created a lot of communication problems.
She is the root cause of her sons problems
His mother was just as bad as he was
I personally think she caused many of them...
This story must be written by a man. At the end all the hurt of his cold cruelty, the pain of betrayal is all swept under the carpet and he has a happy ending? Surely a male author.
Absolutely. And probably a man with abusive tendencies. Because who else would want a story where the abused person takes back her abuser?
Dude seriously🙁... Where the hell is her self respect... I know love is important but like this mistress or non deserving person... Then sorry I can live without this type of man but not with my self respect 😒😒... For me if there is love then there should be no third person, there should be loyalty, love, understanding if not then get lost... 🙂🙂
He did nothing in the marriage, gave nothing only took, he was an emotionless robot who might as well not been there, she deserved a life far better, and unfortunately it took her quite some time to realise her self worth and her daughters was more important and to walk away.
I don’t think he was physically cheating with his ex but he was still cheating all the same, and to be honest he looked miserable with her aswell, he felt guilty towards his ex and she was a drunk psychological mess aswell, this guy has serious psychological issues that need fixing.
Biggest mistake his wife made was eventually taking him back, she would have been better living her life alone and happy and maybe eventually meet a man who would do anything for her.
Biggest mistake the wife made was having a child with him. Honestly. Because other than that, she would not have been lured back into getting back together with him but would have seen him for the selfcentered, verbally abusive, cheater that he was. But no, she actually believes his delusional “I love you now” statements and that he wants them to be a real family. 🤮
I completely agree.. the story was progressing so well she was finding her footing for her daughter for herself she was becoming brave and able to get out of the miserable married life she had. But then she had to again fall for the ML because he hit someone because he was jealous ..she again went to her childish phase and that completely wrecked the story for me. He was trying to win her back but she gave in too easily and childishly.. all the built up of self love and esteem flushed down the toilet 🤪
Big issue in most Asian drama. A cheating husband, weak always crying wife, very tolerant wife, strong mistresses. I wouldn't look at that trash of a man twice.
So true esp. in Philippines.
Unfortunately as much as I'd like to jump on this train most of the cultures are all the same when you really dig them down the African culture the Western culture all the men are the same the only difference is really and truly in the agent culture it's like you're right of birth like as a woman you're nothing unless you're married with a child
"Cheating spouses" happens in every culture and country. While some may be worse than others, all cultures have this issue because it is more of an "ethical" issue than it is an "ethnic" issue. Holding one's marital vows and marital trust sacred is dependent on both;
1) The actual TRUE LOVE felt by said spouse.
2) The MORAL INTEGRITY of said spouse.
@@ladyonthelake8866 вы правы ,это проблема всех стран ,я уже год как начала смотреть дорамы ,меня удивляет поведение жён в азиатских странах ,почему они позволяют себя так унижать мужьям ?он в открытую приводит любовницу домой ,он ведёт себя по хамски с женой .У нас в России если жена узнает об измене мужа то и мужа отлупит и любовнице надоел морду ,при разводе дети всегда остаются с мамой ,оставить детей с отцом ,при разводе ,это исключения из правил ,муж после развода платит алименты на своих детей ,а у вас все совсем по другому
@@aswasw2464 I am a Texan. It is the same here. A wife who finds her husband is cheating will not be a doormat, to be walked on. Same as Russia. I myself immediately divorced my cheating ex-husband when I found out, and because he had an affair, the court gave me the children and the house and EVERYTHING he had. The "other woman" was someone I knew well, she KNEW he was married to me. She went after him anyway, so I beat the daylight out of her and shaved her hair and eyebrows off. So he left her because that temporarily ruined her looks. I'm mean enough to do that, but not quite evil enough to scar up her face to ruin it for life, because that would send me to jail, and I had 2 sons to raise.
She needs to move on, it is like 50 shades of grey but he didn't drop the old lover when the wife was begging him to stay. It doesn't matter if she was suicidal becausd he could have called the police instead of going to risk his life. The car scene says it all.The wife needs to get a better man first her husband.and a better father for her daughter. Blood does NOT mean great father, it is action and care.
The car scenes substantiated how deep he had been emotionally involved in the mistress. He was willing to risk his own life to compensate her. Didn't he really mean to sacrifice everything in order to comfort his white moonlight? I don't think it is an integral issue to convince their break-up.
Mightbe the script writer made contrast for them. The mistress wanted to die if living was without him. He wanted to die if their affairs could be ended up and normal life could be made up. But I still don't think such presentation is convincing.
I agree just cause ur blood dad it doesn't make you a great father!!!
I really don’t understand what live this woman thinks her husband have for her with him always running to his mistress side whenever she calls him! The wife not to entertain that scumbag and move on with her life! He only want her back because his crazy mistress get him go!
Does he really love her or does he want his “family” back? When did he have this epiphany of love for her? Was it before Gao Mi humiliated herself completely, begging him to stay with her and not run to his mistress? Was it after that crazy mistress, that he couldn’t live without, broke up with him after trying to kill him?
Can I ask what “mistakes” he’s talking about? Continuously cheating on her, verbally abusing her, ignoring her, humiliating her - I could go on. These were “mistakes” but it was his CHOICE to do all of that. He chose to do these things to her.
Yes, their marriage was an arrangement agreed on by both. But I don’t think she knew that he would continue dating his mistress and treating her like crap for the two plus years of their marriage .
If i was at her place i would never go back with him
On one hand I do see that she shod have stayed single and made him earn her back slowly over what he put her through. On the other hand sometimes it takes extremes like her leaving with his daughter to make him see how wrong he's been and what his mistakes are. I am not condoning what he did far from it. But everyone must learn from something even if it takes extremes. That's how it goes. Make mistakes and learn. It's whether we can forgive enough to allow them to learn from those mistakes enough
Totally agree a person should learn from their mistakes that doesn't mean they get another chance with that person learn to be better for someone else
@@toniclarke7398 agreed 💯👍
But still it’s not enough to just leave him for a while. He’ll only temporarily learn from his mistakes. A man must work extremely hard in couples and individual therapy, take complete responsibility for his actions, rebuild the trust and repair the damage. It’s a lot of hard work, most men aren’t really capable of. If they don’t do that - forget it - they don’t have the emotional coping skills to deal with life and they’ll just do it again.
@@Godhelpus62 I really agree. Almost no man will be willing to put forth that much time and effort to regain/rebuild what he broke. Expects instant forgiveness but it took time to build trust and it will take time to fix it.
I can’t get over how much the child looks like her dad
She is right. What he did to her was cold (domestic) violence. He left her in the rain at night in labor? I would never have left the hospital with this jerk.
When it really matter to do things or stop them he didn't do them. When they mean absolutely nothing then he's running from pole to pole to achieve them to get back. He should have really concluded everything with that Wang woman before moving onto anyone else. Or at least shelved it as a never-go-there. Man or woman, NO ONE should have to be subjected to that.
She fell in love with what she thought he was and he only showed his nice side till she got pregnant i
Simultaneously Gaomi got pregnant, she also proposed divorce to cheat for a dating with her husband. The dating arrangement was for him to see the mistress went for another man. Then the husband thoroughly thought over his marriage. He considered his wife was a tricky gold digger. He started to show her cold shoulder and neglected her in everything. This served a complete change in his attitudes towards his wife.
I’m actually surprised he managed to get her pregnant given how fake of a marriage it was. 😂😂😂
8:38 “I need my daughter, I need you, I need my family”. sure you do, AH. What exactly changed? He didn’t need or want his wife for the entirety of their marriage, left her to give birth alone and afraid and in pain, and then walked out on her and their daughter to see his ex girlfriend. How much could he “need” them? 🙄
The ex finally dumped him so he wanted what was leftover.
The happy ending should be they never came back together and the guy should stay miserable. I fcking hate the ending of this she should never forgive him yeah he can be with his daughter but the wife deserve way more better man.
Let’s see the drama where the moms are so proud of their sons who cheat and throw away their wonderful wives and children for a cheap mistress. “ oh son I’m so proud I raised you to be such a weak spineless worthless cheating jerk”…. I’m such a good mom. :(
في الدقيقة ٢ و بعدها
مدحته لانه يريد تغطية احتياجاتها المادية ! و لا يرضى ان تكون بوضع عوز و محتاجة للمال
لكن هذا ليس بحب
هذا صدقة ، شفقة ، تعويض مادي ...
و بالعكس اهانة عاطفية لها اكثر لانه ما فعل اي شي يكفر عن اخطائه و لا تغير بتصرفه معها
هذا ليس بتعبير عن حبه او تغيره او اخلاصه
هو دائما عاملها كبضاعة و كان يرضيها مادياً
اما عاطفيا كان ضاربها عرض الحائط
للاسف السيناريو غير محكم و القصة تفتقر للجودة
كان لازم تكمل مشوارها للطلاق
وهو يتأدب و يتغير و يركض وراها و يكسبها من جديد
ثم ترجع له
Oh god I really have to remind myself that it's just a drama because it makes me feel angry😐😑
Omg know how u feel lol
如果當初真的深愛，在拋下孩子去見情人時就會深恨
這種背叛是無法原諒的
然在過段時間就會變成2個無感的陌路人
its better if the ending was she divorce him and let be he regret it
女人要堅強为短暂的人生去活,不要为渣男而活,浪费自己的生命不值.🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱
I got to ask this question if it was her helping out an ex lover or hanging out with an ex lover would he be forgiving of her I doubt it so please with the stupidity of these men it's killing me
Qual é o nome do drama ??
Ketika seorang wanita sudah mulai lelah .. dia bnr2 akan pergi . Krna trlu banyak luka yang selama ini dia pendam .
Cut the cheater loose! Shoulda been a nope. Trust broken needs to be earned and that takes more then an I am sorry!
This breaks my heart.
In a country that has 30 million excess men, shouldn't the men be absolutely faithful to their spouse, something is wrong with these dramas it's women who would have the pick of the crop🤣 obviously all these stereotypical dramas are directed and produced by men.
These dramas are misogynistic male fantasies! The men can cheat, and be abusive, but don’t worry, the woman will take him back! /s
Pure fantasy!
This man is the worst... he never apologizes but expects to be forgiven.... he even doesn't comprehend how much he hurt her... oblivion of selfishnes... never talk to her, never explain, just pushes his way, no mater what is ruined... tipical male uncomunication...
You hit the mail on the head! All she gets is an “I’m sorry” but he never properly apologized in a way that shows he knows what he did wrong… which is the first step to showing that maybe, just maybe, he has changed.
Donde se puede ver con sub titulos en español
Pues está bien la serie pero si no la traducen en español pues no la entendemos
What i liked was, these two were secondary characters..I preferred their story.. he didn't cheat physically, but put her through the wringer, in saying that, she wasn't sweet and innocent at the beginning either
Why does she have to be sweet and innocent to be respected as a wife?
@@stephanien6237 I dont mean sweet and innocent as in pure, I mean she was a scheming biarch that lied and caused mayhem...
What is this Chinese drama called
Subtitles Please!
The cheater doesn’t get to decide whether they deserve another chance. They don’t get to chose how long is ok! They have no trump card. He should go and be with his other lady. She gave him enough chances! He deserves no more!
Maybe I missed it, but at no time did he I love you 🤔
Which ep is this?
I don't like how she facing this by herself though 😕 like tell her family the truth they will understand
Drama name
I love drama
At this point im just scared for daughter 😕 what happens when she grows up and find out or worse history repeat itself , me being my petty ass gonna give my daughter the story to serve as a lesson,hell he ain't no God🙄
Another trashy husband in a drama. Girl, please don't take him back. Love yourself more. Cheating is a choice. His treatment of her was a choice. She thrived without him. He withered without her. There's a lesson in there.
What's the title plzzzz!
What is the title of this story
i dont get it... what is love actually?? why did the girl like him in the first place?? i can only understand simple intentions like getting married for money, safely, getting an heir etc.. i just dont get what love is... i mean you do need a reason to like someone but i heard there is no reason to fall in love.. and people even fall in love at first sight .... im curious if its lust or love?? lust is a simple thing to me .. i would prefer someone said they lusted after me than love me. ... again i have seen mothers kill/sell their kids to survive ... so love aint related to blood connections. its ... like a curse satan put on humans to me. it seems so unreasonable...
Love isn't external. Love is internal. It puts others' interests before its own. BUT it has to take care of itself - otherwise it couldn't have empathy , sympathy, compassion. Also, Love is not blind. It sees the big picture & the immediate picture. Like a beautiful diamond, it has so many facets. BUT, here's the catch, humans aren't perfect. Each stage of our lives, we see thru our experience. Husband/wife love is one of the trickiest loves. It involves so many facets of love. If fidelity is important in one's marriage, seek someone with same values. If money is most important, take the money & don' t complain. If lust is most important, you're in for the short haul. If you want a Caregiver, pay that person their due. If you want beauty: there's a good Russian comedy sketch. Middle aged wives giving advice to husbands taking on beautiful young mistresses. Dear husband. Unfortunately, we (the wives) will never again look like them. But unfortunately, they......(can become like us.)
too tired! Gaomi just wanted to end up the humiliated game.
One sided love can drain a person eventually. Though your love remains in your heart you know it's not good for your well-being. She was humiliated at the beginning yet worked hard for him to love her so humilztion is the least reason she has given up on him..Like she said..she's tired
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She should be tired. She is the only one who went into the marriage in good faith, the only one who put in any effort or love, while he neglected her and abused her. I’m exhausted on her behalf. Love is not some trap to keep you in a toxic relationship. She can love him from far away, as a memory as she moves forward with her happy life. Maybe meet a new guy who actually loves and respects her.
Which episode is this
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Lo publicarán en UA-cam completo y en sub español?? Espero que si!!! (
What’s the name of the song in English and who sings it pls?
Drama name: unbeatable you
M UK please English subtitles thank s
Good job Gaomi...
It’s okay toTake him back but first make him Squirm and feel the emptiness. Make him see that you can find another
Alguém sabe o nome da música ???
People who believed that they don't need someone in theirs life that they can find someone because they have money they were race in a cold family they never teach how to be normal that it's ok to feel and Express feelings, that is a mentally that only you feel pleasure having money, sad that they married only for convenience because they want to make sure that her in laws will take care of them,in that culture you married with their parents, a lot divorced because they married without love ,they don't care if they're unhappy or if they go out of marriage if you give money its ok.
name drama please ?
Please tell me she didn’t take him back?!
Once a cheat always a cheat. NO UTURNS ALLOWED
Same as my husband
Some men learn from their mistakes, especially when they realize they may really lose the only person who truly loves them. 😊
Realistically, only about 5 in 100.
It’s rare. And they have to do a LOT of hard work in therapy to rebuild the trust and repair the damage. If not - don’t waste your time. They still won’t have the skills to cope with life or the integrity to stay honest without the hard work. I have seen some success stories - but it took a hell of a lot of hard work, counseling, introspection and taking full responsibility for your actions. That doesn’t usually happen.
This guy didn’t work hard enough
LOS EPISODIOS RESTANTES HASTA CUANDO SALDRAN CON SUBTITULO EN ESPAÑOL
In all this time he never said to his mother or wife he had no feeling for the other woman. No contact now but betting if she shows up again he will go running again. Even at the end when they got back together again did he ever tell her he loved her? Have a feeling never, guessing just change his obsessive unhealthy behaver with other woman to wife?
Legendar em português, Brasil 🇧🇷
Spanish sub translation of the drama unbeatable you.
Legenda em português por favor
Bom dia, por que não temem portugues
This one drama that I hope for the sad ending (they not reconcile,but to me is a good ending)
The pain he caused her over and over again,and nothing can beat the hurt when he decide to choose his scandal over his wife
Them not getting together would not be a sad ending. The happy ending should have been her finding a wonderful man who loves, supports, and is loyal to her, and she raises her beautiful daughter, and her ex-husband gets some visitation rights to the daughter.
Don't waste your time. She takes his cheating ass back.
I’d rather be poor and alone.