ASMR | Coming Out to Your (Supportive) Scary Cousin After Pride

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024

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  • @leahwhite2867
    @leahwhite2867 Рік тому +5776

    “Everyone should express healthy emotions but not me” is the most relatable thing she’s ever said lmfao

  • @achilles3903
    @achilles3903 Рік тому +10480

    the scary cousin dressing goth 90% of the time and then going full rainbow/glitter for pride is such accurate gay rep lol

    • @hypermonkeygames6772
      @hypermonkeygames6772 Рік тому +472

      As a goth it's also rather excellent goth rep, a lot of us are actually queer

    • @RubyDynamite
      @RubyDynamite Рік тому +194

      @@hypermonkeygames6772 Am a big ol' goth and a big ol' queer! Can confirm! lol

    • @taleef1760
      @taleef1760 Рік тому +159

      I have two aesthetics. Black spooky everything or all the rainbows. I go ham during pride month.

    • @lkucare
      @lkucare Рік тому +11

      And trying to smash

    • @HappyZero478
      @HappyZero478 Рік тому +18

      90% of brands be like

  • @charlotteharrison7784
    @charlotteharrison7784 Рік тому +1187

    I love this but my anxiety at the beginning waiting to tell her felt SO REAL

    • @adliadadliad4096
      @adliadadliad4096 Рік тому +16

      Ikr! 😣

    • @TopEye64
      @TopEye64 Рік тому +14

      I knew my parents would support, but I still was scared

    • @capuclol
      @capuclol 6 місяців тому +2

      HA HA HA HA, I HAVE TO POWER, FROM 999 LIKES TO 1000.

  • @lexyeevee
    @lexyeevee Рік тому +2064

    loving this character arc from "scary to me" to "scary to anyone who messes with me"

  • @In_TheMoonlight
    @In_TheMoonlight Рік тому +467

    Gibi hugging the camera after the viewer comes out remind me of when I came out to my best friend a few years ago and even though he’s not generally very touchy he gave me such a big hug 🥹 brings back good memories

  • @dred_dreamr
    @dred_dreamr Рік тому +2356

    “Everyone should express very healthy emotions but… not me”
    Literally a mood 😔🤚

    • @laridion7901
      @laridion7901 Рік тому +17

      I hope this changes for you. You deserve to express your emotions in a healthy way!

    • @desbugfan8429
      @desbugfan8429 Рік тому +2

      4:03

    • @blazinjaden
      @blazinjaden Рік тому +1

      oh brother...like you're REALLY being oppressed like that...🙄

    • @desbugfan8429
      @desbugfan8429 Рік тому +4

      @@blazinjaden bro can you just go away? Does it actually cause you any joy to say that? It doesn't help anything at all to say that.

  • @Trashbucko
    @Trashbucko Рік тому +1592

    Im not even a member of the LGBTQ community but this video is very sweet. I can see why so many of you guys find it very comforting

    • @quailbingle
      @quailbingle Рік тому +81

      I am gonna emphasize VERY

    • @mormonfreegan4986
      @mormonfreegan4986 Рік тому +65

      Yeah, I agree. They look like they are having so much fun, I don't think that I, as a straight person, will ever achieve that level of happiness.

    • @THE_CherryBL
      @THE_CherryBL Рік тому +129

      ​@mormonfreegan4986 Aww, don't say that! I'm sure you'll find/feel a lot of happiness through your life by doing the things that you love and following your own personal path to joy & success.
      Let me also mention that we recognize & truly appreciate the real love & support that's coming from all the non-LGBTQIA+ people especially in these current troubling times.
      Lastly, you don't necessarily have to be a queer individual to be a part of the community. I'd argue that being a great consistent ally makes you one of us. ☺️💖🏳️‍🌈🌈✌️

    • @PurpleLemonade.
      @PurpleLemonade. Рік тому +44

      ill come back to check here in 6-24 months. no reason.

    • @thunderpig624
      @thunderpig624 Рік тому +25

      ​@@PurpleLemonade.There is a river in Egypt😂

  • @keetyalexx
    @keetyalexx Рік тому +3052

    “no, no, no. my mom knew. because, you know, she has eyeballs.” SENT ME. but also as a queer ace person this is really affirming.

    • @extremewriter2553
      @extremewriter2553 Рік тому +116

      I came out as bi to my mom totally on accident by posting my girlfriend at the time on my Snapchat story.
      This woman deadass was like “when the hell were you gonna tell me you’re bi? Actually never mind, I already knew. Don’t think I don’t see you checking women and dudes out whenever we go places. I love you ❤️” I’m so lucky 🥺❤️

    • @delaneyrussell4867
      @delaneyrussell4867 Рік тому +53

      Lets go ace gang lmaoo 🖤🤍💜

    • @delaneyrussell4867
      @delaneyrussell4867 Рік тому +31

      @@extremewriter2553awww that’s really sweet, I’m so glad your mom is supportive like that with you🫶🫶

    • @garlikbreab
      @garlikbreab Рік тому +23

      Gray Aromantic but I'm still happy to be here 💚🩶🤍🩶💚

    • @desbugfan8429
      @desbugfan8429 Рік тому +4

      7:00

  • @Douchebag97
    @Douchebag97 Рік тому +1812

    Who else wants a scary cousin and Penelope role play because Penelope seems awesome

  • @ash_444
    @ash_444 Рік тому +301

    "Just don't let Penelope sing Hamilton" Honey, I'll help her, knowing a three hour musical is art

    • @cheripanda613
      @cheripanda613 Рік тому +15

      Hamilton is the best.

    • @alaitz_sky
      @alaitz_sky Рік тому +7

      Yassss

    • @alyxleaf
      @alyxleaf Рік тому +7

      Literally my reaction, i was like "This is the one point I won't agree with you, ill sing with her and i dont care what you say!" 😂

    • @DuoIsMyBae
      @DuoIsMyBae Рік тому +2

      FR I WAS LITERALLY LOOKING FOR THIS when she said that it's a TOXIC TRAIT I literally started comment scrolling like uh uh uh uh because i LIVE LAUGH LOVE hamilton🤩

    • @ollie.1564
      @ollie.1564 Рік тому +4

      Erm actually 🤓☝🏻 it’s 2 hours 22 minutes and 16 seconds.

  • @neussd8752
    @neussd8752 Рік тому +4795

    Gibi really be fixing family trauma through ASMR huh

  • @Iyric
    @Iyric Рік тому +222

    Can we take a moment to notice how kind Gibi is and how she even has links for people who need help, she is so supportive and caring. Happy Pride Everyone! Remember you're loved and sleep well 🌈❤

    • @uhuh9859
      @uhuh9859 Рік тому +7

      @psynix. Average homophobic L

  • @DayaMani-y3g
    @DayaMani-y3g Рік тому +758

    her style and welcoming aura is seriously unmatched

    • @Flamingo48923
      @Flamingo48923 Рік тому +2

      You have over 500 likes and 0 comments? No

  • @finn.8490
    @finn.8490 Рік тому +453

    When I came out nobody supported me, and my parents tried kicking me out. Eventually i just pretended like i was "cured" and ive lived in secrecy for a while. I never really got that "dream coming out story" and this video made me finally feel that moment. Thank you so much Gibi, from the bottom of my heart, and happy pride!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @froggymuds
      @froggymuds Рік тому +63

      I'm sorry you aren't in a situation where you feel you can be yourself proudly, sending u support from an older queer

    • @zgrift1069
      @zgrift1069 Рік тому +4

      @@kyro9787 uh?

    • @thatssanitary
      @thatssanitary Рік тому

      @@kyro9787 just shut up. go be useful or something… get a job or a hobby.

    • @froggymuds
      @froggymuds Рік тому +18

      @@zgrift1069 they're a troll just ignore them

    • @zgrift1069
      @zgrift1069 Рік тому +4

      @@froggymuds k

  • @specialagentA
    @specialagentA Рік тому +45

    To anyone not having this in their lives, you are not alone and not the only one. I see your pain and fear because I feel it too. Take comfort in small moments of joy and light, do not give up. You are worth so much more.

  • @RenegadeLK
    @RenegadeLK Рік тому +1540

    Bro, this isn't the scary cousin. This is like the coolest cousin anyone has ever seen or dreamed of having!

    • @TheLeonardoPontes
      @TheLeonardoPontes Рік тому +57

      I thought this was the entire point of scary cousin 💁

    • @davidniehaus202
      @davidniehaus202 Рік тому +8

      Gibi asmr would you fulfill my request by doing a hotel check-in role play please and you are a sweet special caring person on youtube 🇺🇲🇺🇲

    • @snikli
      @snikli Рік тому +3

      ​@@TheLeonardoPontesI have never seen scary cousin before. Maybe op hasn't either

    • @madderandmadder
      @madderandmadder Рік тому +5

      ​@@davidniehaus202Fairly certain she's done a Disney World themed hotel check-in but I could be wrong.

    • @Tru3ly_Nyx
      @Tru3ly_Nyx Рік тому +1

      frfr💯💯

  • @tularielgames1588
    @tularielgames1588 Рік тому +1379

    I wait for the scary cousin every year with baited breath, you don't understand

    • @Bubbles603
      @Bubbles603 Рік тому +36

      Her and Karuna Satori’s scary aunt on Thanksgiving really save the world EVERY DAMN YEAR

    • @TrapUnderling
      @TrapUnderling Рік тому +23

      No literally bc I rewatch the other 2 scary cousin videos repeatedly throughout the year. It’s oddly comforting in a way

    • @mars7609
      @mars7609 Рік тому +5

      @@Bubbles603I love that video omg

    • @Bubbles603
      @Bubbles603 Рік тому +3

      @@TrapUnderling it’s tradition

    • @Bubbles603
      @Bubbles603 Рік тому +4

      @@mars7609 IT’S TRADITION I SAYYYYY

  • @Alex-ju1kh
    @Alex-ju1kh Рік тому +523

    this video reminded of one of my cousin's reaction to me coming out as trans. My mom was the one to tell my family, so I never talked about it with them. But one morning I wake up and see a text from my cousin telling me he was proud of me, so glad that I was happy and that my family loves me. It really ment the world to me.

    • @sylvana_nothing5441
      @sylvana_nothing5441 Рік тому +26

      i love that i wiss i had cousins like that

    • @gustavxsouza
      @gustavxsouza Рік тому +29

      that's really beautiful ❤️
      Happy Pride 🏳️‍⚧️❤

    • @whatthehelliot
      @whatthehelliot Рік тому +21

      aw that's so cute! I'm glad u have ppl in ur life that support u

    • @MistyInTheCloudz
      @MistyInTheCloudz Рік тому +10

      that’s amazing to hear !!

    • @Suuperwuuper
      @Suuperwuuper Рік тому +6

      also a little bit of pride is healthy, living life with no self confidence or self pride makes life miserable

  • @backspace4912
    @backspace4912 Рік тому +340

    tbh this gave me the courage to come out to my cousin and im super happy bc she took it really well and said she supported me😭😭

    • @AriaMurphy-xu8zj
      @AriaMurphy-xu8zj Рік тому +24

      You go girl or boy or non binary person

    • @izuluvr
      @izuluvr Рік тому +11

      OMGG CONGRATS IM SO HAPPY FOR U

    • @sp3ctrez231
      @sp3ctrez231 Рік тому +8

      OMG CONGRATS!!! its the most amazing feeling

    • @Duck1-1-1
      @Duck1-1-1 Рік тому +4

      Let’s goo!

  • @isabelflausch1901
    @isabelflausch1901 Рік тому +362

    Not me crying because I wish I had someone like this in my life.

    • @Marta-hh7gl
      @Marta-hh7gl Рік тому +10

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @AshnissHorror
      @AshnissHorror Рік тому +21

      I'll be your gay cousin😂

    • @gracieanderson5456
      @gracieanderson5456 Рік тому +7

      Me too fam😭😭

    • @romanceisoverrated0128
      @romanceisoverrated0128 Рік тому +4

      Samee

    • @jatp4life14
      @jatp4life14 Рік тому +4

      We can be ur lgbtq fam!! Sister/s, brother/s, cousin/s, whatever😊🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🩷🤍🤎🖤 (I happen to be a bisexual myself💗💗😌)

  • @I_never_saw_snow
    @I_never_saw_snow Рік тому +819

    Im crying bc i live in a very homophobic country and my family are extremely homophobic except my little brother and my bestie, this helped me

    • @I_never_saw_snow
      @I_never_saw_snow Рік тому +12

      @@JoJoTheOtter thank you

    • @izzy-no7kf
      @izzy-no7kf Рік тому +69

      I am now adopting you. I am your bisexual mother now

    • @undercoveerse
      @undercoveerse Рік тому +25

      hi, i'm sending you a lot of love

    • @duzooczu
      @duzooczu Рік тому +28

      Sounds like any slav/balkan country in europe💀

    • @duzooczu
      @duzooczu Рік тому +16

      ​@@aronthomaswhy you came here just to be homophobic when the video is CLEARLY about positivity in LGBTQ++?

  • @375-Productions
    @375-Productions Рік тому +189

    I like to think scary cousin's dad couldnt possibly be transphobic or rude or offensive because he literally didnt even have a clue at all and was just like "oh lol okay, what that? Oh really? Awesome!"

    • @_sunkissed
      @_sunkissed Рік тому +8

      no fr it sounds so funny and cute at the same time

  • @jasminenguyen8300
    @jasminenguyen8300 Рік тому +9

    this has genuinely helped me so much in dealing with my dysphoria and the utter lack of support from my family. the way this has got me through so many breakdowns. thank you so much for doing these videos gibi, i hope you'll keep them going

  • @krystofsobotka3069
    @krystofsobotka3069 Рік тому +79

    You actually helped A LOT with this video. I have realized that I'm a transfem lately, and was just so confused about what should I do and how should I bahave and how should I dress. I realized that that, those rules, don't exist. I can be whatever I wish to be, dress however I want to dress, and behave however I want to behave. Thank you for your support so much Gibi!!!

  • @raelynnhanson2515
    @raelynnhanson2515 Рік тому +14

    This literally made me cry, so touching. Omg, I feel like I wanted to just hug her back for supporting me that way... I WANT THIS SO BAD... Thank you Gibi! It means the world that you did this!

    • @TheonlyrealMod
      @TheonlyrealMod Рік тому

      real
      gibi asmr is my
      idol i aspire to be like her

  • @AoyamaSecretLoveChild
    @AoyamaSecretLoveChild Рік тому +17

    I literally started crying when she found out, I swear it feels so nice even if I’m not actually telling someone, it just feels so amazing to be accepted in a way that feels “real” 😭 I’m crying, I SWEAR STOP EXPRESSING FEELINGS

  • @NicoleShelley-t1w
    @NicoleShelley-t1w Місяць тому +6

    my family and friends were largely unsupportive of me coming out so the excited and welcoming reaction to the coming out sequence always gets to me

    • @robinpotato9886
      @robinpotato9886 Місяць тому +4

      Feel hugged internet stranger. It gets better!

  • @Skye-us7qs
    @Skye-us7qs Рік тому +144

    This literally could not have been timed more perfectly!! I'll be going to pride for the first time tomorrow with my uncle and cousins, and I plan on coming out to them afterwards ❤ I hope they are just as supportive as cousin Gibi!!

    • @salemtargaryen123
      @salemtargaryen123 Рік тому +6

      Ooh good luck! Lemme know how it went! :D

    • @THE_CherryBL
      @THE_CherryBL Рік тому +8

      Omg that's soooo exciting & scary at the same time!! I hope it goes well and PLEASE let us know how it went when it's all over!!🥰💖💗

    • @Hannah-zd5je
      @Hannah-zd5je Рік тому +6

      I really hope it goes/went well! Wishing you the best

    • @karly.asshhh
      @karly.asshhh Рік тому +5

      wishing you the best

    • @AriaMurphy-xu8zj
      @AriaMurphy-xu8zj Рік тому +2

      Sending prayers 😊 good luck

  • @kiragoldberg48
    @kiragoldberg48 Рік тому +377

    I FORGOT WE NAMED HER KIRA HAHAHA THAT'S MY NAME. And I'm totally supportive just the total opposite of this wonderful character!

    • @kiraburton4268
      @kiraburton4268 Рік тому +15

      Kiras uniting in the comments

    • @knpettway
      @knpettway Рік тому +8

      Kira #4 here lol

    • @Coincidence..
      @Coincidence.. Рік тому +4

      THATS MY NAME TOO

    • @thetturkey
      @thetturkey Рік тому +8

      My name is Yoshikage Kira. I’m 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don’t smoke, but I occasionally drink. I’m in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning.
      I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I’m trying to explain that I’m a person who wishes to live a very quiet life. I take care not to trouble myself with any enemies, like winning and losing, that would cause me to lose sleep at night. That is how I deal with society, and I know that is what brings me happiness. Although, if I were to fight I wouldn’t lose to anyone.

    • @kerahbundy5705
      @kerahbundy5705 Рік тому +5

      My name isn't Kira (it's actually Kerah), but most people mispronounce it as Kira, so am I part of the club too?

  • @emppu1012
    @emppu1012 Рік тому +177

    Her reaction made me cry. My coming out wasn't negative, my whole family was like "oh, okay" and accepted it unconditionally, and that's the best case scenario, isn't it. But none of them were, like, openly happy like the scary cousin was in this video, and no one else in my family is a part of this community, so her reaction still made me so happy I cried

    • @sleepyote
      @sleepyote Рік тому +7

      I'm so happy for you, it's great they were supportive.

    • @Rotem_S
      @Rotem_S Рік тому +6

      ​@@prezi1992dude you're like halfway across the world and know nothing about OP's life, stop projecting

    • @Suuperwuuper
      @Suuperwuuper Рік тому +5

      @@prezi1992don’t ruin the vibe

    • @b3thann3
      @b3thann3 Рік тому +3

      @@prezi1992
      You should have read the video description for information, links, etc before commenting.
      The following is part of what is written in the video description:
      'This channel, and subsequently, the comment section, is a safe and supportive place for LGBTQ+ individuals, and people who are in the midst of their identity journey.
      Disrespectful, unsupportive, and rude comments will not be tolerated.
      If you find yourself wanting to be intolerant or hateful, please practice self-control and consider redirecting that energy into some self-reflection!
      I can promise you that support and understanding feels so, so much better.
      Thank you!'

    • @hoon-kay4840
      @hoon-kay4840 Рік тому

      @@prezi1992find yourself some pity then and move on and go to a video isnt made for lgbtq people

  • @thomasbedbrook
    @thomasbedbrook Рік тому +278

    Being bisexual but not openly confident, these ASMR videos give me solace and piece of mind. I’m grateful. Coming out to my family as bi they said it would be a faze but it wasn’t. Discovered I was in Year 11, so quite late on. Being an autistic young adult male doesn’t help either.

    • @natalieheath6904
      @natalieheath6904 Рік тому +22

      Same here! When I was 14 I told my parents I was bi and they effectively said “no you’re not and that’s not okay” and it’s really prevented me from truly figuring it out. Happy pride and sending some bi visibility to you!!

    • @Obby004
      @Obby004 Рік тому +15

      Same. I love this safe space. I can never picture myself coming out to my family because of their beliefs. So it is really nice to have a welcoming online family.

    • @almalittle4773
      @almalittle4773 Рік тому +10

      My phase has lasted 25 years 😜

    • @RoyalPurpleDinosaur
      @RoyalPurpleDinosaur Рік тому +6

      I’m bi aswell. I’ve tried to supress it for so long and just be straight, but like- WOMEN.

  • @Just_a_Stranger685
    @Just_a_Stranger685 Рік тому +25

    As someone whos closeted and recently started questioning if im aro/ace videos like these have Genuinely been so comforting for me

  • @mariisverysad
    @mariisverysad Рік тому +101

    I went to my first pride with my friend yesterday and omg she still has glitter on her face

    • @SpaceClownn
      @SpaceClownn Рік тому +9

      the glitter never disappears

  • @braincellsleft175
    @braincellsleft175 Рік тому +163

    I was non-stop smiling and teary eyed and the moment the pronouns part came up I started crying. I have to struggling with my pronouns for a year. I’m really happy I have a friend like this in my life

    • @Bubbles603
      @Bubbles603 Рік тому +20

      @@alexbasebound6415could you not be a dick for two minutes please they’re being extremely vulnerable right now don’t be mean

    • @Arkk0n
      @Arkk0n Рік тому +9

      I'd love to know what your pronouns are! Mine are she/her or fae/faer

    • @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood
      @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood Рік тому +9

      ​@@Bubbles603The trolling comment got taken down, thank goodness.

    • @braincellsleft175
      @braincellsleft175 Рік тому +12

      @Arkk0n For the moment I feel like she/her they/them fit best for me

    • @Arkk0n
      @Arkk0n Рік тому +8

      @@braincellsleft175 That's awesome! Thank you for sharing that with us!

  • @LunaBloomASMR
    @LunaBloomASMR Рік тому +110

    Oh my god I love this so much happy pride! 🏳️‍🌈

    • @58kay
      @58kay Рік тому +8

      omg i love u sm🥺

    • @lemonshobbies
      @lemonshobbies Рік тому +9

      Happy pride Luna!! ❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

    • @ur.fav.demidude
      @ur.fav.demidude Рік тому +3

      Holy hell it's Lunaaaa

    • @jatp4life14
      @jatp4life14 Рік тому +3

      @@ur.fav.demidudeFr😭 luv her so much🩷🫶

    • @brentspineDev
      @brentspineDev 9 місяців тому +3

      🏳️‍🌈💙

  • @thehedgehogwholived
    @thehedgehogwholived Рік тому +127

    Idk if this is helpful for people but there is a bit where cousin tries using different pronouns on the viewer (They / them, She / her, then He/him) so here are timestamps in case certain pronouns are really uncomfortable for some people:
    They/Them is from 13:30 to 14:14
    She / Her is from 14:30 to 15:11
    He / Him is from 15:19 to 15:58
    the rest of the video uses only the pronoun you to refer to the viewer.
    Not sure if this is necessary as it might not feel bad in this context but I know it's sometimes frustrating to be referred to by the wrong pronouns so I thought I'd leave this here in case it's helpful to anyone. I hope you all reading this have a great nights sleep and a great pride month! :)

    • @mushroom-cottage5660
      @mushroom-cottage5660 Рік тому +16

      ​@@abanana5779Like when you feel annoyed when someone gets your name wrong (not everyone feels like that though ofc)

    • @maz.s
      @maz.s Рік тому +4

      +

    • @julianjames8427
      @julianjames8427 Рік тому +7

      Thank you so much! This was very thoughtful

    • @_sunkissed
      @_sunkissed Рік тому +8

      tysm! this is honestly one of the cutest comments ive seen on here so far like this was so considerate

    • @RedBanana_
      @RedBanana_ 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for this. Although, it’s helpful for me in the opposite way you’d intended. I enjoy skipping to the pronouns bit because I’m currently trying to figure that kinda thing out for myself (my current conclusion is that I like them all roughly equally, it’s just that the novelty of he/him and they/them hasn’t worn off yet).

  • @BlindSamurai916
    @BlindSamurai916 Рік тому +159

    As a bisexual man, this video absolutely warms my little heart. I’m pretty masculine, but stuff like this reminds me that I’m just as much a part of this lovely community as anyone else who identifies as such 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @prozierozie5692
      @prozierozie5692 Рік тому +2

      Yes you are!!!! And expressing masc doesn't deny you from us

  • @iamnao..
    @iamnao.. Рік тому +38

    17:09 this line got me thinking about when i found out in high school that i wasn't a lesbian, i actually had feelings for boys too (i fell in love with a girl before falling for a boy) and ppl of my class who were all part of the community judged me and called me the worst things for kissing a boy after a told everyone i was a lesbian but i'd never imagine that i had feelings for boys too, how i said my first love experiences were all with girls.

    • @doriane7411
      @doriane7411 Рік тому +6

      It happened with me too, now i'm with a boy since 3 years and i'm so happy, i'm still attracted to girls but he doesn't judge me, on the contrary of my family or anyone else. I came out as a lesbian and i met him after that, so everyone thought i did this because i was just confused, it's weird because he's the first and only boy i was attracted to

    • @mariesabine2385
      @mariesabine2385 6 місяців тому +3

      Fellow bi woman here! You are valid! 🩷💜💙

  • @julietteb8938
    @julietteb8938 Рік тому +6

    as someone that has a really unsupportive family but the most diverse and queer friend group this character and vibe was so healing and comforting thank you Gibi!!

  • @RachASMR
    @RachASMR Рік тому +65

    Creativity is ALWAYS on point. And you can seriously pull off any style/look and make it look good!

  • @LavaDemon66
    @LavaDemon66 Рік тому +169

    It’s cool to see Scary Cousin returning after so long. Her outfit to celebrate pride looks amazing. It’s so colorful and sparkly. I also love the background set up for pride month. I wish you as well as everyone else in the ASMR community who celebrates it, a happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈🌈

    • @trumanatenweirdhahahaha
      @trumanatenweirdhahahaha Рік тому +8

      🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 100% have a good day to you too!

    • @LavaDemon66
      @LavaDemon66 Рік тому +5

      @@trumanatenweirdhahahahaThank you 😁

  • @michaelmjmcgaryjr9760
    @michaelmjmcgaryjr9760 Рік тому +33

    I relate to this so much as I came out to my cousin (also supportive but still scary lol) a little before pride month and I love that your representing the lgbtq+ community in such an accurate and amazing way :)

  • @Lil_Doc115
    @Lil_Doc115 Рік тому +22

    As a bi guy this video felt freaking amazing. “I know it can be very, very nerve wracking, even if you think it’s gonna go well” and “you’re not required to officially come out to anyone” felt so nice to hear ❤

  • @PartehKing
    @PartehKing 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm glad this video exists because I recently came out to my mom, and she didn't take it well. She flung many insults at me, and this video helped me get past everything that she said. It's been weighing very heavily on my mind, and this video sorta took some of that weight off my shoulders and chest. Reminded me that there are still good people, even if those closest to me aren't.

    • @Johnsonfan169
      @Johnsonfan169 3 місяці тому +1

      womp womp

    • @thatboredaroace
      @thatboredaroace 2 місяці тому +2

      i hope the moron in the replies didnt get to you. i really hope it gets better for you.

  • @Clawny.
    @Clawny. Рік тому +209

    Very scary cousin.
    I love all the colorful things in one room. It almost feels like a fever dream. A relaxing fever dream.
    🌈👍
    Edit: Well, dang. Why all the likes? I mean, thank you, but I never expected any one to see this comment. Let alone like it. Thank you. 😀

    • @supernovaskies5044
      @supernovaskies5044 Рік тому +8

      “A relaxing fever dream” is an experience I have never had

    • @Clawny.
      @Clawny. Рік тому +5

      @@supernovaskies5044 You have experienced one now.

    • @zyaa_bear
      @zyaa_bear Рік тому +2

      Bestie your pfp 😭

    • @Clawny.
      @Clawny. Рік тому +1

      @@zyaa_bear You like it? 😁

    • @thetturkey
      @thetturkey Рік тому +3

      @@Clawny. I won't speak for our other friend, but I'm lovin' it xD

  • @lucas_m_777
    @lucas_m_777 Рік тому +75

    As a now confident bi greysexual person you have no idea how much your pride content has helped with my own journey!!! The support and kindness you give off is so infectious thank u SO much and HAPPY PRIDE MONTH 💖🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

    • @sleepyote
      @sleepyote Рік тому +6

      Happy pride! 🏳️‍🌈

    • @NightmareSR
      @NightmareSR Рік тому +8

      @@abanana5779ooked it up, means they don’t experience romantic feelings often I think
      Plus being bi

    • @lordatlas07
      @lordatlas07 Рік тому

      Hello My fellow bi grey-sexual!

    • @lordatlas07
      @lordatlas07 Рік тому +12

      @@abanana5779 bi traditionally means they like both men and women
      And grey-sexual falls under the asexual (no sexual attraction) umbrella and means they feel little sexual attraction to people Hope this helps everyone!

    • @c0demistake
      @c0demistake Рік тому +2

      ​@@grontvalue9433 it literally is but glad you seem confident too 👍

  • @ate_a_radio
    @ate_a_radio Рік тому +43

    gibi is a genius doing the testing out pronouns bit, and the character of scary cousin is just sooo goood i swear this is my new favourite asmr video

  • @Spock0775
    @Spock0775 Рік тому +83

    " You don't owe anyone a cut and dry, boxed up definition of who you are". I really needed to hear that 🥹

  • @MUFEBZ
    @MUFEBZ Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for your asmr, it really comforts me. Just tonight I came out to my mom and she said that we could talk about it in the morning and she sounded really scared. I am feeling really overstimulated and overwhelmed by all of the emotions I’m going through right now and I’m really terrified of what happens next, but this made me feel so much comfort

  • @sophiebalan6838
    @sophiebalan6838 Рік тому +4

    Why am I crying this is so nice, I really needed this. You are so comforting, especially with this subject you make me feel safe.

  • @NatTheSiren
    @NatTheSiren Рік тому +82

    Came out to my mom as bisexual...She wasn't wholely receptive of the prospect, so I kept my sexuality to myself. But this filled me with the most joy. Thank you, Gibi!
    Edit; Thank you for the kind words, everyone! Regardless of your sexual orientation or what you identify as, you all are beautiful. There are people out there who support you and are very proud of you of your journey!

    • @thijmen6451
      @thijmen6451 Рік тому +15

      I'm sorry to hear that. Just know that you'll be loved and appreciated by many, regardless of your sexual orientation

    • @NatTheSiren
      @NatTheSiren Рік тому +2

      ​@@thijmen6451This made me tear up in a good way, thank you, friend!

    • @CatwithFancyHat
      @CatwithFancyHat Рік тому +1

      Give her some time, she might just need a bit to process it. All the best to you :)

    • @NatTheSiren
      @NatTheSiren Рік тому +1

      ​@@vaalence9043Because my anxiety sucks by thinking everyone would think the same. :T

    • @gabagool6572
      @gabagool6572 Рік тому +1

      Keep your head up dude. Things can get better.

  • @alexaferrara6514
    @alexaferrara6514 9 місяців тому +9

    "ItS pRiDe MoNtH! LeT Me BuY sTuFf FoR yOu!" i love this

  • @LillieSakura
    @LillieSakura Рік тому +13

    Happy Pride everyone, this video is really nice, I came out as trans around like 2 months luckily everyone’s been really supportive or just left me alone and videos like this mean a lot. And I support everyone here and just want to say that you are valid no matter what.

  • @YooranKujara
    @YooranKujara Рік тому +13

    Oh my God, she's finally back, I love her so much, she always makes me so relaxed and happy, I hope now that she has a name she becomes more of a common occurrence on the channel (maybe Gibi needs to give the code to shut down the channel to a few more people after how close Daisy got during the crossover)

  • @8BitKirsty
    @8BitKirsty 2 місяці тому +1

    Ok but honestly Gibi this video is such an accomplishment. It is the most relatable, funniest, sweetest, best asmr roleplay ever. I'm such a huge fan of Kira. Also I think I am kira.

  • @s4pph1re3
    @s4pph1re3 Рік тому +46

    didn’t think I’d be tearing up at an asmr vid this early in the evening but my heart is full ❤ thank you gibi !!

  • @jisatsurai
    @jisatsurai Рік тому +103

    i’ve always felt i’d be happier as a girl, but i’m in a family situation where i can basically never see if it’s right for me. it sucks but i guess i was just unlucky, still this was a nice watch. happy pride all!

    • @goth_cowboi
      @goth_cowboi Рік тому +17

      From one trans stranger to another;
      I love and support you! It’s never too late to explore who you are in any way that is safe/comfortable! 🫂

    • @jisatsurai
      @jisatsurai Рік тому +17

      @@goth_cowboi thanks stranger, maybe one day i can explore myself more, but all i have is my family. they’re all so lovely but they’re blinded by religion so i don’t wanna risk it. i appreciate your sentiment very much

    • @hoon-kay4840
      @hoon-kay4840 Рік тому +8

      @@shallowbay3624bro forgot to make sense

    • @_o..o_1871
      @_o..o_1871 Рік тому +11

      @@jisatsuraiYeah, be careful with coming out to family until you’re fully independent. I say it from my own experience. :(
      Kisses! 🤗

    • @srat71
      @srat71 Рік тому +7

      take care and stay safe. when youre ready to join us we'll welcome you with open arms❤

  • @lexicarpenter3011
    @lexicarpenter3011 Рік тому +25

    Night time check list💫 💙🌙
    1. Have your brushed your teeth?
    2. Is your phone charged?
    3. Did you set your alarm(if needed)?
    4. Did you wash your face?
    5. Do you have water?
    6. Did you use the restroom?
    7. Did you say I love you to the people of your choice?
    8. Is your brightness down?
    9. Are you comfortable?
    10. Did you take your medication? (If needed)
    11. Did you put headphones in? (if needed)
    I love you all, sweet dreams! ❤️✨ (please let me know if I missed anything)

    • @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood
      @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood Рік тому +4

      Ignore the comment above mine being a sarcastic prick, you're doing a kind thing by posting this checklist here. Thank you for encouraging this community to take care of themselves tonight (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)

    • @finnlevi6011
      @finnlevi6011 Рік тому +3

      I honestly, genuinely cried when I read this, in a good way, and I don't even know why.

    • @lexicarpenter3011
      @lexicarpenter3011 Рік тому +1

      @@finnlevi6011 awwwwww

    • @lexicarpenter3011
      @lexicarpenter3011 Рік тому +2

      @@thinecuprunnethoverwithblood thank you!

  • @shaerenuel9950
    @shaerenuel9950 Рік тому +12

    "(huff) I am an *actor.*" and "I'm acting. Help me." had me giggling XD

  • @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood
    @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood Рік тому +8

    I'm watching this to give a bit of comfort right now. I went to my first pride last year and, as someone who uses a wheelchair, I was treated like an object and an annoyance by the very people who asked me to go with them. It was an extremely sad and degrading experience, so seeing all these gentle and supportive pride parade asmr videos has been helping give me some hope that maybe I'll have the courage to visit pride again in the future.
    Ps: Please give extra love to your disabled friends and partners at pride, people like to kick our wheelchairs and push us from behind without permission instead of simply saying excuse me and its fucking terrifying.

    • @Mldy96
      @Mldy96 Рік тому

      Damn, this is heartbreaking to read :(
      I'm not a wheelchair user, so I cannot personally talk from that perspective, but the pride parades I've been to were personal space respective for the most part, even when I went alone, and the one friend who is a wheelchair user said they thankfully had no such problems you mentioned at the events they attended so far. Just wanted to say that your terrible experience is fortunately *not* a universal one at all pride events, so I hope one day you give it a go again! (And hopefully with better friends if they treated you awfully like that themselves....)
      The bad thing is though that it may really depend on where you are (I currently live in Scotland for example, so our events may be smaller as well) and how much the event organizers and attendees care in the first place... some are very passionate about making pride as accessible as possible for all, so it's always worth to double check that for any event of interest. It's also generally a better idea to be further back in the latter half in the crowd if and where possible as bottlenecks and overcrowding/pushing others usually happens at the front half as I heard from friends who went to other pride parades too.

    • @SpaceClownn
      @SpaceClownn Рік тому

      i'm disabled too (not wheelchair-bound, i can walk but i have trouble), im sorry the 'people' who took you were like that.

  • @RavenSutcliffe
    @RavenSutcliffe 6 місяців тому +5

    Watching this every so often and especially at Pride to disconnect from my transphobic, homophobic family and the trauma that I'm still carrying around 💖 thank you, Gibi

    • @SynthWqve1
      @SynthWqve1 5 місяців тому +1

      Womp womp😂😂😂😢😂

    • @RavenSutcliffe
      @RavenSutcliffe 5 місяців тому +3

      @@SynthWqve1 quick question wtf is wrong with you

    • @Squishmallows28774
      @Squishmallows28774 4 місяці тому +1

      @@SynthWqve1womp womp that they’re doing better from a supportive video…? Doesn’t seem like something to be sad about

  • @purplepirate154
    @purplepirate154 Рік тому +9

    "Cute, not subtle" is exactly what this is! Thanks Gibi. Happy Pride from Berlin (where Pride is in July) ♥️💜💙

  • @thebatman7730
    @thebatman7730 Рік тому +23

    Not to sound homophobic, but reading these comments makes me pretty grateful to be straight. I don’t have to worry about having to come out to parents, or people, and my preferences don’t become a huge pet of my life.

    • @morningdepresso
      @morningdepresso Рік тому +12

      The sexual orientation ALWAYS is big part of your life. Because no matter if you're straight/homo/bisexual, your sexuality determines who you are attracted to. Sexual needs are one of the basic needs of humans. If you're asexual, then it also is a huge part of your life because it GREATLY limits potential partners for longer relationships.
      But I guess you meant personality, not life.

    • @michaelhohe2168
      @michaelhohe2168 Рік тому +12

      not homophobic. Totally get it. Its one less stressor in your life.

    • @funkymonkey7252
      @funkymonkey7252 Рік тому +7

      Not homophobic at all, that's fair

    • @Vividesia
      @Vividesia Рік тому +10

      That doesn’t make you homophobic, you’re all good, I don’t blame you at all.

    • @newmanhiding2314
      @newmanhiding2314 Рік тому +3

      Totally. I never had to deal with any of this. I don’t envy those who do.

  • @star9710
    @star9710 Рік тому +51

    Gibi is so awesome to make ASMR so relevant and supportive

  • @ValdezXCX
    @ValdezXCX 5 місяців тому +1

    been a silent watcher for years but came across this video about a month ago and it really helped me come out to my loveed ones.. when you said your not aquired to come out to anyone and you don't have to do what you dont want too soo just wanna say thank you gibi for this

  • @Fly_Guy42
    @Fly_Guy42 Рік тому +7

    As someone who is not in the LGBT community this was still very calming

  • @LockTheLastOpenDoor1
    @LockTheLastOpenDoor1 Рік тому +36

    Started crying from the very beginning ❤ thank you Gibi, this video means a lot to me💙

  • @KenzieLynn666
    @KenzieLynn666 Рік тому +11

    10:58 "It's PRRIde Month..Let me buy things for you ugh" 🤣 love that gibi ❤

  • @rosvlinds
    @rosvlinds Рік тому +5

    I thought this would just be funny but seeing her reaction made me cry with relief and it's not even a real conversation

  • @starkindifference9715
    @starkindifference9715 Рік тому +6

    I'm so in love with the set-up and the atmosphere and the acting. Always looking forward to new scary cousin videos!

  • @ZucchiniOnion
    @ZucchiniOnion Рік тому +3

    You are part of the reason I got through 2020, you helped me realize I was gay. Thank you Gibi so, so much from the bottom of my heart. Love you and your channel don’t ever stop making these.
    Thank you

  • @jayinsult
    @jayinsult Рік тому +70

    Gibi, you're a national treasure, you know it? Happy Pride to you and yours! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @austensg9596
    @austensg9596 Рік тому +20

    I was watching a Gibi video once like, “why do I imagine myself as not a girl during this roleplay?” Well, turns out there was a gender reason for that lol. Gibi can teach my gay cousins how to be this cool.

  • @maxkennedy7430
    @maxkennedy7430 11 місяців тому +7

    I would absolutely love an Pride ASMR video of the Gibi or the Scary Cousin teaching the listener all the LGBT+ Flags. Using that really cool flag billboard explaining what each flag means and giving us a deep understanding of what each one represents and it’s history. 🏳️‍🌈

  • @Snakefoxbox
    @Snakefoxbox Рік тому +77

    As an Ace who doesn’t come out to many people, and never to my family, my heart really, really needed this. ❤

    • @filmfangirls9163
      @filmfangirls9163 Рік тому +9

      As an Ace as well I did too!! Hello!

    • @Snakefoxbox
      @Snakefoxbox Рік тому +8

      @@filmfangirls9163 Hello Ace fam! 💜

    • @ArleneErGhost
      @ArleneErGhost Рік тому +10

      I relate too, I’m ace and aro and I haven’t come out to many people as well

    • @ninoutower4745
      @ninoutower4745 Рік тому +4

      Demi here, lots of love 🖤💜

    • @filmfangirls9163
      @filmfangirls9163 Рік тому +2

      @@ninoutower4745 lots of love back!!

  • @Dizzy_Cactus
    @Dizzy_Cactus Рік тому +53

    This just cured all of my trauma. Thank you

  • @nonamedeviant6014
    @nonamedeviant6014 Рік тому +38

    I unfortunately missed pride parade this year because I was depressed and slept the whole day, but this made me happy :>

  • @ch0o_choo
    @ch0o_choo Рік тому +2

    my eyes are tearing up watching this 🥹♥️ thank you gibi

  • @geodejabami4085
    @geodejabami4085 Рік тому +35

    God I love this character so much! I aspire to be like this when I’m older, p.s glad she’s still together with Penelope 😊

    • @thejoeyjason
      @thejoeyjason Рік тому +5

      yes when she mentioned Penelope, I got chills!!!!

  • @Fantastickkk
    @Fantastickkk Рік тому +57

    Just when needed , and I can already tell it's a masterpiece ! Have a good night 🌙💜

  • @goatkiller666
    @goatkiller666 Рік тому +43

    So, my old grad school invited us alums to do some final semester mentoring students from my old department. I specifically asked ‘ volunteered for anyone either queer or neurodivergent, and I got this super awesome gay boi. He was already out, but he had questions about how to function as an out gay man in the corporate world. He told me his coming out story with his mom. Her answer was basically, “Well duh.”
    I very much hope the world will soon become one where coming out stories are so similarly uneventful.

  • @TenaciousWho163
    @TenaciousWho163 Рік тому +7

    as a non-binary person. i was so happy to see the flag in the background, thanks and keep up the awsome content

  • @17cryptic17
    @17cryptic17 Рік тому +8

    This video means so so much to me. I am the 5th oldest out of 14 cousins and the first one to come out as queer and the only one to be trans. None of my older cousins are queer or trans and only one of my 9 younger cousins is queer. Having this video means so much because I never got that kind of immediate support from anyone in my family. Having only 4 older cousins (two of which being my brothers) made me feel like there was no one that could explain to me what I was going through because no one else had gone through it. No one in my family had ever come out as queer or trans and been accepted, not even my mother whos Bi or my grandfather who was gay. Coming out to family and getting such an immediate supportive response is something I unfortunately didnt get to experience. Until i watched this video. Yeah yeah, i know gibi isnt actually family, but shes been a constant source of joy and comfort for me. And to see her post pirde related contetent these past few years means so much. To hear gibi talk about there being so many pronouns, to see the intersex flag on the poster and feel like my partner is valid for the way they were born, to have "my cousin" hug me and say they love me just meant so so much. Gibi has done nothing but bring joy to everyone and continues to do so. So thank you for this video, Gibi. Thank you for every single one of your videos. You are perfect and i hope you never change.

  • @wayverleesoulsong
    @wayverleesoulsong Рік тому +25

    We love Gibi’s pride content every year!

  • @theatrebob
    @theatrebob Рік тому +30

    you are such an icon gibi. i just finished my alevel exams and i couldn’t go to sleep before an exam without your positive affirmations!! SO MUCH LOVE ❤️❤️

  • @cupoflavendergrey
    @cupoflavendergrey Рік тому +5

    fun fact the very first gibi asmr vid i watched was an old raven cosplay one that made me feel so many gay feelings that i wasn't ready to face that i just closed the video and never watched another one until like. this year. hi welcome back you're very funny and pretty :,)

  • @Blackout_Films
    @Blackout_Films Рік тому +19

    Having come out already, this was the best reaction I’ve ever experienced 😭
    Thank you gibiiiii!!!!!

  • @michaela_penpal1228
    @michaela_penpal1228 Рік тому +58

    I'm literally obsessed with the idea of trying out different pronouns! I never thought about different pronouns, but hearing you say "they" for me sounded amazing!!! 🥰❤️

    • @michaela_penpal1228
      @michaela_penpal1228 Рік тому +14

      It makes people feel good 🥰 that's all!

    • @Leored1610
      @Leored1610 Рік тому +11

      ​@@beskars Cause misgendering someone is more than using the wrong words, it's denying a large and important part of a person, as well as showing blatant disrespect for them as a person. Whereas using the right pronouns, is showing respect for them as a person and acknowledging who they are.

    • @adamevangelista191
      @adamevangelista191 Рік тому

      @@Leored1610not hating or anything but an actual question what if it’s on accident? And the person is being incredibly rude about it even though it was just an accident

    • @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood
      @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood Рік тому +8

      ​@@adamevangelista191 A response from a trans person here, accidental misgenderings are bound to occur and all that's necessary is an "oops" followed by the correct pronoun. The real issue is misgendering someone intentionally or doing so with malicious intent.

    • @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood
      @thinecuprunnethoverwithblood Рік тому +3

      ​@@adamevangelista191 My question is what do you count as being very rude in response to misgendering? I'd really like to help with that but I don't understand without a bit more context.

  • @yelyah.m00n
    @yelyah.m00n Рік тому +38

    you can always count on gibi for the best pride videos ❤️

  • @breeeeeaaathofthewild
    @breeeeeaaathofthewild Рік тому +69

    Kiraaaaa, glad to have a name for our scary cousin now!!

    • @LavaDemon66
      @LavaDemon66 Рік тому +12

      I know right, im glad to be one of the people who voted for Kira

  • @thedoc4real129
    @thedoc4real129 Рік тому +8

    this really made me cry and i really wish i had a cousin like that

  • @caitlinb1657
    @caitlinb1657 Рік тому +35

    I can't come out to some people in my life, but this just absolutely hit me like a ton of bricks... Thank you Gibi 😭❤
    I'm pansexual and I care about hearts over parts. Happy PRIDE everyone
    ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Rose14376
    @Rose14376 4 місяці тому +1

    I love on how Gibi’s character call us baby cousin since I am the first and older cousin out of 4 kids, so it’s actually nice to be called the baby cousin

  • @VV3_CDT
    @VV3_CDT Рік тому +24

    Stress can be stressful but gibi always helps it, happy pride month to you all ❤

    • @ate_a_radio
      @ate_a_radio Рік тому +7

      i feel you, stress can be stressful

  • @Avis0123
    @Avis0123 6 місяців тому +3

    As someone who's most likely non-binary, but is still struggling (I'm using all pronouns for now, although am leaning a bit more into he/him), I found the moment where she pretends to talk on the phone using different pronouns so nice and sweet, I genuinely felt like it helped.

  • @hailrose3585
    @hailrose3585 Рік тому +40

    “My mom knew, because you know, she has eyeballs 😒” 😂!! So good

    • @Elsss_01
      @Elsss_01 8 місяців тому

      That bit literally SENT ME

  • @MangoMufffin
    @MangoMufffin Рік тому +11

    This video helped me finally get that last boost of courage I needed to come out to one of my friends, thank you so much gibi!!

  • @lomasdiiaz
    @lomasdiiaz Рік тому +4

    As a very straight cis man I can tell you this video was very enjoyable to watch

  • @MaddzHaus
    @MaddzHaus Рік тому +142

    So scary, yet so safe! 💖🏳️‍⚧️💖

  • @Garishka
    @Garishka Рік тому +17

    I didn't expect this to make me tear up. Why is Gibi such an amazing person? I'm so glad both the ASMR and LGBTQIA+ communities have someone like her in our corner.