First time ever, I agreed him on this topic. Most commonly a normal person in Pakistan get start business with loan. Food, healthy inviroment, land price, even rent on houses including utility bills with abnormal tx. These Factor can't encourage a man easily for marriage in Pakistan. Only one specific part of population do marriage such as fun.
Please stop spreading confusion among the youth. Avoid displaying an 'I know it all' attitude. He talks about mental capability for marriage rather than financial capability. Who is he to dictate to Muslims the type of compatibility required for marriage? Abdullah (R.A) reported that the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty. Whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power" (Bukhari 5066). The Prophet (P.B.U.H) advised fasting when one is financially incapable, not mentioning mental capability. I agree marriage should be made easier, but the issue isn't a lack of mental capacity. It's the materialistic mindset and love of worldly things in today's era. Please clarify what you mean by understanding a fatwa. If it means having a basic understanding of the deen to comprehend a fatwa, I agree with this point. As for liking someone, where does he get the idea that it means having a proper relationship and saying 'I love you' before marriage? The Prophet (P.B.U.H) said: "O `Ali, do not follow a glance with another, for you will be forgiven for the first, but not for the second" (At-Tirmidhi, 2701). Jarir ibn Abdullah (R.A) said: "I asked the Messenger of Allah (P.B.U.H) about an accidental glance at a woman. He commanded me to turn my gaze away" (At-Tirmidhi). The Prophet (P.B.U.H) prohibited intentional second glance at a woman. The Prophet (P.B.U.H) advised looking at a woman once to see if she seemed suitable for marriage, not engaging in prolonged interactions. The concept of liking someone as Sahil Adeem describes isn't supported by Quran or Hadith. The third verse of Surah An-Nisa which he quoted, suggests marrying those who seem 'suitable', which can be determined through a single look or by knowing their character from others. Sahil Adeem's proposal involves actions not allowed in Islam and promotes intermingling of the opposite gender. According to him, a person should be aware of the other person's actions and where they spend their time, which requires prolonged communication. In short, his viewpoint might justify the types of relationships common among today's youth. I warn the youth not to fall into his trap, as he will not be accountable for your actions. Liking someone means seeing if they appear suitable, similar to how the Prophet (P.B.U.H) looked at the lady who wished to marry him. Sahil Adeem needs to provide references to support his concepts. A woman must allow her husband to marry again and shouldn't feel bad about it. Really? Wasn't Hazrat Ali (R.A) a Muslim? Didn't Hazrat Fatima (R.A) know he could marry again? Yet, the Prophet (P.B.U.H) asked Ali (R.A) not to marry during Fatima's (R.A) lifetime because Islam respects a woman's feelings. While a woman cannot prevent a man from marrying again, she can feel bad about it. If she stipulates that her husband should not take another wife, this is a valid condition, and he must adhere to it. If he does marry again, she has the right to annul the marriage contract. She cannot stop a man from remarrying, but she is not obliged to stay with him. A man has the right to say 'I love you' to four women. These are cheap tactics Sahil Adeem uses to attract the youth. A man can't say 'I love you' to even one woman before marriage. What kind of Islam is he promoting, where a man can express love to multiple women before marriage? I believe it's the responsibility of the youth to start asking him for references for everything he asserts. We are followers of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H), not Sahil Adeem. His fantasies and desires should not dictate our life choices.
ساحل صاحب آپ غلط بیانی کررہے ہو شادی نہ کرنے کا مشورہ دے کر۔ آپ کے پاس مسئلوں کے حل کرنے کا کوئی طریقہ موجود نہیں ہے۔ آپ کو چاہیے تھا کہ شادیوں میں جو غلط رسم وَ رواج داخل ہوئے ہیں اِن کو نکالنے کا کوئی بہترین حل بتاتے، لیکن آپ نوجوانوں کو شادی سے دور رہنے کا مشورہ دے رہے ہو جو سراسر ناانصافی ہے۔ کیا نوجوان شادی نہ کرکے بے سکونی میں مبتلا ہو کر یا زنا کریں؟ کیوں نوجوان نسل میں گمراہی پھیلا رہے ہو؟ اللّٰہ پاک کا فرمان ہے میں ظالم نہیں بلکہ انسان خود اپنے آپ پر ظلم کرتا ہے۔ ساحل صاحب خود پر اور اِس نسل پر رحم کریں، ڈریں قیامت کی پکڑ سے جو بہت سخت ہے۔ دعا ہے اللّٰہ پاک سب کو اپنے حفظ وَ امان میں رکھے آمین
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First time ever, I agreed him on this topic. Most commonly a normal person in Pakistan get start business with loan. Food, healthy inviroment, land price, even rent on houses including utility bills with abnormal tx. These Factor can't encourage a man easily for marriage in Pakistan. Only one specific part of population do marriage such as fun.
Shadi 25 years ki age Meh sahee hai.
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Sahil sir❤❤❤
Baki to theak ha liken nijwan zina kare se bache shadi kare
jis ka Dil ma aya Mu utha ka postcad start kr data ha
ab isi ko dakho manjan bachna vala
Please stop spreading confusion among the youth. Avoid displaying an 'I know it all' attitude.
He talks about mental capability for marriage rather than financial capability. Who is he to dictate to Muslims the type of compatibility required for marriage? Abdullah (R.A) reported that the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty. Whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power" (Bukhari 5066). The Prophet (P.B.U.H) advised fasting when one is financially incapable, not mentioning mental capability.
I agree marriage should be made easier, but the issue isn't a lack of mental capacity. It's the materialistic mindset and love of worldly things in today's era.
Please clarify what you mean by understanding a fatwa. If it means having a basic understanding of the deen to comprehend a fatwa, I agree with this point.
As for liking someone, where does he get the idea that it means having a proper relationship and saying 'I love you' before marriage? The Prophet (P.B.U.H) said: "O `Ali, do not follow a glance with another, for you will be forgiven for the first, but not for the second" (At-Tirmidhi, 2701). Jarir ibn Abdullah (R.A) said: "I asked the Messenger of Allah (P.B.U.H) about an accidental glance at a woman. He commanded me to turn my gaze away" (At-Tirmidhi). The Prophet (P.B.U.H) prohibited intentional second glance at a woman. The Prophet (P.B.U.H) advised looking at a woman once to see if she seemed suitable for marriage, not engaging in prolonged interactions. The concept of liking someone as Sahil Adeem describes isn't supported by Quran or Hadith. The third verse of Surah An-Nisa which he quoted, suggests marrying those who seem 'suitable', which can be determined through a single look or by knowing their character from others. Sahil Adeem's proposal involves actions not allowed in Islam and promotes intermingling of the opposite gender. According to him, a person should be aware of the other person's actions and where they spend their time, which requires prolonged communication. In short, his viewpoint might justify the types of relationships common among today's youth.
I warn the youth not to fall into his trap, as he will not be accountable for your actions. Liking someone means seeing if they appear suitable, similar to how the Prophet (P.B.U.H) looked at the lady who wished to marry him. Sahil Adeem needs to provide references to support his concepts.
A woman must allow her husband to marry again and shouldn't feel bad about it. Really? Wasn't Hazrat Ali (R.A) a Muslim? Didn't Hazrat Fatima (R.A) know he could marry again? Yet, the Prophet (P.B.U.H) asked Ali (R.A) not to marry during Fatima's (R.A) lifetime because Islam respects a woman's feelings. While a woman cannot prevent a man from marrying again, she can feel bad about it. If she stipulates that her husband should not take another wife, this is a valid condition, and he must adhere to it. If he does marry again, she has the right to annul the marriage contract. She cannot stop a man from remarrying, but she is not obliged to stay with him.
A man has the right to say 'I love you' to four women. These are cheap tactics Sahil Adeem uses to attract the youth. A man can't say 'I love you' to even one woman before marriage. What kind of Islam is he promoting, where a man can express love to multiple women before marriage?
I believe it's the responsibility of the youth to start asking him for references for everything he asserts. We are followers of Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H), not Sahil Adeem. His fantasies and desires should not dictate our life choices.
Allah apko daraz umar de. 😂
ساحل صاحب آپ غلط بیانی کررہے ہو شادی نہ کرنے کا مشورہ دے کر۔
آپ کے پاس مسئلوں کے حل کرنے کا کوئی طریقہ موجود نہیں ہے۔
آپ کو چاہیے تھا کہ شادیوں میں جو غلط رسم وَ رواج داخل ہوئے ہیں اِن کو نکالنے کا کوئی بہترین حل بتاتے، لیکن آپ نوجوانوں کو شادی سے دور رہنے کا مشورہ دے رہے ہو جو سراسر ناانصافی ہے۔
کیا نوجوان شادی نہ کرکے بے سکونی میں مبتلا ہو کر یا زنا کریں؟
کیوں نوجوان نسل میں گمراہی پھیلا رہے ہو؟
اللّٰہ پاک کا فرمان ہے میں ظالم نہیں بلکہ انسان خود اپنے آپ پر ظلم کرتا ہے۔
ساحل صاحب خود پر اور اِس نسل پر رحم کریں، ڈریں قیامت کی پکڑ سے جو بہت سخت ہے۔
دعا ہے اللّٰہ پاک سب کو اپنے حفظ وَ امان میں رکھے آمین
Bhai GHOOR say BAAT to suno🤦