I had my daughter at a VERY young age. My fear for my daughter was to follow in my foot steps. I learned that having a open and honest environment is the key, I never lied or made her feel uncomfortable about discussing sex, peer pressure, drugs etc,,,My daughter is 22 now getting her BA in the medical field and no children. Just be loving and honest with your children
+Victoria Harris i demand respect at all times from everybody I am a man of respect I don't play them games with anybody respect me and I will respect you my kids know my daughter it's just like me She's the demands respect st all times and i love her fore that
You shouldn't be assaulting your kid just cause she's having sex. Plenty of people were tucking at her age including you. If you want to prevent your kids from having sex or getting pregnant then talk to them, explain o then why you don't want them to have it and then move on. You can't stop a rebellious teen from doing what they want to do. Just be there for your kid and make sure they have the protection they need. You'll be surprised how many teens will listen to their parents advice if you just talk to them and have an open dialogue with them.
Exactly. My mom has always told me to tell her whenever I was ready to have sex. And till this day I talk to my mom about everything. I'm very open with her. Communication is key. And I thank her everyday for it. Imagine if I hadn't talked to her.
First off . Parents need to stop BULLYING their kids on social media to " teach them discipline " that's not teaching them right from wrong that's embarrassing your child & bullying your child . People should raise their kids better than this , this isn't disciplining them . This is bullying & will cause mental issues maybe even suicide . Parents keep trying to follow this trend to record and post . If you're gone do it , do it behind closed doors or maybe even try talking to them .
It is a thing. I've experienced it first hand. And my sister still experiences it with our mom. But she doesn't know how to be a true mother because she didn't raise us.
+Lynda Harris I agree with her as well. I remember seeing it with some of the girls with who I grew up. They'd be going somewhere like a restaurant, and it's like their moms would be trying to out-dress them. Not only that, but the moms would adopt these juvenile flirty/ cutesy mannerisms that weren't appropriate for their age. It was embarrassing to watch and made me feel uncomfortable...
Stokedhavok the juvenile mannerisms sound just like my mom. She gets jealous that my sister and I have a college educations and jobs. She had body shamed us since we were teens (even with her being 300 pounds). She is even jealous when we buy our children nice things. It's ridiculous.
+Good Guy you obviously don't have any kids and have no experience with kids but, if they want to act like an adult then treat them like one period. You should also look into some community college grammar/writing classes before you comment in English, to brush up on the English writing you think you know #getrekt
+a- boondocksaint- act like an adult get treated like one. So do you normally beat all your adult friend who are having sex. Cuss her out, threaten to throw her out but beating on her teaches nothing of real value. How many minds have you seen change through getting beat. All you create is unbalance peoole every submissive or super aggressive. I was beat and I'm not gonna beat on my son
+OhShay You do know that there are ways of parenting between being a submissive "friend" and being a full on dictator ? This woman is no mother in my eyes
@Frugality then again we have some moms out there who really try their best to raise their kids right, but some of them are just too difficult to handle. There are moms who are poor role models for their children, but their children look beyond that and come out to be something good. No matter how good of a parent you are if the kid wants to be bad you can't stop them.
not true kids have their own mind , parents can talk to their children until their faces turn blue , rebellion will set in and they do what they want regardless I have a 16 yr old I know!!! her mom feelings was hurt and yes she over reacted a little but 💯 to mom dukes I be feeling like doing the same thing sometimes I don't think she did anything wrong , wait until you have a daughter that's 16 or etc. those years are crucial to a parent .
+The Lea Rae Show I know right..you can teach and raise your child the right way but teenagers are going to do what they want behind your back..parents don't have control over what their kids do behind their backs
There's discipline and then there's abuse. A lot of people don't seem to know the difference. Furthermore, teenage girls having sex is usually because of a lack of love in their lives especially from a father figure, or sexual abuse or low self esteem. It's never anything that a beating can fix.
+kenway leviathian no one said it was. I completely agree with Lakia in that the original commenter's reasoning behind teenage girls having sex was hilarious.
My parents spanked me when I was younger, and it didn't teach me anything. Sure, I wasn't disobedient but it was because I was afraid not because I learned anything. When I get older and have kids, I'll never hit them. I don't know any other alternatives, but I know it's possible to discipline without physical pain.
And then these parents love to come out and tell me that it hurts them to spank more than it hurts the child. Bullshit! Parents who spank are parents who either don't know anything else that works or value obedience over free will and critical thinking. I would teach my child rather than beat them into blind obedience.
I feel you... I stopped spanking my daughter and sometimes I feel like she pushes it because she knows that I don't want to do that but I'm like you too big for me to be going through all that... If you ain't got it by now, best of luck. But it's enough violence in the world with out me adding to it.
Totally agree. Unfortunately we live in the era of technology and because it's so easily accessible we document our lives every chance we can. It's ridiculous and I've been speaking on it for years and back then people were going in on me.
Because they are narcissist. Google it. My mother is one and she would've posted my beatings online if social media was around in the 90s. Instead, she just called and told everyone that she beat me so they could make fun of me when they saw me. I had to start wearing long sleeves to school to cover the cuts because she had me afraid to go into CPS custody. Narcissists only care about themselves and the mothers are jealous of their daughters. That's why they beat the shit out of them.
I am all for whooping a child, but this is abuse! Straight up. Momma looks young herself, so this displaced anger is probably coming from her frustrations with being a young mother. I've gotten COUNTLESS woopens growing up, but never not once did the fist come out. I don't care how angry you are at your child. You never get that emotional to where you fight them as though they are your equal. And then to post it on the Internet????????? Now u KNOW child services are googling both their Gram accounts right now. Be smart when disciplining your children people. Woopens can be helpful, but not when the world can spectate
+Alwayswatching2012 D Ummm...no! Lol!!! I've always adored the Ny/NJ accent, but I've never been. I'm from the north, but not NJ! Lol! Sorry to disappoint 😢
+Destiny Nesbitt If that's cool with you, you have that right. I personally think she (mom) went too far. She was livid...we can understand that, but she was throwing Ryo blows! Shhaaayuuuken! Lol!
Terri Berri That's ok Terri! i worked with a terri berri and thought I'd take a chance. I'm in South Jersey. I live 2 blocks from the Delaware River and the Philadelphia Airport is directly across from me. So, our accent is a Philly/ "Yo Adrian" accent not the harder NY/ North Jersey accent! They say actors have the hardest time imitating a Philly accent more than any other. Just a little tidbit! Take care sweetie! God bless! Lisa
People are saying that the girl is lacking a father, but I don't think it's really that. My father wasn't around, it's social media, and fellow teens growing up far too fast ect. I think the father thing could be part of it, but I don't think that's the real reason.
thank you, i totally agree, i also grew up without a father, and it is what it is, i feel like girls want to grow up way to fast, without actually being mature mentally first.
+graffProdigy your you commented that ignorant stuff on the wrong persons comment, cause that's not true. Keep it to yourself and stop hiding behind a keyboard 👍🏽
I agree, I think she lacks caring and nurturing, and mostly attention from both parents. Children seek attention from anywhere else when they're not getting it from their parents.
God help us!!! It is so saddening to read comments that support this type of behavior. This family needs help. Social services needs to be notified. Here is mom who does not want her daughter to go down the wrong road but clearly needs some guidance on how to handle the situation. Anyone who supports this is supporting abuse and humiliation of children. This video will never go away. I am sure this mom and her daughter do not want to see this going viral. Who wants to see their worst moment played over and over again for the world to see????
I agree this woman went way overboard, nobody deserves that. I cannot believe she was punching her in the stomach, face, arms for over 4 minutes. Wow, it looked like she was having a fist fight but only one sided because the girl not once hit her back.
If parents took more interest in what their kids are doing on the internet, most of the thing that are happening on there wouldn't. I feel that the parent had every right to do what she did but I think airing it will hurt her possibly. We need more parents like this in the world because these kids are making Facebook into Thotsville and that's real talk
+Glen Hughes What would hurt the child is if she is raped by putting herself into high-risk situations. Putting on herself out there like that could make her a target for predators, STDs, HIV, and more. it's hard to feel bad for someone who knows better... however, both were wrong.
Kids are a great idea until after age 4. When you're bold enough to post a picture of you and your boyfriend having sex on an open forum like it's nothing, you're a brave child. I would NEVER let my mom know I'm in the streets like that even as an adult! And these new kids want the goodies at like age 8. What's in the river water?
+HeyItsSunshyne Trust she doesn't believe that bullshit. And she knows about ur stupid fake engagement! Ur only lying to urself... Moms just play dumb to make their daughters happy.
I have a set of twin girls thats 12 yrs old, I could never raise my hand and fight my girls like that, I'm constantly talking with them about their bodies and how to honor themselves as young ladies, I talk to them very openly about sex and hopefully they'll wait til marriage. This mother has failed this child that's why she's seeking appoval in the wrong way, like you said lovely ti, you can't beat the hoe out of them, this is just sad. I'm praying lovely ti for your surgery and a complete and speedy recovery, God bless you.
Awh thank you dear heart, my mom didn't talk to me either, but don't you beat yourself up about mistakes because we all make them. Tomorrow is a new beginning, you keep your pretty little head up.
I'm a mother of 6 girls, and they all act JUST like me, why ?? because they mimic everything I do simply because I'm mom and they think everything mom does it correct. A child is like a sponge at an early age, everything we do they wanna do because we're the parent. The way we talk ,the way we dress, the way we dance, any anger issues we may have, get soaked up by our children, everything they see us do. I'm not an idiot, she didn't just pick up that type of behavior at school or while out with her other friends. If she has friends who dress like that and sleep with their boyfriends at that age and whatever else, she will most likely have already got it in her mind that it's alright. If you can't see the attention her mother was hoping to gain from posting this disgusting behavior then you're just blind !! Look, she posts fight videos right ? Well her mother posted a video of her beating the shit out of her daughter as if she were fighting some random chick who pissed her off..then posed out and fixed her hair smirking in the camera. WHO does she get her attitude from ? Her mother !! I have no problem taking blows from the internet while I debate. But I am allowed my opinion and I shared it, if you don't agree with me, that's your choice, but heed my words, if you dress like this momma dresses and act the way she does, you just make sure to check your sweet child's backpack before she leaves for school, she might just be stashing some sexy clothes to change into....
LiquidSoul I'm not talking about shame. I'm talking about humiliation. This mother has invited all the people that her daughter knows on Facebook, to witness her daughter being violently punched by her own mother. Not only that, but the ugliness spewing out of her mother's mouth is a disgrace!! Her mother is apparently not feeling any shame for the public spectacle she has made of her daughter. And like many beaten and abused children, she apologizes to her mother for something a loving mother would never have done.
Those are just shorts. You honestly can't use that as justification. Its hot and Chicago right now. Shorts are perfectly acceptable when its 92 degrees and your INDOORS.
+Katara Grey So I guess posting a video disciplining her child is also ok. And it's scorching in Philly, but I wouldn't have my child see me wearing short shorts. Shorts are fine, but her ass is close to showing. That's not self respect. And parents need to stop posting videos of them beating their children, otherwise, suicide is next. They stoop to the child's level instead of doing things privately.
Well thats what YOU wouldnt permit. But the fact of the matter is: That woman is in her home, one that she pays for and if she feels like wearing extremely short shorts then so be it. Also, your first sentence is completely unrelated to your comment and what i replied to.
I am older than most of you and I was raised with old fashion whipping but my parents never hit me with their fist or degraded me. I don't regret one whipping that I got I probably deserved more and there is no two people I respect more than my parents. I didn't raise my two with spankings just grounding. A lot of this type of beatings was passed down from parents though. I am glad I didn't do that. Beating her kid like that will run her into the first guy's arms that shows her a little attention. It will also teach her that it is ok to be hit. It will take a lot to build her self confidence and self worth back up after being beat and hit in the face.
Same I haven't seen the video until I saw this. And I honestly thought oh dang this is gonna show what my gam did to me when I goofed. But never have they ever put their hands on me. This was wrong
I agree, I could understand a parent being upset and scared for their child but this was way out of line. I lost my daughter eight years ago in a car accident and the things that bother me the most is the things I didn't do, didn't say. could've done stuff like that. No matter how good of a parent you are your short comings weigh heavy. This mother will have a lot to think about.
what are they doing wtf, she posted this on facebook and she'll go to jail. This is straight up abuse. If you don't want your daughter having sex or posting bad stuff online, raise her right and calmly smh :(
I think thats what she trying to do. you have some bad ass kids out there that are just right down rebellious no matter what you do to them. she have not done more then i have done to mines. a belt dont hurt these tough ass kids these days. hell she didnt hurt her hot ass. and i may add i gave my kids a lot of love and they tell everyone that, but i had one girl that just didnt give damn, i raised them up in church did all i could for them. I went from a belt to my got damn fist, and yes she learn the hard way. but today she is 26 she has a good job buying her own house and she always tell me mom i know i was so hard headed but i thank you for loving me and showing that them streets aint nothing and she doing good. I cant speak for all parents cause there are some sorry ones out there. but i feel this lady is trying. If she wasnt , she would not have posted this on face book, maybe this is a way of trying to make her child stop doing what she is doing wrong. but back in the day my ass got beat with cords ,belts, switches , all my siblings did , my mom and dad wasnt going im still here breathing, we all are. but now you even think about getting a belt or popping they ass, here comes 911 and dhs to the house. and you wonder why they getting locked up, going to prison, dropping out of school and shit. the government wants to control you and your household. But let me add some parents dont know how to discipline there kids , and you find them in the ER TRUMA UNIT NEARLY DEAD FROM BEING BEAT THE WRONG WAY. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP JUDGING OTHERS FOR HOW THEY RAISE THERE KIDS , UNLESS YOU CAN DO IT YOUR SELF DONT JUDGE. I USE TO TELL A PERSON IF YOU DONT LIKE THE WAY I AM DISCIPLINE MY KIDS YOU TAKE THEY ASS HOME AND RAISE THEM THAN, CAN I GET A AMEN. BUT ONLY GET THE ONES WHO ARE NOT RAISING THEM RIGHT, OR THEY ARE BEING NEGLECTED. AND MOM PLEASE PUT THAT CHILD ON SOME BIRTHCONTOL PILLS OR YOU GONE HAVE SOME LITTLES ONES RUNNING THE HOUSE .
you can raise your child right and this can still happen. the fact is she did this video because if her daughter can post after sex pictures on her fb in her house then the mom can post what happens when she gets caught. yes this might be considered abuse but think about how would you react to finding out your daughter is sneaking boys in to YOUR house to have sex and then she POSTS ABOUT IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA. anyone would have spazzed the way she did. i know i would. as for her going to jail, i dont think that will happen
+Lady Siren no, there is no excuse for this.... and didn't you notice that mom made sure the camera was following her... this woman has major issues and is clearly abusive.
Her daughter embraced her so she embraced her daughter. Too many girls online act like this one hear. They act without thinking. And it makes them look a certain way. Again imagine it was your daughter who did that to you. Don't say it wouldn't happen. Teenagers have their own mind and do whatever they put their mind to and sometimes bad choices are made. In reality, the way society is, this can be anyone's daughter. The mother believed her response who get through to her daughter and it probably did.
The mother let her anger get the best of her after finding out what the daughter was doing on Facebook. I think the mother felt that since her daughter was on Facebook acting a damn fool, hell so will she. Jmo
I don't understand I'm 13 almost 14 and my parents have been teaching me about safe sex and all that since I was like 9 this is a shame she calls her own daughter a thot and hoe but doesn't even realize that she is portraying the same thing. My parents tell me all the time that they don't want me to have sex at a young age and if I ever was to that they wont get mad and hurt me they'll just be disappointed in me but the number 1 thing they always say about it is to be safe which I can tell the mother in the video did not do this it is a shame that a 13 year old girl knows more about parenting and safe sex than a 16 year old and a grown woman smh what has this world come to
Futureworld X thnx so much I wont rush like most girls and unlike other kids I actually like school (expect middle school cause I was bullied) but I already know what career I want when I get older and what courses I have to take in high school (which this will be my first year) and college most girls are too fast and ill admit I do like makeup and all that stuff but I don't like it just cause that is what every girl is doing I like it cause I like the careers you can get from it like being a professional sfx makeup artist and being a professional stylist or fashion designer most girls my age and younger have already had several boyfriends while I still haven't had my first kiss these girl are worried about being popular and stuff like that but I'm worried about my future and getting a real job to help support myself and my family most girls don't understand that until its too late but I'm glad I have the parents I have cause they are the ones who taught me all I know now and I thank god that I have both of my parents in my life and if have the family that I have cause who knows what I would've done when I was bullied if I didn't have them
+Marissa Gates. God bless you. I take my hat off to your parents because it sounds like you gave a good head on your shoulders. You keep up the good work, stay strong, and stay postive like you are. You are definitely blessed!
This is abuse. If you can't parent your kids better than this, your kids don't need to be in the home with you. Now when a man or anyone beats this child, she will accept it as just punishment and continue the same vicious cycle. Another child gone bad. Thanks mom.
Try seeing a bigger picture and maybe you will get it! Just maybe teens will see this and start having self respect and respect for others and just maybe get some damn fear in them about SOMETHING!!!!!
+Kim Lloyd do what she had to do; really??? people still say that lie?? people don't do what they have to do, we do what we have knowledge of.. she did what she knows.. VIOLENCE!!!!
She did what she felt best and all you are doing is trying to make opinions into facts... everyone is entitled to their opinion be it right or wrong... ONLY God is ALL KNOWING!!!! According to you... she turned violent and when you disagree you become aggressive, insulting and all knowing!!!! Have a good one. Can only try to converse with those that respectfully disagree.... blessings
Fr it was and hitting a child with a stick and punching them is child abuse and she so stupid she showed her face on camera and she's gonna get locked up
+Devin Martinez agree that's child abuse. she really needs to beat her own self for not teaching and raising her child right. How your child grows up depends on how you raise her and the example you putting out.
+Kre'Neshia Allen Doesn't matter if she got caught or not but still, I'm trying to figure out why would you put a video of you spanking your kid on FB?Why couldn't she just have done it confidentially?
I don't think most people are attention whores. But some people take social media too far and get off on it in a different way. I think it exposes narcissism, most people understand the un-written rule and others like the women involved take it to the extreme.
I'm only 14 in my opinion the mother did the right thing she didn't beat her either that was just tough love this parent is showing that she cares about her daughter
Everyone wants to save their child from the same mistakes they did as a teen or adult. The cycle doesn't have to repeat itself and that's why she is beating her.
Yes, the mom probably got that same beating as a child only difference no social media😳unbelievable...this is definitely why kids run away...This lady will never change... The daughter needs to be adopted.
Like Mama, like Daughter. I see plainly where that girl gets her "thotism" from. I highly doubt that the Mom has been a good example or has taught her kid anything worthwhile leading up to this point. The foul language & the way the Mom is dressed says a lot. I don't know why some parents think that their kids are supposed to "automatically" turn out good, decent & respectful - as if they don't have any responsibility in making them that way. That girl has probably been raising herself. Yes....this Mom is abusive. And posting this video on social media makes her a criminal
I totally agree! It was ok for her to discipline her daughter... but she DID NOT have to put it on social media and make it so public and put her daughter on blast like that. It's way too much in my opinion.
all I have to say is that child came out of her not no one else there's a difference between abuse and discipline and she disciplined her ass she's the mother and most people know they got they ass tore up out the frame too
that's the problem with people, they think because you give birth that the child is your property. That was abuse, also just because for decades parents have been whooping their children doesn't make it right. It means parents don't have the balls to actually sit down and teach their kids anything, explain anything, or be anything. Especially blacks we think whatever we say goes and we don't owe our kids any explanation or respect. They grow up and treat their children and others in a detached hateful way. We expect them to know what we didn't teach, understand the things we don't explain, because in this shitty world we don't own anything and have no power we take it out on defenseless children treating them like property, and the cycle continues.
Look Damn if u do Damn if u Dont the Only thing she did wrong she posted on FB and went Viral that the thing with People Stop posting shit on FB U know its trouble im not mad at the mom at all she saved her daughter SO IF U PARENT SHIT THESE KIDS ARE OUT OF CONTROL..
Grandmother and Mother of 4 Grown children here. Our Children come through us as beautiful Gifts from God-/We are to raise them in Love, care for, and treasure them. We do have authority over them because we are their parents and "protectors" but WE DON'T own them--God Does! There's so much wrong here---I don't know where to start. I can't believe the comments! We have a lot of work to do People-especially if you feel like this is alright. You don't mistreat or beat what you hold near and dear to your heart. My heart breaks for this family. So much sadness here. God help! Praying for them~
Like I said before the slaps and outing her for this is fine. Mom was wrong with the hooks, uppercuts, jabs, and all that. I agree that she needs to sit her down and have an open discussion about pregnancy, safe sex, and ESPECIALLY HAVING BOYS IN HER HOUSE. Whether he was in her house or not, just to set the tone. My Momma didn't play that neither...I did it anyway, I was a kid too. She cannot keep her daughter from having sex it is human nature and she is growing up but she can be educate her about the consequences that comes with having sex. Once again, when mom turned into Balrog from Street Fighter V, she was 100% WRONG.
and just to make it clear, "the sex talk" is not just about the physical act of intercourse, it is also about gender, hygiene, reproductive health, the actual act of laying down is such a small part of it. sooo yeah, I think the sex talk should happen A LOT EARLIER bc there's a LOT to talk about sex BEFORE she actually has SEX. shalom
It is a rare and short time we as parents have the privilege of raising a precious human being. Hitting, slapping, humiliating them is unacceptable. Perhaps I am just an ignorant old white lady,but I cried for this girl and I never laid a hand on my children in anger. I just don't understand,I just cannot accept this. It is abuse....my daughter and I (as well as my son) are kind to each other because I raised them with loving support and demonstrated how to behave. Lovely Ti you are indeed lovely inside and out. Thanks for your work I appreciate you!
I would have been upset with my daughter too. I do not think the mom did it for attention, she was just trying to teach her daughter a lesson by given her a butt whooping on FB, since she wanna post everything. BUT that beat down was extreme. She did not have to hit her like that and call her names. That was a bit much.
yeah super sad man can u imagine her going out and everyone in her city like dam u nia green that got whooped on FBLIVE sad, shameful embarrassing prayers out to her and her mom
yeah like way to much , talking about things helps , now how do you think she feels about her mom now? she could care less for her now ,shes going to run away with a dude and have a baby thinking she will be a better mom than her own and the cycle continues.SMH
I saw that video and was disgusted. Fixing her hair at the end and nothing but bullshit. All she had to do was have a serious dialogue. Now if she wanted to take it a step further she could find a program to show her daughter what a teen mom goes through. Oh yeah! I too noticed how her daughter was dressed and was like really. She should've had that talk along time ago. Smdh!
"9 Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. 11 For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." Bible, Hebrews chapter 12 verse 9
I agree 100%. That's definitely about more than disciplining her daughter. I know a few mothers who were jealous of their daughters, and purposely set them up to fail, including my own. Also, If she was being the mother and example she's supposed to be, her daughter wouldn't have been out there like that in the first place. And where was dad? It's his job to put his foot down when stuff gets ri-damn-diculous. That FB page should have been shut down after the first racy post. Then, they should have burned all of that thot gear that she shouldn't have had in the first place.
The mom wasn't serious, because when I got in trouble I didn't have a phone, laptop... NOTHING. My mom and dad took it ALL. Hell, I was lucky to get to watch tv.
This was NOT okay. That mom ain need to beat her like that ESPECIALLY not on social media. I get her mama prolly feel embarrassed bc what her daughter doing reflecting back on how she is as a parent but punching your daughter won't change nothing. If anything she'll get more sneaky about it.
I'm a teen just like her ...and I feel she got what she deserved because I went through the same thing with my mom and it made me better and plus the nia girl posted a status saying she's not mad her mom n she's glad she did it and she knew what she did was wrong so some ppl can't be mad on how others discipline their child
hey guys, this is the real Facebook page m.facebook.com/nia.green.90 . She isn't posting those pictures and they stated the gofundme page was fake. Her mom really has control over her page because the apology from the daughter is the most recent post.
really children under 18 don't need facebook I'm saying the people they need to keep up with are at school with them it's a distraction the social media following becomes more important than
I saw the video, and honestly, the girl's behaviour was inappropriate, and if I was her mum I'd be angry, but punching and hitting her? No. That is abuse. That girl's mum abused her and filmed it for all to see. I hope she was taken away from her mum, that was horrible.
Bottom line This is how this mother felt about her daughter putting herself on social media embarrassing herself! As a mother I would have done even worse because these young girls think this junk is cute and they need to see that their actions affect other people! Unless you have been in this position there's nothing that you can say and even if you have been in this position this is This Woman's child not yours! Maybe the mother should have not done it on social media butt Miss Nia Green deserved to get her butt kicked!
Any parents who record their child being beat or verbally abused and uploads it social media needs to be arrested and charged with child abuse. I'm all for disclipling children but the shit that gets uploaded is fucking ridiculous. This is why we need more FATHERS in their child's lives. The fuck did she think her daughter learned everything from? She's a bad mom.
The thing is though. Not all fathers are good ones. I had a father in my life and he wasn't even the kind of father that he was supposed to be. Some times it's better when the father is not in the child's life and sometimes it is. From my experience since my dad is not in my life anymore it was a better decision to stay with my mom. But the mom shouldn't have been hitting her daughter like that. There's a fine line between discipline and abuse. The problem is not a lot of parents talk to their child which is something that they should be doing in the first place. At least when you heard about it all ready you know that you should prevent from what happened to the parent to happening to you or just in any kind of topic that the parents speaks of the child should know they have to do anything to prevent it from happening. I'm not all in for abuse or beatings like that. I feel like lecturing (which is worse than a beating) is more effective than laying your hands on a child.
***** I've seen them. Those were not fathers in my eyes, they're just as bad as this mom. When I say father, I mean someone who tells his child they are beautiful and guides them. It's disheartening to see so many kids without a father figure in their lives. I grew up as an only child with both parents married. The sad fact is I see more guys concerned with Jordans but don't care about their kids. I also know mothers who sell their food stamp cards in order to get bundles of hair. Some of these parents aren't like how it used to be.
I am rewatching this video. And the part where you're talking about hitting daughters in the face really spoke to me Ti. I feel like you're 100% correct in there is a jealousy thing in the mothers against their daughters still being young, and beautiful. I don't think I'm amazingly beautiful, but my momma had me really young, and I feel like every time we had our fights, she would always look at me like I was just this girl she was gonna bully in school. Thank you so much for saying that, I thought I was crazy when I was younger.
When will people learn not to discipline their childrenoon social media? If she cared in the first place her daughter's channel would have never gotten that bad.
u know whats so funny? mothers advocate this behavior all the time, from a young age, unconsiously, putting their daughters in short shorts, tights and leggings, telling them to do little grown poses when taking pics, telling them to dance to songs with sexual undertone etc etc...black women have a history of over sexualizing their selves and their daughters, yet another horribly awful habit/ survival tactic that lingers in us from slavery. I definetly feel its the mothers fault because the girl shouldnt have been posting the stuff that lead up to this ie the twerking and tight outfit shots wth was she doing when she was doing all that stuff?
I could not agree with you more :) made me think...embarrassing her daughter won't work, because one day she'll be old enough to have sex with whom she wants, if she isn't taught morals,etc then what good was the beating?the Bible says to train them up in the way they shall go, doesn't say beat them up, says spiol the child spare the ride, apparently she didn't raise her well when she was young, you get what you bring
Kids these days want to be so grown up so fast. U look at a 13 yr olds page and they look older than I do at 24. They are posed in suggestive positions, cursing, talking about the "bae" or that "boo" it's sad. 16 year Olds should be babysitting and trying to work during the summer not posing in towels and posting the latest fight video. Kids these days don't even have a curfew or time to be home. Their parents give them keys to a car and send them out into the world to be adults skipping the stages of childhood. I'm not saying this video was completely right but I applaud the fact that she cared enough to do something to teach her that "thotism" is not cute. That's what wrong with teens today, the mothers ( not all) are busy trying to relive their youth and trying to be their kids friend instead of being a responsible parent smdh 🍵🐸
if you teach your child right they should be able to have more freedom as they get older. being strict and not listening to reason is gonna drive you child away from you. teach you child to be responsible with their freedom.
I understand why the mom was mad. But to be on fb live beating her like that and calling her thot is uncalled for and saying she has a discharge coming out of her smh ...When she was in kitchen hitting her was just too far. Hey my mom was old school I got hit with a belt ,slippers but she would yell at me of course and later calm down and talk to me about what I was doing was wrong . Then in the end she's gonna fix her hair wtf
The Lea Rae Show I said that because living in Jamaica it's normal for kids to get a little ass whooping now and then. Most people believe an ass whooping means your abusing the child/children. So most Jamaicans can relate to this.
+Shericka Jones Teen pregnancy is also very normal in Jamaica. Ass whoopings don't stop people from having sex here, there, or anywhere really. (My family is Jamaican)
I agree with you. ..with all the stuff her daughter posted, the towel photo is the one that upset the mother??..my kids' technology would all be locked at grandma's house. ..I've hidden my boys ' main chargers /connectors for days 😆
saw the video started tearing cuz i saw my mom aggression in her mom and im the same age as her and although ive never been in that situation ...............my mother has her mothers identical agression ..........
+Don Rider i was younger and going through puberty and she felt like i would be trying her alot because i was trying to figure out my personality out u know
+Bo PeEp she would get mad at me in my early pubescent years as i would be figuring out my personality and say that i was trying her but she would never call me b!tch or any other vulgar suggestive names
What that mother did was too harsh😡 you can't do that to your daughter. Do you know how many people under 16 has already had sex? I feel so bad for the girl😞 you can't beat someone out so they can stop opening their legs tf she needs to have a 121 chat with her. Fr. Smh😤
And she will never ever open up to her mother about her personal life. The girl definitely needed consequences but this is above and beyond. She cut, tied and burned the lines of communication the way she shoulda did her own damn tubes.
CiCi Garcia If you would punch your daughter in her face til she bleeding and bruised then laugh about, then you are sick in the head, you dont need kids and if you do have kids they need to be taken away from you, shit like that is not going to do nothing but drive your kids away especially when they are older
+CiCi Garcia Its a difference between whooping your daughter and fighting her, hitting her with long ass sticks and kicking and punching her is going too far, if you really was a good mother you would prevent this behavior before it happen, she is not a good mother and from what I read you wont be either
Her mom asked her over and over in the video "what's the problem?!" Um, maybe she needs a daddy figure in her life or a better mother? She's been twerking and fighting online for how long? What did her mom think was next? The way her daughter is presenting herself, she is going to be a teen mom or a teen with a few abortions in her pocket before she's even an adult...OMG, what is wrong with our culture when we beat our children in this manner and call it discipline? This brought tears to my eyes. This is why so many young girls in the "hood" are so hard and acting like thugs in the street. This is why they have no respect for themselves or other women. This young girl, is immature and doesn't have any idea of the real world or why she's being sexual for the world to see. And then the mom says "You got me on here making me look like I'm not a good m**** f*** parent..." OMG! The daughter is who made her look bad?! She made herself look bad, and the gofundme page just shows how "off" the mom is.
This is a big trend for black women and I don't understand. I think it's them trying to show how "good" of a parent they are and that they have control of their children. Im a black woman my self and I've seen this in our woman and I don't understand why. That doesn't make you look like a good parent, that doesn't attract men, it's not a good look at all. Treat your kids right. They came from you, they are part of you.
+Bethsaida Romelus I'm sorry are you black? Or are you just taking this shit from the videos you see on UA-cam and not real life experiences? Like as I said I've this is in OUR women as in I've seen this is real life multiple times. Read the whole comment before adding your two cents.
+Bethsaida Romelus I'm sorry are you black? Or are you just taking this shit from the videos you see on UA-cam and not real life experiences? Like as I said I've this is in OUR women as in I've seen this is real life multiple times. Read the whole comment before adding your two cents.
+Bethsaida Romelus and on top of that did I say all black women because me, my self as a black mother don't do that and neither did my black mother, so anyways.
+Bethsaida Romelus there's a huge difference from cursing at your child and abusing them and as I CLEARLY SAID "I've seen this in our women" I've seen many black women where I live at and multiple places where lived where I've lived. Where I've seen black woman over disciplining their children to make themselves seem like "good" parents and that they have "control" of their children.
+Bethsaida Romelus yes because we should go straight to physical violence, no, there's nothing wrong with getting a whooping her or there but if you're beating your child. That's too far and that's my opinion. And to add on to that my original comment was meant as black women who do it in public as to be seen as "good parents" and that they have "control" over there children. I've been in many situations where I've seen black woman who are overly aggressive with their child and will hit them or push them and then look towards me or say something of how "they know how to keep their child in line" like I'm supposed to applaud them or something. No it's not all black women but they aren't isolated incidents.
What this female (not mother or woman) did was reprehensible, and I truly hope someone forwarded this video to the authorities. There is no excuse for beating (not whooping or spanking) a child. I don't care what that child did. If this female had mothered her child the way should have, then maybe she would have to go Ninja on her today. To not only beat her, but to proudly share this on social media in order to humiliate her child makes her evil and not worthy of being called a mother. How dare she! Social media has become a way of people to exploit others and to share positivity or negativity. Unfortunately, a lot think sharing deplorable things like this is going to make their video viral, and unfortunately, it will. People claim they want an end to violence, but they really don't. The media is the conduit that projects all these ungodly videos around the clock. BTW, I did not and will not view this video. For those excusing this cretins behavior, you are wrong, and if you treat your children the way this female did, then you are a failure too. If you want to be a good parent, you cannot be lazy. Parenting take skill, patience, love and understanding, and if your resort is to beat your child (if you don't know the difference between discipline and beating, then I suggest you find out), then you need not have children. Period.
You're damned if you do... Damned if you don't.... Your kids run around acting like fools, you get blamed for it, because, "Their parents don't discipline them....don't teach them how to act".... You discipline them, and you are wrong for going too far.... I mean,...don't get me wrong,...she certainly could have handled this better..... But then again, who am I to tell you how to raise your kid?.... Hypocrites will look at this video and say this lady is wrong, needs counseling, or should be locked up..... But then when these "bad kids" go out in the streets and act like fools, and get shot and killed by the police they "deserve what they got for being thugs".... So it's okay for police to kill these kids for acting like fools, but it's not okay for parents to beat them for acting like fools..... Like I said to start with, You're damned if you do... Damned if you don't......
It's not the discipline, it's the other shit surrounding it. Discipline doesn't require getting on Facebook live in booty shorts and a tight shirt with your titties hanging out. She can say what she wants, but the daughter got that crap from HER. There was no issue with the hoe-ish pics the daughter had before. The problem only came when the daughter posed with her boyfriend. I'm sorry but the behavior didn't come from nowhere. Nine times out of ten she got that from the mother and now the mother's 'embarrassed.' That's a load of shit.
Because if you raised your kids right, they would never dream of disrespecting you. IF you beat your children and treat them badly, they will turn on you and shit on your values. It's always the parents' fault, because parents are responsible for a child's personality and environment.
Always?... Nah.... Always is too.....definite. We are all wired differently, and all deal with things differently.... Some kids can grow up in an orphanage. Some because their parents died. So, through no fault of their own, said parents leave their kids to grow up without parents. These kids can grow up and do great things with their lives.... They can make a difference in the world, and help others.... While some that come from "good homes" can end up messed up.... Some grow up in the church, with "good parents" who are pastors or ministers.....and still go down the wrong path...... So no,....not always....
THE BEATING VIDEO IS FOR ATTENTION..... THEY ARE DRESSED JUST ALIKE....SHE GET IT FROM HER MOMA... THE APPLE DONT FALL FAR FROM THE TREE.... WHEN YOU WANT YOUR KIDS TO BE BETTER... PARENTS ARE SUPPOSED TO DO BETTER... I FEEL THIS MOM....BUT EVIDENTLY THIS GURL NEEDS AND WANTS ATTENTION...OR NO FATHER... THIS IS SAD.....ON BOTH PARTS....THE MOM AND DAUGHTER...
they are at home so you have all rights to be as comfortable as you want in your home. Next her mom is GROWN and with society being hyper-sexualized don't expect sensible children that have access to any media (i.e. tv, radio, advertisements, other children, etc...)
Truth McBanks YOU ARE CORRECT....BUT IF YOU'RE GOING TO GO TO THIS EXTREME....I WOULD GUESS SOME WOULD DRESS APPROPRIATELY FOR THE OCCASION... WHATEVER....ITS ONLY SOCIAL MEDIA....I DONT DEBATE... NOR DO I POST LIKE THIS.... BEST WISES TO THEM BOTH 😴😴😴😴😴😴 I JUST HOPE SHE IS READY FOR THE REPERCUSSIONS OF HER BEHAVIOR....ID RATHER SAVE MY MONEY VS. SPEND ON SOMETHING THIS DUMB.....
Jewe Victoria IF YOU'RE GOING TO POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA...ATLEAST LOOK LIKE YOUR RESPONSIBLE.... THE DOWNFALL OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY 👌👍✌...... I DON'T NEED ATTENTION😘 ANYWHO NO ONE CARES.....🤗🍷💅💤👑💍
her mom could of a least waited.till she.was.off of live.what the fudge man no child should ever.i mean.ever be embarrassed on social media it can lead to being made fun some kids even commit suicide she was wrong for this not even for hitting her but she was wrong for just embarrassing her on social media
she didnt have to.hit her with a stick but she has a.right to tell her daughter that she shouldnt be posting pictures online nude with a.towel she only 16 i dont think that she.was.mad that she had sex i think she was mad that she posted a.photo on facebook of her and her boyfriend at this young age im only 13 and ik my mom would kill me
Men have been fighting their sons for years. I don't agree with hitting your kid in the face, but whoppings work for some kids. I think it was dumb for the mother to post it on Facebook, but she was in a fit of rage. Maybe she can plead temporary insanity...LOL
Parent's should not beat and embarrass their kids on TV or any video - it is damn evil. Back years ago you never heard of parent's trying to put disciplining their child in public especially when the whole world can see and it will later taunt and haunt that child. These parents are pure demonic dong this and they are deceiving themselves that they have a right to do this. God is going to get these hideous parents. Someone needs to whip the ass of these parents doing these things on TV.
oh but you got whooped in front of your friends or by neighbor , then mom, then dad! How about 2 or 3 whoopings that day! Check it - you did wrong in school and the principal whoop u , then mom, then dad, hey some of y'all don't have a dad, so this woman has to be mom & dad altogether
Wally Smitty YOU DON'T PUT DISCIPLINING YOUR CHILD IN PUBLIC - ESPECIALLY NOT ON VIDEO you fool. I never got whipped in front of neighbors or friends. It is not right and never will be!!!!
+Wally Smitty. I agree & though the mom was wrong for posting it, there's been many times where a child has got a beaten in public whether they were in a store, or wherever. I just think mom let her emotions get the best of her instead of praying on it & talking to her daughter honestly & openly. there are a lot of young girls doing this in which i think reality tv stars such as joseline hernandez, the internet, social media, music, movies etc... for example are showing these girls the wrong way to go about respecting theirselves. the body is a temple, & we must teach our young women that knowledge is power. Get knowledge, and you will respect yorself first!
Woman. You are something else. Seriously @lovelyti2002 you are a very insightful lady. Hopefully women like the above mentioned mom are watching this and listening to your words. Love your videos. Been a subscriber for a while. You'd be surprised how your commentary on social issues such as this resonate even here across the world in South Africa. Keep up the good work
Internet ruining alot of kids. My suggestion is to let that girl go fend for herself in the real world. Make her earn her keep out here. Pay bills for real.I bet she'll run back to being a child then. ☺
it's not guaranteed she'll come back though, it's good to let your child have freedom but not too much because you might end up getting them back in a body bag
no matter what kind of mother this lady actually is the greater female (black) community will find some excuse(s) to blame the kid's behavior on anything except poor parenting. why? no accountability amongst members of that group. now watch them attack me for telling the truth.
+Moniqtee don't blame the father when the govt. pays women to be single and create dysfunctional families. as stated in my previous comment. single mothers will point to ANY other reasons other than personal responsibilities & parental accountability for F'd up children. single motherhood is about the worse thing that can happen to a child.
Poor parenting has everything to do with how children behave. I don't care if it's two parents, single mom or single dad. I was married at a young age and I am now a single mother. Unfortunately, I left the father because of his abuse. But guess what, my kids are well behaved and they still love me and their father. I talked to my kids about everything, if they ask me a question I tell the truth. Also, my kids don't see me dressed like the last in this video, they never see me get high, they never see me drink alcohol and I even avoid cursing around them. And being young is no excuse either, I had my first child at 19 years old.
Not always. My mom was a shit person yet my grandmother raised me and my aunt to be respectful, intelligent, independent woman. It can sometimes depend on the person. My fiances father raised his kids to all be successful and respectful, yet one of his sons just stole a couple million from him so it isn't always the case.
I had my daughter at a VERY young age. My fear for my daughter was to follow in my foot steps. I learned that having a open and honest environment is the key, I never lied or made her feel uncomfortable about discussing sex, peer pressure, drugs etc,,,My daughter is 22 now getting her BA in the medical field and no children. Just be loving and honest with your children
Exactly!
+Nia Holland beat her asd again
great advice (: soon to be mommy here
She to hott in her ass take back yall kids fuck what the white man say
+Victoria Harris i demand respect at all times from everybody I am a man of respect I don't play them games with anybody respect me and I will respect you my kids know my daughter it's just like me She's the demands respect st all times and i love her fore that
You shouldn't be assaulting your kid just cause she's having sex. Plenty of people were tucking at her age including you. If you want to prevent your kids from having sex or getting pregnant then talk to them, explain o then why you don't want them to have it and then move on. You can't stop a rebellious teen from doing what they want to do. Just be there for your kid and make sure they have the protection they need.
You'll be surprised how many teens will listen to their parents advice if you just talk to them and have an open dialogue with them.
Preach
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Exactly. My mom has always told me to tell her whenever I was ready to have sex. And till this day I talk to my mom about everything. I'm very open with her. Communication is key. And I thank her everyday for it. Imagine if I hadn't talked to her.
+QuiNatural Jackson Your one of the lucky ones. ☺
Your absolutely right.
First off . Parents need to stop BULLYING their kids on social media to " teach them discipline " that's not teaching them right from wrong that's embarrassing your child & bullying your child . People should raise their kids better than this , this isn't disciplining them . This is bullying & will cause mental issues maybe even suicide . Parents keep trying to follow this trend to record and post . If you're gone do it , do it behind closed doors or maybe even try talking to them .
Yes behind doors thank you what happen to I'm going to take you to the bathroom
Everything is bulliying to Americans😭that's why American kids are so pussy
+Natural 'Fro' Life America is lit !
you are exactly right
I 100% agree with you about how some moms are jealous of their daughters.
Mothers jealous of their daughters? Didn't know that was a thing.
It is a thing. I've experienced it first hand. And my sister still experiences it with our mom. But she doesn't know how to be a true mother because she didn't raise us.
+The 4th Horseman it's different with different parents. trying to live through your child is jealousy
+Lynda Harris I agree with her as well. I remember seeing it with some of the girls with who I grew up. They'd be going somewhere like a restaurant, and it's like their moms would be trying to out-dress them. Not only that, but the moms would adopt these juvenile flirty/ cutesy mannerisms that weren't appropriate for their age. It was embarrassing to watch and made me feel uncomfortable...
Stokedhavok the juvenile mannerisms sound just like my mom. She gets jealous that my sister and I have a college educations and jobs. She had body shamed us since we were teens (even with her being 300 pounds). She is even jealous when we buy our children nice things. It's ridiculous.
Your meme timing is on point. LOL
thanks love lol!
yes
+lovelyti2002 ti will you ever do a review on little women Atl
Lmfao yes!!!
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That was an opportunity to be a parent and SHE failed. This whole situation is foul.
+Good Guy you obviously don't have any kids and have no experience with kids but, if they want to act like an adult then treat them like one period. You should also look into some community college grammar/writing classes before you comment in English, to brush up on the English writing you think you know #getrekt
+a- boondocksaint- act like an adult get treated like one. So do you normally beat all your adult friend who are having sex. Cuss her out, threaten to throw her out but beating on her teaches nothing of real value. How many minds have you seen change through getting beat. All you create is unbalance peoole every submissive or super aggressive. I was beat and I'm not gonna beat on my son
+OhShay You do know that there are ways of parenting between being a submissive "friend" and being a full on dictator ? This woman is no mother in my eyes
i agree 10,000%!
if the mom was being a mom in the first place this wouldn't of happened
amen
@Frugality then again we have some moms out there who really try their best to raise their kids right, but some of them are just too difficult to handle. There are moms who are poor role models for their children, but their children look beyond that and come out to be something good. No matter how good of a parent you are if the kid wants to be bad you can't stop them.
There are some kids who come from good homes with supportive parents that still go down the wrong path in life.
not true kids have their own mind , parents can talk to their children until their faces turn blue , rebellion will set in and they do what they want regardless I have a 16 yr old I know!!! her mom feelings was hurt and yes she over reacted a little but 💯 to mom dukes I be feeling like doing the same thing sometimes I don't think she did anything wrong , wait until you have a daughter that's 16 or etc. those years are crucial to a parent .
+The Lea Rae Show I know right..you can teach and raise your child the right way but teenagers are going to do what they want behind your back..parents don't have control over what their kids do behind their backs
Can people PLEASE stop posting their privacy on social media?! Damn!
And another thing, where's her daddy at?????
Even if you say please they won't do it. Some people just have to be attention whores and get their 15 minutes
+Missy Villanueva ..... of Shame.
+H-Man you are so so funny answer when I send you this okay think you so so so so so so much!!!!!!!!.
Krischell Anne Yes.
There's discipline and then there's abuse. A lot of people don't seem to know the difference. Furthermore, teenage girls having sex is usually because of a lack of love in their lives especially from a father figure, or sexual abuse or low self esteem. It's never anything that a beating can fix.
+Lakia Dickerson Until you've counselled as many teens as I have, you have no business contradicting.
+Lakia Dickerson beating kids half to death is not the answer
+kenway leviathian no one said it was. I completely agree with Lakia in that the original commenter's reasoning behind teenage girls having sex was hilarious.
Agreed!
Girls have a sex drive just like boys. Let's not pretend as if they don't. Teenagers have sex because they want to.
My parents spanked me when I was younger, and it didn't teach me anything. Sure, I wasn't disobedient but it was because I was afraid not because I learned anything. When I get older and have kids, I'll never hit them. I don't know any other alternatives, but I know it's possible to discipline without physical pain.
And then these parents love to come out and tell me that it hurts them to spank more than it hurts the child. Bullshit! Parents who spank are parents who either don't know anything else that works or value obedience over free will and critical thinking. I would teach my child rather than beat them into blind obedience.
+No Madge if people can train dogs, which we can't even speak with, to behave without violence then why can't you do the same with a child.
I feel you... I stopped spanking my daughter and sometimes I feel like she pushes it because she knows that I don't want to do that but I'm like you too big for me to be going through all that... If you ain't got it by now, best of luck. But it's enough violence in the world with out me adding to it.
There's physical discipline and then there is abuse. this mother is just plain abusive. Some people learn from it and others don't. Period.
Use time outs they work, or take away thier toys they will behave.
im sorry but i love the way you say daughter😂😭😭 "datter"
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lol that's all I heard...too cute
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me too
People living their lives on social media. Smh.
It's pathetic.
agree and these freaks get a kick out of it smh
im tellin u. everybody's trying to be an overnight sensation
But they have the nerve to complain when people regulate them for their stupidity. Then again I love seeing stupid people get their karma LOL
I just don't see why ppl feel the need to broadcast everything.
Yeah, just like my man that boxed his son, charges are going to come.
Totally agree. Unfortunately we live in the era of technology and because it's so easily accessible we document our lives every chance we can. It's ridiculous and I've been speaking on it for years and back then people were going in on me.
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Because they are narcissist. Google it. My mother is one and she would've posted my beatings online if social media was around in the 90s. Instead, she just called and told everyone that she beat me so they could make fun of me when they saw me. I had to start wearing long sleeves to school to cover the cuts because she had me afraid to go into CPS custody. Narcissists only care about themselves and the mothers are jealous of their daughters. That's why they beat the shit out of them.
I am all for whooping a child, but this is abuse! Straight up. Momma looks young herself, so this displaced anger is probably coming from her frustrations with being a young mother. I've gotten COUNTLESS woopens growing up, but never not once did the fist come out. I don't care how angry you are at your child. You never get that emotional to where you fight them as though they are your equal. And then to post it on the Internet????????? Now u KNOW child services are googling both their Gram accounts right now. Be smart when disciplining your children people. Woopens can be helpful, but not when the world can spectate
is this terri berri from nj that worked at acme?
+Alwayswatching2012 D Ummm...no! Lol!!! I've always adored the Ny/NJ accent, but I've never been. I'm from the north, but not NJ! Lol! Sorry to disappoint 😢
+Destiny Nesbitt If that's cool with you, you have that right. I personally think she (mom) went too far. She was livid...we can understand that, but she was throwing Ryo blows! Shhaaayuuuken! Lol!
Terri Berri That's ok Terri! i worked with a terri berri and thought I'd take a chance. I'm in South Jersey. I live 2 blocks from the Delaware River and the Philadelphia Airport is directly across from me. So, our accent is a Philly/ "Yo Adrian" accent not the harder NY/ North Jersey accent! They say actors have the hardest time imitating a Philly accent more than any other. Just a little tidbit! Take care sweetie! God bless! Lisa
Sha Gonzalez I'm really sorry to hear that, Sha. For real. That makes me sad to hear. I hope y'all can patch it up one day ☺️
The young lady isn't in lack of ass whoopins. She is lacking a father.
her mom and nia probably doesn't know the dad, to be honest....I actually know this chick in real life.
What the fuck you know about her father?
Exactly!!
+Summer TC Well said.
is she ok today?
People are saying that the girl is lacking a father, but I don't think it's really that. My father wasn't around, it's social media, and fellow teens growing up far too fast ect. I think the father thing could be part of it, but I don't think that's the real reason.
thank you, i totally agree, i also grew up without a father, and it is what it is, i feel like girls want to grow up way to fast, without actually being mature mentally first.
+swerve *too
Most black ppl don't have fathers LOL Pathetic.
+graffProdigy your you commented that ignorant stuff on the wrong persons comment, cause that's not true. Keep it to yourself and stop hiding behind a keyboard 👍🏽
I agree, I think she lacks caring and nurturing, and mostly attention from both parents. Children seek attention from anywhere else when they're not getting it from their parents.
God help us!!! It is so saddening to read comments that support this type of behavior. This family needs help. Social services needs to be notified. Here is mom who does not want her daughter to go down the wrong road but clearly needs some guidance on how to handle the situation. Anyone who supports this is supporting abuse and humiliation of children. This video will never go away. I am sure this mom and her daughter do not want to see this going viral. Who wants to see their worst moment played over and over again for the world to see????
THANK YOU!!!!! WHAT IS WRONG WITH US?!!!!
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ITA Thanks for commenting Justask
the title alone made me click this video
lol same
I'm sorry if I was a girl in this situation me and my momma would of had got it popping
+elijha grey (YoursTruly) Same. lol.
+elijha grey (YoursTruly) 😂😂😂😂
Ti: "and of course, this took place in.."
Me: RATCHET ASSSSS FLORIDA????!!?
Ti: "Facebook."
Me: oh.
I feel you gurl I was like that too
lmaoooo this comment is too funny!! 😂😂
lmao! i'm done👻
Hahahaha!
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She deserved the whooping but she doesn't have to punch her & put in on live
I agree this woman went way overboard, nobody deserves that. I cannot believe she was punching her in the stomach, face, arms for over 4 minutes.
Wow, it looked like she was having a fist fight but only one sided because the girl not once hit her back.
true dat
If parents took more interest in what their kids are doing on the internet, most of the thing that are happening on there wouldn't. I feel that the parent had every right to do what she did but I think airing it will hurt her possibly. We need more parents like this in the world because these kids are making Facebook into Thotsville and that's real talk
+Glen Hughes What would hurt the child is if she is raped by putting herself into high-risk situations. Putting on herself out there like that could make her a target for predators, STDs, HIV, and more. it's hard to feel bad for someone who knows better... however, both were wrong.
+Deeb you talk to damn much
Kids are a great idea until after age 4. When you're bold enough to post a picture of you and your boyfriend having sex on an open forum like it's nothing, you're a brave child. I would NEVER let my mom know I'm in the streets like that even as an adult! And these new kids want the goodies at like age 8. What's in the river water?
Exactly like I'm a 20 year old engaged woman and I still tell my mom I'm a virgin. Shit.
mmhm true
+HeyItsSunshyne Trust she doesn't believe that bullshit. And she knows about ur stupid fake engagement! Ur only lying to urself... Moms just play dumb to make their daughters happy.
Yep
huh?
I have a set of twin girls thats 12 yrs old, I could never raise my hand and fight my girls like that, I'm constantly talking with them about their bodies and how to honor themselves as young ladies, I talk to them very openly about sex and hopefully they'll wait til marriage. This mother has failed this child that's why she's seeking appoval in the wrong way, like you said lovely ti, you can't beat the hoe out of them, this is just sad. I'm praying lovely ti for your surgery and a complete and speedy recovery, God bless you.
Your a good mom. I wish my mom would Have talked too me about things like that i would Made better choices.
Awh thank you dear heart, my mom didn't talk to me either, but don't you beat yourself up about mistakes because we all make them. Tomorrow is a new beginning, you keep your pretty little head up.
+Sheena Becerra Thanks 💕💖💕💖💕💖
+Priscilla Walker you're so welcome
Aww that was sweet 😍😘
She learn all that shit from her momma :/
EXACTLY.
Stop it, no she didn't. At her age she is not only exposed to her mom. So critical!!
right.
Everyone is sayen that.
I'm a mother of 6 girls, and they all act JUST like me, why ?? because they mimic everything I do simply because I'm mom and they think everything mom does it correct. A child is like a sponge at an early age, everything we do they wanna do because we're the parent. The way we talk ,the way we dress, the way we dance, any anger issues we may have, get soaked up by our children, everything they see us do. I'm not an idiot, she didn't just pick up that type of behavior at school or while out with her other friends. If she has friends who dress like that and sleep with their boyfriends at that age and whatever else, she will most likely have already got it in her mind that it's alright. If you can't see the attention her mother was hoping to gain from posting this disgusting behavior then you're just blind !! Look, she posts fight videos right ? Well her mother posted a video of her beating the shit out of her daughter as if she were fighting some random chick who pissed her off..then posed out and fixed her hair smirking in the camera. WHO does she get her attitude from ? Her mother !! I have no problem taking blows from the internet while I debate. But I am allowed my opinion and I shared it, if you don't agree with me, that's your choice, but heed my words, if you dress like this momma dresses and act the way she does, you just make sure to check your sweet child's backpack before she leaves for school, she might just be stashing some sexy clothes to change into....
My most pressing question is what are "exotic attacks"? Does she mean panic attacks, lawd!
Anxiety attacks? I don't know what she meant.
Lol. I peeped that too.
I think that's what she meant.
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she gets urges to be an exotic dancer
If a mother loves her child, she doesn't humiliate her child in public.
a lack of shame is part of America problem. we say anything, we do anything, then turn around and say don't judge me. SMH
My Mom did......I started staying in the car...lol
+rozozzy 😂same
LiquidSoul
I'm not talking about shame. I'm talking about humiliation. This mother has invited all the people that her daughter knows on Facebook, to witness her daughter being violently punched by her own mother. Not only that, but the ugliness spewing out of her mother's mouth is a disgrace!!
Her mother is apparently not feeling any shame for the public spectacle she has made of her daughter. And like many beaten and abused children, she apologizes to her mother for something a loving mother would never have done.
Thats true! Now her business is out there for the world to see, and also her peers know that she has an abusive mother.
The mom was calling her a thot, but look at the mom's shorts. Children learn from their parents!!!
Those are just shorts. You honestly can't use that as justification. Its hot and Chicago right now. Shorts are perfectly acceptable when its 92 degrees and your INDOORS.
+Katara Grey So I guess posting a video disciplining her child is also ok. And it's scorching in Philly, but I wouldn't have my child see me wearing short shorts. Shorts are fine, but her ass is close to showing. That's not self respect. And parents need to stop posting videos of them beating their children, otherwise, suicide is next. They stoop to the child's level instead of doing things privately.
Well thats what YOU wouldnt permit. But the fact of the matter is: That woman is in her home, one that she pays for and if she feels like wearing extremely short shorts then so be it.
Also, your first sentence is completely unrelated to your comment and what i replied to.
Sade Tucker Also, you can respect yourself and be butt ass naked lmao. Girl Bye.
+Katara Grey No you can't have self respect and wear booty shorts in public
Who is buying her these clothes. Hell i'm 35 and don't dress like that!Her mom is prepping her for this life!
The mama is only 32...lol
OHHHHHH
oookkaaayyy... I skip that rack of clothing 👙👠👡👚
The girl has a job....i think she buys the clothes herself off ig...her mother seems to approve
+Adoredbyothers exactly, Ti kinda sounded like a hater in this video
I am older than most of you and I was raised with old fashion whipping but my parents never hit me with their fist or degraded me. I don't regret one whipping that I got I probably deserved more and there is no two people I respect more than my parents. I didn't raise my two with spankings just grounding. A lot of this type of beatings was passed down from parents though. I am glad I didn't do that. Beating her kid like that will run her into the first guy's arms that shows her a little attention. It will also teach her that it is ok to be hit. It will take a lot to build her self confidence and self worth back up after being beat and hit in the face.
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Same I haven't seen the video until I saw this. And I honestly thought oh dang this is gonna show what my gam did to me when I goofed. But never have they ever put their hands on me. This was wrong
it good for her who tell she to do DAT she to stupid😂😂
I agree, I could understand a parent being upset and scared for their child but this was way out of line. I lost my daughter eight years ago in a car accident and the things that bother me the most is the things I didn't do, didn't say. could've done stuff like that. No matter how good of a parent you are your short comings weigh heavy. This mother will have a lot to think about.
Spot on!!!
what are they doing wtf, she posted this on facebook and she'll go to jail. This is straight up abuse. If you don't want your daughter having sex or posting bad stuff online, raise her right and calmly smh :(
+yas yasss she probably didn't show any attention to her daughter so her daughter did whatever she wants
I think thats what she trying to do. you have some bad ass kids out there that are just right down rebellious no matter what you do to them. she have not done more then i have done to mines. a belt dont hurt these tough ass kids these days. hell she didnt hurt her hot ass. and i may add i gave my kids a lot of love and they tell everyone that, but i had one girl that just didnt give damn, i raised them up in church did all i could for them. I went from a belt to my got damn fist, and yes she learn the hard way. but today she is 26 she has a good job buying her own house and she always tell me mom i know i was so hard headed but i thank you for loving me and showing that them streets aint nothing and she doing good. I cant speak for all parents cause there are some sorry ones out there. but i feel this lady is trying. If she wasnt , she would not have posted this on face book, maybe this is a way of trying to make her child stop doing what she is doing wrong. but back in the day my ass got beat with cords ,belts, switches , all my siblings did , my mom and dad wasnt going im still here breathing, we all are. but now you even think about getting a belt or popping they ass, here comes 911 and dhs to the house. and you wonder why they getting locked up, going to prison, dropping out of school and shit. the government wants to control you and your household. But let me add some parents dont know how to discipline there kids , and you find them in the ER TRUMA UNIT NEARLY DEAD FROM BEING BEAT THE WRONG WAY. PEOPLE NEED TO STOP JUDGING OTHERS FOR HOW THEY RAISE THERE KIDS , UNLESS YOU CAN DO IT YOUR SELF DONT JUDGE. I USE TO TELL A PERSON IF YOU DONT LIKE THE WAY I AM DISCIPLINE MY KIDS YOU TAKE THEY ASS HOME AND RAISE THEM THAN, CAN I GET A AMEN. BUT ONLY GET THE ONES WHO ARE NOT RAISING THEM RIGHT, OR THEY ARE BEING NEGLECTED. AND MOM PLEASE PUT THAT CHILD ON SOME BIRTHCONTOL PILLS OR YOU GONE HAVE SOME LITTLES ONES RUNNING THE HOUSE .
you can raise your child right and this can still happen. the fact is she did this video because if her daughter can post after sex pictures on her fb in her house then the mom can post what happens when she gets caught. yes this might be considered abuse but think about how would you react to finding out your daughter is sneaking boys in to YOUR house to have sex and then she POSTS ABOUT IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA. anyone would have spazzed the way she did. i know i would. as for her going to jail, i dont think that will happen
+Lady Siren
no, there is no excuse for this.... and didn't you notice that mom made sure the camera was following her... this woman has major issues and is clearly abusive.
Her daughter embraced her so she embraced her daughter. Too many girls online act like this one hear. They act without thinking. And it makes them look a certain way.
Again imagine it was your daughter who did that to you. Don't say it wouldn't happen. Teenagers have their own mind and do whatever they put their mind to and sometimes bad choices are made. In reality, the way society is, this can be anyone's daughter. The mother believed her response who get through to her daughter and it probably did.
WAIT DID SHE SAY EXOTIC ATTACK NO ITS ANXIETY ATTACKS SHE NEEDS TO PAY ATTENTION IN SCHOOL AND NOT BOYS!!!! SHE CANT SPELL..
I was weak when I saw that! 😂
I just said the same! Like wtf?! 😂
Well her IQ is definitely low for sure😂
is your name really Javon Coleman? I know a Javon Coleman lol
Lazy Lohan from??????
Ti, these gifs you put in your voice over videos are too funny!
LOL thank you so much! they take alot of time, but i hate boring voice over videos. if i'm not gonna show my face i gotta keep ya'll entertained LOL!
+lovelyti2002 i miss the old way 😪
+Kahlyah Gregory same lol but she'll be back to it soon.
+lovelyti2002 this tea is amazing.
haha and the littlw video inserts!
The mother let her anger get the best of her after finding out what the daughter was doing on Facebook. I think the mother felt that since her daughter was on Facebook acting a damn fool, hell so will she. Jmo
I agree with that
I don't understand I'm 13 almost 14 and my parents have been teaching me about safe sex and all that since I was like 9 this is a shame she calls her own daughter a thot and hoe but doesn't even realize that she is portraying the same thing. My parents tell me all the time that they don't want me to have sex at a young age and if I ever was to that they wont get mad and hurt me they'll just be disappointed in me but the number 1 thing they always say about it is to be safe which I can tell the mother in the video did not do this it is a shame that a 13 year old girl knows more about parenting and safe sex than a 16 year old and a grown woman smh what has this world come to
***** thnx they try their best
Futureworld X thnx so much I wont rush like most girls and unlike other kids I actually like school (expect middle school cause I was bullied) but I already know what career I want when I get older and what courses I have to take in high school (which this will be my first year) and college most girls are too fast and ill admit I do like makeup and all that stuff but I don't like it just cause that is what every girl is doing I like it cause I like the careers you can get from it like being a professional sfx makeup artist and being a professional stylist or fashion designer most girls my age and younger have already had several boyfriends while I still haven't had my first kiss these girl are worried about being popular and stuff like that but I'm worried about my future and getting a real job to help support myself and my family most girls don't understand that until its too late but I'm glad I have the parents I have cause they are the ones who taught me all I know now and I thank god that I have both of my parents in my life and if have the family that I have cause who knows what I would've done when I was bullied if I didn't have them
+Marissa Gates. God bless you. I take my hat off to your parents because it sounds like you gave a good head on your shoulders. You keep up the good work, stay strong, and stay postive like you are. You are definitely blessed!
Yoli Reals thank you they try their best
***** lol you don't but it a little creepy judging on that we would have to give a place to meet and all that
This is abuse. If you can't parent your kids better than this, your kids don't need to be in the home with you. Now when a man or anyone beats this child, she will accept it as just punishment and continue the same vicious cycle. Another child gone bad. Thanks mom.
I don't understand why some of these parents have to post them punishing their kids.
its becuse they crave attention.. good or bad
Try seeing a bigger picture and maybe you will get it! Just maybe teens will see this and start having self respect and respect for others and just maybe get some damn fear in them about SOMETHING!!!!!
She did what she had to do to save her child Which no one's opinion is needed.... she is 16 yrs old unreal.
+Kim Lloyd do what she had to do; really??? people still say that lie?? people don't do what they have to do, we do what we have knowledge of.. she did what she knows.. VIOLENCE!!!!
She did what she felt best and all you are doing is trying to make opinions into facts... everyone is entitled to their opinion be it right or wrong... ONLY God is ALL KNOWING!!!! According to you... she turned violent and when you disagree you become aggressive, insulting and all knowing!!!! Have a good one. Can only try to converse with those that respectfully disagree.... blessings
That is child abuse! It was so hard to watch!
Fr it was and hitting a child with a stick and punching them is child abuse and she so stupid she showed her face on camera and she's gonna get locked up
+Devin Martinez agree that's child abuse. she really needs to beat her own self for not teaching and raising her child right. How your child grows up depends on how you raise her and the example you putting out.
I agree, did anyone call the cops, just curious.
+Deeb i think she's in court now. The daughter tried to kill herself after what happened
"yea i called the cops"
But WHY put all your personal business like this on the interwebs for the entire world to see?I mean, do people not have brains?
the girl probably wouldn't got caught if she wasn't posting everything on FB
+Kre'Neshia Allen exactly, maybe then this wouldn't have happened so..
+Kre'Neshia Allen Doesn't matter if she got caught or not but still, I'm trying to figure out why would you put a video of you spanking your kid on FB?Why couldn't she just have done it confidentially?
+Lana Lala Just seem to be the trend now for some odd reason. Just put everything online
I don't think most people are attention whores. But some people take social media too far and get off on it in a different way. I think it exposes narcissism, most people understand the un-written rule and others like the women involved take it to the extreme.
I'm only 14 in my opinion the mother did the right thing she didn't beat her either that was just tough love this parent is showing that she cares about her daughter
The teen is repeating the behavior of the parent. The cycle repeats itself. A damn shame.
Yes.
EXACTLY
EXACTLY YES THANK YOU!!!!
Everyone wants to save their child from the same mistakes they did as a teen or adult. The cycle doesn't have to repeat itself and that's why she is beating her.
Yes, the mom probably got that same beating as a child only difference no social media😳unbelievable...this is definitely why kids run away...This lady will never change... The daughter needs to be adopted.
Like Mama, like Daughter. I see plainly where that girl gets her "thotism" from. I highly doubt that the Mom has been a good example or has taught her kid anything worthwhile leading up to this point. The foul language & the way the Mom is dressed says a lot. I don't know why some parents think that their kids are supposed to "automatically" turn out good, decent & respectful - as if they don't have any responsibility in making them that way. That girl has probably been raising herself. Yes....this Mom is abusive.
And posting this video on social media makes her a criminal
That woman beat that girl for being HER. Both are starving for attention
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+FairePlay I wish I could like your comment a million more times... You said it all!!
hmm but she seems to have another daughter, who is doing good. do there is that
The other (younger) girl is just holding the camera. I don't know if she's doing good or not. Hopefully so though
I totally agree! It was ok for her to discipline her daughter... but she DID NOT have to put it on social media and make it so public and put her daughter on blast like that. It's way too much in my opinion.
all I have to say is that child came out of her not no one else there's a difference between abuse and discipline and she disciplined her ass she's the mother and most people know they got they ass tore up out the frame too
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I'm thinking the same thing to but you know all these people are not going to admit it
this is the problem with black ppl smh.. so hostile, angry and aggressive.
that's the problem with people, they think because you give birth that the child is your property. That was abuse, also just because for decades parents have been whooping their children doesn't make it right. It means parents don't have the balls to actually sit down and teach their kids anything, explain anything, or be anything. Especially blacks we think whatever we say goes and we don't owe our kids any explanation or respect. They grow up and treat their children and others in a detached hateful way. We expect them to know what we didn't teach, understand the things we don't explain, because in this shitty world we don't own anything and have no power we take it out on defenseless children treating them like property, and the cycle continues.
Damn, some of you sisters are so disappointing...
In her facebook post at 5:32 the girl misspelled anxiety attack as exotic attack......S M D H
Lmmfao 😂😂😂
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I noticed that too. The daughter should be reading her books, not posting fight videos and screwing boys on Facebook
Anyone know if they still make Hooked on Phonics? Sounds like that girl needs it
Look Damn if u do Damn if u Dont the Only thing she did wrong she posted on FB and went Viral that the thing with People Stop posting shit on FB U know its trouble im not mad at the mom at all she saved her daughter SO IF U PARENT SHIT THESE KIDS ARE OUT OF CONTROL..
No is cause People in General are out of control out here ever Race breed Age its too much
Grandmother and Mother of 4 Grown children here. Our Children come through us as beautiful Gifts from God-/We are to raise them in Love, care for, and treasure them. We do have authority over them because we are their parents and "protectors" but WE DON'T own them--God Does! There's so much wrong here---I don't know where to start. I can't believe the comments! We have a lot of work to do People-especially if you feel like this is alright. You don't mistreat or beat what you hold near and dear to your heart. My heart breaks for this family. So much sadness here. God help! Praying for them~
It's unbelievable that people find it acceptable to beat children. Where the hell else is it considered acceptable to beat another human?
Well said!
👏🏼🙌🏼well said
God bless you ma'am for saying this
God Bless You Also Sweet One!
Like I said before the slaps and outing her for this is fine. Mom was wrong with the hooks, uppercuts, jabs, and all that. I agree that she needs to sit her down and have an open discussion about pregnancy, safe sex, and ESPECIALLY HAVING BOYS IN HER HOUSE. Whether he was in her house or not, just to set the tone. My Momma didn't play that neither...I did it anyway, I was a kid too. She cannot keep her daughter from having sex it is human nature and she is growing up but she can be educate her about the consequences that comes with having sex. Once again, when mom turned into Balrog from Street Fighter V, she was 100% WRONG.
agreed😌
Agreed
😂😂😂 Street fighter I'm done.
agree with you
Balrog though lmfao I'm so done but you preached brother
They said "yo mama gon kimbo slice yo shit again" 😂😂😂💀
I honestly think the mom was right to punish her but maybe not live on the Internet
I would have taken all her devices and shut her pages down. I probably would have beat her ass too lol but in private not on the Internet.
Exactly
girl. agreed. the discussion abt sex needs to begin super early. like, at 5. with teaching excellent hygiene.
+Sith'ari Azithoth hopefully, you'll never have children with that stupid shit you just typed. My goodness.
+Ebony Imhotep thank u
+Sith'ari Azithoth you're probably right.
and just to make it clear, "the sex talk" is not just about the physical act of intercourse, it is also about gender, hygiene, reproductive health, the actual act of laying down is such a small part of it. sooo yeah, I think the sex talk should happen A LOT EARLIER bc there's a LOT to talk about sex BEFORE she actually has SEX.
shalom
It is a rare and short time we as parents have the privilege of raising a precious human being. Hitting, slapping, humiliating them is unacceptable. Perhaps I am just an ignorant old white lady,but I cried for this girl and I never laid a hand on my children in anger. I just don't understand,I just cannot accept this. It is abuse....my daughter and I (as well as my son) are kind to each other because I raised them with loving support and demonstrated how to behave. Lovely Ti you are indeed lovely inside and out. Thanks for your work I appreciate you!
I would have been upset with my daughter too. I do not think the mom did it for attention, she was just trying to teach her daughter a lesson by given her a butt whooping on FB, since she wanna post everything. BUT that beat down was extreme. She did not have to hit her like that and call her names. That was a bit much.
I wouldn't be surprised if her daughter wound up this way because of her. She's clearly no woman of class.
yeah super sad man can u imagine her going out and everyone in her city like dam u nia green that got whooped on FBLIVE sad, shameful embarrassing prayers out to her and her mom
+Joel Kaepernick-Russell she's a decent human being after that
yeah like way to much , talking about things helps , now how do you think she feels about her mom now? she could care less for her now ,shes going to run away with a dude and have a baby thinking she will be a better mom than her own and the cycle continues.SMH
thank you!! I agree
I saw that video and was disgusted. Fixing her hair at the end and nothing but bullshit. All she had to do was have a serious dialogue. Now if she wanted to take it a step further she could find a program to show her daughter what a teen mom goes through. Oh yeah! I too noticed how her daughter was dressed and was like really. She should've had that talk along time ago. Smdh!
"9 Besides this, we have had earthly fathers who disciplined us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they disciplined us for a short time as it seemed best to them, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. 11 For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." Bible, Hebrews chapter 12 verse 9
I agree 100%. That's definitely about more than disciplining her daughter. I know a few mothers who were jealous of their daughters, and purposely set them up to fail, including my own. Also, If she was being the mother and example she's supposed to be, her daughter wouldn't have been out there like that in the first place. And where was dad? It's his job to put his foot down when stuff gets ri-damn-diculous. That FB page should have been shut down after the first racy post. Then, they should have burned all of that thot gear that she shouldn't have had in the first place.
I blame Kim Kardashian
lol done!!!!
wtf does any of this got to do with kim Kardashian?
+Marissa Gates it was a joke obviously...calm down tf
minidiva16 so was I so you should calm down don't take everything seriously
LMFAO!!!
The mom wasn't serious, because when I got in trouble I didn't have a phone, laptop... NOTHING. My mom and dad took it ALL. Hell, I was lucky to get to watch tv.
This was NOT okay. That mom ain need to beat her like that ESPECIALLY not on social media. I get her mama prolly feel embarrassed bc what her daughter doing reflecting back on how she is as a parent but punching your daughter won't change nothing. If anything she'll get more sneaky about it.
The mom went overboard with this entire situation
I'm a teen just like her ...and I feel she got what she deserved because I went through the same thing with my mom and it made me better and plus the nia girl posted a status saying she's not mad her mom n she's glad she did it and she knew what she did was wrong so some ppl can't be mad on how others discipline their child
hey guys, this is the real Facebook page m.facebook.com/nia.green.90 . She isn't posting those pictures and they stated the gofundme page was fake. Her mom really has control over her page because the apology from the daughter is the most recent post.
wheres the video on that page
+class of 2016 :D The mother removed it a couple of hours after it happened.
really children under 18 don't need facebook I'm saying the people they need to keep up with are at school with them it's a distraction the social media following becomes more important than
+Erika Love So true
+Erika Love I absolutely agree with you!
I saw the video, and honestly, the girl's behaviour was inappropriate, and if I was her mum I'd be angry, but punching and hitting her? No. That is abuse. That girl's mum abused her and filmed it for all to see. I hope she was taken away from her mum, that was horrible.
Bottom line This is how this mother felt about her daughter putting herself on social media embarrassing herself! As a mother I would have done even worse because these young girls think this junk is cute and they need to see that their actions affect other people! Unless you have been in this position there's nothing that you can say and even if you have been in this position this is This Woman's child not yours! Maybe the mother should have not done it on social media butt Miss Nia Green deserved to get her butt kicked!
Any parents who record their child being beat or verbally abused and uploads it social media needs to be arrested and charged with child abuse. I'm all for disclipling children but the shit that gets uploaded is fucking ridiculous. This is why we need more FATHERS in their child's lives. The fuck did she think her daughter learned everything from? She's a bad mom.
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preach🙏
The thing is though. Not all fathers are good ones. I had a father in my life and he wasn't even the kind of father that he was supposed to be. Some times it's better when the father is not in the child's life and sometimes it is. From my experience since my dad is not in my life anymore it was a better decision to stay with my mom. But the mom shouldn't have been hitting her daughter like that. There's a fine line between discipline and abuse. The problem is not a lot of parents talk to their child which is something that they should be doing in the first place. At least when you heard about it all ready you know that you should prevent from what happened to the parent to happening to you or just in any kind of topic that the parents speaks of the child should know they have to do anything to prevent it from happening. I'm not all in for abuse or beatings like that. I feel like lecturing (which is worse than a beating) is more effective than laying your hands on a child.
***** I've seen them. Those were not fathers in my eyes, they're just as bad as this mom. When I say father, I mean someone who tells his child they are beautiful and guides them. It's disheartening to see so many kids without a father figure in their lives. I grew up as an only child with both parents married. The sad fact is I see more guys concerned with Jordans but don't care about their kids. I also know mothers who sell their food stamp cards in order to get bundles of hair. Some of these parents aren't like how it used to be.
children these days need discipline, no wonder they're out of control
I am rewatching this video. And the part where you're talking about hitting daughters in the face really spoke to me Ti. I feel like you're 100% correct in there is a jealousy thing in the mothers against their daughters still being young, and beautiful. I don't think I'm amazingly beautiful, but my momma had me really young, and I feel like every time we had our fights, she would always look at me like I was just this girl she was gonna bully in school. Thank you so much for saying that, I thought I was crazy when I was younger.
discharge is normal
Yeah from a gash or a gun shot wound! Not normal from the critch!!!
Yes I know sis;)! Just being speaking on the obvious!!!
+154angel154 all women have some discharge......the difference is when it's healthy and naturally cleansing, OR off colored and has a foul smell
+154angel154 you didn't speak on the obvious 😂😂😂 ... I remember being a 13 year old virgin who didn't think of sex and I still had discharge....
When will people learn not to discipline their childrenoon social media? If she cared in the first place her daughter's channel would have never gotten that bad.
I Feel Bad For This Teenage Girl!!😥😥😥
u know whats so funny? mothers advocate this behavior all the time, from a young age, unconsiously, putting their daughters in short shorts, tights and leggings, telling them to do little grown poses when taking pics, telling them to dance to songs with sexual undertone etc etc...black women have a history of over sexualizing their selves and their daughters, yet another horribly awful habit/ survival tactic that lingers in us from slavery. I definetly feel its the mothers fault because the girl shouldnt have been posting the stuff that lead up to this ie the twerking and tight outfit shots wth was she doing when she was doing all that stuff?
I could not agree with you more :) made me think...embarrassing her daughter won't work, because one day she'll be old enough to have sex with whom she wants, if she isn't taught morals,etc then what good was the beating?the Bible says to train them up in the way they shall go, doesn't say beat them up, says spiol the child spare the ride, apparently she didn't raise her well when she was young, you get what you bring
How about we don't sexualize clothing.
+Maia May ?? im not white. 😐
+Maia May im so confused lol😂 did u read the comment?
Kids these days want to be so grown up so fast. U look at a 13 yr olds page and they look older than I do at 24. They are posed in suggestive positions, cursing, talking about the "bae" or that "boo" it's sad. 16 year Olds should be babysitting and trying to work during the summer not posing in towels and posting the latest fight video. Kids these days don't even have a curfew or time to be home. Their parents give them keys to a car and send them out into the world to be adults skipping the stages of childhood. I'm not saying this video was completely right but I applaud the fact that she cared enough to do something to teach her that "thotism" is not cute. That's what wrong with teens today, the mothers ( not all) are busy trying to relive their youth and trying to be their kids friend instead of being a responsible parent smdh 🍵🐸
if you teach your child right they should be able to have more freedom as they get older. being strict and not listening to reason is gonna drive you child away from you. teach you child to be responsible with their freedom.
If you want to discipline your kid you don't beat her like that in front of the whole world.
+Kayla Wilkins Being strict is not necessarily a bad thing when combined with just enough freedom to keep them balanced.
exactly
I understand why the mom was mad. But to be on fb live beating her like that and calling her thot is uncalled for and saying she has a discharge coming out of her smh ...When she was in kitchen hitting her was just too far. Hey my mom was old school I got hit with a belt ,slippers but she would yell at me of course and later calm down and talk to me about what I was doing was wrong . Then in the end she's gonna fix her hair wtf
Only Jamaican children would understand the real reason of ass whooping and learn something from it.
Why only Jamaicans?
I'm Jamaican, and because stuff like this happen, I'm depressed. But Jamaicans don't believe in "depression"
The Lea Rae Show I said that because living in Jamaica it's normal for kids to get a little ass whooping now and then. Most people believe an ass whooping means your abusing the child/children. So most Jamaicans can relate to this.
Aaliyah no they don't all they believe is that we must hear.
+Shericka Jones
Teen pregnancy is also very normal in Jamaica. Ass whoopings don't stop people from having sex here, there, or anywhere really.
(My family is Jamaican)
The fuck is an exotic attack
😂😂😂 She needs to spend some time with a few books! Maybe she meant anxiety attacks??? Po' thang...bless her heart...smdh
Meeting
I'm weeeaak! Lmfaoo!
Anxiety attack!... she's just slow lol
I agree with you. ..with all the stuff her daughter posted, the towel photo is the one that upset the mother??..my kids' technology would all be locked at grandma's house. ..I've hidden my boys ' main chargers /connectors for days 😆
saw the video started tearing cuz i saw my mom aggression in her mom and im the same age as her and although ive never been in that situation ...............my mother has her mothers identical agression ..........
i wanted to cry for her and reach out to her but if u seen it then u know thee obvious.........................
+Don Rider i was younger and going through puberty and she felt like i would be trying her alot because i was trying to figure out my personality out u know
+Shaina Morea thank u much respect
+Don Rider but she would never call me suggestive names like b!txh and ............
+Bo PeEp she would get mad at me in my early pubescent years as i would be figuring out my personality and say that i was trying her but she would never call me b!tch or any other vulgar suggestive names
What that mother did was too harsh😡 you can't do that to your daughter. Do you know how many people under 16 has already had sex? I feel so bad for the girl😞 you can't beat someone out so they can stop opening their legs tf she needs to have a 121 chat with her. Fr. Smh😤
And she will never ever open up to her mother about her personal life. The girl definitely needed consequences but this is above and beyond. She cut, tied and burned the lines of communication the way she shoulda did her own damn tubes.
Haha Momma Got Hands 😂😂😂 Good Parenting Lol
+Mix Ce 😂😂😂😂
Its not really funny...
+Desmond Smith I Would Of Done The Same. Just No Record It Ha. But Do Me A Favor And Go Fuck Yourself 😘
CiCi Garcia If you would punch your daughter in her face til she bleeding and bruised then laugh about, then you are sick in the head, you dont need kids and if you do have kids they need to be taken away from you, shit like that is not going to do nothing but drive your kids away especially when they are older
+CiCi Garcia Its a difference between whooping your daughter and fighting her, hitting her with long ass sticks and kicking and punching her is going too far, if you really was a good mother you would prevent this behavior before it happen, she is not a good mother and from what I read you wont be either
The girl tried to commit suicide after this. That mom should feel bad.
on her real page she said it was not true.
She wasn't trying to commit suicide when she was doing what she was doing on facebook
I'm sure.
Her mom asked her over and over in the video "what's the problem?!" Um, maybe she needs a daddy figure in her life or a better mother? She's been twerking and fighting online for how long? What did her mom think was next? The way her daughter is presenting herself, she is going to be a teen mom or a teen with a few abortions in her pocket before she's even an adult...OMG, what is wrong with our culture when we beat our children in this manner and call it discipline? This brought tears to my eyes. This is why so many young girls in the "hood" are so hard and acting like thugs in the street. This is why they have no respect for themselves or other women. This young girl, is immature and doesn't have any idea of the real world or why she's being sexual for the world to see. And then the mom says "You got me on here making me look like I'm not a good m**** f*** parent..." OMG! The daughter is who made her look bad?! She made herself look bad, and the gofundme page just shows how "off" the mom is.
This is a big trend for black women and I don't understand. I think it's them trying to show how "good" of a parent they are and that they have control of their children. Im a black woman my self and I've seen this in our woman and I don't understand why. That doesn't make you look like a good parent, that doesn't attract men, it's not a good look at all. Treat your kids right. They came from you, they are part of you.
+Bethsaida Romelus I'm sorry are you black? Or are you just taking this shit from the videos you see on UA-cam and not real life experiences? Like as I said I've this is in OUR women as in I've seen this is real life multiple times. Read the whole comment before adding your two cents.
+Bethsaida Romelus I'm sorry are you black? Or are you just taking this shit from the videos you see on UA-cam and not real life experiences? Like as I said I've this is in OUR women as in I've seen this is real life multiple times. Read the whole comment before adding your two cents.
+Bethsaida Romelus and on top of that did I say all black women because me, my self as a black mother don't do that and neither did my black mother, so anyways.
+Bethsaida Romelus there's a huge difference from cursing at your child and abusing them and as I CLEARLY SAID "I've seen this in our women" I've seen many black women where I live at and multiple places where lived where I've lived. Where I've seen black woman over disciplining their children to make themselves seem like "good" parents and that they have "control" of their children.
+Bethsaida Romelus yes because we should go straight to physical violence, no, there's nothing wrong with getting a whooping her or there but if you're beating your child. That's too far and that's my opinion. And to add on to that my original comment was meant as black women who do it in public as to be seen as "good parents" and that they have "control" over there children. I've been in many situations where I've seen black woman who are overly aggressive with their child and will hit them or push them and then look towards me or say something of how "they know how to keep their child in line" like I'm supposed to applaud them or something. No it's not all black women but they aren't isolated incidents.
What this female (not mother or woman) did was reprehensible, and I truly hope someone forwarded this video to the authorities. There is no excuse for beating (not whooping or spanking) a child. I don't care what that child did. If this female had mothered her child the way should have, then maybe she would have to go Ninja on her today.
To not only beat her, but to proudly share this on social media in order to humiliate her child makes her evil and not worthy of being called a mother. How dare she! Social media has become a way of people to exploit others and to share positivity or negativity. Unfortunately, a lot think sharing deplorable things like this is going to make their video viral, and unfortunately, it will.
People claim they want an end to violence, but they really don't. The media is the conduit that projects all these ungodly videos around the clock. BTW, I did not and will not view this video.
For those excusing this cretins behavior, you are wrong, and if you treat your children the way this female did, then you are a failure too. If you want to be a good parent, you cannot be lazy. Parenting take skill, patience, love and understanding, and if your resort is to beat your child (if you don't know the difference between discipline and beating, then I suggest you find out), then you need not have children. Period.
I haven't watched your videos in a while..ur the best :)
You're damned if you do... Damned if you don't.... Your kids run around acting like fools, you get blamed for it, because, "Their parents don't discipline them....don't teach them how to act".... You discipline them, and you are wrong for going too far.... I mean,...don't get me wrong,...she certainly could have handled this better..... But then again, who am I to tell you how to raise your kid?.... Hypocrites will look at this video and say this lady is wrong, needs counseling, or should be locked up..... But then when these "bad kids" go out in the streets and act like fools, and get shot and killed by the police they "deserve what they got for being thugs".... So it's okay for police to kill these kids for acting like fools, but it's not okay for parents to beat them for acting like fools..... Like I said to start with, You're damned if you do... Damned if you don't......
It's not the discipline, it's the other shit surrounding it. Discipline doesn't require getting on Facebook live in booty shorts and a tight shirt with your titties hanging out. She can say what she wants, but the daughter got that crap from HER. There was no issue with the hoe-ish pics the daughter had before. The problem only came when the daughter posed with her boyfriend. I'm sorry but the behavior didn't come from nowhere. Nine times out of ten she got that from the mother and now the mother's 'embarrassed.' That's a load of shit.
exactly and the main thing she wanted to know was why she can't get money etc from the little boy.
Because if you raised your kids right, they would never dream of disrespecting you. IF you beat your children and treat them badly, they will turn on you and shit on your values. It's always the parents' fault, because parents are responsible for a child's personality and environment.
Always?... Nah.... Always is too.....definite. We are all wired differently, and all deal with things differently.... Some kids can grow up in an orphanage. Some because their parents died. So, through no fault of their own, said parents leave their kids to grow up without parents. These kids can grow up and do great things with their lives.... They can make a difference in the world, and help others.... While some that come from "good homes" can end up messed up.... Some grow up in the church, with "good parents" who are pastors or ministers.....and still go down the wrong path...... So no,....not always....
SHAME.SHAME.SHAME !BOTH ARE DEAD WRONG!!
THE BEATING VIDEO IS FOR ATTENTION.....
THEY ARE DRESSED JUST ALIKE....SHE GET IT FROM HER MOMA...
THE APPLE DONT FALL FAR FROM THE TREE....
WHEN YOU WANT YOUR KIDS TO BE BETTER... PARENTS ARE SUPPOSED TO DO BETTER...
I FEEL THIS MOM....BUT EVIDENTLY THIS GURL NEEDS AND WANTS ATTENTION...OR NO FATHER... THIS IS SAD.....ON BOTH PARTS....THE MOM AND DAUGHTER...
they are at home so you have all rights to be as comfortable as you want in your home. Next her mom is GROWN and with society being hyper-sexualized don't expect sensible children that have access to any media (i.e. tv, radio, advertisements, other children, etc...)
Truth McBanks YOU ARE CORRECT....BUT IF YOU'RE GOING TO GO TO THIS EXTREME....I WOULD GUESS SOME WOULD DRESS APPROPRIATELY FOR THE OCCASION... WHATEVER....ITS ONLY SOCIAL MEDIA....I DONT DEBATE... NOR DO I POST LIKE THIS.... BEST WISES TO THEM BOTH 😴😴😴😴😴😴 I JUST HOPE SHE IS READY FOR THE REPERCUSSIONS OF HER BEHAVIOR....ID RATHER SAVE MY MONEY VS. SPEND ON SOMETHING THIS DUMB.....
+LJ LJ LJ dress up to whoop your child hmmm
Jewe Victoria IF YOU'RE GOING TO POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA...ATLEAST LOOK LIKE YOUR RESPONSIBLE.... THE DOWNFALL OF THE BLACK COMMUNITY 👌👍✌...... I DON'T NEED ATTENTION😘
ANYWHO NO ONE CARES.....🤗🍷💅💤👑💍
+Azaria Anders 😉😉😉
You're spot on girl!! Very intelligent review of this and great commentary for others to learn from!!
her mom could of a least waited.till she.was.off of live.what the fudge man no child should ever.i mean.ever be embarrassed on social media it can lead to being made fun some kids even commit suicide she was wrong for this not even for hitting her but she was wrong for just embarrassing her on social media
she didnt have to.hit her with a stick but she has a.right to tell her daughter that she shouldnt be posting pictures online nude with a.towel she only 16 i dont think that she.was.mad that she had sex i think she was mad that she posted a.photo on facebook of her and her boyfriend at this young age im only 13 and ik my mom would kill me
+audrey parker her boyfriend Is 13
+LaNijah Moore thats nasty
oh she older than him
Now some parents be doing the most for some likes on facebook😂😂 Like who is you tryna impress?💁
i only found ur videos a couple of days ago. I love it!!! keep it up. Peace
Men have been fighting their sons for years.
I don't agree with hitting your kid in the face, but whoppings work for some kids. I think it was dumb for the mother to post it on Facebook, but she was in a fit of rage. Maybe she can plead temporary insanity...LOL
Parent's should not beat and embarrass their kids on TV or any video - it is damn evil. Back years ago you never heard of parent's trying to put disciplining their child in public especially when the whole world can see and it will later taunt and haunt that child. These parents are pure demonic dong this and they are deceiving themselves that they have a right to do this. God is going to get these hideous parents. Someone needs to whip the ass of these parents doing these things on TV.
oh but you got whooped in front of your friends or by neighbor , then mom, then dad! How about 2 or 3 whoopings that day! Check it - you did wrong in school and the principal whoop u , then mom, then dad, hey some of y'all don't have a dad, so this woman has to be mom & dad altogether
Wally Smitty YOU DON'T PUT DISCIPLINING YOUR CHILD IN PUBLIC - ESPECIALLY NOT ON VIDEO you fool. I never got whipped in front of neighbors or friends. It is not right and never will be!!!!
+Wally Smitty. that happened to me lol.... bur it stopped ive grown mentally
+Wally Smitty. I agree & though the mom was wrong for posting it, there's been many times where a child has got a beaten in public whether they were in a store, or wherever. I just think mom let her emotions get the best of her instead of praying on it & talking to her daughter honestly & openly. there are a lot of young girls doing this in which i think reality tv stars such as joseline hernandez, the internet, social media, music, movies etc... for example are showing these girls the wrong way to go about respecting theirselves. the body is a temple, & we must teach our young women that knowledge is power. Get knowledge, and you will respect yorself first!
+Wally Smitty maybe but it's wasn't in front of the whole world to see.... BIG difference
Woman. You are something else.
Seriously @lovelyti2002 you are a very insightful lady. Hopefully women like the above mentioned mom are watching this and listening to your words.
Love your videos. Been a subscriber for a while. You'd be surprised how your commentary on social issues such as this resonate even here across the world in South Africa.
Keep up the good work
Everyone it's so simple don't have kids if u don't know how to raise one. This society is fucked up period.
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You are right the mom need's a fucking lesson her self
Internet ruining alot of kids. My suggestion is to let that girl go fend for herself in the real world. Make her earn her keep out here. Pay bills for real.I bet she'll run back to being a child then. ☺
it's not guaranteed she'll come back though, it's good to let your child have freedom but not too much because you might end up getting them back in a body bag
FACTS!
yep live the real world-- Hard Knock Life
"Folly is bound up in the heart of a child,
but the rod of discipline drives it far from him."Bible, Proverb chapter 22 verse 15
no matter what kind of mother this lady actually is the greater female (black) community will find some excuse(s) to blame the kid's behavior on anything except poor parenting. why? no accountability amongst members of that group. now watch them attack me for telling the truth.
+Moniqtee don't blame the father when the govt. pays women to be single and create dysfunctional families. as stated in my previous comment. single mothers will point to ANY other reasons other than personal responsibilities & parental accountability for F'd up children. single motherhood is about the worse thing that can happen to a child.
go to church Jesus Christ love you with over your family and kind
Poor parenting has everything to do with how children behave. I don't care if it's two parents, single mom or single dad. I was married at a young age and I am now a single mother. Unfortunately, I left the father because of his abuse. But guess what, my kids are well behaved and they still love me and their father. I talked to my kids about everything, if they ask me a question I tell the truth. Also, my kids don't see me dressed like the last in this video, they never see me get high, they never see me drink alcohol and I even avoid cursing around them. And being young is no excuse either, I had my first child at 19 years old.
Too bad you couldn't find the mothers fb page. I'm sure she would have some interesting picks. Could be a case of daughter like mother!
fruit don't fall far from the tree
Aren't they basically dressed alike ?That's what the mother chose to go live on Facebook in come on js
+tara mcanelly it's called house clothes. Wtf?
Not for social media.. Use some common sense.
The daughter will grow up to be exactly like her
That parent needs more God in her life. Her behavior was inexcusable.
That's a well deserved ass whooping!
Tru
yeah
Nah! That is not how you whoop a child.
true
real talk
All I'm saying is you are a reflection of your mother
Or the person that raised you
Not always. My mom was a shit person yet my grandmother raised me and my aunt to be respectful, intelligent, independent woman. It can sometimes depend on the person. My fiances father raised his kids to all be successful and respectful, yet one of his sons just stole a couple million from him so it isn't always the case.