GET READY WITH ME FOR MY FIRST DATE IN 4 YEARS!

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  • @styledbysamvay
    @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +20

    By the way, if you're curious about my other dating experiences, check out my new podcast!!!! anchor.fm/girlswhogetit3

    • @JennyStone
      @JennyStone 2 роки тому

      Wait, what?! 🎉Congrats! That's awesome!! 🎧 On my way!! ♥ Jenny

  • @BeautifulCrazyMess
    @BeautifulCrazyMess 2 роки тому +50

    You looked beautiful!! I was hoping to hear how the date went. I'll be looking forward for the next video. Btw when paying I always reach for my purse so he doesn't think I'm assuming he'll pay. If he is a gentleman, he'll say something like "I got it, don't worry". This shows who is leading the relationship.

    • @kaylynne1583
      @kaylynne1583 2 роки тому +3

      listen to her new podcast I’m pretty sure this is the same guy she talked about on there.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +11

      @@kaylynne1583 this was the one that’s about to move across the country that I wasn’t really feeling a romantic connection with lol

    • @katherine6885
      @katherine6885 2 роки тому +2

      @@kaylynne1583 sam has a podcast??

    • @BeautifulCrazyMess
      @BeautifulCrazyMess 2 роки тому +3

      @@katherine6885 I was thinking the same thing! How did I not know about this?!?!

  • @nikki30md
    @nikki30md 2 роки тому +47

    Girl, don't you dare reach for that check at dinner. If nothing else, this will continue to show you his character. Lets you know who you're getting to know and if you should run. Have fun and can't wait to hear how it goes. 💚

    • @oliviajane1899
      @oliviajane1899 2 роки тому +1

      She actually should reach for it, not bc she actually will be paying, but it sends a bad message to the guy right off the bat if she doesn’t even offer. Yes, he should pay, but she should also let him know that it isn’t automatically expected. A girl that acts like she can’t pay for a cent can be really off putting for decent men too.

  • @alexisbarrera9991
    @alexisbarrera9991 2 роки тому +7

    I love how Benny’s just listening to you 🥰

  • @namine345
    @namine345 2 роки тому +17

    Found my husband on Tinder back in 2017, now we’ve been together almost 5 years! Freshly married! It is possible! I had the same experience as you, never got taken out on a real date, did not know him at all but it was worth meeting him! Can’t wait for your next video! Your videos are so comforting to watch! Hope all is well! ❤️

    • @MonicaAdrianna
      @MonicaAdrianna 2 роки тому +3

      OMG same! We met on Tinder in 2016 and we are planning our wedding for next year xo

    • @lounachrifa4382
      @lounachrifa4382 2 роки тому +1

      Met my husband on tinder too in 2018, got married in September 2021.

  • @lexvirgilio
    @lexvirgilio 2 роки тому +16

    You looked so gorgeous as always!!!! Love you and your videos so much Sam, you’re one of the most authentic people on UA-cam. So grateful to have found your channel a few years ago , being able to watch your growth over the years is so admirable ❤️

  • @sinobix
    @sinobix 2 роки тому +10

    Met my current boyfriend on hinge & we are buying a home & moving to NC together… it’s possible to meet your husband 🖤🖤

  • @starringshannon8163
    @starringshannon8163 2 роки тому +4

    Great video! Loved the whole look! I hope things went well ❤

  • @serenalucena2565
    @serenalucena2565 2 роки тому +2

    Not me being 37 watching this like 👀 when you said he was “older” lol

  • @nicolereed9319
    @nicolereed9319 2 роки тому +8

    You already have the best guy…sitting right behind you 😅

  • @beautybyashleypulido8039
    @beautybyashleypulido8039 2 роки тому +2

    I just wanted to say I’ve been watching you for awhile now, I love you and your content so much I’m so happy for you and all you’ve accomplished 🤍

  • @kaycee4097
    @kaycee4097 2 роки тому +2

    Dating apps can be scary but when u meet the one, it beautiful. I met my ex on plenty of fish, we were together for over 7 years, no kids. My new flame is from tinder, been together for 3 years and going strong. I LOVE LOVE.

  • @jessicaalberton
    @jessicaalberton 2 роки тому +2

    This was fun to watch👏🙌
    I hope your date went so good!!🤗

  • @katherine6885
    @katherine6885 2 роки тому +4

    we need an update on the date

  • @bettytv3049
    @bettytv3049 2 роки тому +1

    White is definitely your color with that makeup and hair 🤩

  • @kristijones4236
    @kristijones4236 2 роки тому +4

    You look great and not at all nervous! I hope it went well!

  • @alexisrosas9449
    @alexisrosas9449 2 роки тому +3

    So here for this!! So happy for you Sam! You deserve it you look amazing!

  • @ezgi4652
    @ezgi4652 2 роки тому +1

    you keep and keep glowing up lately, you look like a doll 💗

  • @ocs874
    @ocs874 2 роки тому +2

    So happy for you! You look so beautiful. Can’t wait to hear what happened!

  • @kiwimitts2
    @kiwimitts2 2 роки тому

    You looked so good!! Can’t wait to hear how your date went!!

  • @LeaNezz
    @LeaNezz 2 роки тому +1

    i just posted a date get ready with me and found your channel because i wanted to watch other youtubers as well. this was so fun and love how open you were!

  • @jen9930
    @jen9930 2 роки тому

    Omg I’m so excited for you! Please let us know how it went.

  • @XtraRosie
    @XtraRosie 2 роки тому +1

    Girl you are gorgeous! 😍 also thanks for the outfit inspo! Definitely perfect for a casual date night! ♥️

  • @literaltrash2275
    @literaltrash2275 2 роки тому +1

    Fun!!! Can’t wait for a follow up !

  • @sunshine-bs2jx
    @sunshine-bs2jx 2 роки тому +3

    Sam ....I have just listened to your podcast...... And it's my first time actually listening to a podcast.... Believe it or not. May I say well done and I totally loved it . You two are so natural. I'm completely invested now !!! So keep it up girls. You are like reliving the sex and the city days which I used to always watch . I'm almost 50 but in my head I'm 20 !! Ha ha 🤣 you go girls xxx

  • @theoneandonlytyy93
    @theoneandonlytyy93 2 роки тому +1

    I absolutely loved this !!!! I’m just getting back in to dating too so I can totally relate you should do more of these. Love your videos and you ! it’s like catching up with a friend

  • @zeth9761
    @zeth9761 2 роки тому

    Yessssssss!!!!! Beautiful I’m happy for all your success !

  • @Taaylorgirl1
    @Taaylorgirl1 2 роки тому +1

    I met my bf of 2 years (and absolute love of my life) on Hinge! and i was literally in the EXACT same situation as you!!! after a long term relationship, downloaded hinge not thinking it would work but i went on so many FUN dates with sooo many different people and then ended up meeting my man! it was a really fun chapter of my life so just enjoy it and if it feels right let it flow, if not keep going on fun dates and meeting new people! You got this ❤️

  • @BreaMichelle3
    @BreaMichelle3 2 роки тому

    Your hair right now is my favorite you’ve ever had 😍😍 (and I’ve been here awhile lol) you look so healthy and happy ❤️❤️

  • @desireebetts2332
    @desireebetts2332 2 роки тому +5

    Also Benny is absolutely perfect

  • @jocelynroca28
    @jocelynroca28 Рік тому

    I love how Benny is just listening to you ❤️ 💕

  • @lakemurrayriders5330
    @lakemurrayriders5330 2 роки тому +1

    I have no idea how I came across your channel, but I'm so glad I did! Wow, we are so much alike in our dating habits!! I was like her too?? It's so nice to hear you're not alone in that department sometimes. You look absolutely stunning! I hope it went good and if not, no biggie!

  • @jennamillerhernandez8304
    @jennamillerhernandez8304 2 роки тому +1

    omg i already love ur podcast.

  • @wendy8561
    @wendy8561 2 роки тому

    Just seeing this you look gorgeous just be you -your always are so down to earth and very sweet 💜 can't wait to hear about how it went 💜💜💜💜

  • @dreaaa818
    @dreaaa818 2 роки тому +2

    Dang babygirl u are so stunning I swear! Hair , make up & outfit just amazing / on point 👌🏻😍 Okay now we’re gonna need an update / the tea 🍵🤣 on your date night! P.s. good for u beautiful

  • @AsiaAguas
    @AsiaAguas 2 роки тому +2

    I always use your code when I order from dossier!

  • @user-sg4cs8zj6k
    @user-sg4cs8zj6k 2 роки тому

    I’m hereee for this babe ❤️❤️❤️🥺🥰

  • @JennyStone
    @JennyStone 2 роки тому +7

    Excited for all your new adventures! Benny is just the cutest 11:09 I love the way he's so attentive! ♥ Jenny

    • @namine345
      @namine345 2 роки тому +1

      I was just going to say this, Benny glances back and forth at Sam while she’s talking! So cute!! Lol

    • @JennyStone
      @JennyStone 2 роки тому

      Yesss!!! @@namine345 he's so expressive!! Too cute!

  • @jeanniereedy6971
    @jeanniereedy6971 2 роки тому +1

    Please tell us how you did your hair....love it!

  • @immensamaria8665
    @immensamaria8665 2 роки тому +5

    I have a pretty conservative outlook on life so I understand if this may not be for you but I absolutely would expect someone who takes me out to foot the bill. It’s 100% not a gold digger thing, I make good money and have a career. It’s more about my expectations for a man to be a provider and contribute financially. Stability is a major factor in a bf/husband material. I think it’s a biological need. Even if I can pay, you need to first show that you’re capable and willing to fill that role if it becomes necessary.

  • @sunshine-bs2jx
    @sunshine-bs2jx 2 роки тому +1

    Looking fabulous Sam xxx I have similar leather look pants too love them . Love from Ireland as always xx Benny so cute

  • @ashleyguzman6321
    @ashleyguzman6321 2 роки тому

    Benny wagging his tail every time you talk about what you want in man and a true relationship. We love a supportive king.

  • @desireebetts2332
    @desireebetts2332 2 роки тому +3

    Ahhh good luck! I hope everything went okay

  • @user-he3ys7ef3l
    @user-he3ys7ef3l 2 роки тому +2

    Try ELLIE SAAB parfum and tell me your opinion i had the original one and i am crazy about it .

  • @dotsonms
    @dotsonms 2 роки тому +1

    I hope the date went well and that you'll update us 😊

  • @jacquelinevillarreal657
    @jacquelinevillarreal657 2 роки тому +1

    Looking fly girl!!!

  • @Curedbyv
    @Curedbyv 2 роки тому

    Can’t wait for another podcast !

  • @kirstenguest3028
    @kirstenguest3028 2 роки тому

    You look so pretty. Have fun!

  • @nicolefey2137
    @nicolefey2137 2 роки тому +2

    I met my now boyfriend of a year and a half on plenty of fish lmfao then I moved across the state after 3 months to be closer to him. AND it all worked out 😆 we have the best relationship

  • @lilyeichelis8346
    @lilyeichelis8346 2 роки тому

    Your videos feel like i’m talking to a big sister and it’s so calming

  • @LeaNezz
    @LeaNezz 2 роки тому +1

    "because you just said that, that's why" hahahah

  • @serenafranklin1473
    @serenafranklin1473 2 роки тому +1

    You look great. Hope u had a good time.

  • @AleeyaDanielle
    @AleeyaDanielle 2 роки тому

    You look stunning!

  • @MissJigglyPuff24
    @MissJigglyPuff24 2 роки тому +12

    HE asked YOU out. He planned the date AND it's the first date. I definitely think it's fine for you NOT to reach for your wallet at the end of the night.

  • @emilypalmer6791
    @emilypalmer6791 2 роки тому

    Love these girl chats🥰

  • @lorihoffman4281
    @lorihoffman4281 2 роки тому +3

    I wish I could have doggie sat Benny for you!💕

  • @mayraarellano4531
    @mayraarellano4531 2 роки тому

    What formula and brand do you use to tone your hair now ??? My hair is like yours now and I want to tone it.
    Also can I add olapex 0 and 1 to the toner since it’s not bleach ???

  • @katiew4245
    @katiew4245 2 роки тому

    I can’t wait til you post another video . I want to know what happened!! Also your makeup looks pretty :)

  • @lchherrarte490
    @lchherrarte490 2 роки тому +1

    Girl your best man is Benny 💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @tazzel10
    @tazzel10 2 роки тому

    Benny is too adorable

  • @lounachrifa4382
    @lounachrifa4382 2 роки тому +1

    I met my husband on tinder in 2018 , we got married in September 2021, and if anyone asks we say that we met through friends 😆 , it may work Sam .

  • @sweetgirl7229
    @sweetgirl7229 2 роки тому

    more like this content please😍

  • @morganbailey23
    @morganbailey23 2 роки тому +1

    Rewatching this while I get ready for a first date 😅😅💞 thanks for hanging out with me

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 Рік тому

      I needed this , I'm about to go on a date with a guy I met on grindr I'm super nervous someone I know will see us together

  • @queenofsheba5846
    @queenofsheba5846 2 роки тому +2

    You looked absolutely beautiful. Perfect everyday soft glam.😍
    I know that it is annoying when someone wastes your time by not stating what they want in the beginning. But isn‘t that what you‘re doing with the guy you went on a date with? I‘m saying that because you said you don‘t want a relationship right now and just see what‘s out there. In my opinion you shouldn‘t be going on dates when you‘re not ready especially in our age group. Unless you‘re told the guy upfront you‘re not looking for anything same way you expected that bumble guy to state what his intentions were from jump. It is always a red flag when someone (an adult) says that they‘re not really looking and just „go with the flow“ that automatically means you wanna see what benefits you without a title/intentions and dip again whenever you please.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +2

      I make my intentions clear from the beginning, and if we're not on the same page, I don't bother moving forward with meeting. I don't think there's anything wrong with going on casual dates, even if you want to stay single for a while. In fact, I think it's better, because they say you'll find the right person when you aren't necessarily looking. It also helps me stay logical, because I'm not desperate or in a rush to be with someone. To each their own!

  • @mikaylalorraine6410
    @mikaylalorraine6410 2 роки тому +1

    I loved this, so feel free to continue your dates and videos for our entertainment 😂 (also, LOVED the podcast). I’m relentlessly checking my feed for more lmao. I’m so pissed I live in Florida because I know we could have been such good friends, but I wouldn’t want you to subject yourself to Florida anyway lol
    💕💕

    • @mikaylalorraine6410
      @mikaylalorraine6410 2 роки тому

      Also, met my bf through hinge and we have been together for a couple of years. Hinge can be cute 💕

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому

      Hahaha thank you! Our episodes come out every Thursday! :)

  • @Wheresgiovi
    @Wheresgiovi 2 роки тому

    It’s not only about knowing what you want but also knowing what you’re worth. Also……never pay!!! A worthy man will always pay. 💜💜

  • @sarahkhila
    @sarahkhila 2 роки тому

    Wish you showed the shoes!! I always struggle w shoes 😩

  • @bunnyluuuvvv
    @bunnyluuuvvv 2 роки тому +2

    AHHHHHHHHH im so excited for u 😭 i hope you had fun!!!!

  • @i-ch9831
    @i-ch9831 2 роки тому +5

    Benny 😍

  • @MissMirabella333
    @MissMirabella333 2 роки тому +2

    How exciteing, I hope the date went well too and have to check out that podcast 👀

  • @sydneyandrew94
    @sydneyandrew94 2 роки тому +1

    Hope your date went well Sam!
    But I am pretty sure you already met the perfect guy! He has a wet noise, super cute and laying right behind you 😍
    Happy Date Night !

  • @hayleet9902
    @hayleet9902 2 роки тому

    Sam I’m going to get a full highlight on Tuesday and I’ve never been lightened before and I’ve been hearing I shouldn’t wash before I go and also heard I should be freshly washed ??? I’m panicking what do I do lol.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +1

      No need to panic!! I would wash it a day or two before your appointment.

  • @angelic852
    @angelic852 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Sam I know you know this buttt…… don’t tell any guy/guys you meet know where you live !💗

  • @rileypatles4107
    @rileypatles4107 2 роки тому +3

    Love the look 😍 and if you listen to the podcast, you know how this night went 😅 haha

    • @kristijones4236
      @kristijones4236 2 роки тому +1

      Podcast? Where! I'm dying to know lol

    • @rileypatles4107
      @rileypatles4107 2 роки тому +4

      It's called 'girlswhogetitpodcast' with her and her friend from college. I loved it! You can find it on Spotify ☺️

    • @kristijones4236
      @kristijones4236 2 роки тому

      @@rileypatles4107 thank u!!

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +4

      lol this wasn’t that guy. This date was before him. He was nice, but I wasn’t feeling it romantically 🤷‍♀️

  • @juliemartin7447
    @juliemartin7447 2 роки тому +3

    I met my husband on POF

  • @kaylaaa1998
    @kaylaaa1998 2 роки тому

    I totally get what you mean lol, I couldn't help myself so I laughed when you talked about the guy from bumble talking about "making out" it's annoying when men bring up stuff like that when you are trying to get to know them.
    Bumble isn't a good dating app, in my opinion, never really used hinged.

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Рік тому

    If I need to get ready for a date I have the appropriate things that I need to do and I know how to pull it all together very nicely I wasn't born

  • @makaylaneal2998
    @makaylaneal2998 2 роки тому +2

    Hey! I met my husband on hinge! Lol

  • @lilyeichelis8346
    @lilyeichelis8346 2 роки тому

    Have you tried a friends app?

  • @Jaithesaintt
    @Jaithesaintt Рік тому

    Me and you are exactly the same. I’m going to DM you from NYCSJAI and tell you why.

  • @Nikkisweeets
    @Nikkisweeets 2 роки тому +4

    I had a feeling you were dating again… 👀👀👀

  • @Everythingsrosiehome
    @Everythingsrosiehome 2 роки тому

    I met my fiancé on tinder! 😂👏🏻

  • @oliviacurzi4124
    @oliviacurzi4124 2 роки тому

    So many people meet their person on apps--why not? What's really the difference between meeting someone on an app vs. bumping into each other at a bar? Who cares how you meet! It's what happens once you do that matters.

  • @yomommasmileysatme
    @yomommasmileysatme 2 роки тому +4

    Same girl dudes say weird things and I wonder if it does work 🤔

  • @iambecauseofyou4348
    @iambecauseofyou4348 2 роки тому +1

    I got fragrances over a year ago and I loved them at first, but over time? The fragrance changed and became kind of strange. More like chemical strong scent or expired per say! Have you ever experienced that?
    Ambrey Saffron when I first got it people would follow me and stop my tracks to ask to figure out what I was wearing. I’m so sad it turned out to smell awful over time and disappointed!🥺
    ❤️On another note you look amazing and I always enjoy your videos the last 9 years of viewing your channel❤️

    • @crazylatingirl94
      @crazylatingirl94 2 роки тому

      it's normal for this to happen with perfume over time! different ones will have different shelf lives but they definitely break down and lose/change their scent over time. this is why I always buy smaller bottles and try not collect too many, or get the travel size ones of those which I like but won't wear often.

    • @iambecauseofyou4348
      @iambecauseofyou4348 2 роки тому

      @@crazylatingirl94 Thank you so much! However it shouldn’t expire in less then 2 years

  • @willowlane3
    @willowlane3 2 роки тому +3

    Completely understand where you’re coming from, I hated when the conversation turned on me real fast from normal to sexual.
    However, let’s not knock making out. Why is this not fun for anyone anymore?! I hate this new world. Kissing is so much more important to me than the rest of it (rest of the physical.)

    • @Merdenoms
      @Merdenoms 2 роки тому +3

      One can't go around just making out with anyone. Hello herpes sadly!

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +6

      Hahahaha nothing against making out! I love kissing, but for some reason the term sounds so juvenile to me, especially coming from a grown ass man 😂

  • @kyla2182
    @kyla2182 2 роки тому

    Met my bf of two years on tinder :)

  • @hannahplane9528
    @hannahplane9528 2 роки тому +10

    I’m 25 years old and in my opinion of a guy doesn’t pay then he isn’t getting a 2nd date. It’s such a turn off. I’m pretty old fashioned I would say I like the guy to pay, hold the door open, take control, etc. but I feel like feminism has destroyed most of these things.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +4

      Totally fair! I'm the same way to a certain extent!

  • @tazzel10
    @tazzel10 2 роки тому

    Nothing is ever “completely safe”

  • @gabyflores6
    @gabyflores6 2 роки тому

    ALLOW 👏🏼YOURSELF👏🏼 TO 👏🏼BE 👏🏼SELECTIVE 👏🏼

  • @AleeyaDanielle
    @AleeyaDanielle 2 роки тому

    Girl do not ever try to pay at dinner, yes you should assume and yes they should pay. Don’t lower your standard. Unless you’re asking them out let them take care of it

  • @Alexis-nv9gl
    @Alexis-nv9gl 2 роки тому

    👊 Promo>SM!!!

  • @samt868
    @samt868 2 роки тому +1

    ...too soon.

    • @styledbysamvay
      @styledbysamvay  2 роки тому +1

      For what? Being single and enjoying my life while meeting people in my new town?…

  • @abbyswaringam3386
    @abbyswaringam3386 2 роки тому

    Guys on dating apps are so cringe!! 😂😂

    • @bubba283
      @bubba283 Рік тому

      I just met a guy on grindr that wants to go out, I just dont know what to expect, I'm nervous somebody I know will see us together