I agree with her. Some parents need to learn that still having your adult children and grandkids around is a privilege and not an entitlement. There’s boundaries and sometimes cutting people off is for the best. Narcissistic parents cause so much damage and worst part is they never acknowledge or apologise for it
I haven't seen or spoken to my mother and siblings in 10 years. Best decision ever... I've spent the past 10 years as a travel and wildlife photographer living all over the world and having loving friends and a great career. I can't complain.
Yes, Good friends can be and usually are better then blood family a lot of the times. Wishing you and everyone a Merry Christmas 🎄and Happy New Year 2024. 🤗🤗🤗🎄🎄
Yeah I'm in a similar boat. I cut both of my parents out of my life, my Dad was about 7 years ago and my Mom a few months ago, and while its hard. It's been a really good decision. A peaceful life is the ultimate win
I can relate to Kristin. Her father wasn't the only person that treated her badly, the viewers did when she was on DWTS, eliminated week 3 with a highest paddle of 8, the same as Carson Kressley, and lower than Nancy Grace! I've done a hypothetical DWTS season that takes place in Spring 2019 known as "Bad Losers", where Kristin is crowned the champion alongside her partner in season 13, her only season IRL.
It's crazy to see people encouraging others to accept abuse. Abuse takes many forms and cant be healed with just talk or a million chances. Live up to your role of mother, father, wife ect. If you dont fit the bill its okay for people to walk away. Its a tough pill to swallow, but you dont owe your parents anything as an adult if they are verbally, physically, financially, or mentally abusive to you or your kids. If you abhorently disagree, I suggest you reflect on why without using the bible or any quotes.
My son is a NARCISSIST ‼️ he assaulted my daughter and I 6 year’s ago we haven’t talked to him since and I don’t regret not talking to him because he would just pick up from where he left off so………NOPE NOT INTERESTED ‼️‼️
My guess is he tried to triangulate the children and poison their mind with lies. Its so sick and sad how low narcissists will go for their own agenda.
Its sad that things didn't work out after trying to make her dad part of her life. The interesting thing about this is on this many people have come out to support and relate with her story , no negativity. However, do people pick and choose who they relate their family drama with? Dont other people deserve the same sympathy and empathy when they go through challenges with their family members, I wonder. If it was M& H talking about this, people would have put them under the bus and yet, the stories may somewhat be similar although different causatives. Most of us would relate to so many issues that celebrities and their families go through. They are as human as everyone else. Some people as seen on this post have had no relationship with their parents for decades which means that impacts the relationship of grandchildren and their grandparents without the fault of their own but just due to generational disagreements. All this sums up to " no family is perfect " each has its own challenges of which probably outsiders may not understand but they will be able to give their judgement or opinion. I never had a relationship with my real dad. He was an absent dad. Unfortunately he passed 5 years ago. Sometimes I wonder if I had taken an initiative to track him down to findout why he stayed away after separating from my mom. I am a believer of having a relationship with a parent, but if that doesn't work for some other reasons, then try to love them from afar.
her parent divorced , she went to live with dad in her teen years and ended up on the reality tv show. however, no one knows what went on behind closed doors. if she didnt wanna be aroudn him as a child, i dunno why she lived with hi in teen years.
I really hope it was for a good reason because that's pretty harsh to cut your father out of your life. I'm definitely not a daddy's girl and my dad is not the lovey dovey super father type but him and my mom made sure I had everything I needed in life and they always did the best they could
@@PHILLIPS8822 She's probably considered that and made peace with it. I had to do the same with my dad, brother, and sister. My dad actually left me and I didn't give up on trying to connect with him. He let's me down every single time. He's 90 and I know I did all that I could. Plus I do reflect on all the positive things he did do for me.
My mother criticized and brought me down my whole life. She projected everything she thought she missed out on life on me as if I am the same person. It was toxic! It caused all sorts of issues in my life as an adult. When I let my then 4 y/o spend a night with her and she came back with a long laundry list of things we need to fix about my daughter I said enough is enough! You will not get to destroy another child. I cut her out of my life and that finally cut off all chains ⛓ from me and I never felt better since then.
@lianataylor1067 I only say I hope it's for a good reason because I spent a lot of time fighting with my mom in particular, but mom and dad are kind of a package deal. I would go long periods without speaking to them because of a huge fight where both of us said awful things. I truly thought they were so awful to me and made me miserable. This was until probably my late 20s. Maybe early 30s. I don't know why it took me so long to realize what the problem was, but the problem was definitely me. I was just miserable and had my own issues that really had nothing to do with them. They gave me a very normal childhood with everything I needed. They loved me and I just didn't appreciate it until I was older
So you're saying that because someone is family that gives them an excuse to be abusive and never be held accountable? You think a person should be miserable and put up with toxicity because it's coming from "family." Such BS.
From Kristen? LOL. Who knows the truth, but i am on the side of the person not airing family issues to a huge audience, to me that is the definition of a narcissist.@@jennykelter9518
@@MayISpeak You're completely right. Just because someone is related to you doesn't mean you should continue put up with abuse when clearly nothing will change.
It is NEVER OK to cut your parents off!!! HONOR your father and mother is a command in the Ten Commandments. These are not the Ten Suggestions. It is the only commandment with two promises: That you may live WELL and may life LONG. No child has the privilege, right, or stupidity to cut their parents off. Respect for parents is a command, a given, and one of the pillars of society. The moment this goes, society goes. Read Romans 1:18-32
Read the room. You have no authority to tell people what they can and can't do, even if it's in the Bible. The Lord doesn't need your help judging or condemning anyone. Your approach and "logic" is exactly why people must go no contact asap. I wish everyone well who has suffered from narcissist abuse ❤
That is such utter crap. Respect and honor are earned, not automatic and undying. You earn respect by how you treat someone, period. Quit using your fictional bible as a source for your weak argument.
I'm so grateful that there is serious awareness about the horrific danger of narcissistic abuse. My family almost destroyed me. 😢
same🧡
Same. I have NC with my mom, sister, and brother (no dad in picture) because they are narcissistic. I'm the Scapegoat.
I agree with her. Some parents need to learn that still having your adult children and grandkids around is a privilege and not an entitlement. There’s boundaries and sometimes cutting people off is for the best. Narcissistic parents cause so much damage and worst part is they never acknowledge or apologise for it
I haven't seen or spoken to my mother and siblings in 10 years. Best decision ever... I've spent the past 10 years as a travel and wildlife photographer living all over the world and having loving friends and a great career. I can't complain.
Yes, Good friends can be and usually are better then blood family a lot of the times. Wishing you and everyone a Merry Christmas 🎄and Happy New Year 2024. 🤗🤗🤗🎄🎄
Good for her! I had to do the same thing. It’s incredibly hard and confusing. She deserves peace! I’m proud of her!
same 🧡
Yeah I'm in a similar boat. I cut both of my parents out of my life, my Dad was about 7 years ago and my Mom a few months ago, and while its hard. It's been a really good decision. A peaceful life is the ultimate win
So very proud of her!! 🧡
I cut my dad out of my life over 3 years ago cuz I realized he was a narcissist. Good on Kristin
Kristin has truly grown as a human ❤️🩹
I'm so happy that I had a wonderful father. I was blessed 🙏
A lot of my Dad’s side of the family including him is like that. I agree with Kristin on not wanting to be around them.
I had to do this as well..good for her 🎉
I wish Kristen peace. I find that cutting off a parent might not be the best solution for karmic energy & I hope she can work it out with her dad.
Good for her i totally understand why she made the choice too well
That’s sad I hope they both get to move on and be happy.
Totally understand! I did the same thing ❤
Same! Sorry for your pain. ❤
We all have one family member like that
I can relate to Kristin. Her father wasn't the only person that treated her badly, the viewers did when she was on DWTS, eliminated week 3 with a highest paddle of 8, the same as Carson Kressley, and lower than Nancy Grace!
I've done a hypothetical DWTS season that takes place in Spring 2019 known as "Bad Losers", where Kristin is crowned the champion alongside her partner in season 13, her only season IRL.
It's crazy to see people encouraging others to accept abuse. Abuse takes many forms and cant be healed with just talk or a million chances.
Live up to your role of mother, father, wife ect. If you dont fit the bill its okay for people to walk away. Its a tough pill to swallow, but you dont owe your parents anything as an adult if they are verbally, physically, financially, or mentally abusive to you or your kids. If you abhorently disagree, I suggest you reflect on why without using the bible or any quotes.
My son is a NARCISSIST ‼️ he assaulted my daughter and I 6 year’s ago we haven’t talked to him since and I don’t regret not talking to him because he would just pick up from where he left off so………NOPE NOT INTERESTED ‼️‼️
Good for her! ❤
The dad was a narcisist? Now everything makes sense
She doesn’t say what he did…
Wait what did he do to her kids?
Sounds like she's hinting at abuse
@@PureSparkles22 hopefully that isn't the case
She might have seen he was behaving the same way with them as he did with her and it triggered her.
My guess is he tried to triangulate the children and poison their mind with lies. Its so sick and sad how low narcissists will go for their own agenda.
Even celebs get family issues sad though
Its sad that things didn't work out after trying to make her dad part of her life.
The interesting thing about this is on this many people have come out to support and relate with her story , no negativity. However, do people pick and choose who they relate their family drama with? Dont other people deserve the same sympathy and empathy when they go through challenges with their family members, I wonder. If it was M& H talking about this, people would have put them under the bus and yet, the stories may somewhat be similar although different causatives. Most of us would relate to so many issues that celebrities and their families go through. They are as human as everyone else. Some people as seen on this post have had no relationship with their parents for decades which means that impacts the relationship of grandchildren and their grandparents without the fault of their own but just due to generational disagreements. All this sums up to " no family is perfect " each has its own challenges of which probably outsiders may not understand but they will be able to give their judgement or opinion. I never had a relationship with my real dad. He was an absent dad. Unfortunately he passed 5 years ago. Sometimes I wonder if I had taken an initiative to track him down to findout why he stayed away after separating from my mom. I am a believer of having a relationship with a parent, but if that doesn't work for some other reasons, then try to love them from afar.
She’s lived a privileged life and her dad has helped her so can’t focus on just the bad
her parent divorced , she went to live with dad in her teen years and ended up on the reality tv show. however, no one knows what went on behind closed doors. if she didnt wanna be aroudn him as a child, i dunno why she lived with hi in teen years.
I can finally sleep at night.
My moms a narcissist
I really hope it was for a good reason because that's pretty harsh to cut your father out of your life. I'm definitely not a daddy's girl and my dad is not the lovey dovey super father type but him and my mom made sure I had everything I needed in life and they always did the best they could
But it comes down to what DID HER DAD DO to cut get kick out of her life. People should not feel bad for the parent, their the parent.
You only have one father. One day, when he's no longer living, she probably will regret it that she couldn't make up with her fatger
@@PHILLIPS8822 She's probably considered that and made peace with it. I had to do the same with my dad, brother, and sister. My dad actually left me and I didn't give up on trying to connect with him. He let's me down every single time. He's 90 and I know I did all that I could. Plus I do reflect on all the positive things he did do for me.
My mother criticized and brought me down my whole life. She projected everything she thought she missed out on life on me as if I am the same person. It was toxic! It caused all sorts of issues in my life as an adult.
When I let my then 4 y/o spend a night with her and she came back with a long laundry list of things we need to fix about my daughter I said enough is enough! You will not get to destroy another child. I cut her out of my life and that finally cut off all chains ⛓ from me and I never felt better since then.
@lianataylor1067 I only say I hope it's for a good reason because I spent a lot of time fighting with my mom in particular, but mom and dad are kind of a package deal. I would go long periods without speaking to them because of a huge fight where both of us said awful things. I truly thought they were so awful to me and made me miserable. This was until probably my late 20s. Maybe early 30s. I don't know why it took me so long to realize what the problem was, but the problem was definitely me. I was just miserable and had my own issues that really had nothing to do with them. They gave me a very normal childhood with everything I needed. They loved me and I just didn't appreciate it until I was older
OMG Kristin also endured the same father versus daughter abuse like Britney did.
I feel like her dad is so mad that she exposed him lol 😂
She is the example of beauty being only skin deep.
You are a beautiful successful woman
Soo what did the dad do it’s not fair to say that and not explain I guess if it’s private don’t even bring it up
This is my dad😂 and ive done the same
She is the narcissist going back before Luguna Beach. She has always used people and thrown people away when it benefited her.
Excuses I don’t believe a word she says
A woman that doesnt get on with her dad.... I dont know....
Some kids are abused orphans and would still love to know their parents no ones perfect not even parents
So dirty to air this, her dad is probably a good guy. Don’t cut family out.
So you're saying that because someone is family that gives them an excuse to be abusive and never be held accountable? You think a person should be miserable and put up with toxicity because it's coming from "family." Such BS.
Projection
Who do you believe is the better question, but do not air family dirty laundry on air, that's abhorrent behavior.@@renatofabbro5263
From Kristen? LOL. Who knows the truth, but i am on the side of the person not airing family issues to a huge audience, to me that is the definition of a narcissist.@@jennykelter9518
You only have one dad try to work it out
We need to let go of this mentality. If someone is toxic, you don’t need to be around them.
@@MayISpeak You're completely right. Just because someone is related to you doesn't mean you should continue put up with abuse when clearly nothing
will change.
Not if he’s narcissistic or abusive
It is NEVER OK to cut your parents off!!! HONOR your father and mother is a command in the Ten Commandments. These are not the Ten Suggestions. It is the only commandment with two promises: That you may live WELL and may life LONG. No child has the privilege, right, or stupidity to cut their parents off. Respect for parents is a command, a given, and one of the pillars of society. The moment this goes, society goes. Read Romans 1:18-32
Read the room. You have no authority to tell people what they can and can't do, even if it's in the Bible. The Lord doesn't need your help judging or condemning anyone. Your approach and "logic" is exactly why people must go no contact asap. I wish everyone well who has suffered from narcissist abuse ❤
That is such utter crap. Respect and honor are earned, not automatic and undying. You earn respect by how you treat someone, period. Quit using your fictional bible as a source for your weak argument.
People who abuse their children aren't parents.