Real Life Questions on Love, Dating, and Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

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  • @fragrancedeparadiso443
    @fragrancedeparadiso443 Рік тому +33

    29 mins of interview felt like 6 mins. This couple is greatly anointed. May they never fail IJN

  • @sandranyemba9657
    @sandranyemba9657 Рік тому +30

    "The best time to build faith is when there is no trouble" wow

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee Рік тому +43

    Kai. "Apparently people don't take God seriously on His word.." Wow

    • @elishashappinesscampaign1597
      @elishashappinesscampaign1597 Рік тому +4

      So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth:
      it shall not return unto me void,
      but it shall accomplish that which I please,
      and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it. (Isaiah 55:11) Bible deep

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 Рік тому +5

    I will not miss it in marriage
    Lord help me to take you seriously
    I stand on God’s word 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @olubunmifavour5255
    @olubunmifavour5255 Рік тому +5

    😂 pastor K said “ I don’t know what they are talking about” when someone asked why her husband doesn’t like to eat her food when they have an argument. Pastor K said I eat my wife’s food o, what does food have to do with our fught? 😂 I laughed & rolled on the floor.

  • @danafrancis9646
    @danafrancis9646 Рік тому +11

    I am from Saint Lucia in the Caribbean and I am very much taken with the advice given by both of you. The level of transparency is so great. I totally enjoy listening to this channel and thank you for strengthening my faith in God

  • @Bigteddiebear.
    @Bigteddiebear. Рік тому +3

    None shall be barren in the land

  • @oyizaelizabethodu449
    @oyizaelizabethodu449 Рік тому +10

    Oh! My God. I love Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred. Thank God for this session

  • @favourenyosa6045
    @favourenyosa6045 Рік тому +2

    About someone’s life or existence revolving your partner, how can one break out of it. Like when you are already so attached with the person and you guys aren’t married yet but will soon be married. Do you think it’s right to be so attached to your partner that when little things happens it shuts your own mood down even things that are not serious. Do you think it’s toxic to be attached?

  • @dorcasike4168
    @dorcasike4168 Рік тому +4

    Smiles 😊😊
    Pastor K is just like my fiance... He was so calm, my fiance doesn't take somethings you think is a problem as a problem.. He will be like I know what I want, I follow my heart.
    God bless you pastor K, I learnt alot.

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 Рік тому +11

    I just Love Pastor K and Pastor M❤️

  • @awilliams382
    @awilliams382 Рік тому +15

    ❤❤❤
    Love them both!!!! Love them even more when they minister together!!!💯

  • @RightfullySO597
    @RightfullySO597 Рік тому +1

    The answer to the straying married man is very CORRECT- The man has problems that are beyond HIMSELF- he needs prayers and serious help, he should not be casted out, but be helped, ESPECIALLY where he recognizes it and he is willing to receive help.

  • @nompumelelonsibande6856
    @nompumelelonsibande6856 Рік тому +2

    God will do what He said He will do period 🙌🏽

  • @onyinyechiisaiahsamamaga
    @onyinyechiisaiahsamamaga Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir. We need to take the word of God seriously

  • @michaelolaleye7211
    @michaelolaleye7211 Рік тому +4

    I love them both❤️. Always dishing out the raw truth on relationships and faith..

  • @JudithTchinda1
    @JudithTchinda1 Рік тому +2

    Wow, from the get go Pst Kingsley comment in 4:10 was so powerful.

  • @fabprodigioushope3144
    @fabprodigioushope3144 Рік тому +1

    We should take God seriously for ourselves, now, Don't wait till crisis

  • @atutakasolutions
    @atutakasolutions Рік тому +6

    My favorite couple. Much more blessings Mr and Mrs Kingsley you two have helped me grow and see beyond what I'd missed . Thanks for reminding us to stand in Faith

  • @BANTAHCLEMENT
    @BANTAHCLEMENT 2 місяці тому

    God bless you and your family we are with your teaching

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh599 Рік тому +5

    God always comes through! Alleluia 💃

  • @CatherineSsempebwa
    @CatherineSsempebwa Рік тому +2

    The difference between job and salary was mind blowing. Wow. Thanks

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 Рік тому +1

    There is hope for this Generation with this couple here 💃💃💃💃🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @yetundefadiya8488
    @yetundefadiya8488 Рік тому +10

    This was really a blessing, love watching they interviews alot and it's been huge blessing to me . I still see all this voice down to marrying a partner who understands the importance of having the mind of chirst and who understands the word not from the world perspective but by the spirit.

    • @simonkigo6569
      @simonkigo6569 Рік тому

      LOOKING FORWARD TO THE SAME. I like the interviews too

  • @AliveinChrist247
    @AliveinChrist247 Рік тому +5

    the best time to build ya faith is when there's no problem 😊 🙌 🙏

  • @nailatchoffo7616
    @nailatchoffo7616 Рік тому +2

    Lord we wait on you

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Рік тому

    My favourite couple 🤗

  • @euniceprime170
    @euniceprime170 Рік тому +5

    am seriously enjoying this session🙏🙏 God bless us all who come to learn from the pipo of God🙏🙏

  • @officialmagreth479
    @officialmagreth479 Рік тому +5

    Be blessed people of GOD

  • @josephpeace3776
    @josephpeace3776 Рік тому +2

    I love pst kay and pst Mildred 💓 💗
    Thanks for all your teaching sir /ma'am

  • @lydiaboafo
    @lydiaboafo Рік тому +4

    I really love this couple ❤️🥰🔥

  • @elishashappinesscampaign1597

    God's word❤

  • @estherchiomanwachukwu2566
    @estherchiomanwachukwu2566 Рік тому +1

    I love this message from both sides thank you

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 Рік тому +1

    I love these couple
    Thanks for impacting my life and the world at large 💃💃💃❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥

  • @folasadeolamidunsi4564
    @folasadeolamidunsi4564 Рік тому +1

    This is really insightful,I thank God for the lives of this great couple,may the lord continue to strengthen your home🙏

  • @oliviashililifa2216
    @oliviashililifa2216 Рік тому

    My FAV Couple

  • @fabprodigioushope3144
    @fabprodigioushope3144 Рік тому +1

    Ayyee faith is not a spare tire or should not be a spare tire

  • @lydiaboafo
    @lydiaboafo Рік тому +2

    By God's grace I'm a UA-camr and I will love to meet them one day, In the Name of Jesus Christ 😀🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @LoideHaihambo
    @LoideHaihambo Рік тому +1

    this was awesome, where is part 2??? i need more

  • @samsspace8740
    @samsspace8740 Рік тому

    3:57 pastor Mildred steadily fuelling gbas-gbos😂😂😂

  • @pettv8161
    @pettv8161 Рік тому

    OMG .I love this woman God bless you ma

  • @charitynkem-chime7636
    @charitynkem-chime7636 Рік тому +1

    My best couple ever

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 Рік тому

    Pastor M looks so calm 💃💃❤️❤️❤️

  • @paparazicreations
    @paparazicreations Рік тому +2

    Because God said so. Be rooted in the Word of God !!! ❣💖🔥🔥👏

  • @gloryyussuf4335
    @gloryyussuf4335 Рік тому

    Pastor M my joy giver ❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥

  • @okojieivie642
    @okojieivie642 Рік тому

    More anointing Pastor M and Pastor K

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 Рік тому

    True, u've raised up my faith, big up my friends pr m $ pr k

  • @nkirukadozie6488
    @nkirukadozie6488 Рік тому

    Oh my God, wrong teaching will not kill me in Christianity! We stopped doing oral sex when we heard the teaching that it's not good because we use our mouth to praise God. Thank God for this teaching, my husband was telling me, it's not sin but I insisted!

    • @Marysteven353
      @Marysteven353 5 місяців тому

      Sis!!!! You can't imagine how shocked I am right now.
      Oral sex is not a sin?????
      Somebody talk to me 😮😮😮😮

  • @maryokodike5660
    @maryokodike5660 Рік тому

    Thank you Ma and Sir.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 Рік тому

    Interesting ❤

  • @MrChikamogbo
    @MrChikamogbo Рік тому

    Good Content

  • @stormship1647
    @stormship1647 Рік тому

    Good questions

  • @adeleketobi1
    @adeleketobi1 Рік тому

    That was real.

  • @BrunchWithTheKing
    @BrunchWithTheKing Рік тому

    hahahahaha!!! this was fun and so impactful!!!

  • @abaapple8602
    @abaapple8602 Рік тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾great faith

  • @abaapple8602
    @abaapple8602 Рік тому

    Love both ❤❤❤🥰

  • @novlietscott4041
    @novlietscott4041 Рік тому

    Wow!!!

  • @hildauche8527
    @hildauche8527 Рік тому

    Wow..

  • @Mstees1
    @Mstees1 Рік тому

    part 2 please

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Рік тому +1

    That's the danger of marrying a man who is not accountable to anyone
    It's a lie that there should be no 3rd party. The problem is whom you choose as the 3rd party to mediate between the 2 of you.
    And mom's should stop raising their sons to remain babies even in adulthood.

  • @victoriao8838
    @victoriao8838 Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣 she wee always report

  • @nailatchoffo7616
    @nailatchoffo7616 Рік тому

    Are there still men out there who will agree to be in a sexually pure relationship??

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 Рік тому +1

      There are many men out there practising sexual purity

  • @Ellaceeceebee
    @Ellaceeceebee Рік тому +1

    Pastor is it every time your spouse does something wrong that you should report to an external party?

    • @maureenmuse1684
      @maureenmuse1684 Рік тому +13

      I know u are asking Pastor K, but Lemme say this.
      No, it is not right for you to report your spouse over every issue. Normally, you both will offend one another, telling a third party is dangerous. The person you should bring in when you feel offended is God.
      Ecclesiastes 4:12…two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. You should not only defend one another, you should bring God into it so that it will stand the test of time. Marriage or relationship, it's you both against the world, not against one another.
      Third-party is not the third cord in a marriage. I don't know if the question is for you or your spouse, however, the answer is the same. God is the third cord, God reveals, trust me, He will not deceive you. He will tell you what to say, when to say it, how, and your actions.
      However, your issues can be taken to someone older who knows God genuinely (maybe a mentor or an elder or pastor etc). Someone who you are sure knows God. Mentors should not be underrated, so if the issues are a lot, both of you should see someone who will not only talk to you, but also pray with you and keep checking the growth of your marriage. Trust me, telling someone outside these, is dangerous.
      I hope I answered you well. May the peace of the lord be with you.

    • @Ellaceeceebee
      @Ellaceeceebee Рік тому +1

      @@maureenmuse1684 thank you. You did

  • @ajayielizabeth220
    @ajayielizabeth220 Рік тому

    Wowwww😂😂😂

  • @victorynwadike2541
    @victorynwadike2541 Рік тому

    Pls how were you able to figure out you won't be able to have children at the age of 16

    • @SauLifestyle
      @SauLifestyle Рік тому +1

      She was diagnosed with PCOS and one of the side effects for having it is that it makes it hard for a woman to get pregnant because ovulation is a mess and not certain.

  • @emmanuelolumobi5666
    @emmanuelolumobi5666 Рік тому +1

    A balanced counsel but they missed it in one or two comments. Songs of Solomon 4 though a metaphorical use of garden and fountain description of imaginary love and affection between two intending couple have nothing to do with Oral sex. Any such suggestions is reading into the scripture. Secondly just because the bible is not explicit about it does not mean we can assume it is okay, is smoking okay for a Christian? After all the bible is also not explicit about that. We need to reflect on oral sex in the light of a holy God who is very concerned about defilement of the body. The mouth is certainly not one of the sex organs. Thirdly, God is ofcourse interested in our sexual life and what goes on in the bed room unlike what this couple is suggesting here. Remember the story of Onan ( Genesis 38:9&20)? who spilled his semen to avoid impregnating his late brothers wife as their custom demand. God knew about it and killed him for the wicked act. Oral sex is perversion of the mouth we use to worship God, it is physically dirty and medically dangerous and should be avoided. Desires for it may indicate you need sanctification of your heart and mouth.

    • @nasbrapowers3453
      @nasbrapowers3453 Рік тому +6

      We hear u, but please do what works for u. When the Bible is silent about a particular topic, that means it is up to you to ask the Spirit not assume because of what you think is right. Remember the scripture can be used by anyone even the devil. And spirituality and understanding comes in levels just as physical growth. May God grant us all understanding and growth in Him🤗

    • @nnenniaifepe5073
      @nnenniaifepe5073 Рік тому +1

      @emmanuel Olumobi, The mouth is not for oral sex but the same mouth is used to suck the boobs of the wife/husband, the same mouth is used to play with other parts of the body and my question is thus," should this happen at all going by your submission".

    • @emmanuelolumobi5666
      @emmanuelolumobi5666 Рік тому +1

      Yes, I agree with your perspective Nasbra Power, and that is the right counsel to have been given in the first place by the respected counselors. Since scripture is not explicit about it, I follow the principle of "when in doubt avoid it". Better than to assert that Songs of Solomon support oral sex, that as I wrote previously is reading into scripture. In any case, according to medical experts the health risk of oral sex far outweighs whatever pleasure any indulgent person may receive from it, this is why most medical experts will counsel against it. It's a sure source if numerous STIs. On the other hand we have direct encouragement from the scripture to include breast sucking in sexual pleasure; Proverbs 5:8-9. That is not ambiguous and should be sufficient for us.

    • @emmanuelolumobi5666
      @emmanuelolumobi5666 Рік тому

      Sorry, the right scripture I wanted to reference is Proverbs 5: 18 &19.

    • @jeffreyanwalimhobor1464
      @jeffreyanwalimhobor1464 Рік тому

      Human need is different and the holy spirit treats us differently in all things know this is not one shoe fits all and they didn't get it wrong you understood from your level.

  • @loviehephzibahope5988
    @loviehephzibahope5988 Рік тому +2

    If your husband does not eat your food, don't worry. Find out why. If he's in the malice mode, leave him so that he doesn't pick a quarrel. Eat, rest and pray.
    My friend's husband is the one having a side chick. He'll come home late. If my friend should call him for whatever reason, she is in trouble. He beats her too.
    I told him that I'm not in support of his actions towards his wife. He's such a loser How can a man beat his wife. He blamed wife for his actions, that she annoys him
    So I told her not to say anything except greetings, give him food and make her phone her companion - read bible, watch educative videos like this and others
    After a while, he came round, trying to talk to her. She learnt to be happy with herself. He became uncomfortable because she does not react and talk. When he decides not to eat, she puts it in the fridge and gets on with her daily business and pray.
    He will then go and eat it when she is not around. Some men are babies 👶 🍼 😃

    • @mbetubom8539
      @mbetubom8539 Рік тому

      That's what keeps me going,my kids,my phone makes me happy, and he's becoming jealous 👍

  • @RightfullySO597
    @RightfullySO597 Рік тому

    Man and Woman of God, You are both 110% WRONG SIR AND MA.
    You cannot call what is filthy morally as clean b4 the Almighty God.
    Please RUN FROM IT - Misleading the brethren is very dangerous, their blood will be upon the misleader WHOEVER THE PERSON MAYBE