if you can't speak for 30 seconds straight about why you should marry that person without stating any negative comments then you shouldn't get married. It's that simple
I agree but at the same time they are supposed to be airing their grievances during the episode so I feel they aren't really in the right mindset. Doesn't really excuse the negative comments but they are probably thinking about the negative things.
no some people may not be good at words especially on the spot in front of cameras. That's why some people choose to not write their wedding vows and to say the ones that are given. Sometimes what you feel can not be explained within 30 seconds. Sometimes its more
@@Jalentheuntold THIRTY SECONDS! And you know Judge is going to ask. They can plan ahead. Most of the ppl who go on this show have no business gettting married or having kids.
Finally, a semi.healthy relationship that does not mention cheating, threesomes or outside break babies! Breath of fresh air. They can easily iron out these minuscule issues. Great couple.
If I were Collin, I'd run. If my partner criticized every little thing I do, such as how to do the dishes, laundry, clean the house, etc., I wouldn't be able to put up with someone breathing down my neck like that. A few tips here and there are helpful, but respect is a two-way street.
Only a simp would've signed that contract. He needs to let his balls drop from inside his body. The fact the intro said she a former chicago bulls cheerleader WTF (O_o) she's not all that much less that. He better run far from that as she hasn't any respect for his family.
You can tell she is a perfectionist. See how she did her hair and makeup and how she smiles. She controls everything about herself and so it’s look natural to her for everything to be perfect.
There are such as beautiful couple. I wish them the best. It is so refreshing to see a couple on this show who can speak well and who aren't shouting over each other constantly. Wow!
All the comments about being attractive...wow. People being attractive doesn't guarantee a successful relationship or that he or she isn't dysfunctional or immature.
Thank you.I guess if you are ugly you deserve the worst to happen but if you are beautiful than poor you.Come on people, if beauty deserves better than Eric Benet and Hallie Berry would not be divorced.
Mr. Franklin that woman is a Keeper. She takes care of her body. She is smart. She is loyal. She is a good mother. She is wifey material... Hopefully you all will work everything out. You all will become a great example for Marriage and family
Valentine's Day is for couples. My boyfriend and I buy eachother Valentine's Day gifts and go eat at a nice restaurant. Women should buy their man a gift too.
Two descent people whose only issue is they are young, perhaps too young to have played house. Ah but, if they make it through the "growing up and together" period they just might make a lifetime of it. I hope they prove statistics wrong for the sake of their daughter, their own happiness and love!
I agree! Funny slip you made in your comment, though. "Descent" means downward travel. I know you meant "decent." Kinda cute, I thought it was almost, but not quite, at opposite purposes. Again, I agree wit cha! 😃
One of the issues with these so called men, is that they were never taught how to be responsible which starts with being taught how to. This dude made a baby with her, lives with her, and still thinks he is living alone. He needs to grow up and put his family's needs in front of his own, trust me you do that, and she will follow you to the ends of the Earth. A woman can make or break a man
***** Two sides to every story! If your homie was being totally disrespected like that, then he should get divorced! We have to show people how to treat us, once they disrespect you, leave them
+Kenneth D. Aston Jr. To leave even disrespected is the height of selfishness & boyhood. Do the tough thing, work to dirt through it. Don't take the easy way out coz that's not what your woman nor your baby need.
Kenneth D. Aston Jr. So true! I’m soon to be married to a man who is so sweet and caring and always helps me through the toughest times (I’m chronically ill). He’s amazing! And I help him when he needs me. You have to be intentional with one another. A good man and a good woman can become even stronger together! There needs to be respect, honesty, loyalty and communication on both sides. The dating world is scary, and I’m grateful to have found the love of my heart.
She's very beautiful. I love her hair. I don't understand why young women have babies by men who they aren't married to. She is doing it all backwards. Males take a long time to mature. I don't think males should marry until thirty, though there are exceptions. Females are more advanced. She continuing his mama's job. He is not bad at all, but he not fully cooked yet.
Yep. women just mature so much faster. Even when they were discussing the drama she caused on facebook because his relative refused to take a post down, I could only think, "there's so much dignity and wisdom in her silliness".
Pookienem Pooky Young women have babies for the same reason young men have babies. It feels good in the moment. There's this idea that women are supposed to be more responsible sexually and have greater self control but that's all bs.
When I was pregnant with my daughter, my grandparents were told by someone we were having a boy bc the stroller system I picked out was navy blue, so they bought all boy clothes for my shower. It broke my heart to tell my grandmother I was having a girl. They were cool about it but my grandfather said they would exchange all the cothes EXCEPT any NY Yankee outfits lol. I only put them on her when we would visit them. 🤣
He's a handsome she is beautiful, they make a beautiful couple. Jacob is truly a beautiful people! I hope for you both that you stay together, stay in love and bless Yah all the days of your lives together💞
Despite the fact that they’re telling on each other they still laugh without disgust at the other person. They clearly still love each other! .. but he couldn’t say why he loves her.. he clearly just hasn’t thought about it! He’ll think about it after this hopefully!
I’m super self-conscious about my big forehead but looking at her and how she rocks the forehead has giving me encouragement thank you girl you’re so beautiful do you
Her: "....and she told me to shut up" Him: "great advice" 🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️ Lol, I like this couple and think they can make it...they just need to get past this immature hump and that will come with age.
For real. its a nice top!!! Martian... I swear I be looking for your comments in the comment section. lol 😅... I know I'll always see u here. lol.... How are u today??
All of this time I've been trying to break into my husband's phone WITHOUT his assistance when he could have IN FACT helped me to break into the phone?!?! Dammit!! LOL
I haven't finished watching but if you have a man who is willing to help with household chores even though he's working and providing I don't think it's okay to complain and pick at every little thing that they do wrong. It's okay to guide them and try to teach them. But the fact that he's he's even willing is definitely a plus
Women need to feel secure so then they start to try to control the situation that they are in to feel secure when they really just need to leave. He is a bachelor and not going to get on the same page until he is ready. Unfortunately, a man can only grow if you allow him space to grow. She is not allowing him to grow by making him feel like a kid.
melanie phoenix He should have thought about "Maturing" before he decided to get married and have kids! And yes being in a relationship, working and taking care of a grow man can cause one to become stern.
If he isn't grown up yet than he shouldn't have get into a relationship in the first place. Relationship and parenthood is not a child play,, if you think you aren't grown up enough to understand the responsibilities that comes as father and husband than you shouldn't get into relationship and you certainly shouldn't plan having children. 😒😒
Pizza and a movie is a great Valentines Day gift for both of us! I don't need or want a l gift. Just having time enjoying each other is the BEST gift to us. Y'all need to get your priorities straight way before you get married and learn how to talk to each other.
@Dadrian Dawkins - Being a controlling micromanager is indeed ugly; however, *objectively speaking* - solely on what's presented here in this videoclip - only someone behaving irresponsibly and displaying chronically incompetent and infantile habits would consider Miss Brewer "controlling". I'm the first bloke to blast an unjustly "controlling" person of any gender, but everything about Mr. Franklin revealed in this episode of Divorce Court indicates that outside of Miss Brewer's "control", Mr. Franklin - and his little baby! - would be in terribly dire straits. He's acting like a douchebag guy in his 20s (I'm 28 and I have a few mates that are also like that). He needs to smarten t.f.u. because he made a baby with Miss Brewer. She even speaks more sensibly than he does! Therefore, I cannot disagree with her: if Mr. Franklin does what he is supposed to, then Miss Brewer would not need to be so controlling.
If she has to micro manage to make sure he completes his own responsibilities- he isn't responsible enough to be in that serious of a relationship. Marriage means you basically invest in each other and become dependent on one another. If he can't bring his A game to the table and continues being a dead beat- there is no point in pursuing marriage. I'm only barely 5 minutes in, but that's just my two cents on the issue at the moment.
No, not at all. Some ppl are just OCD about stuff. She wanna be on him about every little thing & can't be happy with the fact that he does, instead she's on his was about HOW he does.
@@OSMRDucksLIB ocd is an actual disorder so stop using it whenever unless it's actually to describe ocd. And saying someone is "ocd" about something is incorrect because ocd is a diagnosis and stands for obsessive compulsive disorder.
@@tanmbou1510 Oh really? I'm sure neither I, nor anyone else was aware of that. 😳 No one here assumed I was using the clinical version of that term. Also, since she both obsessively and compulsively harps on him about things without logic or reason, you don't know. She very well could be OCD. No different than accusing someone of Narcissism. Get off your high horse.
At the end, when the couple speaks on the advice from the judge, he rolled her eyes when she started talking (admittedly she did cut him off). It would be interesting to read an update on this couple.
If you would like to have dialogue, that is fine. No need to call someone's opinion stupid because one doesn't agree. Of course you would think it is stupid because you are "in a relationship" and taking it personal. lol...ahhh, let me explain dear... Of course if one is not married, one is single. No matter if "in a relationship" or not. There is no "cheating" if one is not married. Let's quickly break it down. From a legal standpoint, that is true. There is no status of "girlfriend/boyfriend" when stating status ...it's is either married or single. If one is not married, he/ she is single. Now because of this shameless, "baby mama" and 'baby daddy" / premarital sex/ playing house epidemic, some courts sometimes try to acknowledge such relationships, however, it can be very complicated, as one can see. In terms of religiously/spiritually, if one is not married, one is single. "Boyfriend/girlfriend" statuses are just childish labels people give each other to justify the enforcement of a commitment that can easily be taken away with a simple "breakup"...there are no real consequences, incentives, or true divine recognition.... The problem is deep down most women would like to be married (as they should) to the man they are "in a relationship" with...unless they are looking for a better man. Most are desperately waiting/begging for the man to finally "give them a name" by marrying them. Being a girlfriend is like trying to demonstrate/ prove how worthy one is for marriage. With marriage there is much responsibility and accountability...things a man who is not serious does not want. There is no real incentive for a man to marry a woman who is voluntarily giving him all the perks and commitment of having a wife without being one. Marriage is a very type of relationship that is significant in legal rights, spiritual bond and recognition, etc...it is a great thing that support women's rights, contrary to what some "feminists" may say. Marriage provides legal protection and respect in communities. The power is in women's hands. If a women is mutual interested in a guy, both parties should find respectable ways to meet and get to know each other (without sexual contact). If there is compatibility, marriage should take place. Of course, people are free to do whatever it is they want to do. It is their right. Just like it is my right and freedom to make a comment...even if it is not favored. Bless
Hi, yes indeed. She even explained this a few episodes ago in her own way. It is ridiculous how the girlfriend is so demanding. He is not her husband. She chose to shack up and have a baby with her "boyfriend".
Well said! I do not get it myself, why have a baby with a woman and not get married? You live together, pay bills, and have a kid...............step up or step off dawg
She is very gorgeous and has a head on her shoulders. She is a woman that will take care of business, her family and her man. Someone you can definitely build with. No she is not perfect and she acknowledges he wrong doings... He is young and but if he feels these things are controlling, he is going to end up losing her and end up with someone he wish he never got together with!
The woman is quite right. He's a lucky guy to have a woman to treat him like a first born. He's being nurtured to do the right thing. Once, you put that ring and that marriage deed, respect the tradition vow that both of you committed. In my opinion, she's the type of a woman I'd like to be with "till death do as part".
There's a distinct difference between micromanaging and being controlling. She lectures him on menial tasks such as, improperly soaking the dishes prior to washing them and sorting laundry. Really? She's even trying to control his friends behavior as it relates to the "Facebook" issue. This young man is in trouble and doesn't even know it. Nothing he will ever do will be good enough to please her no matter how hard he tries. I think she saw a young man that had some admirable qualities that she liked and felt like she could "fix" the things she didn't. She cannot force this 25 year old to mature any faster than he wants to. She's trying to mold him into her ideal man which will guarantee they are doomed to fail.
I didn't hear anything that made him a douche. Nothing wrong with hanging out with friends. I didn't hear anyone accusing anybody of cheating. I think she just has that controlling personality
I don’t understand why women feel they deserve a Valentine’s Day gift and celebration. Why is that one day so important? We put way too much stock and image into these made up holidays as if they actually reflect something about the relationship.
Here's where she made her mistake. She had a baby with a guy who really likes her but he is not ready to get married and take care of household. They are both cute but they are just not ready and he is REALLY not ready. Men take a long time to mature #shrug.
if you can't speak for 30 seconds straight about why you should marry that person without stating any negative comments then you shouldn't get married. It's that simple
Damon T. Davis swear
I agree but at the same time they are supposed to be airing their grievances during the episode so I feel they aren't really in the right mindset. Doesn't really excuse the negative comments but they are probably thinking about the negative things.
no some people may not be good at words especially on the spot in front of cameras. That's why some people choose to not write their wedding vows and to say the ones that are given. Sometimes what you feel can not be explained within 30 seconds. Sometimes its more
@@Jalentheuntold THIRTY SECONDS! And you know Judge is going to ask. They can plan ahead. Most of the ppl who go on this show have no business gettting married or having kids.
@@Jalentheuntold however, they know they are coming on the show & she regularly ask that for before your vows cases...
Finally, a semi.healthy relationship that does not mention cheating, threesomes or outside break babies! Breath of fresh air. They can easily iron out these minuscule issues. Great couple.
Naphisa Modmonss 💯
Right
I know rt.
Bruh the shit isn’t going to work. She is toxic and he needs more time to focus his life and goals
This sounds familiar 🤔
"Grow up"
"And you need to shut up"
My Reaction: 😂😂😂
lol great advice, isn't it ?
Slovania's Studio lol
He was very respectful and very funny! He's gonna be great dad! 🙂
If I were Collin, I'd run. If my partner criticized every little thing I do, such as how to do the dishes, laundry, clean the house, etc., I wouldn't be able to put up with someone breathing down my neck like that. A few tips here and there are helpful, but respect is a two-way street.
Me tooo
Only a simp would've signed that contract. He needs to let his balls drop from inside his body.
The fact the intro said she a former chicago bulls cheerleader WTF (O_o) she's not all that much less that.
He better run far from that as she hasn't any respect for his family.
you treat a child as a child and a man or woman will step Into their role
They both have some maturing to do.
You can tell she is a perfectionist. See how she did her hair and makeup and how she smiles. She controls everything about herself and so it’s look natural to her for everything to be perfect.
Never thought about that. So truee
Yessssss
Her profession of love was even saying the few things that aren’t perfect but I think they could become perfect
Yep and things has to be her way or no way
I really respect this judge a looooooott.. Hats off to you your honor.. God bless you..
There are such as beautiful couple. I wish them the best.
It is so refreshing to see a couple on this show who can speak well and who aren't shouting over each other constantly. Wow!
I love judge Lynn makeup is always flawless also her accessaries
This, you know, is hard to, you know, get through, you know, because of, you know, all the, you know, times he says, "you know."
😂😂😂
yup
MartianBlues You always come with the killer détails lol
that and naturally
You know!
hahaha
Judge Lynn's necklace is cute
Her gloss makes her kissable
Yes! Her necklace game STAY poppin'!
Yessss
They always her.
Too cute. No cheating. No trust issues. They'll make it.
Judge Lyn is beautiful!
Well, they have a fighting chance in my opinion. My head didn't hurt as much as the ratchets that come on here.
M
right
She sure is
Yes she is!
All the comments about being attractive...wow. People being attractive doesn't guarantee a successful relationship or that he or she isn't dysfunctional or immature.
Thank you! Forget all that they look good together bs! He’s not ready and she’s too bossy! The marriage is doomed before it happens!
Thank you.I guess if you are ugly you deserve the worst to happen but if you are beautiful than poor you.Come on people, if beauty deserves better than Eric Benet and Hallie Berry would not be divorced.
Mr. Franklin that woman is a Keeper. She takes care of her body. She is smart. She is loyal. She is a good mother. She is wifey material... Hopefully you all will work everything out. You all will become a great example for Marriage and family
Valentine's Day is for couples. My boyfriend and I buy eachother Valentine's Day gifts and go eat at a nice restaurant. Women should buy their man a gift too.
someone with sense
Judge Lynn brains+beauty=dynamite!
They're throwing rocks at each other instead of listening to each.
Ok
It can be for singles too.
Arrogant ass
People really need gain maturity and find themselves before looking for other people to share their life with.
Two descent people whose only issue is they are young, perhaps too young to have played house. Ah but, if they make it through the "growing up and together" period they just might make a lifetime of it. I hope they prove statistics wrong for the sake of their daughter, their own happiness and love!
I agree! Funny slip you made in your comment, though. "Descent" means downward travel. I know you meant "decent." Kinda cute, I thought it was almost, but not quite, at opposite purposes. Again, I agree wit cha! 😃
One of the issues with these so called men, is that they were never taught how to be responsible which starts with being taught how to. This dude made a baby with her, lives with her, and still thinks he is living alone. He needs to grow up and put his family's needs in front of his own, trust me you do that, and she will follow you to the ends of the Earth. A woman can make or break a man
***** Two sides to every story! If your homie was being totally disrespected like that, then he should get divorced! We have to show people how to treat us, once they disrespect you, leave them
+Kenneth D. Aston Jr. To leave even disrespected is the height of selfishness & boyhood. Do the tough thing, work to dirt through it. Don't take the easy way out coz that's not what your woman nor your baby need.
Kenneth D. Aston Jr. You are wrong on that comment..... Women weren't taught to be responsible
Kenneth D. Aston Jr. So true! I’m soon to be married to a man who is so sweet and caring and always helps me through the toughest times (I’m chronically ill). He’s amazing! And I help him when he needs me. You have to be intentional with one another. A good man and a good woman can become even stronger together! There needs to be respect, honesty, loyalty and communication on both sides. The dating world is scary, and I’m grateful to have found the love of my heart.
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 women are naturally responsible
I counted about 86 "You know"s from his speech and 35 from hers
you have too much time on your hands
Pia Francis -- ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yea you do
Pia Francis Or too much patience
Pia Francis 😂😂😂😂
This is a beautiful family,I hope they can get it together.
She's very beautiful. I love her hair.
I don't understand why young women have babies by men who they aren't married to. She is doing it all backwards.
Males take a long time to mature. I don't think males should marry until thirty, though there are exceptions. Females are more advanced. She continuing his mama's job. He is not bad at all, but he not fully cooked yet.
Yep. women just mature so much faster. Even when they were discussing the drama she caused on facebook because his relative refused to take a post down, I could only think, "there's so much dignity and wisdom in her silliness".
There is no age-limit; it just depends on the person. People should marry whenever they are ready to get married.
love this comment!
Pookienem Pooky what hair that a weave
Pookienem Pooky Young women have babies for the same reason young men have babies. It feels good in the moment. There's this idea that women are supposed to be more responsible sexually and have greater self control but that's all bs.
"misproperly"
Improperly: "Am I a joke to you?"
Well, they have a fighting chance in my opinion. My head didn't hurt as much as the ratchets that come on here.
In summary: "Grow up! Grow up! And you shut up!" Hahahahaha! Gotta love Judge Toler! They're young, but I hope they make it.
When I was pregnant with my daughter, my grandparents were told by someone we were having a boy bc the stroller system I picked out was navy blue, so they bought all boy clothes for my shower. It broke my heart to tell my grandmother I was having a girl. They were cool about it but my grandfather said they would exchange all the cothes EXCEPT any NY Yankee outfits lol. I only put them on her when we would visit them. 🤣
No marriage, not ready.
She better 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 🏃 don't Look while he runing..she is very smart.. He not ready.
Hahaha
@@alicewashington7762 she has an awful personality
He's a handsome she is beautiful, they make a beautiful couple. Jacob is truly a beautiful people! I hope for you both that you stay together, stay in love and bless Yah all the days of your lives together💞
They are such a cute couple, I wish them all the best.
She reminds me of Whitney from the soap opera Passions
Jarrett Freeney She does!
Yeah...That show was too loong...they dragged it a lot!
she does!
Jarrett Freeney omg yasss lol I miss tht show
Thoogie yea
Despite the fact that they’re telling on each other they still laugh without disgust at the other person. They clearly still love each other!
.. but he couldn’t say why he loves her.. he clearly just hasn’t thought about it! He’ll think about it after this hopefully!
yeah she's pretty but I do not care for her personality
Leonie Ngandu yeah she is very controlling. I dont care how pretty she is, i am out.
@@takingover7805 agree with your statement. Pretty???
Well both of them still needs to grow up 😅
She's annoying
@@diesel4135 SUPER
Perfect couple, I love there chemistry, we humans are not perfect, we must accept each other flows.
Judge Lynn Toler's jewelry looks so gorgeous in this "Divorce Court" episode.
They are one nice looking couple.
She told me to shut up...Great Advice....That took me out...😭😭😭
they are so cute together. 😍😍Only a problem of maturity. which is sharap an growing up😂😂😂😂😂
She seems so smart yet she had a child with someone she was not married to, I will never understand why people do that
I’m super self-conscious about my big forehead but looking at her and how she rocks the forehead has giving me encouragement thank you girl you’re so beautiful do you
Auntie Lynn's hair is so ON POINT ON TODAY FAMILY!
She is SO GORGEOUS my goodness
Her: "....and she told me to shut up"
Him: "great advice" 🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️
Lol, I like this couple and think they can make it...they just need to get past this immature hump and that will come with age.
They are so cute together, minor issues, they will survive.
Hi
This really has nothing to do with the episode but I like the woman's top.
Idk if it's really "courtroom appropriate," but it's very nice.
She needs to lose those braids
For real.
its a nice top!!!
Martian... I swear I be looking for your comments in the comment section. lol 😅... I know I'll always see u here. lol....
How are u today??
MartianBlues We definitely agree on this one! I love that top and color!
Faith Lioness
Lol yep! I'm always here 😂😂
I'm doing well. How are you?
Yea and her bottom is nice too lol
All of this time I've been trying to break into my husband's phone WITHOUT his assistance when he could have IN FACT helped me to break into the phone?!?! Dammit!! LOL
Way too much time on you hands…
I haven't finished watching but if you have a man who is willing to help with household chores even though he's working and providing I don't think it's okay to complain and pick at every little thing that they do wrong. It's okay to guide them and try to teach them. But the fact that he's he's even willing is definitely a plus
The Asian guy in the audience is cute af.
Hees isss 👀👀
oukwrp@Nyja Spice you y
He needs his eyebrows worked on a little bit but he's proof of what God can do when he's having a good day
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Ok so I had to go back and look to see who this guy is!
They deserve each other. Stop the nonsense and small fights....
It's very calm and their not really shouting just normal voices
Women need to feel secure so then they start to try to control the situation that they are in to feel secure when they really just need to leave. He is a bachelor and not going to get on the same page until he is ready. Unfortunately, a man can only grow if you allow him space to grow. She is not allowing him to grow by making him feel like a kid.
melanie phoenix He should have thought about "Maturing" before he decided to get married and have kids! And yes being in a relationship, working and taking care of a grow man can cause one to become stern.
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melanie phoenix I agree. they need space
If he isn't grown up yet than he shouldn't have get into a relationship in the first place.
Relationship and parenthood is not a child play,, if you think you aren't grown up enough to understand the responsibilities that comes as father and husband than you shouldn't get into relationship and you certainly shouldn't plan having children. 😒😒
@@angeliqueesprit9940 Yet she opened her legs..... and her behavior is immature as well
Expressing your love should not involve what a person does for you!
Love is action; so I’m not sure about that one. Anyone can say they love you with just words; but the actions definitely need to follow.
They're both low-key selfish 😒. That Asian guy in the back tho 😍☺
Laura Jayy he looks half dead!💀
oh yeah
Laura Jayy RIGHT😂♥️
He's high as hell lmao
Haha.He cute, 😍but he'd does look kind of high😅
Pizza and a movie is a great Valentines Day gift for both of us! I don't need or want a l gift. Just having time enjoying each other is the BEST gift to us.
Y'all need to get your priorities straight way before you get married and learn how to talk to each other.
She is so beautiful!
Shaneka Greene I swear 😍
she is also controlling, which makes her very ugly.
@Dadrian Dawkins - Being a controlling micromanager is indeed ugly; however, *objectively speaking* - solely on what's presented here in this videoclip - only someone behaving irresponsibly and displaying chronically incompetent and infantile habits would consider Miss Brewer "controlling".
I'm the first bloke to blast an unjustly "controlling" person of any gender, but everything about Mr. Franklin revealed in this episode of Divorce Court indicates that outside of Miss Brewer's "control", Mr. Franklin - and his little baby! - would be in terribly dire straits. He's acting like a douchebag guy in his 20s (I'm 28 and I have a few mates that are also like that). He needs to smarten t.f.u. because he made a baby with Miss Brewer. She even speaks more sensibly than he does!
Therefore, I cannot disagree with her: if Mr. Franklin does what he is supposed to, then Miss Brewer would not need to be so controlling.
He is a handsome man
When are people going to stop looking at the outside??! I'm telling you, you have to deal with all the "woman".. inside and out
I love her braids !
the asian guy behind the girl is cute 💖 😊
True
Just checked him out
Yes... I do appreciate GIFTS from my significant other. ..
If she has to micro manage to make sure he completes his own responsibilities- he isn't responsible enough to be in that serious of a relationship.
Marriage means you basically invest in each other and become dependent on one another. If he can't bring his A game to the table and continues being a dead beat- there is no point in pursuing marriage.
I'm only barely 5 minutes in, but that's just my two cents on the issue at the moment.
+Kat Howard Nah that's straight facts. 2 people has to be in the same page at all times (once the marriage life starts).
No, not at all. Some ppl are just OCD about stuff. She wanna be on him about every little thing & can't be happy with the fact that he does, instead she's on his was about HOW he does.
@@OSMRDucksLIB ocd is an actual disorder so stop using it whenever unless it's actually to describe ocd. And saying someone is "ocd" about something is incorrect because ocd is a diagnosis and stands for obsessive compulsive disorder.
@@tanmbou1510 Oh really? I'm sure neither I, nor anyone else was aware of that. 😳
No one here assumed I was using the clinical version of that term. Also, since she both obsessively and compulsively harps on him about things without logic or reason, you don't know. She very well could be OCD.
No different than accusing someone of Narcissism.
Get off your high horse.
@@OSMRDucksLIB I agree with both sides. Both of them have things to work on; like most humans do. I see your point.
Okay, wait. A Janet/Taraji mix?
AJ Writer I said Michelle from destinys child
AJ Writer stop it
HAHAHAHAaa...She cute
BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!
What did she get him for valentines
Yusuf T he gets the box if he act right
quetta18 thats not a gift
Yusuf Timson Whh the hell would she get his broke ass anything for valentines dayfor?
sex is the only gift...??? Doesn't she benefit from that too??? Many are brainwashed.
Exactly, men want nice cards, chocolate, dinner and maybe flowers too.
Valentines day is for couples.
They both look like someone. I can't quite put my finger in who. Janet Jackson and John Legend's cousin maybe?
AJ Writer she looks like jonell mone and he looks like ryan leslie to me
You nailed it!
shae moore That's exactly how they look
AJ Writer I
They do.
I finally called water dept and discovered how many used gallons raise the bill. It was a lot.less that I expected
I'm going to use that for my kids do not end up paying the stupid tax 👏🏾🙋🏾♀️
At the end, when the couple speaks on the advice from the judge, he rolled her eyes when she started talking (admittedly she did cut him off). It would be interesting to read an update on this couple.
A Brown they had another baby and they’re not together anymore lol
"Are you scared yet"? Lol
this couple is beautiful. Wow
That was awfully brave of him at 19:16 😂
both very well spoken , especially for her
They are an attractive couple.
She kind of looks like Porsha from The Real Housewives Of Atlanta and Janelle Monae combined.
If you are not married, you are single. Stop demanding things when you are not the wife. Get married, then have children...not the other way around.
i dont knw hw many times judge has to say this !,,, take your time, get to know someone
If you would like to have dialogue, that is fine. No need to call someone's opinion stupid because one doesn't agree. Of course you would think it is stupid because you are "in a relationship" and taking it personal. lol...ahhh, let me explain dear...
Of course if one is not married, one is single. No matter if "in a relationship" or not. There is no "cheating" if one is not married. Let's quickly break it down.
From a legal standpoint, that is true. There is no status of "girlfriend/boyfriend" when stating status ...it's is either married or single. If one is not married, he/ she is single. Now because of this shameless, "baby mama" and 'baby daddy" / premarital sex/ playing house epidemic, some courts sometimes try to acknowledge such relationships, however, it can be very complicated, as one can see.
In terms of religiously/spiritually, if one is not married, one is single. "Boyfriend/girlfriend" statuses are just childish labels people give each other to justify the enforcement of a commitment that can easily be taken away with a simple "breakup"...there are no real consequences, incentives, or true divine recognition....
The problem is deep down most women would like to be married (as they should) to the man they are "in a relationship" with...unless they are looking for a better man. Most are desperately waiting/begging for the man to finally "give them a name" by marrying them. Being a girlfriend is like trying to demonstrate/ prove how worthy one is for marriage. With marriage there is much responsibility and accountability...things a man who is not serious does not want. There is no real incentive for a man to marry a woman who is voluntarily giving him all the perks and commitment of having a wife without being one. Marriage is a very type of relationship that is significant in legal rights, spiritual bond and recognition, etc...it is a great thing that support women's rights, contrary to what some "feminists" may say. Marriage provides legal protection and respect in communities. The power is in women's hands. If a women is mutual interested in a guy, both parties should find respectable ways to meet and get to know each other (without sexual contact). If there is compatibility, marriage should take place.
Of course, people are free to do whatever it is they want to do. It is their right. Just like it is my right and freedom to make a comment...even if it is not favored.
Bless
Hi, yes indeed. She even explained this a few episodes ago in her own way.
It is ridiculous how the girlfriend is so demanding. He is not her husband. She chose to shack up and have a baby with her "boyfriend".
drlovie i agree totally.
Well said! I do not get it myself, why have a baby with a woman and not get married? You live together, pay bills, and have a kid...............step up or step off dawg
She is very gorgeous and has a head on her shoulders. She is a woman that will take care of business, her family and her man. Someone you can definitely build with. No she is not perfect and she acknowledges he wrong doings... He is young and but if he feels these things are controlling, he is going to end up losing her and end up with someone he wish he never got together with!
Judge Lynn obviously exaggerated that reading
EvelynLove Fosu-Duah forreal 😂😂😂😂😂
he is who he is
She's trying to raise a grown man...Leave him and let him continue to be irresponsible, both financially and mentally.
moni H. Are you serious?She's nitpicking
Ctfu!! Judge : As long as y'all don't invite me to the wedding, then go on and get married.
Me: dead
The woman is quite right. He's a lucky guy to have a woman to treat him like a first born. He's being nurtured to do the right thing. Once, you put that ring and that marriage deed, respect the tradition vow that both of you committed. In my opinion, she's the type of a woman I'd like to be with "till death do as part".
She's yours.
They are a cute couple. They can definitely work it out, those are just trivial problems that can be fixed. 🙂
Judge Lynn, you can really rap. OMG!!! I love dat.
omg he looked just like my ex. but mine was super responsible: in school, own place and a job.
There's a distinct difference between micromanaging and being controlling. She lectures him on menial tasks such as, improperly soaking the dishes prior to washing them and sorting laundry. Really? She's even trying to control his friends behavior as it relates to the "Facebook" issue.
This young man is in trouble and doesn't even know it. Nothing he will ever do will be good enough to please her no matter how hard he tries. I think she saw a young man that had some admirable qualities that she liked and felt like she could "fix" the things she didn't. She cannot force this 25 year old to mature any faster than he wants to. She's trying to mold him into her ideal man which will guarantee they are doomed to fail.
Kirby Augustine Agreed!
Why do I get the feeling that she may accidentally on purpose have stopped taking birth control pills... That man needs to run!
She sure giggles a lot, maybe nervous. I hope they grow together, after all, they have a little Princess.
That Asian guy in the back is literally a mood.
He’s like... I literally DO NOT CARE.
she's beautiful and he's cute
They are honesty a cute couple😭
How to argue correctly????
jermainespeaks right! It's called communicate
That’s what I said Lmaoo tf
Surprised Judge didn't touch on that. She was sounding real stupid.
I didn't hear anything that made him a douche. Nothing wrong with hanging out with friends. I didn't hear anyone accusing anybody of cheating. I think she just has that controlling personality
This one *is* a cautionary tale!
Judge Lynn Toler is so beautiful and smart.
This is one of the best couples on DC. Intelligent but they also show what not to do. I hope they work things out.
I don’t understand why women feel they deserve a Valentine’s Day gift and celebration. Why is that one day so important? We put way too much stock and image into these made up holidays as if they actually reflect something about the relationship.
Refreshing couple! I hope they do get married.
She want someone who will stand up to her and tell her go sit the he'll down somewhere
Here's where she made her mistake. She had a baby with a guy who really likes her but he is not ready to get married and take care of household. They are both cute but they are just not ready and he is REALLY not ready. Men take a long time to mature #shrug.
He goes out to get away from her! She doesn’t seem to appreciate what he brings to the relationship
I'm talking about judge Lynn necklace!!!! I need her accessories!
Hahaha i love them already😂😂😂 crazy but really cute couple
12:50 "My lady over here . . .!" (flap)
Me: oh shit this gonna be good
Do people in America go to court for marital advice? In my country, we go to some kind of marital advisor which we pay for consulting..
Carissa Marella We can do that here. But if you appear on the show it’s free. A very lame reason I agree.
@@charlesanderson1422 They get paid $800 and travel n food is free.