Some people, men or women, really have this idea that the rules are different after marriage. Nah, someone asks you to marry them, you said yes, you're not single. You're not having fun one last time while single. Heck, even before the ring, you're still not single! This mentality is so weird to me
Exactly. For me, loyalty starts the moment you start dating. Dating and engagement are all tests to see if you are compatible with each other AND if you love each other enough to be loyal.
Fallen! Fallen is Babylon the Great!’ She has become a dwelling for demons and a haunt for every impure spirit, a haunt for every unclean bird, a haunt for every unclean and detestable animal. 3 For all the nations have drunk the maddening wine of her adulteries. The kings of the earth committed adultery with her, and the merchants of the earth grew rich from her excessive luxuries.”
Yeah your statement reminds me of a reddit story years ago when the wife cheated on her husband when they were in the dating phase of their relationship, and her defense was that they were not married so it did not count and she has been loyal since, but I guarantee if he had stepped out during that time she would be singing a different tune, sadly enough the dude simped out and chose to stay with his wife because she started having panic attacks at the thought of divorce.
He just narrates over things dummy, in fact he didn't even credit the guy in the second story, despite the guy asking to be credited, it's the laziest and easiest videos to make
For as long as I live I will never understand what twisted mindset one has to have to ever give such stupid thoughts any gas. These people really don't have a loyal bone in their body and are so allergic to accountability it's not even funny
Not sharing with her parents the real reason why you decided to call off the wedding is a big mistake. If you have proof it's enough to send her father that and nobody will bother you anymore. You should control the narrative. Otherwise there's a big chance she will bad mouth you and will make a bad guy.
@@alexr6470 in case of infidelity, never give the cheater the opportunity to tell anyone what happened. Immediately tell everyone. I understand the shame and stigma of being cheated on, but cheaters are liars. Never give them the chance to lie again, and make you the problem.
What do you expect from a man who can't think on his own and needed Reddit to solve his problem? Half of his story was about Reddit and "I don't know what to do". I think this guy craves attention. Sounds like a Beta man to me.
The whole idea of "getting one's urges out" before one gets married during a bachelor or bachelorette is completely ridiculous. First it goes against one of the main reasons for marriage, which is to be able to indulge in one urges within the safe boundaries of a committed relationship which ironically was designed mainly for the benefit of the bride since it ensures that the one she's intimate with has already committed to taking care of her and protecting both her and the possible child they've convinced together in the act. And second the idea itself is born out of the misconception that one cannot have an adventurous and active physical relationship with in a marriage, when as mentioned before is the most ideal condition to have that type of interaction. I think it is because most people today but mostly the nemow, have for some reason dissociated physical arousal and intimacy with emotional connections and commitment. They believe that these two factors can't be in equal measure in a relationship when in reality they have to be balanced in order to have a stable intimate relationship with another individual in the long term. I think this is due to most people starting intimate physical relationships with other people whom they have no established emotional bond with and are only with them due to being physically aroused by said people and by never contemplating being physically intimate with those they have an already established bond with.
She said she rather die then losing OP, but it just take some persuasion from her friend and sister to do something that will jeopardize and made her lose OP.
Conceptually, this mindset makes less and less sense the more you think of it. You’re exclusive for years but think-- just because of further long term and official commitment-- you need to be single for a day before doing what you have the last couple years just with a ring on? 💀 Legit, is it THAT difficult to have hard or uncomfortable conversations? What y’all think?
The engagement is like a lease with an option to buy. For all intents and purposes it's married without the paperwork. You can't turn a 304 into a loyal wife.
Man, the Thank You part really annoying and time wasting. Is this OP think he won an award or something? Almost half his story was about Reddit and "I don't know what to do".
In some weird way despite any type of cheating is cheating with no forgiveness but I fell bj might be worse then intercourse. Though in majority of these stories seems condoms don’t exist
Some people, men or women, really have this idea that the rules are different after marriage. Nah, someone asks you to marry them, you said yes, you're not single. You're not having fun one last time while single. Heck, even before the ring, you're still not single! This mentality is so weird to me
Exactly. For me, loyalty starts the moment you start dating.
Dating and engagement are all tests to see if you are compatible with each other AND if you love each other enough to be loyal.
Fallen! Fallen is Babylon the Great!’
She has become a dwelling for demons
and a haunt for every impure spirit,
a haunt for every unclean bird,
a haunt for every unclean and detestable animal.
3 For all the nations have drunk
the maddening wine of her adulteries.
The kings of the earth committed adultery with her,
and the merchants of the earth grew rich from her excessive luxuries.”
I’ll go further once couple has understanding of exclusivity that’s were it stops or it’s unforgivable cheating
@Daniel-b9i3b yep.
Yeah your statement reminds me of a reddit story years ago when the wife cheated on her husband when they were in the dating phase of their relationship, and her defense was that they were not married so it did not count and she has been loyal since, but I guarantee if he had stepped out during that time she would be singing a different tune, sadly enough the dude simped out and chose to stay with his wife because she started having panic attacks at the thought of divorce.
I admire the way you blend humor with depth; it makes your posts so much fun to read. 😂
He just narrates over things dummy, in fact he didn't even credit the guy in the second story, despite the guy asking to be credited, it's the laziest and easiest videos to make
Her last night of freedom is the day she decided to date OP. She deserves nothing from OP but having the door shut on her.
For as long as I live I will never understand what twisted mindset one has to have to ever give such stupid thoughts any gas.
These people really don't have a loyal bone in their body and are so allergic to accountability it's not even funny
Tell her give the ring to her Dad, you will meet with Dad to get and inform him of what to do.
Not sharing with her parents the real reason why you decided to call off the wedding is a big mistake. If you have proof it's enough to send her father that and nobody will bother you anymore. You should control the narrative. Otherwise there's a big chance she will bad mouth you and will make a bad guy.
@@alexr6470 in case of infidelity, never give the cheater the opportunity to tell anyone what happened. Immediately tell everyone. I understand the shame and stigma of being cheated on, but cheaters are liars. Never give them the chance to lie again, and make you the problem.
What do you expect from a man who can't think on his own and needed Reddit to solve his problem? Half of his story was about Reddit and "I don't know what to do". I think this guy craves attention. Sounds like a Beta man to me.
Dude had every right to ghost and cancel without explaining HER actions and I that makes you the bad guy then so be it.......
The whole idea of "getting one's urges out" before one gets married during a bachelor or bachelorette is completely ridiculous. First it goes against one of the main reasons for marriage, which is to be able to indulge in one urges within the safe boundaries of a committed relationship which ironically was designed mainly for the benefit of the bride since it ensures that the one she's intimate with has already committed to taking care of her and protecting both her and the possible child they've convinced together in the act.
And second the idea itself is born out of the misconception that one cannot have an adventurous and active physical relationship with in a marriage, when as mentioned before is the most ideal condition to have that type of interaction. I think it is because most people today but mostly the nemow, have for some reason dissociated physical arousal and intimacy with emotional connections and commitment. They believe that these two factors can't be in equal measure in a relationship when in reality they have to be balanced in order to have a stable intimate relationship with another individual in the long term. I think this is due to most people starting intimate physical relationships with other people whom they have no established emotional bond with and are only with them due to being physically aroused by said people and by never contemplating being physically intimate with those they have an already established bond with.
She said she rather die then losing OP, but it just take some persuasion from her friend and sister to do something that will jeopardize and made her lose OP.
24:05 bro can’t stop saying “physio the rapist”
Conceptually, this mindset makes less and less sense the more you think of it. You’re exclusive for years but think-- just because of further long term and official commitment-- you need to be single for a day before doing what you have the last couple years just with a ring on? 💀 Legit, is it THAT difficult to have hard or uncomfortable conversations? What y’all think?
just dont accept degenerate behavior. if someone behaves like a kid leave.
The engagement is like a lease with an option to buy. For all intents and purposes it's married without the paperwork. You can't turn a 304 into a loyal wife.
Just tell them that her oh so important freedom shall remain intact, and you shall present no more reasons to give it up.
S1: I see naivety.
Man, the Thank You part really annoying and time wasting. Is this OP think he won an award or something? Almost half his story was about Reddit and "I don't know what to do".
In some weird way despite any type of cheating is cheating with no forgiveness but I fell bj might be worse then intercourse. Though in majority of these stories seems condoms don’t exist
Worst part is he let her kiss him before she left for work. Sad case😂
Op is so smart that he didn’t marry this girl because she would have continue cheat even after marriage story 1
He responds to his wife ???? I thought she was his fiancee. So is he married to her or what.......
Story 2. Plan to live! If you don't, no harm no foul.