GIRL CHAT: NO CONTROL OVER YOUR EMOTIONS MAKES YOU WEAK & EASY TO MANIPULATE

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @Akilahh
    @Akilahh 3 дні тому +92

    Switching to a mindset of gratitude has changed my life. This morning I was cleaning and getting more and more agitated because it was taking long and my arms were hurting but when I shifted my mindset from “ugh I hate this, can’t wait for it to be over” to “I’m so glad that I can provide a clean environment for my family” I was able to power through and finish while in a much better mood

  • @sixteen.candles.4644
    @sixteen.candles.4644 3 дні тому +49

    I have to tell you how much and how deeply I appreciate you. I've been dealing with a break up(in the midst of school) and I feel im coming out of it. You inspire me to look deeper and look within. Thank You❤

  • @seebzt
    @seebzt 3 дні тому +14

    I love listening to Yanie, and as someone diagnosed with a chronic mental health illness, I often feel powerless over the way my mind skews situations or opportunities. Fear is my default. But when Yanie spoke of the way we cannot let our feelings be facts, it really reinforced to me that the things learned in therapy need to be practiced or there will be no hope for improvement. Staying stuck in my bed because I feel like nobody wants me around, is not fact. Feeling like I’ll never reach my goals because of my disability, is not a fact. Just feelings.

  • @manij1913
    @manij1913 3 дні тому +7

    I’m out here tryna balance my emotions with my logic 😂😂 . My therapist is in for one lol it was torture getting any emotion out of me bc most of the time I felt nothing or cut the emotion off and I realized that’s just as bad . Cheers to finding the balance

  • @tree_the_kid
    @tree_the_kid 2 дні тому +2

    Using critical thinking skills and getting to the facts/ truth of every situation we face daily is the best way to know what true love , peace and serenity feels like for yourself and how to treat others❤ always speak the truth of every matter. I totally agree Yanie.

  • @Kreezword913
    @Kreezword913 3 дні тому +16

    Yanie I know that about being easily manipulated first hand because I had low self esteem and treated the man like he was the prize. I felt like I was unworthy to be with him. HE USED IT AGAINST ME! Now, I am learning my worth by challenging my negative thoughts, dealing with my shadow side and rewriting my story. Thank you Yanie for the live ❤

  • @kimb.8182
    @kimb.8182 2 дні тому +1

    Girl! 😂😂😂 I did a week long fast (just fruits and veggies + parasite cleanse And 3/7 days I did a water fast and Genuinely lost a Lot of inflammation . It totally reset my body . In a week I was down 2 dress sizes . Still fighting my way to keep weight on now and that was 2 yrs ago lol . I can’t believe it worked , I don’t think she meant to be shady girl

  • @nonolove206
    @nonolove206 3 дні тому +4

    Kanye pepper has me weak asf

    • @alicia_nicole
      @alicia_nicole 2 дні тому

      I thought i was the only one that caught that😂😂

  • @stuartwhite8939
    @stuartwhite8939 3 дні тому +13

    The fact that you’re canceling your workshop shows that you have high levels of integrity. Integrity, something that you make a main point in your messages. Thank you for being the teacher and the student!

  • @aerikaashley7519
    @aerikaashley7519 3 дні тому +3

    Thank you for this live Yanni. It was a real good discussion I really enjoyed it. ❤

  • @rachelesmith3342
    @rachelesmith3342 3 дні тому +5

    Ladies, School is back in session with Yanie ❤️ I gotta take notes on this gold

  • @Simonetraceyxo
    @Simonetraceyxo 3 дні тому +10

    Wow Yanie this is a VERY health mindset to have! Great video !

  • @jvstkiki
    @jvstkiki 3 дні тому +2

    I’m happy for the relaunch. I can’t wait to see what you create. 🎉

  • @allMinabe
    @allMinabe 3 дні тому +7

    Im kinda disappointed in the amount of women that were capping for her but can't see that she's a possible fraudster. Never watched the isis video but the white theme thumbnail is a classic ytuber tactic to look innocent/ believable

  • @samm8250
    @samm8250 3 дні тому +10

    Kanyè pepper? 😂😂

    • @busisanindlovu2156
      @busisanindlovu2156 3 дні тому +3

      This was the comment I was looking for.... thought I didn't hear her clearly. I can never call it 'kay-en' pepper again. Kanyè pepper moving forward😅😂❤ I love it!

  • @RubiPearl560
    @RubiPearl560 3 дні тому +7

    So let me find out the reason I don’t get colds is because of my spicy 🌶️ foods 😂. I knew it was Benifits to it. Spiritually I’ve always been connected to spicy stuff!!

  • @mizzgoodie123
    @mizzgoodie123 2 дні тому

    😂 “heifer “

  • @therantingshop7423
    @therantingshop7423 3 дні тому +2

    Kanye pepper? When did this pepper come out? lol

  • @ryanegoe7579
    @ryanegoe7579 3 дні тому +2

    Literally texturism wth

    • @ryanegoe7579
      @ryanegoe7579 3 дні тому +2

      It’s just seems like if these movements aren’t certain on their values they will succumb to anything. They all been gettin hijacked

    • @ryanegoe7579
      @ryanegoe7579 3 дні тому +1

      Somebody @ the Christians 🫶🏼⭐️

  • @trish6116
    @trish6116 3 дні тому +1

    I already know it’s gonna be a good video and it’s the perfect time for it too I’ve been doing so much reflection and growth

  • @dominique2o06
    @dominique2o06 3 дні тому

    Yanie I am very much trying to be realistic about myself and other women and men. No people do not like this period. So It's always still things to work on. Just thanks for sharing your perspective 🤎 please everyone understand it's not about agreeing on everything it's about taken in her perspective ✌🏾

  • @MelodyPrimp
    @MelodyPrimp 3 дні тому +4

    Yanie what you said about black women being emotional but the world doesnt give an f is so true. To sum up the presidential run, Kamala lost because she ran a campaign based on emotion and Trump ran a campaign based on reality.

  • @RubiPearl560
    @RubiPearl560 3 дні тому +4

    Yani❤❤❤❤

  • @simplyshatice
    @simplyshatice 3 дні тому

    You come across rude sometimes and it reminds me of how you said Isis was when you spoke of her on TonyaTKO show. You come off uncompassionate, heartless, and you separate yourself from the message like you’re above the people you speak to. Please mind yourself cause the universe humbles us all eventually

    • @simplyshatice
      @simplyshatice 3 дні тому

      I’m only 4 minutes in. Then had the nerve to change your tone at 4:22 mark and say you say this with compassion. Reminds me of how verbal abusers tell you it’s for your own good or they say this with love. Bull. Listen to how you came in speaking and the change in voice at the mark I stated. You truly sounded compassionate at that mark but the damage is done and your true feelings were always displayed 🥴

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  3 дні тому +8

      Idgaf just block me that’s what mature adults do when they don’t like someone. 😉

  • @Duchess_nicol
    @Duchess_nicol 3 дні тому

    🤍🙌🏽