17 Mistakes that Make Men Look IMMATURE

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    Excessive social media consumption. Mature men are not spending all day looking at social media, including girls and spicy action.
    Simping. Mature men don't simp or pay for attention from spicy senoritas.
    Lack of sexual discipline. If you're always obsessing about girls or looking at p^rn, this is a sign to others that you are not mature. I'm sure men have healthy relationships with sex and p^rnography.
    Lack of impulse control. The ability to push down urges separates men from boys. These urges could be either shopping, drinking, or doing drugs. If you don't have the ability to control your urges, you look immature.
    Video games. If you play a lot of video games, this comes across as incredibly immature because grown men don't play a lot of games.
    Playing with others' emotions. Mature men have the ability to nurture good relationships. If you put on an act or play a game trying to be super cool or attract girls, this is immature behavior.
    Cussing all the time. Not having the ability not to use profanity on a regular basis looks super immature. But your men use profanity every once in a while to make a point, but not excessively. This brings up the point that immature men don't seek knowledge. Being uneducated makes you look immature. Further, immature dudes think that they can change people's minds and opinions but arguing with them on social media. This is not the case.
    Getting pissed about what can't be controlled. Men look immature when they get bent out of shape and upset over things they can't control. They hold grudges and get mad. Don't live in the past. You need to move on from things that have happened.
    Avoiding eye contact + weak body language. Avoiding eye contact or having weak body language is a sign of immaturity. It separates mature men from little boys. When you walk into a room, you want to make eye contact, engage, and shake hands confidently.
    Wacky grooming. If you have bad hygiene or are not well groomed, this is a sign that you are immature.
    Pimples, blackheads, and blemishes. Mature men take care of their skin, and Tiege Hanley is the uncomplicated answer to men's skincare.
    Stinky. Others will think you're immature and not to mention disgusting if you have stinky armpits, balls, breath, and feet. If you're rocking acts, that's also disgusting and immature. If your fragrances are for powering, pungent, or stinky, that's also immature.
    Juvenile style. (a) Always wearing a baseball hat. Wearing a baseball hat every once in a while is fine, but if you're wearing it all the time, you look immature. Also, wearing it backward looks immature. (b) There's nothing wrong with wearing sneakers occasionally, but if you're wearing them all the time, this is a youthful style. (c) Boat shoes are also viewed as mature because no self-respecting mature man would rock shoes. (d) Unable to dress up. Men have the ability to dress up with a properly tailored suit. (e) Stains are a sign of immaturity. (f) And striped shirts kill your ability to look stylish and mature. (g) Sagging pants are another immature look. (h) Don't also jump from trying to trend trying to look super stylish.
    Inability to communicate. If you don't have the ability to make small talk, this is super immature.
    Don't have a plan. You need to have a goal to pursue and the ability to commit. If you don't have a plan, this is a sign that you are a little boy and haven't grown up yet. Other people will not think you're ready for responsibility.
    Lying or talking crap about others. If you're a dick, this is immature.
    Being a puss. If you don't stand up for yourself if you're scared and won't take control, if you wait for something to happen in life, this is immature behavior. You need to have confidence and an internal belief in yourself. Take on life with confidence. Take risks and challenge yourself physically, mentally, spiritually, and intellectually.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 486

  • @alpham
    @alpham  3 місяці тому +13

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    • @kai8085
      @kai8085 3 місяці тому

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    • @katharsis3754
      @katharsis3754 3 місяці тому +1

      First of all , who's even "mature" in this day and age??? Lots of ignorance, ego, fake people, lack of respect for others, etc, etc, etc, is happening a lot out there. It's the norm these days, sadly.

    • @eng.miroslavmanahilov1944
      @eng.miroslavmanahilov1944 3 місяці тому

      Going for the games again? Dislike from me.

    • @lucatoni98
      @lucatoni98 3 місяці тому

      Wearing goofy earrings at age 50 = extremely immature

    • @katharsis3754
      @katharsis3754 3 місяці тому

      @@lucatoni98 no kidding haha

  • @comicnerd1186
    @comicnerd1186 3 місяці тому +96

    Dude, there's a difference between looking young and looking immature.

    • @Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean
      @Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean 3 місяці тому +7

      It doesn’t make you less of a man to look young isn’t that a good thing, though men losing hair before they turn 30 doesn’t look mature they just have bad genetics, people got that false reality of what a man is it’s a person with male “Reproductive organ” I guess that’s the only way you can say it… even though I’m so far from straight… people that call ourselves alpha are cringe. I think many people can agree with that…. You’re a man if you say you are who cares what anyone says I laugh when I find time to watch these videos I can’t even take him seriously..

    • @crisalcantara7671
      @crisalcantara7671 3 місяці тому +9

      @@Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean i unsubbed because of this nonesense , no one is perfect but these youtubers have started the clickbait, lies and useless info era where everyone says anything on youtube for money , it's phatetic , i am unsubbing to anyone who acts like this .

    • @Carl0sRoland0
      @Carl0sRoland0 3 місяці тому +3

      Exactly immature is a behaviour looking physically young has nothing to do with immaturity. so what if you look young what’s wrong with that? A lot of girls liek that a lot of girls may not so what? It’s based on a girls opinion if looking young is good or not it’s up to the girls if they are atttacted to that or not every girl is different every girl has their own preferences never be ashamed of looking young guys cus that has nothing to do with looking immature

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      @@crisalcantara7671My compliments exactly. Many of us doesn’t wish to be confined to follow an outdated set of rules which are restrictive. I understand the need for men to act respectfully but not in a confined manner

    • @katharsis3754
      @katharsis3754 3 місяці тому

      @@cliffcaverley2377 And you deleted your response on my comment Hahahahaha! Aww little baby

  • @ryanlad3541
    @ryanlad3541 3 місяці тому +333

    Petition for Alpha to shave the beard off 😂

  • @matthewnachel7112
    @matthewnachel7112 3 місяці тому +57

    Looking 👀 young is the key 🔑 to feeling young

  • @melloo777
    @melloo777 3 місяці тому +64

    one thing we all can agree upon is that alpha m never fails to bring a video sponsor no matter what the video topic is xD

    • @Chris11249
      @Chris11249 3 місяці тому +3

      If that's what it takes for him to keep making these videos, I'm down!

  • @InTheMindOfficial
    @InTheMindOfficial 3 місяці тому +51

    3:40 - 5:46 is all advertisement if tou want to skip (23.5% of this video is just an ad)

    • @rylancory
      @rylancory 3 місяці тому +5

      Used this. Thank you!

    • @selw0nk
      @selw0nk 3 місяці тому +4

      Installed SponsorBlock for UA-cam and automatically skips for me 😂

    • @InTheMindOfficial
      @InTheMindOfficial 3 місяці тому +2

      @selw0nk it's just given me issues in the past and that's the only reason I don't use it, but its so worth using LMAO

    • @noorgill0707
      @noorgill0707 3 місяці тому +1

  • @Beowolfenstein
    @Beowolfenstein 3 місяці тому +82

    No more video games? That's complete fucking insanity.

    • @tvblue3010
      @tvblue3010 3 місяці тому +3

      @@realsariusThank you for writing that.

    • @fatbikearcticnomad2122
      @fatbikearcticnomad2122 3 місяці тому +5

      Video games are awesome. Not stopping. XBOX TEAM 💪💪

    • @Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean
      @Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean 3 місяці тому +1

      @@realsarius not really he’s just saying all in general it’s unmanly two minutes and fifty seconds seconds in and this video is almost unbearable to watch it has its funny points but everything he says can be argued with a different point… not just about the video games. Obviously this man has a lot of opinions, not to mention trying to make money on this platform… if this is his laws of society for men, then 99% of men would be completely out of the picture. What would we call them then😄 There’s a few men that watch this video that will take this advice, but they won’t make it. He says stuff that men simply can’t look beyond nor put into place. When you’re talking about straight men there on another level when comparing to gay men they have way less control two minutes and fifty seconds in the straight males wouldn’t make it I say supposedly straight because I don’t believe not even close to 50% are truly straight unable to be interested… it’s not an opinion.. everybody tries to highlight the great things about being with the opposite sex. I can’t imagine having to put up with half of the things you would half to put up with not including having a family, etc. that’s the reason why most men cheat on their wives with other men that life isn’t for them, but they hide it because they believe it makes them less masculine which is total garbage I believe half of the reason why is because of questionable creators if you even want to call it that make videos about how manly you should be.. it’s not a personal vendetta against this guy there’s so many creators that pump this out at this point I think it’s really bad for everyone as a whole but he wouldn’t see it that way he may think it’s garbage he just wants a paycheck who knows what he’s thinking though.. I don’t subscribe to this guy it’s only for a good laugh. Some of it’s not funny though. I wish it was I could stand to watch it a lot longer. When I first started scrolling through. I found this guy. I thought he was serious. I just don’t think even if he is serious many people should take him seriously.

    • @Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean
      @Only_FLUSHABLES_Get_You_clean 3 місяці тому +1

      @@fatbikearcticnomad2122 this is merely his opinion I wouldn’t listen to anything anyone has to say for a second if you disagree with even one fact, especially on UA-cam of all places pave your own way be your own leader don’t be a follower.

    • @NewHaven203
      @NewHaven203 3 місяці тому +3

      Gamers that are above the age of 30 are fucking cringe

  • @AyoCookYT
    @AyoCookYT 3 місяці тому +9

    Hobbies are hobbies. Cursing is also highly related to higher levels of intelligence.
    A man that uses his free time to go hit a ball down a patch of grass is no more mature than a man that uses his free time to enjoy video games with friends of his. What’s the difference in playing fantasy football while watching the NFL and a man that plays Madden? One of them is actually part of the game and the other one is spending all day everyday idolizing fantasizing about other grown men.

  • @candres89
    @candres89 3 місяці тому +14

    Videogames are almost reaching an art status level just like cinema. It depends on the games you play and the time you spend on them. But the simple statement of “don't play videogames” is really vague

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 3 місяці тому

      Plus people making the bank with Twitch and once you got your stuff together then you can play but in moderation

    • @mattfrontini8463
      @mattfrontini8463 3 місяці тому

      but he didn't say that? He said a lot, implying that the person is not taking care of more important things before playing a lot of videogames.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      I understand it’s bad for anyone to get addicted or preoccupied with video games excessively

  • @kryniov111
    @kryniov111 3 місяці тому +19

    I know some people thay have acne at 50+ age by autoimmune system diseases. And thise are 100% mature dudes. For me speaking laud and fast to dominate people is one of most unmature things lol.

  • @mikerossdonohoe
    @mikerossdonohoe 3 місяці тому +26

    I use video games as a reward for doing a hard day's work

    • @eugenehernandez4868
      @eugenehernandez4868 3 місяці тому +2

      Thinking that way is repulsive to females. It’s okay to play video games once in a while. Why video games ? Especially when there’s other things to do. Go to the gym, talk to women, just out and do something.

    • @mikerossdonohoe
      @mikerossdonohoe 3 місяці тому +2

      I do all that stuff man

    • @SenorAspie
      @SenorAspie 3 місяці тому +3

      @@eugenehernandez4868 Females need to understand that men have hobbies and not really materialistic in what they have for a hobby. Some men hunt, exercise, watch movies and still immerse themselves in their childhood. Real women accept that the man they love play video games for it's them, a part of their being.

    • @intello8953
      @intello8953 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SenorAspievideo games is literally not a hobby, its lazy childish “hobby” 🤷‍♂️

    • @SenorAspie
      @SenorAspie 2 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely not! That's a sweeping statement indicate of ignorance and arrogance. Real men accept what other people do and never condemn them.

  • @mikerossdonohoe
    @mikerossdonohoe 3 місяці тому +16

    I game in moderation helps builds relationships and helps with my anxiety

  • @Robsgetinlit
    @Robsgetinlit 3 місяці тому +155

    Alpha, time to ditch the immature earrings 👍🏻

    • @nonlos399
      @nonlos399 3 місяці тому +35

      Still waiting for the “im gay” video too👍

    • @MannyKillmonger
      @MannyKillmonger 3 місяці тому +11

      @@nonlos399 😂😂😂

    • @XTR02
      @XTR02 3 місяці тому +10

      Agreed. As an image consultant, it gives a conflicting message. I used to wear loop ear rings from 2005 until 2013 when I was 24. First of all, it is a “bad boy” style that was mostly popular in the 90’s and 00’s. Even still, no true man has pierced jewelry after 25. When you’re a teenager and in your early 20’s, you’re in an experimental stage of your life. By 25, you should man up on all counts in your life. Plus, it is 2024- the only males that wear earrings nowadays are older bikers, goths and transgenders. 😂

    • @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012
      @HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@XTR02this is all complete nonsense. who cares if someone has earrings on. who decided that earrings are immature? i can't take these ridiculous rules seriously. i plan to get my ear pierced and i'm getting fangs too

    • @josephsalinas108
      @josephsalinas108 3 місяці тому +1

      Bah foreal get rid of dem ear rings bro you look immature yourself.😂

  • @aminemalek4213
    @aminemalek4213 3 місяці тому +24

    1:14 you lost me here dude, because i started playing video games back in 1998 (i was 5 at that time), today im 30 and still relax playing video games, thats my passion. Also, for some men (streamers), its their job so.

    • @SenorAspie
      @SenorAspie 3 місяці тому +3

      And it's WRONG for him to say such a thing. Video games are what a lot of people play. It's a past time guys like me play. It's also beneficial for our physical and mental health. When COVID hit, people were saying video games is OK to play for the online/social connection.

    • @intello8953
      @intello8953 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SenorAspieif your playing more then 3 hours of video games every time you play it’s literally cringe and childish sorry

    • @SenorAspie
      @SenorAspie 2 місяці тому

      If it's an addiction, OK. Try to show sympathy to those people who love video games for it's an excellent past time. Video games actually work on your fine motor skills and doctors recommend it. You come across as a rude, arrogant and ignorant person like our friend Alpha. Show empathy and understand who they are and their love for it. Real men aren't arrogant or ignorant.

    • @JacobBailey-o8d
      @JacobBailey-o8d Місяць тому

      Well he said if you play video games all the time, he didn't say you're immature if you play video games occasionally. He said if there's too much, that can do more damage than good for your social health and even mental health basically. I would know because I've played video games too since I was young, and it's definitely had a negative impact when playing them too much. ​@@SenorAspie

  • @larrygarms7230
    @larrygarms7230 3 місяці тому +53

    54 years young here ...and you lost me at video games! I love me a good rpg and the nerd life in general ...and even though I'm happily married at 32 years, girls (old & young) flock around me like a magnet.

    • @Chris11249
      @Chris11249 3 місяці тому +4

      Teach me your ways master lol! I wasn't very interested in playing video games once I got my driver's license and getting interested in girls but that's just me. I guess it's because I have a really high need for dopamine or adrenaline or whatever that comes with real danger.
      What do you think it is that makes women interested in you? Is it just the confidence, good looking dude, very interesting convo etc? I know the emotionally-wrecked artists have an advantage because they sympathize with women but I have no luck there with musical or artistic talents.

    • @DiscretionwithReason
      @DiscretionwithReason 3 місяці тому

      How is anyone but your wife "flocking to you"? Flocking to you in a video game? Clown.

    • @larrygarms7230
      @larrygarms7230 3 місяці тому +7

      @@Chris11249 LOL! There's only one thing you need to know ...and it has nothing to do with what this dude is saying:
      Be. Comfortable. Being. You! That's it. If you love you, if you love your passions, if you love your friends & family, you will radiate a confidence aura everywhere you go.
      You will naturally become funny, smart and attractive ...all while giving zero F's what other people think.
      You will never be the best copy-cat of someone else, but you will be the best YOU.

    • @gondalfonsin5206
      @gondalfonsin5206 3 місяці тому +3

      Well I live in Japan and I work in a very expensive cafe in Shibuya, and I see everywhere successful grow men around with sassy señoritas killing time playing video games in the cellphone or taking out a switch. Being successful doesn’t mean that you don’t have free time. 😂😂😂

    • @Chris11249
      @Chris11249 3 місяці тому +2

      @@gondalfonsin5206 That's Japan though, different culture. They love technology and such. Kinda like how Texans love guns lol. Everyone thinks it's odd or crazy but we love it.

  • @patriotrebel1905
    @patriotrebel1905 3 місяці тому +13

    Disagree on the baseball cap that's a common outfit item, some people are bald or have bad hair

    • @GodRules-x9q
      @GodRules-x9q 3 місяці тому

      😂 I’m guessing you are bald or have bad hair

    • @adityasuresh6607
      @adityasuresh6607 3 місяці тому

      There are other types of hats other than baseball cap like flat cap

    • @datboidominican
      @datboidominican 3 місяці тому

      I took the insight as a way of finding a better hair style that works for me as it’s always time consuming to keep my hair looking good by the time I get to work. I would also not wear the cap whenever I would get a haircut because I would feel good and confidence and when my hair would get too crazy I would simply wear a cap over it. One could notice the difference and so can others, it’s such a huge nonverbal signal and how people perceive us. (Khakis guy or Graphic tee guy or collared/vacation button down shirt guy?)

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому +1

      I wear a baseball cap outdoors to keep the sun out of my eyes and my head covered. I don’t wear these indoors

    • @bodhi9464
      @bodhi9464 15 днів тому

      just don’t wear it backwards !

  • @Marksin866
    @Marksin866 3 місяці тому +3

    Number one thing that makes you not immature. Age!. You have to grow into maturity. You have to fail. You have to fall down. You have to get bruises and scars mentally and physically. What produces maturity is how you overcame the obstacles in your path and if you got back up and dusted yourself off.

  • @pdswrld5200
    @pdswrld5200 3 місяці тому +47

    Who the f*** wants to look old? 😂🤣

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 3 місяці тому +4

      I’m glad I’m bald! The only gray u have is on my 5 o’clock shadow

    • @maxfortefan2947
      @maxfortefan2947 3 місяці тому

      @@geno5169pure cope

    • @raymondlopez1238
      @raymondlopez1238 3 місяці тому

      Not that you look older it’s more looking more appropriate for your age is all he is saying guy, you all need to relax. 😂
      You guys are going to work with a lot of douchey people out there in the world who are going to tell you more worse things out there, if you guys cannot handle what he is trying to help you out with then with all due respect you guys are a bunch of pussies. If you are young, hey go for it, no one is going to tell you anything but if you are reaching above your mid thirties, come on it is time to not look ridiculous. That is all I am saying and I think that what he just means, if any one of you guys wants to sit there and argue with me that is your problem, sorry not sorry.

    • @JacobBailey-o8d
      @JacobBailey-o8d Місяць тому

      I prefer looking older and dressing older, and I'm 21 lol. Which is basically his audience. Pretty sure these videos aren't intended for boomers. But if boomers learn something from his videos and enjoy them, more power to them!

  • @JamesWalsh-s9n
    @JamesWalsh-s9n 3 місяці тому +50

    Middle age man who calls everything sexy

  • @Mrdip-dip
    @Mrdip-dip 3 місяці тому +2

    So I work in the gaming industry and the amount of nice girls I see there tells me gaming is not seen as immature anymore. It’s a big industry and is often most people’s way to wind down instead of a movie of a tv show. Nothing wrong with that

  • @andrew4809
    @andrew4809 3 місяці тому +12

    Says someone with dark hair and a grey beard

  • @nicksingh7391
    @nicksingh7391 3 місяці тому +12

    Alpha I am happy to be immature...Our life journeys are different..I hate fake people.

  • @pats968
    @pats968 3 місяці тому +4

    Alpha male but shaves his legs & wears earrings 😂

  • @Adam-s7y4g
    @Adam-s7y4g 3 місяці тому +15

    Why not look how you want to look like without judgment from others. Something seriously wrong with is world right now

    • @Menruleall
      @Menruleall 3 місяці тому

      Good luck finding a group of people where judgement doesn't exist. We must deal with what is, not what we wish it were.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      @@Menruleall This is provided nothing is being forced upon us like a dictatorship

  • @ssfov
    @ssfov 3 місяці тому +4

    Looking young and looking immature are 2 different things though lol

  • @DoYouWantTaBeFree
    @DoYouWantTaBeFree 3 місяці тому +7

    I'm old. So I wear a baseball cap backwards. 😆

  • @abprepboy33
    @abprepboy33 3 місяці тому +6

    the plug is a little bit weak about bad skin. I am lucky enough to have pretty good skin regardless of what products I use. However, there are people who have bad skin and they spend more time and effort trying to improve it than 90% of the population. I wouldnt call them immature. there are products that could potentially help, but its far from a guarantee to escape the problem for some people.

  • @israelmeza7035
    @israelmeza7035 3 місяці тому +9

    Real men work construction 13 hours days in the sun in south Texas with 104 heat index and sometimes don’t have time to put lotion on the skin

    • @katharsis3754
      @katharsis3754 3 місяці тому +1

      Dude, don't mention south Texas in here. It's in danger of liberals moving in

    • @israelmeza7035
      @israelmeza7035 3 місяці тому

      @@katharsis3754 I agree but some us are still holding it down to keep it red

    • @katharsis3754
      @katharsis3754 3 місяці тому

      @@israelmeza7035 With all due respect, doesn't seem like it unfortunately. It looks like them clowns are really taking over the area from what I've seen. But that's happening everywhere anyway, even in Mexico

    • @thehumancrumb.668
      @thehumancrumb.668 3 місяці тому

      What are you doing commenting here. Get back to work! 😂

    • @israelmeza7035
      @israelmeza7035 3 місяці тому

      @@thehumancrumb.668 i do what I want

  • @tyestancil2783
    @tyestancil2783 3 місяці тому +1

    No 1 way to be "alpha", doing your thing, your way and not giving to clucks what a UA-camr has to say.

  • @hkhj7265
    @hkhj7265 3 місяці тому +7

    Lol sometimes I get pissed off as fuck.

    • @SenorAspie
      @SenorAspie 3 місяці тому +2

      And I don't blame you.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому +1

      Men are told to let out their aggression to prove their masculinity particularly if they’re an alpha male

  • @PaulWillliams
    @PaulWillliams 3 місяці тому +1

    The thing to wear to look young but not immature is a tight white t-shirt. They give off a youthful aura but people any age can (and do) wear them so you cant go wrong

  • @DiscretionwithReason
    @DiscretionwithReason 3 місяці тому +2

    My resume with a J.D. is always denied. I never get an interview to show off my physical maturity. I'm stuck working as a process server. 34 living with mom. Life sucks.

  • @ApolloPerez-gt9ft
    @ApolloPerez-gt9ft 3 місяці тому +4

    “That thumbnail is funny👍😂😂😂😂😂”.

  • @AcapachVideo
    @AcapachVideo 3 місяці тому +5

    After watching this...
    Me: "NO more FLUFFING excuses!"

  • @TheAgentCrossFitter
    @TheAgentCrossFitter 3 місяці тому +19

    I don’t think you should call a person a puss if they are not confident or don’t stand up for themselves. Certain life experiences can cause someone to feel unsure of themselves, and in extreme cases, even worthless. They include trauma, bullying, harassment, and how your parents treated them. That could be the reason they don’t and can’t stand up for themselves. Instead of calling them immature or in the words of Alpha a puss we should help them to gain back the confidence

    • @crisalcantara7671
      @crisalcantara7671 3 місяці тому +2

      true .if you're not gnna help them why call them a pssy , is it too make youselfe feel better , people are clowns and i hte clowns .

    • @blueblaze09
      @blueblaze09 3 місяці тому

      It’s crazy how soft ppl are defending their insecurities in the comments. Then why watch the video lol Toxic Masculinity is when masculinity doesn’t exist. Keep calling ppl pussies and cut off the video games. A lot of ppl have no backbone and that is why they can’t accept their reality. I’m with you alpha. Keep pumping videos out.

    • @Menruleall
      @Menruleall 3 місяці тому +1

      Why are you here telling other people what they should do? *_YOU_* should do it. No one is stopping you.

    • @blueblaze09
      @blueblaze09 3 місяці тому

      @@Menruleall it’s an opinion, why can’t he have an opinion? Just like you have a right to comment defending ppl how they can do what they want so can he, get the fk off UA-cam lol

    • @powerraptor8637
      @powerraptor8637 5 днів тому

      Thank you @TheAgentCrossFitter I agree with your point. Things aren't always what they seem.

  • @Hooligan112
    @Hooligan112 3 місяці тому +2

    You don't want men to look old, you don't want men to look young, what the hell you actually want???

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      My compliments exactly. People complain and criticize men no matter what they do. Maybe this is the reason there’s men having mental health issues, drug addictions & overdoses, suicide, mass shootings and stabbings.

    • @nicks9607
      @nicks9607 3 місяці тому

      Middle aged? 😂

    • @Hooligan112
      @Hooligan112 3 місяці тому

      @@nicks9607 that ain't gonna happen 🤣

  • @Bijo69
    @Bijo69 3 місяці тому +3

    The thumbnail is my reaction to that information

  • @shivekaniruth5402
    @shivekaniruth5402 2 місяці тому

    If playing video games makes you look immature, you basically know exactly who to avoid, especially women who think your immature, because they are ignorant and judgemental.

  • @nouralx1912
    @nouralx1912 3 місяці тому +2

    This is none of your business. Every man has the right to do whatever he wants. It is enough that life is very difficult 😂

    • @benvictor6329
      @benvictor6329 3 місяці тому

      Acting like you haven't learn anything smh

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      My compliments exactly. We don’t need to be told how to live our lives like a communist dictatorship.

  • @Lo_Zio_Peppe
    @Lo_Zio_Peppe 3 місяці тому +3

    Younger or older doesn't matter.
    You're good if you have a full pocket.

  • @p123a6
    @p123a6 3 місяці тому +1

    Don't let the old man in.....stay young.👊

  • @Will.Flavell
    @Will.Flavell 3 місяці тому +1

    You know there are young people that are mature and old people that are immature.

  • @GodRules-x9q
    @GodRules-x9q 3 місяці тому +2

    Says cursing is immature but seconds later starts cursing

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      However, men need to let out their aggression particularly if it’s more masculine

  • @matthewnachel7112
    @matthewnachel7112 3 місяці тому +4

    I’m always shaving 🪒 my face maybe 2 days of skipping it but not too much longer than that

  • @GreenHawk84
    @GreenHawk84 3 місяці тому +1

    😂 Usually guys who don't play video games don't know how many adults actually play them.
    You can binge your streaming services all day long but I'm a little boy if I do something that is interactive, fun, and skillful for a couple hours.

  • @joesherry6732
    @joesherry6732 3 місяці тому +6

    What a thumbnail 😂

  • @ChadLand011
    @ChadLand011 3 місяці тому +13

    Ive noticed Dr. Phil never looks people in the eye when speaking.

    • @geno5169
      @geno5169 3 місяці тому

      So true! I noticed that too

  • @namastemetalguy
    @namastemetalguy 3 місяці тому +3

    I agree with maybe 10% to 15% of this video. The rest in my opinion is self centered, egotistical BS. If someone is going to judge "you" for wearing a cap, chances are they're a piece of shit anyway. Not one of your better videos Alpha.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      My compliments exactly. People need to mind their own business and not totally concern themselves with how others look when there’s more serious issues to be concerned about.

  • @alexdiaz1492
    @alexdiaz1492 Місяць тому

    His neck gets redder throughout the video😂 trying to contain his anger over immaturity

  • @alvanmorgan9650
    @alvanmorgan9650 3 місяці тому +2

    lol.all I'm hearing is when i get older,...to be considered mature, I cannot be into anything fun,.Just be a miserable prune to attract miserable women.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      My compliments exactly. Men can be immature and have fun provided they don’t act boorishly and obnoxiously. I’m curious how the man talking thinks about Donald Trump or Vince McMahon. I don’t want men to be confined and live a boring life.

  • @maxxt3916
    @maxxt3916 2 місяці тому

    Guys wear Sperry’s in New England with the right fit. Just because they don’t down in Atlanta, doesn’t mean it’s a hard stop.

  • @basis7089
    @basis7089 3 місяці тому

    if henry cavill plays games and looks like that then aint no one stopping me

  • @Alex-yv7eu
    @Alex-yv7eu 2 місяці тому

    Enjoying Video-gaming doesn’t make a male less of a man. That is a total lie. Stop shaming men who play video-games, avoiding eye-contact, swearing, crying or showing emotions, using social-media, being into anime cartoons, that behavior is fueled by toxic-masculinity. Real men don’t go around using shaming language.
    These social-stigmas need to stop.
    Being into physical-sports aren’t masculine and being obsessed with going to the gym isn’t masculine.

  • @Boe3
    @Boe3 3 місяці тому +6

    Thumbnail had me dead for a whole minute yo! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Dman425
    @Dman425 3 місяці тому +2

    I see playing video games and watching a movie or tv show no different. In fact, video games are better for you

  • @jaysonbell7369
    @jaysonbell7369 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the advice, Alpha. I needed to hear this today.

  • @artdude13
    @artdude13 3 місяці тому +3

    I agree with this but the statement about playing video games is kinda vague well unless you have a kid of course you would play games with them

  • @JacobBailey-o8d
    @JacobBailey-o8d Місяць тому

    Why is everyone bashing him about the video game topic, all he said is too much gaming is bad for your mental and social health. If you don't understand that, you're pretty immature. He's trying to help you. Also all the products he has sponsorships with are actually useful.

  • @ATREU850
    @ATREU850 3 місяці тому +2

    Nothing is wrong with video games whatsoever and anyone who feels different is probaly just bad at them 😂

  • @XTR02
    @XTR02 3 місяці тому +7

    One thing that isn’t mentioned often… a real man is well spoken. When he speaks, he is easily understood by everyone. He has a proper tone so he can be heard, he refrains from using street terms, cussing is kept to an absolute minimal (I know that part was covered), he does not over explain or under explain things, each word is decently pronounced and he isn’t all over the place when he speaks. If somebody constantly speaks with a low tone, unclear, constantly cursing or they explain things from a very complicated approach then chances are I don’t want anything to do with that individual.

    • @AStarkie
      @AStarkie 3 місяці тому

      Yet there is such a thing as anxiety. Just because you speak with a low tone, doesn't mean your not a real man. The cursing I understand though.

    • @Filthy_Larry
      @Filthy_Larry 3 місяці тому

      I enjoy cursing. Makes you people uncomfortable.

    • @zenigatago
      @zenigatago 3 місяці тому +1

      I consider myself well-spoken, choosing my words carefully and eschewing tendencies to use profanity or slurs. Keeping it clear and direct at an acceptable volume and tone enhances my ability to communicate.

    • @XTR02
      @XTR02 3 місяці тому

      @@AStarkieSocial anxiety is a weakness. We should not accept our weaknesses but we must work on overcoming them to the best of our ability. I regularly experienced social anxiety until my mid 20’s. The root cause was due to being bullied as a kid, which negatively impacted my perspective on people. I felt that I was always being judged, therefore I was uncomfortable being around people. Maybe you have a root cause that you never identified nor addressed. It takes practice to develop your social skills and to gain confidence. If you use anxiety as an excuse then you’re holding yourself back in life. There is no better skill than the ability to communicate effectively.

    • @AStarkie
      @AStarkie 3 місяці тому

      The thing your not understanding, anxiety is something you cannot always control, just because you found your root cause doesn't mean everybody will and I said it doesn't make you less manly not that it isn't a weakness.

  • @SimpleWorld08
    @SimpleWorld08 3 місяці тому +1

    I like you Alpha but it's harsh that you talked sort of talked down on people who have no control on how their face (pimples, etc.) looks and, of course, talked highly on those who are lucky enough to be...naturally beautiful. An example on how people have sometimes have no control over their faces: Truthfully speaking, I eat like sh*t but have got no pimples or blackheads. I have a skinny, health-nut friend who is vegetarian yet he still got a few zits, and we're both the same age.

  • @srmonit
    @srmonit 3 місяці тому

    Been following Aaron since I was like 15 I’m 19 now, stopped watching him about 2-2.5 years back… just popped in to see how he was doing❤

  • @travischill
    @travischill 3 місяці тому

    This tiege hanley ad could be aired in tv at 3 am with bunch of other shit like juicer or anniversary quarters😂

  • @Alex-yv7eu
    @Alex-yv7eu 2 місяці тому

    A lack of eye-contact doesn’t make a man look weak or less-confident.
    That is total BS

  • @marcelinomedina3232
    @marcelinomedina3232 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for yelling at me bro. Maybe not everyone wants to look like you or take your advice. I’m happy for you that you have a successful UA-cam channel that’s cool. I will continue to wear what I want to wear and if someone doesn’t like the way that I look I’m ok with that. No worries

  • @elperron1985
    @elperron1985 3 місяці тому +1

    Sorry, alpha man, I still play video games 😅

  • @yurydmorales
    @yurydmorales 3 місяці тому +1

    00:00🧔 Mature men avoid looking immature to be respected and attractive.
    00:12📱 Excessive social media use is a sign of immaturity.
    00:22💸 Simping and paying for attention from women is immature.
    00:38🔞 Lack of sexual discipline shows immaturity.
    00:56🚫 Poor impulse control is a sign of immaturity.
    01:14🎮 Playing video games excessively is seen as immature.
    01:26🎭 Playing emotional games with others indicates immaturity.
    01:56🗣 Excessive profanity is immature.
    02:18🤓 Ignorance or lack of knowledge shows immaturity.
    02:28💬 Fighting on social media is immature.
    02:42😠 Holding grudges and not moving on from the past is immature.
    03:02👀 Avoiding eye contact and having poor body language shows a lack of confidence and maturity.
    03:25🧼 Poor grooming and hygiene indicate immaturity.
    03:40🧴 Bad skin care practices, like having pimples and blemishes, show immaturity.
    04:18🛒 Promoting skincare products for clear skin and a mature look.
    04:47💨 Bad body odor makes one appear immature and disgusting.
    05:21🎩 Constantly wearing baseball hats and youthful clothing styles look immature.
    05:36👟 Wearing sneakers and boat shoes all the time is a sign of immature style.
    05:57👔 Not having the ability to dress up or wear tailored suits shows immaturity.
    06:16👕 Wearing stained or ill-fitting clothes looks immature.
    06:27👖 Sagging pants make one appear immature and lacking dignity.
    06:41💃 Jumping from trend to trend indicates immature fashion sense.
    06:57🗣 Inability to communicate or make small talk shows immaturity.
    07:01📅 Lack of a life plan or goals indicates immaturity.
    07:08💍 Inability to commit to goals, plans, or people shows immaturity.
    07:22😈 Lying, talking badly about others, or being mean is immature.
    07:28🐱 Not standing up for oneself and lacking confidence shows immaturity.
    07:56💪 Mature men challenge themselves physically, mentally, spiritually, and intellectually.

  • @jh221177
    @jh221177 3 місяці тому +1

    The video games comment is actually good for people with health conditions my ex wifes father plays them to keep his mind active hes 74

  • @AshishKumar-ms1bv
    @AshishKumar-ms1bv 3 місяці тому

    You are a real gem since i am watching u brother

  • @ramialabo6881
    @ramialabo6881 3 місяці тому +1

    This Video IS sponsored by RAID Shadow Legends

  • @5ALLL5
    @5ALLL5 3 місяці тому +1

    Summary of the video at 9:15

  • @stephenfrom1997
    @stephenfrom1997 3 місяці тому +1

    Playing video games got me off my pőrn addiction. Video games in moderation is okay! Fellas if a girl has a problem with something that makes you happy run the other way!

  • @oneashralph4076
    @oneashralph4076 3 місяці тому +1

    Advice for an insecure teenager not for an adult male

  • @chrisperry9484
    @chrisperry9484 3 місяці тому +3

    Lmao I'm 35 and I don't have anything going for me except an average job debt up to my eyeballs and more stress I can't handle

    • @MGBL4K
      @MGBL4K 3 місяці тому +3

      youll make it out just keep at it!

  • @andreaspeters3773
    @andreaspeters3773 3 місяці тому

    Everything boils down to... selfrespect & confidence....
    It's such a relief when you finally have it but i couldn't explain even to friends how to get it🤔
    It's a bit from everything but you also have to digest it mentally.
    You haven't to be mr. fantastic but if you're satisfied with the most of your given circumstances you're a catch.
    But it takes a bit work in every point you have...
    For example: most girls don't care for shredded!! They care for healthy looks! !
    Most girls don't care for much money but for stability.
    It's all about evolution, the biggest and prettiest man isn't necessarily a good hunter and girls have a fine sense for the whole package.
    You can't get every girl but there are enough outside... choose wisely

  • @doctorllama2507
    @doctorllama2507 3 місяці тому +1

    Im forced to use game all the time and wear sunglasses cuz I have Asperger and human language is unnatural to me

  • @mgr001
    @mgr001 3 місяці тому +1

    0.06: NEVER shake hands sitting down.

  • @ivanrossreyes
    @ivanrossreyes 3 місяці тому

    But for me being mature is not effected of what people gonna say, they just do what they want to do as long as it not harm to others and being so effected of the media and people opinion is a sign of immaturity.

  • @vidform
    @vidform Місяць тому

    You just described the current state of politics and the news media.

  • @yuliocat82
    @yuliocat82 3 місяці тому +1

    Honestly this 'alpha m' looks around 50's - 60's.🤣🤣🤣.Look young doesn't mean you're immature....🤨🤨

  • @phill5917
    @phill5917 3 місяці тому +1

    Alpha, your mixing immature with sloppy. Theres a difference 😅

  • @TheLegmann
    @TheLegmann 3 місяці тому +2

    I'll just be me. Thanks

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 3 місяці тому

      Same with me. I don’t need to be told how to live my life under any dictatorship. We live in a free and equal Western society

  • @Predator2257
    @Predator2257 3 місяці тому +6

    So, according to you, to be mature is to be bored, huh?

  • @Endeavour30
    @Endeavour30 3 місяці тому

    I'll stop playing video games the day you take off the ridiculous earrings.

  • @mofabright2743
    @mofabright2743 2 місяці тому

    Breathe bro. Breathe

  • @sebipoiana1768
    @sebipoiana1768 3 місяці тому

    Wow, some of these are tough. I can't imagine myself not complaining over things that are not in control bcs if those around me respect me in any way shape or form, then they should concede control over the things they see I care about. Not everything but one or two things, and if they still stay stubborn over those, then they are the immature ones not me bcs my value system is unbreakable.
    As for the video games one, nah I play games since the age of 5 and well into my 28ths :))))))

  • @Chris-81vu4
    @Chris-81vu4 3 місяці тому

    This man needs to be heavily investigated by the FBI…

  • @ezpzjayzaar
    @ezpzjayzaar 3 місяці тому +4

    1:22 tell that to Henry Cavill. I don't see him not getting laid, not being desirable, not getting roles, and whatever your perception of mature is that he suffers because of gaming. And I already hear you screaming "are you Henry Cavill???" because not everyone is him, but if he broke that "rule", then everyone can. Fact. Next.

  • @kernel2526
    @kernel2526 3 місяці тому

    Thank you,I appreciate it the deal. You’re so helpful and a true gentleman.

  • @12thMandalorian
    @12thMandalorian 3 місяці тому +3

    1:14 what a load of nonsense, some people love video games, to judge them on that is just wrong and lame

    • @thepalm2791
      @thepalm2791 3 місяці тому +1

      No, playing non stop is immature.

    • @12thMandalorian
      @12thMandalorian 3 місяці тому

      @@thepalm2791 sure it is mate

    • @HillVillageDragon
      @HillVillageDragon 3 місяці тому +1

      Anything, including video games, in excess is bad. As adults, we’re normally pretty busy trying to keep a roof over our heads, food in our bellies, and clothes on our back, so yeah, it does look odd from the outside if someone has A LOT of time to play league of legends or whatever. Grown men, in my humble opinion, ought to spend their free time looking for ways to enrich themselves. Living a false life in a digital world does nothing for you in the long term.

    • @12thMandalorian
      @12thMandalorian 3 місяці тому

      @@HillVillageDragon the hustle culture is toxic and not a way to live

  • @smat7388
    @smat7388 3 місяці тому

    Let’s not confuse being immature with having genuine trauma from your past.

  • @noahrodgers4082
    @noahrodgers4082 3 місяці тому +1

    I love gauges ears 👂🏻

  • @WencesladoValero
    @WencesladoValero 3 місяці тому

    That's Right keeping it Real Alpha 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @jh221177
    @jh221177 3 місяці тому +2

    This video is stupid some stuff you say don't help people have conditions like bad skin i have to live with psoriasis ive had it since was a child and it fucks my confidence a lot im same age as you and not all people have wads of cash to throw around tell me imimature I suggesr you be careful with some things in your videos because you could lose subscibers i have folowed for 2 years and i do look after myself because of you but some things dont help my father wears a smartwatch because of his ill health as di I yes i have regular watches but the smart watch is a life saver not just for fitness and tech or to be with the times

  • @williamgee6654
    @williamgee6654 3 місяці тому +1

    I LIKE LOOKING YOUNG I DON'T WANT A LEECHING GIRL OR A UNFULLFILLING CRAP JOB

  • @kalebalzino6293
    @kalebalzino6293 3 місяці тому +1

    Why are you harassing people?

  • @CoffmanHouse
    @CoffmanHouse 3 місяці тому

    I found this video truthful and entertaining.

  • @Jvilleman400
    @Jvilleman400 2 місяці тому

    I feel attacked

  • @throttlebrah
    @throttlebrah 3 місяці тому

    Petition for alpha m using his 2009 YT intro

  • @FeleseDoesItAll
    @FeleseDoesItAll 3 місяці тому

    Video games? I wholeheartedly disagree. And to say "living in the past" is a bad thing. As a veteran, trying not to remember the past or be present in the past is one of the most difficult things for my community to do.
    So can you elaborate on that? Cuz that's how I took that