EXCLUSIVE : NOC's Sylvia Breaks Silence

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    After keeping silent on her side of the story since she was painted as the main villain in one of the biggest Singapore scandals to happen in 2021, Sylvia is finally ready to talk and she isn’t holding back.
    In an exclusive interview with Xiaxue she opens up about the real state of the marriage, how ex-husband Ryan is really like in real life, what’s really going on with NOC before and after her cancellation, details on the legal battle between her and Ryan, and addresses the multiple allegations that has been piled on her - with receipts.
    Who was cheating?
    Was the smear campaign something organic or one that was carefully planned to further an agenda?
    Who is behind sgcickenrice?
    How much money is involved in divorce settlements?
    What’s happening with all the NOC talents you have watched for years and who is involved?
    Who are the leaked videos and screenshots from?
    Are the allegations piled on Sylvia real or not?
    All these and more in a detailed 2 hr interview. It’s gonna be a wild ride with bombshells aplenty so grab some popcorn and enjoy.
    0:00 Intro
    1:14 Recap of Timeline
    4:39 Behind NOC
    13:49 The Alleged Lawsuit between Sylvia and Ryan
    18:00 The "Smear Campaign" and the potential lawsuit
    19:51 Who leaked the screenshots?
    25:40 Smear Campaign or Organic Cancellation
    36:00 Sylvia the bad cop
    42:00 Ryan's Alleged Infedelity
    51:05 Ryan and the NOC girls
    53:15 Ryan’s Best Friends
    59:33 Their Sex Life
    1:00:30 Did Sylvia Cheat
    1:15:38 Sylvia Locked out of Company Accounts
    1:17:50 Porky the Dog
    1:20:55 Sylvia’s Recorded on Zoom
    1:23:00 Is there HR in NOC?
    1:24:00 Did Sylvia pay for her brother’s PR?
    1:28:48 The “Sex Barter” scandal
    1:33:00 The Current Update
    1:34:13 Sylvia Hacked
    1:38:43 How Sylvia is Coping
    1:40:20 The Allegations of Slut Shaming
    1:42:00 The Thirsty Sisters Podcast
    1:43:15 The R-rated leak
    1:45:30 Xiaxue wishes Sylvia well
    1:45:44 Xiaxue’s closing comments
    Disclaimer: The guest states that all statements of facts she makes within the programme are based on materials in her personal possession evidencing these facts. Where she makes any opinions, these constitute her personal fair comments derived from information and materials she has access to and are not meant to offend, insinuate anything, or disparage any person. Neither are these comments or opinions meant to cause alarm, harassment, or distress to any person
    This interview was filmed on 22 October 2021.
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  • @chensoonteo
    @chensoonteo 2 роки тому +4963

    Summary of saga : Sylvia is a bad boss, Ryan is a bad husband.

    • @happyleaf9635
      @happyleaf9635 2 роки тому +399

      That is a weirdly accurate summary.

    • @itsrealmochakim99
      @itsrealmochakim99 2 роки тому +66

      Thanks saving my time

    • @llljjjyyyy
      @llljjjyyyy 2 роки тому +95

      Sylvia allegations dont really have any concrete evidence. This interview was a good chance to speak out and apologise to people around her but it turns into pulling into the mud. Speaks alot about someone

    • @penguinhappy4416
      @penguinhappy4416 2 роки тому +167

      @@llljjjyyyy she don't have to prove ryan's cheating to anyone. it already hurts if it's true but if you were in her position what would you do?

    • @joychuasihan12
      @joychuasihan12 2 роки тому +134

      @@llljjjyyyy he literally admitted to emotional cheating as seen in the screenshots. also she has no reason to lie since Ryan could back himself out if its not true, I doubt he has anything to say

  • @iamtravisloh
    @iamtravisloh 2 роки тому +2765

    Ryan shouldn't get a car. He should buy a bus. Easier to fetch everyone home.

  • @poseur87
    @poseur87 2 місяці тому +70

    Anyone back here after seeing Sylvia latest podcast to see the transformation

    • @HeyITs0B0r3D
      @HeyITs0B0r3D Місяць тому +5

      sylvia story has been consistent with no changes. Comparing this to her podcast, it doesnt even vary. She is indeed telling the truth.

  • @Celinelim981023
    @Celinelim981023 2 роки тому +480

    No such thing as “BEST FRIEND” if she is more important than your wife and you favor her over your wife😌

    • @thorns_oflove
      @thorns_oflove 2 роки тому +51

      Preach it!! I can never accept my husband leaving me to fetch someone else all the time. Leave, and never come back.

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +20

      아륀 Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
      Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
      As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
      The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
      It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
      The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
      I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.

    • @christophertan7466
      @christophertan7466 2 роки тому +15

      Even men like me don’t believe married men can have pretty young lasses as best friends, let alone the wife lor.
      If you are a man and your attractive gf has her boss as BFF, you need to rethink about your relationship. Kena wear green hat also don’t know.

    • @deartea6707
      @deartea6707 2 роки тому +4

      Yeap true if u wanna side ur bestfriend so much then don’t get married. Give and take.

    • @888katiechau
      @888katiechau 2 роки тому +2

      @@darkjediknight2923 Fantastic well written thought. Love your vocabularies and clear statements. Agree with you 100%. Now I'm curious to see if he will come out and tell's his sides of the story. 🤔🤷‍♀️💥

  • @shawnt8873
    @shawnt8873 2 роки тому +7950

    Singapore finally produces a good drama after so many years.

    • @marh5994
      @marh5994 2 роки тому +81

      Funniest comment ever HAHAHA

    • @AM-qp8pw
      @AM-qp8pw 2 роки тому +67

      Next MediaCorp drama.

    • @lovestory818
      @lovestory818 2 роки тому +7

      hahahah

    • @tiffanying8644
      @tiffanying8644 2 роки тому +28

      Netlix worthy

    • @zul9570
      @zul9570 2 роки тому +32

      This needs a star award on channel 8

  • @tanghochiao
    @tanghochiao 2 роки тому +3454

    Timestamp:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:06 - Sylvia comes in + Saga summary
    04:30 - How NOC is works and how their marriage affects it
    09:28 - Is Ryan drawing a salary?
    10:53 - Is Sylvia the big boss and no one can overwrite her? Is she the bully? Is she slave driving the employees? Is Ryan trying to protect his employees?
    12:10 - Who is in charge of making talents stay late?
    13:48 - Alleged Lawsuit (Is it true? What is it about?)
    14:36 - Sylvia complains about Ryan and accuses him of doing things behind her back
    16:34 - Sylvia and Ryan both misappropriating funds
    17:02 - Sylvia writes lawyer letter to Ryan
    17:20 - Sylvia accuses Ryan of doing things that is a serious breach of the company
    17:57 - How does she think the saga affects the outcome of the pre lawsuit
    18:54 - Sylvia talks about her leaked audio recording
    19:41 - Who is behind SGChickenRice account? (Sylvia starts dropping names)
    20:03 - Sylvia talks about Isabelle (Bombiibii) + suspecting Ryan of doing things (aka cheating)
    21:57 - Who leaked the group chats and private chats? (Sylvia drops names again)
    22:49 - Sylvia questions herself why people hate her so much and want to destroy her so much
    23:56 - Sylvia believes Ryan is behind it
    24:25 - Sylvia name dropping
    25:31 - Sylvia talks about Ryan's motive (not confirmed) behind all these and how he cannot fight against her legally
    25:59 - Sylvia talks about Ryan appreciation day
    26:19 - XiaXue talks about her thoughts on what is happening + suspecting a campaign against Sylvia
    27:05 - Sylvia talks about why all these started (millions of dollars $$$)
    27:55 - Sylvia talks about Ryan's 'resign' from NOC + accusing him of things
    29:16 - XiaXue ask if the smear campaign affects the outcome of the lawsuit (Sylvia dodged the question just now)
    30:09 - XiaXue mind blown
    30:47 - Sylvia talks about NOC losing a lot of deals ($$$$$$) + blaming
    31:51 - Sylvia talks about why no one stands up for her and cancel culture
    32:56 - What is the plan for NOC now? Can the talent leave?
    34:39 - XiaXue talks about her skeptic POV + Why would Ryan destroy NOC?
    34:55 - Sylvia talks about the Ryan that everyone don't know and only she knows (basically saying he is willing to destroy NOC)
    36:13 - Workplace Abuse (JianHao, GoodCop BadCop etc)
    36:57 - Sylvia admits she is abusive in workplace and why she became like that + smoking addiction + why she never change + why they divorce
    41:56 - Ryan suicide attempts (Sylvia starts crying)
    44:04 - Sylvia says she felt manipulated
    48:16 - Ryan's cheated on Sylvia while they were married with a restaurant waitress
    50:58 - Ryan always have something to do with the girls in NOC (dropping bombshells)
    52:41 - Ryan sending NOC girls home/favouring the girls
    54:07 - Ryan and Aurelia
    55:26 - Did Sylvia intend to fire Aurelia
    56:24 - Ryan siding the talents instead of Sylvia
    57:15 - Ryan coming clean about who he had a crush on in NOC
    58:01 - Michelle pushing herself onto Ryan (+XiaXue sexual joke)
    1:12:45 - Misappropriation of funds
    1:17:54 - Not allowing Ryan to see porky
    1:20:40 - The zoom recordings, Sylvia getting blackmailed on them.
    1:22:50 - The HR person who packed porky masks
    1:24:20 - Sylvia's brother working in NOC
    1:28:35 - Alleged sexual barter trade of NOC's talents
    1:33:07 - Updates on the overall police investigations
    1:36:08 - XiaXue asks how Sylvia is doing
    1:40:16 - The screenshot of someone who was called a slut by Sylvia
    1:42:00 - Why thirsty sisters content are down
    1:43:13 - Sylvia's BJ video?
    1:44:35 - The reason Sylvia decided to speak up

    • @tanghochiao
      @tanghochiao 2 роки тому +163

      Watching el clasico and this and updating at the same time

    • @shaftted
      @shaftted 2 роки тому +7

      HAHAH

    • @tiffanying8644
      @tiffanying8644 2 роки тому +35

      Bless you!

    • @YDeliciousnoodle
      @YDeliciousnoodle 2 роки тому +93

      48:16 Ryan's cheating with his first restaurant waitress

    • @kaneshp5688
      @kaneshp5688 2 роки тому +28

      Fucking legend

  • @violetland6314
    @violetland6314 2 роки тому +399

    there's definitely 2 sides of the story... but what made me disgusted was the talents speaking up for ryan and act as if sending girls home late at night often is normal. let's see if they will say that if their bf/husband acts the same like ryan

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому +24

      yea lah wait till karma bites them hard LOL. we shall see

    • @cwjt
      @cwjt 2 роки тому +1

      Don't be jealous when nobody offers to send you home.

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +5

      1. View matters impartially based on facts, common sense and how you’d like to be treated. Not trial by mob.
      2. Smearing anyone - man or woman - with slander is sickening
      3. Sylvia’s toxic language to Samantha is separate issue to other accusations. For that she must apologise.
      4. Leaking confidential accounts is a violation of privacy and unethical
      5. Much of the slander about Sylvia’s private life has been proven to be untrue.
      6. Those who were silent whilst she was being smeared, suddenly don’t like it when people question their own moral fibre.
      7. Some claim to be “old enough to know” things. Would they like it if their own partner spends late nights with members of the opposite sex and blurs the lines between work and pleasure?
      8. Much of the “Mr. Clean” image of Ryan has been shown to be a myth. Both in terms of private conduct (look at how he speaks which is toxic) and business conduct.
      9. Paying employees is a responsibility of BOTH Ryan and Sylvia. Not only one.
      10. Backdating resignation - think why Ryan wants to do that. Looks like violating duty as NOC director and means Reno King is NOC property.
      11. Matters relating to workplace flaws should be reported to authorities. Allegations should not be hurled like mud to denigrate the image of a company or person.
      12. It very much looks like this is nothing more than a coup attempt and/or smear campaign to totally tarnish Sylvia. And frankly it worked - in her own words she became “the shit of Singapore.” Now it’s boomeranging back on the conspirators.
      13. Imagine if it was you. Treat others how you would like to be treated. It’s not about being a man/woman/employer/employee. And not about what the internet mob thinks. Think about what is right and wrong, what is legal or illegal and what has now been proven or disproven in her response (which included screenshots).
      14. Think about who benefits from each accusation and a smear campaign.
      15. I was disappointed in Rachel since I really liked her/respected. “Et tu Rachel?”

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly I wonder if:
      1. Will talents like if their partner does that with other women?
      2. Will talents’ boyfriend like that Ryan does this?

    • @ericka.draven
      @ericka.draven 2 роки тому

      not just bf or husband.. brother and father can't fetch you from work is it?

  • @wonwoosbitch2970
    @wonwoosbitch2970 2 роки тому +754

    I don’t have a problem with Sylvia being called out for her vile actions but Ryan is even more frustrating by acting all high & mighty as if he’s such a nice guy. Does his actions excuse Sylvia’s? No. But is it a reason behind it? absolutely. They both made mistakes and BOTH should be held accountable. As much as i agree Sylvia is in the wrong, I can obviously tell that Ryan has been driving her up the wall for years and from what i can tell he was definitely lacking as a husband and in some aspects as a boss as well. Being a good boss shouldn’t be about being authoritative or abusive and neither should it be being a friend to your employees (or even worse having a crush on them)
    btw for anyone saying having a crush on someone is normal, NOT ONLY was he married, he some more go and entertain his little feelings for the noc talents

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      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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    • @masanatide8781
      @masanatide8781 2 роки тому +1

      I mean you can’t control a crush right? But yeah he cheated on sylvia on his own accord. he’s a grown man he knew what shit he was getting himself into yet still did it. And now hes paying for his actions by being exposed now lol

    • @mahmentulz9377
      @mahmentulz9377 2 роки тому +10

      @@masanatide8781 yes. u may not be able to control a crush but can certainly control the urge to act upon it. besides, you alr have a wife, crushes come and go

    • @masanatide8781
      @masanatide8781 2 роки тому

      @@mahmentulz9377 didn’t I already say that?

  • @datascience1369
    @datascience1369 2 роки тому +71

    Don't trust a 30+ guy who is in a relationship with a very young gal in early 20's.

  • @pndmmm1126
    @pndmmm1126 2 роки тому +2663

    all these do not justify sylvia's behaviours BUT they do explain why she acted the ways she did.

    • @weeewooo1
      @weeewooo1 2 роки тому +120

      Yess people that are commenting does not even understand the whole pov

    • @NightingaleFlorine
      @NightingaleFlorine 2 роки тому +49

      oh wow this actually really is such a great outlook, i agree completely

    • @jinhon121
      @jinhon121 2 роки тому +194

      Ryan not as innocent as he seem. Horny fellow

    • @YDeliciousnoodle
      @YDeliciousnoodle 2 роки тому +56

      @@jinhon121 yes, sylvia might be in a toxic shitty past r/s with a dismissive ryan. It still does not give green light for sylvia to make people terrify until have ptsd

    • @solonavi3928
      @solonavi3928 2 роки тому +3

      She did ah. She paranoid about the women around Ryan that's why she herself also allegedly cheat ma.
      Oh... Wait.

  • @zaakyah
    @zaakyah 2 роки тому +355

    I’m not excusing her behaviour towards her employees. But i notice she is very well spoken, intelligent and hard headed. She has potential to go far with her career once she overcomes this.

    • @kuansenchai2190
      @kuansenchai2190 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed !

    • @joanqueen8009
      @joanqueen8009 2 роки тому +7

      I don't think so. They are wrong in different ways. Her behaviors towards her employees are so awful and she is emotional, abusive and entitled. Many people can go a long way in their career. She has her own management style but obviously is not a good leader who appreciates her employees. Look at Spanx founder as a good leader

    • @aaang1
      @aaang1 Місяць тому +1

      Yeah.. fast forward to today, she really did overcome.

  • @Sherburtz
    @Sherburtz 2 роки тому +891

    to everyone saying that sylvia shouldnt bring up ryan’s suicidal tendencies, i feel that there is a need for sylvia to address this bc its really manipulation and i know exactly how it feels to be trapped and not knowing how to go about not hurting your SO more than he already is. its mentally exhausting bc the other person automatically becomes priority bc you’re so afraid that he might just take his life just bc you one day decided to retaliate. also, how else is she going to explain why she acts the way she did to protect ryan? the fact that ryan trusted her to do the scolding bc he refused to be the bad cop, dont tell me ryan didnt know how sylvia would handle the issues? and with sylvia knowing that ryan is depressed and whatever he’s going through, despite all her efforts to protect him, ryan still decides to confide in another prettier girl, what would that make sylvia then? who is sylvia to him anymore? obviously that would completely crush sylvia and her self esteem bc its natural to start to wonder what she’s lacking and why is it that she’s not good enough for ryan to confide in as a wife?

    • @pointofview899
      @pointofview899 2 роки тому +10

      Why not? It was all a bluff that Ryan hatched-up to psycho the one that loves him. A carefully premeditated plan to discredit his lawful wife for young females? 😃😃😃

    • @rice_wife
      @rice_wife 2 роки тому +52

      Right I’ve seen a lot of ppl say that she’s trying to avoid the topic by bringing up Ryan’s suicidal tendencies. But I feel like it was kind of a key part in explaining why she became such an angry person. It gives us an insight into what shaped her this way. Tho idt it’s nice to air his laundry so it probably would’ve been better if she didn’t go into that much detail abt it since it’s still his personal mental health issues

    • @Sherburtz
      @Sherburtz 2 роки тому +29

      @@rice_wife yeah but if she didnt go into how much his suicidal tendencies affected her, people would just brush it off as an excuse. so like, right and wrong.

    • @junye7
      @junye7 2 роки тому +5

      Excuses. If 1-2 employees talk back about you, it might be those few. When so many employees all talk about you. It must mean something about how she is treating employees in general.
      still doesn't give her the right to late all the time, don't let the employees go home even after 7pm. make them work till 4am. and don't pay them on time. can screw them using vulgarities. it's the company management issues. Don't take it out on others. Be respectful to employees even if you don't like them.
      If we are placed in any of the employees' plight it would really sucked right. plus can't leave because we got a contract with the company.
      The leaked video on her replying to Ryan on the employees rights really pissed me off. Does she even feel apologetic ? I can't feel a tinge of remorse that she is not paying her employees on time , making them work late, getting her employees to do her personal stuffs . She mocks Ryan and ask him for solution. Seriously?
      Plus the fact she probably violated the law by getting the HR to pay his brother just he can get his PR? She thinks ICA regulations is a joke? There are people who say all rest of the SMEs are doing it. So it's fine to workaround the rules?

    • @simon6z
      @simon6z 2 роки тому +3

      Suicide tendency???? So did she or Ryan was the one going to buangkok chalet for counselling??? Don't start la. If he no money and she knows he got so many xmm to put his key in, she already divorced centuries ago lol. Or you can try tolerate like her I can marry you and have xmm see if you cut my kkj in 2 years time??? Or wait 10 years then go UA-cam say I years ago xmm alot already lol

  • @tiffanyyeo9411
    @tiffanyyeo9411 2 роки тому +3513

    Put aside whether Sylvia is a nasty person because it’s a persona or what, no woman can tolerate their partner spending more time with so many females ( like how she would wait for Ryan to have dinner at home but he has eaten with Aurelia without informing etc) as compared to herself especially since he cheated before ( these are proven with receipts) She must have went through very sad and lonely moments with no one to speak to, because they were known as the “golden couple”. I believe everything takes 2 hands to clap, she may be a nasty person but Ryan is def not an angel.

    • @JG-gf5vj
      @JG-gf5vj 2 роки тому +73

      Hi Sylvia

    • @sharonxlim
      @sharonxlim 2 роки тому +86

      yes 100%

    • @christeng3401
      @christeng3401 2 роки тому +256

      I feel it's another case of emotional manipulation in marriage (By Ryan)

    • @monicachua2379
      @monicachua2379 2 роки тому +16

      agree

    • @Lala_lalacllll
      @Lala_lalacllll 2 роки тому +94

      Agree. Even if the media line/culture its known for partner needs to be ok w their own partner being touchy w opposite gender. If ur partner say they are not ok, U should respect him/her more than following the "culture". isn't this the basis of a marriage?
      Still. Takes 2 hands to clap. 1 side need to relax A BIT. other needs to don't be so relaxed

  • @areyouquinn
    @areyouquinn 2 роки тому +4433

    I am convinced by now that Sylvia is either a psychopath, or one heck of a tough woman, for being able to show up like this unapologetically and openly, all while bearing the pain that came with the downfall of her career and her dignity. Whether or not she is telling the truth, or if there is ever a fair way of saying whether someone is ultimately right or wrong, I respect her. No one deserves to be treated or attacked like that.

    • @insanitycloak
      @insanitycloak 2 роки тому +371

      Yessssss me too. I don’t uds why is everyone shaming her and all. It’s really tough being the strong woman trying to pull all fronts of the business together. You don’t get to be one of Singapore’s top UA-camr if you’re soft. And just because she’s hard on everyone, it turns out that she’s evil.

    • @amberrrrr8235
      @amberrrrr8235 2 роки тому +249

      Ikr the fact that she already lost her reputation and ppl just kept wanting to cancel her till she is left with nth , yet she still stands up strong and not sure with the truth or not but most ppl prob might commit suicide or flee the country if they can or just stay quiet for 1-2 years .

    • @fionachua2482
      @fionachua2482 2 роки тому +16

      Up this

    • @fionachua2482
      @fionachua2482 2 роки тому +47

      Say it louder for the people at the back

    • @nswnsw6874
      @nswnsw6874 2 роки тому +191

      The sequence and way the allegations were released is orchestrated. Someone or a group has meditated and planned to bring her down. This video is shot continuously, I don’t think she is lying. I’m not siding her but smells like foul play.

  • @shazlol9683
    @shazlol9683 2 роки тому +278

    Ryan is not a leader, it’s Slyvia. Has always been from the start till now. Her strong character comes from all these years of leading the company. Sure her attitude is not great, and her mouth is bad and her workaholic attitude scares the normal people. But! She has the capability to lead the talents in her company, she needed to be strict to her talents. Otherwise, how would they listen? And Ryan is just the weak father to the kids. He doesn’t speak up, doesn’t have the capability to lead. Putting up the good guy image to everyone of course everyone in the company sides him. But he’s not innocent. In short, he’s just a weakling.

    • @closeencounter9637
      @closeencounter9637 2 роки тому +20

      not to mention, fetching kids back from school. What a good daddy

    • @pineaplejackson7275
      @pineaplejackson7275 2 роки тому +6

      More like ryan want to be the fun cool parent . After watching this interview i finally understand why slyvia said ryan a bad leader

  • @crystal2484
    @crystal2484 2 роки тому +192

    People who blamed SC for bringing her jealousy into her business, what about RT's PERSONAL pervert crushes on his female BUSINESS colleagues? Is that not bringing personal feelings to business when he put SC down for the girls a huge root cause of all the problems?

    • @ZefromXD
      @ZefromXD 2 роки тому +2

      Bruh, bringing jealously into her business is unprofessional of her. Work is work and personal is personal. It's not rocket science

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +12

      @@ZefromXD so those talents openly flirt with her husband in the office in front of her is professional? When RT favours the girls and told her off while she was trying to get things done is favourable? Btw, don't call a female a "bruh", sis.

    • @ZefromXD
      @ZefromXD 2 роки тому +2

      ​@@crystal2484 don't call me your sis as I am not your sis
      Workplace etiquette very simple, you do work well, I happy
      If the talents do flirt with Ryan and it is affecting the work, Sylvia should employ the necessary action into the company and not delay salary or scold fuck you fuckface
      If the talents do flirt with the Ryan but it is not affecting the work, she can talk it out with Ryan behind the scenes and get the message across that it is not right to do such a thing
      There are so many ways that this drama could have not blown out of proportion if she could have handle and communicate better. Instead, it gone down this path
      The comments you reply to me shows that you are very rude and it is time for you to grow up

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +2

      @@ZefromXD your rocket science and calling a female bruh is not rude? DO u even read the definition of a bruh? Calling u sis is a return to you for the bruh!
      Workplace fine, does it justify for them to put all out in the public including sex tape and private sex conversation? That's no longer "work" when they crossed that line.

  • @ngziting3181
    @ngziting3181 2 роки тому +423

    if Sylvia’s claim is true, it would be very sneaky and Low of Ryan and his team to bring forth personal allegations against Sylvia. No one is perfect.

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому +30

      think abt this. ryan kept the video recording who else spilled the video besides ryan and his gang lol?

    • @jqxx2538
      @jqxx2538 2 роки тому +46

      they even used tried to frame her as a cheater using a chat when she was already divorced with ryan and legally allowed to have other relationships so.. cunning and sly of them. whoever leaked it is a real bitch. a toxic boss you can avoid but friends who leak these kinds texts? who would ever be prepared

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 2 роки тому +4

      heard that sgchickenrice admin was ryan

    • @88feji
      @88feji 2 роки тому +6

      Ryan may backfire and end up in JAIL too ..
      Think about it, him bringing up the problem of Sylvia's brother's payroll arrangments MEANS he's already known and approved of the arrangments from the very beginning. How can he not have approved it since him and Sylvia were still married and the whole company was registered under his sole name then ?
      That means he had the final approval to include Sylvia's brother in the payroll and he's just flipping the script now to pretend Sylvia was the only one who knows it so that he can bring her down over Renoking ...
      If Sylvia goes to jail over Sikeen's payroll, Ryan should go to jail too ..

    • @musingwanderer2765
      @musingwanderer2765 2 роки тому +3

      It’s a very elaborate campaign.. I was just telling my friend where got such an all rounded villian that even Taiwanese drama don’t dare to depict 😹

  • @Abc29456
    @Abc29456 2 роки тому +523

    To be fair, I can understand Slyvia POV of Ryan being overly close with Aurelia, etc. Emotional cheating is no different that psyhical cheating. The internet is potraying Ryan as a saint, which is not good. I feel that it is overly glorifying Ryan and shadowing his own issues. However, that still does not justify Slyvia toxic behavouir in NOC. I am just bothered by the fact that the whole internet is faulting Slyvia (even tho she did make mistakes and it is normal she should be held accountable) but overly glorifying Ryan in the process. Surely he has a part in creating a toxic environment in NOC? Being nice is good and all, but in terms of management of company, I doubt Ryan can be up to task without making hard decisions. It just seems to me that Ryan is playing good cop while Slyvia takes the role of the bad cop

  • @crystal2484
    @crystal2484 2 роки тому +29

    he stayed in a 4 bedder penthouse and she stayed in the office after divorce, people with eyes can see who is the one who is shortchanged..

  • @booniec1569
    @booniec1569 2 роки тому +188

    Sylvia did the right thing coming out and sharing all these. Otherwise I would have misunderstood her. Xia Xue did the right thing to publish this interview too. I can’t agree more with her summarized comments.

  • @jassytan4868
    @jassytan4868 2 роки тому +1938

    Tbh, both Ryan and Sylvia are toxic. Everyone has certain sides that we are not proud of, and it’s how we portray ourselves to others.. In Ryan’s case, he’s a great boss and friend. But perhaps he was not a good husband. On Sylvia’s end, she’s a good businesswoman and may have tried to be a good wife. But as a boss, probably quite a toxic one.
    To add on, company was built on a very dangerous foundation (Married couple as business partners, with cheating episodes = distrust, yet still working with many other females).
    So everyone else who worked/works for them just became tangled in the mess lor.
    On a side note, I have to agree it’s very emotionally draining to love someone who has suicidal ideation/ tendencies. The constant fear of what he/she’s gonna do next; how you would give everything just so the person would choose life over death; how you constantly feel it’s your fault that they wanna die. It’s really painful.

    • @cyerripaws8270
      @cyerripaws8270 2 роки тому +45

      yes omg, the fear of your SO committing suicide is so much. Idt ppl really understand the amount of stress and trauma that puts you under.

    • @JG-gf5vj
      @JG-gf5vj 2 роки тому +74

      Yes, getting sick of Ryan reposting all the compliment IG stories

    • @ToriH
      @ToriH 2 роки тому +68

      Ryan is also not a gd boss given he hits on his young employees. A boss shouldn't be blurring the professional with the private. Yeah both are toxic.

    • @user-sn9zm8gd1x
      @user-sn9zm8gd1x 2 роки тому +35

      If he gives me free renovation and send me home everyday, I also will side him 😬

    • @brxndonnnn
      @brxndonnnn 2 роки тому +12

      Well said. One of the more well thought out comments in this comment section.

  • @xian2651
    @xian2651 2 роки тому +295

    I seriously doubt people who always act like an angel. 🤷 I'd rather hang out with a straightforward "I'm not a saint" person.

    • @cashmerehazel21
      @cashmerehazel21 2 роки тому +2

      And yet some people are claiming Sylvia to be fake crying here to gain sympathy. Imagine during the divorce video, Ryan put on a very sad expression with wet eyes saying how he missed Sylvia wishing him good night in bed. While he emotionally (and allegedly physically) cheats on her continuously claiming _"I can't control who I have feelings for"_ and the most manipulative phrase _"Your punishment is self-inflicted if you chose to stick with me."_

  • @tanweelee5072
    @tanweelee5072 2 роки тому +319

    Everyone talking about sylvia but no one is talking about how nina still stood by sylvia's side despite knowing that she will receive a lot of hate and possibly some disagreements from her family since she is ryan's cousin. A true friend indeed

    • @dawn160
      @dawn160 2 роки тому +6

      yes, I was thinking abt her pov haha

    • @ediyuwono5601
      @ediyuwono5601 2 роки тому +1

      She’s not in the picture anymore sia. Where is she now? She’s not with Sylvia

    • @dawn160
      @dawn160 2 роки тому +3

      @@ediyuwono5601 Idk... maybe she wants to stay out of the drama? maybe she is supporting her behind the scenes? We'll never know

    • @riedannn6943
      @riedannn6943 2 роки тому +1

      a true friend with a blind eye

  • @jqxx2538
    @jqxx2538 2 роки тому +413

    my main takeaways from this video:
    sylvia was a toxic and rude boss to many of her employees yes, but she never cheated on ryan or did sex bartering as people accused her of. whether or not she “embezzled” money and all well, honestly we can never be sure when SHE herself is locked out of seeing NoC’s financials.
    ryan is NOT the poor victim or hero in this narrative. he’s not the angel people portray him to be. he was half of the marriage and as big a part of the company as sylvia. he HAD a part in causing all of this bullshit.
    This whole saga, from the tiktok to sgcicken rice to the blogpost has been planned since long ago, with the recording of sylvia taken last year. and it makes me wonder… all these chat leakers continued to act as friends with sylvia all the way until now. and suddenly when she’s in deep shit, they leave her and backstab her.
    In my opinion, those people who acted like friends with her but then leaked EXTREMELY private chats of her which exposed her sex life to wrongly accuse her, all these people who planned to strip her off her life’s work and make her penniless friendless and powerless, this behaviour is cancelling, and it’s no better than a toxic boss. a toxic voss you can avoid, but a fake friend who’s nice to you until you’re suddenly unfavourable? you can never prepare yourself for that.
    i find the people who were cheering and putting ryan on a pedastal making him look like some sad victim bullied by evil sylvia completely cringey.

    • @soonsoon5539
      @soonsoon5539 2 роки тому +16

      This is such a good analysis as this shows both sides of the coin, is it ok if I use this and repost on Sylvia’s Instagram post as one of the comments? Thank you

    • @jqxx2538
      @jqxx2538 2 роки тому +6

      @@soonsoon5539 yea sure, it’s just my random thoughts penned down as i watched this video and looked at others’ responses:) if it helps articulate your thoughts, i don’t mind.

    • @agatha657
      @agatha657 2 роки тому +7

      Prolly How Sylvia treated people is to much for these employees can handle. I feel heer employees tho, verbal abuse is horrible, However bacstabbing Sylvia... is horrible, am not choosing sides but I feel sorry for Sylvia and she deserves a second chances. Under pressure, a bad marriage, can lead to what she did

    • @reveirg9
      @reveirg9 2 роки тому

      This is such a stupid analysis. Just use your brain for a moment. If you want to claim that Ryan is the one solely responsible for staging this sure. But as you can see, this is obviously not something he can do on his own. So why would so many people hate Sylvia enough to try to bring her down? Obviously she's the one with the major issues. I'm not saying Ryan is exempted from responsibility, but I'm saying Sylvia came on the show to cry wolf. She's a thorough bitch. Go check most of the NOC talents instagram, most of them still follow Ryan but a huge portion of them unfollowed Sylvia. Sylvia is not toxic because she's playing bad cop so Ryan can play good cop. Sylvia is toxic because she is manipulative. When looking at a story like this it's very simple, just look at who is the one creating drama and coming out to call wolf. Do you think it's more likely 1 person is fucked up or everyone in NOC is fucked up and gang up on Sylvia? Use your brains please. You think people like Aiken and Deekosh would gang up on Sylvia if she wasn't fucked up?

    • @saeyi8961
      @saeyi8961 Рік тому

      This is so well rounded off

  • @sbrups
    @sbrups 2 роки тому +1743

    this entire hooha seems like is caused by personal issues Ryan and Sylvia faced at home, which in turn is being brought into the business, hence all the havoc. Anger, revenge, mistrust between the two leaders. it’s getting embarrassing tbh

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 2 роки тому +6

      Yes

    • @hwq1234
      @hwq1234 2 роки тому +42

      hence never eat where you shit

    • @leewill4214
      @leewill4214 2 роки тому

      true

    • @sgyoutuberfanpolice6086
      @sgyoutuberfanpolice6086 2 роки тому +8

      Nope, not fully. Because they have been separated since 2017. All their home issues should have been stopped at them. Its further they want to further it into the business.
      If you look at other business couples, many have divorced, but they still continue as co-directors in their company, even bringing it bigger.

    • @owo4470
      @owo4470 2 роки тому +4

      Wouldnt say workplace abuse is related to this but I agree

  • @elyshachua3331
    @elyshachua3331 2 роки тому +584

    Ard 56 min, just my opinion, don’t bash me. If your husband can scold you in front of everyone, throw that man away. Defend your spouse in public, but educate or explain to them in private

    • @drugaddict931
      @drugaddict931 2 роки тому

      If a parent does this to their kid will it be the same treatment then?

    • @vvanvvanvvan3757
      @vvanvvanvvan3757 2 роки тому +43

      @DrugAddict there’s a different in hierarchy when it comes to parent and children… when it comes to couples and partners aren’t both supposed to be equals? So how can you compare 2 different things together

    • @itzSoonz
      @itzSoonz 2 роки тому

      @@drugaddict931 Please... not to young and innocent children

    • @jqxx2538
      @jqxx2538 2 роки тому +14

      @@drugaddict931 even to children, it’s not even good to openly scold them infront of other people. and not to mention your WIFE

    • @pbnjellyforbreakfast7376
      @pbnjellyforbreakfast7376 2 роки тому +32

      Agreed. I think not just husband and wife. For business partners as well. Undermining your partner in front of the regular employees will just destroy respect and morale in the team.

  • @flwrsintheattic7655
    @flwrsintheattic7655 2 роки тому +251

    I can’t believe Sylvia actually secretly paid for Grace and Isabelle to go on that Taiwan trip with Ryan only to be stabbed in the back by all of them now. She only had good intentions to grant his wish of going overseas with 2 young girls (🙄) and at the same time, she didn’t want these girls to hold back going on that trip because of any possible money issues.
    Classic case of biting the hand that feeds you. The world is really a scary place.

    • @limwowo5902
      @limwowo5902 2 роки тому +4

      Did they have 3****?

    • @JasonChowTV
      @JasonChowTV 2 роки тому +5

      @@limwowo5902 u mean threesome? was thinking the same lol

    • @limwowo5902
      @limwowo5902 2 роки тому

      @@JasonChowTV yep did they?

    • @bellephoon6328
      @bellephoon6328 2 роки тому +28

      @@limwowo5902 No la these girls are smart they know how to use a p*ssy like Ryan.Also do not forget his current GF is 11 years younger than him right?? Creepy much. Can't believe how so many ppl did not see the red flags.

    • @yidanwang2086
      @yidanwang2086 2 роки тому +3

      Hmmm but Sylvia also says Ryan control the bank, so which is it... But 1 thing for sure, Xia Xue is the 🆕 Oprah ;)

  • @bretmonbart5240
    @bretmonbart5240 2 роки тому +41

    Wow Ryan has successfully manipulated all of us. Such a great actor. Bravo

  • @Guest-gw1vm
    @Guest-gw1vm 2 роки тому +433

    When she said she feels manipulated and trapped when someone keeps playing a suicide card.. is smth so many people dont talk about. I am glad sylvia said it out.

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +11

      A victim of someone with NPD normally do not realise they are in such a situation until it is too late.

    • @Guest-gw1vm
      @Guest-gw1vm 2 роки тому +1

      @@crystal2484 what is npd

    • @Guest-gw1vm
      @Guest-gw1vm 2 роки тому +12

      @@crystal2484 okay googled it. Yes it is true. it is so sad that people keep toying with such things when there are others who are genuinely struggling to live another day

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +16

      @@Guest-gw1vm I put it here so others who read can understand. Narcissistic personality disorder - one of several types of personality disorders - is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

  • @JL-sw3sb
    @JL-sw3sb 2 роки тому +170

    Behind every mean woman, there is a weak man.

    • @shazlol9683
      @shazlol9683 2 роки тому

      Yes an ex henpecked husband. Only showing his power when he rose in power using despicable means. Shame on Ryan

  • @cashmerehazel21
    @cashmerehazel21 2 роки тому +428

    *_When is Sylvia Appreciation Day?_*
    If a boss and husband like Ryan can be appreciated, Sylvia too deserves much appreciation. After all, she has contributed significantly to NOC, she has given jobs and a livelihood to many unknown talents, she has helped groomed them and provided a platform for their fame, she left her home country for Ryan, she forgave him for cheating and not shame him in public, she tried to keep silent initially using the law until she was stepped on after taking a fall.

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +31

      You have been too kind in your wordings to her abusers. it isn't just initially, it has been for 10 years or so. And that's not "Stepped", they are basically stomping her.

    • @nightwhispers7028
      @nightwhispers7028 2 роки тому +22

      OMG THIS. I was just thinking where daheck is Sylvia Appreciation Day?

    • @thatfloraltint3188
      @thatfloraltint3188 2 роки тому +4

      bruh this one not like some planned campaign lah how can suddenly everyone in sync come out with a xxx appreciation day one 🙃🙃🙃

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому

      “Et tu Rachel? Et tu?”

    • @saumyavig8964
      @saumyavig8964 2 роки тому

      Tf-??

  • @fredwhitby3445
    @fredwhitby3445 2 роки тому +265

    “I cannot control who I feel connected to.”
    - Ryan in whatsapp receipts; in the context of admitting to his wife he has crushes on his employees while in a marriage.
    THEN PLEASE JUST STAY SINGLE.
    Also all those young girls standing up for him after these receipts came to light. Perhaps you’d like to have the same words said to you after 10 years of marriage, especially when you’ve kids/ businesses built together and all?
    You don’t find it stomach churning? Or you’re also just as immoral?

    • @ralphterry3863
      @ralphterry3863 2 роки тому +49

      Must stand up for him mah, afterall he is the one buying them gifts, paying for their trips, renovating their houses, driving them home. All paiseh to stand up against him after receiving so many favors. Thats why easy to be 'nice' guy, when in trouble, everyone will stand up for you.

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +9

      @@ralphterry3863 u forgot when all else failed, just threaten everyone with suicide lor. Only Xmm and Xdd will be taken in by him now.

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +7

      THIS. WELL SAID.
      Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
      Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
      As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
      The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
      It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
      The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
      I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.

    • @karlgan5247
      @karlgan5247 2 роки тому +3

      @@crystal2484 no wonder i always wonder how come the NOC videos all the same kind of little girl being featured one. WHERE ARE MY OVER-35 HOT STRONG WOMEN???

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 2 роки тому

      ryan insist it is not a crush but sibling relationship.

  • @tinea.8516
    @tinea.8516 2 роки тому +353

    Ryan destroyed her. They were husband and wife for many yrs. She may have her short comings but I think the reason why she's like this is because of him.
    You don't destroy the person that you love!!

    • @archangel323118
      @archangel323118 2 роки тому +53

      Yes! Really sad to see Sylvia getting the brunt of everything when Ryan isn't the angel he's portrayed to be.

    • @weeewooo1
      @weeewooo1 2 роки тому +23

      She is just trying to protect their marriage and not to destroy their company where they create together

    • @skhuathuat
      @skhuathuat 2 роки тому +8

      She destroyed herself. All the leaks so far seems to be from the employees and chats between her and her friends. Ryan could have contributed, but even if he did, these leaks are allegedly facts of how she treat the others.
      These leaks are just the tip of the iceberg. Remember that just as Sylvia has dirt on Ryan, Ryan also has dirt of Sylvia. Ryan hasn’t officially come out to say anything, if he does, I think there will be so much fireworks.

    • @saltandlightofficial
      @saltandlightofficial 2 роки тому +29

      @@skhuathuat If Sylvia is really so mean, she would name out who Talent A is. Talent A clearly painted a very different picture of what happened when she leaked out the screenshot in the blogpost expose no? Talent A painted the scenario to be a rape case or a sex barter trade but actually privately she messaged Sylvia that she had a good time. Sylvia is already being the bigger person by not leaking out more screenshots. If Ryan has any further dirt on Sylvia, what could really be worse than now? LOL. On the contrary, Sylvia may have more shit on all those who are jumping on the bandwagon to attack her.

  • @yieldm232
    @yieldm232 2 роки тому +1413

    Personally found it very disturbing how Ryan openly declares how Aurelia is his favourite multiple times while still being in a relationship with Sylvia.. idk how would yall feel if your spouse declared this infront of you? Lol

    • @pwen3220
      @pwen3220 2 роки тому +294

      Yeah. I think no matter what wrongdoings Sylvia has done, honestly no spouse likes to see her husband having dinner and sending girls home late at night on a regular basis. Especially if what she said about his previous cheating was true, he definitely didn’t do anything after to reassure Sylvia and protect their relationship while still trying to be a nice boss. While that doesn’t excuse her behaviour towards her employees, I can understand her grievances towards Ryan to be honest. Actually it makes me wonder if that’s the reason why Nina remained on Sylvia’s side the last few years despite being Ryan’s cousin.

    • @sakurazakinaoki3056
      @sakurazakinaoki3056 2 роки тому +3

      In such a company, talents usually will have their agent escort them home, I see nothing wrong with this. Also You have to see this from a professional stand point. When being married, it is about trust & understanding. My parents married for 35 years & they never have a problem when hanging out with their friends be it male or female. So this point is arguable

    • @yxinz
      @yxinz 2 роки тому +216

      @@sakurazakinaoki3056 Ryan is not their agent. He is their boss. This is obviously not right leh. When your SO spends more time and enjoys spending time with their opposite sex friend whom they openly says have a crush on and neglects you. Then you come and tell us how this is okay.

    • @yieldm232
      @yieldm232 2 роки тому +94

      @@sakurazakinaoki3056 fetching is only one thing, showing obvious favouritism and affection to someone else who isn't your spouse is another thing (as mentioned). hanging out with friends/colleagues of the opposite sex isn't the issue im addressing here.

    • @tadaa984
      @tadaa984 2 роки тому +71

      Ryan is soo fake....then will use suicide and depression as excuses to simp. Luckily he is not handsome. He is just trying to eat swam meat.

  • @kepo364
    @kepo364 2 роки тому +30

    ryan is still the co-owner and director of NOC (49 percent shareholders). if he wanted to pay the staff on time, or do things for the company, he can. In fact, before the divorce, Ryan WAS the one having the majority share. But the problem is: he doesn't want to do that for u. He only wants to gain ur trust I know he looks like this nice guy who always apologize.. but that's the signs of manipulative NPD. They buy u with his words and pretentive actions. NPD rarely looks evil, they always make others look evil. They create divisoon. That's why i didn't believe when people suspected Sylvia as NPD because NPD always lives in a 'nice guy/girl' facade.

    • @scchua326
      @scchua326 2 роки тому

      exactly what i wanted to say!

  • @pwen3220
    @pwen3220 2 роки тому +125

    Does anyone find it incredibly suspicious that the video has been out for more than a day, and there’s been zero public statements from Ryan plus his loyal crew now all limiting their comments section as well?
    They had no problems speaking up against Sylvia the last few weeks, but now that she’s given her story plus receipts they’ve all gone silent.
    What’s clear to me now is that the person/people running the IG account are the same group behind the blog. And if somehow the IG admin was privy to the fact Sylvia had filed a police report within half hour, this person is definitely not a neutral party or netizen but an insider close to this entire situation.
    If what Sylvia claims is true, then this is a concerted effort to drag her name through the mud - and we should be asking ourselves what their intentions are, and why does this person/group see the need to drag the whole of Singapore into this drama.

    • @honeydhydra3925
      @honeydhydra3925 2 роки тому +4

      We must wait... cos Saboking n his eye candies/gang are prolly thinking how to twist what SC have exposed. They'll need some time to discuss n attack SC back swee swee n make it sound convincing to the public. I'm sure they will do that.. We just wait n see what's their comeback.

    • @pwen3220
      @pwen3220 2 роки тому +4

      @@honeydhydra3925 exactly. If she’s telling the truth, twisting her evidence and claims is gonna take some time.

    • @musingwanderer2765
      @musingwanderer2765 2 роки тому +7

      @@pwen3220 yah if it’s not true, u will shoot back immediately with evidence. That’s how we all are when we are faced with ridiculous allegations. We will explode back!

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +1

      EXACTLY! Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
      Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
      As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
      The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
      It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
      The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
      I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.

    • @pwen3220
      @pwen3220 2 роки тому +2

      @@darkjediknight2923 actually don’t you think that Ryan is using the exact manipulation tactics he used on Sylvia with the NOC staff/talents now?
      He hid behind Sylvia by portraying himself as a bullied, depressed person and forced Sylvia be a bad cop to stand up for him. It’s obvious now that the screenshots were collated by a select group of NOC staff close to Ryan, and honestly, why would they organically do that unless someone was pushing them to do so? Some of these correspondence have dated back years. Why come out now? And because these girls have helped front this smear campaign, Ryan is now hiding behind them and letting them take the fall while he portrays himself as a victim of this entire saga. It’s fucking disgusting.

  • @shuxian5953
    @shuxian5953 2 роки тому +1502

    Not taking any sides but I personally feel, as a boss. You shouldn't be poaching on young female talents whom you hired for ''work''. Worst, catching feelings for them when you're married and your history of cheating is disgusting.
    Do you know how manipulative and sick you're to do that to someone by threatening them you're gonna commit suicide each time you lose out? Narcissistic manipulative behaviour is deeply relatable. Especially when Sylvia mentions how fearful she is when Ryan was suicidal. It's true that you will do anything to protect your love ones even if that includes being the bad person.
    Sylvia might be bad, but Ryan isn't anywhere better. May peace find you.

    • @cassandrawong3175
      @cassandrawong3175 2 роки тому +64

      If your boss offers you this and that... It is an ongoing dilemma on whether you should accept or decline in fear of being in his bad books. And that's how Ryan is. Quite obvious he's been buying them over by offering them free renovation isn't it. But the public has failed to understand this from the very beginning.

    • @wildpasta
      @wildpasta 2 роки тому +10

      agree. the narc tendencies are strong in both (as far as we publicly know at this point lah, not diagnosing!)

    • @tadaa984
      @tadaa984 2 роки тому +18

      yes....Ryan is simp asf! Come on....luckily he is not those handsome guy. He is trying to eat swam meat.

    • @vunnox
      @vunnox 2 роки тому +17

      ryan's action is just like my ex

    • @shuxian5953
      @shuxian5953 2 роки тому +8

      @@vunnox Exactly like mine too!

  • @xander7358
    @xander7358 2 роки тому +67

    I think I'm beginning to understand Sylvia better after this interview... She married young, now she's much older and it must've been tough to see your husband constantly around young pretty girls, to the extent of even sending them home! I think that is too much. Maybe that's why she has anger issues?

  • @serena_davis
    @serena_davis 2 роки тому +59

    Sylvia, you need to love yourself more. Nobody deserves being treated like that by one's partner in life. You should not have tolerated it as long as you have. I hope your current partner treats you better...and I wish you all the best in becoming a better version of yourself.

  • @yangtzeling7468
    @yangtzeling7468 2 роки тому +391

    I’m glad Sylvia told her side. An explosive revelation and an education on life.

  • @flwrsintheattic7655
    @flwrsintheattic7655 2 роки тому +800

    All of the talents coming out to defend themselves by saying that Sylvia’s lying are just trying to cover their asses now that they are in relationships of their own. The fact is that all the time and money Ryan spent on them meant that he was spending less on Sylvia. All these girls knew it and the viewers of NOC could see it too. It is widely known that Aurelia is Ryan’s fav NOC girl.
    All these girls siding Ryan are very young and will never understand how a married woman will feel unless they have been through a r/s that’s 10 years long.

    • @hellotheregoodmorning6629
      @hellotheregoodmorning6629 2 роки тому +73

      Ya. I think she is a terrible boss but I feel sorry for her on the marriage matters.
      My hb and I have opposing views on this.
      I wonder if people who are defending her mostly girls, probably even married?

    • @flwrsintheattic7655
      @flwrsintheattic7655 2 роки тому +140

      Yes I mean let’s be honest here, some girls get jealous and throw tantrums when their boyfriends like an influencer’s scantily clad photo. Now put yourself in Sylvia’s shoes, YOUR husband is literally hanging out with these young and pretty girls day and night, prioritising their needs over the family, how would you feel then?

    • @juniorbee1564
      @juniorbee1564 2 роки тому +75

      @@flwrsintheattic7655 Yea, its like the sex life is already so bad and disastrous, and your husband in the middle of the night get some call/text and out he went to pick someone home. He failed to keep his boundaries.

    • @sabz4364
      @sabz4364 2 роки тому +8

      ya ok understandable but must mistreat staff meh? lol

    • @christina13llen
      @christina13llen 2 роки тому +42

      @@sabz4364 we are talking about 2 separate matters girl

  • @wndychng
    @wndychng 2 роки тому +252

    There are always two sides of the story. Shoutout to XiaXue for doing this and possibly 'getting into sh*t' after this.
    Of course I am as shook as a lot of people. I've found out just now (I'm from Europe) and it's a lot to take in.
    My opinion on this whole matter:
    - Ryan, being the 'sweetheart', asking for money to buy him out is the same as not giving a f*ck about NOC and all the employees. If he is THAT human and friendly, he wouldn't do this right. So that's sus. I want to see how the NOC staff thinks about this point. I also feel like it's a d*ck move about Reno King, but I genuinely think we need more of his side of the story and his intentions. I hope he is not trying to screw up his ex-wife and trying to take all of NOC to himself because of their personal issues.
    - Sylvia, being the boss. As a boss you can't be sweet. You are a boss, you need to be hard to your employees. Even though she admitted to not being a good leader, she does not gang up with people, but owns up to her mistakes. I think the divorce made her even more harsh as a boss. I mean it's also her ex-husbands company, the chances of lashing out are high. She's human after all. Happy she spoke up about the possible cheating thing.
    I really do hope it is all a misunderstanding. Sylvia gets all the hate due to the snippets of the recordings and has been portrayed as the worst boss ever. I genuinely hope this will clear up soon without more damage to every single one of them. Again, happy that XiaXue gave a chance to Sylvia! Maybe also an exclusive interview with Ryan?

    • @eigbiremolenstanley6331
      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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    • @yuxinart6456
      @yuxinart6456 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for this comment, I get to understand my thoughts better, I agree with you

    • @serirayna2789
      @serirayna2789 2 роки тому +1

      U dont have to be mean n gas lighting ppl who work for her ( if she really does that). Im just coming from a place where shouting and blaming is ok just cos ure stressed up as a boss.

    • @reinoteo8609
      @reinoteo8609 2 роки тому +1

      @lol then don't reply? Nobody asked for your reply either

  • @tta6370
    @tta6370 2 роки тому +219

    I don’t know why, but I can RELATE to the part where she talks about Ryan’s suicide/depression and putting up and look over everything bc he’s the husband and you need to protect them. IT FEELS ALL TOO FAMILIAR with personal experience. It’s easy to be manipulated this way, especially their excuses with women. Talk about a 10yr marriage for her, I’m out of my narcissistic abusive 3yr marriage(Wrong in all aspects covered with GOOD excuses). We weren’t lying to ourselves but we just believe in their excuses so deeply. It’s one of those, idk how you put up with it type of thing, let me tel you don’t know unless you’re in it, the indenial, VERY blinded and just forgiveness and sympathy/empathy on your end. They take you for granted as time progressed, lucky for me I get to see it sooner. The behavior is just a repeating cycle. You’re left with no choice but to leave (I MEAN IT) even though you love that person so much and would give everything(Yes lucky for me there isn’t much financial involved) There’s only so much to still try to stay positive about and defend them until you’ve reached your edge, that edge is LONG overdue. The only diff was that Ryan always has to be nice to people but mine was more extreme and straightforward type of person and he’s a smooth talker. I can’t imagine business and financial involved and everything in 10yrs like her. I’m glad she’s come out ok and not cuckoo.

    • @nhdsalim2114
      @nhdsalim2114 2 роки тому +4

      I feel you.. the same exact sentiment.. at least she came out ok with all the mambo jumbo she is in with that guy..

    • @lavoidjr1026
      @lavoidjr1026 2 роки тому +8

      Thank you so much for coming out with this... I also realised that this was a straight up narcissistic behaviour from Ryan because of my personal experience with a narcissist.
      I still fear of this narcissist that it still gives me nightmares...

    • @kikiong9682
      @kikiong9682 2 роки тому +7

      He's real scary right. Probably using his status as a married man in the past to make younger girls trust and spend time with him, while he complained to them about his marriage n sad life. Meanwhile, let the wife handle the sales and be the bad boss.
      Now that he got a younger girl as gf, it's time to take back everything and kick the ex wife.
      Why he cry during the divorce video? - probably cos he can't make use of her anymore emotionally. He can't make threats that he's gonna hurt himself to her since she's no longer his wife. He's scared that she might not want to be the bad boss anymore.

    • @tta6370
      @tta6370 2 роки тому +9

      @@lavoidjr1026 my soon ex-husband was a straight up narcissist. Narcissistic relationship 101. Stonewall, Guilt-trip, Gaslight, everything you name it he is THAT. Confusion over the years and still try to twist it around you in the end. The most personal things you share with them, they use it against you. The love I had for him and the things he did will leave a scar but it’s to a point where he’s a waste of energy to be sad about….. just worthless, not human, no conscience….. moving on, be stronger and be self aware of this type of person💀

  • @joycelim9923
    @joycelim9923 2 роки тому +5697

    This saga has the potential to be made into a whole Netflix documentary with the amount of CONTENT 🎥

    • @245kenz
      @245kenz 2 роки тому +8

      ikr

    • @yongyonf8781
      @yongyonf8781 2 роки тому +141

      I cant believe that this is free

    • @venuspark8996
      @venuspark8996 2 роки тому +37

      Nah. They're not worth the netflix fees wkkwkwk

    • @oliviaong2730
      @oliviaong2730 2 роки тому +1

      HAHAHAHA I LOVE THIS COMMENT OMFG

    • @maggieteal2472
      @maggieteal2472 2 роки тому +2

      Omg u have 666 likes😳

  • @yannnyannn5993
    @yannnyannn5993 2 роки тому +222

    Tbh I don’t really side anyone.. but I can feel her pain like from the way she talks… I feel she’s a person that’s hard to express her feelings. I am like that too… where u feel very helpless as u can’t express what u want to say …

  • @songtreemusicandwellness
    @songtreemusicandwellness 2 роки тому +56

    Much respect to you Xiaxue. You did a wonderful job interviewing Sylvia

    • @shazlol9683
      @shazlol9683 2 роки тому +4

      Thank u for being so respectful , xiaxue.

  • @resilientum
    @resilientum 2 роки тому +532

    Ryan’s constant need for validation from pretty young girls is (disgusting aside) actually really telling of how low his self esteem is. Though the low self esteem isn’t necessarily his fault, he’s fully responsible over his infidelity.

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      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому +1

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    • @idkbro_2126
      @idkbro_2126 2 роки тому +4

      This is kinda unrelated but I feel that need for validation is bc of his looks, like genuinely speaking, that's how it seems

    • @muahchee6892
      @muahchee6892 2 роки тому +2

      babe side not but i really love your pfp

    • @k-potato3593
      @k-potato3593 2 роки тому +10

      @@idkbro_2126 it isnt really his looks but more of his insecurities and neediness of love. If you see the chat receipts, he likes it and falls in love easily when people (esp his eye candies) treats him nicely.

  • @leeayan89
    @leeayan89 2 роки тому +1110

    Good to hear her side of the story. She is at fault for treating her staff that way, but the other party behind this whole campaign isn’t as innocent too.

    • @bobtan3323
      @bobtan3323 2 роки тому +33

      Yes I agree. Seems like both parties aren’t innocent

    • @madjangt4181
      @madjangt4181 2 роки тому +19

      I agree but she didn't even apologize for anything at all

    • @charlenelim594
      @charlenelim594 2 роки тому +6

      the amount of fuck's that was said in the video 💀

    • @kevintan497
      @kevintan497 2 роки тому +19

      Sgchickenrice gives evidence with no allegations, Sylvia gives us allegations with no evidence. Very big difference.

    • @jean-yj1df
      @jean-yj1df 2 роки тому +38

      @@kevintan497 The screenshots are literally in the description.

  • @phia8723
    @phia8723 2 роки тому +779

    I agree if u use NOC’s resources, reno king should be belong to NOC. This is normal thing in company.

    • @honeydhydra3925
      @honeydhydra3925 2 роки тому +4

      @@shiio6577 U meant OFFICE that she stayed in

    • @KeanLeo
      @KeanLeo 2 роки тому +29

      @@shiio6577 watch the video, and think before comment

    • @shiio6577
      @shiio6577 2 роки тому

      @@KeanLeo ok

    • @kaylasmagicworld1945
      @kaylasmagicworld1945 2 роки тому

      exactly

    • @QQ-ll4fd
      @QQ-ll4fd 2 роки тому +1

      correct. in a professional setting, it should be done this way. especially for managing manpower and resources.

  • @xsomili5501
    @xsomili5501 2 роки тому +52

    Sylvia had to deal with her husband openly admitting who his favourite girl was, and fetching the girls around, for what, 10 years? jeez

    • @pineaplejackson7275
      @pineaplejackson7275 2 роки тому

      Which explains why she was mean to some employees ..ryan would flirt with the female coworkers

    • @xsomili5501
      @xsomili5501 2 роки тому

      @@pineaplejackson7275 yea, any wife would be jealous and ofc angry, especially when she cant do anything bout the flirting.

  • @anjquilinderino6634
    @anjquilinderino6634 2 роки тому +162

    I almost cry when sylvia defended her brother, she's right, Sikeen if one one of the foundation of NOC.. Ryan is so full of himself

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +47

      R is also very ungrateful, without Sylvia and Sikeen, Ryan will probably be doing odd jobs with his background.

    • @royboon2128
      @royboon2128 2 роки тому +5

      sikeen so fking funny lor 😂

  • @grandscent
    @grandscent 2 роки тому +52

    GIRLS. My dad used to send my mom BFF home all the time and they cheated together.
    My ex boyfriend also sent this one girl home after every cca session. He was also cheating on me while we were together. They got together immediately after we broke up.
    ⚠️Never ever let your boyfriend send girls home.⚠️

    • @EE-oe8lu
      @EE-oe8lu 2 роки тому +1

      and if you do, make sure you are there in the car next to the driver's seat

  • @ABC-ed8cg
    @ABC-ed8cg 2 роки тому +672

    I have a diff view of Ryan now. Now then I know he’s such a people-pleaser and he has a pair of roving eyes. He can’t deny all that since he’d already cheated on sylvia with a waitress 1 year into the marriage.
    That’s the thing about husband & wife going into a biz tgt. After a divorce, things may turn ugly. As Taylor Swift said before-- the people who can hurt you the most are the ones who know you the best.
    It’s quite shady of him to ask his beloved girls to leak out the exposé in the midst of a negotiation of his buyout, knowing that Sylvia has always been protecting his image and reputation & wouldn’t think of exposing him. I’m glad she did.
    When ppl said there are 2 sides to every story, I didn’t believe it at first.
    Now I know those exposé are taken out of context, e.g. that they are really outdated-- Sylvia has quit smoking since. NOC has slack days and work-intense days, so it makes sense to have some days where the staff have to rush work in order to deliver it in a timely manner to the clients.
    In every household and workplace, there’s always a more decisive person who makes sure things get done & Sylvia is that person. I hope the saga will be over soon & ppl get to lead their normal lives.

    • @hellotheregoodmorning6629
      @hellotheregoodmorning6629 2 роки тому +66

      Ya pretty shady. And Ryan never stand up once for Sylvia.
      For the girl that had endured ur suicidal tendencies and ur ups and downs, u couldn’t even say “please leave her personal life out”

    • @Mrshauny
      @Mrshauny 2 роки тому +54

      Not siding anyone but I personally think Ryan is not saint either. If you noticed his ig story, he has been repeatedly reposting stories of how people praising him as the "hero" in this saga. He seems to want the public to paint a good impression of him.

    • @stylebent
      @stylebent 2 роки тому +11

      @@Mrshauny yup! I thought I was the only one who noticed and felt that

    • @pewpewpew1627
      @pewpewpew1627 2 роки тому +1

      This is so well-written cause it captures everything to a tee! 😍🥲

    • @lalalili3798
      @lalalili3798 2 роки тому +2

      good horse doesnt return to old pastures. they should have split the company after divorce instead of working together. all these excuses from the marriages ended up seeping into workplace. see what happened now

  • @hui2ng
    @hui2ng 2 роки тому +58

    i agree with Xiaxue's closing comments that those who are doing this to her are bad too. Very disturbing if the motive is what Sylvia said.

    • @merinang6692
      @merinang6692 2 роки тому

      Maybe they are jealous of slyvia that's why want her down

  • @andydrivesanastra
    @andydrivesanastra 2 роки тому +210

    I really like Sylvia a lot, still do. I trust her and believe her. And likewise with Xiaxue. The relationship with Ryan sounds to me like classic man seeks a "mother" in his wife as opposed to a "woman"

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      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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    • @eigbiremolenstanley6331
      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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    • @eigbiremolenstanley6331
      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 2 роки тому

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    • @lorcan8484
      @lorcan8484 2 роки тому

      Xiaxue hates men who do workouts

    • @quincy5440
      @quincy5440 2 роки тому

      @@eigbiremolenstanley6331 is there something wrong with u

  • @Honeymagmangospoof
    @Honeymagmangospoof 2 роки тому +440

    Ryan seems like a manipulative mastermind … got bored of Sylvia after interacting with all the hot girls in NOC.. now he wants to rob her off her assets , drag her to the mud so that she packs her bags and leaves with nothing . Wtf. Not saying she’s the best or most innocent but Ryan is sneaky himself and not such a good person after all hor. Anyone who screams “I’m good , I’m innocent” is the exact opposite of that.

    • @chauntelleong7402
      @chauntelleong7402 2 роки тому +6

      That’s exactly what this sounds like.

    • @chauntelleong7402
      @chauntelleong7402 2 роки тому +22

      Well Sylvia isn’t a saint or whatever based on the claims on her leadership. But can anyone ever list a boss that has conscience? Lol just sayin. I don’t find anything wrong with Sylvia. She’s just doing her job. She’s bringing money in. Bottom-line. Period. It’s business

    • @tadaa984
      @tadaa984 2 роки тому +3

      exactly.....Ryan is simp asf.

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому +1

      @@chauntelleong7402 exactly

  • @linyingwong5903
    @linyingwong5903 2 роки тому +486

    Just my personal opinion -
    Is Ryan genuinely kind or not I'm not sure; but he's definitely a people-pleaser with very low self-esteem and requires the validation of others. I'm guilty of being one myself but it becomes tricky when it comes to a committed relationship/marriage. There's a fine line between doing things to please others and actually developing feelings for them because they have in a way, fulfilled your need for validation. If you're truly kind, you would be kind to everybody, that includes your own wife, whom you actually should be treating better than other girls. If you fetch the girls around and refuse to do the same for your own wife, and treat other girls better than your wife in general, then something is wrong. It means you don't love and respect your wife enough to prioritise her feelings over your need to please others/feel validated/the joy and gratification you get from pleasing other girls. Yes it's arguable that you do the same to guys too but that's not the point. The point is in a marriage, you need to know how to set clear boundaries with the opposite sex as a committed partner.
    And please always remember that it's not anybody's obligation to forgive you for your infidelity. It's not demanded but earned. If you've betrayed that trust your partner had in you before, you need to put in so much MORE effort to heal those wounds and earn back the trust. Speaking from my own personal experience, it's extremely painful to forgive a partner and try to move on when you can clearly see that he is repeating the same behaviours over and over again. Crushing on others when you've a wife is clearly NOT acceptable. Yes you can be extra kind to other people, but do you see the amount of damage you've done onto a person as well, who've helped you through your low and suicidal episode; clearly loved you so to "tolerate" such infidelity, dismissal and manipulation for years. You're kind to others but you're selfish to the woman you've vowed to love and be committed to when you took her hand in marriage.
    Also, just want to add that calling your wife's brother "medically retarded" is extremely hurtful and disrespectful.
    As for Sylvia, I guess she was in immense pain having to see the same girls he had a crush on at work everyday and had to still try to contain her insecurities and pain. Over time, the mental torture probably shaped her into who she is today in order to protect herself. Perhaps, had she been working in another company where she doesn't have to see Ryan/the girls everyday, she wouldn't be treating her employees like that, not sure but who knows. But I truly hope that she can resolve the trauma within her and not project it onto innocent parties. Two wrongs don't make a right. Sam is a totally lovable and genuine person, I believe that remark on her was uncalled for. I hope for Sylvia's healing, and hope that all the people she's hurt will take time to heal too. :)

    • @arielyap157
      @arielyap157 2 роки тому +21

      Well said!

    • @spdjmc
      @spdjmc 2 роки тому +30

      Will give a thumbs up for an actual, effortful, coherent and insightful comment. Rare these days

    • @maxineaw8573
      @maxineaw8573 2 роки тому +35

      This.... THIS! A psychological POV of the possibility why Sylvia is what she is today. Perhaps the toxic workplace was the result of her own coping mechanism with the toxic relationship. What is important is that she is aware of her wrongdoings and taking action on it. All the best 💪

    • @jasminetay9820
      @jasminetay9820 2 роки тому +5

      I read this over dinner 🤣 but yes i agree with u.. the text msges if its real.. Ryan is in the wrong for calling Sikeen "mentally retarded" ... its like my day care teacher telling my mom I am stupid for being dyslexic no really she did told my mom that

    • @skirtrunning
      @skirtrunning 2 роки тому +2

      Well said

  • @tta6370
    @tta6370 2 роки тому +50

    I just read the screenshots. Ryan’s a 🐍 Feels like he’s checked out of the marriage sooner than Sylvia and not afraid of losing her so he could send any girl home 🙃 he gaslights her 101

    • @karlgan5247
      @karlgan5247 2 роки тому +5

      ^ this. And not to excuse her toxic behavior to the talents but honestly i get it. The jealousy and hurt drives her to be fucking nasty to those XMMs.

  • @yasirmummy
    @yasirmummy 2 роки тому +44

    I could feel her pain as a wife to always being told by her husband that he has crushes on other girls...it really killed her self confidence. And she became a strong and mean person just to protect him which is the only way she could look good as his wife... Poor lady..I hope you move on and find true love 1 day....

  • @Kevin-wr3ud
    @Kevin-wr3ud 2 роки тому +5747

    This has a longer runtime than venom

  • @pepethefrog3651
    @pepethefrog3651 2 роки тому +3796

    Also, I think it’s fair to only do an interview with Ryan also so we get two sides.

    • @VeeIPeee
      @VeeIPeee 2 роки тому +49

      Agreed!

    • @ricksonleonard7281
      @ricksonleonard7281 2 роки тому +199

      YES! Xiaxue needs to do an interview with Ryan as well

    • @aaronlim8898
      @aaronlim8898 2 роки тому +11

      Big Facts

    • @clhxlicious
      @clhxlicious 2 роки тому +123

      all three (ryan, sylvia, xiaxue) tgt in a panel best

    • @tadaa984
      @tadaa984 2 роки тому +7

      Do it together!

  • @alicejanvier2990
    @alicejanvier2990 2 роки тому +54

    i’m neutral in this situation however i have a question to everyone, specifically fellow Singaporeans: do y’all not recognise that Ryan has literally GASLIGHTED and MANIPULATED Sylvia into this person whom SHE doesn’t even recognise herself? istg if there’s one thing i can take out of this whole situation it’s that mental health is disregarded in singapore. when people break and lash out on their employees the internet immediately ‘cancels’ them and labels them as the scum of the earth but nobody seems to be looking into why Sylvia may be acting like that. of course, what she did was wrong, but to label her almost immediately is not right either…

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +4

      I am Singaporean and I don't like the toxicity, always scolding my family when they start to gossip on such matters. U can also read all my posts by searching my name here, I have defended SC all the way since the release of this video. I think my very first one is a post that stated I do not follow all the saga for the past weeks, only started when this video was released.
      Why should I believe information leaked from unverified sources? The toxicity needs to stop, it is a disgrace to our country, elsewhere in the world, anyone posting maliciously would have been reported by the public massively and the platform taking those posts down within hours but not SG.

    • @alicejanvier2990
      @alicejanvier2990 2 роки тому +2

      @@crystal2484 the way singapore deals with these things is quite irresponsible. it further highlights how poorly mental health is treated in this country. where i live, something like this would immediately be looked into once mental health is taken into account…

    • @alicejanvier2990
      @alicejanvier2990 2 роки тому +6

      @@attn. your response is a prime example of how mental health is disregarded. i’m not excusing her behaviour, like I said, it isn’t right. however, I would rather believe that mental health plays a HUGE role in this whole situation, as opposed to jumping on the hate bandwagon prior to Sylvia releasing her own statement. with all due respect, nothing you say can change my mind about this. people don’t just act the way they do, there’s always a reason as to why they act that way.
      i agree that she needs to own up to her own behaviour, but the internet has to stop being so shallow with the whole ‘cancel culture’.
      “I’m like this because of x” is something a person wouldn’t realise until it gets really bad. sure, she must be held accountable, but with that being said, she should also seek help, and have access to help, without the internet’s hatred.

    • @alicejanvier2990
      @alicejanvier2990 2 роки тому +5

      @@attn. not to mention, all the personal matters within their marriage that you mentioned could definitely play a role in her actions towards her employees. the sex, the family dog etc: things that happen within her personal life may very well cause an overwhelming amount of emotions which were bottled up, hence let out on the employees. like i said, i’m not excusing what she has done but if mental health was not swept under the carpet- this could have (not would have) been avoided.

    • @alicejanvier2990
      @alicejanvier2990 2 роки тому +3

      @@attn.you are right, Ryan’s suicidal tendencies should not be disregarded either, with that being said, he should be able to get help too. BOTH of them should. and of course she needs to apologise and be held accountable, but my point here was that mental health is a REASON (not an excuse) for her bad behaviour. and many people hadn’t taken that into account, especially with the whole “Ryan Appreciation Day” and such. Ryan doesn’t need to be praised. he had suicidal tendencies and pushed it onto Sylvia. he should seek help too, and the internet should support that AS MUCH as they want apologies and accountability.

  • @siran1714
    @siran1714 2 роки тому +77

    shows how much Sylvia loves Ryan but all the videos that are posted of her, she looks like the bad guy but we just talk bad about her and start blaming her without knowing the story and her explanation. Seems like she isn’t who you think she is. She seems like a really loving person and probably acted like that in the zoom due to stress?

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому +6

      yeah if the staff u care abt suddenly betrayed u u'll feel the same what.. sylvia's reaction is understandable. the blog didn't mention abt the time frame because it wants to hide the context of the meeting. considering that happened when ryan planned an exit stategy and even boldly wanted to form company, her reaction is very understandable

    • @bruhhh8326
      @bruhhh8326 2 роки тому

      Yes sticking out your tongue when ryan is discussing a problem is definitely because of stress

    • @bruhhh8326
      @bruhhh8326 2 роки тому

      @@kepo364 wowwww girls support girls no matter what

    • @loongty
      @loongty 2 роки тому

      I'm sure suspecting Ryan, divorcing and having alleged affair is showing your love for him.

    • @siran1714
      @siran1714 2 роки тому

      @@loongty yeah Sylvia even forgave him after he cheated on her with the waitress and did everything he wanted when he was suicidal because she doesn’t want him to suicide and she’s worried about him

  • @FinalSpace
    @FinalSpace 2 роки тому +530

    My conclusion: No one is a saint lah!
    Not her, not Ryan, not the people exposing her and definitely not the whole "cancel" culture....
    To be honest, nothing she did to them ruined their life but what people are doing to her is ruining her life. These people are even more toxic than her.
    This is my unpopular opinion

    • @dun12play1
      @dun12play1 2 роки тому +9

      Hmmm yes.. You're right.. This is an unpopular opinion lol

    • @monicachua2379
      @monicachua2379 2 роки тому +12

      I agree! #sendsylviasupport

    • @ericpeterson6822
      @ericpeterson6822 2 роки тому

      You are unpopular

    • @ChangeWorld4Better
      @ChangeWorld4Better 2 роки тому +1

      Staff might not be wrong because She might not be suitable to lead NOC to greater heights...work wise.
      Emotionally I think she have been under so much stress... She isn't wrong, she doesn't feel secure... Or assured by Ryan over relationship....

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому

      i agree

  • @TheZone1007
    @TheZone1007 2 роки тому +1648

    Whatever she's said about Ryan, it's quite believable lol. To some degree he's also manipulating her

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому +21

      @@kevintan497 huh? the screenshots are literally in the bio. dude

    • @Kani_maki
      @Kani_maki 2 роки тому +12

      @@kevintan497 stop being so close minded 🙄

    • @eggy991
      @eggy991 2 роки тому +8

      @@kevintan497 clearly didnt watch the video

    • @sissyfart
      @sissyfart 2 роки тому +76

      Some ppl are really able to play the good guy so well that its easy to make everyone else the villian. The person who portray themselves as weak gentle and kind are usually the ones we should be most cautious of.

    • @hellotheregoodmorning6629
      @hellotheregoodmorning6629 2 роки тому +20

      @@sissyfart ya true. I used to be that.
      Maybe that’s why I dun really like Ryan from the start. I see “my old self” in him.
      Especially since I always cry when angry. Always look like victim. Opps 😅

  • @grimjail9321
    @grimjail9321 2 роки тому +46

    From a psychologist's perspective, Sylvia said 90% of the truth. I rest my case.

  • @misschopalot
    @misschopalot 2 роки тому +37

    Ryan - I did not record the meeting
    Also during the zoom confrontation : conveniently and coincidently bashing out all bad things to Sylvia’s face.
    OBVIOUSLY it was planned guys.

  • @jenniferli1576
    @jenniferli1576 2 роки тому +1236

    I really feel for Sylvia when hearing about how Ryan treated the NOC girls. I may be old fashioned or whatever but I think it so inappropriate for your partner/ spouse to be sending home girls even if nothing was going on between them. I don’t not how to articulate this thought well personally if my hubby is talking to others girls like this and going overseas with them w/o me it’s already a huge red flag. Sylvia if any chance you’re reading this. Know that your feelings of hurt towards this situation is rightful and extremely valid. As a fellow women I feel so much heart ache listening to how you have to endure being treated like this in your marriage. Stay strong Sylvia !

    • @momocha84
      @momocha84 2 роки тому +191

      Imagine she needs to see and work with all her husband 小三s everyday in office.... mindblown

    • @jenniferli1576
      @jenniferli1576 2 роки тому +70

      Ya wtf ! And have to internalise all that for all these years.

    • @hannahcai2398
      @hannahcai2398 2 роки тому +89

      it's not old fashioned
      Its reallg a Big NO NO. for a married guy to do that. Like the girl is so flirty ugch

    • @hudzrammz5854
      @hudzrammz5854 2 роки тому +109

      with the fact u gave an excuse that sending ur wife is a 40mins detour and u freaking hate traffic. matter of priorities bro, whether traffic or not, its ur wife. u gotta prioritise ur wife 1st than some talents u barely knew. thinking of their divorce video where they got no quality time; if taken positively, the trip to send ur wife could be turned into a quality time mah. less is more. it juz takes effort ah. u can fetch here n there like ur the only "family/friend" they have but u couldn't put effort to not be calculative about sending/fetching ur wife to work speaks volume for me. peace.

    • @sharontan6815
      @sharontan6815 2 роки тому +73

      And there are still ppl standing out (guy somemore) saying Ryan also send them home what! Childish Bullies!

  • @BlackValkyrie7
    @BlackValkyrie7 2 роки тому +438

    This is the needed interview to hear Sylvia side of the story. It's very informative and opened the bigger picture. I won't be siding anyone after this. It's because I've seen the human nature of how one person can be labelled as the bad guy overnight by the whole village.

    • @poinked
      @poinked 2 роки тому +1

      tbh i don’t really care about how who cheated on who or who was bad to who. Nothing about the embezzlement was brought up in the interview, or the zoom meetings or her brother earning 4.5K. Basically all the things that were about NOC in the first place.

    • @jqxx2538
      @jqxx2538 2 роки тому +14

      @@poinked did you watch the video because it WAS brought up in the video. and honestly, embezzlement and what not are legal matters and a few screenshots from the blogpost cannot sufficiently prove sylvia guilty of it. sylvia is literally locked out of seeing NOC’s financials and THATS abnormal. the police is investigating this case so, well let’s see if she’s guilty of it.

    • @msms3737
      @msms3737 2 роки тому +4

      @@poinked watch the video the sections are labelled for you

    • @patong9099
      @patong9099 Місяць тому

      O​@@poinked

  • @IamNotJoking1
    @IamNotJoking1 2 роки тому +28

    If Sylvia met a good guy, and not Ryan. She will behave as good as other women. Ryan seems like didn’t giving her enough care and love, that what what a women want.

    • @kenchua3712
      @kenchua3712 2 роки тому +1

      Leo man has high sex drive😆

    • @IamNotJoking1
      @IamNotJoking1 2 роки тому +2

      @@kenchua3712 And the NOC girl just let him… ugh hmm

    • @kenchua3712
      @kenchua3712 2 роки тому

      @@IamNotJoking1 cuz leo man really good at hooking up girls with their one kind of charisma, not always looks

    • @88feji
      @88feji 2 роки тому +4

      @@kenchua3712
      He's able to get girls probably by pretending to be this poor little vulnerable man-child ... but looking at his text messages to his wife while married, he obviously have another side which is very taunting and uncaring ..

    • @88feji
      @88feji 2 роки тому +4

      ​@@kenchua3712
      Also, although they are divorced, she remains the one who kick started both of their youtube careers by coming up with the idea of making yt videos and she was the one who brought in the business side of things for the company for so many years ... so it rather unnerving that his response to Sylvia's current troubles has been rather cold and unsupportive saying things only to protect his own business , what happen to all those years of struggling together in so many failed businesses, and the gratitude towards someone who were once your comrade and benefactor ? He basically does not really care about her at all despite going through so many important moments with her and also her forgiving his previous marriage infidelity...

  • @jenlim1639
    @jenlim1639 2 роки тому +41

    I feel disgusted that the isabelle, Nicole, edmund, Samantha, baeradang, cherlyene, rachel, felica and Ryan who are in this saga acted like there is nth wrong when they could have settled this privately. Attention seeker.
    Is this how we punish those disgusting youngsters ? They think they can stir shit , gain followers and publicity and get away with shit. Wth? They should be cancelled for good else they would think life is easy peasy they can do whatever shit they want

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +3

      Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
      Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
      As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appallingly use toxic language about employees as well. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
      The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
      It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
      The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
      I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.

    • @yixuanzhang7438
      @yixuanzhang7438 Рік тому +2

      @@darkjediknight2923 bro you wrote a whole story on this

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 Рік тому +1

      @@yixuanzhang7438 You should see the length of my comments on Star Wars videos! Wish we had George's real sequels. Hope you had a Happy National Day!

    • @yixuanzhang7438
      @yixuanzhang7438 Рік тому +2

      @@darkjediknight2923 you too!

  • @royalehighsage52
    @royalehighsage52 2 роки тому +315

    I truly understand where Sylvia is coming from , and I feel like its severely important to hear both sides of the story, cancel culture in Singapore is so toxic, lets all please keep an open mind and listen to Sylvia too. :)

    • @eileen4695
      @eileen4695 2 роки тому +4

      Exactly, we understand much more when we learn more, seeing things in black and white and being fearful and judgemental because of that helps no one.

  • @TheScenefulOne
    @TheScenefulOne 2 роки тому +717

    im glad im not the only one grossed out by Ryan Appreciation Day LOL. fuck we don't even have a lee kwan yew appreciation day

    • @muahchee6892
      @muahchee6892 2 роки тому +20

      HAHAHAHHAAH U DAMN FUNNY

    • @xuanieful
      @xuanieful 2 роки тому +48

      That was just a PR campaign by his sidekicks. Yawns

    • @carissachng2825
      @carissachng2825 2 роки тому +9

      I didn't even know that exists

    • @ChangeWorld4Better
      @ChangeWorld4Better 2 роки тому +4

      @@carissachng2825 same - didnt know about it...

    • @kamlisa15
      @kamlisa15 2 роки тому +20

      Come to think about it........ lol maybe this appreciation day also staged one to protray he's v kind. JK HAHAH.

  • @snowydays1695
    @snowydays1695 2 роки тому +308

    Ok I see it this way... While Sylvia clearly cares about Ryan's feelings and has been protective of him from the start, Ryan doesn't care about her at all. All he does is to manipulate, gaslight, and destroy her self esteem, and now, even her career. If he does care, he would have stepped out to defend her immediately, instead of basking in the glory and reposting memes about himself. I mean she's his wife of ten years, doesn't it hurt him to see her being attacked by strangers online? The motives are so clear. Sylvia dedicated ten years of her life into this company. Taking away her fair share just doesn't seem right, bro... And if all these is true, its downright despicable of him

    • @kepo364
      @kepo364 2 роки тому +38

      exactly even his 'bff' bombibii spread rumours that sylvia is cheating... but they already separated at the time. as a good man with integrity, he should have stepped in and draw the line. but he didn:t. i bet bombibii also knew they were alr separated LOL

    • @timtan5869
      @timtan5869 2 роки тому +17

      @@kepo364 I agree! And to think that bombibi has the guts to continue smearing even more shit on it really shows the character of those in Lion's Camp

    • @kikiong9682
      @kikiong9682 2 роки тому +9

      bombibii.. Looks like an easy target for R to manipulate. Also she doesn't seem to be mature at all.

    • @bruhhh8326
      @bruhhh8326 2 роки тому +1

      When you judge other people when you only heard half of the story

    • @villajoy654
      @villajoy654 2 роки тому +3

      Love became hatred, very scary.. N he is trying to show all his little admirers that he is the boss and he can take her down lor..

  • @user-yj7hs9tw1w
    @user-yj7hs9tw1w 2 роки тому +15

    As someone with a cheating father my intuition never likes ryan :/ and now i dont like him even more

  • @Jessingly
    @Jessingly 2 роки тому +511

    I want to address the "Regardless, the employee mistreatment isn't right" comment.
    Looking at this whole scandal, you guys can at least understand why companies frown upon office couples, especially one where they work closely together in the same department.
    I am in a relationship with someone who is in the same company and department (this is the heiracy, him, me, followed by other employees). I want to give my insights into how this works. There are times where I see him get along too well with female colleagues (Not at Ryan's level tho lol), cause you see the interactions first hand. I get jealous but I don't act on it, because we are expected to be professional and not mix emotion and work. And fortunately I am good at this. I can have massive argument with him 5 min before office meeting (he is in the meeting as well) and pull my emotion out. But here's the thing, how often are you able to pull your emotion out to remain unaffected to create that so called professionalism when you face those problems every single day and watch your husband out-of-the-norm behaviour with the girls that he isn't even trying to hide? I can tell you, if you are a human with normal emotion, it's almost impossible unless you are a psychopath, because your emotion would need to be dead to remain objective at work and not lash out to anyone which is the cause of all this employee mistreatment. Even for me, its often only possible because I have emotional detachment issue. What about those with normal functioning emotion?
    The only thing Sylvia did wrong is that she should not have been in the same company as Ryan. There's 101 other things she could have done to prevent the situation from escalating to this point, but none that's actually in Sylvia's favour in the first place. Ryan's protection of the NOC girls that he favoured has caused him to be rude to Sylvia and undermine her authority as acting CEO. Have you ever seen a company's Director scolding his CEO infront of the lower employees because the CEO is trying to ensure the lower employee did her job? What's so hard about putting a towel? Lol. Once or twice is not an issue but over the years? Sylvia lashing out to everyone is because she is at the point of breaking down and it's thanks to her husband. Please don't say she can just leave. Is like asking parent to abandoned the baby she work so hard to raise.
    Sylvia is as much a victim to work place abuse because Ryan makes her job harder by letting the employees get away with things. If we want to talk about work place mistreatment, Slyvia is abused during her work too then, under Ryan. It's just not recorded for everyone to see. This hasn't even include Ryan's mental stress on her. There is only so much a human can take.. Sorry for the long post, thank you for the time for those who bothered to read.

    • @Swswimmop-7688
      @Swswimmop-7688 2 роки тому +8

      “by letting employees get away with things” is valid if the employees are lazy and have made mistakes.
      But if everyone is already burnt out and all traumatised by her “leadership”, I don’t think the hard approach (bad cop) is the right approach.
      Yes, she have to deal with sales and clients. But if her staff is unable to take up such a high workload then it’s only right to increase manpower, and be understanding towards them, instead of saying that the team is not performing and because ryan is an “incompetent leader”.
      As an employee myself, working my guts out for the company only for the boss to say “you’re not working hard enough” brings the team morale down and makes me question if my boss even care about my well being.
      Looking at all the screenshot and recordings, answer is, Sylvia doesn’t care. She only see herself being a victim in her own marriage, and not her staff being victims under her leadership. That’s the worst kind of boss to be under.

    • @Jessingly
      @Jessingly 2 роки тому +32

      @@Swswimmop-7688 Agree. Tbh, Sylvia is not exactly your examplary boss. That's also why she is so rough with language as well. But its tough to pin point each situation as well because every thing is too intermixed and everything linked to everything. But it is also tough managing young employees especially your husband isn't actually on your side supporting you. If he is there, calm her down, show a good example, at least Sylvia doesn't have to act like a monster.

    • @cashmerehazel21
      @cashmerehazel21 2 роки тому +15

      @@Swswimmop-7688 From the screenshots and videos, we can't prove that the employees are not lazy and not making mistakes. We saw some instances of Sylvia stepping in to correct some mistakes repeatedly for her employees. Saying the team is not performing is subjective but it's not fair to *not* publish the other parts of the video where she might have said other teams are doing well. If the whole company's employees are always doing badly, then how did NOC achieve what it has?
      Like what Sylvia mentioned, there are crunch times and peak periods in a year. If every time an employee claims to be overworked and the company hires someone, does it mean you need to keep employees around throughout the year while they sit idle during non-peak seasons? Or do you fire them as and when you don't need them? Contract staff is an option and I think NOC is already using them. Even though there are laws which protect employees beyond working certain number of hours in a week, there's also many employees in the job market who would want to willingly work more so long they are compensated for the extra hours.
      Ryan could indeed be an incompetent leader but we would not know for sure in those circumstances. So neither should we defend him by saying it's harsh to call him "an incompetent leader". A boss has a right to call out poor performance and in any case, though her intonation is crass, she's not wrong to give feedback on an employee (since Ryan claims he's not a director).

    • @SugarSweet1897
      @SugarSweet1897 2 роки тому +19

      ​@@Swswimmop-7688 Yea, Sylvia has a terrible mouth and I'd hate to be working under her. But at least she's acknowledged those as actions in the past and that she is currently taking measures to change that. We do not know of her behaviour now, but she did say it was interlinked with heavy smoking which she has quit, and is now seeing a therapist to manage her mental health, all of which are measures taken to soothe her temper.
      Though, even at her worse, I don't think she was as bad as Ryan. If I were to pick between the two evils, I'd rather work under a boss that lashes out and overworks me over one who makes suggestive advances towards younger (often teenage) employees. Sylvia's situation is just more relatable to many since instances of a temperamental boss are way more common, but I'd damn well take her temper than disgustingly ruin a marriage in the workplace.

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 2 роки тому +2

      yeah lmao, it could also be why she was so harsh on certain employees because shes def up her own husband is crushing on them and she cant do anything. Sure it might have been dumb to target them instead of ryan but ryan is also the co founder so she cant do anything to.him

  • @momocha84
    @momocha84 2 роки тому +75

    Ppl can see why Sylvia so fierce now - Ryan SERIALLY cheats on her physically and EMOTIONALLY.
    You expect her to see these ladies everyday and be nice to them ar? Wth

    • @muahchee6892
      @muahchee6892 2 роки тому +7

      and they want her to apologise to xmm sam which ryan had an interest in? i think that’s the reason why she resorted to step down as a talent instead.

    • @pishpake587
      @pishpake587 2 роки тому +1

      True sia..

    • @selenaleong80
      @selenaleong80 2 роки тому +2

      It is the most humiliating thing leh. So know ur husb interested in ur talents but have to face them everyday. It is only natural to dislike them.

  • @gin8103
    @gin8103 2 роки тому +53

    I’m so glad Xiaxue RELEASED this video and shed light on this problematic and tricky problem, and Sylvia for being so fucking brave and speak about this, This VIDEO NEEDS TO BE SHARED. I honestly think now that it’s been so hard on Sylvia and people are not making it better by making up serious false accusations about her. Sylvia, my heart is with you, we can get through this together!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @junophelia5512
    @junophelia5512 2 роки тому +132

    There have been many instances where married men become friends with women, but I feel that women should set boundaries and keep a distance from married men, vice versa. To those talents - Would it bother you if your significant other being affectionate with another woman, always hanging out with another woman which he claims as ‘good/best friend’?

    • @TheHunkyMuscles
      @TheHunkyMuscles 2 роки тому +10

      Shouldn’t one’s spouse be one’s soul mate and best friend? Ok sometimes a guy can have bro and other male best friend that he grew up with or knew a long time ... but being best friends with several, opposite sex, younger girls possibly with almost ten year age gap in some cases, and ... they are your staff !!! .... so something to think about. Is this appropriate? And is this clearLy inappropriate? Is it reasonable to expect one’s spouse to accept it?

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly. Well said.
      Really used to enjoy their content and really shocked and disappointing to see the way some of them behave now and NOC in chaos. I think after this latest, it’s becoming more clear that this has been a lowly, gutter level and deliberate smear campaign. Whatever the toxic language used by Sylvia, that is a totally separate thing to slandering her persona/character in the mud via trial by mob. Goes to show that a particular camp - some of whom MAY have embarked upon this “revolution” with noble intentions - are more interested in destroying her, discrediting her and ultimately carry out a coup at NOC, or cause its destruction for nefarious ends. A lot of people haven’t impartially and calmly analysed and read even half of the various “exposes” before forming opinions (from both so called camps).
      Before this video, the name calling of Samantha indeed was unacceptable. The other spurious slander about Sylvia was nothing to do with being a toxic boss, or pay. Yet many of those lambasting Sylvia remained eerily and noticeably silent. That was unbecoming of people supposedly purely concerned about workplace conditions. Such things about work conditions should have been taken up with the authorities if anything serious was seriously happening. In addition, leaking various confidential information about finances is immoral and a serious violation of privacy and business/accounting laws. I frankly find it appalling that many people who rose to fame, or gained much more popularity, primarily because of NOC itself would resort to such underhand, dishonourable and gutter level behaviour. In the end, they would bring the whole building crashing down not only on the CEO, but on themselves as well. Cutting off the nose to spite the face. Mutually assured self destruction. Sylvia certainly has to apologise for abusive/blunt name calling. But the rest of it, to dehumanise only her reeks of double standards. Now, those who shamelessly and mercilessly attacked and smeared her, or who by their silence condoned it, are not keen on the situation being reversed and their own personal character, moral fibre and actions being called into question! What is good for the goose is good for the gander! You don’t make new friends by destroying old ones. Many of the talents seem to have forgotten where they came from. If they truly disliked the place, and left then get on with your life. Why the hell engage in this gossip and campaign of destruction?
      As far as finances go, like you all pointed out, doesn’t look like there is an issue with the house, or brother. Paying employees is a factor that BOTH owners are responsible for. Not just Sylvia, but Ryan also. He himself was shown to appealing use toxic language about employees. Unacceptable. Yet one side accepted a half ass apology from him on that.
      The smear campaign seems to have been mostly countered in this interview. Indeed, Sylvia seems like she was bad, but did not violate the law, nor was she the true villain in this saga. Ryan’s behaviour was despicable. Seriously wtf! The way he speaks is crass, disrespectful and insane. Who talks to anyone like that, let alone your spouse? Driving home others, spending resources on others, toxic gaslighting etc. How can any of these talents truly defend all that unless they are seriously dense? Disappointed in the NOC girls who actually think this was acceptable. How would they feel if their boyfriends did that to them? Would they seriously go “Oh his relationship with them is so innocent, appropriate and nothing wrong.” And cheating, good god. The context now becomes much clearer. Michelle and Ryan contradict each other as well. How can anyone ONLY criticise Sylvia, when Ryan’s business behaviour was inappropriate, unprofessional, unproductive and in many ways far more toxic than her? Aurelia sounds like she really is dumb if she doesn’t grasp that the relationship was not appropriate in many ways. Disappointed in Rachel tbh as well. Girl or guy, whichever way round, it’s wrong on so many levels. Some have responded claiming “they’re old enough to know” - really? Yet not old enough to know that a guy/woman usually doesn’t put in that much effort for anyone outside his family unless he/she fancies them. Ryan didn’t even do that stuff for his wife. Is anyone - man or woman - THAT oblivious? Companies usually can pay for taxis as well. Hell even hire a bus! Seems like he probably wouldn’t even pass the salt across the table for her, but would most likely drive to KL to send home a female employee. Doesn’t a boss have more important things to do? Especially with deadlines?
      It speaks volumes that Ryan tried to backdate a resignation during the whole legal dispute and the formation of the elephant in the room Reno King. Think why! So who is the true person guilty of dereliction of duty? None other than him. Sylvia is someone who spoke poorly to employees. Ryan duped employees pretending to be the good guy here, when plot twist, he’s the villain. The smear campaign also selectively shows things without context. We would have to see the full team meeting and know the situation being discussed before passing judgement. Otherwise, anyone could show a short two minute clip of Palpatine speaking of the “moral decay of the Republic” and project him as the hero. Missing out the entire context over 6 episodes where he actually manipulates everyone to attain absolute power, wipe out the noble Jedi knights and create a Death Star to destroy planets!
      The whole thing now seems like a smear campaign/financial conspiracy regarding NOC and Reno King. Those who slandered based on private matters now don’t like it when it’s on the other foot. Not only are they immoral, not only do they dish it out and can’t take it, but their coup was completely incompetent as well. Disappointed and disillusioned as I used to really love that channel.
      I’m not surprised why NOC employees - or whichever talents are left - or her friends/employees are not speaking out for Sylvia, since you are effectively asking them to jump out of the trench and onto no man’s land to take on a lynch mob who may or may not even be willing to listen. Hope that some NOC girls who I truly respected stay out of this mess and something good comes out of this. But what a way to destroy a company which - even for those who didn’t like their channel - was a trailblazer in many ways.

    • @darkjediknight2923
      @darkjediknight2923 2 роки тому +1

      @@jkbpower9 disappointed in Rachel I guess. I thought she was better than that. I get what you’re saying, but this is like finding out that Hermione, or Obi Wan is actually evil.

    • @misschopalot
      @misschopalot 2 роки тому

      I can’t accept at all.

    • @MsLabisi
      @MsLabisi 2 роки тому

      exactly

  • @daisyday5037
    @daisyday5037 2 роки тому +1042

    I feel for Slyvia. Ryan seems to be the kind of Passive Aggressive sort, on the outside pretend to be kind and everything and at the back is putting blame on others. There is no such thing as “kindness” at work. You gotto set clear boundaries that’s fair and clearly understood.

    • @dudeman9240
      @dudeman9240 2 роки тому

      Why are these faces so scary bro?

    • @musingwanderer2765
      @musingwanderer2765 2 роки тому

      @ソフィア Momo amen, ppl do try to take advantage of kindness

    • @SM-ul9er
      @SM-ul9er 2 роки тому

      Hahaha no kindness at work? You need to look at where you work or how you run your work. Kindness is inate not something you feel that should or should not be given

    • @daisyday5037
      @daisyday5037 2 роки тому

      S M yes kindness and also clear guidance and boundaries. Otherwise it is just a chaos

    • @SM-ul9er
      @SM-ul9er 2 роки тому

      Yes totally I think you can have boundaries but still be kind. They're not mutually exclusive unless 1 you are naturally an unkind person or 2 you conciously choose be unkind cos of your job. Neither one is ok

  • @asterechen3048
    @asterechen3048 2 роки тому +1188

    Found it super weird that as business partners he wasn't even attempting to salvage or defend her/their business. Instead he was all planned to distance himself away from the saga. It was too coincidental that every thing is clashing with their divorce meetings. And red flags are so aplenty in their relationship. Ryan telling her he has a crush on Aurelia, Joanna and Michelle making advances on him. Emotional cheating is just so scary, and funny how he would drive Aurelia back home when he couldn't even fetch his own wife. I can relate to how Sylvia must have felt and also when Ryan repeatedly threatened suicide and threatening to record her. It is just sad that a toxic relationship has to be placed out for the world to see and judge and to cancel when we at the start only knew Ryan's side of the story. As for the cheating, how is it valid that Sylvia cheated when they had a separation agreement dated 2017? All these said, Sylvia might not be a good boss since people are coming out against her. However, for those people who fueled the hate with assumptions and lies, how are they any better? IMO, we all rushed to cancel Sylvia. Is it time to cancel Ryan now since he is so toxic as well?

    • @trivialove1230
      @trivialove1230 2 роки тому +48

      well said

    • @asterechen3048
      @asterechen3048 2 роки тому +37

      @@sandyeo their separation as seen in ss is 2017. She encouraged them to go with him in 2019. I don't see fault in there and I don't feel like she suggested he cheated on her. The only suggestion he cheated was when she spoke of other noc girls like the ones I had mentioned above.

    • @asterechen3048
      @asterechen3048 2 роки тому +17

      @@kevintan497 got screenshots eh! I feel like when you piece their stories together is just like 2 toxic people and a failed relationship with many other friends and ppl trying to take part in a toxic game of ruining the other party.

    • @ChangeWorld4Better
      @ChangeWorld4Better 2 роки тому +1

      @@asterechen3048 one question though, I only saw that ryan admitted on love letter, and said some is eye candies (Jo, Aurelia) and openly told sylvia about what michelle did while drunk....
      Is there any proof on others (beside love letters)

    • @IamNinjaOfNinja
      @IamNinjaOfNinja 2 роки тому +41

      and the bimbos are still denying these in their latest IG stories.. lol

  • @jiayingcute
    @jiayingcute 2 роки тому +43

    Using my instinct, before this interview I have always sided Sylvia. Yes just instinct. Nothing can happen for NO REASON. It is weird to see her behaving that way, that way as in how she treated her employees and Ryan. I dislike people who cannot set healthy boundaries especially when you are still in a relationship. Obviously one is a narcissist and another an empath. Nope, Sylvia ain’t the narcissist. It’s Ryan. She has been tolerating for SO LONG. Is Ryan still a man? Is he a man? yes what is a man?
    Not saying Sylvia isn’t wrong at all. She is not as well versed when making employees like her, as compared to Ryan. He is only focus on making relationships with anyone but Sylvia. As a Capricorn, I totally can understand why she chose to stay silent all these years. She has sacrificed her well-being, mental state, for the overall outlook of the company and even the marriage. Always looking at the big picture. In fact most women are facing the same issues as her right now. Keeping quiet when their husbands are out with other females. They choose long term harmony over their own sacred happiness. We all should love ourselves more. Love ourselves first. But not at the expense of others’ happiness and not resorting to underhand means and manipulation!

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +6

      Me too, I couldn't understand why but now that she said he is suicidal, it all makes sense to me.

  • @zhengya1004
    @zhengya1004 2 роки тому +38

    Hope Sylvia finds a real reliable and responsible man, coz she deserves better. She is a hero, Ryan only hides behind his girls and is such a coward.

  • @Neverlandgurl33
    @Neverlandgurl33 2 роки тому +2938

    Totally understand Sylvia’s views on Ryan’s closeness with females. Generally speaking once you’re in a committed relationship, both partners must have boundaries with the opposite gender no matter how dear the friends may be :/

    • @phia8723
      @phia8723 2 роки тому +272

      I felt Ryan is too close with all the girls too. Keep heard that he paid for girl A, girl B, etc. but well Sylvia also in wrong side. Both are the same.

    • @WeeHooTM
      @WeeHooTM 2 роки тому +102

      And does that justify her action for mistreating her workers? :)

    • @JG-gf5vj
      @JG-gf5vj 2 роки тому +48

      @@WeeHooTM technique to distract the public XD

    • @natashalow3569
      @natashalow3569 2 роки тому +86

      @@WeeHooTM it is a totally different issue ?

    • @lzy1044
      @lzy1044 2 роки тому +17

      yep if slyvia made a fuss n not insist on them being the perfect couple, the boundaries wld hv been clear. but i think at tt point, their marriage is also gone case. it cld also be him wanting to be the nice guy alw.

  • @xidello9898
    @xidello9898 2 роки тому +89

    Plot Twist
    I knew it , Sylvia is evil towards workers but Ryan is the real PURE EVIL 😈
    All those planning and manipulating . 10 years of marriage , and just because you want full ownership of the company and you went all out to destroy Sylvia's life . Omg I am literally having goose bumps. Salute to most evil planning 2021

  • @evelynpuah3198
    @evelynpuah3198 2 роки тому +57

    Finally, I’m thankful that Sylvia has a platform to say her side of the story. We need to hear both sides of the story. And may the truth be revealed.

  • @bill7064
    @bill7064 2 роки тому +76

    If you have not run a successful business like NOC, you have no right to judge Sylvia. Every successful business needs a tough leader and honestly what she said in those videos are not even that derogatory, they are harsh, but definitely not derogatory imo. Meanwhile, Ryan calling Sylvia's brother names at his back is such a low blow.

  • @rockingstar3534
    @rockingstar3534 2 роки тому +530

    She may not be the smartest boss with high EQ. But for sure Ryan is not any better too. Guys like him who uses his position as boss to be surrounded by girls are very common. If he cheated before is real. His actions clearly shows he is doing it again.

    • @Kevin-ol7gj
      @Kevin-ol7gj 2 роки тому +2

      Sylvia cheated too, so it's not just about eq

    • @doryfishie2
      @doryfishie2 2 роки тому +59

      @@Kevin-ol7gj Are you referring to the whatsapp texts in 2020 where she talked about some guy? According to the screenshots linked here, they began divorce proceedings in 2017. It stated that they were free to pursue romantic relationships as long as it didn't become public. So if it's anything after 2017, it would not be considered cheating.

    • @Lee-wr9ic
      @Lee-wr9ic 2 роки тому +70

      @@Kevin-ol7gj Sylvia didnt cheat. They twisted the narrative and made it seem like she was (eg. Isabelle saying Sylvia cheated when they were at Taiwan), but they were no longer together at that time. NOC people really be manipulative as fuck

    • @yieldm232
      @yieldm232 2 роки тому +19

      @@Lee-wr9ic Isabelle manipulative sia

    • @ottosmiddletoe387
      @ottosmiddletoe387 2 роки тому +24

      @@Kevin-ol7gj she literally debunked that in this video if you even cared to listen.

  • @josepoh7944
    @josepoh7944 2 роки тому +1651

    Not justifying Sylvia’s abusive actions towards NOC’s employees, just sharing based on my personal experience.
    Assuming the part where Sylvia says about Ryan’s recurring suicidal actions is true, it is indeed very scary and manipulative. One of my ex is exactly how she has described the situation. When you are in that position, you will not doubt whether the other person is really trying to suicide because they have come so close to succeeding, you dare not take the risk. This is when it becomes manipulative and you (Sylvia’s position) comes under immense pressure. You feel trapped but not wanting to leave because you love this person, hoping that one day both of you will get over this.
    I’m afraid the employees might have become collateral damage of a very toxic relationship in this case then.

    • @beyumpie4423
      @beyumpie4423 2 роки тому +115

      I used to date such a person who always used suicide to get what he wanted until I was near mental breakdown. It is scary.

    • @lohjiawei5170
      @lohjiawei5170 2 роки тому +19

      This is so true.

    • @4lmondmilky
      @4lmondmilky 2 роки тому +186

      the screenshots in the description of him doing this is so triggering to me. And her talking about "if he does kill himself is it my fault" is SO fucking depressing. Out of everything with this interview, I can say with no doubt that shes at least a victim of gaslighting.
      Like, hate her or love her, no one deserves that. The fuckin mental gymnastics it puts you through for not only that period of time but for the rest of your life if you don't get treatment is horrible

    • @lohjiawei5170
      @lohjiawei5170 2 роки тому +69

      @@4lmondmilky I think not everyone understands this. Or most of the keyboard warriors who haven't been though this kind of stress or pressure. But it's really scary, and can't imagine how Sylvia is managing that

    • @sophiewillocq
      @sophiewillocq 2 роки тому +100

      Yup I agree with the collateral damage. I can imagine how resentful she must have felt towards these talents that Ryan favoured, yet at the back of her mind she has to constantly fear for his life if she lashes out at him. Not saying it’s excusable, but it could be why she took it out on them.

  • @eimusm
    @eimusm 2 роки тому +18

    Ryan is smart..
    1) Be the ‘good’ guy always
    - showing ‘care’ but obviously also not as simple and nice? as seen in msgs to destroy whoever - even though he apologised when found out but doesn’t change the fact that he is such a person if not found out.
    2) Act ‘victimised’
    - Charlene should be very afraid, she is being groomed as Sylvia was. Sylvia spent a decade married and year dating before and he always wanted to ‘kill’ himself, couldn’t bear not being ‘liked’ so she became stronger to be his protector ..?
    3) Dollars n Sense
    From the start it is obvious he is very much a logical guy and he didn’t even release the purse strings and it’s obvious she loved him more than he did her.. why? Coz she didn’t even have actual financial say even though shes as equally into Noc as he is, but suddenly the miser became so generous then this saga? the money’s usually spent where the heart is.. and money corrupts
    Honest Upright?
    - She doesn’t seem to be one with patience and probably thru years of honing protector instincts, have become more blunt and direct. But he is the one with obvious integrity issues..
    a) Affair - one two years into marriage
    b) RenoKing registration / biz arrangements
    c) Declaring how he’s not involved yet only when she shared that he is the sole director, he then quickly pointed back to say that she was the majority shareholder. But wait.. she was not before the divorce and he was the one who agreed to let her have the bigger share ? Why the sudden readiness to loosen the purse strings even to bum up her salary and giving her majority share when all along he had no qualms even when in love or conscience to give more despite what she has put in?
    As a guy he’s one of the worst not only to play emotional blackmail, devoid of shame to totally disrespect your spouse who even if no great achievement has put in great effort when you were nothing.. so he proudly proclaims himself to be Forbes top 30 under 30. Does anyone believe he achieved all that himself or if he’s even as nice as what his supporters claim, the award should be one shared with his ex who obviously out of love was totally shortchanged. And in years together wasted precious time, effort and life with a guy who is one of the worst even smart but all for himself and his little brother.

  • @mclucky2216
    @mclucky2216 2 роки тому +15

    Those girls at NOC, try working in the real world , see your boss will drive u home not ..

  • @liewscania7420
    @liewscania7420 2 роки тому +179

    Ryan is extremely manipulative and crafty to play the victim every single time when it should be a shared blame.
    The stories have been so well crafted to make him look like the "Angel" which I had my doubts all along.
    Also crossing boundaries despite being a married man in multiple occasions is gross.
    AND THAT'S WORSE IF YOU ALREADY HAD A CASE OF CHEATING.
    I would be extremely insecure if my SERIAL CHEATER HUSBAND loves sending pretty girls home.
    Sylvia had also been silent about the cheating issues to protect the image of THEIR company.
    Sylvia's actions will always still be wrong,
    but the way the whole saga had been so well plotted and also leaving out certain important facts is just FISHY.

    • @archangel323118
      @archangel323118 2 роки тому +13

      Yes, finally someone smart who said this out loud. All these dumb casuals just jumping on the bandwagon of "Angel Ryan" and burning the witch (Sylvia). There's always two sides to every story. Ryan isn't some naive, goody two shoes angel who's getting bullied by Sylvia.

  • @sebastianyeo476
    @sebastianyeo476 2 роки тому +188

    Ryan outsmarted sylvia. He is a shrewd businessman and he know his partner weaknesses . Exposed all her wrongdoings to remove her from the company legally. Everything happened for a reason.

    • @JasonChowTV
      @JasonChowTV 2 роки тому +18

      nah. its called evil, not smart.

    • @datascience1369
      @datascience1369 2 роки тому +4

      What goes around comes around for saboking.

    • @oliveoyl1802
      @oliveoyl1802 2 роки тому +5

      You mean devious strategist and shameless user.

    • @pinkapple6530
      @pinkapple6530 2 роки тому

      Snakes

    • @halcyon3685
      @halcyon3685 2 роки тому

      Money is the root of all evil

  • @itsthatsem
    @itsthatsem 2 роки тому +121

    From Day 1, everyone knows Sylvia has a foul mouth and that has carved a niche for her early years performing. Bringing it up NOW just raises red flags that this whole smear campaign against Sylvia is definitely premeditated and its a project of not just one person.
    Its very easy to judge a Sylvia according to the roles she's good at (with much practice being a bad cop 24/7) and we all know that is not the way.
    Sylvia should be herself and not be a bad whatever for anybody who wants to be a good cop infront of the company. And these girls should stop thinking about getting into the pants of the male boss to get ahead, try working hard and stay professional as its more rewarding long term. Remember girls, you're not going to be the next lady boss. You are all forever just a statistic and a conquest.
    And Sylvia, the divorce has been finalized. Time to move on and I am pretty sure there are real men out there for you who believe that a real man would never subject the woman he truly loves to this kind of embarrassment in public.
    Another issue - if anyone is going to commit suicide after this video, its not Sylvia's or Xia Xue's fault. Manipulating a person with suicide (more than 50 times) is way below the belt and a real man with real balls should never do that. Time to grow up and remind yourself that suicide doesn't solve problems especially your kind. I will provide you with a solution for your alleged problems - younger girls with big boobs and probably nanny wannabes who will entertain your attention seeking suicide habit. If you really have a suicide problem, seek help professionally, Sylvia is not qualified to treat such crisis as part of her life while also being an ex wife and a bad cop/ CEO. #IMH is a better choice than Sylvia and treatment can be subsidized by your medisave. How great is that!
    #Colgate Singapore, I personally feel that you guys have jumped the gun.
    Considering the fact that I'm still using Colgate, I have half the mind to switch to #darlie as I won't like to brush my teeth with a product that is associated with a company that is so quick to jump to conclusions. I'm kidding of cors, there's always #systhema.
    From my experience on body language analysis, my unbiased opinion, I conclude that Sylvia is the real victim of a calculated attempt to cancel her and destroying all her income avenues by a group of people which possibly consists of a good cop and his multiple playmates with big boobs, only.
    On a lighter note, Xia Xue definitely interviews way better and is more responsible than Oprah - for the Markles.
    Last but not least, Sylvia, you need to be less trusting towards your surroundings because some people working around you are obviously two headed snakes that should be the ones permanently canceled and not see the light of day in this industry. Don't worry about them, I'm pretty sure they will have ad hoc jobs to wash vehicles should the good cop decides to buy a mini van to ferry more female colleagues in future.
    Sylvia, you are stronger than this and you will and must survive this. I am happy to know that you have identified the culprits and I'm very sure you will be forced to grow up overnight. Someday you will look back at this and laugh. I promise you this.
    Good luck and we will be following the news and wanting to see you rise higher than before.
    New found respect for Xia Xue and love for Sylvia. #teamSylvia #xiaxue rocks.

  • @Isha-tb4es
    @Isha-tb4es 2 роки тому +309

    I'm no expert or anything but sylvia's body language and the way she talks makes you feel her genuine emotion. i never took sides to this but this video definitely made me feel for sylvia

    • @sachien1802
      @sachien1802 2 роки тому +31

      Team sylvia always.... I can tell her tears are real.... If Ryan's blood cousin can stand by his ex's side.... We know who's honest

    • @h4ter4real
      @h4ter4real 2 роки тому +1

      @@sachien1802 sorry to be nosy but who is ryan’s cousin? is it someone who work in noc too? i’m just curious hahaha

    • @buttermilk1909
      @buttermilk1909 2 роки тому +2

      @@h4ter4real nina

    • @h4ter4real
      @h4ter4real 2 роки тому

      @@buttermilk1909 ahhh okay, thanks!!

    • @IamNinjaOfNinja
      @IamNinjaOfNinja 2 роки тому +1

      and sgchickenrice is busy reposting people saying her body language is all sign of lying.. lol seriously... they all been fool with their acting by being all nice and calm, and when sylvia is confronted and being in her most vulnerable state, people find that she is lying...

  • @housheefukahh
    @housheefukahh 2 роки тому +613

    XiaXue's last question at the end for everyone: Sylvia may be a bad guy; she's clearly not nice to ppl and that is why this shit has happened to her, ppl are betraying her. But are the ppl who are behind this (from the context of this 2 hour long video: who may or may not have planned all of it) really any better than her?
    I think it's a good question.. I'm not saying that ppl cannot express how toxic an environment, people can and should. But after this video, it seems like the receipts were compiled over a number of years and filtered to show the bad side of Sylvia. And all of them coinciding with these legal proceedings that Ryan is caught up in. Idk talent or media industry at all. But I know a little about company law and finance standards. What he did in relation to RenoKing was clearly against company law. He used labour and expenses from the company (NOC) for his personal brand/ company (Renoking). Sylvia is right to demand wtv she is demanding legally from him for NOC's sake. I'm not sure how NOC (Xiao Wen) would have split overhead costs or if she even calculated the cost pools rightly in relation to all the shoots done with Renoking. (How many videos are there again?🤔🤷🏻‍♀️💸) It would be quite messy UNLESS Renoking is a related-party. Then she could chuck everything under RPT. But even then, it should be a subsidiary as Sylvia mentioned, which Renoking is not since the brand ownership lies with Ryan alone. So now, Ryan will be seen in the eyes of the law to be using company resources for personal gain. (The staff work for him but he alone is receiving the profits since their expenses are booked under NOC. It's not right and not legal. The staff reading this.. did you all know you might just be working for free under Ryan when you do Renoking shoots? Better check with him if your hours are counted under the Renoking company. Y'all should be getting two salaries in that case. You might say you willingly do it since Ryan is such a nice guy but, time is money la. I even charge my friends when they need my experties on stuff.) On the other hand, that means NOC should deduct the number of hours you worked for Renoking from your pay since your working hours are paid for by the NOC company. This is why I said it becomes very messy. Sigh. Anyway, all the best to the accountant. TL;DR I'm gonna rethink the whole "Sylvia is a shitty person conclusion since I only heard from the cickenrice account/zoom videos"
    Anyway, this is just my analysis from what I understood from Sylvia's interview. No haters please. I even commented against Sylvia on Instagram when the zoom video came out. So sorry about that, Sylvia. Truly, there's always two sides to a story.
    *I checked Renoking out.. it was registered as a separate company in April this year which matches what Sylvia said in this interview. RenoKing could be a subsidiary under NOC and that would have to be agreed under a Director Resolution signed by both directors. If there is no such document then Sylvia is telling the truth la

    • @chickenwingwong7655
      @chickenwingwong7655 2 роки тому +3

      Already explained, they have seasonality . They have alot of down time but also very busy work seasons, so working hours are as such

    • @shihaolim2059
      @shihaolim2059 2 роки тому +1

      shit thanks for this extreme summary

    • @housheefukahh
      @housheefukahh 2 роки тому

      @@chickenwingwong7655 oh ya, true that. Thanks for pointing it out. I'll edit.

  • @fartsyfucksy
    @fartsyfucksy 2 роки тому +1274

    great insight. i actually felt sorry for sylvia abt the cheating incident. when i read her messages with ryan, i completely understood how she felt. she wanted ryan to reassure her but clearly he's not giving her any assurance.

    • @Staaarrr1
      @Staaarrr1 2 роки тому +96

      as a girl that has been shafted similarly by a guy before i can really feel for her on this part. not commenting on anything else in the video AT ALL but i think many people who has been in similar situations can see the red flags in the relevant screenshots

    • @ChangeWorld4Better
      @ChangeWorld4Better 2 роки тому +46

      @@Staaarrr1 I agree Ryan didn't keep his borders w Noc girls but regardless it doesn't change why most Noc is against her.
      Work wise, she probably doing a bad job.
      Relationship wise, she know her borders.
      Work wise, Ryan is better.
      Relationship wise, he isn't that good at being a husband.

    • @Staaarrr1
      @Staaarrr1 2 роки тому +14

      @@ChangeWorld4Better yup i think it's impt not to see both parties black and white. not one person is right in all the matters and not one person is wrong in all the matters. each of them is right and wrong in different ways. though i can see why it's easy to conflate everything i think it's quite unfair

    • @skhuathuat
      @skhuathuat 2 роки тому +8

      It’s all one side of the story, but Ryan could just be a really good friend and boss, the sending them back from Zouk is ridiculous, but like sending your workers back after a very late night set is reasonable?
      Especially when you know you don’t pay your talents well, based on what I saw from the leaked screenshots
      When XX asked Sylvia if she has any screenshot proofs of who he has cheated with, she deflected her question with something else - questionable ?

    • @nottifray
      @nottifray 2 роки тому +9

      @@skhuathuat but what If Slyvia can show all the screenshots.. Maybe few hours later Ryan commit suicide be the top pick of the days.. and it will never end.. And Slyvia will be the same on those people did to her as all these days.. maybe?

  • @ShawnSmith-jy2wu
    @ShawnSmith-jy2wu 2 роки тому +18

    I saw the screenshots of their WhatsApp conversation and it really pissed me off how Ryan was threatening Sylvia with the meeting recordings and telling her that NOC is on her own and he would wait for his money. Didnt u say u love ur ex wife and will help and protect the company? Huh? What a piece of trash this guy is to let ur ex wife die and face the mess alone and still acting like the victim and the good person when u are totally the opposite of that. Ryan is so fucking disgusting. When this saga started, everybody was pointing fingers at Sylvia and calling her a villain which I thought so too but it turns out Ryan is actually the biggest villain of this whole drama. Im so sorry for misjudging Sylvia and happy that she can finally be selfish and truly be herself for once without this asshole using and threatening her. I think we have all learnt that we should never ever judge a book by its cover from this drama even tho this is a common saying. Thanks for the lesson.

  • @limzheqi6617
    @limzheqi6617 2 роки тому +25

    can i say this xiao wen accountant is not a very good accountant... lmao as a poa student this is a real life example of an accountant violating how many accounting rules

    • @crystal2484
      @crystal2484 2 роки тому +8

      ya, I am a qualified accountant, she should be stripped of her certification.

  • @ZhiYong100
    @ZhiYong100 2 роки тому +206

    Sylvia just makes the whole things clearer. Thank you Xiaxue for giving Sylvia chances to voice out ! It’s helps her a lot.

    • @reveirg9
      @reveirg9 2 роки тому +4

      Sheep. You listen to her one sided story and suddenly 'makes the whole thing clearer'. Can you actually think for yourself?