I Love When Girls Do This | Love Language Quiz

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • Every time I get into a new relationship, my partner winds up asking me the question “what is your love language?” My answers have varied over the years when answering off the top of my head, so for Valentine’s Day I decided to sit down and take the test to find out exactly what my heart is really looking for. Touch, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, quality time? Which one is your love language, and do you think the test got me right?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 7 тис.

  • @rafamesiano679
    @rafamesiano679 3 роки тому +7554

    wow imagine how good dr. mike’s hugs must be cause he’s like so tall

  • @charlottevanlangevelde1114
    @charlottevanlangevelde1114 3 роки тому +2411

    Let’s be honest, as long as bear is around no girl will ever stand a chance with this man..

    • @wainyyy
      @wainyyy 3 роки тому +51

      @@mohammedbim6626 wtf

    • @apillow666
      @apillow666 3 роки тому +10

      @@wainyyy exactly

    • @okikartika5830
      @okikartika5830 3 роки тому +43

      @@mohammedbim6626 remember sir.. we know Tinder is exist, so pls use that rather being a nuisance on UA-cam

    • @KelseyPotlock
      @KelseyPotlock 3 роки тому +20

      Bear is best date. And I'm okay with this *heart slowly breaks* :)

    • @anika9648
      @anika9648 3 роки тому +1

      @Fredrik Larsson Thats funny

  • @tashaeats3221
    @tashaeats3221 3 роки тому +3075

    After being married for 10 years, something as simple as taking out the trash is definitely meaningful 😆

    • @glgl1472
      @glgl1472 3 роки тому +106

      Yeah she can tell our dear Dr Mike has not either been in very many relationships or in one for very long cuz I agree taking out the trash cleaning the house those are very meaningful

    • @tashaeats3221
      @tashaeats3221 3 роки тому +10

      @@glgl1472 agreed 😆

    • @nightfury4805
      @nightfury4805 3 роки тому +6

      😂😂😂🤣

    • @eszterkovacs908
      @eszterkovacs908 3 роки тому +64

      Yes! I love when my partner takes me out

    • @leonies.6211
      @leonies.6211 3 роки тому +16

      @@eszterkovacs908 underrated comment :D

  • @hollymerkur-dance1919
    @hollymerkur-dance1919 2 роки тому +51

    I’ve actually found it’s pretty common to have people have 2 different love languages - their giving one and receiving one. For example, I show love through Acts of Service, but prefer to receive Quality Time. My husband shows love through Gifts, but prefers receiving Physical Touch. And even though none of those match up, understanding that about each other is the key to our success.

  • @spreadem9159
    @spreadem9159 3 роки тому +918

    I’ve always been a firm believer that premarital squatting is a sin

    • @DoctorMike
      @DoctorMike  3 роки тому +260

      LOL

    • @sarahstorr
      @sarahstorr 3 роки тому +10

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Polihymnis
      @Polihymnis 3 роки тому +31

      The real Slav in Dr. Mike came to the surface. Choose wisely Dr. Mke who you squat with (you know, SquatTDs and stuff).

    • @juliarunn5009
      @juliarunn5009 3 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @shayknox1023
      @shayknox1023 3 роки тому +2

      💛😂😂😂😂

  • @justacasualwatcher
    @justacasualwatcher 3 роки тому +6062

    Dr Mike's future wife is gonna need to have a serious conversation with Bear someday 😂

    • @sallymiller8460
      @sallymiller8460 3 роки тому +44

      Indeed

    • @anissabelhoul8529
      @anissabelhoul8529 3 роки тому +18

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sarahw6747
      @sarahw6747 3 роки тому +173

      Bear is the first love. Future wife will love Bear as much as Dr. Mike does. No one can compete with that adorable fluff-face puppers! 😍❤️

    • @GloriaRodriguez-rm8gp
      @GloriaRodriguez-rm8gp 3 роки тому +93

      She's gonna have to date Bear and then date Dr. Mike 😂

    • @spiritualsandy
      @spiritualsandy 3 роки тому +40

      Bear would be the first baby of the family- not a competition.

  • @selinaa19
    @selinaa19 3 роки тому +8213

    Dr Mike: “i got dressed up, it’s a date, me and you”
    Me: **wearing pjs** “I’m sorry kind sir, I’m not ready-“

    • @antoniaPrince
      @antoniaPrince 3 роки тому +175

      I laughed when he said it cause I am in my PJs making breakfast

    • @addie-eileenpaige6460
      @addie-eileenpaige6460 3 роки тому +59

      I dressed for Valentine's Day (basically wearing a pink 💖 dress for Mass)

    • @jessicavt3849
      @jessicavt3849 3 роки тому +15

      🤣 me too

    • @samanthakoch4958
      @samanthakoch4958 3 роки тому +24

      Sameeee I’m eating toast in my pajamas

    • @arya-lq7pj
      @arya-lq7pj 3 роки тому +52

      i'm in pjs too but i'm heading to bed (bcs timezones) 👁️👄👁️ guess i'm gonna have a date with him in my dreams instead lol 😂

  • @alexistourand8058
    @alexistourand8058 2 роки тому +52

    I took the quiz, and here are my results:
    1. Words of Affirmation 33%
    2. Acts of Service 27%
    3. Quality Time 23%
    4. Receiving Gifts 13%
    5. Physical Touch 3%
    I'm not surprised that Words of Affirmation is the highest or that Physical Touch is the lowest (I don't react well to physical affection, in all honesty)

    • @PetxoxoMyLife
      @PetxoxoMyLife 4 місяці тому

      I was the exact same scores just in different orders lol

  • @fredmiriam313
    @fredmiriam313 2 роки тому +515

    About hugging a patient: I had a physical therapist once, he tried very hard to take away the issues I had in my neck. After 6 weeks, 2 treatments a week, he finally succeeded. He jumped, screamed "YES!!!" And gave me a big hug! Absolutely nothing wrong with that, and a very genuine emotion from someone who doubted that it would work, but tried anyway because he wanted to help. From that treatment on I was his patient for 10 years until his retirement.

    • @laceyjaye1262
      @laceyjaye1262 2 роки тому +31

      As long as the patient is ok with it then it is definitely great! As long as he can read people right. Congratulations!!

    • @Lefleur290
      @Lefleur290 11 місяців тому +8

      Aw 😭❤️

    • @II-fd2pr
      @II-fd2pr 7 місяців тому

      Wow thats insane man. Congrats of having such a good therapist :D

    • @TPWK216
      @TPWK216 7 місяців тому +1

      Yeah I work with elderly and I hug them often. Some want a good morning hug and others want a godnight hug. Some want a hug when they are sad and others want a hug when they are happy. There are alot of situations during a day when someone is in need of a hug. Im glad to hear dr. Mike say he can hug a patient. Most of doctors i seen just stare at a screen, and usually avoid something basic as a eyecontact.

  • @sayaligirnar5285
    @sayaligirnar5285 3 роки тому +977

    Are we gonna ignore " Do you wanna run with me? Run with meeee". I am literally on floor, laughing.

  • @ashleybennett1350
    @ashleybennett1350 3 роки тому +456

    The fact that Dr. Mike’s talking about Bear for his love language is just so relatable 😂

  • @ashleyburch1338
    @ashleyburch1338 3 роки тому +388

    I was just sitting here, crocheting, enjoying my Dr. Mike video when he calls me a 90 year old. I’m only 27. Shots definitely fired Dr. Mike.

    • @JuliaVSL
      @JuliaVSL 2 роки тому +9

      Omg, me too! 🥲 I just recently turned 28, bu you get what i'm going through.

    • @aschmi-mu9110
      @aschmi-mu9110 2 роки тому +8

      Well, I'm 37 and I like to crochet. Still far away from 90.

    • @jessicapeyton5444
      @jessicapeyton5444 2 роки тому +6

      Currently 27 as well, but I’ve been crocheting since I was like 14🧍🏾‍♀️😅

    • @ellencalandrillo6669
      @ellencalandrillo6669 2 роки тому +3

      My mom taught me to crochet when I was about 7. Currently 29 and still at it. Defs not 90, lol.

    • @felicitymcgrevy
      @felicitymcgrevy 2 роки тому +1

      Hahaha same here! I'm 29 and sat here watching this video with my crocheting in front of me 😂

  • @rimjim-tf4hf
    @rimjim-tf4hf 3 роки тому +215

    "Oh honey would you mind if I sat next to you innocently😏😏😏 " This killed me🤣🤣

    • @cheryl-lynnmehring8606
      @cheryl-lynnmehring8606 3 роки тому +3

      Me too! But we wouldn't mind!! Hehe

    • @mohit25
      @mohit25 3 роки тому

      @@cheryl-lynnmehring8606 But you ain't gonna win from Bear 🐻... Hehehehe 😂

  • @ultraguy9819
    @ultraguy9819 2 роки тому +2

    A great gift for Mike would be 10 million subscribers

  • @RidaJuveria
    @RidaJuveria 3 роки тому +439

    When he said "what kind of Shakespearian nonsense is this?" I burst into laughter 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kmart1396
    @kmart1396 3 роки тому +322

    Dr. Mike: _makes joke about Shakespearean characters being innocent and chaste_
    Me, with my BA in theater: _sighs_ , oh you sweet summer child

    • @tosinakin2508
      @tosinakin2508 3 роки тому +17

      Yep. Shakespeare was wild. Sounds more Victorian or Regency to me.

    • @bookspensandstudy9152
      @bookspensandstudy9152 3 роки тому +1

      Ahhh same!

    • @bemusedbandersnatch2069
      @bemusedbandersnatch2069 3 роки тому +7

      So many sex jokes. So many.

    • @kmart1396
      @kmart1396 3 роки тому +11

      @@bemusedbandersnatch2069 straight up though!! Bonus is the fact many of those were to belittle and make fun of the kings of the era, under the guise of ego boosting because a play was written about them. Also like reducing down one of Shakespeare most famous comedies, if we're being honest, Midsummer Nights Dream is just about hooking up in the woods.

    • @bemusedbandersnatch2069
      @bemusedbandersnatch2069 3 роки тому +5

      ​@@kmart1396 Well today I learned something new. That shouldn't surprise me but it does a little. Shakespeare did subtle well.

  • @namrata9235
    @namrata9235 3 роки тому +72

    "You wanna run with me? RUN WITH MEEEE!"
    The next second: "Chasing new goals and aspirations."
    😂😂😂😂

  • @dubheasadalosair8928
    @dubheasadalosair8928 2 роки тому +3

    dude when you said you're getting old because you're in your 30's, I felt that! already have some health issues. & I would have struggled with this quiz for the same reasons you did. thank you for being my spirit animal today

  • @ggred123
    @ggred123 3 роки тому +211

    I feel personally attacked by the “who has a partner who says they’re going to do nice things but they don’t” hahaha! My ex would do this to me all the time. That’s a big reason why we broke up.

    • @McChoby94
      @McChoby94 3 роки тому +7

      Same. Actions speak louder than words.

    • @stefaniemelchger1633
      @stefaniemelchger1633 3 роки тому

      I know what you mean, mine went with me to a City once and once to a Golf game and for half a year he said that he already did nice things and i was to greedy (i just wanted to go on nature walks...) (wtf)
      And may I add that i dont even like Golf and he knew that but we went there for him.

    • @Meiabell
      @Meiabell 3 роки тому

      I think mine said he would do things just so I knew what he wouldn’t do. 😆

    • @gwenzeezee
      @gwenzeezee 3 роки тому +4

      SAME. My ex always told me he would take me out on a date yet he never did, but makes time to go out to eat dinner with his friends that are girls S M H

    • @r.e.485
      @r.e.485 3 роки тому

      Same! But mine only said it as manipulation to get me to get back with him. After that, promises were not kept.

  • @GildroyOfficial
    @GildroyOfficial 3 роки тому +607

    Me: *looks at my 30 year old wife crocheting*
    “Dr Mike called you old”

  • @Silkencira1710
    @Silkencira1710 2 роки тому +43

    I love getting to know to love languages. In my relationship it helped a lot because we had completely different love languages. We actively try to do more of what the other one loves. We also made a list of activities and rated them on how important they are for us to do. That gave us a lot of insight 😊

    • @stephanier2165
      @stephanier2165 2 роки тому +2

      I love that! That would create so many fun date ideas. You could switch who gets to choose the activity every week. Sounds super fun, definitely stealing that for the future 🤗

  • @read_to_me_a_book_with_samira
    @read_to_me_a_book_with_samira 3 роки тому +740

    Love needs understanding and acceptance before any language, action or anything else...

  • @sofiiasavchyn7539
    @sofiiasavchyn7539 3 роки тому +127

    Dr. Mike: "I love chasing new goals and aspirations"
    *chases a seagull*

  • @kensleyk6762
    @kensleyk6762 3 роки тому +112

    Seeing that a lot of people don't understand the love language of gifts and things of that nature, just thought I shed some personal light on that. An old boyfriend of mine loved to buy me things, flowers, food, gifts, you name it. When I asked him why he tries to buy me, he got so heartbroken that I thought that. He explained that he spends his time working very hard for very little money, so the way he sees it his money is his time and hardwork. He's wanting to give me hours of his hardwork, labor, and putting up with job stress just to show me he's thinking of me. I think it's beautiful when you see it that way. Anyways

    • @anjaliekunwar
      @anjaliekunwar 2 роки тому +2

      if i think about this the other way where im the giver, it def makes sense.

    • @Evija3000
      @Evija3000 2 роки тому +5

      Giving good gifts also means putting thought into it and rembering details about the person.

  • @itswanderlala
    @itswanderlala 2 роки тому +19

    Hi doc, it’s a great topic. I’m so happy to know the results of my 5 love languages:
    33% Quality Time
    30% Physical Touch
    19% Acts of Service
    18% Words of Affirmation
    0% Gifts
    God bless you and more power❤️
    Knowledge is truly a power.
    Stay safe and healthy. Woof woof 🤗

  • @yahyaali5779
    @yahyaali5779 3 роки тому +339

    Dr Mike: "I'm a fan of PDA"
    Me: "It's time to get my membership of the Parenteral Drug Association. "

  • @renelynolis1350
    @renelynolis1350 3 роки тому +562

    11:00
    "Oh honey would you mind if i sit with you innocently?" And that look.
    Im dead HAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @marsjpd1064
      @marsjpd1064 3 роки тому +28

      THE TONGUE MOOOVEEEEEEE UGHHHHHHHH I'M DEAD

    • @emmasimmons9150
      @emmasimmons9150 3 роки тому +32

      3:41

    • @jessy-kkipirtoglou7217
      @jessy-kkipirtoglou7217 3 роки тому +11

      That reminded a Friends's scene when Ross wants to buy a new couch, sit down to test it and say the seller "I want a couch to welcome kids but which also would mean Come to me!" with the weirdest look! 😆😆

    • @cxrruptedcarpet2968
      @cxrruptedcarpet2968 2 роки тому +2

      HAHAHHAHHAHA

  • @kitkatinnit2949
    @kitkatinnit2949 3 роки тому +294

    Alternate title for the video: Dr Mike professing his undying love for Bear for 11 minutes straight

    • @DeeEllEff
      @DeeEllEff 3 роки тому +2

      @@environmentalnews6040 Who DOESN’T love all that? (See my avatar.)

    • @BlueSkies30
      @BlueSkies30 3 роки тому

      Can relate. Oof

  • @txnyafrmhawaii
    @txnyafrmhawaii 3 роки тому +154

    “oh honey, would u mind if i just sit next to you innocently” 😭😭

  • @HannaTejeda
    @HannaTejeda 3 роки тому +184

    Mike: *Says it's a date, and that he's our potential mate.*
    Me: *Slides into DMs*

    • @Mihad4322
      @Mihad4322 3 роки тому +1

      THISSSS.!!🤣🤣 I can relate to.!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jakehumphreys8356
      @jakehumphreys8356 3 роки тому

      Came here to make this same comment 😂😂

    • @jeseelsilva9383
      @jeseelsilva9383 3 роки тому

      So we’re all in his dm’s?

  • @aamienabreda8114
    @aamienabreda8114 2 роки тому +8

    10:19 it's not really confusing. Gary Chapman, who wrote the five love languages book, says that some people learn to love in the way their parent/parents showed love to them while growing up. So in some cases you learn to live in the love language of your parent or parents even though it may not be your primary love language.

  • @sagnikpradhan3594
    @sagnikpradhan3594 3 роки тому +660

    Dr Mike: "You wanna run with me?"
    Birbs: *fly away*

  • @tadasuko8935
    @tadasuko8935 2 роки тому +2

    I always called it "showing love" and "recieving love" because there is a disconnect. One of my missionary companions would give me gifts all the time to show that she cared, and she did best when I gave her words of affirmation. Of course, if you're like me and it's physical contact, that's just the best way to show me affection period.

  • @angelinalenz5803
    @angelinalenz5803 3 роки тому +196

    Dr. Mike being Shakespeare: To PEEWOOP or not to PEEWOOP that is the question.

    • @febbyvumango4415
      @febbyvumango4415 3 роки тому +1

      hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    • @johnathanrhoades7751
      @johnathanrhoades7751 3 роки тому +3

      I love how he attributes conservative physicality to Shakespeare...has he read Shakespeare? Shakespeare legit makes jokes about analingus 😂

    • @jennyl.1509
      @jennyl.1509 3 роки тому

      😆😆😆

    • @vedant9988
      @vedant9988 3 роки тому +2

      Bro this is such an underrated comment. I’m dying😂😂😂😂

  • @jasminewalker8487
    @jasminewalker8487 Рік тому +24

    I love the whole go out of your way to relieve pressure. I did that for my husband when he got his job as a mailman. I quit my job to stay at home with the kids so he didn’t have extra stuff to do on top of crazy work hours. ❤❤❤

  • @EuLiieK
    @EuLiieK 3 роки тому +179

    I’m a psychologist and I’ve looked into this for couples therapy.
    Love languages are mostly so you understand how you like being showed love and your partner knows what to do.
    That’s why your partner should do it too so you know how they like being showed love.
    It is important for both to understand each other what they prefer to show and receive affection or love.

    • @mamac6836
      @mamac6836 2 роки тому +7

      True. I like giving gifts to the people I love because I like to see them happy when they're opening them. I like getting gifts to an extent, but I like those kinds of gifts that make you emotional lol.. I've been with a couple of men who are the complete opposite and yet didn't seem to understand me, obviously it didn't work out.

  • @lauribleu7558
    @lauribleu7558 2 роки тому +1

    Shots fired indeed. I started doing yarn crafts, including crochet, as a child. I went on to become a professional artist, an art teacher, and heavily educated in cultural anthropology. Guess what? I still crochet.

  • @ashleygrazutis4203
    @ashleygrazutis4203 3 роки тому +34

    I just took the test myself. Here was what I got in order from most to least:
    1.) Quality time (30%)
    2.) Words of Affirmation (27%)
    3.) Acts of Service (23%)
    4.) Physical Touch (20%)
    5.) Gift Giving (0%)
    I also did not expect for quality time to be the highest and expected words of affirmation and acts of service to be above it as well. Great video 🤗

  • @edenharris3595
    @edenharris3595 2 роки тому +6

    4:07 That’s not what Netflix and chill means........ 😬

  • @emilyfaith556
    @emilyfaith556 3 роки тому +273

    Alternative title: Dr Mike being a cute bean for 11 minutes straight

  • @sarahcross2631
    @sarahcross2631 Рік тому

    The Doctor at the urgent care gave me a hug after I was able to go home and honestly when you’re feeling like garbage and feeling sick, it’s so nice. Wish more doctors were more kindhearted

  • @lilyavery2685
    @lilyavery2685 3 роки тому +470

    Dr Mike: "it's a date, me and you"
    Me: I'm a minor

  • @twilight32561
    @twilight32561 3 роки тому +122

    “I’m tired” & “my joints are starting to hurt” I feel this in my soul and I just turned 22 😅

    • @mollycagle7440
      @mollycagle7440 3 роки тому

      Wait till you hit 41

    • @TheYoosuf
      @TheYoosuf 3 роки тому +4

      I felt that n I'm 14

    • @urfavmel.p
      @urfavmel.p 3 роки тому +3

      @@mohammedbim6626 stop replying to comments…it’s creepy-

    • @katrinaalison2511
      @katrinaalison2511 3 роки тому +1

      @@urfavmel.p there needs to be someway to report users like this.... hitting on women, asking them where they're from... is he a scammer for money? trying to get a visa in? just big ole creep? either way... not good...

    • @urfavmel.p
      @urfavmel.p 3 роки тому +1

      @@katrinaalison2511 I agree. There has to be a way to report this…it’s not okay

  • @YourFriendlyNeighborhoodBuug
    @YourFriendlyNeighborhoodBuug 3 роки тому +73

    I crochet and knit, Mike saying the “teach me” made me smile so hard

  • @aleagonzales720
    @aleagonzales720 Рік тому

    growing up my parents never pointed out when i did good at something but always pointed it out when my sister did so whenever my bf says hes proud of me i melt-

  • @crystalalberto9030
    @crystalalberto9030 3 роки тому +286

    This is exactly the kind of guy most women want to marry 😊

  • @NexTakenouchi
    @NexTakenouchi 2 роки тому

    As for gifts, I don't need gifts. However, you know when you're at a store and you see a little trinket, or candy, or something and it makes you think of someone... I love both giving and receiving those kinds of things.

  • @Maria-uv1gv
    @Maria-uv1gv 3 роки тому +222

    Doc mike: "look, I got dress up, it's a date"
    * Me looking like a homeless *

    • @hyprdontia
      @hyprdontia 3 роки тому

      Oof, been there

    • @Diamondesignsempires
      @Diamondesignsempires 3 роки тому

      Me being in my PJs:

    • @snehathakur678
      @snehathakur678 3 роки тому

      Nothing, no thing means nothing can be more relatable than this thing like whatttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!!

  • @nityaharshal1009
    @nityaharshal1009 2 роки тому +2

    YOU WANNA RUN WITH ME? Run with me had me dying there on the spot !!!

  • @caynepandan2240
    @caynepandan2240 3 роки тому +50

    2:52 Is that Dr Mike running through pigeons saying "Wanna run with me!?"
    How come I didn't know this?!??

    • @keirahealy7082
      @keirahealy7082 3 роки тому +1

      That was SO FUNNY 😂😂😂

    • @nancygomez7761
      @nancygomez7761 3 роки тому +3

      It’s in his running video where he is sponsored by Nike (vid I would highly recommend)

    • @rimjim-tf4hf
      @rimjim-tf4hf 3 роки тому +2

      Ya it's him!! I died laughing seeing him run like that behind the pigeons🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @alexthearmy
    @alexthearmy 2 роки тому +1

    I tried that quiz and yeah, came out at 30% Physical touch, 27% quality time and 20% words of affirmation. I always knew I like being touchy and need attention :D I'm not the person to receive gifts, although I'd enjoy simple ones like flowers, but I love to give gifts.

  • @jennyruiz2111
    @jennyruiz2111 3 роки тому +49

    I feel like Doctor Mike's hug is the safest place you can ever be in. Kinda need one right now.

    • @winnieb.7282
      @winnieb.7282 3 роки тому +2

      *gives you hug* how're you doing?

    • @jennyruiz2111
      @jennyruiz2111 3 роки тому +1

      @@winnieb.7282 Thank youuu, I'm doing much better now 。^‿^。

    • @jennyruiz2111
      @jennyruiz2111 3 роки тому

      @Quinn Dang well I didn't really mean it that way loool

    • @winnieb.7282
      @winnieb.7282 3 роки тому +1

      @@jennyruiz2111 Glad you're doing better :)

    • @winnieb.7282
      @winnieb.7282 3 роки тому +1

      @Quinn Dang Don't worry, it's a hug through the internet so no risk of catching covid ;)

  • @fujiboo2343
    @fujiboo2343 2 роки тому

    "stay happy and healthy" im being really brave rn my arm and tummy hurts

  • @mirandadawson4236
    @mirandadawson4236 3 роки тому +187

    I can’t imagine having an argument with you, Dr. Mike. I feel like it just would never happen because you’re so understanding and patient.

    • @annaandrea8320
      @annaandrea8320 2 роки тому +2

      :D

    • @ari_jean
      @ari_jean 2 роки тому +8

      It's just his public face. Maybe he *is* like this with people close to him, but maybe he's not. I really learned that "public face" is a completely "independent" behavior pattern from the one we choose in close relationships :)

    • @amyprada5567
      @amyprada5567 2 роки тому +1

      @@ari_jean Okay? You dont know that and you seem so confident, seems weird

    • @ari_jean
      @ari_jean 2 роки тому +4

      @@amyprada5567 I said “he can be or he can be not”. How is that confident? Haha😅

    • @amyprada5567
      @amyprada5567 2 роки тому +4

      @@ari_jean Im not talking about the full sentence, im talking about the fist sentence "Its just his public face" seemed so sure, i did read the whole comment through, still seems a bit over confident

  • @VGrace-mu3yu
    @VGrace-mu3yu 2 роки тому +3

    I wasn’t planning on falling in love with a doctor but doctor mike is making me reconsider 😝

  • @theresar4617
    @theresar4617 3 роки тому +41

    That "innocently sitting next to you on the sofa" sexy face was hilarious haha!

  • @rosyybear
    @rosyybear 7 місяців тому

    i had heard from somewhere our love language is often what we didn’t receive much as a child.

  • @sil7062
    @sil7062 3 роки тому +24

    What we learn about Mike is the guy that just wants to cuddle, get massages, netflix chill from stressful days

  • @laurenjohnson1513
    @laurenjohnson1513 2 роки тому +1

    It’s so cute that he keeps mentioning Bear in his answers!

  • @JenniferW178
    @JenniferW178 2 роки тому

    hugging your patient as long as its welcomed by the patient I think is the best thing because sometimes a hug is just needed and if you can trust your dr to take care of your health why not a hug?

  • @gabrielleolaia3531
    @gabrielleolaia3531 3 роки тому +75

    Dr Mike: Oh this test has some shakespearean bs
    Also Dr Mike: Love comes with great sacrifice

    • @angelinalenz5803
      @angelinalenz5803 3 роки тому +2

      Dr. Mike being Shakespeare: To PEEWOOP or not to PEEWOOP that is the question.

  • @Calvan42
    @Calvan42 3 роки тому +137

    Me, a person in there early 30's that actually likes to crochet: "I didn't know I was 90?"

    • @charlieheaneyphotography7411
      @charlieheaneyphotography7411 3 роки тому +10

      Me, started crocheting at 14 😂 like I know I feel like an old woman but I'm not there yet

    • @lifefrancisco3414
      @lifefrancisco3414 3 роки тому +8

      Same! I've been crocheting for 11 years and I'm 19 and my friends and family constantly say I'm going on 80 😂

    • @Kate-the-Curst
      @Kate-the-Curst 3 роки тому +11

      I was born the same year as the Doc, learnt to crochet when I was 4. My logic is that if that makes me 90, then he must also be 90, so shots returned :P

    • @littlemissmel88
      @littlemissmel88 3 роки тому +4

      Same, I learned when I was like 10. My body does hurt more, must mean I'm 90 now.

    • @memorycelle
      @memorycelle 3 роки тому +3

      Lots of people crochet, it's a great skill to have!

  • @ascjpca
    @ascjpca 2 роки тому +2

    Life struggles: Valentine’s Day by myself cause my boyfriend has a medicine exam tomorrow… I did the test and had similar results, except the results were 32% quality time, 29% physical touch, 23% acts of service, 13% words of affirmation and 3% receiving gifts. I’ve had a doctor-boyfriend for three years and I still work out his comfort in being open without being scared. Every second is worth it. I hope you all get the lucky chance to have that someone, even Dr.Mike deserves it too. I wonder if he should have my boyfriend in a woman version 😂❤️‍🔥.

  • @hayleeprince2376
    @hayleeprince2376 3 роки тому +38

    My husband and I have completely different love languages, I express my love by gift giving. But I think in my mind it’s not necessarily about the gift more about the thought that the person was thinking about me. It could be something as simple of picking up my favorite drink or snack from the store and surprising me with it.

  • @diyalectic52
    @diyalectic52 Рік тому

    I like seeing people's love languages, and then doing what they do for others: so giving gifts - I'll find the ones your little inner nerd would lose its mind over. Cause sometimes we have to learn to be loved and accept that it's okay to receive in certain ways. If you give physical touch but are sensitive physically yourself, your partner can learn your body and touch you the right ways that it doesn't rub the wrong way. etc. That's love to me, bringing in a dimension that you didn't expect, for someone to show you that you can accept love in many ways and enjoy it but also to give you love in the way your brain normally perceives love to present itself.

  • @skeptiwolf5654
    @skeptiwolf5654 3 роки тому +40

    Mikes relationship status is: in love with bear.

  • @laalalail
    @laalalail 2 роки тому

    i got exactly the same result as you, i think the test is more how you wanna be treated, than how you expressing your love to someone else, cause i think im more likely to give gifts, complementing and service to who i love..

  • @indrechudobaite219
    @indrechudobaite219 2 роки тому

    I really need a hug right now. I lost my dog three days ago and you talking about Bear just made me miss my dog's hugs more..

  • @MysticalApple
    @MysticalApple 3 роки тому +39

    Dr Mike: has a P.O. Box address with "send me stuffs" in the description
    Also Dr Mike: 10:30

  • @Roanna..Frendo
    @Roanna..Frendo Рік тому

    "I'm getting old, i'm tired, joint are starting to hurt. I'm in my 30's " 😂😂😂😂 never heard something soooo true!

  • @IchiigoSkye
    @IchiigoSkye 2 роки тому

    I'm about to be 30, have fibromyalgia, arthritis in my spine, in constant suffering day in and day out, with a Quality time love language, just wanting love after the nightmare of a year i've had so far, all i have is my Dog Jolyne and a bed full of plush deer . . . best part on me giving gifts, i aint buying ya nothing. I'm a crafty lady, i will make you things others wont have, so, one of a kind presents.

  • @brunafagundes3644
    @brunafagundes3644 3 роки тому +201

    Mike: "it's a date, me and you"
    Me: *naked, shitting*
    - oh shit
    Edit: thanks for the likes :)

  • @benlee5039
    @benlee5039 3 роки тому +95

    Mike: "Is this an innocent touch?"
    *no, only chest compressions*

    • @X.3.N.0.N.2
      @X.3.N.0.N.2 3 роки тому +1

      Only innocent because of good samaritan law, change my mind. Lol

  • @j.rinker4609
    @j.rinker4609 Рік тому

    I have one of the love-languages books (got at a yard sale). Your "giving" love language CAN be different than your "receiving" love language. I enjoy giving gifts as well, but have gotten some real "duds" as gifts. While gifts from my students are rare, and therefore precious, I don't think receiving gifts is my top love language.

  • @keito-kun6618
    @keito-kun6618 2 роки тому +1

    sh*t. ive just realized that i dont have a love language.
    i never really had anyone for 28 years nor have i ever fallen in love with anyone, just rare temporary crushes.
    but if i do have a lover or a love language of my own, i would love if we just spend time together and do stuff we both like. we could go to where they like and we could go to what i like.
    that and hugging coz "...i love warm hugs."

  • @bellaholland5846
    @bellaholland5846 3 роки тому +14

    the purpose of this test and the reason the questions are worded like this, went totally over Mike’s head 😂

  • @anacs7704
    @anacs7704 3 роки тому +35

    Mike: “which one your going to watch next to know more about your potential mate?”
    me: wait what?!

  • @theartistotle
    @theartistotle 3 роки тому +8

    I was literally crocheting when I was watching this video and when Mike said, "show me your crochet stuff" I literally got goosebumps, I was like, "Mike ? Are you spying on us?"

  • @libera7161
    @libera7161 2 роки тому

    I have nearly on every love-languge 23 % except Quality Time and Gifts. Quality Time 27 % and Gifts 7%.

  • @kokichioma2748
    @kokichioma2748 3 роки тому +16

    Dr.Mike chasing those birds. I can't 😂💀

  • @kimberlyshellberg6137
    @kimberlyshellberg6137 10 місяців тому

    Dr Mike, I’m an old woman, 54, my husband would be fine with our relationship, healthcare is just too expensive!! We accept you in our home!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @maryamaloves4488
    @maryamaloves4488 3 роки тому +31

    I look like a creep to my family just sitting here laughing but I can't hold it in 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @munawarah5844
    @munawarah5844 3 роки тому +20

    "Honey, can I just sit next to you innocently" it's killing me😂😂 look at his face haha

  • @potatolord616
    @potatolord616 3 роки тому +18

    Dr.Mike: It’s a date between me and you!
    The Comments: 😍😍😍😍🥰😘😘😘🥰😚😙😘

  • @talitan4607
    @talitan4607 2 роки тому

    I just ran into your channel by accident and now believe me I can’t get enough you keep me motivated because I want to be a doctor myself and you are just amazing

  • @_clovemusic_
    @_clovemusic_ 3 роки тому +23

    omg when he’s asking the birds if they want to run with him and they just fly away...
    i relate

  • @thesongist
    @thesongist 2 роки тому

    I love the physical touch answers because I can’t be with someone again that doesn’t hold my hand in public.

  • @walker68175
    @walker68175 3 роки тому +7

    Mike literally makes my day. For a doctor, who is usually serious by these calling times, he is very great and fun to watch.

  • @manyaagarwal1513
    @manyaagarwal1513 Рік тому

    "hug em' " he is so adorable in this video, help

  • @novocaine09
    @novocaine09 2 роки тому

    The local walk in clinic I went to as a teen/ young adult had a doctor that always hugged patients and everyone absolutely adored him. The whole city mourned his passing of cancer a few years ago.

  • @berrineri
    @berrineri 3 роки тому +35

    THEY JUST HAD TO PUT “AN INNOCENT TOUCH”
    it took a minute to find a non-bot comment how

    • @stuart959
      @stuart959 3 роки тому

      Being a highly emotionally sensitive and physically communicative person that statement makes sense to me. Many people use physical touch with a clear agenda. Such as seeking sex without being aware that is what they are doing. This statement I understand to be clearifying that the person is aware of their motivations and is intentional about the actions and what it means. Or to put it another way touch is a form of communication. In any communication misunderstanding is undesirable, touch without awareness of one's own intent can create misunderstanding. A tangible example of innocent touch communication that is consistent with one's intent, such as giving a child a hug to show love for them.

  • @mahletberhanu7749
    @mahletberhanu7749 3 роки тому +36

    I loved watching this! Makes me feel like we get to know the doctor more. Surprisingly I got the same results. It must be a tired doctors thing.

  • @twilight32561
    @twilight32561 3 роки тому +13

    I love how much he talks about Bear. Any single parent would talk about their child a lot when getting into a new relationship and Bear is Dr.Mike’s child 🥰. Any woman that will date him would also be with Bear- they’re a package deal.

    • @BlueSkies30
      @BlueSkies30 3 роки тому +1

      I have a dog and she's part of my package deal too. So I relate very much.

  • @Iamhellokitty77
    @Iamhellokitty77 7 місяців тому

    This is hilarious. I think you need to do another one of these in 2024. 😂 You’re showing clear NY/NJ vibes here with the MoFo comment, I’m dead. My mom was born and raised in Union City NJ and listening to you talk makes me nostalgic for my Mom. 💕 Thanks Dr. Mike 👏

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 3 роки тому +19

    Dr. Mike: I got dressed up. It's a date. Me and you.
    Me: looks awkwardly over at my husband, "It's not though..."

  • @naymeequillo
    @naymeequillo 2 роки тому

    Okay I swear I appreciate you mostly for your character and brain dr Mike, but YOU TOUCHING YOUR CHEEK IS SO ADORABLE I JUST SQUEEKED OUT LOUD.

  • @jibberjabber4560
    @jibberjabber4560 3 роки тому +41

    UA-cam: there are 103 comments
    Me: Can I see them
    UA-cam: nope

  • @miriamrobarts
    @miriamrobarts 3 роки тому +9

    0:52 If you read the book, it says that's the way you're meant to take the quiz: thinking of friends & family, and not solely a romantic relationship.

  • @adveshdarvekar7733
    @adveshdarvekar7733 2 роки тому

    I gave the test and my number one love language is quality time and 2nd was physical touch

  • @Matt-sc6gg
    @Matt-sc6gg 3 роки тому +6

    9:05
    The Weeknd: I can't sleep until I feel your touch
    Also the Weeknd: Just a simple touch and it could set you free.
    Wow, the human touch is indeed very powerful.