I can relate to her story. I had a similar experience in my marriage. Such men are sadist. Such men have inferiority complex. They are never happy with themselves and do not want anyone to be happy as well. They will not appreciate you and do not want anyone to appreciate you as well. Until you go through such experience, you can only judge. God bless us all.
You are 1000%right I have the same problem, honestly you can even testify that they are not happy and they don’t want you to be also happy as well , and will always put the blame on you😊
Mr. Steve, she is not lying oo my elder sister died thinking her husband will change but he never did. I believe its a matter disorder that most men have
The lady is talking on my behalf......she even stayed for long. Mine was just 3months and I've been in my parent's house for a year and 3months now. Nnipa ho yɛ hu brutal.
Women always seek the face of God and seek real confirmation from God before agreeing to any marriage. Some people may come from the enemy. When a marriage is from God there will always be peace. Same advise for men. Some women can be sent to destroy too. It is never too late don't rush.
This is NARCISSISTIC LOVE. is time for as to look at what is NARCISSISTIC. I run away frome my 18 years of marriage before I knew what's is NARCISSISTIC no one show it to me one morning I woke went on UA-cam first video was video exactly like me after watching the video of NARCISSISTIC before I knew I was marred to a devil. I run with the children we have after 2 years the children went to celebrate Christmas he told the children I worshipped video from then till now my 18years and 15years children don't want to come to me. Nearly 2years now sister be strong the Lord is our strength. My husband called Police for me I was locked out for 16 hours he lied that I beat him. Am nurse in UK that affects me since 2018 I was stuck off my profession I can't even work anywhere hummmm some man are very wicked. But I thank him for bringing me to UK God bless him for that
People carry so much baggage from their childhood into adulthood. If they do not go through counselling and therapy,they behave this way in relationships. The closer the one they relate to is,the more they heave their baggage;burden on the one! In years&decades past,no one diagnosed all these mental&psychological issues at the early stages of development as is being done now. One could very well be in a relationship with a psychologically,mentally&emotionally messed up person! (One could be the messed up person themselves too!) There is hope in that behaviour like this can be sorted out through counselling,through therapy. BUT,and a big BUT! The person misbehaving needs to accept there is something wrong and seek appropriate help!
That's why sometimes it's advised to engage in intense courtship for over 4 months which may help you have a strong conviction about the other partner ❤❤❤
She’s right. U can marry ur enemy paaaa. When u dress he get envious especially when u hv money. Some people just come ur way just to destroy u k3k3 cuz they see something great in u
It’s so unfortunate that most of our men have this mental issues. She’s describing my Ex-husband to the tea. There needs to be a mental health evaluation before any marriage .
A narcissistic partner is the worse to be with. I agree with her they are manipulative, controlling…… just come to destroy your life. They have a demonic trait.
Some comments came be so disappointing she is telling her story don’t judge her or say u have to hear the man’s story sad a lot of people in Ghana does not know or understand domestic violence. That’s why I like the European country issues like this are not discussed on talk shows for people to judge when she is saying her story. Africans please be kind
Very unfortunate . However she must take some accountability...she can't blame her family for a choice she made..it was her decision. Maybe if she had prayed before God would've helped guide her..just my 2 cents
My dearest Emelia one day when come to Ghana I will share my story. Though I am a very private and shy person, I will to educate Ghanaians on so many things we ignore in life and marriages thank you.
A woman's side of a story is like sugar, very sweet but full of painful diseases. Whilst a man's side is like lemon, highly sour but heals all kinds of diseases. So I will wait to hear the other side before I judge the case.
I do understand her a lot my ex was similar he will go about disgracing me to people still pretend and still hit me with any chance and when I decide to break up he will cry and cry and cry but I left him for good. Meanwhile he was cheating
@@shielabansah31 as you waiting,if you don't hear God take it as no,if you did that and still it work, God is control,at times you have to go through bad situations to appreciate the good things that are coming your way
If you don’t a man why did you accepted him ? Stop blaming efiefuo. Your character is the course madam . What happened to your first marriage? Good question from Emelia . Why did you marry him if you dnt love him ?
Sometimes a lot of people are the main architecture architectural of their own problems yet they'll be doing blame games. After getting out from two marriages, you still have the gust to make video calls with another man abroad and telling people how you even expose your nipples in a dress with short knickers. This means you're not learning from your mistakes so let those witches and wizards in your family be. It's time to grow and reason as a mother of three and leave a good example to your children else they'll be disappointed in you.
I don’t condone violence of any sort but it’s obvious she’s not being honest, it seems she was cheating and the husband was so inlove and couldn’t let go and took matters into his own hands, she could definitely be cheating with the guy who gave her the phone but am glad she left, they are not meant for each other
Some of ladies have 2,3,4,5 children's with different father's in Ghana but you looking for marriage single ladies don't have a child they're founding difficult to get married in Ghana
1. I can see some lies with Lady Pat from the way she is doing her narration. 2.The man was in love more than the woman 3.Insecurities don’t just happen,I believe there was a trigger. 4.The man might be naturally insecured because he might be a naive person in a relationship
Hmmm u don't know narcissistic find out nd u will understand. I hv pass tru b4 hmmm no1 believe you.one of his family get close nd understand me nd said eei u will die oo ur still living wit him
Can't believe she is just doing blame game. After choosing your partner, you blame your family????Who does that. Let's hear the other side of the story
The lady's husband has narcissis personality disorder (NPD), which is a mental health disorder. It makes one feel insecure in a relationship and always feels threatened by the other partner. Whatever the other partner does, the NPD feels bad about.
Amelia, I identify with this lady. I also was married for eight months and I went through very similar situation as her story. These men have mental issues, but it looks like you are not taking her serious and ridiculing her. I want you to take her series because most of these men have mental very serious mental issues. I married a man for 10 months. He was very quiet and a charmer in the beginning but hats a very bad temper he threatened to beat me here in America and every little thing upset him. He was also very abusive verbally he would say sorry several times but do the same thing again I think this is schizophrenia behavior so I left the marriage to save my life. I would like for you to discuss mental issues and men to educate, our young women coming up and to look for the signs of mental abuse in men because they can also be very charming
He was not her enemy. He had severe mental problems that is why he rushed to marry you. Because she has children, she must be careful she does not bring evil and mad nen into her home and her children. Thank God she is free.. so many secret crazy men around!!
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Madam why would you get married to a man just one month of being together, and also you said you didn't really love him so why did you marry him, where you under pressure to get married again or what
You didn't love him from the beginning and yet you are blaming efiefoɔ for the break-up. You have this mentality of not needing a man in your life and how do you expect to get on with any man?
This lady you have 3 children's you looking for marriage you looking for some one to married you do you think it's easy in Ghana you get married but it's not easy some of ladies doesn't have a child it's difficult to them to get married
Women are more secretive I don't support abusive marriage. She's hiding something. Marriage is understandin. This lady is not honest and the husband find out.
Emelia your pretend tooo much. You always acting like an angel. Please i like you so stop being hypocrite sometimes. When your guests are telling you what they’ve been through, then you asked them some questions that make you look like you are better than them and it’s sometimes their fault. Please 🙏 you’re a woman so be careful and stop being like you are so better or holier than thou
She is only doing her job as a host who is interviewing her guest so she is expected to probe further to make the guest speak out. She is not pretending, it's part of the art of being a show host...know the difference!
I totally agree with you, as a host you must let your guests feel free to speak but she always chip in and belittle their experience!!! I stoped watching this show because she keeps doing this!! Like this lady was going through obsessive and abusive husband and the host said “said oh he is just expressing his love for you” and then add you both should have given your marriage more time and could have worked” huh?? After the lady said he hurt her back and you are talking about making the marriage work😟
The funniest story on earth, i don't want to sound judgemental, but i wish every man will just leave a relationship peacefully when there are trust issues. I know the things men go through when they meet these kind of women. If infidelity was a person! Most of the people here think the man has mental issues, especially the ladies but I can tell that this lady is not someone who is ready to stay with one partner. I wished s3 anka she will tell us what happened to her kids dad. She will marry again because she's beautiful but divorce will set in again until she becomes faithful. Waho)f3 de wob3ko nso wo suban de wob3ba type. My only problem is man beating her that's ridiculous, leave her if you can't continue never assault your partner
Pls you don't understand I hv met such narcissistic men b4 it like hell .you will never believe de lady I hv pass true b4 dear it draining people don't believe u so I kept quit until he been with different women dey even end at police station within 3mount😢
In terms of educative talk show okukuseku the show talk 🤣 is one of the best globally who agrees😂
I can relate to her story. I had a similar experience in my marriage. Such men are sadist. Such men have inferiority complex. They are never happy with themselves and do not want anyone to be happy as well. They will not appreciate you and do not want anyone to appreciate you as well. Until you go through such experience, you can only judge. God bless us all.
Hmmmmmm my friend has been through this type marriage before hmmmmmm
You are 1000%right
I have the same problem, honestly you can even testify that they are not happy and they don’t want you to be also happy as well , and will always put the blame on you😊
Mr. Steve, she is not lying oo my elder sister died thinking her husband will change but he never did. I believe its a matter disorder that most men have
The lady is talking on my behalf......she even stayed for long. Mine was just 3months and I've been in my parent's house for a year and 3months now. Nnipa ho yɛ hu brutal.
Please I want to tell story how can I reach you please
Women always seek the face of God and seek real confirmation from God before agreeing to any marriage. Some people may come from the enemy. When a marriage is from God there will always be peace. Same advise for men. Some women can be sent to destroy too. It is never too late don't rush.
Sister Emilia how are you I like your program I am watching your videos it's nice thanks God bless you
She is not the only woman facing the abusive marriage
It's very sad this is coming from a fellow woman.Hmmmmmmmm!!
Hmmm,I'm sure she has not faced any yet.@@HelenAwalazie
I tell you
Women let’s be wise🙏
Very beautiful ladyy... Had goosebumps when she started singing
Sister Emelia what the woman is say is very true oooooo
The woman is very pretty.
This is NARCISSISTIC LOVE. is time for as to look at what is NARCISSISTIC. I run away frome my 18 years of marriage before I knew what's is NARCISSISTIC no one show it to me one morning I woke went on UA-cam first video was video exactly like me after watching the video of NARCISSISTIC before I knew I was marred to a devil. I run with the children we have after 2 years the children went to celebrate Christmas he told the children I worshipped video from then till now my 18years and 15years children don't want to come to me. Nearly 2years now sister be strong the Lord is our strength.
My husband called Police for me I was locked out for 16 hours he lied that I beat him. Am nurse in UK that affects me since 2018 I was stuck off my profession I can't even work anywhere hummmm some man are very wicked. But I thank him for bringing me to UK God bless him for that
People carry so much baggage from their childhood into adulthood.
If they do not go through counselling and therapy,they behave this way in relationships.
The closer the one they relate to is,the more they heave their baggage;burden on the one!
In years&decades past,no one diagnosed all these mental&psychological issues at the early stages of development as is being done now.
One could very well be in a relationship with a psychologically,mentally&emotionally messed up person!
(One could be the messed up person themselves too!)
There is hope in that behaviour like this can be sorted out through counselling,through therapy.
BUT,and a big BUT!
The person misbehaving needs to accept there is something wrong and seek appropriate help!
I have to come back and watch this when I’m sad😂😂😂
Let's listening to other side of the story, we shouldn't be on hurry to judge....,..
That's why sometimes it's advised to engage in intense courtship for over 4 months which may help you have a strong conviction about the other partner ❤❤❤
The woman is ❤beautiful
She’s right. U can marry ur enemy paaaa. When u dress he get envious especially when u hv money. Some people just come ur way just to destroy u k3k3 cuz they see something great in u
It’s so unfortunate that most of our men have this mental issues. She’s describing my Ex-husband to the tea. There needs to be a mental health evaluation before any marriage .
I agree 👍🏼
A narcissistic partner is the worse to be with. I agree with her they are manipulative, controlling…… just come to destroy your life. They have a demonic trait.
Wow keep up great work
Mr hype man ❤😂here today too. Kwadwo ahadwen ❤❤❤💯 Nipa y3 bad ooo
Some comments came be so disappointing she is telling her story don’t judge her or say u have to hear the man’s story sad a lot of people in Ghana does not know or understand domestic violence. That’s why I like the European country issues like this are not discussed on talk shows for people to judge when she is saying her story. Africans please be kind
Very unfortunate
. However she must take some accountability...she can't blame her family for a choice she made..it was her decision. Maybe if she had prayed before God would've helped guide her..just my 2 cents
Her family is not responsible. The man is a narcissist period
My dearest Emelia one day when come to Ghana I will share my story. Though I am a very private and shy person, I will to educate Ghanaians on so many things we ignore in life and marriages thank you.
The man used juju on her
Serious matter but I kept laughing through out😂. Sorry she went through that ❤
A woman's side of a story is like sugar, very sweet but full of painful diseases.
Whilst a man's side is like lemon, highly sour but heals all kinds of diseases.
So I will wait to hear the other side before I judge the case.
I do understand her a lot my ex was similar he will go about disgracing me to people still pretend and still hit me with any chance and when I decide to break up he will cry and cry and cry but I left him for good. Meanwhile he was cheating
This woman knows sunsum wiase you'll get what you deserve oooo 😂😂😮
Before marriage, you should at least pray for 3 days with fasting not all glitters are gold
Hmm.. I did but still didn't work
@@shielabansah31 as you waiting,if you don't hear God take it as no,if you did that and still it work, God is control,at times you have to go through bad situations to appreciate the good things that are coming your way
If you don’t a man why did you accepted him ? Stop blaming efiefuo. Your character is the course madam . What happened to your first marriage? Good question from Emelia . Why did you marry him if you dnt love him ?
I can really relate to what she's saying
Queen Emm ❤
This is a sign of madness it's in the man's family.
Sometimes a lot of people are the main architecture architectural of their own problems yet they'll be doing blame games. After getting out from two marriages, you still have the gust to make video calls with another man abroad and telling people how you even expose your nipples in a dress with short knickers. This means you're not learning from your mistakes so let those witches and wizards in your family be. It's time to grow and reason as a mother of three and leave a good example to your children else they'll be disappointed in you.
Lowkey man. I don't know what to tell you. Or are you the Ex husband
I have a good heart ♥️
And I hope and pray God should give me a real and good woman 👩 😞
With her explanation,her husband had Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Exactly..it’s called love bombing..by the time you realise you are married within days
You're right!
That’s true my sis
That’s exactly what I was thinking too- he definitely has some mental health issues
The comment I was looking for
Queen Emmy❤
Emelia paa😂😂
Wose wo flirt😂😂
Is the reaction for me😂😂
I don’t condone violence of any sort but it’s obvious she’s not being honest, it seems she was cheating and the husband was so inlove and couldn’t let go and took matters into his own hands, she could definitely be cheating with the guy who gave her the phone but am glad she left, they are not meant for each other
Yeah there’s something fishy going on. It seems she’s not faithful🥺
Yes
Some of ladies have 2,3,4,5 children's with different father's in Ghana but you looking for marriage single ladies don't have a child they're founding difficult to get married in Ghana
I hope is for girls marriage
1. I can see some lies with Lady Pat from the way she is doing her narration.
2.The man was in love more than the woman
3.Insecurities don’t just happen,I believe there was a trigger.
4.The man might be naturally insecured because he might be a naive person in a relationship
Which kind of love is that Apuuuuuu
Hmmm u don't know narcissistic find out nd u will understand. I hv pass tru b4 hmmm no1 believe you.one of his family get close nd understand me nd said eei u will die oo ur still living wit him
The sister is telling the truth the man is an egent of saturn
Hmmmmm sorry dear
A narcissistic personality disorder
Yho😂
Can't believe she is just doing blame game. After choosing your partner, you blame your family????Who does that. Let's hear the other side of the story
Hahaha you want understand because you may not know how nd when you will fall In narcissistic hand
The same family you are acussing are they not the one you went for your marriage list ? Children of God.
The lady's husband has narcissis personality disorder (NPD), which is a mental health disorder. It makes one feel insecure in a relationship and always feels threatened by the other partner. Whatever the other partner does, the NPD feels bad about.
The lady is not faithful 😂
Aponkye stop fooling ok ?
She is lying
According to her speech, she is not faithfully
I agree . And I know the women will support the lies she’s saying. She doesn’t have a good character
Asem ooooo
Fools when will u grow up?
Gyemee saa
Narcissistic relationships
Obsession
Amelia, I identify with this lady. I also was married for eight months and I went through very similar situation as her story. These men have mental issues, but it looks like you are not taking her serious and ridiculing her. I want you to take her series because most of these men have mental very serious mental issues. I married a man for 10 months. He was very quiet and a charmer in the beginning but hats a very bad temper he threatened to beat me here in America and every little thing upset him. He was also very abusive verbally he would say sorry several times but do the same thing again I think this is schizophrenia behavior so I left the marriage to save my life. I would like for you to discuss mental issues and men to educate, our young women coming up and to look for the signs of mental abuse in men because they can also be very charming
He was not her enemy. He had severe mental problems that is why he rushed to marry you. Because she has children, she must be careful she does not bring evil and mad nen into her home and her children. Thank God she is free.. so many secret crazy men around!!
I thought the same, he is paranoid, he could have easily killed her
Marrying after only knowing each other for 1month was a huge mistake.
Your house hold I indeed send him I have same story
Is the man really ok????
So the USA guy was the one that bought the phone for you? 😂😂😂😂
War tribe does the man
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Okukuseku within Okukuseku
I think she gave herself to him in the early stage of the relationship before they married so the man never trust her.
E no be small video call tips
Ee, video call tips
She resembles Joyce blessing
When you are fanti and you go to show...try speaking your language...speaking twi makes conversation something...Very educated show....
Let me see the body if it is true.
I can relate paa
He use for charms on her.... Juju
What’s she saying might be true but the way she narrating it looks a bit funny 😄
Stop this efiefour thing and let’s talk reality. Before you push things on spirit do a proper check before
The host is getting on my nerves 😢
Put your self in her shoes and you will understand her
He is a narcissist, they are natural demons and the only way you can deal with them is to avoid them ei is to leave the marriage
True
Sissy is playing the devil's advocate...u know what she's saying is real but trying to make excuses for the ex 😅
What this woman is saying doesn't add up.She is leaving a lot of details out.
Madam why would you get married to a man just one month of being together, and also you said you didn't really love him so why did you marry him, where you under pressure to get married again or what
👏👏👏👏
You didn't love him from the beginning and yet you are blaming efiefoɔ for the break-up. You have this mentality of not needing a man in your life and how do you expect to get on with any man?
Women and accountability smh
That is the behavior of NPD - narcissistic personality disorder 😅
This lady you have 3 children's you looking for marriage you looking for some one to married you do you think it's easy in Ghana you get married but it's not easy some of ladies doesn't have a child it's difficult to them to get married
Emmy some mens are serious oo
Women are more secretive I don't support abusive marriage. She's hiding something. Marriage is understandin. This lady is not honest and the husband find out.
Emelia your pretend tooo much. You always acting like an angel. Please i like you so stop being hypocrite sometimes. When your guests are telling you what they’ve been through, then you asked them some questions that make you look like you are better than them and it’s sometimes their fault. Please 🙏 you’re a woman so be careful and stop being like you are so better or holier than thou
She is only doing her job as a host who is interviewing her guest so she is expected to probe further to make the guest speak out. She is not pretending, it's part of the art of being a show host...know the difference!
I totally agree with you, as a host you must let your guests feel free to speak but she always chip in and belittle their experience!!! I stoped watching this show because she keeps doing this!! Like this lady was going through obsessive and abusive husband and the host said “said oh he is just expressing his love for you” and then add you both should have given your marriage more time and could have worked” huh?? After the lady said he hurt her back and you are talking about making the marriage work😟
The funniest story on earth, i don't want to sound judgemental, but i wish every man will just leave a relationship peacefully when there are trust issues. I know the things men go through when they meet these kind of women. If infidelity was a person! Most of the people here think the man has mental issues, especially the ladies but I can tell that this lady is not someone who is ready to stay with one partner. I wished s3 anka she will tell us what happened to her kids dad. She will marry again because she's beautiful but divorce will set in again until she becomes faithful. Waho)f3 de wob3ko nso wo suban de wob3ba type. My only problem is man beating her that's ridiculous, leave her if you can't continue never assault your partner
Pls you don't understand I hv met such narcissistic men b4 it like hell .you will never believe de lady I hv pass true b4 dear it draining people don't believe u so I kept quit until he been with different women dey even end at police station within 3mount😢
Hmmmm there's more to it😂😂😂😂
She envy her jealous of her.
Am in the same soup. Very soon
Zero accountability
The woman is not straight forward, things are not adding up in her conversation.
He has a behaviour issues.