Thanks for your response if you see the title I mentioned question marks which means the title was a question. In a nutshell I mean is she saying 'no' to marriage hope you understand
I agree what sharon said but I believe we have to obey what GOD says. Whether he wants to get married or not. If he wants us to get married he will show his chosen one. The thing is that we should ask him to show our life partner. its not about love or arranged marriage. it's about GOD's destined marriage. GOD's choice is the best.🙏❤️
Absolutely wrong take. God gives you the desire of your heart. He will never force you to get married. In fact the Bible says it's better to be alone in the new testament. He also honors your choice. As long as you are equally yoked to a believer.
Praise the lord Sister according to me how much we worship God, how much we love God, how much we pray God , these are how much important in our life same like it is very important to go for gods will and choice and waiting is very important it could be boy or girl she has taken right deletion 👍
Absolutely true. Believe in THE LORD YESHUVA. Stand up for values and respect parents who are GOD fearing and loving. GOD will lead the parents to bless a Holy matrimony. Isaiah 34:16
Again when you obey ... listen to your parents .... and Have faith God will lead you to right partner whom we like and then there won't be anyone to force or protest against rights... there's no need for that God is above all my dear daughter. Ease your heart ❤.
Saying no to marriage or arrange marriage and waiting until you heart feel, is something many can't do. It's a privilege. And I agree casteism, colorism, and dowry are being in marriage. But many are okay with it and don't find it difficult. I too would like to meet a person in more natural way. But our thoughts may not be Christ thought. And I think one solution is to pray. I should pray too.
I think she is going to marry foreigner superb god bless you Really you're different person from you're family I like you're policy sharon God bless you
Not all arranged marriages are materialistic and not all love marriages are not materialistic. If you are a Christian you can find a Godly life parter by the will of God in the way He leads you. It could be arranged or love marriage. May be the Dhinakarans made it look only materialistic.
I am glad to hear one part from Sharon specifically that certainly is unfair on Dr. DGS Paul Dinakaran to follow Dowry system in an alliance! Convincted! I pray to God that such Pastors refrain for the name of God to remain true and good!
It's good that she is independent. She is a thinker! What she is saying is right. Hope a good loving boy here in India with the same attitudes and thinking to marry a girl apart from Christian religious perspective but to honour God and respect the values of his partner. And not finding about the caste but to accept her as who she is! No expectations about money in the form of dowry.. jewellery.. property.. but to earn by working hard to provide for his own family! Love..respect.. faith..honour.. patience..peace..self control..are the most valuable things in life rather than the unfruitful worldly things! Let's hope Thy loving kindness is better than life!
The good boy that she has a reciprocal relationship based on God's love could be from any part of the world! Many Europeans make for much better husbands than the lawless, shameless dowry-seeking Indian renegades..
Her fathers business is private. So she owns a good chunk of money. she is no willy nilly when it comes to loot. she has the money to buy a basket ball team
Not all the love marriages are greatly successful and all the arranged marriages are utter failures. It is God who grants a partner to lead a God loving life.Definitely a life is not going to be bed of roses but if you are a God chosen couple either by love or arranged marriages you will easily jump over the hurdles and be a blessing to many. ""SPEND OR OFFER 100 HOURS OF PRAISES TO GOD FOR YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE. HE OR SHE WILL SURVIVE IF CHOSEN BY GOD OTHERWISE RUN AWAY OR SOMETIMES DIE EVEN.". I quote the above from my personal experience.
As Christians it’s important to make God the center of everything! I see a bit of fear in this conversation and fear is not from God! When you seek a partner for marriage trust in God and look at examples in Bible… this may help. Proverbs 3 might help in this dilemma! Part and ask your Heavenly Father to provide. God does everything for your best! He will never harm you. Trust Him. Who are we to asses risk… we should asses sin and stay away! God is the risk manager
Sharon,you are so wise and may God bless you to fulfill all your desires.Loyally you speak and I respect your opinion. I pray for your blessed future ! Go on .. God is with you . Stay safe!🎉
God's will is Nothing but our like ness...sadly simply people will say always God's will...They choose themselves oro Highfy girl or boy in the sense their beauty, status,education, property, rich ness,High name ,fame position in the society etc having stepped forward ...Name sake they say this is God's will...ln few them we can see cheating also...They see their priority n moving forward that's all ..Here there is no God's will..God gave free will..most of them Going through this only...l can say boldly...
You are right in some parts as some people just says .. but they do their own.. however I know personally some people they really wait and in prayer and get advices from experienced / spiritual mentors before they take big decisions
God will give people the choice whether to marry or not & whom to marry. Every person is different and hence every person will have their own special criteria to choose a partner. Remember there is always a free will.God will not interfere in our choices as long as we don't make a sinful decision..God is like a gentlemen, he doesn't demand, he only guides..
Love marriage or arranged marriage both the partners should understand,love ,respect, care, and give space u should accept the differences and and appreciate the similarities.. its been 10 years first tym I liked the gift which he got for me for my bday last week.. it took 10 yrs for him.. what ever happens marriage is only once.. he always says.. we fight like cat and the rat end of the day.. he talks to me.. with zero perc ego...
But meeting that strangers, travelling with that person eventually learning of a relationship is what the beauty of arranged marriage. Yes I agree that all arranged /love marriages doesn't end up beautifully. But that's life!!! It's not if it's smooth. God designs in such a way that one makeup other partner's shortcoming.
Wanna think from Sharon's perspective of not marrying... Marriage is God's institution, not marrying can be our choice or dedication to serve God...but God never said don't marry. People don't marry for several reasons some are good reasons best i would say not marrying with an intention to serve God alone. Her intention for not marrying looks more towards social issue rather than serving God without marrying in holy and righteousness...so her decision of marriage if shows towards SERVING TRUE GOD then God will be pleased....keeping the bogus social barriers and not marrying is getting away from God and involving more in worldly affairs will not get her anywhere cause such issues will always prevail and many people are working on these issues....and trust me results are very poor
SHARON U R A AMAZING AND AMAZING JESUS CHILD 🙏🏻 WOWOW U R A BRILLIANT ANGEL JESUS BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY TAKE CARE BE SAFE AND PRAYING I LOVE YOU ❤️ 🙏🏻🇦🇪
rightly put across. But wonder why we forget that we are putting an accent while speaking in english. You are born in India, and you should be proud to speak like an Indian.
In this generation almost 1 in 10 of my friends who got into both arranged and love marriage are divorced. And I'm in my mid 20s. India is also going through high divorce rates in recent times. Open your eyes and see the reality. A marriage whether arranged or love is not the problem. If the foundation is based on love, trust and Jesus, then marriages won't die
A lot of people keep questioning about God's will. But have you ever thought abous this, Jesus also fulfills your heart desires. That is also in the Bible. We can ask God for what we desires and if God wills He will provide it for us. Sharon did amazing rejecting marriage of money and caste. Arranged marriage is all about give and take, no true love through Christ. I applaud Sharon for standing up against these arranged set ups between elders when the people actually getting married have no say in anything. Thank you Sharon for setting a great example !
Awesome. So proud of you for voice out this. Bravo. God has chosen you to speak out for every woman that bound with this cultural bondages. Standing with you.Go Go Girl👏👏👏
a wise and good parent will seek the best for their child ,Bible also says parents do not exasperate your children, marriage is about God ordained relationship between a man and women, parents can guide but can't impose their choice upon the kids because it is the children who are going to get married and live together as much as abuse is breach of covenant , a marriage without love is also breach of covenant because Godly relationship is built upon love and trust, not caste and money.
Well said. She can choose her spouse; her parents don't have to approve of it, but they can encourage them. Marriage is a choice.I am the one who is most impacted by my parents' bad decisions. ...I am single now... waiting for God's plan to happen in my life
You will know the true nature of men only after marriage or live together for some time. Until then they are strangers and may even behave nicely. Beware of men who can exploit you and cheat you and most of the time women are the victims as they are vulnerable. Arranged marriage is when they try to know both partners and families well and come to an agreement to join and is different from forced marriages done for unjustified reasons. It doesn’t matter whether the relationship is an arranged one or not much if you are wise strong and have the ability to judge others well and face consequences.
Ministry doing children should be an example for the world. Not for the people are not for parents. The bible strictly warned to set example. V can make good conversations B4 people cannot cheat the Holy spirit.
There should be no topic of dowry and caste system in an active Christian life....not definitely in a preacher's family and when sweety's marriage is also going to be a love marriage...I don't see why all this topic is discussed here. A child of Jesus will let Jesus chose their life partner ,.. from any caste,class.....if any marriage is based on emotion and human element, relationship......then I don't know how ur going to squeeze Jesus into ur relationship,,,,any how this sister is one of the multimillionair's daughter, whatever they decide will be appreciated....and justified..let alone Jesus and Bible.....
It's nothing wrong saying no to marriage because apostle Paul didn't marry he was alone his whole life and said Paul said to marry incase one will get temptation so she is confident on her decision by choosing that path so lets not discourage her and bible never says not to have love marriage it's a Indian society thing arrange marriage happens only in India not the whole globe Christians are around the globe not only in India as Christian one should put God as a third person or else no matter it's arranged or love it will be a failed marriage so sad it's 2023 and some ndian Christians don't know some basic Christian knowledge and claim themselves as Christians God created love . Satan created lust plz know diff between these 2 . It's love or lust the only couple knows whether they are in love or lust not the third person in society
@@davjoesdaninnumber of people die everyday by managing arranged marriages to its common in INDAIN house hold. Arranged or love marriage you have to go through gods will he will guide you to right partner. No where in bible and even Jesus didn't say do arrange marriage it's my will. I think nobody needs to blindly accept marriage proposal in arrange marriage every body should pray for their partners if God says not this match we can skip that match .no where in bible says do love marriage also Christians are supposed to so find gods will marriages if you didnt your marriage won't be successful whether it's arranged or love marriage. If arrange marriage is happening that doesn't mean that person is doing gods will same goes to love marriage to.
@@davjoesdanCan you people stop glamorizing arrange marriage please we are so sick of those nuisance. Are we not allowed to say no to marriage that going to happen for me in my life? Where on earth these kind of stuff pop up on people's mind .no where in bible says follow arrange marriage. Most of Indian arrange marriages are hell everybody agrees to this even same goes to love. Then its not about arrange or love it's about marriage. It's something if u chose God designed person for you then your life will be fine If it it will be hell. If someone is doing arrange marriage doesn't mean they are true Christian and doing gods will. Same for the love marriage also. Nowhere on earth people do arrange marriage except India. Saying no is a crime here and even telling our opinion is also wrong here no wonder these kind of people exist. I pray that the future generations my kids don't experience this and God's plan should apply for them
As a Christian it's shameful to even think about caste, dowry and race, skin colour, let alone make a statement that these are factors in an arranged marriage. Maybe, it's still prevalent down south even amongst Christians, which makes one, um, aaa wonder whether they are um, even, um...Christians, to begin with. Okay, so she wants to marry someone outside this milieu and probably someone she loves or would like to fall in love with......, but in our part of India, most of the couples choose each other, so there's no rush and pressure to get married in an 'arranged' way. AND....there's no dowry and caste !!!
She, being from the great Tamil culture, it is imperative that you abide by flow of it. Now, she is in the west, makes her differ from the old Tamil orthodoxy...
The so called great Tamil culture makes men treat woman horribly and force woman to always subdue to men's needs. It's about time, people move on from tamkl culture.
An individual has his or her relationship with God. Beyond that, whatever ought to happen ought to be with the individuals' liking and God's consent or will. Above all, Jesus and the laws of God count. This stand would certainly be appreciated by girls in undeveloped regions in certain parts of the world. It goes against Human Rights and invokes the UN charter.
Please stand against caste in the name of religion in Tamil Nadu especially among Christians and ministers. God surely would get you the right person in his time ,however don’t turn away from God’s words you can keep it personal and private to glorify God.
God’s will for some could be arranged or set up to be arranged . She is good and firm at her point. I appreciate it. Her caste system is so worst which belongs to southern region also in Chennai in her caste ask Dowry if you say she is answering worldly why don’t you question to the people who asked dowry in that caste. I don’t want to mention the caste name here as most of us are aware of so asking gold in kilos is Godly ?? Her grandpa was a pure man of God though am not talking about Karunya / donation etc here. She could be spiritual in her own way not showing off out . God sees only heart not the caste . She is doing good. 😊
Marriage is the first institution God created in the garden of Eden It's God will that man should not be alone They need helpmete I am not convinced about her views and stand on marriage She needs some counseling
My dear daughter, I think satan cleverly close your spiritual vision. God created the family life.and you have seen living example of arranged marriage of your grand father Apostle Dr.DGS Dhinakaran, and your father Paul. Now you are young age ,so you think you can do anything independent, it is wrong dear, In life every problem starts after the age of 40s, i tell it from my personal, i lost my wife at the age of 48, it was a arrangrd marriage, god given me a widely woman, everything we sharing ,it couldn't explain in words particulary when going to church to worship our God, and going to marraige function, but now i feel lonely. So dear change your stand and you have very good witness of arranged marriage was your grand father Apostle Dr.DGS Dhinakaran and your father Paul, and God bless you
Emmanuel -- God with us, brother. In the world, you are he! Human rights aren't they God-given -- laws of man were basically designed after God's laws -- perhaps exaggerated as in the malechots, at times😊..😊
Caste and dowry in believers marriages? Its so sad. No fear of God in many. If the Dinakaran's face this, imagine ordinary people. May God bless her with the right partner. But not all arranged marriages are materialistic. And not all love marriages are ideal and Godly.
She's striving to put on an American accent. She speaks with an Indian accent when in India. Who is she trying to impress? Why can't she be natural. Just notice how she struggles with the put on accent.
I guess that's her choice. Whatever, it's between her and Jesus. If she has been upright in word and deed, feared the Lord, kept herself away from evil, followed his laws and the ten commandments and done the work that God had given her and been reading his word, praying to him and praising him, walking with him, asking for his will to be done in her life, then it will be well with her. It's all between an individual and Jesus. No one else can come in between.
Conclusion of the video voice over is not correct in a Godly context, it's never his or her choice to do what they want in Christain faith, God's will be done!!!!!!!
Isn't our wish is God's will? Haven't God full filled Israelites will over judges God put judges to reign Israelites but they wanted monarchy haven't God filled their wish over his will? Haven't God said ' ask ye shall receive '? U mean he is incapable to keep his word ? isn't asking our choice? He might delay but he never deny isn't. Some people ask wisdom, some ask knowledge , wealth , peace, health, good life, spiritual life and gifts, some ask job, business establishment, and some ask kids some people ask only God ' and some ask life partner But some people ask at only one particular person him or her to be as their life partner while some ask nobody to be in their life except Jesus .. Haven't you seen many choices over there . If it's really not about our choice what to ask and what to believe In Christian faith then what are we supposed to do ask? Haven't God made us free? We are free by knowing truth John 8:32 which means the truth is Jesus. Then a free person is not allowed to have an opinion and choice? What we select to ask is actually what we get . In other words what we need is what we gonna ask God then how come it's not our choice? God never forcefully do his will on us because he is capable of doing everything . he was never restricted to do ONLY HIS WILL on people without their willingness and choice but the actual thing is we need to find what is his will and we have to be aware of what we ask because he is responsible for our choice . But that doesnt mean he gonna leave us for what we did but we are supposed take that as advanatge
The law of God is the love of God. The creation of God is the love of God. The creatures which do not follow the laws of God should learn to love the laws of God.
Thank you for this vedio, but you have to give a honest title. She said no to arranged marriage.
Thanks for your response if you see the title I mentioned question marks which means the title was a question. In a nutshell I mean is she saying 'no' to marriage hope you understand
Thanks for your reply
Seeking God's Will is the best answer in this regard.
Ones minds opens freely when God's will shows the right person is there.
Good decision Sharon. I support you 💯 percent
I agree what sharon said but I believe we have to obey what GOD says. Whether he wants to get married or not. If he wants us to get married he will show his chosen one. The thing is that we should ask him to show our life partner. its not about love or arranged marriage. it's about GOD's destined marriage. GOD's choice is the best.🙏❤️
Absolutely wrong take. God gives you the desire of your heart. He will never force you to get married. In fact the Bible says it's better to be alone in the new testament. He also honors your choice. As long as you are equally yoked to a believer.
Praise the lord Sister according to me how much we worship God, how much we love God, how much we pray God , these are how much important in our life same like it is very important to go for gods will and choice and waiting is very important it could be boy or girl she has taken right deletion 👍
Absolutely true. Believe in THE LORD YESHUVA. Stand up for values and respect parents who are GOD fearing and loving. GOD will lead the parents to bless a Holy matrimony. Isaiah 34:16
What u said is Absolutely RIGHT
Marrying and giving in marriage against the Individuals' and God's will has to be punished by law -- civil and ecumenical.
Proud of you Sharon..One has to feel right about the union of marriage for sure..Saying NO is way better than a hasty decision.
Fantastic Sharon you taking right decision this is your marriage your choice please post more videos it is benefit to many young girls and boys
Salute you for taking this bold decision knowing that you have a very supportive loving family. God be with you
I agree, you should marry someone that loves you and you also love.
Brave girl, Stick on to your choices... Let everything come to you in gods time..Best wishes as always...
Again when you obey ... listen to your parents .... and Have faith God will lead you to right partner whom we like and then there won't be anyone to force or protest against rights... there's no need for that God is above all my dear daughter. Ease your heart ❤.
Hi sister sharon surely jesus will know whom to marry. Jesus will always safeguard you
Yes You have the right to choose your life partner according the will Of God .
Emotions are short term, compatability is long term.
May GOD bring her the one that HE has for her
Saying no to marriage or arrange marriage and waiting until you heart feel, is something many can't do. It's a privilege. And I agree casteism, colorism, and dowry are being in marriage. But many are okay with it and don't find it difficult. I too would like to meet a person in more natural way. But our thoughts may not be Christ thought. And I think one solution is to pray. I should pray too.
Proud of you, as an adult you know your God and God's will for you ❤️. GOD BLESS
I think she is going to marry foreigner superb god bless you
Really you're different person from you're family
I like you're policy sharon
God bless you
Thank sister god bless you u r very wise and courageous women stay safe
Not all arranged marriages are materialistic and not all love marriages are not materialistic. If you are a Christian you can find a Godly life parter by the will of God in the way He leads you. It could be arranged or love marriage. May be the Dhinakarans made it look only materialistic.
😂 great reply
Haha well said 😂😂
You have grown up before me..loved watching your family.. Love from Hyderabad India ..
I am glad to hear one part from Sharon specifically that certainly is unfair on Dr. DGS Paul Dinakaran to follow Dowry system in an alliance! Convincted! I pray to God that such Pastors refrain for the name of God to remain true and good!
Amazing decision Sharon..... May God bless you with an excellent God fearing life partner.... This is my prayer for you dear...
Amazing decision....i respect you sister
It's good that she is independent. She is a thinker! What she is saying is right. Hope a good loving boy here in India with the same attitudes and thinking to marry a girl apart from Christian religious perspective but to honour God and respect the values of his partner. And not finding about the caste but to accept her as who she is! No expectations about money in the form of dowry.. jewellery.. property.. but to earn by working hard to provide for his own family! Love..respect.. faith..honour.. patience..peace..self control..are the most valuable things in life rather than the unfruitful worldly things! Let's hope Thy loving kindness is better than life!
The good boy that she has a reciprocal relationship based on God's love could be from any part of the world! Many Europeans make for much better husbands than the lawless, shameless dowry-seeking Indian renegades..
Her fathers business is private. So she owns a good chunk of money. she is no willy nilly when it comes to loot. she has the money to buy a basket ball team
Good to see an assertive woman😊
Not all the love marriages are greatly successful and all the arranged marriages are utter failures. It is God who grants a partner to lead a God loving life.Definitely a life is not going to be bed of roses but if you are a God chosen couple either by love or arranged marriages you will easily jump over the hurdles and be a blessing to many.
""SPEND OR OFFER 100 HOURS OF PRAISES TO GOD FOR YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE. HE OR SHE WILL SURVIVE IF CHOSEN BY GOD OTHERWISE RUN AWAY OR SOMETIMES DIE EVEN.".
I quote the above from my personal experience.
Jesus. Is.. With. You
. And. God. Bless. You
God Bless You Sharon.
As Christians it’s important to make God the center of everything! I see a bit of fear in this conversation and fear is not from God! When you seek a partner for marriage trust in God and look at examples in Bible… this may help. Proverbs 3 might help in this dilemma! Part and ask your Heavenly Father to provide. God does everything for your best! He will never harm you. Trust Him. Who are we to asses risk… we should asses sin and stay away! God is the risk manager
Sharon,you are so wise and may God bless you to fulfill all your desires.Loyally you speak and I respect your opinion.
I pray for your blessed future !
Go on .. God is with you .
Stay safe!🎉
Wow, sharon well said 🤝👌
Hats down to you Sharon
Sad that she didn’t mention the will of God to prevail. She is concerned only about her approvals 😅
God's will is Nothing but our like ness...sadly simply people will say always God's will...They choose themselves oro Highfy girl or boy in the sense their beauty, status,education, property, rich ness,High name ,fame position in the society etc having stepped forward ...Name sake they say this is God's will...ln few them we can see cheating also...They see their priority n moving forward that's all ..Here there is no God's will..God gave free will..most of them Going through this only...l can say boldly...
You are right in some parts as some people just says .. but they do their own.. however I know personally some people they really wait and in prayer and get advices from experienced / spiritual mentors before they take big decisions
@@kollasudharshini1359 very true..
God will give people the choice whether to marry or not & whom to marry. Every person is different and hence every person will have their own special criteria to choose a partner. Remember there is always a free will.God will not interfere in our choices as long as we don't make a sinful decision..God is like a gentlemen, he doesn't demand, he only guides..
Love marriage or arranged marriage both the partners should understand,love ,respect, care, and give space u should accept the differences and and appreciate the similarities.. its been 10 years first tym I liked the gift which he got for me for my bday last week.. it took 10 yrs for him.. what ever happens marriage is only once.. he always says.. we fight like cat and the rat end of the day.. he talks to me.. with zero perc ego...
But meeting that strangers, travelling with that person eventually learning of a relationship is what the beauty of arranged marriage. Yes I agree that all arranged /love marriages doesn't end up beautifully. But that's life!!! It's not if it's smooth. God designs in such a way that one makeup other partner's shortcoming.
Manipur incidents and cruelty by those on power ,we need to rescue the victims and raise alarm and ban cruelty and people behind should be banned
I appreciate her .
Wanna think from Sharon's perspective of not marrying...
Marriage is God's institution, not marrying can be our choice or dedication to serve God...but God never said don't marry.
People don't marry for several reasons some are good reasons best i would say not marrying with an intention to serve God alone.
Her intention for not marrying looks more towards social issue rather than serving God without marrying in holy and righteousness...so her decision of marriage if shows towards SERVING TRUE GOD then God will be pleased....keeping the bogus social barriers and not marrying is getting away from God and involving more in worldly affairs will not get her anywhere cause such issues will always prevail and many people are working on these issues....and trust me results are very poor
God bless you sister and may god bless you soon with a loving and a blessed life partner
SHARON U R A AMAZING AND AMAZING JESUS CHILD 🙏🏻 WOWOW U R A BRILLIANT ANGEL JESUS BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY TAKE CARE BE SAFE AND PRAYING I LOVE YOU ❤️ 🙏🏻🇦🇪
Pray to God to show you the life partner and tell about your specifications about him to God and see how God will surprise you.
For arrange marriage she said no i repeat for arrange marriage surely very soon God will bring her suitable partner in her life in jesus name amen
Jesus loves you unconditionally
God bless you Sharon
rightly put across. But wonder why we forget that we are putting an accent while speaking in english. You are born in India, and you should be proud to speak like an Indian.
South Tamil Nadu caste system pride is Vera level, especially among intermediate castes. Christian or Hindu, caste system is Vera level
God. Be. With. You. Amen
But, people in the US marry the way they like. But, that is where there is high divorce rate 😂
Exactly….! Poor foundations, nothing godly it’s why.
In this generation almost 1 in 10 of my friends who got into both arranged and love marriage are divorced. And I'm in my mid 20s. India is also going through high divorce rates in recent times. Open your eyes and see the reality. A marriage whether arranged or love is not the problem. If the foundation is based on love, trust and Jesus, then marriages won't die
@@கசடதபற-ற5ல My eyes are open only. You get married first. Then, your eyes will also be opened 🤑 Wait until then.
A lot of people keep questioning about God's will. But have you ever thought abous this, Jesus also fulfills your heart desires. That is also in the Bible. We can ask God for what we desires and if God wills He will provide it for us. Sharon did amazing rejecting marriage of money and caste. Arranged marriage is all about give and take, no true love through Christ.
I applaud Sharon for standing up against these arranged set ups between elders when the people actually getting married have no say in anything. Thank you Sharon for setting a great example !
Well Said
Yes Sharon since long time I was thinking about you now little bit clear now.please tell where are you and what are you doing at present.
She is in Los Angeles now and doing podcast and paticitipating in social works you can go through her youtube channel
youtube.com/@SharonAngel
May be she will marry later ....she is waiting for God's plan .
Awesome. So proud of you for voice out this. Bravo. God has chosen you to speak out for every woman that bound with this cultural bondages. Standing with you.Go Go Girl👏👏👏
If you do not get married, you wont understand the real problems of this world, you just keep on enjoying ur life in abroad
So we can pray for you 🙏
I don't agree completely..put it in God's hand completely...
Wonderful English
Very nice dision ❤i love you
Dear sis, wherever U can sit and whatever U can speak, but obey your Father and your mother and this is the commandment of God.
a wise and good parent will seek the best for their child ,Bible also says parents do not exasperate your children, marriage is about God ordained relationship between a man and women, parents can guide but can't impose their choice upon the kids because it is the children who are going to get married and live together as much as abuse is breach of covenant , a marriage without love is also breach of covenant because Godly relationship is built upon love and trust, not caste and money.
Well said. She can choose her spouse; her parents don't have to approve of it, but they can encourage them. Marriage is a choice.I am the one who is most impacted by my parents' bad decisions. ...I am single now... waiting for God's plan to happen in my life
You will know the true nature of men only after marriage or live together for some time. Until then they are strangers and may even behave nicely. Beware of men who can exploit you and cheat you and most of the time women are the victims as they are vulnerable. Arranged marriage is when they try to know both partners and families well and come to an agreement to join and is different from forced marriages done for unjustified reasons. It doesn’t matter whether the relationship is an arranged one or not much if you are wise strong and have the ability to judge others well and face consequences.
It's best to shy away from arranged marriages. It's rather scary..
Wow!
Did she mention that she needs to play along with caste, dowry etc????
Sums up their business as usual
God bless you
In today’s world marriage itself is a materialistic. Living for eternity has become age old myth in today’s family life
Ministry doing children should be an example for the world. Not for the people are not for parents. The bible strictly warned to set example. V can make good conversations B4 people cannot cheat the Holy spirit.
OBEY, YOUR PARENNTS sharoan this is God commandments
No issues her dad will give her willingly to another community as is common in her community.
Forced or coerced marriages -- pray against this menace propagated and used nefariously by some criminals in India who go after moneyed girls.
There should be no topic of dowry and caste system in an active Christian life....not definitely in a preacher's family and when sweety's marriage is also going to be a love marriage...I don't see why all this topic is discussed here. A child of Jesus will let Jesus chose their life partner ,.. from any caste,class.....if any marriage is based on emotion and human element, relationship......then I don't know how ur going to squeeze Jesus into ur relationship,,,,any how this sister is one of the multimillionair's daughter, whatever they decide will be appreciated....and justified..let alone Jesus and Bible.....
The Dhinakarans are in the education business and ……
Many will get involved in love by seeing her videos and spoil their lives
It's nothing wrong saying no to marriage because apostle Paul didn't marry he was alone his whole life and said Paul said to marry incase one will get temptation so she is confident on her decision by choosing that path so lets not discourage her and bible never says not to have love marriage it's a Indian society thing arrange marriage happens only in India not the whole globe Christians are around the globe not only in India as Christian one should put God as a third person or else no matter it's arranged or love it will be a failed marriage so sad it's 2023 and some ndian Christians don't know some basic Christian knowledge and claim themselves as Christians God created love . Satan created lust plz know diff between these 2 . It's love or lust the only couple knows whether they are in love or lust not the third person in society
@@dinakaran5169 n number of lives commit suicide by getting involved in love.... they end up in hell
@@davjoesdaninnumber of people die everyday by managing arranged marriages to its common in INDAIN house hold. Arranged or love marriage you have to go through gods will he will guide you to right partner. No where in bible and even Jesus didn't say do arrange marriage it's my will. I think nobody needs to blindly accept marriage proposal in arrange marriage every body should pray for their partners if God says not this match we can skip that match .no where in bible says do love marriage also Christians are supposed to so find gods will marriages if you didnt your marriage won't be successful whether it's arranged or love marriage. If arrange marriage is happening that doesn't mean that person is doing gods will same goes to love marriage to.
@@davjoesdanCan you people stop glamorizing arrange marriage please we are so sick of those nuisance. Are we not allowed to say no to marriage that going to happen for me in my life? Where on earth these kind of stuff pop up on people's mind .no where in bible says follow arrange marriage. Most of Indian arrange marriages are hell everybody agrees to this even same goes to love. Then its not about arrange or love it's about marriage. It's something if u chose God designed person for you then your life will be fine If it it will be hell. If someone is doing arrange marriage doesn't mean they are true Christian and doing gods will. Same for the love marriage also. Nowhere on earth people do arrange marriage except India. Saying no is a crime here and even telling our opinion is also wrong here no wonder these kind of people exist. I pray that the future generations my kids don't experience this and God's plan should apply for them
My mind set same as like her.
It's very difficult.
There is not smooth way in all life.
God bless you sister.
As a Christian it's shameful to even think about caste, dowry and race, skin colour, let alone make a statement that these are factors in an arranged marriage. Maybe, it's still prevalent down south even amongst Christians, which makes one, um, aaa wonder whether they are um, even, um...Christians, to begin with.
Okay, so she wants to marry someone outside this milieu and probably someone she loves or would like to fall in love with......, but in our part of India, most of the couples choose each other, so there's no rush and pressure to get married in an 'arranged' way. AND....there's no dowry and caste !!!
Hmm interesting character
But God loves you a lot.
She, being from the great Tamil culture, it is imperative that you abide by flow of it. Now, she is in the west, makes her differ from the old Tamil orthodoxy...
The so called great Tamil culture makes men treat woman horribly and force woman to always subdue to men's needs. It's about time, people move on from tamkl culture.
An individual has his or her relationship with God. Beyond that, whatever ought to happen ought to be with the individuals' liking and God's consent or will. Above all, Jesus and the laws of God count. This stand would certainly be appreciated by girls in undeveloped regions in certain parts of the world. It goes against Human Rights and invokes the UN charter.
That's all simply because she studied in aboard the mind set different. Not listening to parents bought a baby
Nothing wrong with what she spoke
Please stand against caste in the name of religion in Tamil Nadu especially among Christians and ministers.
God surely would get you the right person in his time ,however don’t turn away from God’s words you can keep it personal and private to glorify God.
She is speaking in a wordly manner. She is not speaking about God's will.
God’s will for some could be arranged or set up to be arranged . She is good and firm at her point. I appreciate it. Her caste system is so worst which belongs to southern region also in Chennai in her caste ask Dowry if you say she is answering worldly why don’t you question to the people who asked dowry in that caste. I don’t want to mention the caste name here as most of us are aware of so asking gold in kilos is Godly ??
Her grandpa was a pure man of God though am not talking about Karunya / donation etc here.
She could be spiritual in her own way not showing off out . God sees only heart not the caste . She is doing good. 😊
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Marriage is the first institution God created in the garden of Eden It's God will that man should not be alone They need helpmete I am not convinced about her views and stand on marriage She needs some counseling
Ever heard about apostle Paul? Is he married
When she is in India does her talking style the same?
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My dear daughter,
I think satan cleverly close your spiritual vision.
God created the family life.and you have seen living example of arranged marriage of your grand father Apostle Dr.DGS Dhinakaran, and your father Paul.
Now you are young age ,so you think you can do anything independent, it is wrong dear,
In life every problem starts after the age of 40s, i tell it from my personal, i lost my wife at the age of 48, it was a arrangrd marriage, god given me a widely woman, everything we sharing ,it couldn't explain in words particulary when going to church to worship our God, and going to marraige function, but now i feel lonely.
So dear change your stand and you have very good witness of arranged marriage was your grand father Apostle Dr.DGS Dhinakaran and your father Paul, and God bless you
You're going to marry soon
As far as possible, isn't it better to refrain from marrying according to Christ and Paul?
We should do the will of God...human rights is utter nonsense
Emmanuel -- God with us, brother. In the world, you are he! Human rights aren't they God-given -- laws of man were basically designed after God's laws -- perhaps exaggerated as in the malechots, at times😊..😊
Shut up
Caste and dowry in believers marriages? Its so sad. No fear of God in many. If the Dinakaran's face this, imagine ordinary people. May God bless her with the right partner. But not all arranged marriages are materialistic. And not all love marriages are ideal and Godly.
It is 50 50 dear.
Saying no to arrnaged marriage is way better than getting divorced or forcefully staying in a loveless marriage
Just leave her let her be happy. She requires a Western husband. Let it be so.
She's striving to put on an American accent. She speaks with an Indian accent when in India. Who is she trying to impress? Why can't she be natural. Just notice how she struggles with the put on accent.
We are botherd about her marriage
It's her choice. Not a third person's business
From where she got American accent 😂
Second child's are always adamant abt thier decisions.Good part is that they took a fair decision. Of getting their last child getting married.
Pray for her she is deceived
Saying no is not a right answer
I think lisen to God's voice alone
Sharon you can stay single and serve the Lord.
She is walking out of God's will ..and recommending others to do the same.
Because she has been in that shit and she knows the drama and how fake it's all about
I guess that's her choice. Whatever, it's between her and Jesus. If she has been upright in word and deed, feared the Lord, kept herself away from evil, followed his laws and the ten commandments and done the work that God had given her and been reading his word, praying to him and praising him, walking with him, asking for his will to be done in her life, then it will be well with her. It's all between an individual and Jesus. No one else can come in between.
Is God's will dowry and domination for Indian Christian men???
Conclusion of the video voice over is not correct in a Godly context, it's never his or her choice to do what they want in Christain faith, God's will be done!!!!!!!
Isn't our wish is God's will? Haven't God full filled Israelites will over judges God put judges to reign Israelites but they wanted monarchy haven't God filled their wish over his will? Haven't God said ' ask ye shall receive '? U mean he is incapable to keep his word ? isn't asking our choice? He might delay but he never deny isn't. Some people ask wisdom, some ask knowledge , wealth , peace, health, good life, spiritual life and gifts, some ask job, business establishment, and some ask kids some people ask only God ' and some ask life partner But some people ask at only one particular person him or her to be as their life partner while some ask nobody to be in their life except Jesus .. Haven't you seen many choices over there . If it's really not about our choice what to ask and what to believe In Christian faith then what are we supposed to do ask? Haven't God made us free? We are free by knowing truth John 8:32 which means the truth is Jesus. Then a free person is not allowed to have an opinion and choice? What we select to ask is actually what we get . In other words what we need is what we gonna ask God then how come it's not our choice? God never forcefully do his will on us because he is capable of doing everything . he was never restricted to do ONLY HIS WILL on people without their willingness and choice but the actual thing is we need to find what is his will and we have to be aware of what we ask because he is responsible for our choice . But that doesnt mean he gonna leave us for what we did but we are supposed take that as advanatge
Marriage is God plan for human beings. Saying No to marriage is dishonoring God.
Dowry ahh🙄🙄. Better sharon u didn't agree
Ya her caste asks for Dowry and gold in kilos. Even my relatives are part of it as victims . Better to runaway .
Omg
According to word of God love marriage is sin and punishable
What about dowry and caste system?
With God's will, it's ok, ..
@@mindofchrist2301dowry and caste -- do they still exist, really?? Aren't they unlawful and illegal?
Just want to ask, where is it written in Bible?
The law of God is the love of God. The creation of God is the love of God. The creatures which do not follow the laws of God should learn to love the laws of God.