Dealing w/ Toxic People, Balancing It All, Healing Journey + My Trick To Conceive Twins?

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  • @sunshinekay6700
    @sunshinekay6700 24 дні тому +42

    There are no tricks to conceiving twins it is the grace of God! 🙏🏾

  • @ruthiemill
    @ruthiemill 26 днів тому +161

    Hi Kim! I’ve been a subbie since BackSyncFan 🤭. I have seen (and truly proud of) your growth over the years. I’ve really never seen any negative comments, or at least I haven’t bumped into any. And I believe it’s because you’ve been authentic and consistent through it all. And I (we) appreciate you for that. I wish you more blessings and continued growth 🙏🏾

    • @brittanijohnson7399
      @brittanijohnson7399 26 днів тому +31

      I second this comment. I've been following Kim for years. She is so genuine, and her energy is pure. Love her to life!!!

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  26 днів тому +38

      I appreciate you immensely for this comment 🤗

    • @ruthiemill
      @ruthiemill 26 днів тому

      @@brittanijohnson7399 True!

    • @brittmar538
      @brittmar538 26 днів тому +3

      Me too lol

    • @helenogbonna3361
      @helenogbonna3361 26 днів тому +2

      So their is someone I am scared of from my childhood I don’t wanna say why or how she is a bad influence to me but I wanna see through it I wish she never existed in my life I am older than her and fell like I have to uplift

  • @donnamck8324
    @donnamck8324 25 днів тому +34

    I love that you’re open but so protective of your family’s identities and share only what’s necessary.

  • @TheExWife
    @TheExWife 26 днів тому +37

    Hi Kim! I always enjoy a good Q&A. I'm 52 yrs old and I still find your advice very helpful. Especially, the part about taking risks. I'm not per se a BIG risk taker but I do believe it's sometimes necessary. I don't like feeling stagnant.

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  26 днів тому +16

      Hey! I always love seeing you show up! 🤗 And as long as you are intentionally growing no matter how much, that is success in itself! ❤️

    • @TheExWife
      @TheExWife 26 днів тому +2

      @@thechicnatural , agreed! 😊

    • @KenyaG.
      @KenyaG. 25 днів тому +3

      I'm 50, and I've been following Kim for 11 years when I began my natural hair journey back in 2013. 💇🏾‍♀️ I have been inspired, especially with veganism lifestyle. 😊

  • @myebonytower
    @myebonytower 4 дні тому

    Elevation requires separation!! Yessss! I've been working on growing my UA-cam Channel and literally have gotten tunnel vision and had to quiet all the naysayers and haters...in my family, etc!! I am growing slow and steady and sooooo proud of myself!! Thank you for this, I'm going to pick up the book. 👏🏽

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 16 днів тому +1

    That’s true Kim , I remember feeling the same way about all 5 of our children !
    Our twins are our last 2, they are 19 now!! We have 32,30,28, 19,19!
    I heard that about having the kids at different times in your life is definitely a blessing!!
    I agree , our 28 year old is really close to the twins, she was the most helpful and willing to spend time with them when they were little!
    All of them have special relationships!
    Our 12 and 10 year old was soooo excited to find out that I was pregnant with twins!!

  • @MsWillita8
    @MsWillita8 26 днів тому +43

    You’re lucky to have a supportive spouse ❤

    • @helenogbonna3361
      @helenogbonna3361 26 днів тому

      My dad has been passive aggressive to my family for years but besides I love my life

    • @mtjohn125
      @mtjohn125 26 днів тому +3

      Super blessed!

  • @nicolehill8265
    @nicolehill8265 26 днів тому +18

    I like how you incorporate motivation talks in your videos. Its natural for you. ThankYou

    • @helenogbonna3361
      @helenogbonna3361 26 днів тому +1

      I only have one bad parent but everything is ok I honestly imagine my life without them 💔

  • @tiaraking1301
    @tiaraking1301 26 днів тому +15

    To breastfeed two you can feed both and use a pillow to assist holding them. Make sure you switch them to each side because one side holds more milk. Have snacks to help with energy and milk supply. The more skin contact you do the more likely you will produce enough milk for babies needs. Bumping is a whole other process

  • @misunderstoodkj
    @misunderstoodkj 26 днів тому +15

    Hi Kim, how are you able to stay so private in your personal family life but still be public with yourself on social media? This is my dilemma. I want to keep my family life private but still be public enough where people can relate to me and be my actual target audience.

  • @litwithtasha
    @litwithtasha 26 днів тому +11

    Definitely been following you for YEARS and your overall growth is absolutely AMAZING! Keep shining! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💕

  • @kayvee3345
    @kayvee3345 25 днів тому +5

    Love that you have a supportive partner..wishing the same for me and other single mothers . Thank you for sharing tips and advice, I always look forward to your videos!

  • @DenayTheDiva
    @DenayTheDiva 26 днів тому +8

    I’ve always enjoyed watching your content over the years! Your tenacity for growth and self-development is always so refreshing! ❤✨

  • @shamoyabruce712
    @shamoyabruce712 26 днів тому +21

    Always love your videos, your openness while still maintaining privacy. You truly inspire me. This hair is so cute on you, hope to see a tutorial soon.

  • @angeliaF2622
    @angeliaF2622 26 днів тому +6

    This was really good! I dont usually last throughout Q&A's. Been following you for a quite a while, since you were still working in corporate and doing a lot of hair tutorials. You've always had a spirit of excellence I can definetly see the growth. Wishing you continued success.

  • @rondas7772
    @rondas7772 26 днів тому +4

    I just wanna say, you appear to be very kind and genuine. Some of the influencers are a little nice nasty and "snappy" to their commentors. Thx for being energetically nspirited, kind, and helpful. I love all of your videos. Much appreciated ❤

  • @tsnell80
    @tsnell80 19 днів тому +1

    Hey lady, quick video suggestion. Can you do a week meal prep series using recipes from your book only? I am trying to cook through your cookbook challenge before the end of the year. I am determined to try every recipe in this book.

  • @shizzy7362
    @shizzy7362 26 днів тому +4

    Thank you for all the wisdom you pass down to us Kim❤

  • @aurareid5652
    @aurareid5652 19 днів тому +1

    I have a set of twins, and that double stroller frame was theeee absolute best! I really loved mine, and yes, nursing was a challenge for me as well (supply and demand) 😊

  • @tammypatterson7354
    @tammypatterson7354 26 днів тому +6

    Good morning, Kim!
    Thanks for your encouraging words today.😊

  • @rjsmiley89
    @rjsmiley89 25 днів тому +1

    I just got to the middle omggg I needed to hear this love 💕 your words that truly reshaped somethings

  • @MsEmpressneka
    @MsEmpressneka 24 дні тому +1

    It’s nice to see your growth and success. Congratulations to you and your family and on all your accomplishments 😊

  • @shejustwantsout2694
    @shejustwantsout2694 26 днів тому +3

    You are such a beautiful person, Kim❤Inside, and out! Loved this video❤️

  • @FallonMyers
    @FallonMyers 26 днів тому +10

    Hi Kim! You look amazing ✨ you are a light and a motivation. Thanks for being you!

  • @Stacie_for_real
    @Stacie_for_real 26 днів тому +2

    Loved this video great question selections. Kim I really enjoy your videos

  • @candiblue9280
    @candiblue9280 24 дні тому +1

    Hey Kim I love that u are still willing to educate yourself more especially in a new language is really hard keep being a beautiful person in mind and spirit ❤❤❤

  • @gloriaharrison6346
    @gloriaharrison6346 25 днів тому

    Hello there! Thank you for sharing this information. I really appreciate the growth I've seen in you as a person. Keep being you. 😀

  • @IAMElsLife
    @IAMElsLife 21 день тому +1

    Oh wow, this is a really cool life coaching video. I so enjoy how you let your devine light shine so bright. Thank you so very much for sharing so much valuable information on just a wide range of topics. Abundant blessings to you and your gorgeous family.❤🙏🏽

  • @anisa2851
    @anisa2851 25 днів тому +3

    Thank you for this!!!!! Amazing content.

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace 20 днів тому

    I enjoyed this video! Your mindset and work ethic is amazing. I love your sit down chit chat videos so much, I always learn something new. I’m going to purchase that book too.💛

  • @veliciawilliams3776
    @veliciawilliams3776 21 день тому +1

    Great sit down chit chat Kim. You have evolve over the years beautifully. Your knowledge and confidence really shines through. Keep up the amazing content creation. Would love a tutorial on this hair style and where do you get your hair? Thanks Kim. 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @dominique2o06
    @dominique2o06 26 днів тому +3

    Thanks for the general personal stuff we should focus on it's good to remember to push the toxic things out of your life. I don't have babies but I still enjoy hearing you experience anyways. 💕

  • @Lena_Hill
    @Lena_Hill 26 днів тому +16

    Good morning, Kim! Always great to see you pop up!! So awesome!❤👌🏾

  • @Narsha43
    @Narsha43 26 днів тому +2

    Your make up looks so beautiful, you look amazing!

  • @tomecamuir6185
    @tomecamuir6185 26 днів тому +1

    Love your content. All the best to you and the family. You are amazing ❤❤.

  • @me-xz5fh
    @me-xz5fh 26 днів тому +1

    I was so ready for your next video ❤. I was looking for you last week🙃

  • @mickeydiam7387
    @mickeydiam7387 26 днів тому +3

    Good morning, Keep up the good work. Excellent video.

  • @pamelagordon8072
    @pamelagordon8072 26 днів тому +2

    Hey Kim, Enjoy your videos, so inspiration, God bless you 🙏🙏

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 26 днів тому +2

    Always great to see you❤

  • @sharonrobinson3776
    @sharonrobinson3776 26 днів тому +1

    Hello Kim it is so good to see you thank you for the Vlog have a blessed week 😊

  • @katrinathompson1132
    @katrinathompson1132 26 днів тому +2

    Hi Kim congrats on the family additions and very good informative video Please do a video on the style you are rocking in this video. Thanks

  • @shanitatravis3525
    @shanitatravis3525 26 днів тому +3

    The was such a BEA-U-TI-FUL video
    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @michelarosier1918
    @michelarosier1918 26 днів тому +2

    ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉 Thanks for your encouragement words, and also sharing the book titled with us. I will look into it myself to help me on my journey 2024.

  • @ItsallaboutBee
    @ItsallaboutBee 26 днів тому +2

    Happy Sunday beautiful!! ❤

  • @Kellytania972
    @Kellytania972 19 днів тому

    Hello Kim. C'est vraiment super de ta part de continuer à apprendre le français (une fan de France). You are truly inspiring to women for all ages 🙂!

  • @lelliesosa7039
    @lelliesosa7039 26 днів тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family.

  • @judidavistube
    @judidavistube 26 днів тому +2

    Excellent as usual 👌🏽

  • @sandybeach176
    @sandybeach176 25 днів тому +1

    You always have good & positive advice & information.And u r blessed 2have great scructure & support👍🙏💛💕

  • @VANESSASVANLIFEJOURNEY
    @VANESSASVANLIFEJOURNEY 26 днів тому +5

    Great tips you are always so informative

  • @krystlemaes4400
    @krystlemaes4400 26 днів тому +3

    Love your vlogs!

  • @Vanessa-qy3lt
    @Vanessa-qy3lt 26 днів тому +2

    Great video, thanks for sharing. 🙂

  • @isobelandianabakah-phillip8611
    @isobelandianabakah-phillip8611 7 днів тому +1

    hey Kim could you do a wash day routine i cant find ur old one thank you ! you are amaizing ! have a great day.

  • @kdogg1372
    @kdogg1372 26 днів тому +2

    I just love your vibe❤❤❤

  • @kingdomleadershipessentials
    @kingdomleadershipessentials 19 днів тому

    Happy Mother's Day Queen

  • @shuntayswanson6197
    @shuntayswanson6197 24 дні тому +1

    Hello there kim.. Love the Real of it all❤ Blessings on top of Blessings and more.. God come first always Love, Hugs 😊

  • @dricee8
    @dricee8 26 днів тому +1

    Thank you for this video. 😊♥️

  • @alona724
    @alona724 18 днів тому

    I would love that… in the form of a book. I honestly feel that’s how I’ve been able to best digest this type of info. Coaching can be extremely powerful… but it can also be another job… that is kind of why it works I think because you have to commit. But, I think change can also happen by reading and digesting it at your own pace. I also know some coaches feel drained… but, I’m sure there’s a way to do it where you can reach many without depleting yourself… probably a course. But, that’s dope that you would even consider something like that in this stage of the game. I would def pay for it… even if it was just to pay for an hour of time to chat and get advice off top… lots of ways to do it. I’m excited to see what might come of this.

  • @SpiritLives
    @SpiritLives 25 днів тому +1

    Honest and truth for sure 10:02. ❤I appreciate your channel and your spirit.

  • @jalyssagray8070
    @jalyssagray8070 20 днів тому

    I really love your hair! Hair tutorial please ☺️

  • @rosebrendahkatusiime7117
    @rosebrendahkatusiime7117 26 днів тому

    Hi Kim! I enjoyed ur Q & A. Very inspirational and educational. I liked the hair too 😊. Is it possible to share the link for the hair 🥰.

  • @racgillett4120
    @racgillett4120 25 днів тому +1

    Great tips!

  • @nicolehill8265
    @nicolehill8265 26 днів тому +6

    looking good luv the hair

  • @missterri8207
    @missterri8207 26 днів тому +1

    Greetings Kim, thanks for sharing your experiences, etc. Although, you were a little vague in answering the question of what a birth plan looks like (more examples)😉

  • @rjsmiley89
    @rjsmiley89 25 днів тому +1

    Love you and I’m proud of you

  • @sunamethyst283
    @sunamethyst283 26 днів тому +5

    You look so beautiful ❤❤ The hair here can we do a tutorial please cause I need this look ❤❤

  • @shannonlee1070
    @shannonlee1070 26 днів тому +2

    You're amazing!

  • @DesCoop
    @DesCoop 26 днів тому +2

    You would be a great life coach

  • @ExclusiveBarbie94
    @ExclusiveBarbie94 26 днів тому +2

    Have a great week 😀

  • @seygra20
    @seygra20 26 днів тому +4

    Love your hairstyle did you do it yourself? if yes, do you have a tutorial?

  • @MBeezy12
    @MBeezy12 24 дні тому +1

    NEED the hair tutorial!

  • @deirdrethompson4508
    @deirdrethompson4508 26 днів тому +2

    Wonderful video. You look gorgeous 💐

  • @teshekarobinson4827
    @teshekarobinson4827 26 днів тому +1

    Great video, hair tutorial please on this style please

  • @lenessaclark2032
    @lenessaclark2032 25 днів тому

    Every mom should & must do what is best for her child. Info just came out about sleepsacs, and retailers like Amazon & Target are discontinuing sales due to safety concerns.

  • @lwanelemathebula461
    @lwanelemathebula461 26 днів тому +5

    Hi Kim❤ please give us an update on how you're growing back your edges

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  26 днів тому +2

      OK! Will try to remember to include that in next video!

  • @jeneliddell2681
    @jeneliddell2681 25 днів тому +2

    Having a doula helps with a birth plan, I really enjoyed my doula and I was able to give birth to my 3rd child without any drugs.

  • @Nesha2799
    @Nesha2799 26 днів тому

    A fed baby is a happy healthy baby ❤ I tried breast feeding and tandem nursing and you're right it's alot and I had to do what was best 🥰

  • @dominiquefrazier00
    @dominiquefrazier00 26 днів тому +2

    I enjoyed this video

  • @courtneylovely111
    @courtneylovely111 10 днів тому

    Can you please share the details on your hair in this video? This is a perfect summer style ☀️

  • @kairosunltd130
    @kairosunltd130 26 днів тому

    So Kim I almost relaxed a patch beneath the crown of my hair😁😁😁it was terribly matted and formed a dreadlock. It was a nightmare 😓😰😥😢 and i decided to brave it out and put some avo and a conditioner that had some aloe, then i went to a store where i usually buy cheap hair products and bought a detangler. I couldn't even do my hair. Had to ask my sister, after a day where i put all i thought would help and had it overnight with a plastic cap. I though id have a bald patch😅😂😁 But i did lose a lot of hair. Was struggling to get the right detangler and have no natural ingredients like aloe and all that good stuff even in-store. It was a nightmare❗❗❗😭😭😭Im still emotionally and mentally recovering. Hope my scalp and hair recovers too. I couldn't even go to the salon coz i hate how they treat people with natural hair from my area and how they dont even bother to research and give a better service. Phew!!! I just need to catch a breathe after all that. Imagine, it was days ago but im still recovering 😬 i actually feel like laughing and crying at the same time 😅

  • @lillianmawile2465
    @lillianmawile2465 25 днів тому +1

    Loving the hair is there a video on it

  • @fitnesswithyou
    @fitnesswithyou 26 днів тому +2

    Amen, Amen...and Amen again!

  • @mustardseedfaith
    @mustardseedfaith 26 днів тому +2

    Love your hair Kim! Can you provide the name of the style?

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 26 днів тому +1

      Looks like butterfly locs of jumbo locs or twist

  • @chachakrystal4693
    @chachakrystal4693 25 днів тому

    Use shea butter on belly to avoid stretch marks while you pregnant.

  • @tmofori
    @tmofori 19 днів тому

    HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit 21 день тому +7

    Based on a lot of the questions, I think a lot of people think that Kim is single. She clearly has a very supportive partner, as well as an adult child to help her. I think that makes a big difference.

    • @aesinam
      @aesinam 18 днів тому +1

      I think they know she has a partner. Unfortunately, many people don't have supportive partners hence they don't know how that works. They only know situations where the new mum does everything more or less by herself. It's sad but true for many

  • @BeingErikaWhite
    @BeingErikaWhite 20 днів тому

    What kind of hair is this you’re wearing? I love it.

  • @Ty_keepliving
    @Ty_keepliving 26 днів тому

    I love your hair. What are they called? I would like to get this style.

  • @ladyt3182
    @ladyt3182 16 днів тому

    I remember being a few weeks pregnant when I found out I was pregnant with our twins, I was soo nervous.
    On the ultrasound they were literally dots in my womb.
    I had a miscarriage a few months before getting pregnant with them.
    They are definitely a beautiful blessings!!

  • @aneshaburgess207
    @aneshaburgess207 26 днів тому

    How do you make time for date night? Scheduled or spontaneous?

  • @BadGirl0804
    @BadGirl0804 25 днів тому

    You hair looks good. What is this hair style called? Is it kinky twists?

  • @truebelieversallarewelcome7876
    @truebelieversallarewelcome7876 26 днів тому +4

    blessings 🙂 🍼🍼🍼🍼

  • @YellowDiamond646
    @YellowDiamond646 21 день тому

    I love The Parisian Agency on Netflix! I know very little French so I watch with English subtitles but I can still tell the translation is still slightly off

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric 23 дні тому

    I’m with you on breast feeding. I am pumping and formula feeding. It’s said you should pump 8xs a day if you’re not bringing baby to breast. I’m barely doing pumping twice a day. It’s not easy

  • @teresa28ist
    @teresa28ist 18 днів тому

    What us the light behind you? Is that a real plant? I'm shopping for a plant.

  • @Reynoldsgirlsx2
    @Reynoldsgirlsx2 26 днів тому +2

    What’s the hair details?

  • @chanikamcclinton1146
    @chanikamcclinton1146 26 днів тому +5

    Thank you so much for this video. I love your hair. Can you do hair tutorial.

  • @Dauphne
    @Dauphne 25 днів тому

    Hey Kim

  • @tamoumoune1
    @tamoumoune1 22 дні тому

    Kim you have to come to Quebec and be surrounded with french canadians!! Its closer to the U.S and cheaper to go 😉 You'll be able to practice your french more !! There's a big black community there (specially carribbeans ,haitians) ! Bonne Chance 😊

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 26 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤🤗

  • @KettasCoils_After50
    @KettasCoils_After50 26 днів тому +3

    Happy early Mother’s Day, everyone.
    Is your jewelry site no longer up? I can’t seem to get to it. It’s very possible that it’s a user error 😂

    • @thechicnatural
      @thechicnatural  26 днів тому +2

      Thank you so much!! 💕 Here is my jewelry site link: secondandc.com/

    • @KettasCoils_After50
      @KettasCoils_After50 26 днів тому +1

      @@thechicnatural Thank you!! I’m going on a special trip soon, and I KNOW that your jewelry is going to be perfect for it. Love you, Kim