Parasocial Relationship: Virtual Boyfriend, Soundgasm, Idol Worshipping 🕯️

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  • Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
  • Most of us are "guilty" of this at some point of our lives, but where do we draw the line & how can we leverage out of this copium?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 41

  • @rziefebruary
    @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +11

    If you wanna skip to the main topic - 02:40
    PS: I cringed so hard while editing this, but it's worth sharing

  • @minsugamaxsalt
    @minsugamaxsalt 9 місяців тому +23

    Good video. I adore BTS’ music (I clicked because of thumbnail). I think by maintaining a healthy distance, it becomes even more enjoyable. There’s no expectations or stress. The ideal for my hobbies is for it to be an enhancement to my life, not a detriment.

  • @HCSAgirl99
    @HCSAgirl99 9 місяців тому +20

    This video is amazing as always. Relatable and cathartic.
    If anyone wants help dealing with parasocial relationships the way I personally did it was by making sure it was just that business transaction and didn't consume any fan content or parasocial marketing. So no fan cafe, no social media following, no behind my the scenes, no vlogs and most importantly no fan content. I think seeing other peoples behavior of idolizing celebrities made me feel normal and like I was fitting in for doing it, I even felt like I should buy albums or collect photo cards to fit in. But after cutting all of that content out basically I just listen to the music and get my updates through Spotify when something new is released and it is actually just a fun business transaction where I listen to good music.

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +3

      Thank you for sharing your take on this topic. I believe that this is definitely one of the healthiest way to appreciate creative contents without completely losing ourselves 🤍

  • @sweetdaydreamsbaby
    @sweetdaydreamsbaby 9 місяців тому +14

    Your bedroom is sooo cute 💓 I am loving the consistency ! Engaging in parasocial rships can be fun, but living in the real world is even more important !! When we engage in our real world, we realise that there is a lot more to be grateful for and we can see the beauties that lay within ourselves. I believe we can make more meaningful rships in real life than online. Of course making real life rships is much more difficult than engaging in a parasocial rship. And the emptiness you mentioned, I believe can only be truly filled with real life rships/connections. 💞
    Gender wars are useless yet so funny 😭

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +2

      Thank you!! 😇
      True, forming physical connection with people irl can be so much more rewarding 🤍

  • @jelyse14
    @jelyse14 9 місяців тому +18

    Off topic to most of the video but (and I totally get the feeling of not being pretty enough to be on camera) but girl, don't put down your appearance, you're so pretty. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar and also a miserable person.
    Wanted to address that really quick because the internet is such a harsh and awful place a lot of the time.

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +3

      Thank you girl, I really appreciate this 🥰🥺💖
      I'm still learning how to fully accept myself cuz I'd been dealing with body dysmorphia & ed for years. I shared my recovery journey in a couple vids, but sometimes the negativity still gets in my head.

  • @xxursolovelyxxX
    @xxursolovelyxxX 3 місяці тому +2

    i understand feeling insecure because everyone has at some point, but genuinely you're so pretty 😭 even without being "dolled up"

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  3 місяці тому +1

      Aww thankiu ⸜(。 ˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡

  • @Savlie
    @Savlie 9 місяців тому +7

    Just discovered your channel and I'm mesmerised- by your art and by you. I think you are very beautiful and I hate that you feel too ugly for streaming although I get it. I hope this new journey will be a success for you ^^

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!! And welcome to the channel!! 😇 I used to struggle with body dysmorphia but I'm better these days! ❤️

  • @slvmcut3712
    @slvmcut3712 9 місяців тому +3

    this video is so real omg

  • @kaboobe1
    @kaboobe1 9 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for sharing! I agreed 100%

  • @neanoxy
    @neanoxy 7 місяців тому +1

    thank you sooo much for bringing up such an important and relatable question for many of us here struggling with similar dilemmas !! p . s . i wish you all the best with the content you're producing , i'd love to hear more of your thoughts , it's rare to find both bright and comfortable individuals to listen to

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  7 місяців тому

      thank you! I really appreciate your kind feedback! I'll do my best to share more quality contents in the future c:

  • @JessLayton
    @JessLayton 8 місяців тому +5

    i like listening to audios and i think it can be beneficial and fun but i do think there should be a line drawn. ive seen content creators interact personally with fans and it usually gets out of hand and they usually end up leaving the internet. i prefer content creators who keep themselves reserved. i dont want to know them personally, vice versa. i want to enjoy their content and the fantasy they provide. it gives me a relief from the real world for awhile. i think ppl are lacking boundaries and we need to promote that. just because creators choose what they show us, automatically thinks we ''know them'', when really we dont. they are normal humans like us with thoughts, feelings and most importantly FLAWS . i also dont like it when fans ''protect' them either..like babying them..i think its unhealthy and pretty cringe. great video and love ur style/aesthetic lol

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 💗 I really appreciate your feedback!
      "I want to enjoy their content and the fantasy they provide" I relate with this 1000%!!!

  • @kylemarlonlikesavocaship1810
    @kylemarlonlikesavocaship1810 4 місяці тому +1

    Would've said something long but i need to get to school soon. I just want to let you know that you're a pretty smart person, please keep on speaking like this.

  • @faasee
    @faasee 8 місяців тому +3

    HELP I SAW JAEKYUNG AND CLICKED😭😔🤭

  • @ecolallisfour
    @ecolallisfour 4 місяці тому +1

    you are so real 4 this

  • @Strawberry_Angelic
    @Strawberry_Angelic 8 місяців тому

    Off-topic of the video but dude you're so pretty.

  • @anon877
    @anon877 8 місяців тому

    My bar is so unrealistic 😭 soundgasm is the devil

  • @gloomspell
    @gloomspell 9 місяців тому +17

    This is a great video, I’m absolutely shocked you don’t have more views and subs. This was so helpful for me, thank you so much 🫶

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +2

      Awww thank you!! 🥺 I'm glad to know that this message resonates with you 🤍

  • @ashleynorth5793
    @ashleynorth5793 9 місяців тому +2

    it's gotta be bhadjur lol

    • @rziefebruary
      @rziefebruary  9 місяців тому +4

      Ah no, it's not hehe 😉

    • @slvmcut3712
      @slvmcut3712 9 місяців тому +5

      i was thinking ysf lol

    • @babieeeeeeee
      @babieeeeeeee 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@slvmcut3712 same.. 👀

  • @WonderingTree
    @WonderingTree 9 місяців тому +9

    My algorithm is personally calling me out 🫣