Take it there now is supposed to be irritating. It makes you donate things rather than have to take it to your stash place because the donation box is closer 😂
My rule is touch it once. If I pick something up, I HAVE TO put it where it belongs. If I have to take it to another room, I also look for several easy to spot items that goes in the same place. Yes I make multiple trips but it’s so easy to not have to empty a box later….. only issue is I also have to be adamant about returning to the area I was cleaning so I can actually finish!!!! A stray toy…. Off to the playroom oh look! Hot wheels and legos let’s tidy these up….. oh a book, let me take this to the bedroom….. oh make the bed, look a dirty sock, let’s go to the laundry…… I’ve cleaned all day and got nothing done🤪😂 So I have to make myself go back to the original area.
That sounds like you’ve actually gotten a lot done! The items may be small and scattered over the whole house, and therefore you don’t see a big difference, but it’s all positive steps.
With "Take it there now", she also said to take a quick look for anything else easy going to the same area/direction. Getting into the habit of taking it there now really helps keep clutter in check, and more manageable.
Dana says that you can take multiple things at once if they all go together. But don't form piles! If you find something that belongs in the garage, take a quick glance and see if anything else also goes in the garage. You're allowed to make it easier on yourself as long as you NEVER make a pile.
I used Dana K Whites methods and minimal Mom during the pandemic. Success I did cheat a little on the “ take it there” concept. But, hey, I’m 75 and often make my own rules. 👵🏻
I think you have the wisdom and have earned the right to make your rules. I love thinking of ideas as starting points instead of set in stone. We all have unique needs that change from day to day.
That's what my thought was on the "take it there" concept. My mother's been trying to declutter, and I think everything EXCEPT that step would work for her because even the bare-minimum-necessary-for-the-day two trips up and down the stairs is genuinely difficult for her with her arthritis, lupus, and other health conditions. Maybe a compromise for mobility issues would be to have a laundry basket or some other container for "upstairs" things (or downstairs if you're decluttering an upstairs space) and when it's full you carry the laundry basket to the correct floor and finish putting things away. It still keeps the mess contained, and if you're not living alone you can get someone else to do the basket-carrying.
Yes, a basket has worked, then the next time I’m on the stairs it all goes. I think Dana is trying to prevent people just sitting the whole basket in the basement and thinking they’re done for a few more days… Then they never get back to that basket full of stuff.
@@idid138 Here's a daily subroutine that will probably work well for people with mobility issues. 1. Set timer for 15 minutes. 2. Start decluttering the chosen area. Stuff that has a home upstairs/downstairs goes in the move-it basket. 3. When the timer goes off, get someone to carry the basket up/downstairs. 4. Everything in the move-it basket goes in its place. If you run into Step 5 problems, the stuff that has to be discarded goes in trash or a second basket, the donation basket. 5. When the move-it basket it empty, the donation basket gets moved into the back of the car (or a cardboard box set aside for donations if you don't have a car). This "loop" is probably going to take 30 or fewer minutes, but the likelihood that you'll produce more than a laundry basket of "move it there" stuff in 15 minutes is pretty low.
I like that the "make a trip for every item" rule creates a built-in consequence for clutter accumulating. Next time you're in the bathroom with a fruit bar, you'll be less likely to leave it there because you'll remember making 20 trips in one day and now 1 trip today doesn't seem so bad. Or maybe that's just me.
The take it there now part is definitely easier when you don't live in a house, but a small appartment. Dana says she often finds things that belong somewhere two steps away from the area she is working on. Otherwise, if she has to leave the room, she looks for other items she has to carry to the other room with her using her two hands. So the trips get more efficient. I think you explained her two decluttering questions better than Dana did. Good job!
I very much agree with you, that one concept has made sorting through so much more straight forward and logical. I've been making doll rooms and accessories for them from what is basically used stuff and deciding what I should keep to use became SO simple once I heard Dana K White's container concept. I'm a much "happier crafter"!
Same!! I always thought that there was no point in getting a container, since my inventory of facial products etc varies over time. But I put it all into a shoebox and labeled it "Facial Products". Then did the same thing for my Makeup stash, my sunglasses, dental items, my backstock of vitamins/meds, etc. I haven't had any issues with that closet since then, and it looks so tidy! And my kids know where to go to find toothpaste or whatever.
I read her books 18 months ago and it has changed my life. I have tried for 40+ years of marriage to keep a tidy house and couldn’t ever manage. I still have areas that I’m working on but the areas I’ve already done have stayed tidy and easy to keep clean. Life saver!!!!!
I have tried different decluttering and cleaning systems overtime. I usually end up taking a little from each one and kind of meshing my favorites overtime. I would love to see a video on your favorite concepts that you have continued to use after trying all these!😀
I think her methods build really good habits for cleaning, etc. I now walk by something and instantly think "that trash" and throw it out or "that doesn't belong there" and take it to its home. Which has then made my actual cleaning SOOOO much easier.
I was decluttering my basement a few years before my retirement and well before I ran into Dana K White and her good ideas. I asked my cleaning lady to help me, I paid her and she helped on a few Saturdays over the next year. She ran filled donation boxes up to the car and did a lot of trips on the stairs for me. I had to make the decisions. She likes to be very active. We were both impressed at how much got done. She was also my ruthless deputy when I would ask her to help me with the "when might I ever in the world need something?" It was amazing to me how easy packing the basement was when I moved at retirement!! Win!
I've still got a LONG way to go, but Dana's method is the one for me. My OCD & anxiety kicks in if I try to pull everything out like most organizers suggest.
I believe that snack bar more accurately belongs in your tummy, and should be put there right away! But seriously, I like to put the out-of-place things in a small basket and when that's full I do what I call puttering - I putter about and put things away. It worked when I had babies because it's easy to put the basket down for later and it was actually an entertainment for them to be carried around while we put things away...until it wasn't! 😆 Love your videos! ❤️
Love Dana's container concept. It is what finally gave me success with decluttering. But I can not do her "take it there now". She's right but I just can't stand the feeling of inefficiency. TIP: Dana says when you have one item that goes to the garage or wherever, you can stop and take a quick look to see if there are other items that go to the garage. It's OK to cheat a little bit. Dana has books, a podcast, blog and UA-cam channel.
I couldn’t do that one myself! I would probably have a container to put things in to disperse to other rooms! I love the container idea tho! We are a work in progress.
Yep! I grab whatever I can carry that needs to go in that direction and then "take it there now." It works just fine as long as I don't set anything down until it's reached its final destination. What I *can't* do is sort things into piles (or bags/boxes/baskets) to put away "later" ...because later could be days (or years 😶) layer. Basically, it's the absence of a "keep" box/pile that makes it work, regardless of if you're doing "take it there now" with one item or several, as long as you really are getting it to the place where you'd look for it first, you're good. 🙂
@@maryclarke9894 if dealing with multiple things at a time works for you, that's definitely quicker. However, it's actually not more efficient for some people. For example, if you are easily distracted, constantly interrupted, or have chronic health issues where you may not be able to predict how much work you'll have the energy for. It's more efficient to have one thing completely finished than having to leave a bunch of things half done, which is what often used to happen to me before I started using this method. It's not necessary for everyone, but it can be a real game changer for those of us who have experienced getting stuck in the "messy middle" of the more traditional decluttering process for way too long, which can be incredibly disheartening.
Her advice about putting something where you'd look first was huge for me. If someone wants to use a screwdriver or hammer, they can find it in one of my kitchen drawers. Need a broom? It's in the hallway closet, not the laundry room where it's "supposed" to be. 🤷♀
Yes, exactly! “Where _would_ I look for it” is a very different question from “where _should_ I look for it” and I love that she acknowledges the difference ❤
Yes! My Tide pen for spot treatment is in my drawer next to my stove because most of my oops happen when I’m cooking. Is that a normal place?, no but it works for me every time
I wanted to thank you for this video, I did only 10 minutes in my bathroom cabinet and threw out a grocery bag full of expired stuff and garbage, plus donated a shoe box of items (I live in a condo so I immediately took the donation box upstairs to the laundry room where everyone leaves for someone else) I already feel better!
This video is a decluttering game-changer! Dana K White's 'no mess' system is genius, and That Awkward Mom's hilarious commentary kept me entertained and inspired throughout. I'm excited to tackle my clutter with this method and finally say goodbye to the stuffed animal invasion - thanks for the great tips!
This is a good question which employees of super markets should ask themselves. When I make 3rd circle around the shelves and finally "Oh this is where they put that!"= )
This is revolutionary. I never declutter because the mess it makes is really discouraging and with a 3 year old, 2 year old, and 7 month old, creating a huge mess is just not practical.
I know yes the mess u create... but u know what u should just do one section at a time maybe just start with your stuff like your clothes personal things. When u declutter yes u will make a mess don't get discouraged by that. It will get fixed. And with your babies it's worth it. 💕have a good day hopefully that encourages you
Great video... love your humor... :) One note, I think on the "take it there now" step, I think she says to look for other items that need to go to that same place as u go. That way if u see like 5 items that need to go downstairs u go ahead and take them with u to save on trips.
In the future, should you ever need an air mattress and pump, they actually make self inflating air mattresses with built in pumps that even deflate the mattress faster. I will say, I decided not to declutter my air mattress pump and I put it with my kids summer inflatables. Thank you for the amazing content as usual! 🖤 your “interruption” is the cutest! She has such pretty eyes and those cheeks! 😊
If you're unsure whether to keep something, the Minimal Mom recommends to get rid of it if it can be repurchased for less than $20 in less than 20 minutes. Its been a great litmus test for me
The take it there now step also includes a quick glance to see if any other items are headed the same direction, then you can take several items right then
Very cool! I was thinking that I had no decluttering needed and then my linen closet came to mind. Yikes! The approach of not creating a mess by clearing it out to another space is genius. I will enjoy doing my linen closet now just to try something new. Thank you, too, for always making me laugh and feel good about cleaning.
I also love step 4. As a modification to avoid going up and down stairs a LOT, I usually grab a whole handful of things that go to another floor and then put them all away right then. I do occasionally fill a small bin or shoe box to take to another floor at the end if my knees are particularly bad. It absolutely takes way longer to get that little box of things put away, but the space I was working on got done, and that's important progress for me.
I’m really happy to see a new video from you. They’re always entertaining. My favourite thing I learned from watching Dana’s videos is the cointainer concept, but specifically that your home is a container too, and that you and your family being able to actually live (happily and comfortably) in the space takes priority.
The "take it there now" rule really helped me get started on this life-changing process. I was overwhelmed, and just had the "aha!" moment, realizing decluttering and organizing are NOT the same thing. I was also healing from life-long anxiety and my stuff was rebelling against me everywhere. The many trips to put away DUH clutter has helped reprogram my brain to take time to put things away to save time later. I'm full of hope now!
Dana and Dawn's system is awesome. One of Dawn's videos is what suddenly clicked with me to begin with and I decluttered practically my entire house. Once I got started, it felt so good, I didn't want to stop. My husband, of course, thought I had lost my mind, but he's beginning to see the benefits
@@lynnej.9357 it's been at least two years, so I don't remember, but ,it's the way she goes about decluttering. I had been dreading digging into my closet for a couple of years bc I thought I would have to empty the whole thing and make a huge mess and do it all in one day. When she said, you can just go in and remove a few things at a time, start small. That was it,I was like, of course, why didn't I think of that. Anyway, that and her video on sentimental clutter, giving us permission to let things go, you don't have to keep something simply bc someone gifted it to you. It just set me free.
I love how you explained these. Dana's 'container theory' helped me get rid of a lot of stuff instead of continuously getting bigger containers. So simple, yet somehow it never occurred to me before. :D That combined with Marie Kondo's idea that the purpose of some items is to teach you you don't need them made getting rid of stuff so much easier.
Actually, I remember a video where Dana takes more than one item, for example, if you found something that goes in the kitchen, you try to look for more items that would go there, the take it there now is no mandatory to do one by one.
I’ve listened to her books a couple of times in the last year or so, and using this method has led to BIG decluttering success in our home! I wish I’d done this when our seven children were small. Instead, I was paralyzed by the fear of making a bigger mess.
Ok, I don’t have children, but if I had seven small children at home, decluttering is the last thing I’d probably be thinking about. My hat’s off to you!
The "put it back where it belongs" step is definitely not for everyone. I have seen her do something to make it a little more bearable though: She gets as much as she can hold in two hands. THEN she puts stuff back. Saves multiple trips. However, this doesn't work for me or my hubby. He for sure has undiagnosed ADD, I just have trouble focusing when there's a ton of mess. We for sure would need a pile. I think what might help is a small basket that can be filled with stuff for one area, and then taken there when it gets full. That way, you can still create a pile, but aren't left with multiple messes to clean up.
Yep! If I walk every item to where it belongs, I’m running out of energy real quick. Also, I would probably get distracted (I have ADHD too) and never make it back to wherever I was decluttering!
ADD here too, and yeah, I would get distracted 79 times while taking the item to where it belongs...I'd end up finding it later in an even more odd place, along with 16 new half-finished projects. I grab a few baskets and assign them each a room, so then if I leave in the middle of decluttering (highly likely) the mess is at least contained to one small area, and it's easy to jump right back in without too much thought.
I love her system, but as a disabled person I can't make as many trips, so I modified the concept... I have a basket/tote & look in the area for anything that doesn't belong, no matter where it goes, & pile them into the tote, then I take one tour around the house putting stuff away into the right spots until the tote's empty. Even if I'm interrupted, I can still start back where I was with minimal mess (just the tote) out of place, but I'm conserving energy so I can get through an area b4 I'm exhausted (sometimes)... LOL! For me, it's all about the baby steps & having it be "Better" than b4 I started!
I just love your videos. You’re very cute and very funny. I have been going through things here too. We have so much STUFF. If I live to be a hundred years old there’s no way I could use up everything we have. So my New Year’s resolution was to not buy anything this year, unless I run out of something I use regularly. But otherwise, I’m not adding anything to this household until we use everything up we already have. (I’m trying to stay the heck off of Amazon!
You can do a quick scan of the space to see if there is anything else that goes to a similar home. Aka, if you find a spoon, quickly look to see if there is anything else that jumps out as kitchen related
When you found the tools, you could have looked around for any other items going to the same place and saved multiple trips. No rules that you can only take one or two items at a time. Dana even says this, I think.
I honestly don’t know why Dana’s book and concept hasn’t blown up. It’s actually the easiest and most realistic one. I listen to the book on x1.25 speed like I listen to most UA-cam talk videos while I’m decluttering for inspiration. There are sooo many little good tips aside from the major concepts.
You are so helpfully funny and honest with sharing your own mistakes: i recognize myself and have to start smiling inwardly at those 'demons' who say "you will never have a nice and decluttered flat anymore, you failure!'. Very very helpful that my failures are a result of doung it all at once and wrong advice / expectations! Keep on doing what you are doing, dear!
I found that putting up one item at a time to be time consuming. When I use to watch Jordan Page, she had a tip for putting what doesn't belong in a basket. Then put it where it goes when you either finish or the basket fills up. If you need to stop, everything is already in a basket, for easy put away later. For me it depends on what I am decluttering if I need to pull out everything. I did my kitchen Thursday, some cabinets I pulled everything out. Others I looked over, I could see what needed to go. Then I was able to straighten up what was left. I like your channel the best for declutterimgg and cleaning. I appreciate that you try these different methods. Then give honest feedback. Also you have the best sense of humor.
👀👨🏼🦽As someone with progressive, chronic health conditions that now put me in a wheelchair, the MESS from decluttering has not only worn me out, stopped progress completely, but also made my environment unsafe to navigate! Must try this, THANK YOU! 👍😎
In one of her videos, she did look through the area she was decluttering to see if there was anything obvious that should go to the spot she was going to and took it at the same time. But she did not stop and take everything that should go out of the room, just the stuff that was going to where she was headed. Her method has been a game changer for me. She also has the method of setting the timer for 15 min and do what you can in a space. Really a good series to watch.
This is a great episode. I really appreciate your good humor. Oh gosh when my kids were young, the stuffed animals!! And, decluttering is my problem. I will check out Dana and more of your videos.
The thing that's helped my family the most from Dana's method is that you start with trash and easy stuff. It makes it seem less intimidating to start sorting through stuff.
I think step four is very interesting! Sometimes I can't say goodbye to an item because 'I might need it one day' - but then realise I forgot I had it and bought it new anyway. Never thought to look at those items in this way! Will definitely use that step in my next decluttering day.
Ooh, I used some of these steps yesterday while trying to declutter my Lil Girl's room. I bet adding in all the steps I didn't know about I'd be much better at this. Maybe I should try this with my boy's room.
I love your videos💙God has given you a real gift of making people smile and laugh while also giving them helpful info through your experience. I have to agree Dana’s method of decluttering while not making a big mess is great. I have always had trouble with the “big mess” It always made things worse than before so I wouldn’t do anything.☹️
Oh my, just decluttered my laundry & linen closets. Took 4 EVER🤣 Omgoodness, was full of "What the heck is this? I'll deal with it later" stuff... Uhg. From moving right before the pandemic & dealing with constant sickness. Arg, this year's gonna be so fun🙄😁 Well, at least I got started. Fixed my great room to be usable, so finally gonna enjoy my house I guess? Thanks for showing us this method❤️👏👍
Dana does recommend looking through the box/drawer/space you are decluttering, for additional items that go in the same or nearby space as your first item to "take it there now", and filling your hands with them for less trips. For example, I found my pen that lives on my desk, in the wrong spot...now I look for other misplaced "desk items" to take at the same time (paper pad, paper clips, etc) and add them to what I'm carrying, then take them all at once. Less trips and all dealt with. This works for "on the way" items too...heading to the office and passing the coat closet? Grab those gloves and put them away while on your way to the other spot.
By throwing away just one thing that you held on to and that you do not need anymore, you have already decluttered (a bit, of course, not all). And there is always the method of the Clutterbug, that tells you to just throw out (not necessarily away - i.e. into the garbage/trash) 21 things each week. She makes it at once, but if you do not have the time, do it 3 a day every day (even on Sunday) - it need not be big things, every blanket with moth holes counts. Which reminds me - I should definitely check my blankets ... And if 21 things at once seem too much at once, I once started for n+1 a week- I started with 1 on Monday, then n was 0. Next day 1 was my new n - and I threw out two things. Wednesday 3, and so on. Until Saturday. I took a rest on Sunday. This way you still get out 21 things a week *coincidence - but it's not overwhelming. On Monday you start with 1 again.To find ONE thing you really do not like in your life anymore is so easy. Adjusting good ideas until they fit one's life is the way to go.
I'm always excited to see a video from you on my feed! I'm a huge Dana K. White fan. I love the "take it there now" part, but I also don't have to go up and down stairs in my house to get things where they belong.
I just love your videos. So do my kids! You are so smart and funny and clever. A real breath of fresh air on UA-cam. I’m a new subscriber to your channel, discovered you a few months ago. Big fan.
I really love how she has laundry one day a week instead of a load a day. I do not have a washer and dryer so I have to go to the laundry mat. So a load a day doesn't work for me. I love her decluttering method. My entire apartment is all on one floor so just taking one item at a time is easier. But just think of it as getting your 10,000 steps in if you are still doing that.
As a 63 year old, I can attest that keeping something for a long time because someday I'll use it (like the thermometer still in the packaging) is erroneous in that, when you DO get around to putting it up, new technology has come along to make it obsolete. Consider some things require being plugged in now take batteries and then the next iteration-they are solar powered, or are bluetooth to your phone. So, yes, donate those items while they are still useful!
I decluttered my 2500 sq foot house a few years ago using Dana's method I got rid of 17extra large totes n tons of black trash bags. I we t t I the attic to the basement n all the way out to the garage. It was a game changer. Then when I decided to go tiny 430sq feet a few months ago I used it again. Perfect
i love the take it there now concept...it finally stoppped piles of decluttering mess that constantly overwhelmed me and just made an even bigger mess and reminded me why i just threw things in the cupboards in the first place...to clear away stuff...now stuff has a home or gone
I'm glad you tried it! I think my favorite part is asking "where would I look for this first?" - because it forces me to put it in a place where I'll actually find it the next time I need it - and if I wouldn't look for it, it goes in the donatable donation box! If I find something that belongs somewhere else, I try to find other things that go there too (as much as will fit in my arms) so I don't have to make too many trips. I don't have young kids, but I'm very distractible, so not making a mess is good for me too
No, there is a misinterpretation! Dana K White has a “Take it there now” rule, but not a “one item at a time rule” In plenty of her videos she will see an item that needs to be put away, and looks to see if anything else needs to go to that location. She just doesn't over-think it by creating piles, or feeling like she must get it all in one trip.
Oh my goodness!!! All the cute Skyla and a sassy cat all in one video? You have outdone yourself! I am crazy visual so I actually like dragging things out because I see the progress. There have been interruptions though and the chaos can be overwhelming. So I’ve learned to do a drawer instead of all the drawers. Things only get completely drug out when it’s time to reorganize and that gets blocked out in a planner. That container as a limit is the best idea. Thanks for including play dough time with the cutest boy ever. It gives perspective to why we do this stuff. Amazing video as always! Love to y’all.
To be fair, Dana does usually say that when you're going to "take it there now", you can glance around and see if anything else goes to the same place, so as much as you can hold can be taken there now!
As an overthinker, her method helps me so much!! I'm a student so I don't manage a house, but I do manage a club space (it's similar to managing a living room, but for students). It's also worth noting that with the "take it there now" method, it's a great reality check. If it's not worth it to you to take it there now (cause say you found another... marker, but you know you already took 3 of them and you don't want to go up/down the stairs again), you can just stay where you currently are and donate/trash it!
I love the way you share truth in your videos. I am 76 years old and I've tried so many "expert" opinions. You are so correct in that we all have different lifestyles and lives. I thought after my kids were raised and out of the house my cleaning chores would be easier. NOT! My husband is retired and now takes the place of our kids. LOL! I found over the years to deep clean one room a month. No more "Spring Cleaning" or "Fall Cleaning". I have a fairly large house so the one room a month strategy seems to work for me. We also have five cats inside the house. Did I mention the kids left the house? (rolling eyes). The kitty cleaning is another story. But finding things that help the cleanups for them is getting easier. Thanks again for your common-sense advice.
I always keep a small basket with me for things that belong somewhere else. It keeps the mess contained and allows me to do 1 trip to different areas of the house.
I've always been a much bigger fan of making a pile of put away things first, then taking the pile to put away the things- but hey, taking one or 2 items at a time with multiple trips can help us get our exercise in!
Thanks Ariel, I'm not one of the many people who knew about Dana K. White--I found out about her from your last video, and have been on a decluttering journey now! Love your videos for their tips, humor, and adorable baby cameos. ☺
Dana & you.... The dream team!! I have a top tip to stop a flat surface attracting clutter. Once you've cleared it, put something gorgeous on it, like a vase of flowers, or maybe some artfully arranged candles etc. Spend time making it look just right for you, really stylish. Make sure that corner of your home makes your heart sing. Then you'll be intrinsically motivated to keep it like that instead of it feeling like a chore. It will give you joy every time you pass it and will help you feel like a person who is in charge of your home.
Take it there now tip! I saw some where she did this tip that when you have something for (let say) down stairs in the kitchen... you take a look at the rest of the space your working on and load up your hands/ arms with as much for that area you can to cut down the number of trips!
Another laugh-out-loud great video! I am not a big fan of the take it there now advice but LOVE the container concept. I will forever follow the "use it, need it, love it?" Fylady questions and put things away after a declutter session (my phone's autocorrect tried to substitute espionage for session, which makes it sound so much more exciting, LOL). But the container concept definitely puts things in perspective.
It took me a long time to fully grasp Dana's "clutter threshold" concept. But once it clicked, I realized that I'm *almost* there in my decluttering journey. I was closer in our previous home, but then we moved to a smaller place so my clutter is taking up more space than it used to. But it's a fun challenge to figure it out here.
One tip I heard for moving (Sorry I can't remember who from, or I would give them credit) When you shift in do NOT fully unload each box - only unpack the stuff you know you love and/or use regularly. 'Quarentine' the rest.
Perfect description of her system! Thanks for sharing. You’re forever changed in your mindset & I think you’ll never go back to the “old” way of decluttering now! 😉😘
I would have eaten that strawberry bar at the spot and saved me the trip going downstairs.😉
I try not to do that sort of thing as I'm trying to lose some weight so that could be why she didn't or maybe she'd just eaten and was satisfied.
Isabel François my thoughts exactly 😂
I was waiting for the slow motion destruction of the yummy looking treat too. I was always eating while I was nursing. 😂
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Saaasammmeee! 😂
Take it there now is supposed to be irritating. It makes you donate things rather than have to take it to your stash place because the donation box is closer 😂
No its not.
It can. For sure. Dana has mentioned this effect.
😅 And it makes you put things in their right place/home from the get go 😁
My rule is touch it once. If I pick something up, I HAVE TO put it where it belongs. If I have to take it to another room, I also look for several easy to spot items that goes in the same place. Yes I make multiple trips but it’s so easy to not have to empty a box later….. only issue is I also have to be adamant about returning to the area I was cleaning so I can actually finish!!!!
A stray toy…. Off to the playroom oh look! Hot wheels and legos let’s tidy these up….. oh a book, let me take this to the bedroom….. oh make the bed, look a dirty sock, let’s go to the laundry…… I’ve cleaned all day and got nothing done🤪😂
So I have to make myself go back to the original area.
🤣yeah that's why Dana says keep your donate box and trash bag in the area you are decluttering so you have to return there.
That sounds like you’ve actually gotten a lot done! The items may be small and scattered over the whole house, and therefore you don’t see a big difference, but it’s all positive steps.
With "Take it there now", she also said to take a quick look for anything else easy going to the same area/direction. Getting into the habit of taking it there now really helps keep clutter in check, and more manageable.
Dana has so many great ideas, doesn't she? I've utilized a number of them because they make so much sense to me.
I was totally going to clean today, but figured watching you do it was kinda the same thing.
My sassy cat is CONSTANTLY interrupting my decluttering efforts! 😂😂😂😂😻
Nicely re-capped!!
Loved this! Thanks for the laughs
I have a similar buffet!
Dana says that you can take multiple things at once if they all go together. But don't form piles! If you find something that belongs in the garage, take a quick glance and see if anything else also goes in the garage. You're allowed to make it easier on yourself as long as you NEVER make a pile.
I used Dana K Whites methods and minimal Mom during the pandemic. Success I did cheat a little on the “ take it there” concept. But, hey, I’m 75 and often make my own rules. 👵🏻
I think you have the wisdom and have earned the right to make your rules. I love thinking of ideas as starting points instead of set in stone. We all have unique needs that change from day to day.
That's what my thought was on the "take it there" concept. My mother's been trying to declutter, and I think everything EXCEPT that step would work for her because even the bare-minimum-necessary-for-the-day two trips up and down the stairs is genuinely difficult for her with her arthritis, lupus, and other health conditions.
Maybe a compromise for mobility issues would be to have a laundry basket or some other container for "upstairs" things (or downstairs if you're decluttering an upstairs space) and when it's full you carry the laundry basket to the correct floor and finish putting things away. It still keeps the mess contained, and if you're not living alone you can get someone else to do the basket-carrying.
Yes, a basket has worked, then the next time I’m on the stairs it all goes. I think Dana is trying to prevent people just sitting the whole basket in the basement and thinking they’re done for a few more days… Then they never get back to that basket full of stuff.
Go ahead and make your basket of things to put away but if you notice these baskets becoming a problem, then you know you gotta "take it there naow"
@@idid138 Here's a daily subroutine that will probably work well for people with mobility issues.
1. Set timer for 15 minutes.
2. Start decluttering the chosen area. Stuff that has a home upstairs/downstairs goes in the move-it basket.
3. When the timer goes off, get someone to carry the basket up/downstairs.
4. Everything in the move-it basket goes in its place. If you run into Step 5 problems, the stuff that has to be discarded goes in trash or a second basket, the donation basket.
5. When the move-it basket it empty, the donation basket gets moved into the back of the car (or a cardboard box set aside for donations if you don't have a car).
This "loop" is probably going to take 30 or fewer minutes, but the likelihood that you'll produce more than a laundry basket of "move it there" stuff in 15 minutes is pretty low.
I like that the "make a trip for every item" rule creates a built-in consequence for clutter accumulating. Next time you're in the bathroom with a fruit bar, you'll be less likely to leave it there because you'll remember making 20 trips in one day and now 1 trip today doesn't seem so bad.
Or maybe that's just me.
I was thinking similarly. The one or two times that you declutter this way will probably program you to put things back where they belong right away.
Or you mean, next time your kid brings a fruit bar in the bathroom? Even though theyre supposed to eat in the kitchen? ;)
But your comment is true! Ill hve to try this system....4 kids 4 and under, theres alot of distractions around here....
best solution for the fruit bar is to just eat it :P
Built in consequence. You are a harsh self task master. 😂🤣😂
But Dana K does say before you go downstairs have a quick look to see what else obviously needs to go down at the same time. I love this one !
The take it there now part is definitely easier when you don't live in a house, but a small appartment.
Dana says she often finds things that belong somewhere two steps away from the area she is working on. Otherwise, if she has to leave the room, she looks for other items she has to carry to the other room with her using her two hands. So the trips get more efficient.
I think you explained her two decluttering questions better than Dana did. Good job!
Dana's 'Container Concept' blew my mind. It's life changing.
Same!
Her Container Concept is pure gold!!!
Yes, I heard another say, " do I really need more then one of this item?"
I very much agree with you, that one concept has made sorting through so much more straight forward and logical. I've been making doll rooms and accessories for them from what is basically used stuff and deciding what I should keep to use became SO simple once I heard Dana K White's container concept. I'm a much "happier crafter"!
Same!! I always thought that there was no point in getting a container, since my inventory of facial products etc varies over time. But I put it all into a shoebox and labeled it "Facial Products". Then did the same thing for my Makeup stash, my sunglasses, dental items, my backstock of vitamins/meds, etc. I haven't had any issues with that closet since then, and it looks so tidy! And my kids know where to go to find toothpaste or whatever.
I read her books 18 months ago and it has changed my life. I have tried for 40+ years of marriage to keep a tidy house and couldn’t ever manage. I still have areas that I’m working on but the areas I’ve already done have stayed tidy and easy to keep clean. Life saver!!!!!
That’s fantastic! I’m so happy for you!
I have tried different decluttering and cleaning systems overtime. I usually end up taking a little from each one and kind of meshing my favorites overtime. I would love to see a video on your favorite concepts that you have continued to use after trying all these!😀
I think her methods build really good habits for cleaning, etc. I now walk by something and instantly think "that trash" and throw it out or "that doesn't belong there" and take it to its home. Which has then made my actual cleaning SOOOO much easier.
Yes, and to save myself a trip later, if I'm going downstairs I look around and think "Is there anything I can take downstairs with me?"
I was decluttering my basement a few years before my retirement and well before I ran into Dana K White and her good ideas. I asked my cleaning lady to help me, I paid her and she helped on a few Saturdays over the next year. She ran filled donation boxes up to the car and did a lot of trips on the stairs for me. I had to make the decisions. She likes to be very active. We were both impressed at how much got done. She was also my ruthless deputy when I would ask her to help me with the "when might I ever in the world need something?" It was amazing to me how easy packing the basement was when I moved at retirement!! Win!
@dan k🇺🇸 okay.
As a maid, yes we can make decluttering not only easier, more efficient but fun too. Decluttering with a friend has many benefits.
Lord bless this angel! 👍😎
@@barbaramoss6413 it's a scam, don't respond to dan k
I know. Thanks.
I was resistant to the “take it there now” concept but not having piles when I get interrupted or want to stop, was really what worked for me
I've still got a LONG way to go, but Dana's method is the one for me. My OCD & anxiety kicks in if I try to pull everything out like most organizers suggest.
I believe that snack bar more accurately belongs in your tummy, and should be put there right away!
But seriously, I like to put the out-of-place things in a small basket and when that's full I do what I call puttering - I putter about and put things away. It worked when I had babies because it's easy to put the basket down for later and it was actually an entertainment for them to be carried around while we put things away...until it wasn't! 😆
Love your videos! ❤️
Love Dana's container concept. It is what finally gave me success with decluttering. But I can not do her "take it there now". She's right but I just can't stand the feeling of inefficiency. TIP: Dana says when you have one item that goes to the garage or wherever, you can stop and take a quick look to see if there are other items that go to the garage. It's OK to cheat a little bit. Dana has books, a podcast, blog and UA-cam channel.
I couldn’t do that one myself! I would probably have a container to put things in to disperse to other rooms!
I love the container idea tho! We are a work in progress.
I agree. It's inefficient and wastes time -- of which, I don't have a lot. So I would definitely tweak that part of it.
Yep! I grab whatever I can carry that needs to go in that direction and then "take it there now." It works just fine as long as I don't set anything down until it's reached its final destination. What I *can't* do is sort things into piles (or bags/boxes/baskets) to put away "later" ...because later could be days (or years 😶) layer. Basically, it's the absence of a "keep" box/pile that makes it work, regardless of if you're doing "take it there now" with one item or several, as long as you really are getting it to the place where you'd look for it first, you're good. 🙂
@@maryclarke9894 if dealing with multiple things at a time works for you, that's definitely quicker. However, it's actually not more efficient for some people. For example, if you are easily distracted, constantly interrupted, or have chronic health issues where you may not be able to predict how much work you'll have the energy for. It's more efficient to have one thing completely finished than having to leave a bunch of things half done, which is what often used to happen to me before I started using this method. It's not necessary for everyone, but it can be a real game changer for those of us who have experienced getting stuck in the "messy middle" of the more traditional decluttering process for way too long, which can be incredibly disheartening.
I consider “take it there now!” an opportunity to log more steps (which I sort of hate counting but Garmin got me hooked on, sigh).
Her advice about putting something where you'd look first was huge for me. If someone wants to use a screwdriver or hammer, they can find it in one of my kitchen drawers. Need a broom? It's in the hallway closet, not the laundry room where it's "supposed" to be. 🤷♀
Yes, exactly! “Where _would_ I look for it” is a very different question from “where _should_ I look for it” and I love that she acknowledges the difference ❤
Yes! My Tide pen for spot treatment is in my drawer next to my stove because most of my oops happen when I’m cooking. Is that a normal place?, no but it works for me every time
One of the things I like about her method is, in the long run, it trains the brain to put things in the right place immediately.
I wanted to thank you for this video, I did only 10 minutes in my bathroom cabinet and threw out a grocery bag full of expired stuff and garbage, plus donated a shoe box of items (I live in a condo so I immediately took the donation box upstairs to the laundry room where everyone leaves for someone else) I already feel better!
Yay!! Great job 😁
I love how these minimal, decluttering moms all support each other’s channels! It warms my heart!
I can't believe how incredibly naive and ignorant you are about how UA-camrs manipulate people to watch each others channels so they can make buck.
This video is a decluttering game-changer! Dana K White's 'no mess' system is genius, and That Awkward Mom's hilarious commentary kept me entertained and inspired throughout. I'm excited to tackle my clutter with this method and finally say goodbye to the stuffed animal invasion - thanks for the great tips!
I can‘t believe you didn‘t just do the obvious and eat the fruit bar to save a trip! Duh! 😅 Keep up the good work, you always make me laugh 😊
Lol 😂
"Where would I look for it first?" has been a game changer for me.
@dan k🇺🇸 what's the question?
This is a good question which employees of super markets should ask themselves. When I make 3rd circle around the shelves and finally "Oh this is where they put that!"= )
This is revolutionary. I never declutter because the mess it makes is really discouraging and with a 3 year old, 2 year old, and 7 month old, creating a huge mess is just not practical.
This is the best!
I know yes the mess u create... but u know what u should just do one section at a time maybe just start with your stuff like your clothes personal things. When u declutter yes u will make a mess don't get discouraged by that. It will get fixed. And with your babies it's worth it. 💕have a good day hopefully that encourages you
I love this for making interruptions okay. I wouldn’t like it if I had a two story house!
Great video... love your humor... :)
One note, I think on the "take it there now" step, I think she says to look for other items that need to go to that same place as u go. That way if u see like 5 items that need to go downstairs u go ahead and take them with u to save on trips.
In the future, should you ever need an air mattress and pump, they actually make self inflating air mattresses with built in pumps that even deflate the mattress faster.
I will say, I decided not to declutter my air mattress pump and I put it with my kids summer inflatables.
Thank you for the amazing content as usual! 🖤 your “interruption” is the cutest! She has such pretty eyes and those cheeks! 😊
If you're unsure whether to keep something, the Minimal Mom recommends to get rid of it if it can be repurchased for less than $20 in less than 20 minutes. Its been a great litmus test for me
But...5 of those items is $100.
I think I would halve it - less than 10 dollars in 10 minutes. @@waypay1
The take it there now step also includes a quick glance to see if any other items are headed the same direction, then you can take several items right then
Very cool! I was thinking that I had no decluttering needed and then my linen closet came to mind. Yikes! The approach of not creating a mess by clearing it out to another space is genius. I will enjoy doing my linen closet now just to try something new. Thank you, too, for always making me laugh and feel good about cleaning.
I also love step 4.
As a modification to avoid going up and down stairs a LOT, I usually grab a whole handful of things that go to another floor and then put them all away right then. I do occasionally fill a small bin or shoe box to take to another floor at the end if my knees are particularly bad. It absolutely takes way longer to get that little box of things put away, but the space I was working on got done, and that's important progress for me.
I’m really happy to see a new video from you. They’re always entertaining.
My favourite thing I learned from watching Dana’s videos is the cointainer concept, but specifically that your home is a container too, and that you and your family being able to actually live (happily and comfortably) in the space takes priority.
The "take it there now" rule really helped me get started on this life-changing process. I was overwhelmed, and just had the "aha!" moment, realizing decluttering and organizing are NOT the same thing. I was also healing from life-long anxiety and my stuff was rebelling against me everywhere. The many trips to put away DUH clutter has helped reprogram my brain to take time to put things away to save time later. I'm full of hope now!
Dana and Dawn's system is awesome. One of Dawn's videos is what suddenly clicked with me to begin with and I decluttered practically my entire house. Once I got started, it felt so good, I didn't want to stop. My husband, of course, thought I had lost my mind, but he's beginning to see the benefits
Do you remember which video of Dawn's that 'clicked' for you?
@@lynnej.9357 it's been at least two years, so I don't remember, but ,it's the way she goes about decluttering. I had been dreading digging into my closet for a couple of years bc I thought I would have to empty the whole thing and make a huge mess and do it all in one day. When she said, you can just go in and remove a few things at a time, start small. That was it,I was like, of course, why didn't I think of that. Anyway, that and her video on sentimental clutter, giving us permission to let things go, you don't have to keep something simply bc someone gifted it to you. It just set me free.
@@tammyc1812 Yup. That all makes perfect sense. Thanks!
I love how you explained these. Dana's 'container theory' helped me get rid of a lot of stuff instead of continuously getting bigger containers. So simple, yet somehow it never occurred to me before. :D That combined with Marie Kondo's idea that the purpose of some items is to teach you you don't need them made getting rid of stuff so much easier.
Yes, and I credit Dawn from the Minimal Mom for encouraging me to forgive myself for bad purchases and letting them go to live better.
Actually, I remember a video where Dana takes more than one item, for example, if you found something that goes in the kitchen, you try to look for more items that would go there, the take it there now is no mandatory to do one by one.
If I had a baby that cute decluttering wouldn’t be priority either lol. Such a fun and cute fam!❤
I’ve listened to her books a couple of times in the last year or so, and using this method has led to BIG decluttering success in our home! I wish I’d done this when our seven children were small. Instead, I was paralyzed by the fear of making a bigger mess.
Ok, I don’t have children, but if I had seven small children at home, decluttering is the last thing I’d probably be thinking about. My hat’s off to you!
The "put it back where it belongs" step is definitely not for everyone. I have seen her do something to make it a little more bearable though:
She gets as much as she can hold in two hands. THEN she puts stuff back. Saves multiple trips.
However, this doesn't work for me or my hubby. He for sure has undiagnosed ADD, I just have trouble focusing when there's a ton of mess. We for sure would need a pile. I think what might help is a small basket that can be filled with stuff for one area, and then taken there when it gets full. That way, you can still create a pile, but aren't left with multiple messes to clean up.
Yep! If I walk every item to where it belongs, I’m running out of energy real quick. Also, I would probably get distracted (I have ADHD too) and never make it back to wherever I was decluttering!
ADD here too, and yeah, I would get distracted 79 times while taking the item to where it belongs...I'd end up finding it later in an even more odd place, along with 16 new half-finished projects. I grab a few baskets and assign them each a room, so then if I leave in the middle of decluttering (highly likely) the mess is at least contained to one small area, and it's easy to jump right back in without too much thought.
I love her system, but as a disabled person I can't make as many trips, so I modified the concept... I have a basket/tote & look in the area for anything that doesn't belong, no matter where it goes, & pile them into the tote, then I take one tour around the house putting stuff away into the right spots until the tote's empty. Even if I'm interrupted, I can still start back where I was with minimal mess (just the tote) out of place, but I'm conserving energy so I can get through an area b4 I'm exhausted (sometimes)... LOL!
For me, it's all about the baby steps & having it be "Better" than b4 I started!
I just love your videos. You’re very cute and very funny. I have been going through things here too. We have so much STUFF. If I live to be a hundred years old there’s no way I could use up everything we have. So my New Year’s resolution was to not buy anything this year, unless I run out of something I use regularly. But otherwise, I’m not adding anything to this household until we use everything up we already have. (I’m trying to stay the heck off of Amazon!
She said when you find an item and a place to take it, look for other items that go in that same place to prevent the overload of stairs.
You can do a quick scan of the space to see if there is anything else that goes to a similar home. Aka, if you find a spoon, quickly look to see if there is anything else that jumps out as kitchen related
My kids heard me laugh and made me replay your talking mess pile bit 5 times :).
After your last video I read (listened) to Dana’s books! Love her methods, can’t wait to watch this!
You really do your homework! Thanks so much for the tips and the laughs!!! 💚 100K is so close You deserve it!! ❤
Your videos are fantastic!!!!
When you found the tools, you could have looked around for any other items going to the same place and saved multiple trips. No rules that you can only take one or two items at a time. Dana even says this, I think.
I honestly don’t know why Dana’s book and concept hasn’t blown up. It’s actually the easiest and most realistic one. I listen to the book on x1.25 speed like I listen to most UA-cam talk videos while I’m decluttering for inspiration. There are sooo many little good tips aside from the major concepts.
You are so helpfully funny and honest with sharing your own mistakes: i recognize myself and have to start smiling inwardly at those 'demons' who say "you will never have a nice and decluttered flat anymore, you failure!'. Very very helpful that my failures are a result of doung it all at once and wrong advice / expectations! Keep on doing what you are doing, dear!
I found that putting up one item at a time to be time consuming. When I use to watch Jordan Page, she had a tip for putting what doesn't belong in a basket. Then put it where it goes when you either finish or the basket fills up. If you need to stop, everything is already in a basket, for easy put away later.
For me it depends on what I am decluttering if I need to pull out everything. I did my kitchen Thursday, some cabinets I pulled everything out. Others I looked over, I could see what needed to go. Then I was able to straighten up what was left.
I like your channel the best for declutterimgg and cleaning. I appreciate that you try these different methods. Then give honest feedback. Also you have the best sense of humor.
👀👨🏼🦽As someone with progressive, chronic health conditions that now put me in a wheelchair, the MESS from decluttering has not only worn me out, stopped progress completely, but also made my environment unsafe to navigate! Must try this, THANK YOU! 👍😎
In one of her videos, she did look through the area she was decluttering to see if there was anything obvious that should go to the spot she was going to and took it at the same time. But she did not stop and take everything that should go out of the room, just the stuff that was going to where she was headed. Her method has been a game changer for me. She also has the method of setting the timer for 15 min and do what you can in a space. Really a good series to watch.
This is a great episode. I really appreciate your good humor. Oh gosh when my kids were young, the stuffed animals!! And, decluttering is my problem. I will check out Dana and more of your videos.
The thing that's helped my family the most from Dana's method is that you start with trash and easy stuff. It makes it seem less intimidating to start sorting through stuff.
I think step four is very interesting! Sometimes I can't say goodbye to an item because 'I might need it one day' - but then realise I forgot I had it and bought it new anyway. Never thought to look at those items in this way! Will definitely use that step in my next decluttering day.
Ooh, I used some of these steps yesterday while trying to declutter my Lil Girl's room. I bet adding in all the steps I didn't know about I'd be much better at this. Maybe I should try this with my boy's room.
I love your videos💙God has given you a real gift of making people smile and laugh while also giving them helpful info through your experience. I have to agree Dana’s method of decluttering while not making a big mess is great. I have always had trouble with the “big mess” It always made things worse than before so I wouldn’t do anything.☹️
Oh my, just decluttered my laundry & linen closets. Took 4 EVER🤣 Omgoodness, was full of "What the heck is this? I'll deal with it later" stuff... Uhg. From moving right before the pandemic & dealing with constant sickness. Arg, this year's gonna be so fun🙄😁 Well, at least I got started. Fixed my great room to be usable, so finally gonna enjoy my house I guess? Thanks for showing us this method❤️👏👍
LoL stuffed animals..I still have my kids Care Bear collection..(and I mean EVERY ONE EVER MADE) and my kids are 40!!! What was I thinking 🤔😂😂
Great video. I will definitely check her out. I’m in the process of wanting to declutter because I’m getting overwhelmed.
I hate when people try and "be funny" in their videos, it's so cringe!!.....but you actually are FUNNY AND WITTY!! .
Your baby is SO adorable! ❤
My unfinished decluttering piles talk to me too!!you make me feel so normal💖
Dana does recommend looking through the box/drawer/space you are decluttering, for additional items that go in the same or nearby space as your first item to "take it there now", and filling your hands with them for less trips. For example, I found my pen that lives on my desk, in the wrong spot...now I look for other misplaced "desk items" to take at the same time (paper pad, paper clips, etc) and add them to what I'm carrying, then take them all at once. Less trips and all dealt with. This works for "on the way" items too...heading to the office and passing the coat closet? Grab those gloves and put them away while on your way to the other spot.
By throwing away just one thing that you held on to and that you do not need anymore, you have already decluttered (a bit, of course, not all). And there is always the method of the Clutterbug, that tells you to just throw out (not necessarily away - i.e. into the garbage/trash) 21 things each week. She makes it at once, but if you do not have the time, do it 3 a day every day (even on Sunday) - it need not be big things, every blanket with moth holes counts.
Which reminds me - I should definitely check my blankets ...
And if 21 things at once seem too much at once, I once started for n+1 a week- I started with 1 on Monday, then n was 0. Next day 1 was my new n - and I threw out two things. Wednesday 3, and so on. Until Saturday. I took a rest on Sunday. This way you still get out 21 things a week *coincidence - but it's not overwhelming. On Monday you start with 1 again.To find ONE thing you really do not like in your life anymore is so easy.
Adjusting good ideas until they fit one's life is the way to go.
I'm always excited to see a video from you on my feed! I'm a huge Dana K. White fan. I love the "take it there now" part, but I also don't have to go up and down stairs in my house to get things where they belong.
I just love your videos. So do my kids! You are so smart and funny and clever. A real breath of fresh air on UA-cam. I’m a new subscriber to your channel, discovered you a few months ago. Big fan.
I really love how she has laundry one day a week instead of a load a day. I do not have a washer and dryer so I have to go to the laundry mat. So a load a day doesn't work for me.
I love her decluttering method. My entire apartment is all on one floor so just taking one item at a time is easier. But just think of it as getting your 10,000 steps in if you are still doing that.
Excellent video Ariel! You explained it so well
A sassy cat sounds worth it. 😂
As a 63 year old, I can attest that keeping something for a long time because someday I'll use it (like the thermometer still in the packaging) is erroneous in that, when you DO get around to putting it up, new technology has come along to make it obsolete. Consider some things require being plugged in now take batteries and then the next iteration-they are solar powered, or are bluetooth to your phone. So, yes, donate those items while they are still useful!
I decluttered my 2500 sq foot house a few years ago using Dana's method I got rid of 17extra large totes n tons of black trash bags. I we t t I the attic to the basement n all the way out to the garage. It was a game changer. Then when I decided to go tiny 430sq feet a few months ago I used it again. Perfect
i love the take it there now concept...it finally stoppped piles of decluttering mess that constantly overwhelmed me and just made an even bigger mess and reminded me why i just threw things in the cupboards in the first place...to clear away stuff...now stuff has a home or gone
I'm glad you tried it! I think my favorite part is asking "where would I look for this first?" - because it forces me to put it in a place where I'll actually find it the next time I need it - and if I wouldn't look for it, it goes in the donatable donation box! If I find something that belongs somewhere else, I try to find other things that go there too (as much as will fit in my arms) so I don't have to make too many trips. I don't have young kids, but I'm very distractible, so not making a mess is good for me too
No, there is a misinterpretation! Dana K White has a “Take it there now” rule, but not a “one item at a time rule”
In plenty of her videos she will see an item that needs to be put away, and looks to see if anything else needs to go to that location.
She just doesn't over-think it by creating piles, or feeling like she must get it all in one trip.
Oh my goodness!!! All the cute Skyla and a sassy cat all in one video? You have outdone yourself! I am crazy visual so I actually like dragging things out because I see the progress. There have been interruptions though and the chaos can be overwhelming. So I’ve learned to do a drawer instead of all the drawers. Things only get completely drug out when it’s time to reorganize and that gets blocked out in a planner. That container as a limit is the best idea. Thanks for including play dough time with the cutest boy ever. It gives perspective to why we do this stuff. Amazing video as always! Love to y’all.
To be fair, Dana does usually say that when you're going to "take it there now", you can glance around and see if anything else goes to the same place, so as much as you can hold can be taken there now!
I’m one of those ‘make a trip for every item’ people. Otherwise I forget what I’m gonna do with the item!
Hahaa your cluttering taunting you bit 😂
As an overthinker, her method helps me so much!! I'm a student so I don't manage a house, but I do manage a club space (it's similar to managing a living room, but for students).
It's also worth noting that with the "take it there now" method, it's a great reality check. If it's not worth it to you to take it there now (cause say you found another... marker, but you know you already took 3 of them and you don't want to go up/down the stairs again), you can just stay where you currently are and donate/trash it!
The toilet paper!!! My husband literally uses the new toilet paper and never put it in the hanger
I love the way you share truth in your videos. I am 76 years old and I've tried so many "expert" opinions. You are so correct in that we all have different lifestyles and lives. I thought after my kids were raised and out of the house my cleaning chores would be easier. NOT! My husband is retired and now takes the place of our kids. LOL! I found over the years to deep clean one room a month. No more "Spring Cleaning" or "Fall Cleaning". I have a fairly large house so the one room a month strategy seems to work for me. We also have five cats inside the house. Did I mention the kids left the house? (rolling eyes). The kitty cleaning is another story. But finding things that help the cleanups for them is getting easier. Thanks again for your common-sense advice.
Your kids are so cute, & you crack me up! I do love Dana. I hear her telling me to “take it there NOW”!
I always keep a small basket with me for things that belong somewhere else. It keeps the mess contained and allows me to do 1 trip to different areas of the house.
I've always been a much bigger fan of making a pile of put away things first, then taking the pile to put away the things- but hey, taking one or 2 items at a time with multiple trips can help us get our exercise in!
Thanks Ariel, I'm not one of the many people who knew about Dana K. White--I found out about her from your last video, and have been on a decluttering journey now! Love your videos for their tips, humor, and adorable baby cameos. ☺
Dana & you.... The dream team!! I have a top tip to stop a flat surface attracting clutter. Once you've cleared it, put something gorgeous on it, like a vase of flowers, or maybe some artfully arranged candles etc. Spend time making it look just right for you, really stylish. Make sure that corner of your home makes your heart sing. Then you'll be intrinsically motivated to keep it like that instead of it feeling like a chore. It will give you joy every time you pass it and will help you feel like a person who is in charge of your home.
Take it there now tip! I saw some where she did this tip that when you have something for (let say) down stairs in the kitchen... you take a look at the rest of the space your working on and load up your hands/ arms with as much for that area you can to cut down the number of trips!
Another laugh-out-loud great video! I am not a big fan of the take it there now advice but LOVE the container concept. I will forever follow the "use it, need it, love it?" Fylady questions and put things away after a declutter session (my phone's autocorrect tried to substitute espionage for session, which makes it sound so much more exciting, LOL). But the container concept definitely puts things in perspective.
Oh, interesting! I didn't know Flylady covered decluttering! I'll have to check out what she has to say on it.
@@ThatAwkwardMom Yes, she has a section on her website devoted to decluttering, and several chapters on decluttering in her book Sink Reflections.
It took me a long time to fully grasp Dana's "clutter threshold" concept. But once it clicked, I realized that I'm *almost* there in my decluttering journey. I was closer in our previous home, but then we moved to a smaller place so my clutter is taking up more space than it used to. But it's a fun challenge to figure it out here.
One tip I heard for moving (Sorry I can't remember who from, or I would give them credit) When you shift in do NOT fully unload each box - only unpack the stuff you know you love and/or use regularly. 'Quarentine' the rest.
You're so funny :D
Perfect description of her system! Thanks for sharing. You’re forever changed in your mindset & I think you’ll never go back to the “old” way of decluttering now! 😉😘