Hey Nomathemba am happy you finally found your father.Am proud of you my Intelligent Mathematics student of 2014 @ Magwegwe High School Zimbabwe. I always talk about you ...... very polite but courageous.
If I was Sbongile I would surely go back , I will never beg to be accepted by my biological father. Orphans survive without their biological parents. Sometimes we over rate this biological parents thing.
Sibongile please go to Manzini Market the main one you will find your dad. His residence is also in Manzini at a place called Maliyaduma-eMoyeni and just ask kaDlamini Sicelo you won't go wrong..
Ngiyakubongela Momo for finding your dad & jabulela kuthi you just want to know your dad & his family nothing more...ngiyabonga lokuthi ngeke ubakhohlwe omalumakho abakukhulisayo bakufundisa & you so polite😍🇿🇼
Two South African daughters, one grows up in well off South Africa, the other grows up in challenged Zimbabwe without a mother. The difference in outcomes are influened by choices made by the two families. Discipline and choices make a huge difference in our lives. Whether we like it or not its only natural that we deserve to know both parents. Knowing your parent helps you understand yourself better, but not knowing invelaphi yakho should not be an excuse. I understand the first girl's view that she had kids because of her father's absence. Normal parents play different roles in raising kids. Its a fact that more often than not fathers are strict, compared to mothers.
I need to understand how people always claim their lives will get better after finding people who never gave a shi* about them. What happens to those who will never know their real fathers? The first lady claims she would not have gotten pregnant 3 times if her thug "father" was present, is he a contraceptive? It's good to know your family and all, but to think they will now change your life especially as an adult, I think it's being a bit ambitious. See the contrast between the stories, second girl only wanted to know where she belongs, not interested in her new found family to make her life better, even though she really never had a father nor a mother. Her father is cool and he seems responsible. Now he has to get that child a SA'n passport companies here would gladly employ her with her critical skill.
I always ask myself the same question??baningi abantwana abakhula bengela or bengamazi umama or ubaba but they successful in life..people just like making excuses for their stupid mistakes in life...
you know sometimes when thing have not happened to you, you will never b able ro relate,,,,,, i also think if my father was part of my life things would be better, yes i know him, yes he doesnt give a fuck and yes i told myself that i also dont give a fuck also bt the truth is a day doesnt pass by without me thinking about him, so its affecting me mentally n now I'm forever angry why because i never felt loved n always thought that i dnt deserve to b loved since my own father doesnt love me so who would
I am so disappointed by this family! I pray that Jah blesses Sibongile and her moms with so much more. They tried reaching out, he is a coward by not taking responsibility. Look how beautiful this little girl is. But, God is for us all.
I come to Khumbulekhaya for the snaps, the natural views and scenery, I must say the Camera crew takes the cake!!! They are excellent at what they do, you take my mind on a well needed trip!!
Noma Thembi you’re a brilliant and smart girl. Your grandparents did a great job raising you, l’m glad though that your father warmly welcomed you and his family.
I feel sorry for the plumtree girl. Her future is bright at least her grandmother did all she could to raise her up. God will take care my baby and life goes on.
"just wait until he came back" imagine if it's your daughter being treated like this looking for her father? some women though... I have always maintained that some parents in south Africa are so irresponsible guys. It's children who have to look for their parents always. Somebody must grow up.
I think sometimes it's not even worth it looking for these dad's it's just a waste of time. It's high time we do away with this idea of totems because they will mess up your life, praying and trusting in God is the solution. He's even starting to lie saying the family of this girl's mother didn't want him because they were saying he's a taxi driver? I don't believe it cos back in the days being a taxi driver was a good paying job even today people's are well off being into this business. Parents must own up he screwed up and must take responsibility and stop blame game for people who are no longer here maybe they could tell the story well.
Let me tell you something, lol I didn't even finish reading your comment. I agree with you and will probably agree with everything you saying. Now parents conceive children not the other way round. I'm turning 27, I do not my biological father, I am not about that life of looking for a so called father who clearly didn't want me in his life. So life must go on. You understand God had a plan for my life before I was formed in my precious Mother's womb, so aiyeeeeee... ok as I continue to read you comment, lol
Pa Maskus if you let madlozi run your life they will come to your life like lightning. Unless you are a non believer and you believe in them. I never knew my dad until I was a grown up. My mom raised me well. My dad is my dad and I respected him until he passed on. Yeah being africans there was talk at one stage that I had to go for a cleansing ceremony. My mum just told my dad that she believes in God and God will protect me and my dad agreed too. When I started working my mum told me to always make sure I sent my dad money and buy him clothes. I did that cos he was my father. I didn't even question him why he was not part of my life? it was a waste of time and i didn't want to know how they lived with my mum. It was water under the bridge. My concern was to make my dad happy with the little I had.I am a grow up with two sons. My children knew my dad and they loved him very well. Let me tell you and you try it. If you live by faith, prayer, love and respect madlozi will never ever try to come near you. Guardian angels 24/7! life goes on.
Is there any woman who can joke about pregnancy or it's him who joked about it when the lady told him that she was prepared? This was so saddening but God will make a way for this girl as for the lady with a lime cloth wrapped around her waist, karma will catch up with her one day. If she has children she must expect this too.
The pain of not having a father is deeper than people will ever know. That hurt never heals no matter what; especially if he rejects you even though he knows your his daughter. Please fathers, be there for your kids, its not about MONEY! Come on, can you please show kids love because the world will prey on a girl who does not know love from a father.
It is so interesting to see a really truly father, accept and become happy to see his daughter,without hasitation,,well done Mr baloi,,I hope some of us we have lerned from you
The child is educated now she's not from Zimbabwe she's from South Africa? I wouldn't dwell on it just to see him and go back to Zimbabwe! All these years why didn't he go to KE too? irresponsibility at it's best!
But he was clear on the issue, the father paid damages to Zim family and they took his daughter away, it is only fair that she comes back home to reunite with her SA family.
you can tell Walter is a criminal!! why is his family so jumpy. what's the problem with the cameras? they are saying this lady has secrets, meanwhile, they are the ones who don't want cameras!!
Lol did she say "If my father was here i wouldn't hv 3 kids.. Bcz he was not here.. I had a lot going on in my head that is why i have 3 kids in this young age".... Heeeeeeee hay zange ndaxakwa. You hv your mom.. Why look for a Dad...
aibo yaz nami ngizibuza lokho aibo its a very bad mentality we have as Back people competing for stupid things and not wanting to accept our situation, ignore outside noise and try better ourselves.
Hi Guys. On the Pics,at the last part, My uncle Bongmenzi is desperately looking for his mother(My Granny) He recently lost his 2Kids,Wife and Mother in law, all at once. we really need help finding our Gran who lef tthem when they were very young...If anyone knows of a person called Dudu Hadebe who worked at Garankuwa Hospital or Marlief Hadebe or Khehla Hadebe Please contact us/Khumbulekhaya. it would be much appreciated.
But its their opinion and needs to be respected, some people are uncomfortable and they find national television to be creepy...Khumbulekhaya is a sensitive content and other families would rather talk between their families only and resolve issues without filming....i think i would do that too.
They really need to educate girls not to have unwanted kids because if this education does not reach all the young girls we will be having these episodes of people blaming their parents and leaving kids everywhere
Sibongile get those children's fathers to support them ...nd not expect walter to help your mum look after them..u are stretching it there judging from that frozen reception
We love your show Khumbul'khaya but this thing of waiting till the cows come for yall to upload these episodes must come to an end, why don't you copy from Generations, Uzalo, Isidingo etc as they upload immediately after it's shown on TV...1st story that family & the father are just a bunch of crooks...2nd story Mr Baloyi i know mistakes were made & that's your child & no one can tell you otherwise but i think that beautiful young lady is in a better space at this point in time, let her finish her studies & assist where you can & eventually she will come back as i don't think you can offer her much keeping all aspects in mind.
Hey Nomathemba am happy you finally found your father.Am proud of you my Intelligent Mathematics student of 2014 @ Magwegwe High School Zimbabwe. I always talk about you ...... very polite but courageous.
The Nyalungu family acting like they are royalty. Couldn't they say they don't want to be filmed without being rude
If I was Sbongile I would surely go back , I will never beg to be accepted by my biological father. Orphans survive without their biological parents. Sometimes we over rate this biological parents thing.
Over here, I survived today I'm 27. You get what I'm saying.
Thank you Prim..
Sibongile please go to Manzini Market the main one you will find your dad. His residence is also in Manzini at a place called Maliyaduma-eMoyeni and just ask kaDlamini Sicelo you won't go wrong..
Prim Ngwenya true
People who speak like have both parents
Nomathemba , you are very blessed mnawami and l'm so glad ucine umtholile uBaba wako.
Ngikufisela konke okuhle💕💕💕💕
Nomathemba has a beautiful voice.You can tell she is a humble girl.
2nd family, so priceless 😍... Lots of love
Ngiyingane kaWalter bengeke ngiphinde ngibheke emuva,siiieees wat a family No welcome nje
Ngiyakubongela Momo for finding your dad & jabulela kuthi you just want to know your dad & his family nothing more...ngiyabonga lokuthi ngeke ubakhohlwe omalumakho abakukhulisayo bakufundisa & you so polite😍🇿🇼
Andile I like your dress you look stunning!
She looks great 👌🏾💃🏾
Two South African daughters, one grows up in well off South Africa, the other grows up in challenged Zimbabwe without a mother. The difference in outcomes are influened by choices made by the two families. Discipline and choices make a huge difference in our lives.
Whether we like it or not its only natural that we deserve to know both parents. Knowing your parent helps you understand yourself better, but not knowing invelaphi yakho should not be an excuse.
I understand the first girl's view that she had kids because of her father's absence. Normal parents play different roles in raising kids. Its a fact that more often than not fathers are strict, compared to mothers.
I'm so impressed with Nomathemba's family.
I need to understand how people always claim their lives will get better after finding people who never gave a shi* about them. What happens to those who will never know their real fathers? The first lady claims she would not have gotten pregnant 3 times if her thug "father" was present, is he a contraceptive? It's good to know your family and all, but to think they will now change your life especially as an adult, I think it's being a bit ambitious. See the contrast between the stories, second girl only wanted to know where she belongs, not interested in her new found family to make her life better, even though she really never had a father nor a mother. Her father is cool and he seems responsible. Now he has to get that child a SA'n passport companies here would gladly employ her with her critical skill.
I always ask myself the same question??baningi abantwana abakhula bengela or bengamazi umama or ubaba but they successful in life..people just like making excuses for their stupid mistakes in life...
The first two lines of your paragraph are so true! I thought I was the only one who doesn't get it.
@@omrams5657 i dont want my child to have this mentality right now ubabake doesnt give a sh*t y would he care later in life
Usile kodwa 😂😂
you know sometimes when thing have not happened to you, you will never b able ro relate,,,,,, i also think if my father was part of my life things would be better, yes i know him, yes he doesnt give a fuck and yes i told myself that i also dont give a fuck also bt the truth is a day doesnt pass by without me thinking about him, so its affecting me mentally n now I'm forever angry why because i never felt loved n always thought that i dnt deserve to b loved since my own father doesnt love me so who would
I am so disappointed by this family! I pray that Jah blesses Sibongile and her moms with so much more. They tried reaching out, he is a coward by not taking responsibility. Look how beautiful this little girl is. But, God is for us all.
I come to Khumbulekhaya for the snaps, the natural views and scenery, I must say the Camera crew takes the cake!!! They are excellent at what they do, you take my mind on a well needed trip!!
me too
Noma Thembi you’re a brilliant and smart girl. Your grandparents did a great job raising you, l’m glad though that your father warmly welcomed you and his family.
Sibongile must never look back, her father and his family were so cold and not receptive. Girl move on with your life
The Baloyi family is so warm and wonderful
all these people are programmed to ask y didnt u look for me even after countless ex planations
welcome home to your family Nomathemba Siyabonga bantu base zim ngokusikhulisela umntana .she is so sweeeeeeeet
bonga umgabe
@@vusumuzimathumo-githendu6949 🤣🤣
@@vusumuzimathumo-githendu6949 🤣🤣🤣 sokungu Mnangagwa khathesi , ukhulu sowaphuma
A big shout-out to the Tsonga people, their love is so amazing and they are extremely humble people.
@@vusumuzimathumo-githendu6949 Lol Mugabe for real!!!
wow second was superb 🥰🥰🥰
I feel sorry for the plumtree girl. Her future is bright at least her grandmother did all she could to raise her up. God will take care my baby and life goes on.
"just wait until he came back" imagine if it's your daughter being treated like this looking for her father? some women though... I have always maintained that some parents in south Africa are so irresponsible guys. It's children who have to look for their parents always. Somebody must grow up.
lol "you will wait here until he came back " REALLY? some1 who cared that much about cameras wouldnt say that rubbish ....phulis dnt expose urslf
i know nomathemba from school Zim . sweet soul
I wanted to see the father but hey 😂😂😂
I think sometimes it's not even worth it looking for these dad's it's just a waste of time. It's high time we do away with this idea of totems because they will mess up your life, praying and trusting in God is the solution. He's even starting to lie saying the family of this girl's mother didn't want him because they were saying he's a taxi driver? I don't believe it cos back in the days being a taxi driver was a good paying job even today people's are well off being into this business. Parents must own up he screwed up and must take responsibility and stop blame game for people who are no longer here maybe they could tell the story well.
Let me tell you something, lol I didn't even finish reading your comment. I agree with you and will probably agree with everything you saying. Now parents conceive children not the other way round. I'm turning 27, I do not my biological father, I am not about that life of looking for a so called father who clearly didn't want me in his life. So life must go on. You understand God had a plan for my life before I was formed in my precious Mother's womb, so aiyeeeeee... ok as I continue to read you comment, lol
Gladys Mokomane you would never know what you ve missed. But it’s your choice and live it for yourself. Everybody knows Name is everything on Earth
Pa Maskus what's in a name? yeah it's my opinion I know some will agree with me some won't.
@@lungiao229 good question.... You wont understand unless you face it mselufu....ezadlozi azidingi nsango notshwala.... We shall all learn in gud time
Pa Maskus if you let madlozi run your life they will come to your life like lightning. Unless you are a non believer and you believe in them. I never knew my dad until I was a grown up. My mom raised me well. My dad is my dad and I respected him until he passed on. Yeah being africans there was talk at one stage that I had to go for a cleansing ceremony. My mum just told my dad that she believes in God and God will protect me and my dad agreed too. When I started working my mum told me to always make sure I sent my dad money and buy him clothes. I did that cos he was my father. I didn't even question him why he was not part of my life? it was a waste of time and i didn't want to know how they lived with my mum. It was water under the bridge. My concern was to make my dad happy with the little I had.I am a grow up with two sons. My children knew my dad and they loved him very well. Let me tell you and you try it. If you live by faith, prayer, love and respect madlozi will never ever try to come near you. Guardian angels 24/7! life goes on.
Leyo Family ka Sibongile iphapha kufa na maEnglish we Fong Kong.TF is "wait till he came back"😕
😂😂😂😂camering us
@@anniendhluli2790 tjooo baze ba blower icover yethu literate Sasafricans😊
😂😂😂😂😂
yes lol
+Annie Ndhluli 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yerrrr
Weeeeh abantu abamnyama yerr “izifundiswa " nkosi ndicela undenze ndikwazi ukuhlonipha nokunceda abaswelayo......
Despite the dad's shenanigans, I love how welcoming the larger family was.
Is there any woman who can joke about pregnancy or it's him who joked about it when the lady told him that she was prepared? This was so saddening but God will make a way for this girl as for the lady with a lime cloth wrapped around her waist, karma will catch up with her one day. If she has children she must expect this too.
Really appreciate the episodes. Please upload these video's early as they on screen every Wednesday evening. Thank you
That Walter nyalungu family is just mean
Ukhuliswe kahle lomtwana siyabonga ezimbabwe ngokusigcinela ithambo lethu
💕💕💕
Nomathemba! ❤🙏🏾🇿🇼
The pain of not having a father is deeper than people will ever know. That hurt never heals no matter what; especially if he rejects you even though he knows your his daughter. Please fathers, be there for your kids, its not about MONEY! Come on, can you please show kids love because the world will prey on a girl who does not know love from a father.
Akho kwanto I wonderful kulefamily yoqala
2nd story beautiful girl who looks like her grandmoma
This family is so arrogant, baby forget, you’ll survive without this man whom you call your father
All a sign to stop looking hle😂🙌.. Yazi it's all a sign nje
It is so interesting to see a really truly father, accept and become happy to see his daughter,without hasitation,,well done Mr baloi,,I hope some of us we have lerned from you
Ubaba ka-Sbongile uthi uzoya ethekwini ...ukubane ubengeke aye ethekwini ubengeke amubone umtwana wakhe ...kodwa isiZulu sithi lithatha osemnyango limphose emsamu lithathe osemsamo limphose emnyango
Haai mara sometimes we have kids with idiots and irresponsible men stru
If I were that girl I wouldn’t want anything to do with them
Ubaba wesibili uyimukele kahle indodakaz yakhe❤
I'm so disappointed with Sibongile, 's father's family. 😢
Weeee umndeni ka Walter ngathi une mantion house lento abayenzile asibona Ubuntu shaim bebashiya bemile
Nomathemba sis at least umtholile ubaba
The child is educated now she's not from Zimbabwe she's from South Africa? I wouldn't dwell on it just to see him and go back to Zimbabwe! All these years why didn't he go to KE too? irresponsibility at it's best!
But he was clear on the issue, the father paid damages to Zim family and they took his daughter away, it is only fair that she comes back home to reunite with her SA family.
what a warm welcome by the Nyalungu family!!!!!!
Arewe watching the same thing?
Mnxxx lobaba uyadina nomdeni wakhe uWalter
you can tell Walter is a criminal!! why is his family so jumpy. what's the problem with the cameras? they are saying this lady has secrets, meanwhile, they are the ones who don't want cameras!!
i love this show..i always cry watching every episode
Wa ke tepeletsha
With out Camering us ..🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣
Lol did she say "If my father was here i wouldn't hv 3 kids.. Bcz he was not here.. I had a lot going on in my head that is why i have 3 kids in this young age".... Heeeeeeee hay zange ndaxakwa. You hv your mom.. Why look for a Dad...
1st fam drama queens😷😷
One of the reasons why ladies love thugs " Any day is month end "
The 2nd girl is studying Biochemistry, that's the Moyo genes right there. We're naturally intelligent and don't argue with me.
Shuwa
Walter's family is arrogant
Mhlambe kukhona abakwenza njeh abafun kubonwa izwelonke.
Some ppl r cruel... Walter s family yooh
They think they made it
Bahlala emkhukhwini but bagcwele amazinyo egolide, hayiii maar black people, why? 1st family 🤣
Lami ngiyazibuza kuthi kube imali yamagold teeth wavula ispazs
Kumatima 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yazi some people so......
aibo yaz nami ngizibuza lokho aibo its a very bad mentality we have as Back people competing for stupid things and not wanting to accept our situation, ignore outside noise and try better ourselves.
Amanda Gasa 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The first family...mmmmm too rude
People so desperate looking for people who give no shit
Sibongile,cc wth o wthout him u cn mke it.Tata sbo i wonder y he scred.God will open doors for you as now u had ur fadas voice n his image.
WE THANK YOU FOR HELPING YOUR DAUGHTER BUT THE GUY SOUND LIKE A PLAYER
Hau cha ubulwane lobu angikaze ngibabone abantu abanje....
Ma Africa akity imfundo nemali mayingasenze sibukele phansi abanye abantu nxaaa yangdaka le family yakuboka Sbongile nalo babawakho cc useless dad😕
Such a cold welcome Sbongile kumele aphume kule family. I think it's enough that she got to know her father, her father and family are bitter
Tjoo the 1st family is sooo rude.
Very rude
oh kodwa Nkosi akunzima yhini yhini umntana .
your dress Andile tops
Nxaaaah le family iyaphapha
Hi Guys. On the Pics,at the last part, My uncle Bongmenzi is desperately looking for his mother(My Granny) He recently lost his 2Kids,Wife and Mother in law, all at once. we really need help finding our Gran who lef tthem when they were very young...If anyone knows of a person called Dudu Hadebe who worked at Garankuwa Hospital or Marlief Hadebe or Khehla Hadebe Please contact us/Khumbulekhaya. it would be much appreciated.
Eastern Cape,Mpumalanga,KZN,Jozi places to look for dad's?
You are right cc
Trust me rarely eLimpopo😅
zunai andre true some places are very rare one in a while. Trust me in Africa we are living in a fatherless society and it's so sad.
True!!!!!!
and mosabique
Sbongile sisi abakufuni Kini just move on with your life.khohlwa as long wazi iSbongo sakho lwandle.
Kwanele
Thank you 💚💛💜💓❤💙 u are nothing without FAMILY ✊✊✊✊
that's being rude..no camera's yòò l Have never seen such
Nomthandazo Nonoe Abandidike nxeee bazenza juicy
Bayabukisa!
But its their opinion and needs to be respected, some people are uncomfortable and they find national television to be creepy...Khumbulekhaya is a sensitive content and other families would rather talk between their families only and resolve issues without filming....i think i would do that too.
they spoke as if they have something special haiii you will wait here until he comes back nxa
so sbongile wants her "father" to supports her children...yoh
Yooh soze ngancenga umuntu onganhenzelanga lutho empilweni talk since ngazalwa.ukuthi abe ubaba Kimi sori.angamane ahamba ayofa.nxa baze banyanyisa kulomuzi I pride ayehle ebantwini yazi. pls
“Camering us “.
candy lund 😂😂😂😂LoL, camering us.Even my iPad highlighted the word.
Tsitsi Ndaba 😂😂😂 yazi nje
Thought I misheard her. Such a cocky family
Nandipha Tatoba very ,on top of that they left for church.
UngiVidiyelani
Girl yi choice yakho ukuba nabantwana a ayi 3 don't blame anyone
To be honest the Nyalungu family are rude the was no need for all this
Basile nje
Mara as for why you camering us eish Walters family though😰😰
It means you will wait until he came back 😢😢😢😢
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Only in sa where pple blame their problems on absence of a parent. In zim uba yi orpharn the eldest becomes the parent n still we make it in life.
They really need to educate girls not to have unwanted kids because if this education does not reach all the young girls we will be having these episodes of people blaming their parents and leaving kids everywhere
Nxxx kant amashangane anjani "Just wait he will come back" bayanyanyisa
those are not amashangane Hi
khulekani cuben they are...from Bushbuckridge
K I was wrong ,what ever they are this is not a right way to talk to people I am glad zulu people are so welcoming you will never see such
Sibongile get those children's fathers to support them ...nd not expect walter to help your mum look after them..u are stretching it there judging from that frozen reception
Kunzima ,ingani nje akulakwamukelwa la Sibongile kambe usamukelelwa emnyameni
Walter is not worth it.
Umtwana akanasono ufuna ukubona ubaba sekazibona ngathi uncono uWalter Kanti nathi sifuna ukubona umtwana uyafana yini nobaba abantu bekhumbule ekhaya sebesebenze kangaka from DBN Mr Walter so rude man
We love your show Khumbul'khaya but this thing of waiting till the cows come for yall to upload these episodes must come to an end, why don't you copy from Generations, Uzalo, Isidingo etc as they upload immediately after it's shown on TV...1st story that family & the father are just a bunch of crooks...2nd story Mr Baloyi i know mistakes were made & that's your child & no one can tell you otherwise but i think that beautiful young lady is in a better space at this point in time, let her finish her studies & assist where you can & eventually she will come back as i don't think you can offer her much keeping all aspects in mind.
Uzwalo
Uzalo
Zimbabwe
This man sounds like an opportunist?? am I correct? who doesn't know that KE goes everywhere?
Hayi ugal uzele kuba efuna not ngenxa yokuba utata wakhe engekho kufuphi kuye at age of 23 3kids luloyo olu
That's true she was suppose to.just find a way and go.back to school
Izifiso zani lol.. Go look for a job.. Haww nkosyam 3 kids and still want to be supported.. Girl bye!!
Walter aybo I can't believe this
Shame pain yodwa kukhumbulekhaya people looking for their, siblings, relatives and friends
Kwenzeka ntoni enazinyweni kuSibongile nomama wakhe?!!
Bane dram labantu!!
1st family e very rude😢