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  • Опубліковано 18 гру 2024

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  • @camagumayeye
    @camagumayeye Рік тому +13

    Oh Sesethu, I’m so sorry about your brother. I was so heartbroken for you guys when I heard the news. He seemed like such a great guy from seeing him on your channel and from the bits i would see from the mutual friends we have. Condolences to you, Siyanda and your sweet mom and dad. Thinking of you guys 🤍

  • @nosiphomaya4587
    @nosiphomaya4587 Рік тому +9

    This reminds me of the time my mother passed away, I missed her call a night before and by the time I saw it it was late at night and I didn't want to disturb her and she passed away the following morning. I always feel bad about that thinking if I answered or returned her call she would still be alive today. I just wanted to say that I know how you feel. Stay strong Psalm 34:18

  • @namhla_mabombo
    @namhla_mabombo Рік тому +6

    Oh Ses 🥹💔, I am so sorry for your loss mama. Your strength is impeccable, thank you so much for sharing, we love and appreciate you so much. It warms my heart to know that you’re leaning on your family, your friends and are in therapy, ncese ntombi ❤️❤️. I felt it when you said “kuzobaright ngenye imini”🥹 and kuzobaright nyani Mntase.
    Also so excited for this new journey you are on and honestly God will provide , I have no doubt that you will do great.

  • @Cousin_Bee
    @Cousin_Bee Рік тому +15

    I'm so sorry for your loss Ses. Also I'm sorry for pestering you about how much we miss you on UA-cam. I hope you find healing in the memories shared with your loved one.

  • @BonganiTau
    @BonganiTau Рік тому +11

    Sesethu! I feel your pain. I also lost my brother to a brutal incident on the 1st of July and I haven't been the same ever since. I'm sending you lots of love and I hope you find healing every day. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time.

  • @thandomaphumulo3031
    @thandomaphumulo3031 Рік тому +6

    Never have I balled my eyes out like I did today. I’m really very sorry about your brother. The grief doesn’t get easier we just get stronger each day. Sending you love and light!!🥺♥️🫂

  • @MaMaKheBunguza
    @MaMaKheBunguza Рік тому +6

    Beautiful tattoo, he will always walk with you and carry you to be strong again. My mom died 17yrs ago, it still hurts but it does get better. Gone but never forgotten.

  • @thenjiemaphiri6326
    @thenjiemaphiri6326 Рік тому +23

    Love and light to you and your family 🫂❤ Thank you for sharing your story with us Sesethu. “It’s okay to be selfish” I needed to hear this❤

  • @SiboMcata
    @SiboMcata Рік тому +2

    This has honestly broken my heart, couldn't even finish the video bc I can not bare seeing and hearing you this broken. Oh ntombi yanga uTixo anganibopha elonxeba, may he rest in your family nakobu ubuhlungu. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

  • @naumiyomi15
    @naumiyomi15 Рік тому +18

    The fact that you are able to feel, verbalize, and cry is an assurance that you will be fine mntase. Yes, it's a journey of its own ups and downs kodwa uzaba right ❤
    Love and hugs 🤗 ❤️

  • @thandekambhamali6074
    @thandekambhamali6074 Рік тому +1

    Tell your parents we love them kakhulu. I can imagine what they are going through.

  • @maBohlale643
    @maBohlale643 Рік тому +2

    So sorry sisi, I lost my sister in February and I'm still not coping. I'm now a mother to her 7 years old. I was not coping at work and the thought of resigning was there, but I have a kid to take care of so I had to be strong.

  • @khanya_solwandle5412
    @khanya_solwandle5412 Рік тому +2

    Cried through the whole video. 💔 I'm sorry for your loss Sethu

  • @ntombigcina
    @ntombigcina Рік тому +5

    I absorb emotions quickly mntase this was so emotional, love and light to you and your family ❤

  • @luvlay1
    @luvlay1 Рік тому +1

    I’m so sorry honey, thank you for this video I cried with you. Having experience grief too, it comes in waves. Allow yourself to heal the best way you know how. ❤ sending hugs

  • @Lerato_M
    @Lerato_M Рік тому +2

    Apart from the sad news you get gorgeous by every video and I’m loving your fashion sense more and I’m getting used to seeing you wearing wigs now❤

  • @Kim_Ngumbela
    @Kim_Ngumbela Рік тому +3

    I'm so so sorry Sesethu to you and your family. More so to your brother for losing his life at such a young age, with his entire life ahead of him! 💔❤️

  • @constancedikgale4421
    @constancedikgale4421 Рік тому +1

    Please hug Mom and Dad for me❤❤❤❤❤I have been through what u are going through and I'm still going through it however father God Thixo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kamvamhlana9948
    @kamvamhlana9948 Рік тому +1

    Grief is the most painful and confusing time in life. Especially a loss so sudden and unexpected. May your brother comfort you through this. You are so strong to have chosen yourself over your job. You will get through this. uThixo asondele kusapho lwakho anomeleze. Kuzoba right ngenye imini Ses. I am sending you love and a big hug. ❤❤❤

  • @busisiwehlekiso8542
    @busisiwehlekiso8542 Рік тому +1

    Yooh sana grief is the ghetto, if this is not me exactly getting emotional when I talk about my mom’s passing andiyaz. It doesn’t seem to get better losing someone mostly in a very sudden way , makes grieving even more harder. I lost my mom 5months ago, she just collapsed and died at the age of 53 healtiest woman ever but ke it happened. Be strong wethu Sethu🫂I see we share the same clan name😀.. Sorry Makrila❤️🫂

  • @mikzozo13
    @mikzozo13 Рік тому +6

    Oh Sethu 💕. I fell in love with you and your channel because of those amazing moments you always shared with your friends and family. Through your lease, I fell in love with your friends and family. I rewatch that sibling tag you did so much…. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your family peace and light during this time. Sikhala nawe sis’wami. Your family vlogs will never be the same but thank you for allowing us to experience the giant and joy and softness that was your brother.
    All the best with your new journey. May it be fruitful and soft and without toxicity.
    And umhle nyani , that comment or question was spot on. ❤️

  • @unathimolefe5457
    @unathimolefe5457 Рік тому +7

    Go through all your feelings Sethu. Warm hugs to you and family 🕯.

  • @judithtsebula6818
    @judithtsebula6818 Рік тому +2

    Welcome back, you were on our thoughts and prayers and still are in our hearts. I missed your vlogs so bad but I totally totally understand. We love you 💐

  • @vanessalalimoahi6415
    @vanessalalimoahi6415 Рік тому +1

    God see you through, Sese... One thing's for sure, the tears will not stop becos its like maiming a part of yourself, specifically your heart. My gran died in 2013 and to this day I still shed tears & I have come to welcome & accept it, its my love for her finding other representation.

  • @SisandaNomatiti
    @SisandaNomatiti Рік тому

    So sorry for you loss Sese babes
    I got triggered I lost my brother 22June 2022 and still can’t over his passing. I won’t lie you it doesn’t get better but we just learn to live under the situation.
    But like you said Kuzode kubeRyt and one day you will be surprised because uzomcinga izinto ebezenza uhleke instead of crying
    Love and light doll ❤

  • @MogauF
    @MogauF Рік тому

    I’m so so sorry Sesethu. I pray that God will heal you and your family through this unimaginable pain. Death be not proud 💔

  • @noluthandogatya3814
    @noluthandogatya3814 Рік тому

    Oh I am so sorry Sesethu, sending you love, strength and comfort 🤍

  • @Xolisani23
    @Xolisani23 Рік тому +1

    Enkosi for vulnerably pouring yourself out. May your heart find solace in the love you shared with your brother 🤍

  • @LebogangT0
    @LebogangT0 Рік тому +2

    🫂🫂🫂🫂Welcome back Sesethu.I am so sorry for your loss.This is the most painful thing anyone can go through.I can just imagine how hurt your parents are!!❤❤❤

  • @sibongilesellinasmore
    @sibongilesellinasmore Рік тому +1

    I'm crying as you are crying I won't say much I love you please deal with it how you can

  • @codeeleemvila1567
    @codeeleemvila1567 Рік тому +1

    Not me going back to watch you and your brother 😢 maan I’m so sorry Ses ❤

  • @nonsikelelogumede3789
    @nonsikelelogumede3789 Рік тому

    Ohhh nooooo...Sethu
    You 're in my prayers...💔💔💔

  • @yolandasihawu1383
    @yolandasihawu1383 Рік тому

    A lot of us can relate to the toxic environments but being worried about money sana. Resigning takes guts wishing you the best

  • @velly2873
    @velly2873 Рік тому

    Ohk. My dear sister 😢😢I'm sorry about your baby brother.. May his precious soul rest in peace

  • @sharonmashilo
    @sharonmashilo Рік тому

    God will giving you strength baby .. so sorry for your loss.

  • @sanelendlovu3894
    @sanelendlovu3894 Рік тому

    The way lm so emotional watching this🥹💔condolences to you and mom and dad🙏🏾may God cover all of you during this difficult season.

  • @Anelisamdemka
    @Anelisamdemka Рік тому +2

    Oh Ses maani. Condolences to you and your family. 🫂
    Sending you love ❤

  • @misspurplerain
    @misspurplerain Рік тому

    My sincere condolences 🥺💜
    I pray that God may heal you and that the Holy Spirit be your comfort 🫂🫂💜

  • @nosiphiwosojola1953
    @nosiphiwosojola1953 Рік тому

    😢triggered Nkosiyam 🙆🏽‍♀️ but really wanna watch till the end.

  • @naleditendanimoloi
    @naleditendanimoloi Рік тому +3

    Your videos always feel like a hug Sese ❤ I'm glad to hear that you are covered in love through your family, friends and therapy. Because of that, I have to doubt you will excel in your next chapter🫂

  • @hlonelikhayagxashe4633
    @hlonelikhayagxashe4633 Рік тому +3

    All the best with your new journey Sese, so sorry about your brother. Love and light to you and your family ❤

  • @Lebo_11
    @Lebo_11 Рік тому +1

    Yuhhj andakhathazeka bawo he was still very young 😭sending condolences to you and your family.
    .

  • @zamampungose832
    @zamampungose832 Рік тому

    🙏🏽 🙏🏽 🕯 sisi, I will continue praying for you and your family. UNkulunkulu abenani njalo. May your brother continue to rest in peace sisi 💐

  • @brendabiyela3323
    @brendabiyela3323 Рік тому +2

    Condolences to you and your family Sesethu. You have no idea how this vlog has helped me also. I cried with you all the time. I also lost my younger brother April 20 this year unexpectedly. He had just left home and few hours later we got a call that he has been shot. He died on the spot. It's been hard. 😢Keep well sisi 🙏

  • @sinolwethuhlebo6511
    @sinolwethuhlebo6511 Рік тому +2

    Hi Sesethu It's Naledi Hlebo here in Umthatha. I love you and your beautiful authentic content. You are amazing and have such a great support structure your family and friends. I am so sorry about the passing of your brother, I thank you and your family for creating the great memories together & with him. Good memories will sustain you during tough times, they are an investment. Enjoy Life & Continue to Make Good Memories.
    Lots of hugs & Love
    Naledi Hlebo
    ❤❤❤

    • @sinolwethuhlebo6511
      @sinolwethuhlebo6511 Рік тому

      Also Ses I am so happy that you took the courage to leave the work environment and just start afresh. Many of us are still struggling with that as much as we want to. I am so happy for you, what an exciting journey ahead of you Ses. I am literally in my office watching you I am crying and so so proud of you.

  • @euginia_mathapelo
    @euginia_mathapelo Рік тому +1

    I fully understand your decision to resign ~ I feel you completely Siyagowa, it's been ALOT happening shame😢😢 I pray that God helps you through your healing journey together with your family 🙏🙏🙏 And may your lil bro' rest in eternal peace🙏❤️

  • @Philile.SMgabhi
    @Philile.SMgabhi Рік тому

    May his soul Rest In Peace, ncesini. Just subscribed.

  • @tashatee2018
    @tashatee2018 Рік тому

    I relate cc I lost my older brother last year November I won't lie even today am still having very hard time knowing that he's no more 😢😢😢 am sorry love to you and your family ❤ Kuzodlula nangona kunzima

  • @phelomatomanematomane1952
    @phelomatomanematomane1952 Рік тому

    Yhoo I’m not okay now 😭💔sending light and love 🫂to you and your family 🕯❤️❤️

  • @achatwithgoitse
    @achatwithgoitse Рік тому

    May healing come your way speedily. The Lord bless and keep you and make His face shine upon you. You and your family did not deserve losing your bro, but yes it shall be well in time. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sinethembamagi6037
    @sinethembamagi6037 Рік тому

    Oh Sethu I'm so sorry babe❤️ be patient with yourself❤️

  • @misekamavavana4774
    @misekamavavana4774 Рік тому

    Ngxese Sethu sisi🫂💌❤️ missed you ke sana💐

  • @nomahlubijaba6349
    @nomahlubijaba6349 Рік тому

    Yhuu Sese im so 💔my love yhoo i don't even have the words to say to you ryt now i was crying okoko sana bt all i will say be strong dear from the liss of your brother and what was happening to your work everything is going to be alright i promise you your brother is a beautiful angel now
    may his soul rest in peace🕊🕊 God is with you all the time he will do woders for you cthandwa sam he never fails us, lovecyou ke dear ne family yakho okokoko va ndininthanda nyan yangathi ndiyambona mamakho xa encuma sana ncoo maarn love you ninani😍😍😍❤❤❤

  • @Cngattah
    @Cngattah Рік тому

    Condolences to u and your family!!
    I like that you run away from people that don't fill your cup.. I am also not scared of removing my self

  • @thando.ngwazi
    @thando.ngwazi Рік тому

    Oh Sethu, I'm glad you back dear. I missed you with my whole entire heart 😩😭❤️

  • @nandenjisane
    @nandenjisane Рік тому

    Ow sisi mani I can feel your pain. Be patient with your self ,healing is a journey.

  • @naleditendanimoloi
    @naleditendanimoloi Рік тому

    Ah man😂I loved what you said about your brother now being your ancestor... your pockets will never run dry😂❤

  • @lintlekente
    @lintlekente Рік тому

    I have been dreading to watch this vlog. May God see you through your loss, Sesethu.

  • @leratosefadi9343
    @leratosefadi9343 Рік тому

    hugs ,love and peace to you .

  • @Siejkayolanda
    @Siejkayolanda Рік тому

    New subbie here 😊 I’m loving your energy. Giving calm , sensible and serenity! Whatever your doing my lovely keep doing it ❤

  • @NonhlanhlaNkosi-fx4oj
    @NonhlanhlaNkosi-fx4oj Рік тому

    sending you love & prayers , toxic work environment siyafa shem, its tough

  • @sibongilemngomezulu3454
    @sibongilemngomezulu3454 Рік тому

    Its my first time here and am in tears as you explain everything cause that's how I felt when I lost my dad in 2020 even thought of resigning. Please don't apologize for crying its your part of healing 😢🫂🙏🏼

  • @MmusiRadipabe
    @MmusiRadipabe Рік тому

    Im deeply sorry for your loss, i recently lost my mother and she died in my car on the yard , taking her to the hospital, we had to carry her lifeless body out of the car with my dad and sisters back into the house...its painful, it will be painful for a while but it gets better...you will learn to live with the pain...

  • @bongekamaqwelana1560
    @bongekamaqwelana1560 Рік тому

    Xolo boo boo 😢yhin Axo ndimthandile ke kakhulu futhi bendisebenza ngakuye xolo baba ❤❤

  • @depuombambo6254
    @depuombambo6254 Рік тому

    Not me crying as I watch this because you have really brought us into your family, my heart goes out to all of you. I pray God gives you healing and peace, you might not know us but we love you.

  • @daphnejena5080
    @daphnejena5080 Рік тому

    I am really sorry about your brother. My sincere condolences to you.

  • @tshidisorasehlapa
    @tshidisorasehlapa Рік тому

    Yoh condolences to you.. I discovered you on Thandi Gama's latest vlog.. So I wasn't sure where to start.. I randomly picked a video where you were organising your closet for winter I'm not even sure if its from 2022/23.. I saw you call your brother, then I was like let me watch this latest one and this is what you're going through.. I'm so sorry.. May the good Lord give you strength cope.. Obe gantle ausi waka

  • @SiphosamTTheYouTuber
    @SiphosamTTheYouTuber Рік тому +1

    Can’t continue watching as there are so many triggers 😭😭😭…. Wishing you and your family healing Sethu… shuuuu I can feel your pain… ubomi kodwa… Nxesi sisi❤️❤️

  • @shekupebotha2147
    @shekupebotha2147 Рік тому +1

    Love and light 💡 ❤Sesethu

  • @Adelaide9
    @Adelaide9 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry Sesethu, the grief that comes with such a loss is so painful we lost our eldest brother tragically as well and the healing is so hard, it’s in the little things and the big things that we are constantly reminded of his loss akujwayeleki ❤❤❤sending you and your family love and strength

  • @clee_ndou_M
    @clee_ndou_M Рік тому

    Argh Sesethu condolences to you and your family. May the good Lord Jehovah be with all of you during this somber time. 🙏

  • @nontobekodludlu3405
    @nontobekodludlu3405 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry Ses I can’t imagine how it feels to lose a sibling. I hope you heal from this

  • @usnedlomo
    @usnedlomo Рік тому

    I love your content esp your style and how you don’t GATE-KEEP!
    Sis you tag from head to toe! SIYABONGA DALi!

  • @Kadia_Maditse
    @Kadia_Maditse Рік тому

    Yoh I shed a tear💔😔I’m so sorry for your loss sis, it will eventually get better with time. Sending love & hugs🤍

  • @mariarakitla564
    @mariarakitla564 Рік тому

    My favourite is back, ke thabile ha o kgutlile, ha Modimo wa Kganya a be le wena ao fodile ka hohle hohle. ❤

  • @NtsingiNotununu
    @NtsingiNotununu Рік тому

    Last vlog I watched was with you and your bro, I am shattered 💔 i am so sorry girl ❤...kusezawbanzima sis but I'm glad you are all seeing a therapist, will def make a difference. Be patient with yourselves, this pain is the hardest to deal with. It's been 2 years for me but I still shed a tear every other day for my bro

  • @anelisaluke
    @anelisaluke Рік тому

    May God comfort you sisi❤

  • @SibongileMnonopi
    @SibongileMnonopi Рік тому

    Oh mani Sethu uThixo ungumncedi kuzolunga sisi❤

  • @samkelofubesi9414
    @samkelofubesi9414 Рік тому

    Oko ndilila, I'm so sorry Seth losing a loved one is the most painful thing ever but God will heal you and the Fam ❤❤

  • @nosiphiwomtimkulu7002
    @nosiphiwomtimkulu7002 Рік тому

    I'm new here my darling sorry to hear about your loved one🙏🏽May the good Lord comfort you and strengthen you and family😘❤️

  • @thembelihlesibanyoni8695
    @thembelihlesibanyoni8695 Рік тому +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss Sethu 🫂
    Sending love to you and your family ♥️♥️♥️😘

  • @magugubhengu7444
    @magugubhengu7444 Рік тому

    Condolences mama❤ grief comes in ebbs and waves it hits in different ways his in your heart your memory and no one can take that from you

  • @xolisiwememela463
    @xolisiwememela463 Рік тому

    uxolo sis. indikhalisile kakhulu leVlog. 🥺May God be with you and your family during this difficult time. oh, he trully was your baby brother.

  • @nomaswazigloriadlamini9064
    @nomaswazigloriadlamini9064 Рік тому

    Condolences sis during this trying time, my first time here. Thank you for taking care of our Sis Thandi when she was in Cape town❤

  • @nolufuzohleko976
    @nolufuzohleko976 9 місяців тому

    Hi Ses I'm a new subbie...came across your channel while looking for new UA-camrs to watch. Lol its so weird i remember when you were a small girl no sister wakho eBisho park. We stayed in the same street awumhle ntombi. I'm so sorry about your brother I also lost my brother in 2018 ebeyintanga yakho,it still hurts nanamhlanje when i think about him. Time heals ntombi nizade niberight much love.❤❤❤❤

  • @ongeziwedube3060
    @ongeziwedube3060 Рік тому +1

    My deepest condolences to you and your family Sesethu.
    I can’t begin to imagine how you must be feeling.
    May God grant you and your family the strength to go through this season in your lives.
    Love and Light.

  • @Tashas_Travels
    @Tashas_Travels Рік тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @LizekaMM
    @LizekaMM Рік тому

    I am so sorry for your Loss honey, we love you

  • @boitumelosenwelo1816
    @boitumelosenwelo1816 Рік тому

    Ses🥺🥺you are so brave🫂
    I pray God continues to comfort the Yabo family during this trying time.
    Grief is a mess, but our God isn't, He will make sure you all make it through❤️

  • @MissBonoloOabile
    @MissBonoloOabile Рік тому

    Sesethu😢😢😢😢😢 I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless and comfort you and your family.

  • @kgomotsomailula510
    @kgomotsomailula510 Рік тому

    Love and light to you and the fam ❤🙏

  • @nolitaNg97
    @nolitaNg97 Рік тому

    Watching this video with such a heavy heart. I’m so sorry for your loss mama. I pray that God be your strength and the ultimate comforter during this time❤️

  • @azukentapaneingazi1808
    @azukentapaneingazi1808 Рік тому

    Love how you are you are consoling yourself. Kuzobaryt nyani cc

  • @_se.seth.u
    @_se.seth.u Рік тому

    Oh, Sesethu. 💔💔
    When I saw your dad next to the coffin I immediately said "it can't be the brother!" came out of the shower and it confirmed. I immediately remembered the family trip you guys went to and your dad was recognized by an actor that's the first time I saw him and he was shy for the camera. Sending you and your family love. 🤍🤍🤍✨

  • @nosimozitho6111
    @nosimozitho6111 Рік тому +1

    Uxolo sisi.

  • @MillenialKay
    @MillenialKay Рік тому

    Deepest condolences to you and your family Sasethu
    Your channel has been one of those that offer so much comfort. I hope you find comfort in knowing that you're loved by your subies, love life & a lifetime of comfort to you and your family

  • @taniapandula9592
    @taniapandula9592 Рік тому

    I am sorry about your loss Ses love and light take much needed time for yourself I also having been going through a lot with work aspects its very important to do things that feel up your cup

  • @alexagnew4187
    @alexagnew4187 Рік тому

    My heart is so sore for you and your family.
    Sending you love and light 🤍

  • @kutlwanokutlwano4519
    @kutlwanokutlwano4519 Рік тому

    I also have baby brother and it must be painful 🥺sending you love and light❤❤

  • @Countrysidefamily
    @Countrysidefamily Рік тому

    Oh Sesethu, I’m so sorry for your loss. May God continue to strengthen you and your family❤. Come visit us in Canada while on your break.