Me I will demand respect and respect and respect! Majority of our mum suffered enough in the marriages that were not even meant to be! Through own experience... my first marriage lasted for only a year! I walked out and never looked back... currently remarried for some years now and I have never regretted..... I feel loved and in love... I am enjoying the sweet fruit of marriage! My happiness matters
We protect our men all the time( kwanza our African men) yet crucify and blame women when marriage fail. I agree women are homemaker but someone help me understand how awomen is going to build a firm marriage with an abuser, or a cheats. Our motivational speakers don’t mention emotional abuse that women go through when their partners cheat! Myself worth is not fighting for a cheat or an abuser noooooh!!!!!!
I’m always adamant with these “old women’s narratives” that’s why most of them live with anger because they never lived they just survived all in the name of “kuvumilia”.It’s not right,no one is more human than the other we all need respect,love and being treated well.....Nîdathie
@@mercykariuki1893 I also dnt listen to their advice. Telling women to kuvumilia in a failing marriage. This is the reason they keep on saying our marriages are failing cs some of us have refused to stay in terrible marriages. It's never that serious and at the end of the day we all have individual lives to live.
😪😪😪 this is what I'm going through married for 2months and I'm 7months pregnant he is cheating rude to me telling me to leave and his mum is on his side I'm just confused wheather to leave or not..
We cannot support infidelity in the name of nothing new in the sun. If your husband is cheating on you or abusing you, You have no apologies to make as you walk away. Never take responsibility for your partner’s bad behavior. We have to value ourselves as women for me to value us.
I concur with you. Respect is earned, I can't advice anyone to stay in/with "uncomfortable" situations in the name of building a home where you are not "respected" .
I admire the know-how and unparalleled wisdom of Pst Joyce in life lessons and especially pertaining to marriages and relationships. Can she please consider speaking to our girls in primary and secondary schools about this especially in the wake of teenage pregnancies, divorces, broken moral fabric...
That's the way to go Pastor Joyce. I always wonder why ladies are so shy to say their age. Always remember, the day you were born there are those who never saw sun set, others dint live for a week, month a year, a decade, etc. So let us always appreciate our ages. The older you are, the more blessed you are. Each day we thank God for favouring us with a new day. So let's be greatful to God each day and shout our ages any time we are asked.
Yeeep😌...mm hapo ati second chance mtu umeshika like twedi times Issa no...don't destroy their ego...what about my ego....what about my terittory...married and happy ama single and happy👌🏾
she is good but she missed a few POINT as you cant live with an adulterer and this is his life style. he seems to be very insecure. honestly i cant entertain such a man. he could be sick with AIDS. WHERE WOULD YOU GET A WOMAN WHO CAN ENTERTAIN NONSESE!
Monica you are a good interviewer and your guest did so well. She is so real. I like her composure and responses to the questions. There is a lot to learn from Pastor Joyce.
Kagoni you are doing great .The show was a free advice to all. Divorcee, seperatee, couples , preachers , business pple etc. Joyce was my high school mate. She still look the same gorgeous ’
She is very beautiful and young at 50yrs 🙏👌🌹grace of God is sufficient, pst Joyce is hilarious gukunda akundete owega 😂🤣good advice but I feel umetetea wanaume Sana 😪who will terollate such kind of man in this century?? U are simply telling women to wait for mental torture etc
Me too I love her wisdom and fear of God in her. I Was so annoyed with my husband and I came across this message. You really advised me because am in the same situation as her. You are God send. Have learn alot by listening to you. I thank God for you. Now I will stand in prayer and I will respect my husband. My enemy is Satan and not my husband. Thank you woman of God. God bless you Mightily. Kindly take time call women for conference to listen to you pastor.
A very balance interview...I have really enjoyed it though hurtful moments coz Pastor is wise...she didn't just tell us the evil her husband did to her but also the good, she didn't just heap all the blame to him but also admits what did wrong and offers remedy
I tend to disagree, emotional torture is worse than physical torture. A man can humiliate you to apoint you loose your self worth, you feel nothing good is worth living for. Emotional abuse is so bad it can lead to suicide. Let's stop normalizing emotional abuse and cheating in relationships. Kuna ingine ni too much
It's the home for me. So beautiful and calm. Fortunately or unfortunately am glad you weren't saved when you left your marriage, that was one sane choice. Sometimes religion blinds up from the truth. I don't think there is an amount of effort that would savage a marriage in which a man has slept with a House gal . You are so beautiful and bold.
I cannot believe there's a woman out there that will wait for the husband to come off the housemaid, comeback from the friend's house, blame herself into fixing and building her home!! My goodness! People applaud this advice when it's not their sister or daughter! If you can build 1 home...woman, you can start again and build another one! Look at her! she left, built again, is glowing, and living in a mansion. I bet she would be old and depressed had she stayed...similarly...at 48:00 she contradicts herself by asking God to count her in the class of widows! That the same God that blesses men can bless women...and she was blessed...!!!! What is this !
Ahh madam ni wa kwetu kabisa.. Kwetu ni kamira village.. From kianjiruini she knows my aunt Njambi wa mukinyo.. Good to hear about githuya kulikua jina baya zaidi.. Hatumgefikilia kutebeaa huko
Monica you're very professional despite being very pretty, I got to know you through Virginia's Wangari's story "kamotho's" I've been following you closely though I don't comment all the time, I like your professionalism
Pastor Wanjiru is a wonderful preacher, mentor, quite interesting and a very funny mama. I think the separation worked for her cos she didn't really love him and he had hurt her so much in many ways. But kuna kuvumilia kuna leta kidonda. moyoni.
Friends, we need to appreciate that times have changed. Gone are the days we used to hear, mucii ni wa mutumia. Friends, it takes 2 to tango even in Afrocinema. Therefore mucii ni wa mutumia na muthuri!!!!!
Waiting to hear from her.... how she handled that issue when the guy insulted her mother.....I think that was most painful moment .ithink it's not light or fare when we involve our parent in our problem with disrespect. They deserve whole respect.
There must be an explanation. At the moment we only have one side of the story. Sometimes when people are told the truth they say they've been insulted.
Wow monika you look so beautiful and guest too, lakini ata kama mtu hachapwi your partner can bring diseases home, i think she did good by walking away.. Good interview
Monicah n pastor Joyce u look so beautiful,n wat u r teaching us is beautiful too God bless you, Monny kaa na Kagoni no hubby s fried 😅😅😅....... all the best n safe de..............baby s baby but receive a queen IJN🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
Well spoken. Indeed God has brought me through and I am now a grandma. Though life was tough bringing up children single handedly, at least they grew up. Thanks be to God.
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Humble gal GOD bless you
Kagoni lkng so smart 🥰🥰
Please tell us where you get your dresses. They are beautiful.
Aki woye...Try to speak english or kiswahili hatuelewi kikuyu
Ngwa na marurumi😂 Thitima!
Mbona hakuna mtu anasema kagoni is cute❤️
I noticed she looks glorious...
She’s always beautiful 👍
She is beautiful
🥰🥰🥰🥰
Beautiful as usual 🥰🥰
Me I will demand respect and respect and respect! Majority of our mum suffered enough in the marriages that were not even meant to be! Through own experience... my first marriage lasted for only a year! I walked out and never looked back... currently remarried for some years now and I have never regretted..... I feel loved and in love... I am enjoying the sweet fruit of marriage! My happiness matters
We protect our men all the time( kwanza our African men) yet crucify and blame women when marriage fail. I agree women are homemaker but someone help me understand how awomen is going to build a firm marriage with an abuser, or a cheats. Our motivational speakers don’t mention emotional abuse that women go through when their partners cheat! Myself worth is not fighting for a cheat or an abuser noooooh!!!!!!
I’m always adamant with these “old women’s narratives” that’s why most of them live with anger because they never lived they just survived all in the name of “kuvumilia”.It’s not right,no one is more human than the other we all need respect,love and being treated well.....Nîdathie
Ubaya ni kikuyu wengine hatuelewi
@@mercykariuki1893 I also dnt listen to their advice. Telling women to kuvumilia in a failing marriage. This is the reason they keep on saying our marriages are failing cs some of us have refused to stay in terrible marriages. It's never that serious and at the end of the day we all have individual lives to live.
😪😪😪 this is what I'm going through married for 2months and I'm 7months pregnant he is cheating rude to me telling me to leave and his mum is on his side I'm just confused wheather to leave or not..
Kagoni niuri style ya interviewing itari ndona na any other tv host.
And you are beautiful too
If she looks this beautiful at 50,imagine how she looked back then💞That man was a gathenge hakuna kitu ya kuregret hapo.Her house is goals.
I love her smooth complexion.
Imagine hata leo ako tu hivi. Wacha tu matwenties na mathates alikuwa kirorerwa. Huyu mzeya wake analianga machozi anapomkumbuka na sii finyo.
Umesahau wanaume ni wale to
We cannot support infidelity in the name of nothing new in the sun. If your husband is cheating on you or abusing you, You have no apologies to make as you walk away. Never take responsibility for your partner’s bad behavior. We have to value ourselves as women for me to value us.
I concur with you. Respect is earned, I can't advice anyone to stay in/with "uncomfortable" situations in the name of building a home where you are not "respected" .
I love pastor and Joyce. Bring her back to talk about single mature women and who are not married cos the society think they have failed
Joyce, never see yourself as a failure cos you are not married. Better to stay alone and safe and avoid that pain of betrayal.
She did right to choose her mum over that man. Respect lasts longer than attention
The video is of very good quality both pic and sound, kudos
I admire the know-how and unparalleled wisdom of Pst Joyce in life lessons and especially pertaining to marriages and relationships. Can she please consider speaking to our girls in primary and secondary schools about this especially in the wake of teenage pregnancies, divorces, broken moral fabric...
She is those women I would listen to preach. She is very interesting.
Feeling inspired aki
That's the way to go Pastor Joyce. I always wonder why ladies are so shy to say their age. Always remember, the day you were born there are those who never saw sun set, others dint live for a week, month a year, a decade, etc. So let us always appreciate our ages. The older you are, the more blessed you are. Each day we thank God for favouring us with a new day. So let's be greatful to God each day and shout our ages any time we are asked.
Wacha nifate advice ya Benjamin Zulu mimi which says
It's either you are happily single or happily married.Zingine sitambui mimi.
Yeeep😌...mm hapo ati second chance mtu umeshika like twedi times Issa no...don't destroy their ego...what about my ego....what about my terittory...married and happy ama single and happy👌🏾
Ngai uria urathimaga Arume nowe urathimaga Atumia . Glory Be to God I like this
She is very hilarious and interesting to listen to . 😃 The two of you are very beautiful women . God bless you
Too much wisdom from her. Thank you for saying the truth.
she is good but she missed a few POINT as you cant live with an adulterer and this is his life style. he seems to be very insecure. honestly i cant entertain such a man. he could be sick with AIDS. WHERE WOULD YOU GET A WOMAN WHO CAN ENTERTAIN NONSESE!
This is a proverbs 31 woman...your words are seasoned, pure wisdom...
Waoooo the show too encouraging , interesting I have learned more.God bless you pastor joyce.
Very bright woman full of wisdom.
Absolutely
Kagoni you're glowing everyday..you look amazing💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
What women go through in marriage😢pastor Joyce is not only beautiful but hilarious 😍❤️keep winning Ma
Wanjiru muya Yani Kwa hizi streets za UA-cam lazima nikutane na comment yako😂😂😂
Wanjiru muya Mimi nikikosa comment yako najuanga story haibambi 😁😁
@@murikiraalice1409 mwenyeji😂
@@marthakariuki818 haha hey Martha😊
Very true
Monica you are a good interviewer and your guest did so well. She is so real. I like her composure and responses to the questions. There is a lot to learn from Pastor Joyce.
Kagoni you are doing great .The show was a free advice to all. Divorcee, seperatee, couples , preachers , business pple etc. Joyce was my high school mate. She still look the same gorgeous ’
Good testimony but being in a bad marriage kills, esp emotionally. I believe walking out of a bad marriage is a bravery.
And diseases are there
You are right, there was nothing in this marriage
sure just leave as this is his life and he is a sick insecure man
Monica your hair is smart and Pastor Joyce you are beautiful..
Her beauty don't stop the so called husband to sleep around with other women, he had No respect for her nor saw her beauty, so sad.
My dear sister niwatwanika biu but Gods Grace is sufficient . You are healing me sister. GOD bless you
We we we ! You r breaking my ribs really. Sorry for this cos i knew its real truth. God is great dear. Kurutwo mikuru- ini ya gikuo
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She is very beautiful and young at 50yrs 🙏👌🌹grace of God is sufficient, pst Joyce is hilarious gukunda akundete owega 😂🤣good advice but I feel umetetea wanaume Sana 😪who will terollate such kind of man in this century?? U are simply telling women to wait for mental torture etc
I imagined from her voice
I have watched so many episodes but this outdoes them all, I have loved this woman's wisdom.
Me too I love her wisdom and fear of God in her. I Was so annoyed with my husband and I came across this message. You really advised me because am in the same situation as her. You are God send. Have learn alot by listening to you. I thank God for you. Now I will stand in prayer and I will respect my husband. My enemy is Satan and not my husband. Thank you woman of God. God bless you Mightily. Kindly take time call women for conference to listen to you pastor.
So inspiring, you're so elegant and gorgeous Kagoni and Pastor Joyce
Wao, I love this pastor, wise words and encouragement to single parents
What a beautiful woman of God. Things we go through in a marriage. May God help us
Amen
A wise woman build her own home.PERIOD.I like that pastor.God bless you
The episode was well set oooh 🔥🔥🔥even the background and the ladies talking their total smart and beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
For sure wako pretty sana
Pastor you are full of wisdom,may Jehovah bless you so so much,we want your advice always.
Amen🙏🙏🙏God loves women, na pesa imurudishwa kwa wamama🙌 fantastic👌
Monicah & Lynn Ngùgì are the best interviewers. Nawapenda sana.
Pastor looking great.. Kagoni barikiwa Sana.. Your stories nawadays are becoming more sweeter 😘
Kagoni you cutie Sana... Pastor wetu uko pretty Sana... The interview is awww .. the humor is on point.. keep it up...
Thanks Kagoni... u always bring very inspiring and engaging stories/ interviews.
Keep it up.
Monica you have a unique style of interviewing. Very calm aura.
Wow! A very strong character. I love her for her sound minded choices. A great single Mam to emulate abounded by true God's grace. I love this
Captivating session. The interviewer and your guest, great combination. Monica, you are a very mature host. What a guest!
Praise God pastor. Your store is like my store but my store more than me, thank you pastor.
A very balance interview...I have really enjoyed it though hurtful moments coz Pastor is wise...she didn't just tell us the evil her husband did to her but also the good, she didn't just heap all the blame to him but also admits what did wrong and offers remedy
I tend to disagree, emotional torture is worse than physical torture. A man can humiliate you to apoint you loose your self worth, you feel nothing good is worth living for. Emotional abuse is so bad it can lead to suicide. Let's stop normalizing emotional abuse and cheating in relationships. Kuna ingine ni too much
She says run when he physically abuse u but this other things/ sleeping around/ disappearing for days are normal.
I just love this servant of God yeye ananinjenga sana God bless you
My dear Monica God anaendelea ku shine light on you una glow. Thegio ni guturehera mugeni mwega pastor wanjiru. No riri athuri ma,no Ngai uui.
It's the home for me. So beautiful and calm.
Fortunately or unfortunately am glad you weren't saved when you left your marriage, that was one sane choice.
Sometimes religion blinds up from the truth.
I don't think there is an amount of effort that would savage a marriage in which a man has slept with a House gal .
You are so beautiful and bold.
Ooooh pst Joyce, she is my customer, love every bit of her, A woman full of wisdom, God given Grace
Being single in marriage set up is normal,,it works when one pray for God's grace 🙏 🙌,,I concur with that💞💞💞👊
I cannot believe there's a woman out there that will wait for the husband to come off the housemaid, comeback from the friend's house, blame herself into fixing and building her home!! My goodness! People applaud this advice when it's not their sister or daughter! If you can build 1 home...woman, you can start again and build another one! Look at her! she left, built again, is glowing, and living in a mansion. I bet she would be old and depressed had she stayed...similarly...at 48:00 she contradicts herself by asking God to count her in the class of widows! That the same God that blesses men can bless women...and she was blessed...!!!! What is this !
Wah what a beautiful Pastor .wisdom and knowledge from each word .I'm inspired .more grace in ministry 🙏
I love pastor joyce .I can listen to her 1hr .....I love you all very smart God bless you .
Kagoni whoever dressed you did make up and your hair let her or him do it more often because you look like sweet 18❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes. She looks awesome.
She got a very nice body
Awesome
Pst Wanjiru and Monique, beautiful ladies. Am encouraged by pastor's encouragement and advice to us
Wow that is pastor Joyce sister to my friend a very strong woman of God.
Absolutely right Ptr Joyce. Us women we don't know how to share our love.
Ahh madam ni wa kwetu kabisa.. Kwetu ni kamira village.. From kianjiruini she knows my aunt Njambi wa mukinyo.. Good to hear about githuya kulikua jina baya zaidi.. Hatumgefikilia kutebeaa huko
Very confident woman,..I love you pastor,... would love to hear more from you.
Monica u r beautiful inside & out side & humble I love you😍ur such a blessing to our nation
Wow! What an uplifting story. Words of wisdom from Pastor Joyce. And you both look stunning ❤️
Monic my namesake, I love the professionalism and empathy with which you do your interviews.
Great interview there with Pst. Joyce ❤🔥
Such a great woman of God with alot of wisdom.
She is a very strong woman.. very realistic
Very impressive,,thanks monica n to pastor Joyce u heal so much broken pieces.
Congratulations 👏🏽 knows days most of women’s are very hard working and they rich
This pastor is beautiful
A very strong woman of God
Pstr Joyce is just wise,may God bless her
What a story.. God bless you pastor Joyce
Monica you're very professional despite being very pretty, I got to know you through Virginia's Wangari's story "kamotho's" I've been following you closely though I don't comment all the time, I like your professionalism
Pastor joyce looks Lovery full of wisdom..moncah thnx 4 bringing pass i hv learnt a lot.
Waoh beautiful inside out. Thanks Pastor Joyce
Love the way pastor has healed and laughing every episode off.
Watu wa murang'a mpo 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
She is a woman and a half love her. She is genuine vibrant honest beautiful and well spoken. Wow!
waoh Pastor Joyce you are seasoned with wisdom
Pastor Wanjiru is a wonderful preacher, mentor, quite interesting and a very funny mama. I think the separation worked for her cos she didn't really love him and he had hurt her so much in many ways. But kuna kuvumilia kuna leta kidonda. moyoni.
Good advice to women. Thanks Monica for a good job
Ati mbeca icokete kuru atumia tondu arume ni maregete kuruta wira. Even young women are really hustling. Thanks Monica and Pst. Joyce
She is beautiful in both complexion and demeanor.
Good message and you are so beautiful Monica and Pst.
Friends, we need to appreciate that times have changed. Gone are the days we used to hear, mucii ni wa mutumia. Friends, it takes 2 to tango even in Afrocinema. Therefore mucii ni wa mutumia na muthuri!!!!!
Very True..ati kuvumilia ndoa surely...Times have changed...
I agree they say that one finger cannot kill a leas
I am surprised at this pastor. Don’t women have feelings too? How am I supposed to stay out and wait for HIV?
Waiting to hear from her.... how she handled that issue when the guy insulted her mother.....I think that was most painful moment .ithink it's not light or fare when we involve our parent in our problem with disrespect. They deserve whole respect.
There must be an explanation. At the moment we only have one side of the story. Sometimes when people are told the truth they say they've been insulted.
@@francisn442 Assuming that is true, how about the infidelity? Please stop being ignorant and foolish 🙄😏.
Francy. Jamaa mnomananguli
Obey your parents it's a commandment
@@highlyfavoured6789 and your limited wisdom tells you that infidelity must only be one sided?
Monicah your soo Humble,your trying to figure out those its not imaginable
Pastor Joyce you are an amazing woman
ya rwanio ikuaga na rwanio monicah, let's learn to love ourselves and encourage young ladies and more so those in marriages wajipende
Wow monika you look so beautiful and guest too, lakini ata kama mtu hachapwi your partner can bring diseases home, i think she did good by walking away.. Good interview
Kagoni l love your interview
Very true
Yes Pastor were ni wa kwetu. Lakini tuliogopa kwenu village sana kwa sababu ya bangi.
Thank you Kagoni,hizi story huwa zinanipea nguvu ya kukuwa single.looking good both of you❤❤🔥
🤝ati inakutia nguvu🤣🤣🤣I think me too
@@dorcasmacharia4283 kama ulikuwa umeolewa mkaachana na yeye akaoa mwingine,itabidi tu mtu akae peke yake
@Ma leki Hanan, true I agree with you my dear
@@dorcasmacharia4283 😂😂😂😂😂Ati anapewa nguvu ya kuwa single
Monicah n pastor Joyce u look so beautiful,n wat u r teaching us is beautiful too God bless you, Monny kaa na Kagoni no hubby s fried 😅😅😅....... all the best n safe de..............baby s baby but receive a queen IJN🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
She's a beautiful lady and a great narrator...
i love that dont depend on men..theaz GOD WHO STANDS UP FOR THE SINGLES
Well spoken. Indeed God has brought me through and I am now a grandma. Though life was tough bringing up children single handedly, at least they grew up. Thanks be to God.
Pastor are so blessed.Women we go through alot after all the sacrifice.
Metha ya Kagoni beautiful stories here love it. SO tell us do this PLOTS Have Tittles pls tell us if its True before we engage into problems 🙏🙏
Wangari you have my word. They are legit plots with titles
Kagoni and Pastor mmecheza ka nyinyi. Looking beautiful 👌👌👌and a nice home I must say👌
I would love to hear more of this pastor.
Woow....pastor nmekupenda bure aki
Monica you are really beautiful , make up on point.May God continue blessing you.
She has a good heart...pole that man was not meant for you..you are both beautiful.. monica go on...I really love your shows
Men tell the truth at the good moments .That is very true
Hauuu ni maaah
Huyu pastor akujange kila wiki 🔥🔥🔥🔥
God bless you,so inspired,more grace Pst Grace