This man is so honest and wise with his life and family. Chaudhury is a joy to hear from about his life and his attitude about food products. He is a great witness to his culture 👏
Chaudhary is his last name; Raffique is his first name, as u will see his brother on this show occasionally; his name is also Chaudhary, so thats their last name.
@@ClydeW893 how judgemental that comment is. You have debased this fine man without knowing him. You have put him in the same cage as those men you have met and who have lied to you... If you keep living your life as you do and troll like this you will wake up one day and find yourself a very lonely person. Have love in your heart and believe people until that person proves otherwise... there are some beautiful people in this world and Mr Chaudhary is one of them.
My husband and I will celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary this year. Mr Chaudhary is 💯 correct - no marriage is perfect. It’s all about support, kindness, respect and love. It’s not easy! Mr Chaudhary is a gem of a man. Beautiful inside and out.
If every husband took his role as seriously as this, and valued/ respected his wife, and vice-versa, less marriages would fail. Can't just treat her however because she's stuck with you for life. If you stick a plant in the ground and forget to care for it, it will die.
@@PhoenixRisen63 I think the same can be said about the wives, if every wife was as caring and loving and supportive of their husband as his, the husbands would have an easier and more grateful time of being like this absolute gent. Love is not just a passing fancy, like modern culture in the west would so often have us believe. Love is just a flittering, fleeting emotion to us - but no, love is WORK. It's commitment, determination, will. "I WILL love you, even when I'm mad about something you said or did, even when I don't necessarily feel like it, because I WANT TO love you, so I'm deciding that I just will." :) Right?
Please don’t westernize this Nice man. We are so spoiled and Marriage has lost its value to many in a throwaway society 😢i had my mate for 46 yrs and we took the good with the bad .
Chaudhary is from my region called Punjab,People of punjab speak punjabi and honestly Punjabi isn't that difficult once u start learnin a few basic words it all starts connecting ❤
While I can't imagine not having seen hubby til wedding day, we both turned out to be the perfect match. We celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary, this yr. Stay safe, and happy holidays, to all
If every man in the world approached life life this, we would live in Paradise. Thank you, Mr. Rafique (and all your fellow TBT personalities) for making this long pandemic a whole lot brighter for hundreds of thousands of people around the world.
This is a Muslim mind state. If people inserted God's laws again and make forbidden what is bad, like porn, nudity in the streets, then everything would be better than now in terms of marriages between man and woman.
What a beautiful story. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes as this is the kind of love and respect everyone deserves. He's such a kind and gentle soul. What a blessing he is in this world.
Ditto to all that. It was extremely moving. The sincerety, the humility. The wisdom. I wasn't expecting such a moving, hearfelt, sincere, simple and wholesome story. He and his family deserve all the blessings God/Allah might send them. This is a MAN, with all his imperfections as well as his excellent qualities. Cannot thank enough his kind sharing. Hope the channel shows the other gentlemen stories as well.
He is a man to admire for his amazing humility and spirit. Not highly educated and lives a simple but hard working basic life. Appreciates the important things. He’s got amazing charisma. God bless this man and his family as he says to his viewers.
All I can say is "wow". Chaudhary is a wonderful example of what a REAL man should be. His wife and children are blessed to have him. And to think, his wedding anniversary is on Christmas Day!
@@rogermccaslin5963 if he's pakistani which i'm PRETTY SURE he is (but then again dont quote me on that) its also the birth anniversary of our beloved leader quaid e azam !! probably the most influential figure in our history and the one we're all grateful to he had the biggest role in the making of pakistan so even if he doesnt celebrate christmas that date is still special :)
@@Fuyumi I did not know that. Thank you for that information. I was really commenting on the other person's idea that it was some big deal that it was on "Christmas day" as if everyone on the planet celebrates Christmas. It could very well be a special day for him because of the birth of Quiad E Azam but almost certainly he didn't get married on that day because of Christmas/birth of Christ. Regardless of the reason for that date, I'm glad he's happy with his bride. They've made a good life together and that's what is important.
@@rogermccaslin5963 yeahh true, you got a point there its a bit rude to assume and yeah same! i'm glad their marriage and everything worked out for them and that theyre living fulfilling lives
This made my heart melt. I wish more people treated their partners (and the commitment of marriage) with respect and understanding. Much love to all of you!!
Tpt family I just lost my best friend my wife days ago we both love your content thanks for the experience of showing love from around the earth I was happy when you did the Philly cheese steak show per my request all I can say is thank you guys for your humbleness ❤️👍
They definitely do help them out in many ways financially. In fact, they even bought Rana Nadeem new teeth. In older videos, you will notice he has no teeth so tasting things were a bit of a challenge. Thanks to this channel and their fans, Rana was able to get a set of brand new teeth implants (not dentures). Plus they often receive gifts of cash and other items from fans. I'd love to see this channel grow because the more this channel grows, the more they make. Imagine one day they take a trip to another country! That would be awesome to see!
@@thecrazyhobo Viewers donated money for him to get new teeth. I think they meant other compensation. I don't know if they get anything other than what we send them. I know they don't have a lot of free time to waste doing things that don't earn them money so I'm assuming they get some kind of compensation besides what we mail them or what is donated through a gofundme for things like expensive teeth.
I was thinking the exact same thing! Do you know who owns this channel? I don’t think compensation is enough - they should be receiving an equal share of all income as the one who creates the videos.
I'm moved by the love and respect with which Mr. Choudhary discusses his wife and marriage. Many thanks to him for sharing with us and may Allah continue to bless him and his beautiful family.
It's so interesting that he sees it as only right that you should not meet someone until the day you marry them! And looking at marriage statistics here in America, who's to say he's wrong? Happy Anniversary Mr. Chaudhary!!
I've made lousy choices at times in life. I say I want my own choice but that hasn't worked so who knows maybe if I was to give up choice it may go bettdr
What a warm, humble, sweet and delightful man, Chaudhary is. He makes me happy listening to him and watching him experience new foods. I'm so happy for him and his beautiful family!
This wonderful man achieved happiness even without completing his education. On the other hand so many highly educated people always feel unhappy and unsatisfied. Education does not always equals wisdom. 🙏bahut sukhriya for your advice, sir raffique ji🙏
What a beautiful way he has expressed his wife and family his life his hard times his good times his wish for children I wish them continued happiness and blessings this is a wonderful family with the right values ❤
I am going to keep this and show it to my future husband and my future sons and/or sons in law. I shall put it into my last will, that it must be read at every wedding for all future generations to learn from this gentleman wisdom on what makes a good, happy and lasting marriage.
Glad Mr. Raffique found what he wanted out of life. He is satisfied and has a family that loves him. For young people who do not want to go to school beyond the legal minimum, please make sure to learn basic skills, such as cooking your own food, washing clothes & dishes, and how to budget your money.
School isn't 100% about memorizing facts. It's also about learning to schedule your time, giving yourself goals and sticking to them, and improving your problem solving and coping skills.
Chaudhary is a good, simple, family man and there's a lot to be said for living that way. He comes across as not just kind and decent, but also trustworthy.
Chaudhary decided to learn useful skills to apply to his real life rather than the basic education you learn from schools. He’s far wiser than most people with book smarts . He also was blessed with a wonderful loving partner! What a story and What a beautiful soul - the Chaudhary’s deserve the very best 🤩
I love this man, literally!! He has such a humble and soft spirit. I respect that he's so thankful for what he has. Us Americans have no idea the hardships and struggles these men face each and everyday! U.S CITIZENS ARE FAR TO SPOILED, WE TAKE SO MANY THINGS FOR GRANTED...After watching these fine gentlemen and seeing how gracious they are for so little that they have in their lives, it makes me feel ashamed of myself for the way I act at times. It's just not fair to see how very little they have, but in the same sense of how rich they really are in their attitude towards life. I too haven't had an easy life but no where's close to how much these beautiful people have 😭. My heart breaks that they have no running clean water, nor a restroom in their homes. Just since I've started watching this channel, I've/I'm taking a hard look at myself, and I'm changing my attitude!! What do I have to complain about?? Nothing!!! Although my life hasn't been always so good, I can say that I've been blessed beyond measure. I have two beautiful children and both have very good lives, and my grandchildren, amazing kids!! I was a very, very strict single parent, most of the time I was to strict. 😐 When I finally grew up, I realize that I forgot the praise and love that should have balanced out the mean person that I once was. I'm paying for it dearly today because I did some major damage to my children's lives when they were growing up. Not so much physically, but emotionally, and mentally 😭. It's taken a good ten yrs for my daughter to actually begin to like me. Anyhow, didn't mean to add in my own drama---GOOD GRIEF... LMBOOTYOFF 🤣. I want to send Mr. Chaudary and his family some gifts, not money but certainly some useful things for sure. Thank you all for giving us all a great lesson in thankfulness and appreciation...God Bless You, Each & Everyone 🙏🙏🙏. Please Dear Father in Heaven, watch over all of these men and their entire family ❤️💜💛💛❤️
It takes a lot of courage to admit your faults and your desire to change your ways. We all make mistakes in life. Some pf us learn from them and some don’t. Forgive yourself and love yourself and things will fall in place with your family. Your kids are entitled to have their feelings and the best thing you can do is acknowledge them and apologize however many times is needed by them to let them forgive you and move forward with a healthier relationship. Mr. Chaudhary is a living example that touches us deep inside on how to be a good human. I too love his kind, gentle, grateful and loving disposition. He is certainly richer in life than us for it.
This was lovely! It's so nice to see how much Mr. Raffique loves his wife and children, especially wanting daughters! What a good guy. Thanks to him for sharing this with us. Happy anniversary (tomorrow) to him and his wife!
@@solcastro9279 as a pakistani , i can gurantee that whatever bullshit you are barking is false. We Pakistani women were always strong and we have alot of educated beings amongst us and even villages are moving towards modernisation so can you stop stereotyping us and have some shame before spreading lies on internet?
Today is my Birthday and I really enjoyed this video. Makes me appreciate my life as my Dad is from the same background as Chaudhary Rafique, but at the age of 17 he got the chance to travel aboard and migrated to the UK. I always wonder what my life would be like if Dad hadn't migrated and I grew up in a Pakistani Punjabi village
You’re a good man, Chaudry. And yes, helping your wife isn’t something to be ashamed of, it’s to be admired. It means you care about her and your family very much. That level of devotion and loyalty from both the husband and the wife is what a good marriage is all about. Your kids are lucky to have you both as role models ♥️
What a very good man. Despite his father dying when he was young, Raffique has very good and grounded beliefs and philosophies. He and his wife have worked hard and have much to be proud of. 🌟
This man is a fine husband and a gentle soul. Someone who watches this channel who is a wealthy person, please provide this family with money. There are those who could send to him as much as he has saved his entire life if they wished. Please, I beg of you to do this.
He just had luck that he and his wife could get along, never meeting prior to marriage. That is usually not the case when people don't date long, nevermind marrying someone they've never met. Now imagine having no sexual attraction, not liking their personality, having nothing in common, cringing when they touch you, being fiscally ignorant, not being a good or emotionally healthy parent, or worse, having them be abusive to you and/or your children. That is why true wisdom is really knowing the person you are marrying well before you make that lifelong commitment, as well as truly knowing yourself and what you want for your own dreams and life.
Happy Anniversary to you and your wife! This was such a beautiful telling of your life and marriage. Western culture could learn much from your values and devotion to family. I enjoy this channel so much, and all that I am learning from you wonderful human beings. ❤️
Unfortunately, “western culture” has thrown these values and beliefs away, in exchange for what is referred to as “progress”, aka:debauchery and selfishness. And then they complain when they can’t find an honorable marriage partner.
I've always thought he seemed like a very kind and caring man. Those puppy dog eyes, you can't help but trust him. Nice to learn more about his life. Further proves the theory, "all the good ones are taken".
i met my dream girl and we were together for 23 years till she drew her last breath. we loved each other very much and it was amazing to be truely happy in the time we had. its never long enough. i loved her more than anything and will never love like that again.
😍♥️ there is so much love in this thread. I'm liking everyone of them bc I I'm enjoying the ♥️ and folks personal stories of love. Happy for you that you have had that experience. Blessings. And never say never. Maybe not the same kinda love as you shared with your beautiful wife but different & special. I'd like my husband to be happy anyway he could if I weren't around. I'd like he to be as happy as he could- new partner, hobbies, gchildren, work everything & anything that brought him joy until we met again. I ♥️luv, I don't know but it's🤷 💯
Your wife must be a happy woman. You seem to be so patient and kind - what wonderful traits to have in a husband. I wish you and your family happy days and peaceful nights.
Chaudhary Rafique has a beautiful outlook on his family, especially his wife. A caring, loving and wise man and it is a lovely story that he has shared with us today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
i loved his story of his new wife !! its a beautiful custom.. Amazing how it is still kept in many ways. getting to know her at wedding daay.. LOVE IT ! romantic as well as innocence >
He’s a beautiful man, inside and out. He and his wife are lucky to have each other, and their four children. I feel as if I know all our tribal friends, but Chaudhary might be my favorite 💕 Happy Anniversary to Raffique and his dear wife.
God has blessed you indeed, with a good wife and children, I love the way you think about marriage and what a wife means to you, brother, I share that same feeling for my wife and kids, may God continue blessing you.
I absolutely love Chaudhary. Such a gentleman. The world needs more Chaudhary. ❤️
Absolutely 💯
This man is so honest and wise with his life and family. Chaudhury is a joy to hear from about his life and his attitude about food products. He is a great witness to his culture 👏
You said that so well 🤗
Chaudhary is his last name; Raffique is his first name, as u will see his brother on this show occasionally; his name is also Chaudhary, so thats their last name.
@@Lauren-vd4qe I have also learned that in Pakistan, a wife keeps her last name, she would be known as the wife of Raffique
This is exactly the man I thought he was, kind, loyal, a great husband and father. You are the best Rafique.
But
👍🏻🎯💯❤
You mean. He's the man he "told" you he was. Men lie. Sheep believe lies as they get harvested.
@@ClydeW893 how judgemental that comment is. You have debased this fine man without knowing him. You have put him in the same cage as those men you have met and who have lied to you...
If you keep living your life as you do and troll like this you will wake up one day and find yourself a very lonely person. Have love in your heart and believe people until that person proves otherwise... there are some beautiful people in this world and Mr Chaudhary is one of them.
Same
His eyes when he talked about his wife...that's love right there ❤
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He never talks about falling in love with her like we would here but you can see that he does. :) It's nice when arranged marriages work out.
What a beautiful person….PLEASE let all of the guys give their life stories…..
Rana's story would be very interesting to hear!
Chaudhary clearly shows you don't need the riches of western society to have the riches of life, just the love and joy of your family! love this man.
We here in America could learn a lot from these wonderful souls.
So true
It sounds like his wife is the perfect person for him. It's nice to see the regard he has for her, and his admiration for her qualities.
What a wonderful man so full of values and ethics, his eyes always shine with kindness.
It is quite obvious...Chaudhary loves and adores his life's companion. A beautiful husband and wife team!
My dad passed away 3 years ago and he looked just like him and this is why I'm still here because of him
Hes pakistani
@@mustafayaqub9713 dude said "people of one ethnic group can't look like they're from another" 💀
I'm so very sorry for your loss, @Scott James.
He also has a Twin that is sometimes on this channel.
Have you seen the video of the “snakes in a can”? Chadaurys laugh is so amazing. I hope that brings you peace too
I Iove that, "your wife is with you for life, not just a few days." After over thirty years of marriage myself, I totally agree with Mr. Chaudry
My husband and I will celebrate our 40th wedding anniversary this year. Mr Chaudhary is 💯 correct - no marriage is perfect. It’s all about support, kindness, respect and love. It’s not easy! Mr Chaudhary is a gem of a man. Beautiful inside and out.
I cried while watching this. He speaks the truth, and every woman that decides to marry should have a husband this loving and dedicated.
He nailed it about marriage! Too many throw each other away like a piece of trash.
so many do not get as lucky as he was, some marry the wrong person for sure. I wished everyone had great marriages, sounds lovely.
He sure did. He always makes me smile. So endearing.
If every husband took his role as seriously as this, and valued/ respected his wife, and vice-versa, less marriages would fail. Can't just treat her however because she's stuck with you for life. If you stick a plant in the ground and forget to care for it, it will die.
@@PhoenixRisen63 I think the same can be said about the wives, if every wife was as caring and loving and supportive of their husband as his, the husbands would have an easier and more grateful time of being like this absolute gent. Love is not just a passing fancy, like modern culture in the west would so often have us believe. Love is just a flittering, fleeting emotion to us - but no, love is WORK. It's commitment, determination, will. "I WILL love you, even when I'm mad about something you said or did, even when I don't necessarily feel like it, because I WANT TO love you, so I'm deciding that I just will." :) Right?
Please don’t westernize this Nice man. We are so spoiled and Marriage has lost its value to many in a throwaway society 😢i had my mate for 46 yrs and we took the good with the bad .
I wish I spoke the language, I could have long conversations with all these guys, what a treat that would be!
once you learn the basics bro it's not that difficult. 👍🏽😎
Chaudhary is from my region called Punjab,People of punjab speak punjabi and honestly Punjabi isn't that difficult once u start learnin a few basic words it all starts connecting ❤
Knowledge is power. Learn it.
Very wise words, husband and wife should help one another, as marriage is a life long project.
While I can't imagine not having seen hubby til wedding day, we both turned out to be the perfect match. We celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary, this yr. Stay safe, and happy holidays, to all
Wow!! Congratulations 💜🙏🏽 Wish you many more
That's wonderful!
Congrats!
Congratulations! That's really beautiful.
Wow!! Congratulations to you both. May you live this with many more years together
If every man in the world approached life life this, we would live in Paradise. Thank you, Mr. Rafique (and all your fellow TBT personalities) for making this long pandemic a whole lot brighter for hundreds of thousands of people around the world.
what does this video have to do with the corona virus😂
This is a Muslim mind state. If people inserted God's laws again and make forbidden what is bad, like porn, nudity in the streets, then everything would be better than now in terms of marriages between man and woman.
@@Mohamed-ui1mv I agree
What a beautiful story. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes as this is the kind of love and respect everyone deserves. He's such a kind and gentle soul. What a blessing he is in this world.
Ditto to all that. It was extremely moving. The sincerety, the humility. The wisdom. I wasn't expecting such a moving, hearfelt, sincere, simple and wholesome story. He and his family deserve all the blessings God/Allah might send them. This is a MAN, with all his imperfections as well as his excellent qualities. Cannot thank enough his kind sharing. Hope the channel shows the other gentlemen stories as well.
Mr. Chaudary is a lovely man. Happy Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Chaudary !!
Not deserves! Listen to him. They both work hard for each other and their family. And respect!
It's because he's not married to a loud-mouth western woman.
He is a man to admire for his amazing humility and spirit. Not highly educated and lives a simple but hard working basic life. Appreciates the important things. He’s got amazing charisma. God bless this man and his family as he says to his viewers.
Chaudhary is a real man. He is a man's man.
Chaudhary's wife is so lucky to have him as a husband.
💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
And he's lucky to have her as well
@@beastvader That he is.
All I can say is "wow". Chaudhary is a wonderful example of what a REAL man should be. His wife and children are blessed to have him. And to think, his wedding anniversary is on Christmas Day!
You are what's wrong with the world :/ The superficiality is staggering.
Of course, since he's Muslim, other than it being his wedding day, December 25th is just another day to him
@@rogermccaslin5963 if he's pakistani which i'm PRETTY SURE he is (but then again dont quote me on that) its also the birth anniversary of our beloved leader quaid e azam !!
probably the most influential figure in our history and the one we're all grateful to
he had the biggest role in the making of pakistan
so even if he doesnt celebrate christmas that date is still special :)
@@Fuyumi
I did not know that. Thank you for that information. I was really commenting on the other person's idea that it was some big deal that it was on "Christmas day" as if everyone on the planet celebrates Christmas. It could very well be a special day for him because of the birth of Quiad E Azam but almost certainly he didn't get married on that day because of Christmas/birth of Christ.
Regardless of the reason for that date, I'm glad he's happy with his bride. They've made a good life together and that's what is important.
@@rogermccaslin5963 yeahh true, you got a point there
its a bit rude to assume
and yeah same! i'm glad their marriage and everything worked out for them and that theyre living fulfilling lives
This made my heart melt. I wish more people treated their partners (and the commitment of marriage) with respect and understanding.
Much love to all of you!!
Such a gentleman telling of his life and spends it praising his wife and passing on sage advice.
Bless your family Chaudhary Raffique💞
You can see in his eyes he's a good man. Happy holidays.
Tpt family I just lost my best friend my wife days ago we both love your content thanks for the experience of showing love from around the earth I was happy when you did the Philly cheese steak show per my request all I can say is thank you guys for your humbleness ❤️👍
Condolences on your loss. This must be a very sad time for you, especially at this time of the year......
@@lindabrown0 😢😢😢😢😞 thank you
I'm so sorry to hear that. May you be reunited with her in heaven one day 🤲🏼
my deepest condolences.
@@beastvader thank you
I would hope between Tribal People Try and this channel, each participant is making something financial. Without them there is no show.
They definitely do help them out in many ways financially. In fact, they even bought Rana Nadeem new teeth. In older videos, you will notice he has no teeth so tasting things were a bit of a challenge. Thanks to this channel and their fans, Rana was able to get a set of brand new teeth implants (not dentures). Plus they often receive gifts of cash and other items from fans. I'd love to see this channel grow because the more this channel grows, the more they make. Imagine one day they take a trip to another country! That would be awesome to see!
@@thecrazyhobo Viewers donated money for him to get new teeth. I think they meant other compensation. I don't know if they get anything other than what we send them. I know they don't have a lot of free time to waste doing things that don't earn them money so I'm assuming they get some kind of compensation besides what we mail them or what is donated through a gofundme for things like expensive teeth.
I was thinking the exact same thing! Do you know who owns this channel? I don’t think compensation is enough - they should be receiving an equal share of all income as the one who creates the videos.
This should be on the main channel! Mr. Chaudhary is such a lovely man.
I'm 22 years his senior...I wish I possessed half of his wisdom.
You can't help but fall in love with this guy he's so humble and charismatic
He is pure love.
I'm moved by the love and respect with which Mr. Choudhary discusses his wife and marriage. Many thanks to him for sharing with us and may Allah continue to bless him and his beautiful family.
Ameen
Ameen
What a beautiful man and a beautiful soul! Every wife wishes to be so loved by her husband
Wow, what a story, and what a gentleman! May God continue to bless this man and his family!
Chaudhary is a decent husband and father. He is humble and far wiser than he lets on. Great respect to you good sir. Cheers from Texas!
It's so interesting that he sees it as only right that you should not meet someone until the day you marry them! And looking at marriage statistics here in America, who's to say he's wrong? Happy Anniversary Mr. Chaudhary!!
Unfortunately divorce rates are just as high in the UK as well
I know a few older couples who had arranged marriages and didn't meet until the wedding, across the border in India. They seem content.
I've made lousy choices at times in life. I say I want my own choice but that hasn't worked so who knows maybe if I was to give up choice it may go bettdr
If people would just follow CHrist Jesus they would do what you suggest
@@kimthames2531 apparently those mens are following Allah teaching and all the prophets he send includ Jesus and mohamed peace be upon them
I like that:" Earned what God wanted to bless me with".
That was beautiful! Lots of respect for this man and his wife.
He stands out, I really like him. He seems to be very friendly and warm
What a warm, humble, sweet and delightful man, Chaudhary is. He makes me happy listening to him and watching him experience new foods. I'm so happy for him and his beautiful family!
This man is so dear and sweet. He is always grateful and you can tell he is kind.
"Husband and wife are two wheels of life's car" . Exactly. When there is a hard time in life, pairs should share their load.
Such a good man. It does my heart well to hear he also has such a good wife
I YES..YES..YESI I do I do I do absolutely adore this man 😍he is adorable!!!!😍
This wonderful man achieved happiness even without completing his education. On the other hand so many highly educated people always feel unhappy and unsatisfied. Education does not always equals wisdom. 🙏bahut sukhriya for your advice, sir raffique ji🙏
Mr chaudary is a wise gentleman his smiling face brings great pleasure ,God bless him and his family 😊
What a beautiful way he has expressed his wife and family his life his hard times his good times his wish for children I wish them continued happiness and blessings this is a wonderful family with the right values ❤
I loved the way he spoke about his wife, very loving, and such a gentle man. Great story, sir 🙏😊🌺
What a kind and loving man he is.
I am going to keep this and show it to my future husband and my future sons and/or sons in law.
I shall put it into my last will, that it must be read at every wedding for all future generations to learn from this gentleman wisdom on what makes a good, happy and lasting marriage.
I love this man’s soul. Kindness and the ability to reflect on your own life and treat people around you well, do not require higher education.
Just - the kindest soul. Love him to bits.
Glad Mr. Raffique found what he wanted out of life. He is satisfied and has a family that loves him.
For young people who do not want to go to school beyond the legal minimum, please make sure to learn basic skills, such as cooking your own food, washing clothes & dishes, and how to budget your money.
School isn't 100% about memorizing facts. It's also about learning to schedule your time, giving yourself goals and sticking to them, and improving your problem solving and coping skills.
Such an expressive face. His facial expressions say volumes.
Chaudhary is a good, simple, family man and there's a lot to be said for living that way. He comes across as not just kind and decent, but also trustworthy.
Chaudhary decided to learn useful skills to apply to his real life rather than the basic education you learn from schools. He’s far wiser than most people with book smarts . He also was blessed with a wonderful loving partner! What a story and What a beautiful soul - the Chaudhary’s deserve the very best 🤩
I wish he could have come in Europe.
People thinks that middle east is bad, but not isn't bad. Refugees like him would have been the best for us
@@georgegikopoulos5728 he seems content where he is with his family and community, and why would he be considered a refugee anyway?
I love this man, literally!! He has such a humble and soft spirit. I respect that he's so thankful for what he has. Us Americans have no idea the hardships and struggles these men face each and everyday! U.S CITIZENS ARE FAR TO SPOILED, WE TAKE SO MANY THINGS FOR GRANTED...After watching these fine gentlemen and seeing how gracious they are for so little that they have in their lives, it makes me feel ashamed of myself for the way I act at times. It's just not fair to see how very little they have, but in the same sense of how rich they really are in their attitude towards life. I too haven't had an easy life but no where's close to how much these beautiful people have 😭. My heart breaks that they have no running clean water, nor a restroom in their homes. Just since I've started watching this channel, I've/I'm taking a hard look at myself, and I'm changing my attitude!! What do I have to complain about?? Nothing!!! Although my life hasn't been always so good, I can say that I've been blessed beyond measure. I have two beautiful children and both have very good lives, and my grandchildren, amazing kids!! I was a very, very strict single parent, most of the time I was to strict. 😐 When I finally grew up, I realize that I forgot the praise and love that should have balanced out the mean person that I once was. I'm paying for it dearly today because I did some major damage to my children's lives when they were growing up. Not so much physically, but emotionally, and mentally 😭. It's taken a good ten yrs for my daughter to actually begin to like me. Anyhow, didn't mean to add in my own drama---GOOD GRIEF... LMBOOTYOFF 🤣. I want to send Mr. Chaudary and his family some gifts, not money but certainly some useful things for sure. Thank you all for giving us all a great lesson in thankfulness and appreciation...God Bless You, Each & Everyone 🙏🙏🙏. Please Dear Father in Heaven, watch over all of these men and their entire family ❤️💜💛💛❤️
It takes a lot of courage to admit your faults and your desire to change your ways. We all make mistakes in life. Some pf us learn from them and some don’t. Forgive yourself and love yourself and things will fall in place with your family. Your kids are entitled to have their feelings and the best thing you can do is acknowledge them and apologize however many times is needed by them to let them forgive you and move forward with a healthier relationship. Mr. Chaudhary is a living example that touches us deep inside on how to be a good human. I too love his kind, gentle, grateful and loving disposition. He is certainly richer in life than us for it.
You couldn't be more wrong we in America don't All have it as good as you think
Some souls shine brighter than others
This was lovely! It's so nice to see how much Mr. Raffique loves his wife and children, especially wanting daughters! What a good guy. Thanks to him for sharing this with us. Happy anniversary (tomorrow) to him and his wife!
He wants daughters because they can marry their daughters and get money for it.
@@solcastro9279 as a pakistani , i can gurantee that whatever bullshit you are barking is false. We Pakistani women were always strong and we have alot of educated beings amongst us and even villages are moving towards modernisation so can you stop stereotyping us and have some shame before spreading lies on internet?
Today is my Birthday and I really enjoyed this video. Makes me appreciate my life as my Dad is from the same background as Chaudhary Rafique, but at the age of 17 he got the chance to travel aboard and migrated to the UK. I always wonder what my life would be like if Dad hadn't migrated and I grew up in a Pakistani Punjabi village
Happy birthday 💥
Happy Birthday, may Allah grant you many many more
Many happy returns of the day 🎂🎈🎉
We love him not because of his lovely facial expressions but because of his kind heart.
You’re a good man, Chaudry. And yes, helping your wife isn’t something to be ashamed of, it’s to be admired. It means you care about her and your family very much. That level of devotion and loyalty from both the husband and the wife is what a good marriage is all about. Your kids are lucky to have you both as role models ♥️
What a very good man. Despite his father dying when he was young, Raffique has very good and grounded beliefs and philosophies. He and his wife have worked hard and have much to be proud of. 🌟
He must have had an amazing mother
Seems like a son to make a dad proud.
What a great man
Been waiting for something like this…
ਜੇਕਰ ਇਹ ਗਲਤ ਉਪਭਾਸ਼ਾ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਮੈਂ ਮਾਫੀ ਚਾਹੁੰਦਾ ਹਾਂ: ਮੇਰੇ ਦਿਲ ਤੋਂ, ਸਾਨੂੰ ਇਹ ਦਿਖਾਉਣ ਲਈ ਤੁਹਾਡਾ ਧੰਨਵਾਦ ਕਿ ਅਸੀਂ ਪੱਛਮ ਵਿੱਚ ਉਨ੍ਹਾਂ ਚੀਜ਼ਾਂ ਦੀ ਕਦਰ ਕਿਵੇਂ ਕਰੀਏ ਜੋ ਅਸੀਂ ਇੱਥੇ ਮੰਨਦੇ ਹਾਂ। ਇਹ ਮੇਰੇ ਅੰਦਰ ਇੱਕ ਹੋਰ ਰੂਹ ਦੇ ਅਨੁਭਵ ਨੂੰ ਦੇਖਣ ਅਤੇ ਪਹਿਲੀ ਵਾਰ ਕੁਝ ਨਵਾਂ ਕਰਨ ਦਾ ਆਨੰਦ ਮਾਣਦਾ ਹੈ। ਇਹ ਸੱਚਮੁੱਚ ਇਸ ਜੀਵਨ ਵਿੱਚ ਸਭ ਤੋਂ ਮਹਾਨ ਤੋਹਫ਼ਿਆਂ ਵਿੱਚੋਂ ਇੱਕ ਹੈ। ਪ੍ਰਮਾਤਮਾ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਅਤੇ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਪਰਿਵਾਰ ਨੂੰ ਹੋਰ ਤਰੱਕੀ ਦੇਵੇ, ਦੁਨੀਆ ਨਾਲ ਸਾਂਝਾ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ ਤੁਹਾਡਾ ਧੰਨਵਾਦ।
This man is a fine husband and a gentle soul. Someone who watches this channel who is a wealthy person, please provide this family with money. There are those who could send to him as much as he has saved his entire life if they wished. Please, I beg of you to do this.
This man understands love. All the best wishes to you and your wonderful family Chaudhary ❤️❤️
That was beautiful, and he really pointed out things that a lot of people don't realize before they get married
If only in America people had this wisdom. He’s a wise man even without an education.
Lol
In US, its about "me, me, me." Sucks that its that way.
He has an education.....he learned life on life's terms.
He just had luck that he and his wife could get along, never meeting prior to marriage. That is usually not the case when people don't date long, nevermind marrying someone they've never met. Now imagine having no sexual attraction, not liking their personality, having nothing in common, cringing when they touch you, being fiscally ignorant, not being a good or emotionally healthy parent, or worse, having them be abusive to you and/or your children. That is why true wisdom is really knowing the person you are marrying well before you make that lifelong commitment, as well as truly knowing yourself and what you want for your own dreams and life.
@@betsybabf748 They’re raised to know this is their culture. I hear what you’re saying and I can’t answer because I have never been in that situation.
Happy Anniversary to you and your wife! This was such a beautiful telling of your life and marriage. Western culture could learn much from your values and devotion to family. I enjoy this channel so much, and all that I am learning from you wonderful human beings. ❤️
Unfortunately, “western culture” has thrown these values and beliefs away, in exchange for what is referred to as “progress”, aka:debauchery and selfishness. And then they complain when they can’t find an honorable marriage partner.
Chaudhary is very wise, respectfully and loving speaks of his wife and children.
I want to see his wedding pictures Mr. Producer!
I've always thought he seemed like a very kind and caring man. Those puppy dog eyes, you can't help but trust him. Nice to learn more about his life. Further proves the theory, "all the good ones are taken".
Chaudary, when you eat and uses hand gestures , it remind me of my dad, who has passed away. you bring joy to my heart Chaudary.
i met my dream girl and we were together for 23 years till she drew her last breath. we loved each other very much and it was amazing to be truely happy in the time we had. its never long enough. i loved her more than anything and will never love like that again.
😍♥️ there is so much love in this thread. I'm liking everyone of them bc I I'm enjoying the ♥️ and folks personal stories of love. Happy for you that you have had that experience. Blessings. And never say never. Maybe not the same kinda love as you shared with your beautiful wife but different & special. I'd like my husband to be happy anyway he could if I weren't around. I'd like he to be as happy as he could- new partner, hobbies, gchildren, work everything & anything that brought him joy until we met again. I ♥️luv, I don't know but it's🤷 💯
His soul seems pure.
Your wife must be a happy woman. You seem to be so patient and kind - what wonderful traits to have in a husband. I wish you and your family happy days and peaceful nights.
He and the gentleman with the moustache (I forget his name) are my favorites. ~ 🙂
I was in tears watching this beautiful life lesson. May God continue his blessings.
❤ he has become my favorite
It's my 60th wedding anniversary in January. I sometimes wonder where the time has gone.
Well, Happy 60th anniversary Diane.
Such a kind and decent man,
Chaudhary Rafique has a beautiful outlook on his family, especially his wife. A caring, loving and wise man and it is a lovely story that he has shared with us today. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
What a beautiful video! I've been with my husband for 18 years and all I want is to be with him for the rest of my life!
What a beautiful story chaudhary sahab, may Allah swt put barakah in ur marriage, your rizk and your life ameen.
Mr Chaudary you are a wonderful example of a husband and a good man, I salute you.
i loved his story of his new wife !! its a beautiful custom.. Amazing how it is still kept in many ways. getting to know her at wedding daay.. LOVE IT ! romantic as well as innocence >
He’s a beautiful man, inside and out. He and his wife are lucky to have each other, and their four children.
I feel as if I know all our tribal friends, but Chaudhary might be my favorite 💕
Happy Anniversary to Raffique and his dear wife.
He speaks the truth.
I don't know why but this made me pretty emotional. Raf is such a wise and exemplary person.
He and his brother are myself and my partners favorite 💯 Merry Xmas
What a sweet, humble man...............God bless him and his family.
Beautifully said
Love this men so much!🥰💖
Bless him and his family 🙏🏼❤
He will leave this world a better place than he found it, and that is enough. A truly lovely human being. May his peace be multiplied.
what a great memory, GOD bless Raffi!
"Earn whatever God wants to bless me with"...wow
Yep!! I love him like a brother from another mother!! Know that you are loved & appreciated🙏❤️😎
I am glad that even through your marriage was arranged, it seems to be happy. You are a good man.
God has blessed you indeed, with a good wife and children, I love the way you think about marriage and what a wife means to you, brother, I share that same feeling for my wife and kids, may God continue blessing you.