China is not use to people of other nationalities especially melanated people. They are not tall either. She comes across as a tall person compared to them. She has mixed hair. Chinese are small compared to her. She stands out amongst them. Realize you found out your "friend" is not your friend. China is to themselves a lot
People are always gonna rock with their own over you when it comes down to it. They just went back to default settings because they thought she was drawing too much attention. Asians, for the most part are hella conformist even more so than white people. I realize she was hurt by that, but she needs to just leave those people alone from now on. Her “friend”showed her who she really was. I wouldn’t even speak to her anymore after that on video or anywhere else. This is a valuable learning experience that I hope she took value in. That being said, we Black people has a whole within the diaspora the continent and everywhere else need to start being nicer to each other. If we were nicer to each other, we wouldn’t feel the need for validation from these other groups. Charity starts at home.
I think she could have known this from the beginning. Asians are white identified and follow like sheep. Why in the world would an Asian genuinely befriend a black person, if not for an ulterior motive...the way China is in partnership with Africa...for an ulterior motive. 1 billion people grew up this way and would never change. If anyone out there is black and thinks they have an Asian friend beware...
This is also the reason why you will never learn or experience anything other than the things your fear will allow you to experience. There are many Chinese that great people. I know. I've been there.
Sorry you went through that, BUT sometimes we gotta let yall learn because your not gonna listen when someone who cares about you tell you to STICK WITH YOUR OWN! My son had to learn the hard way as well, even when I told him multiple times. Let this be a lesson young lady.
@honeyebby. I'm sorry but it seems like it's mostly our people from the diaspora/outside of the US that's suffering from slow bus syndrome when it comes to stuff like this.
@@blackolantern5666 I agree, no education or knowledge about what their ancestors experienced or what these people think of you. Hard lesson now don't do it again
@@blackolantern5666 I have to agree. Especially going all the way overseas before properly vetting one's company. That's privilege delusion on another level.
@@Blacktsalagi73 Her company was "vetted''. She said one was her best friend so she likely knew her for years. Sometimes you just can't see these kind of things coming though.
Nah that’s complete bullshit. It be y’all spreading all the bs. Who do you think makeup most of the blck trump supporters? African Americans. Also y’all are the biggest self h8ters amongst all blk people.
Not even ourselves as we continue to take each other out of life. We even allow ourselves to be influenced to take out our iconic leaders...think Malcolm X, Martin Luther King, Jr...and the list goes oooooon. 😢
@@WhatIfWe615 Really, that’s a bit of a stretch. Every citizen has the right to assess their options and decide who and what to vote for every election cycle. It seems like everyone’s vote is respected regardless of ideology except ours. This time the hate and disrespect came from our own. I guess we’re the only people not allowed to think for ourselves.
They were probably looking at her because she looked crazy with yellow hair . Smh. She is probably still friends with that person. That country is known to be anti B.
@@teascobie6557 I've been to Asia several times. I was treated very well and met nice people there. Razzism? Yeah, it exists there too. I haven't been to a country in the world that doesn't have it and I have traveled a lot. Life is more than just your couch.
@@GraysTake the worse people are the ones that 😀 at you. We have seen it for 400 years and yet many are surprised when the trick is played again. There is only so much help others can give.
My closest friendships have been with other black people. I've only had shallow surface level "friendships" with other groups. It's like we can't truly relate and let your guard down.
That Asian woman is jealous of you and brought you to her country to use her people against you. She was trying to destroy you and your self esteem. Hold your head up, keep it moving and stay away from her. Lesson learned. Give these people the same treatment in your Country. Keep them out of your inner circle and space. Stay Safe out there Fam. 🖤🖤
Amen trust no one but GOD. Jesus even said your worst enemies will be members of your own family. Which happened to me. May we all put our trust in God. He gives us what we need not what we want
I hate to see a sister cry but she needed that to happend. Its had it took her so long to catch on to those people was never her friends. She need learn how to evaluate folks.
That is what fathers, husbands and brothers are for since we think logically. We would have told the Black women the hard facts since women act on emotions. Black Women need to consult with Black male family members when it comes to any type of travelling. These Black males will help because they care and it is their nature.
Stop saying "best friend".....This person was never a best friend or friend at all......She revealed her true self in China.....Lesson learned...... surround yourself around ppl who aren't counterfeit friends
Girl number one why are you doing there this is insane you should never put your self into any unnecessary are uncomfortable situations that is one country i will never ever visit never 😳 🤔
Y'all ladies use the friends word a little too loosely. Everyone isn't your friend. If they haven't been around most of your life they're not your friends. But also y'all keep going to all these countries that don't like black people like that. We have plenty of racism at home. Why are y'all paying for more discrimination?
These are NOT YOUR FRIENDS! COUNT YOUR BLESSING THAT YOU FOUND OUT BEFORE YOU WERE IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU REALLY NEED THERE HELP OR PROTECTION. SHAKE THE DUST OFF YOUR FEET, DISCONNECT FROM PEOPLE LIKE THAT. LIFT YOU HEAD UP. DRY YOU EYES AND KEEP IT PUSHING. DON'T LOOK BACK. WHEN THE MOB COMES FOR YOU, THEY WILL BE IN THE CROWD. WHEN ASKED WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY SOMETHING TO VOUCH FOR ME! THEY WILL ONLY HAVE MORE EXCUSES. SORRY BOUT THE CAPS, THIS PISSED ME OFF!
I'm sorry that this happened, and her so-called friend may never understand how she felt. With all the videos of black people being mistreated in China, I'm guessing that she thought her friend would protect her.
I'm a bit older and it always amazes me of how a concerning large majority of black people want to go to various countries(or continents) that are European, Asian, etc., but hardly ever do I hear mention of the Continent of Africa or visiting countries within it. This is why I thank God for this channel, African Diaspora and Wode Maya(UA-camr) who brings to us the beauty of Africa and not only the lies they try to get us to believe in the Media. Of course I'm not naive enough to believe that aren't problems in Africa and there are culture differences that exist, but to visit the motherland would be really fantastic in my opinion. There are very beautiful places such as Tanzania, Botswana, Ghana, Rwanda, Ethiopia, Kenya, and South Africa, etc.
That’s a wake up call it might be worst next time,,, Dr. Clark already told all of us we have no friends but this is what happens when you don’t listen to your elders.
My heart breaks for her. I made a best friend on social media, and he is different from me, but after 4 years, we decided to meet in person. I went to where he lives and where he lives can be bit unfriendly toward different people, but I went there confident knowing our friendship was strong. It turned out great. I had a wonderful time meeting some of his friends and family, and we all did things together. I hope she is doing well now and have better luck with choosing a best friend.
I feel for her. I in the recent past surrounded myself with mainly non black friends and that wasn't because i disliked black people, that was due to the fact i carried myself a certain way, most black women either hated me for no reason or were jealous and tried to bring me down. But even though i was associating with the so called friends i had, i learned the hard way that they really weren't my friends and those connections ended. I currently have no friends because black women hated me for being boujee or classy and the non blacks hate me for having the audacity to be that way. Lol i hope she finds true connections.
@cindychristian1700 girl I'm 28 and im tired looking. I do want blacks friends, always did, but life doesn't always work in your favor and sometimes it's for the best. Maybe as I get older things maybe different.
@liahlove8297 Have you tried taking a yoga class or going to a spa in an urban area! Maybe a book club? Going to charity events for the Urban League or the NAACP, you might find a different set of black women who are more like you! But I do understand if you've had enough of trying! Blessings to you! 🙏
I can count my friends on one hand! Out of that 5 I know 2 who would stick with me to the end, and the other 3 are friends but would never be considered a "Best" friend.
Look. I'm gon share this... I've seen this firsthand before. Some people will f'k with you, f'k you, smoke with you, say you're their homie, and all that other $h!t, until you have to be around their people! That's how you know if the relationship with that person is real or not. At the end of the day, black people, I hate to say this (yes I'm black too) but you're a fetish to these people. And I mean this sexually and non-sexually. A lot of y'all with these foreigners don't see that you're their dirty little secret. Especially when they mess with black people. My opinion and personal advice is if you're going to date outside your race and culture do it in America. You might get looked at sometimes, and that really depends on where you at, but it's not as bad. You're a lot safer here than you are in most countries.
Our people are slow AF. 🤦🤦How many times have we've seen black women getting attacked and killed by Asian store owners??? And this SISTA is shocked that her so called Asian friend switched up on her. Latasha Harlins death should have been enough to wake black people tf up. These Asians are not our allies.
I've been hearing stories like this since the very earlier 2000's. Am I the only person that knew this type of stuff happens all the time? There's literally tons of UA-cam videos that capture these scenarios, in real time. This treatment is brought to you by the same people that think we're born with tails, or that our skin color rubs off. Folks need to know who they're dealing with and stop trying to find love and allegiance in people who are culturally raised to find us abnormal.
yes, unfortunately this is true, they have no history or understanding of these people and what they are capable of doing, hence why they end up missing or harmed. UK same desperation to be amongst them and accepted
They grew up amongst blacks or Africans only. I am from a South American country and I know all about racism. They couldn't pay me to take a trip to a non black country, especially China. Smh
Who, how did you come to this conclusion she's your bestie🤔. Your friend is supposed to be there for you. We'll now you know she was just a evil imposter.
Hard head soft butt. I've seen way too many of these videos. I'm out of "give a damns". Some of us are too quick to pull people into our circle without discernment. Someone failed you and didn't prepare you or you did, yourself. People cannot be trusted and there is no "bestie" nowadays with all the evils going on. We all have to learn sometimes. Unfortunately, many will need more than one lessons, since I'm still seeing these reports. 🤦♀
When you return home you make your exfriend feel as uncomfortable as you did & let this be a lesson to you , don't go traveling to a foreign land with people that are cowardly or timid they won't watch your back .
It's a wake up call sis, you'll grow from this understand now that the enemy can never be your friend, all love here from your brotha over in the states.
I warned her so many times on Tiktok. Especially about the photo taking thing, they'll crowd you like cockroaches and it's not a nice experience. But, people insist on having their own personal experience.
This is pathetic. She was taught a painful, but unnecessary lesson. She likely didn’t believe the litany of examples that preceded her. She thought she was “special” and “different” than Black Americans and was “accepted” by other cultures because she was “not like those American Blacks”. She found out the hard way lol 😂
This video reminds me of what happened to Bakari Henderson in Greece. He thought he had white friends he could count on. When he got jumped, none of them came to his defense and none of them testified against his attackers after his murder. Although Bakari’s case was more extreme, it shows that blacks need to be careful on how they choose their friends, especially when they don’t look like us.
Her asian friends says it's too much for her? she's not even thinking about how it made her blk friend feel! you have to get a clue if she didn't stand up for you and respect you. She never were your friend! you finally found out the hard way. Now you can move on knowing you are much better off without her!
Sorry this young lady had this terrible experience. I would feel uncomfortable going to any country where most of the people did not look like me. Black people are very welcoming to everyone but the same is not true for us. Be very careful about so called friends.
So true as a black dominican. I trust no one. Even Jesus said your worst enemies will be members of your own family which is true in my cast.i trust no one but GOD.Amen
We as Blacks have to learn we only have each other.. I learned in the military world when I and two other sisters were told ( you people, I the told little colonizers women you people, boy , girl , Gail Will get you hurt .. I grew up in the enter city of Baltimore the hood.. please don’t let it come out of me and my buddies was like yes don’t test the waters… so my thing I don’t want to be somewhere that I have show you I can be instead of being respectful of myself and my race people because God created us for a reason we are his people and we are loving people!!✊🏽
I have been saying this those pics that they take of them is to make fun of them her asian best friend knows the deal, but didn't want to tell her the truth
So when are we going to learn have they will have a perpetual hatred for you. They cannot do not know how to be friends. They don't come to share they come to take over. So hopefully now she understands that that Asian was never her best friend. And she showed her how she really felt when it came down to it.
They could've locked arms with her and kept it moving. Welp atleast she knows that the friendship is superficial. Anytime I have a "friend" who is of another race.....I assume that the "friendship" is superficial.
My best line i made was have you ever been alone with one, like put in a room by yourself with your white friend or counterpart, will they defend you and be quiet joining the the opposite taunting
@@zackbogYou don't live in this country and your facts are wrong in the 1960 on windows it reads NO Black NO Irish NO Dogs so how was we be fully integrated?
I'm not saying her feelings aren't valid, but her friend seems to be more of a reserved, introverted type of person, and they handled the situation incorrectly. I'm trying to see it from a logical perspective instead of an emotional one.
Feel bad for her, but I can tell you this as black man or woman. Learn to move alone, do not depend on supposed friends to help you when you are not wanted or ridiculed by different people who don’t look like you and they look like them. Lesson learned I hope she takes this as a learning experience no matter how disheartening it is.
Sometimes, when I see 3 school age girls (maybe 12- 14) 1 blk n 2 white hanging out together.....I think to myself, if they all get in some trouble the blk girl will definitely pay the price....Hopefully her parent(s) educated her blackness
🫂 Little Sis you have to realize, “we all we got”… give thanks you found out now. I try and teach my young niece this because she goes to a predominantly white school. Don’t trust them
This is nonsense most people know that when you go over there they treat you this way. He invited knowing that already so he is just using her for attention which he probably doesn’t get and now he’s got it. But it backfired online. It’s a shame! Shame on those people for being so ignorant to treat another human being like a Circus clown! How can anyone be this ignorant acting in 2024!
if you ashamed of me, I'm ashamed of you. when black people gonna learn these people are NOT our friends?
China is not use to people of other nationalities especially melanated people. They are not tall either. She comes across as a tall person compared to them. She has mixed hair. Chinese are small compared to her. She stands out amongst them. Realize you found out your "friend" is not your friend. China is to themselves a lot
@2bjjones. Apparently....never!🤷🏿♂ You know how many stories I've seen like this?
That's why you should not feel bad she got her wake up call.
It depends..... it's only one group of people on the planet that realizes that, its FBA‼️
At least she knows who her friends are now, you have to go through that in life sometimes to filter out the real ones.
Stop calling her your best friend 🤨
Naive and desperate.
@@empressbutterfly what's wrong with her she is not your best friend she never was
@asunmusicc3331 why desperate though?
@@asunmusicc3331Sad but true!
People are always gonna rock with their own over you when it comes down to it. They just went back to default settings because they thought she was drawing too much attention. Asians, for the most part are hella conformist even more so than white people. I realize she was hurt by that, but she needs to just leave those people alone from now on. Her “friend”showed her who she really was. I wouldn’t even speak to her anymore after that on video or anywhere else. This is a valuable learning experience that I hope she took value in. That being said, we Black people has a whole within the diaspora the continent and everywhere else need to start being nicer to each other. If we were nicer to each other, we wouldn’t feel the need for validation from these other groups. Charity starts at home.
Now she knows, so she can move on with her life and act accordingly
I think she could have known this from the beginning. Asians are white identified and follow like sheep. Why in the world would an Asian genuinely befriend a black person, if not for an ulterior motive...the way China is in partnership with Africa...for an ulterior motive. 1 billion people grew up this way and would never change. If anyone out there is black and thinks they have an Asian friend beware...
This is EXACTLY why I will never, EVER visit China.
True💯
I only visit black countries.
Same here!!!!!
@@SifuFreeGamer1417Exactly if it ant black then you might as well put it black
This is also the reason why you will never learn or experience anything other than the things your fear will allow you to experience. There are many Chinese that great people. I know. I've been there.
Sorry you went through that, BUT sometimes we gotta let yall learn because your not gonna listen when someone who cares about you tell you to STICK WITH YOUR OWN! My son had to learn the hard way as well, even when I told him multiple times. Let this be a lesson young lady.
@honeyebby. I'm sorry but it seems like it's mostly our people from the diaspora/outside of the US that's suffering from slow bus syndrome when it comes to stuff like this.
@@blackolantern5666 I agree, no education or knowledge about what their ancestors experienced or what these people think of you. Hard lesson now don't do it again
@@blackolantern5666 I have to agree. Especially going all the way overseas before properly vetting one's company. That's privilege delusion on another level.
@@Blacktsalagi73 Her company was "vetted''. She said one was her best friend so she likely knew her for years. Sometimes you just can't see these kind of things coming though.
Nah that’s complete bullshit. It be y’all spreading all the bs. Who do you think makeup most of the blck trump supporters? African Americans. Also y’all are the biggest self h8ters amongst all blk people.
I’m tired of having to be sympathetic to people who continue to place yourself around people who don’t like you
In America, she may not have seen another day being the "only one".
@FBA1Markboy. Me too and I'm tired...so, so, tired... of seeing these stories and the naivete of people like her
I feel nothing 😂 nothing at all they will learn.
@@ReneeGreene-ew2kgSame thing in South Africa the Black guy/girll doesn't always make it home sometimes.
@@FBA1Markboy we have to learn to practice what John 13:35 says.
"You have no friends" John Henric Clarke...Her true colors came right before your eyes
The love and acceptance we seek is among ourselves.
John 13:35 By this shall men know that ye are my discipline, if ye have love one to another.
*Yea, and it was sickly yellow.* 🟡🟨
@@-dp8hx😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not even ourselves as we continue to take each other out of life. We even allow ourselves to be influenced to take out our iconic leaders...think Malcolm X, Martin Luther King, Jr...and the list goes oooooon. 😢
@@bizhope007 new day. Many have learned from the past. MLK was taken by folks people
All she did was reveal the truth, you are not her friend.
And she will never learn either
DO NOT CRY!!! We do not have best friends on the outside. STOP IT!!! This was not a friend; period!!!
Tonight’s election shows that we don’t even have friends among our own people.
@@WhatIfWe615 Really, that’s a bit of a stretch. Every citizen has the right to assess their options and decide who and what to vote for every election cycle. It seems like everyone’s vote is respected regardless of ideology except ours. This time the hate and disrespect came from our own. I guess we’re the only people not allowed to think for ourselves.
The people that love every body but themselves,are loved by no one
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Amen 🙏
You better PREACH 😊
You left no crumbs on the table with that one
This NOT NEWS! We all been thru this with them folks. GROW UP and get rid of those blonde braids!
WHY DO THEY WANT BLONDE HAIR ANYWAY!! ? IT LOOKS HORRIBLE AND SO DOES THAT FIREY RED!!!
I am telling you
They won't learn
I am very happy for her experience
@@gaildavis7900especially when it doesn't look good on you
They were probably looking at her because she looked crazy with yellow hair . Smh. She is probably still friends with that person. That country is known to be anti B.
She had her “Still Niqqa” moment. She hasn’t learned yet. She just got her little wanna be like them feelings hurt.
We blacks have no friends.
That Bible says we must have love among ourselves. So, stop seeking love from these other nations.
100%
@@ReneeGreene-ew2kgwhat scripture says this ?
@@curlieeloks3032 John 13:35
@@curlieeloks3032 John 13:35
I personally have no business going to china, Japan or Korea. I like my peace and comfort too much.
nothing wrong with visiting just don't expect those people to help or treat you humanely...
@@teascobie6557 I've been to Asia several times. I was treated very well and met nice people there. Razzism? Yeah, it exists there too. I haven't been to a country in the world that doesn't have it and I have traveled a lot. Life is more than just your couch.
I empathize with this girl, but don’t be naive. That person was never your friend and doesn’t deserve your tears.
She better not use the words "best friend"
They are the pits
For real.
Very true. Believe them when they show you who they are and cross over the street and hold your head high.
Don't cry girl, those were not your friends. Sending you lots of love.
Why did she put herself in a situation where she depends on strangers? She knows history and how these people are. And yet she did it.
Well, many of us have drank the kool Aid. I say she knows now
It wasn't a stranger though.
she dont know history otherwise she would never have put herself in this situation. Ignorant, foolish and lucky nothing seriously bad happened to her.
@@ReneeGreene-ew2kg how many will get ill from that kool-aid before other realize it is bad to drink it?
@@GraysTake the worse people are the ones that 😀 at you. We have seen it for 400 years and yet many are surprised when the trick is played again. There is only so much help others can give.
My closest friendships have been with other black people. I've only had shallow surface level "friendships" with other groups. It's like we can't truly relate and let your guard down.
Same!
I’m sure there are black people you cannot relate to or trust equally.
Could be a you thing. Ever thought about that?
As you said, it’s better to find out now who’s really with you rather than to find out later.
Seems like she doesn't hang around her own to much!!
SHE THINKS BADLY ABOUT HERSELF AND THAT IS BAD...
The mannerisms and voice. She has nothing to do with her own.
@@johannajohanna8104 Pleaso , go on. Tell us how we are supposed to act? You sound white over there.
She is totally detached from black people and culture.
Exactly!!!!!
That Asian woman is jealous of you and brought you to her country to use her people against you. She was trying to destroy you and your self esteem. Hold your head up, keep it moving and stay away from her. Lesson learned. Give these people the same treatment in your Country. Keep them out of your inner circle and space. Stay Safe out there Fam. 🖤🖤
Wow, you know so much about her intentions and motivesq! You must have been there and talked to her about it, right? Or maybe you are a mind reader? 😂
@@katerkarlo159 At least chrissyg55 is trying to help her unlike you.
@lynj9055 how are you helping?
@@katerkarlo159 more than you already.
@@lynj9055 how?
I experienced something similar in two other Asian countries. TRUST NO ONE ‼️
Amen trust no one but GOD. Jesus even said your worst enemies will be members of your own family. Which happened to me. May we all put our trust in God. He gives us what we need not what we want
Stop going to Asian countries. 🤦🏽♀️
I hate to see a sister cry but she needed that to happend. Its had it took her so long to catch on to those people was never her friends. She need learn how to evaluate folks.
This is why we need to stop the separation amongst ourselves, because all we have is ourselves!
That's cap. Everyone is out for themselves.
@@stevenrobinson9856 actual Asians and other do come together
These people will never love us, not even if you lay down your life for them..
She must be slow. If they are avoiding you they’re not your friend.
That is what fathers, husbands and brothers are for since we think logically. We would have told the Black women the hard facts since women act on emotions. Black Women need to consult with Black male family members when it comes to any type of travelling. These Black males will help because they care and it is their nature.
Very slow that one and she is even crying here mxm
extremely slow!
Well she needs to clean house and get new friends.
@@jamessmith-zk4coNo! She needs new Associates
Stop saying "best friend".....This person was never a best friend or friend at all......She revealed her true self in China.....Lesson learned...... surround yourself around ppl who aren't counterfeit friends
Girl number one why are you doing there this is insane you should never put your self into any unnecessary are uncomfortable situations that is one country i will never ever visit never 😳 🤔
YOU GOT THAT RIGHT!!
~ 💯
Y'all ladies use the friends word a little too loosely. Everyone isn't your friend. If they haven't been around most of your life they're not your friends. But also y'all keep going to all these countries that don't like black people like that. We have plenty of racism at home. Why are y'all paying for more discrimination?
I'M WITH YOU ANTHONY!!!! I DON'T WANT TO TRAVEL ANYWHERE OUTSIDE OF BABYLON!!!
I’ve been on this kick for several years………..YOU ARE MY aSS-Ociate!!
this foolery happens in African countries and Caribbean ones too. The natives of those countries will treat white people better before their own...
She didn't learn her lesson. I hate to say that,
Absolutely true! She kept referring to that girl as "my best friend". Silly!
Nope
None of these people from whatever group are your friends....she learned her lesson the hard way
These are NOT YOUR FRIENDS! COUNT YOUR BLESSING THAT YOU FOUND OUT BEFORE YOU WERE IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU REALLY NEED THERE HELP OR PROTECTION. SHAKE THE DUST OFF YOUR FEET, DISCONNECT FROM PEOPLE LIKE THAT. LIFT YOU HEAD UP. DRY YOU EYES AND KEEP IT PUSHING. DON'T LOOK BACK.
WHEN THE MOB COMES FOR YOU, THEY WILL BE IN THE CROWD. WHEN ASKED WHY DIDN'T YOU SAY SOMETHING TO VOUCH FOR ME! THEY WILL ONLY HAVE MORE EXCUSES. SORRY BOUT THE CAPS, THIS PISSED ME OFF!
I'm sorry that this happened, and her so-called friend may never understand how she felt. With all the videos of black people being mistreated in China, I'm guessing that she thought her friend would protect her.
I'm a bit older and it always amazes me of how a concerning large majority of black people want to go to various countries(or continents) that are European, Asian, etc., but hardly ever do I hear mention of the Continent of Africa or visiting countries within it. This is why I thank God for this channel, African Diaspora and Wode Maya(UA-camr) who brings to us the beauty of Africa and not only the lies they try to get us to believe in the Media. Of course I'm not naive enough to believe that aren't problems in Africa and there are culture differences that exist, but to visit the motherland would be really fantastic in my opinion. There are very beautiful places such as Tanzania, Botswana, Ghana, Rwanda, Ethiopia, Kenya, and South Africa, etc.
Every other Nationality is there taking advanced of what Africa has to offer but us!
You have no Friends Only Yah!!!!
Child, you'll learn.
That’s a wake up call it might be worst next time,,, Dr. Clark already told all of us we have no friends but this is what happens when you don’t listen to your elders.
Guess she didn't get Dr. John Henrik Clark's memo. "We have no friends!" 😐
My heart breaks for her. I made a best friend on social media, and he is different from me, but after 4 years, we decided to meet in person. I went to where he lives and where he lives can be bit unfriendly toward different people, but I went there confident knowing our friendship was strong. It turned out great. I had a wonderful time meeting some of his friends and family, and we all did things together. I hope she is doing well now and have better luck with choosing a best friend.
Friend or no friend…some of these Blackfolks just be living in fantasy world. Smh.
We black people don't have no friends outside our race so stop act like these people are our friend.
Tribalism is not the answer. Having strong principles and having the courage and discipline to stick to them is the answer.
@@aardvark99rex14 are Chinese tribal?
Shed probably say I'm not black I'm British Nigerian or something
@@jabbad2992 Blame the victim!
@@jabbad2992😂😂😂😂😂😂 you know it! Anything but 🤦🏾♀️🙆🏿♀️. They always want to sound exotic. lol
Nooooo but let people here in America try to say differently this is why I do not let people gaslight me
Sickening........
🤣🤣😂 I'm sad to say!! But she just got a WAKE UP CALL! It seems Africans need a lot more of it compared to diaspora in the West!
She sounded British to me.
@@winterskye0 She can't be a British African? Anyway, she's either African or Caribbean.
I feel for her. I in the recent past surrounded myself with mainly non black friends and that wasn't because i disliked black people, that was due to the fact i carried myself a certain way, most black women either hated me for no reason or were jealous and tried to bring me down. But even though i was associating with the so called friends i had, i learned the hard way that they really weren't my friends and those connections ended. I currently have no friends because black women hated me for being boujee or classy and the non blacks hate me for having the audacity to be that way. Lol i hope she finds true connections.
You should look for black women more like yourself! They are out there!
@cindychristian1700 girl I'm 28 and im tired looking. I do want blacks friends, always did, but life doesn't always work in your favor and sometimes it's for the best. Maybe as I get older things maybe different.
@liahlove8297 Have you tried taking a yoga class or going to a spa in an urban area! Maybe a book club? Going to charity events for the Urban League or the NAACP, you might find a different set of black women who are more like you! But I do understand if you've had enough of trying! Blessings to you! 🙏
I'm sorry, but that's a lame excuse! Tie yourself to mature, professional women and you'll get the "soul food" you need!
Keep trying to fit in.......there will be more tears to come.....When will "we" learn?
I can count my friends on one hand! Out of that 5 I know 2 who would stick with me to the end, and the other 3 are friends but would never be considered a "Best" friend.
Look. I'm gon share this... I've seen this firsthand before. Some people will f'k with you, f'k you, smoke with you, say you're their homie, and all that other $h!t, until you have to be around their people! That's how you know if the relationship with that person is real or not. At the end of the day, black people, I hate to say this (yes I'm black too) but you're a fetish to these people. And I mean this sexually and non-sexually. A lot of y'all with these foreigners don't see that you're their dirty little secret. Especially when they mess with black people. My opinion and personal advice is if you're going to date outside your race and culture do it in America. You might get looked at sometimes, and that really depends on where you at, but it's not as bad. You're a lot safer here than you are in most countries.
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Leave that "so-call friend" alone, and never travel with them again Ever, even if they apologize 🤨
Mf’s living under a rock and just now understanding all these folks don’t rock with us, we don’t have the slogan “We all we got” for no reason🤦♂️
Our people are slow AF. 🤦🤦How many times have we've seen black women getting attacked and killed by Asian store owners??? And this SISTA is shocked that her so called Asian friend switched up on her. Latasha Harlins death should have been enough to wake black people tf up. These Asians are not our allies.
Really, she is surprised?
I've been hearing stories like this since the very earlier 2000's. Am I the only person that knew this type of stuff happens all the time? There's literally tons of UA-cam videos that capture these scenarios, in real time.
This treatment is brought to you by the same people that think we're born with tails, or that our skin color rubs off. Folks need to know who they're dealing with and stop trying to find love and allegiance in people who are culturally raised to find us abnormal.
You should have been the one separating from that 👽
Im sorry but its always the africans who are shocked, especially west africans. Can someone explain this phenomenon ?
THEY WANT TO BE WHITE!!! AND THEY BELIEVE THAT IF WE ARE SUPER NICE AND DOCILE THEY WILL LIKE US!!!
yes, unfortunately this is true, they have no history or understanding of these people and what they are capable of doing, hence why they end up missing or harmed. UK same desperation to be amongst them and accepted
They like forcing themselves unto others.
They prefer others to ones that look like them.
Most think/feel they are different than the average Blk American
They grew up amongst blacks or Africans only. I am from a South American country and I know all about racism. They couldn't pay me to take a trip to a non black country, especially China. Smh
I am soooo sorry😢 people are so ignorant.
... with NO APOLOGY whatsoever?!?
... sounds like it was a "SET UP".
Who, how did you come to this conclusion she's your bestie🤔. Your friend is supposed to be there for you. We'll now you know she was just a evil imposter.
Hard head soft butt. I've seen way too many of these videos. I'm out of "give a damns". Some of us are too quick to pull people into our circle without discernment. Someone failed you and didn't prepare you or you did, yourself. People cannot be trusted and there is no "bestie" nowadays with all the evils going on. We all have to learn sometimes. Unfortunately, many will need more than one lessons, since I'm still seeing these reports. 🤦♀
~ Why is she in China anyway?
Feel for her, should have stood up and been strong, she has experienced that all her life, stay strong, be the leader.
Africans gonna learn weve been tryna tellem but they talk crap about us when their enemy is their friend SMH! HYON
When you return home you make your exfriend feel as uncomfortable as you did & let this be a lesson to you , don't go traveling to a foreign land with people that are cowardly or timid they won't watch your back .
The accent alone tells everything.
And she's Liberian from Perth, Western Australia, Australia.
She's African with a British accent
It's a wake up call sis, you'll grow from this understand now that the enemy can never be your friend, all love here from your brotha over in the states.
Idgaf I’m still going to Japan. I love being black and I’m proud
I warned her so many times on Tiktok. Especially about the photo taking thing, they'll crowd you like cockroaches and it's not a nice experience. But, people insist on having their own personal experience.
This is pathetic. She was taught a painful, but unnecessary lesson. She likely didn’t believe the litany of examples that preceded her. She thought she was “special” and “different” than Black Americans and was “accepted” by other cultures because she was “not like those American Blacks”.
She found out the hard way lol 😂
This video reminds me of what happened to Bakari Henderson in Greece. He thought he had white friends he could count on. When he got jumped, none of them came to his defense and none of them testified against his attackers after his murder. Although Bakari’s case was more extreme, it shows that blacks need to be careful on how they choose their friends, especially when they don’t look like us.
How many times r we gonna see this,,, how about staying with your own people.
Her asian friends says it's too much for her? she's not even thinking about how it made her blk friend feel! you have to get a clue if she didn't stand up for you and respect you. She never were your friend! you finally found out the hard way. Now you can move on knowing you are much better off without her!
Sorry this young lady had this terrible experience. I would feel uncomfortable going to any country where most of the people did not look like me. Black people are very welcoming to everyone but the same is not true for us. Be very careful about so called friends.
So true as a black dominican. I trust no one. Even Jesus said your worst enemies will be members of your own family which is true in my cast.i trust no one but GOD.Amen
We as Blacks have to learn we only have each other.. I learned in the military world when I and two other sisters were told ( you people, I the told little colonizers women you people, boy , girl , Gail Will get you hurt .. I grew up in the enter city of Baltimore the hood.. please don’t let it come out of me and my buddies was like yes don’t test the waters… so my thing I don’t want to be somewhere that I have show you I can be instead of being respectful of myself and my race people because God created us for a reason we are his people and we are loving people!!✊🏽
I have been saying this those pics that they take of them is to make fun of them her asian best friend knows the deal, but didn't want to tell her the truth
Beautiful melanited sista you just learned a valuable lesson. Its ALWAYS about race. And with a "friend" like that who needs enemies?.
Count your blessings, because you're alive, and made it back home.....many who traveled to other countries, didn't make at back home alive 😢
She is naive, but I hope she learned her lesson. That's not your best friend stop calling her that. I never wanted to visit any of those countries.
The "friend" didn't understand because the was an acquaintance not a friend..thankfully the issue wasn't any worse than staring and silly ish
The Bible says stay with your own it’s sad but she got her wake up call
Chinese or Asian people are friends when business is involved. Period
And when want something from you
She did it to herself. 🤷🏾♂️
So when are we going to learn have they will have a perpetual hatred for you. They cannot do not know how to be friends. They don't come to share they come to take over. So hopefully now she understands that that Asian was never her best friend. And she showed her how she really felt when it came down to it.
They could've locked arms with her and kept it moving. Welp atleast she knows that the friendship is superficial. Anytime I have a "friend" who is of another race.....I assume that the "friendship" is superficial.
We have no allies but each other
what made her desperate for "friendship". smh
We don't need other races of people to be our friends when we have billions of us to share black unity Love. That's right, I said it!!
My best line i made was have you ever been alone with one, like put in a room by yourself with your white friend or counterpart, will they defend you and be quiet joining the the opposite taunting
She from the UK black there don't know any better they didn't go through the struggle
Yup! Most are African with colonized mindsets.
What are you talking about I'm from the UK and trust me we go through the same thing, what an ignorant comment.
@zipporahd8278 y'all were full integrated by the 1960s over here we are still not integrated y'all not used to see to racism on this level
@@zackbogYou don't live in this country and your facts are wrong in the 1960 on windows it reads NO Black NO Irish NO Dogs so how was we be fully integrated?
@@zackbog
What are you talking about we suffer for racism everywhere. Yes in the US it is different but we have to deal with it everyday.
know this for certain: learn to love and support your own people. 'they' are not coming to save you.
May the Lord bless and comfort you
I'm not saying her feelings aren't valid, but her friend seems to be more of a reserved, introverted type of person, and they handled the situation incorrectly. I'm trying to see it from a logical perspective instead of an emotional one.
Feel bad for her, but I can tell you this as black man or woman. Learn to move alone, do not depend on supposed friends to help you when you are not wanted or ridiculed by different people who don’t look like you and they look like them. Lesson learned I hope she takes this as a learning experience no matter how disheartening it is.
We are hated everywhere.
This is why we should build Africa.......the world needs Africa we don't need the world.😢
Like like like. What did she want her friend to do if people were looking at her???
What in God's name could possess you to think that they were your friends, now you know, we have no one but ourselves.
Sometimes, when I see 3 school age girls (maybe 12- 14) 1 blk n 2 white hanging out together.....I think to myself, if they all get in some trouble the blk girl will definitely pay the price....Hopefully her parent(s) educated her blackness
These Africans seems not to be accustomed to Racism! They seem to be in a state of shock when racial situations come up! 🤔
Be proud of yourself!
🫂 Little Sis you have to realize, “we all we got”… give thanks you found out now. I try and teach my young niece this because she goes to a predominantly white school. Don’t trust them
This is nonsense most people know that when you go over there they treat you this way. He invited knowing that already so he is just using her for attention which he probably doesn’t get and now he’s got it. But it backfired online.
It’s a shame! Shame on those people for being so ignorant to treat another human being like a Circus clown! How can anyone be this ignorant acting in 2024!
Lol @ bestfriend
😂 😂 as if those people can ever be “best friends” to Africans mxm
The blonde hair says it all.
She wasn’t a friend to begin with